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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Leslie,
good morning, Hi, good morning, welcome to the program. Here
we are doing waiting by the phone with you, miss Leslie.
What's going on with this guy? Tim? We got to
know the background, how you met, about any dates that
you've been on, and then you know kind of what's
going on now.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yeah, I mean I wish I knew what was going on. Well,
we met on we met on one of the apps,
you know, the usual that's how you meet people nowadays.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
And that's right here he went right.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Yeah. We went to two really nice dinners. I mean
I thought he was very handsome and nice, and I
was really excited for our third date because I feel
like the third date you really get to know the
other person. You know, you're you're still showing off, but
it's not like it's a little bit more in depth.
I guess, Well, are.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Some people the third date is like the boom boom date,
you know, for some people they look at it that way.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Well maybe you know, I guess it depends that the
night takes you that way. But I'm definitely not opposed
to it. But anyway, so that never gave through so
never had a third date. Unfortunately, he just stopped reaching
out after our second date, and I have no idea why.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay, So you look back on these dates, you thought
everything was normal, you had a great time, You liked
this guy here, you were certain there would be a
third date and then and now nothing. Have you reached
out to him or were you like, look, this guy's
got to call me, he's got to text me and
ask me out.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
No. I did reach out. I texted. I didn't call it,
but I texted and I was like, hey, haven't heard
from you, wondering if you want to go on another date?
And I never heard anything and.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Nothing he ghosted you there? Okay, all right, so definitely ghosting.
So yeah, I don't know. This possible, something's going on.
Who knows? Things are weird these days. Let's call this
guy out, is it Big Tim? Well, let's call it. Well,
you don't know, you don't know, you don't know, but
we're gonna call We're gonna call Tim. Yeah, let's make
this call. Yeah, we're gonna see it. We're gonna see
(02:03):
his Kiky's boyfriend, Big Tim. That would explain everything, But
how unlucky would that be? Man's single.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
He's single, he is, but not he ben not be
answering his son.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
We'll see and we'll ask some questions. It's a little
spicy for thats fun and uh, and let's see we
can figure out what's up and hopefully we can set
you guys up on another day that we pay for. Okay,
thank you, We're gonna find out what's going on. Part
two of waiting on the phone. You don't want to
miss see it's two minutes away. After a hose year,
Fred Show's on. The Fred Show is on, by the way,
(02:37):
Hoshier at our iHeart Radio Music Festival free trips if
you listen to us long and hard. Hey, Leslie, Hi,
welcome back. Let's call Tim. You guys met on a
dating app. You went on two dates. He thought the
dates went great. Uh, you're right there. Can you make
some noises beg.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I'm just like I'm nervous. I'm nervous because I don't
I genuinely have no idea.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah, yeah, I'm feeling the people in here in case
they missed it. But like you went on two days,
you thought there'd be a third. You reached out. He's
not responding, definitely, ghosted. You want to know why? Yeah,
all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Leslie? Good luck?
(03:18):
Hi is this Tim? This is so big? Hey Tim,
I'm sorry to bother you. He's like, why does this
people call loving to me? Tim? My name is Fred.
I'm calling for the Fred Show, and I'm sorry to
bother it, but I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now, and I would need
your permission to continue with the calls. That okay if
we talk for a little bit. Okay, I know it's
(03:42):
a little bit strange, but we're calling on behalf of
a woman who met you on a dating app. I
guess you guys went on a couple of dates. Her
name is Leslie. Ah, yeah, okay, Well, Leslie reached out
to us and told us that she enjoyed meeting you
and felt like the dates that you went on went
well and I was hoping to see you again. But
(04:02):
says that you haven't responded to her or called her
or initiated a third date, and she's kind of wondering
why you're ghosting.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah, I just didn't really think it was a match.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay, Well, you did go on two dates, so and
she felt differently, So why why do you feel that way?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I mean it's just you know, one of those those
things you know, just like you know, I.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Mean I don't know nothing. I don't So I mean,
would you mind like sort of indulging us here with
a little bit like why do you think that's the case?
Because we're just going to tell her and then she'll
understand why, but or maybe she won't, but at least
she'll have answers why why wasn't it a match? All right?
I mean if you guys really want to know, we
really want to know. Honestly, she was just like like
(04:48):
way dressed, like way too sexy on all these dates.
Like I'm constantly complaining about that. Yeah, I'm always telling
the people like what is the deal? Why are we
not wearing tracks suits on dates? So what I'm always
saying this to the people, what what?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
What?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
What's she wearing that was too sexy? Like please explain?
I mean like the first date or boobs were just
like all out and the second or ass was like
literally in a through god dress, Like, yeah, she sounds terrible.
Don't go out with her, don't go out with her.
I guess she's going out with me. But anyway, okay,
(05:25):
so so too much skin. You thought the outfit was
a little a little too risque for your taste.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
It's like everybody's staring, so it's like it's not you know,
but not in like a you know, I don't know,
I'm just not into that count.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
So you're a little bit more modest, and you felt
like she was a little bit more out there, a
little flashier. I'm sorry, Leslie. Leslie's here, I forgot to
mention that I'm sorry about that. Tim I for some reason,
it just slips my mind. Leslie, don't. Yeah, please, by
all means, I.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Just feel like I can wear whatever I want. So
like I'm a little confused, Like we live in a
society where that's like actually, okay, so I'm just confused.
I guess. No, I totally agree with you. You can absolutely
where everyone. It's just not going to be with me.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I mean that is true that he has a right
as suppose to what he's attracted to or when he
thinks is appropriate, and you don't have to align on that.
I mean, I don't. Yeah, I don't think what you
did was wrong. I don't necessarily think every man would
feel the same way. I think some guys would be
at that, and he's not gus.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I totally get that, but like, next time I reached out,
it'd be one thing if I just let it go,
but I reached out to you. The least you could
have done was respond with this, because like you just ghosted, and.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
We're adults, so you may not like the.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Way I dress, but you can just respond and say
I'm not interested, or even straight up say I don't
like the way you dress.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Therefore, would prefer this, Leslie? Did he say to you
I don't like the way you dress? What would that
have resulted in you not going out again? And you're
not changing? But you would have been mad?
Speaker 2 (07:06):
No, if he didn't go If he just said, hey,
I'm not interested, I would have been okay, yeah, I'm
not going to fight it. I'm not going to try
and convince someone to like me or find me attractive.
But ghosting someone, there's no closure, Like I don't know
how you If I don't know how you feel, why
would I not continue to reach out to you.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I mean, I know a lot of people different about this,
but like I don't know, I would have a very
difficult time reaching out to you and telling you I
wasn't interested because of the way you dressed, Like I
think I would probably.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Reach out to him, though, like I finally was the one.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I'm not saying that right to him. I just don't
think it's for me to have to tell you. I
don't think it's even appropriate for me to even project
onto you how you should act. If it's not for me,
it's just not for me. So I'm not defending him. Yes,
in a perfect world, we're all grown ups and we communicate.
But I don't know if the reason that I was
uncomfortable going out with you again was because of your attire.
(08:00):
I'm not sure if I have the balls to text
you and say your attire turns me off, I think
I would just fade away, because what's where's the win there?
Your feelings are going to be heard, you're not going
to change, and you shouldn't change, and we're still not
going to go.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
He doesn't have to tell me why.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
You're interested, that's it.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Yeah, you can generically say like, hey, I.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Just don't work out, that's it.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I'm not going to ask questions. I'm going to say, Okay,
thank you for the response. I appreciate your candor have
at like I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, what's the hot take?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
The hot take if someone once told me this and
it's actually really true, Like no response is a response,
so like getting ghosted, Like I've been ghosted. I hate it,
but at least I know, like where we stand, Like, Okay,
no response is a response, like you have no interest
in me? Done? Like that is a form of closure too,
not a hot take, maybe just my own take.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yes, it's not great, I agree that. I would also say,
I mean i've been ghosted.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Most people, like yeah, no response is a response if
something negative occurred, but like we had a good time.
So I would hope that even if you don't like
the way I dress, you have enough respect for me
or for women in general, just to say, hey, I'm
not interested, because when you don't, you don't have to
like the way I dress. My shirts are score, my
(09:15):
my skirts are short, and my tops are low. But
that's the way I dress. You don't have to like it,
but you that doesn't mean that I'm not a human
being with feelings. So you can just say I understood,
I don't see this going anywhere, and I'll move on.
I'm now I'm moved on because of this conversation. But
we could have avoided this by you just sending a
(09:36):
simple text.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
You didn't even have to get on the phone with me.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
All right, Well, there you have it, Tim, I mean,
you know, I guess I think we got it. No,
he's probably heard it. And it's nice. Tim, it's good.
So something to think about. And uh, you know, I
feel like there's a little after school special kind of
kind of vibe going here. But Tims something to think
about and maybe we and this amicably. Maybe right.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yeah, I know I'm fine, Like I don't. I'm not
upset or anything. I I just wish I had uh yeah, No,
all good.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Definitely for a woman who doesn't want any mystery, it's
definitely no mystery.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
What she looks like naked, Damn, you'll never know.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Bro.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Yeah, I look really good.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I show up my bobby. I'm young and I'm hard
for sure. You know, I don't know. I don't. I
feel like I get it talking to you afterwards.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
That's for each other, because like I like the way
I dress.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Hey, I want to know. I want to know, Tim,
what what what? What kind of woman you're looking for?
Like like a nice mom Jean and a Turtlenck. I mean,
what are we? What are we talking about? You? Like
the cheek goes un fit, Like what are we? And
Taylor lost? What are we? What are we doing here?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I don't need to go that far to the other extreme,
just somewhere in the middle of the.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Road, okay, all right, Hey, well look to each his
or her own. Guys, I'm sorry talking to work out,
but thank you both for your time and for your transparency.
I wish you both the best. You got it.
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Leslie,
good morning, Hi, good morning, welcome to the program. Here
we are doing waiting by the phone with you, miss Leslie.
What's going on with this guy? Tim? We got to
know the background, how you met, about any dates that
you've been on, and then you know kind of what's
going on now.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yeah, I mean I wish I knew what was going on. Well,
we met on we met on one of the apps,
you know, the usual that's how you meet people nowadays.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
And that's right here he went right.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Yeah. We went to two really nice dinners. I mean
I thought he was very handsome and nice, and I
was really excited for our third date because I feel
like the third date you really get to know the
other person. You know, you're you're still showing off, but
it's not like it's a little bit more in depth.
I guess, Well, are.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Some people the third date is like the boom boom date,
you know, for some people they look at it that way.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Well maybe you know, I guess it depends that the
night takes you that way. But I'm definitely not opposed
to it. But anyway, so that never gave through so
never had a third date. Unfortunately, he just stopped reaching
out after our second date, and I have no idea why.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay, So you look back on these dates, you thought
everything was normal, you had a great time, You liked
this guy here, you were certain there would be a
third date and then and now nothing. Have you reached
out to him or were you like, look, this guy's
got to call me, he's got to text me and
ask me out.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
No. I did reach out. I texted. I didn't call it,
but I texted and I was like, hey, haven't heard
from you, wondering if you want to go on another date?
And I never heard anything and.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Nothing he ghosted you there? Okay, all right, so definitely ghosting.
So yeah, I don't know. This possible, something's going on.
Who knows? Things are weird these days. Let's call this
guy out, is it Big Tim? Well, let's call it. Well,
you don't know, you don't know, you don't know, but
we're gonna call We're gonna call Tim. Yeah, let's make
this call. Yeah, we're gonna see it. We're gonna see
(02:03):
his Kiky's boyfriend, Big Tim. That would explain everything, But
how unlucky would that be? Man's single.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
He's single, he is, but not he ben not be
answering his son.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
We'll see and we'll ask some questions. It's a little
spicy for thats fun and uh, and let's see we
can figure out what's up and hopefully we can set
you guys up on another day that we pay for. Okay,
thank you, We're gonna find out what's going on. Part
two of waiting on the phone. You don't want to
miss see it's two minutes away. After a hose year,
Fred Show's on. The Fred Show is on, by the way,
(02:37):
Hoshier at our iHeart Radio Music Festival free trips if
you listen to us long and hard. Hey, Leslie, Hi,
welcome back. Let's call Tim. You guys met on a
dating app. You went on two dates. He thought the
dates went great. Uh, you're right there. Can you make
some noises beg.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
I'm just like I'm nervous. I'm nervous because I don't
I genuinely have no idea.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah, yeah, I'm feeling the people in here in case
they missed it. But like you went on two days,
you thought there'd be a third. You reached out. He's
not responding, definitely, ghosted. You want to know why? Yeah,
all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Leslie? Good luck?
(03:18):
Hi is this Tim? This is so big? Hey Tim,
I'm sorry to bother you. He's like, why does this
people call loving to me? Tim? My name is Fred.
I'm calling for the Fred Show, and I'm sorry to
bother it, but I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now, and I would need
your permission to continue with the calls. That okay if
we talk for a little bit. Okay, I know it's
(03:42):
a little bit strange, but we're calling on behalf of
a woman who met you on a dating app. I
guess you guys went on a couple of dates. Her
name is Leslie. Ah, yeah, okay, Well, Leslie reached out
to us and told us that she enjoyed meeting you
and felt like the dates that you went on went
well and I was hoping to see you again. But
(04:02):
says that you haven't responded to her or called her
or initiated a third date, and she's kind of wondering
why you're ghosting.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah, I just didn't really think it was a match.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Okay, Well, you did go on two dates, so and
she felt differently, So why why do you feel that way?
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I mean it's just you know, one of those those
things you know, just like you know, I.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Mean I don't know nothing. I don't So I mean,
would you mind like sort of indulging us here with
a little bit like why do you think that's the case?
Because we're just going to tell her and then she'll
understand why, but or maybe she won't, but at least
she'll have answers why why wasn't it a match? All right?
I mean if you guys really want to know, we
really want to know. Honestly, she was just like like
(04:48):
way dressed, like way too sexy on all these dates.
Like I'm constantly complaining about that. Yeah, I'm always telling
the people like what is the deal? Why are we
not wearing tracks suits on dates? So what I'm always
saying this to the people, what what?
Speaker 2 (05:05):
What?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
What's she wearing that was too sexy? Like please explain?
I mean like the first date or boobs were just
like all out and the second or ass was like
literally in a through god dress, Like, yeah, she sounds terrible.
Don't go out with her, don't go out with her.
I guess she's going out with me. But anyway, okay,
(05:25):
so so too much skin. You thought the outfit was
a little a little too risque for your taste.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
It's like everybody's staring, so it's like it's not you know,
but not in like a you know, I don't know,
I'm just not into that count.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
So you're a little bit more modest, and you felt
like she was a little bit more out there, a
little flashier. I'm sorry, Leslie. Leslie's here, I forgot to
mention that I'm sorry about that. Tim I for some reason,
it just slips my mind. Leslie, don't. Yeah, please, by
all means, I.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Just feel like I can wear whatever I want. So
like I'm a little confused, Like we live in a
society where that's like actually, okay, so I'm just confused.
I guess. No, I totally agree with you. You can absolutely
where everyone. It's just not going to be with me.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I mean that is true that he has a right
as suppose to what he's attracted to or when he
thinks is appropriate, and you don't have to align on that.
I mean, I don't. Yeah, I don't think what you
did was wrong. I don't necessarily think every man would
feel the same way. I think some guys would be
at that, and he's not gus.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
I totally get that, but like, next time I reached out,
it'd be one thing if I just let it go,
but I reached out to you. The least you could
have done was respond with this, because like you just ghosted, and.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
We're adults, so you may not like the.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Way I dress, but you can just respond and say
I'm not interested, or even straight up say I don't
like the way you dress.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Therefore, would prefer this, Leslie? Did he say to you
I don't like the way you dress? What would that
have resulted in you not going out again? And you're
not changing? But you would have been mad?
Speaker 2 (07:06):
No, if he didn't go If he just said, hey,
I'm not interested, I would have been okay, yeah, I'm
not going to fight it. I'm not going to try
and convince someone to like me or find me attractive.
But ghosting someone, there's no closure, Like I don't know
how you If I don't know how you feel, why
would I not continue to reach out to you.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I mean, I know a lot of people different about this,
but like I don't know, I would have a very
difficult time reaching out to you and telling you I
wasn't interested because of the way you dressed, Like I
think I would probably.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Reach out to him, though, like I finally was the one.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I'm not saying that right to him. I just don't
think it's for me to have to tell you. I
don't think it's even appropriate for me to even project
onto you how you should act. If it's not for me,
it's just not for me. So I'm not defending him. Yes,
in a perfect world, we're all grown ups and we communicate.
But I don't know if the reason that I was
uncomfortable going out with you again was because of your attire.
(08:00):
I'm not sure if I have the balls to text
you and say your attire turns me off, I think
I would just fade away, because what's where's the win there?
Your feelings are going to be heard, you're not going
to change, and you shouldn't change, and we're still not
going to go.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
He doesn't have to tell me why.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
You're interested, that's it.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Yeah, you can generically say like, hey, I.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Just don't work out, that's it.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
I'm not going to ask questions. I'm going to say, Okay,
thank you for the response. I appreciate your candor have
at like I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, what's the hot take?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
The hot take if someone once told me this and
it's actually really true, Like no response is a response,
so like getting ghosted, Like I've been ghosted. I hate it,
but at least I know, like where we stand, Like, Okay,
no response is a response, like you have no interest
in me? Done? Like that is a form of closure too,
not a hot take, maybe just my own take.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yes, it's not great, I agree that. I would also say,
I mean i've been ghosted.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Most people, like yeah, no response is a response if
something negative occurred, but like we had a good time.
So I would hope that even if you don't like
the way I dress, you have enough respect for me
or for women in general, just to say, hey, I'm
not interested, because when you don't, you don't have to
like the way I dress. My shirts are score, my
(09:15):
my skirts are short, and my tops are low. But
that's the way I dress. You don't have to like it,
but you that doesn't mean that I'm not a human
being with feelings. So you can just say I understood,
I don't see this going anywhere, and I'll move on.
I'm now I'm moved on because of this conversation. But
we could have avoided this by you just sending a
(09:36):
simple text.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
You didn't even have to get on the phone with me.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
All right, Well, there you have it, Tim, I mean,
you know, I guess I think we got it. No,
he's probably heard it. And it's nice. Tim, it's good.
So something to think about. And uh, you know, I
feel like there's a little after school special kind of
kind of vibe going here. But Tims something to think
about and maybe we and this amicably. Maybe right.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yeah, I know I'm fine, Like I don't. I'm not
upset or anything. I I just wish I had uh yeah, No,
all good.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Definitely for a woman who doesn't want any mystery, it's
definitely no mystery.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
What she looks like naked, Damn, you'll never know.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Bro.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Yeah, I look really good.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I show up my bobby. I'm young and I'm hard
for sure. You know, I don't know. I don't. I
feel like I get it talking to you afterwards.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
That's for each other, because like I like the way
I dress.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Hey, I want to know. I want to know, Tim,
what what what? What kind of woman you're looking for?
Like like a nice mom Jean and a Turtlenck. I mean,
what are we? What are we talking about? You? Like
the cheek goes un fit, Like what are we? And
Taylor lost? What are we? What are we doing here?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I don't need to go that far to the other extreme,
just somewhere in the middle of the.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Road, okay, all right, Hey, well look to each his
or her own. Guys, I'm sorry talking to work out,
but thank you both for your time and for your transparency.
I wish you both the best. You got it.
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Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.