Full Show: 07/23/24

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
The show is on now.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hottest Morning, Shelly Money.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
I have the biggest yawn, like the biggest yon, and
nobody said.

Speaker 4 (00:12):
Big yonnie girl or anything. No one said anything normally.

Speaker 5 (00:16):
It's stretchy. We were a yawning girl too.

Speaker 4 (00:18):
If we canna start, if you want, oh, I point
out yaons too, okay, big ynny girl. Yeah, put my
dog's yon, big yon. Yeah, I got.

Speaker 5 (00:28):
Big young.

Speaker 4 (00:28):
I congratulate them on every accomplishment thing. Mate, very happy
about it, big Yon.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
Right before I was supposed to talk though. But everything's fine.
Thanks for thank you. I know you guys are all
worried because I have enough oxygen. It's everything Okay, Yeah,
I know, everything's fine.

Speaker 4 (00:45):
Thank you. It's the friend show me.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
It's Tuesday, July twenty third, High Kaitlin Hi, Jason, Hi,
rufy he Hi, Hiking Show. Big Shelley is here next hour.
She has money. If you can beat her in five
questions in the showdown, five inter bucks, he's the prize.
Five straight wins for shells, Stay or go. Today, little group,
there be able debate, some relationship drama waiting by the phone,

(01:08):
and a follow up from the sea blocking Dad. The
story continues today and if you miss Waiting yesterday, it's
on the iHeart app search for the French show on demand.
So basically, Dad showed up on the date unexpectedly, picking
up some takeout food, and he kind of made his

(01:29):
way into the date a little bit. He's a creep
a lot, actually, but we agreed. He agreed to come
on the show and talk with us all about it,
so we'll see what his side of the story is.
The next hour, the Entertainment Report is coming up trending
stories blogs.

Speaker 4 (01:42):
What are you working on, Kaalin?

Speaker 6 (01:44):
We are talking in in sync reunion and fake marvel leaks.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Okay, Oh no, mm they sneaky. Oh no, it's true.
I know. I read about the soup. I know what
I'm talking about.

Speaker 7 (01:59):
He's immorm I know what I'm talking all right, Okay, okay, superheroes.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
You know you got to prepare for the I gotta
know what's going on in the world, all right. Okay,
So I've been on and on and off dating apps.
You guys, uh, only Kaitlin is the only one I know.
You were a little bit, weren't you.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
I got married on dating app? Oh? Yeah, that's right.
What was it called My cheesemo dot com or what
was it? Oh my god, doing right, that's my next
life che dot com. I gotta be the dude.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
Yeah, but it was a Hispanic leading Oh cheeseas Okay,
I wasn't that far off.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Jesus cheesebo dot com. It's very similar. Find my Firefighter
dot com.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
Find my hispanicclairefighter dot com. That's where Paulina went. Yeah,
PAULINAE decided the life she wanted. There's a website devoted
to it. Anything you want. She tried, Uh, farmers Only.
I didn't work too well. It did kind of work, though.
You you're just gonna have to go to like Kansas
and Iowa stuff to go on these days.

Speaker 4 (02:56):
Yeah, I had the photo shoot.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
Everything was ready we do. I remember you've been listening
for a while. We had a whole farmer photo shoot
and she was on Farmers Only.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
I aways want me to do though, Yeah, and.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Then you were on Harley Davidson Riders dot com, dating
dot com.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, I wanted a biker I didn't have. Can we
put up a.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
Little for like a little photo gallery and some of
these different photo shoots from the past that Paulina has done.
There was the biker and we didn't even ask you
to do that. That one was just on your own. Yeah,
you decided to do a leather clad biker.

Speaker 7 (03:25):
Yeah, photoshoot of yourself, create a director of myself.

Speaker 4 (03:28):
Yeah, in a Harley Davidson ninety you eight, though, I did,
thank you.

Speaker 7 (03:33):
I ate that was just because, right, that was just
because I was the eight girl.

Speaker 8 (03:36):
Okay, you were just missing the motorcyclist, yeah, miss everything.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
And then there was a farmer photo shoot for farmers
only that we.

Speaker 4 (03:43):
Made you do. Oh yeah, my overalls.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
Then there was a I think we abould say, ah,
my ovaries. I thought I say that, but but then
men did respond. They were it was a favorable response
to you on that app or website or whatever.

Speaker 4 (03:56):
You just didn't wind up meeting any of them. No, No,
I was a little little scared.

Speaker 7 (04:00):
I didn't want to go in the middle of nowhere,
Indiana meet up with a man.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah, I'm okay, I'll get on that and you pick
him up truck. We weren ready for that, I pick
up truck. Remember when we sent you on a blind
date too, Yeah, yeah, I sent me on a blind day.

Speaker 6 (04:12):
Well, we went also a different supervisor date.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
What was that.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
I forgot what that was.

Speaker 9 (04:18):
It was.

Speaker 4 (04:19):
It was on the radio. Oh you guys, really we
were trying, We were really trying, and all it took
was to go to uh, I want to marry Hispanic
firefighter dot com.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
It's all you had to do and you found him.
So Kaylin's been on there, Kiki, you never you've never
done it. No, do you feel like you're missing out
at all?

Speaker 4 (04:39):
Yes? When I get born.

Speaker 10 (04:41):
When I get born, I'm like, you know what, I
should see what's out there. But I told you what.
My biggest fear is one of y'all gonna pop up
on my thing and we're gonna.

Speaker 5 (04:49):
See each other.

Speaker 9 (04:49):
Ya.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
But I saw Caitlin on the dating app. I see
people I know, I've seen co workers.

Speaker 4 (04:53):
I don't want to I don't want to see one.
What does it matter. Everyone knows you're doing it. Well,
I have a man.

Speaker 5 (05:00):
So you're still a relationship.

Speaker 11 (05:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:03):
No, For some reason, I thought you you were on
the dating apps because you were no longer in a relationship.

Speaker 9 (05:07):
You know.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
God it okay, So you're worried about seeing you because
you're attempting to cheat.

Speaker 4 (05:11):
Oh well that's yeah, I know that happens. No, I
wouldn't actually go through with it, but you know, I
just want.

Speaker 10 (05:16):
To see what's out there, what's going on on those apps?

Speaker 4 (05:18):
You talk about them all the time. It just seems
so like thrilling. You know, why don't you want a profile?
Why did you make a profile? Then let's see what happens.
But then what But then.

Speaker 10 (05:27):
What if our co workers see me, or like somebody
from my church.

Speaker 4 (05:31):
Or for the show?

Speaker 3 (05:33):
You say, what the rest of us say when we're
doing things for real, but we're what we want to
make it look like we're lying.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
Right, Oh, it's a bit, it's a bit. We're just
doing it for a bed. You know what if you.

Speaker 10 (05:42):
See big tim on there, babe, you see what I'm saying,
it's gonna get very mixed.

Speaker 4 (05:48):
The other thing is set.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
You set the location right, so like set your location
for down here, and then you live, you know, forty
miles away or whatever.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
Oh okay, but well here's my thing.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
And I know a married couple actually did this once,
like on the weekend. I guess they got it. They
were like, I don't know, I wasn't in an argument,
I don't think, but they were saying, well, I think
I would get more matches on the dating apps, and
then other person's like, I think I would get more
matches on the dating apps, and I agree. So they're
they're together. I think they were. Maybe they were not
married yet, but they're married now. Anyway, they each made

(06:20):
a profile like on a Friday afternoon and said they
would have it up all weekend and see who got
the most matches. Well, if the girl got the most matches,
because I think guys are just ravenous. I mean, I
think women are more well. I don't even remember which
yap it was. I can't remember which way it went,
but you know, like if men choose the women or
you can both choose each other, I don't know. But anyway,
that's a dangerous game. I don't like the game. Like, fine,

(06:41):
you can get more matches in me, it's fine. I
would just assume whoever I'm with and get more matches
in me. I bring this up, though, because they asked
a bunch of single people what the thirty worst messages
were to send to a potential match, and number one
is hard to disagree with. It's very triggering to people.
I've noticed because after not long chatting with someone you
usually like to go to the Instagram. I like to

(07:02):
see the Instagram because these people are strangers. Okay, I
don't know you. I don't know if these pictures are
new or old. I don't know anything.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
I want a.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
Little more perspective on your life, you know what I mean.
And so I've asked for Instagram, you know, the Instagram handle,
and I've gotten mixed reactions, some very poor reactions to this.
People are like, oh, that's that's a turnoff, or that's creepier,
that's itchier, that's weird, or what I'm like, Well, so
meeting in person, Like, isn't the point to meet in person?
So I can't see your Instagram, but I can like

(07:32):
come to your house, you know. I mean, it doesn't
you know, it doesn't make sense. But number one, the
number one most turn off, aable offense on dating apps
as far as messages are concerned, is to ask to
send pictures. Now I'm assuming that also includes nudes. Like
if you're like, send nudes, but I mean, come on,

(07:53):
you got to warm them up a little bit. You know,
they got to warm me up a little bit before
they get the nudes. You know, you got to say like, Hi,
to meet you. You know you're a good looking guy? Yes,
and then can I have any And it's like the
fourth message, but certainly not the first two.

Speaker 4 (08:07):
That's a lie.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
I've never sent a nude in my life, like I've
been trying for years and no, I know a fourth message. Yeah,
it's because you. That's the first thing you text me
every single day. Every morning I wake up, like today,
wake up, Jason Brown, send a nude? And I'm like, guys,
nudes today. Yeah, And I'm like everybody knows it's supposed
to be. He's supposed to go, Hi, good morning, You're
good looking. Can I have a nude? And the thing is,

(08:30):
I'm already, you know, going to be naked within minutes
of because I'm waking up, I have to take a shower,
So I mean it would be convenient for me to
take one day.

Speaker 5 (08:36):
I guys, got a time to write four messages.

Speaker 4 (08:38):
I'll try tomorrow, right exactly. Let me know how that goes,
let me know how it thinks.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
So send pigs is the number one thing you're not
supposed to send on on dating apps as a message.
The egg plant emoji would be number two.

Speaker 5 (08:51):
Unless it's grinder this is there a whole difference that
rules Grinder.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
Now, Grinder is basically just like you match and then
you go like, I don't mean to generalize. I mean
I'm asking you. You could verify then, aren't you? Isn't
basically like where are you now?

Speaker 1 (09:04):
Like?

Speaker 4 (09:04):
Can I come over?

Speaker 5 (09:05):
You're like, oh, we're only four hundred feet away?

Speaker 12 (09:07):
Are you?

Speaker 9 (09:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (09:09):
Right, it's very it's very like, uh, transactional on that right,
it's supposed to be Okay, Yeah, I don't know what
the what the straight dating equivalent, dating apt equivalent is anymore?
It used to be maybe Tinder was the transactional one,
but I'm not sure if that's true anymore. I'm not
sure if any of them are all that transit. Well
maybe they are. Maybe it's not for me. These are
bad messages though, Like honestly, I would be offended by

(09:32):
a lot of these.

Speaker 4 (09:32):
Two. Number three, Hey, sexy, what's your number? Okay? Like? What?

Speaker 9 (09:39):
Like?

Speaker 13 (09:39):
What?

Speaker 4 (09:40):
Who?

Speaker 9 (09:41):
Like?

Speaker 3 (09:41):
Someone wrote that do you like bad boys and girls?
Someone nice on like Chris Hansen?

Speaker 4 (09:50):
Do you like bad? Hey?

Speaker 3 (09:55):
What's up with the mic'sar lemonade and condoms? I mean,
these are oddly specific. Number five without me question mark
when you say you're going to take a shower.

Speaker 4 (10:06):
Okay, why am I telling you?

Speaker 14 (10:08):
Like?

Speaker 3 (10:08):
Why am I in the dating apps going all right, well,
I'm about to go take a shower now, I mean
like you now, you're so hot? H a w T
you're so hot?

Speaker 15 (10:25):
Terrible?

Speaker 3 (10:25):
Yeah, these are bet No, I don't blame people for
being offended by some of these.

Speaker 4 (10:28):
I'm offended.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
You're so sexy, but you are. That's the part that
upsets me. We can't do the whole content. We can't
do the whole apostrophe or you know you are your
We can't do that you are.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
Come on? What is p h w O A r
R flower? What?

Speaker 2 (10:46):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (10:47):
Who is p h w A r R? What the
hell is that? I can't offended? Did it hurt when
you fell from heaven? At number nine? Number ten? I
think my Spotify is broken. You're not listed in the
hottest singles. I don't even want to be on these apps.

(11:12):
You see what he did there? I see what he
did there? What are you wearing at number eleven? This
is the stuff you're not supposed to message people. Does
your friend on your profile pick Kevin Instagram?

Speaker 4 (11:24):
So now you know how I feel about this.

Speaker 3 (11:26):
I also do not believe that you should be posting
pictures with other people on your dating profile, Like it
should only be pictures of you. Do not post group
photos where I might have to figure out which one
of you you are.

Speaker 4 (11:41):
I've done that.

Speaker 3 (11:42):
The people will have like one single photo and the
rest are like group photos, and so then I'm like, well,
I think it's this one. But the problem is inevitably,
you know, if you match with five people, there's a
chance that two, three, four, we'll find someone else in
a picture more attractive.

Speaker 4 (11:58):
So what are we doing my friends? He likes to
do that, so he shows he has a social life.

Speaker 7 (12:03):
Oh and I'm like, I don't think that's that's the way, Like,
just tell him, tell the guy you're talking to what
you're into. You don't have to show it through pictures
to show you like, hey, I'm on a boat, now,
I'm hiking, now I'm here, I'm in Paris. Like you
don't have to do that with your friends, Like, just
we believe you you got a life, my guy, I.

Speaker 6 (12:18):
Wouldn't mind the friend photos as long as it's clear,
like there's enough solo shots.

Speaker 4 (12:21):
I would like to see that you have friends and
do something. I'm assuming that you have friends, and I
want to make sure I'm picking the right one.

Speaker 3 (12:27):
And maybe once we get to the Instagram stage, then
I can see you have friends on your dating app.
It should be pictures of you and you alone. I
don't know, in my opinion, because more than once I've
looked at someone's profile and I really wish I knew
who that person was. And it's not the person who
is the center of that particular profile. It's not the
person whose profile it is. One time, I have a
picture holding the Stanley Cup with a guy from the

(12:49):
black Hawks, and this is years and years and years ago,
and somebody messaged me on the dating apps and said,
you're a nice looking man, but who's that next to
me holding them? And it was like a black guy
that played for the black I can't remembers now, Oh yeah,
this is like a decade. I'll look it up and
so I mean, I get it, like it. And the
reason I say that he's black is because he obviously
looks nothing like me. So it's like, oh, and he's

(13:11):
an NHL player and he was very good looking and
like build and stuff like oh okay, well, he's in
the NHL and he's married, but you're welcome to like
reach out to him. But I can't help you with that.
But I thought that was bold to message me and
be like, oh yeah, Dustin buff there you go. Well sorry, dude,
if you're listening, sorry I can't. I didn't set you up.
I think at the time you were married. I did
look it up. Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?

(13:33):
I already what are you wearing? DTF? Let's straightforward, imagine
what our children will look like?

Speaker 4 (13:41):
Hey, with a bunch of whys.

Speaker 3 (13:43):
This is all stuff you're not supposed to message people
on dating apps. I have a serious codependency issue, right,
why are you single? I do sometimes once I get
to chatting with someone, I will ask the question, the
question not to say that they're and this is how
I word it, but not to say that they're right.
But what would your ex say? Like talking about actually?

(14:04):
Like what would your X say is the best and
the worst part about.

Speaker 4 (14:06):
Being with you?

Speaker 15 (14:07):
Like?

Speaker 4 (14:07):
Then this is after we've be like chatted for a while.
A good question.

Speaker 3 (14:10):
It doesn't mean they're right, but it's a self awareness question. See,
I got a lot of like questions that on the
surface they look but really I've been thinking about it. Yeah, yeah,
this is this is a psychological warfare. Oh, Like, I
want to see if you have self awareness, because if
you can't answer that question without saying something terrible about
your ex or there's nothing wrong with me or I'm
perfect or you know, or if you don't have an

(14:31):
answer that like seems reasonable, then I'm like, okay, well,
then you don't think there's anything wrong with you. I
can answer the question. I'm happy to answer that I'm
not again because I'm not saying they're right, I'm just
asking you, what do you think they'd say the problem was?
So I get that maybe this is why I don't
my girlfriend, because I get very like thoughtful about it.

Speaker 4 (14:49):
I mean, I'm really trying to get in there.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
And because I don't, I don't want to go on
People ask do you ever go on these dating apps
and then go on bad dates? And the answer is
I rarely go on a bad date because I've usually
like vetted the person fully, like I pretty much know
what I'm getting into before I go on these dates.
I don't just go, hey, what are you doing, let's
go on. But that's also one of the most successful
ways because everyone's doing the pen pal thing and then like,

(15:12):
I feel like everyone's messaging a whole bunch, and it's
so easy if you're not like just getting right to it,
it's easy just to get lost in the shuffle with
the new matches and the next pen pal thing. It's like,
I feel like the best way to do it is
just hey, what are you doing on Wednesday? And then
just meet up, as opposed to trying to get to
know one another, because I feel like that's when stuff
starts to get lost, or you get replaced, or some

(15:33):
new match comes in or whatever. But then again, that's
also how you make sure that you don't get a
bad date, or that you hedge against getting a bad date,
is if you chat with them ahead of time. Let
me see here, tell me why I should go on
a date with you. Hell no, that's not morning beautiful.
I mean three bullet points, yours are mine? What's up?

(15:57):
You're the girl of my dreams? And number twenty four
on the thing you're not supposed to say, can I
add you on instead?

Speaker 4 (16:02):
That's it really offends people.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
I'm not sure why exactly, because again, you're willing to
meet me in person, but I can't look at your
instant And I realize some people's Instagram has pictures of
like their kids or family, and it's a little more
personal lives.

Speaker 4 (16:16):
Or wives or boyfriends.

Speaker 3 (16:17):
So yeah, a lot of times I'm like, well if
I can't, why can't I see that? Like, what are
you hiding?

Speaker 4 (16:21):
Right? Right? You know, find that hot friend that she's
in the picture with that?

Speaker 9 (16:24):
Right?

Speaker 3 (16:25):
Who the hell's that? I could get lost in your eyes?
Oh my god, thanks for not unmatching me. What the
fire emoji in the dancer emoji? Riding out the top thirty?

Speaker 4 (16:39):
What's all things? But what am I?

Speaker 3 (16:43):
What does that mean? Dancing emoji? What does it even mean?
What am I saying?

Speaker 1 (16:47):
Like?

Speaker 10 (16:47):
You're ready to party?

Speaker 3 (16:50):
I'm not sure? So do you still want to be
in the danting apps? Are you still into it?

Speaker 1 (16:55):
No?

Speaker 4 (16:55):
Actually?

Speaker 5 (16:57):
Yeah, it does sound fun.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
So all you really want to know is how many
guys think you're hot? You don't really want to have
to have these conversations.

Speaker 10 (17:04):
Well, I'm not worried about that number.

Speaker 9 (17:06):
But I do want to.

Speaker 10 (17:08):
I want to see what guys are out there, because
it looks like the dating pool is so bad when
you're not in it, you know, it looks like it's
just so horrible. I talk to my single friends and
my girl, it's not worth it. So I'm just curious,
like what's out there, Like I'm like going to the
car lot, Like, you know, what's over here?

Speaker 4 (17:25):
See cars? What's over here? Cars? Men saying what you doing?
That's what's going on.

Speaker 3 (17:36):
Trending stories, fresh show, this is what's trending. All right, guys,
A couple of political stories and then we'll move on.
But Vice President Kamala Harris secured enough Jella gets on
Monday night to become the Democratic nominee for president at
the party's convention in Chicago next month. She became the
front runner on Sunday after President Joe Biden dropped his

(17:57):
re election bid and urged his supporters to unite around
he is VP instead. She's also been endorsed by key
Democratic figures such as former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton
and former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi.

Speaker 4 (18:10):
You got nasty yesterday.

Speaker 3 (18:12):
After Secret Service Director Kimberly Cheetah Libilies.

Speaker 4 (18:16):
How you Say your Name?

Speaker 3 (18:17):
Testified before the House Oversight Committee for more than four
hours and they want her to resign after the whole
Trump thing, oh, the assassination attempt, and they were terrible.
I mean, the thing about these, you know, Senate and
Congress hearings and whatever else is I feel like it's

(18:38):
hard to know how much passion there really is for
the topic at hand, because all these people are trying
to do is get their their moment. They're trying to
say the thing in the five minutes they get that's
going to land them on the nightly news or land
them on TikTok or land them viral.

Speaker 4 (18:51):
So it's like, are you really this mad?

Speaker 3 (18:53):
Or are you just did you just come up with
something that you thought would get you, you know, more
coverage for yourself.

Speaker 4 (18:59):
I mean, and people she be mad about this.

Speaker 3 (19:00):
This is not right. What happened is weird. There's a
lot of questions. I don't really care what here we
go with the tax Oh honestly, like, I really don't
care what side of the aisle you're on. That shouldn't
have happened like that. So what happened? Why did it happen?
Why are you still in the job.

Speaker 4 (19:17):
She doesn't. They want her to resign. She won't resign.

Speaker 3 (19:20):
It's like you know, but then they just remember when
we were doing this whole thing with Ticketmaster in Congress
or senator whatever in these hearings, and like you clearly
these guys were having their aids right Taylor swift lyrics
into their little speeches, and it was like, all right, guys,
we got it. Like you want to wind up on TikTok,
we understand. I'm not sure if this helps anybody or anything,
but they basically just told this woman how much she

(19:42):
sucked for four and a half hours, and like as
soon as you think you're done, then it's the next
person's turn. And each person is like their own independent
you know, presenter. So it's like, right, exactly, like we
already covered this. I suck at my job. Okay, I
suck at my job. We got it. I don't know,
right f other four and a half hours I get
to hear like you know, honestly, I would have resigned

(20:04):
like fifteen minutes into that thing. I would have been like,
so way, MANE, let me ask you a question. If
I tell you, if I just walk out, if I
quit right now and leave, does this end? Does this
mean we don't have to do this anymore? Like if
I just go get a job at Arby's. Yes, do
I no longer have to get roasted by you babel Is.

(20:26):
If the answer is yes, then my answer is yes,
and I'm gone. What else do I hear for you guys?

Speaker 4 (20:31):
Today?

Speaker 3 (20:31):
Lebron James will be the male flag bearer for Team
USA at the Olympics, which will have its opening ceremony
Friday in Paris. A female flag bearer is expected to
be named later this week. Now, this is interesting to note.
Lebron is the first men's basketball player to be named
Team USA is flag bearer. So not Kobe, not Michael,

(20:51):
but Lebron. And this isn't like just for the team
for the basketball team, this is flag bearer for the
entire United States Olympic team. He was voted into this role,
so you know, I guess he's more likable than I thought.
But then again, for some people like you, much younger
generation for the most part, going to the Olympics, right,
like a lot of athletes are much younger. He is
the Michael Jordan of that era, so of course they

(21:12):
would name him like one of the oldest guys there, right, right.

Speaker 4 (21:15):
But they're also talking about this.

Speaker 3 (21:17):
Yesterday I saw a whole thing about how Michael and
Kobe didn't care if anyone liked them. They didn't care
if they were the flag beer, they didn't care. It
was like they just went to play and cared about
to pat and win. They didn't care about any of
this other stuff. And so that's why it's maybe they
weren't all that friendly to everybody, or they weren't you know, political,
they weren't whatever. And Lebron seems to be a likable

(21:38):
guy to a lot of people.

Speaker 8 (21:39):
So at the same time, there's there was other Olympias,
Like there's Olympians that are more deserving at the time.
You know, I'm saying, like there's guys that this is
this is this is it for them, you know what
I'm saying, Like Lebron has the.

Speaker 4 (21:51):
Inbur right right, that's true.

Speaker 9 (21:54):
You know.

Speaker 8 (21:54):
Then there's like guys that just run track every four years.

Speaker 3 (21:58):
Just yeah, there's this there's not a lot of fame
and not a lot of money, and.

Speaker 4 (22:01):
You know, right, yeah, I get that. That makes a
lot of sense.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
And let's answer the age old question, does money buy happiness?
Do you guys think money buys happiness?

Speaker 4 (22:10):
Truly? Absolutely?

Speaker 3 (22:11):
Do you think if you have more money, that you're
more likely to be happy.

Speaker 4 (22:16):
No, I'll let you know when I get there. Yeah,
I can't.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
Answer that question honestly, But I mean I would like
to believe you. Yes, Yes, I would like to believes Yes.
It's got to make life easier. It's got to make
life easier.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
It gives you options, I think, right, right, That doesn't.

Speaker 3 (22:31):
Mean your relationships are going to be good, that your
parents will love you more or less, or that your
kids will love you or what. It doesn't mean any
of that, But I mean, at least you don't your
kids could hate you and you could be poor, right,
I mean, you could hate your dad and also hate
your job and not necessarily have enough money to buy bread,
and then that's a sad story.

Speaker 4 (22:50):
That's a bad thing.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
But at least if you hate your dad but you
can buy bread, you're eating a sandwich while hating your dad.

Speaker 6 (22:56):
I mean, it makes you comfortable. I don't think it
makes you happy. I mean, there's so many other factors happiness.

Speaker 4 (23:01):
For sure.

Speaker 6 (23:01):
Yeah, stress may be eliminated, but I mean I've heard
so many people get famous and say I still look
in the mirror, I still have the same issues.

Speaker 4 (23:07):
It didn't fix anything, you know.

Speaker 3 (23:09):
Yeah, I use what little money I do get paid
around here to get therapy and then the therapy really
helps me survive.

Speaker 4 (23:15):
So that's good. Well that ends. Yeah and.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
Whiskey Yeah, those two things, yeah, right and women, Yeah,
except no, except not that I gave that it for lent.
So does money by happiness? The answer is actually yes,
that used to be no. And there used to be
like a plateau or like a uh they call it
a plateau.

Speaker 4 (23:37):
Actually I get to it.

Speaker 3 (23:37):
But there used to be a number to which if
you made more than this number, then you weren't exponentially happy,
happy or relative to the amount of wealth above this number.
So like you see what I'm saying. So I'll tell
you what it is in a minute. But it used
to be like if you made I'll make it up
fifty thousand dollars a year, that if you made one
hundred thousand, you weren't doubly happy. But up until that

(24:00):
fifty thousand dollars point, you were happier each increment until
you got there.

Speaker 4 (24:05):
But then not like if you.

Speaker 3 (24:06):
Went from fifty to two hundred, then you weren't like
four times happier.

Speaker 4 (24:10):
I would be, but that's just me.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
According to new research at UPenn the Wharton School, there
is no happiness plateau, or point at which more money
is no longer associated with greater happiness. So they asked
thirty three thousand people, which is I mean, this is
a good survey, unlike most surveys we talk about here,
where they asked four people and got their answers between
the ages of eighteen and sixty five with annual incomes

(24:34):
of at least ten thousand dollars. They found that the
so called happiness gap between affluent and middle income participants,
those with an average annual income of between seventy and
eighty thousand dollars, was larger than that between middle and
low income subjects. Not only that, but the scientists busted
long held assumption that once people attain enough money to
be comfortable, their happiness flatlines. Instead, millionaires and billionaires were

(24:58):
found to be substantially and statistically significantly happier than people
earning over five hundred thousand dollars a year. So also,
the seventy five thousand dollars happiness plateau is also not
true anymore.

Speaker 4 (25:12):
So that was the number I was referring to.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
That you get to seventy five grand and then your
happiness doesn't go up relative to the amount of money
that beyond seventy five thousand dollars.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
I don't know. I mean, I think that would make
me happy to have.

Speaker 3 (25:28):
I think one hundred and fifty would make me happier
than seventy five, and I think three hundred would make
me a lot happier than that, And I think a
million would make me really, you know what I mean?
But yeah, I guess not the health what Yeah, I mean, no,
I'm really like thinking about this because you canon's right.
I mean, you're like, if you have I don't know,

(25:49):
a depression, or if your health isn't good, which are
a million factors that have nothing to do with money,
of course, a million factors that have nothing that you
can't buy your way out of.

Speaker 4 (26:00):
Of course, that being.

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Said, if I got some bad stuff going on, but
I got a couple of fly honeys in my roles with.

Speaker 13 (26:07):
Me just for the night, you'll like the fly honeys
in the morning, you know, like I'm the fly but
that's like and meaningless, and you're like, I hate myself.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
You know, later I'll feel that way but at least
I have at least, hey, it's better than not ever
having those moments of glory, right, I mean, yeah, there's
a price to be paid for the moments of glory,
but at least I've got them.

Speaker 4 (26:36):
You have those.

Speaker 6 (26:37):
You're going on a trip this weekend, best friends. That's
a moment of glory.

Speaker 3 (26:44):
But if I may double the money would be a lot.
We wouldn't be going. We would be going somewhere else. Instead,
we're going to Carbondale, Illinois. But it's gonna be wonderful.

Speaker 11 (26:54):
It is.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
A streakhouse.

Speaker 3 (26:57):
They got a lake, they got boats, they got this
is guys. They got maybe honey, Yes, we'll get to this.
But I did I chose. I mean this, I was
thoughtful about this vacation. I'm taking you guys on on
the nearly private airline.

Speaker 4 (27:12):
I mean, come on, come on, guys. So we get
a stipend for the casino, the spot. It's how much
money is in your bank account, that's right, right, So
I'll just be like, just charge it to uh Fred's room.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
Yeah, and guess what, it's the Rose not under my
illegal nag anymore. I changed the legal man. It's under
Harry it's under knees nuts. So how do you spell that?

Speaker 4 (27:37):
How many? Easy? Hey? The entertainer reporting two minutes.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
Fred Show's entertainer report is on the Fresh Show.

Speaker 6 (27:50):
Lots of celebs hit the carpet last night for the
premiere of Deadpool and Wolverine. Obviously, Ryan Reynolds, Hugh Jackman,
and Blake Lively were there, but all eyes were on Peggy,
a pug mix in full costume, who also I guess
has a role in the movie. Okay, she was literally
in a costume and adorable Gigi Hadid. Avril Levine of
all people, Comedian Matt Rife, Jimmy Fallon, and Al ro

(28:13):
Roker also there. Speaking of the movie, Marvel planted fake
leaks to protect all of the cameos in the movie.
Now executive producer Wendy Jacobson said there may or may
not have been some misdirections in order to protect the secrecy.
She did say that any cameos showing up have a
crucial story purpose or a beginning, middle, and end as

(28:34):
a character arc. Now director Sean Levy told Entertainment Weekly
earlier this month that yes, there are a lot of cameos,
but he stressed that the team it didn't want any
of the cameos or characters to be the story of
the movie, but they are peppered throughout obviously. Do we
think Rufio Taylor Swift is the biggest name being thrown around?

Speaker 8 (28:53):
Yeah, I think she's She's the biggest name being thrown
around there. And then Blake Lively is also supposed to
be Lady Deadpool. That's a rumor that his wife is
is a character in the movie as well. But this
is supposed to bring out like so many characters from
so many different movies, and it's like multi versus, so
this person could be playing another person. So it's gonna

(29:13):
be crazy. And I'm going to need to take a
break from our vacation this weekend to go see this movie.
So I need to find a movie theater down in Stopperdale.

Speaker 4 (29:20):
I can't. I have to see it. Stop before it
gets spoiled on social media.

Speaker 3 (29:24):
Minute whoa whoah you we have a whole itinerary of
amazing things planned and you're gonna leave to go watch
a movie.

Speaker 4 (29:31):
Yes, you can't wait till Sunday?

Speaker 8 (29:33):
No no no no, no, no no no no no.

Speaker 4 (29:38):
Like, what are we doing Friday night, like I need.

Speaker 3 (29:42):
We're doing whatever we're doing, this is a big I
planned a nice vacation for you people, all right, and
this guy's already talking about going to movie theater. Yeah
all right, fine, I got more stakes for the rest
of us.

Speaker 5 (29:53):
It's a vacation.

Speaker 4 (29:55):
What does that mean? But you can do what you want,
not really paid. So we know it's it's down are
down there, you know what I'm saying, are down there.
But I have located two strip clubs.

Speaker 3 (30:11):
Okay, I mean we you know how I feel about that.
I think you can tell a lot about a city
by the adult establishment that.

Speaker 4 (30:18):
Yeah, I liked. I agree.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
You know, some people like to go to like the
Chamber of Commerce, you know, that's to go to the
tourism office and yeah, you know, maybe take a nice
food tour or something, a nice tuk tuk tuk. You
ever heard of a took like one of those things
you ride around. The guy with the bike and and
you sit in the back. Oh yeah, drives you around
and goes.

Speaker 4 (30:38):
Hey, you know, hey, I think that's something. I think.
I think a tuck tuck is something different in your world.
We love a drag. Maybe they have that down there too.
I'm not sure, but yeah, you got you gotta go.
You got to go to the Gentleman's Club. I know.
You can. You tell a lot about a place.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
You can see the people watching, you can see you
know who is who's in the community.

Speaker 4 (30:58):
Jason Umberman to a woman's You never to do that.
Guys are there, I'll be at the movie. Yeah, the
strip club? Why not? I am a married man. That's
only people in the strip club. We're gonna be the
only single people there. I have to respect my wife. Oh,
I love her.

Speaker 8 (31:17):
You know I'm already leaving her with two children.

Speaker 4 (31:20):
That's true, chicken. Don't imagine you know what.

Speaker 3 (31:23):
That's one less child than she's used to having, So
she's excited. She called me and asked if we could
make it longer. She would rather have an infant and
a four year old. Yeah, and you watching Deadpool movies
and Carbondale, Illinois.

Speaker 4 (31:38):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (31:38):
I'm gonna wrap this up because we're having some familial issues.

Speaker 4 (31:41):
We're to check out online today.

Speaker 6 (31:42):
The new trailer for the next season of Emily in Paris.
And you guys, the cardboard beds are back. If you know,
you know Fred show radio dot Com.

Speaker 3 (31:51):
I feel like I'm that that parent who plans the
family vacation and then all the kids are on their
devices the whole time and don't want to talk to me.

Speaker 6 (31:57):
That's why I'm taking funds.

Speaker 4 (32:00):
Wow, I'm putting them in. Kiki just decided she can't go.
I'm a husband.

Speaker 8 (32:10):
Going to find the dates on the dating app down
and down there. I need you to their phone.

Speaker 4 (32:16):
Let me start purposes. Look at you can have.

Speaker 3 (32:20):
All of a sudden, she's like, I want to go
to a Deadpool movie. They have the internet there the
dead movie. Can't you go when you get back as
soon as we land, can't you drive over to the
old movie theater and check it out?

Speaker 8 (32:31):
But this, no, I can't because this is the time
that I will have to go see this movie, and
I do not want it spoiled on social media because
it will happen within the first weekend.

Speaker 4 (32:43):
But this is work. Yeah, yeah, I.

Speaker 3 (32:47):
Mean as much as I'm joking about taking you on vacation,
which I am, this is a campaign that we're doing
for the show. It asked us to go down there
so we can tell everybody how easy it is to
get down there. For the folks who listen to us
in the Chicagoland area and maybe you know kids.

Speaker 4 (33:03):
That go to Siu or whatever.

Speaker 3 (33:04):
And they got this airline that takes you right down there,
boom boom. Land so simple, you know. And then they
got and then they got other stuff down there now too.
They got the casinos in lake, They got the Lake
of Egypt. Rufio, the Lake of Egypt. How amazing. If
I told you I was taking you to the Lake
of Egypt, what if I you know what? That's That's
all I'm gonna say from now on is like, I'm

(33:25):
just gonna know I'm because you know, I would be
taking lots of people down there, and I'm just gonna
be going. You know what, girl, this weekend, we're going
to Lake at Egypt. Be like, where is that? It
sounds like it should be somewhere really fancy. Nope, forty
five minutes away on contour airline. Boom, and here we
are at the Lake of Egypt. You know what, We're
gonna see Rufeo. We're gonna see Rufeo when there's food.

(33:46):
We're gonna see rufo if there's a golf club involved.
Otherwise We're not. He's just gonna do whatever he wants. No,
I will be there for everything. I just need three hours.
That's that's wild. That is that that's a new one.

Speaker 4 (34:05):
Jason.

Speaker 3 (34:05):
Do you have any requests of things that you want
to do it? Because because you, of course, per usual,
you wind up being the dead mother here and you're
organizing this whole thing. It was my trip in my idea. Yeah,
you're doing all the work, which is this is usually
how this goes. Do you know what we're doing? We
have any idea? Oh, we don't have any idea. We're
going in two days, but we don't have any idea.
We put our requests then, so we'll see boy. Yeah, okay,

(34:27):
all right, let's come back and do blogs next guys,
we have a follow up from yesterday's Waiting by the
Phone as well. If you missed it, you can hear
it before we get to that on the iHeart app
search for the Fred Show on demand. But they go
on a date and the guy his father shows up
to get take out and then injects himself in the
date and cause a lot of problems and people think

(34:52):
he's a weirdo, and we think he might be too,
and we're gonna find out if he is next hour
on The Fred Show, after Say or Go and before
we give you of money. It's a blogs next Stay
or Go debates the relationship drama, the waiting by the
phone follow up from yesterday, Creepy Dad'll be on. I
shouldn't say that about him yet. We don't know yet.

(35:13):
Maybe he has a perfectly good explanation. I already called
him creepy Dad. I doubt it. I bet he's creepy Dad.
But we're gonna find out. Five hundred bucks was showed
by Shelley and we're commercial free net More Fread show next.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
Waiting Freads show is on the Hottest Morning Showing Good
Morning Everybody, Tuesday, July twenty third, The Fred Show's Not Hi, Kaitlin, Hi.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
Jason, Hi, Roofy Hello, Kiky's here? Show is Shelley five
hundred bucks new player in about twenty minutes, you can
beat her in five pop culture questions that money is yours.
Waiting by the phone from yesterday with the creepy Dad.
We got the creepy Dad on the show in about
ten minutes. After a Stay Ago Well debate the relationship drama,
Good news stories This hour the entertainment reports coming up

(35:59):
to what's an.

Speaker 6 (36:00):
Well, you know how people do outfit details for different
things they're doing, you know, online, like here's what I'm
wearing to.

Speaker 4 (36:06):
Go do this, Here's what I'm wearing to go to
do that.

Speaker 6 (36:08):
Well, you won't believe what someone did outfit details for
perhaps one of the most disrespectful things I've ever seen.

Speaker 4 (36:15):
Oh wow, Yeah, okay, they talk about it.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
Yeah, they talk better than they excited talk about tell
me about it. These are the radio blogs on the
Fred Show.

Speaker 3 (36:23):
All right, like running in our diaries, except we say
them aloud. We call them blogs. Klin, Yes, I go,
dear blog.

Speaker 6 (36:32):
So my stress level right now is currently about a
twenty seven out of ten for something that should be
extremely fun. Okay, and Rivio, you missed part of this
while you were out. Okay, but and I've spoke about
it before, you know that I want a trip through work, yes,
which was amazing, so grateful I was able to pick

(36:52):
where I'm going. It's always been my dream to go
to Greece. Now at the time I want it, I
didn't know who I was going to take. I newly someone,
and I was like, this is a little much. But
I waited a few months and asked him.

Speaker 4 (37:06):
What'd he liked to come with me because he's now
my boyfriend. Okay. It was wow. Okay, but since then
I've been.

Speaker 6 (37:16):
Real stress because we've had a passport.

Speaker 4 (37:18):
Debacle for him.

Speaker 6 (37:19):
Okay, So I have a passport that works, he does
not currently.

Speaker 4 (37:23):
Okay. So about six weeks ago he submitted for a renewal.

Speaker 6 (37:29):
And if you've had a passport in the past, you
cannot just apply for a new one. You have to
get a renewal, and you have to know where you're
either your old passport has to be reported stolen or
you have to.

Speaker 4 (37:39):
Have the numbers from it. Okay. So we had that
and got a renewal. He was in the system.

Speaker 6 (37:43):
Well, one of our listeners came in Clutch when we
didn't receive it in the timeframe that we were supposed to,
and she said this happened to my husband. We called
and he was never in the system, so they didn't
even have a record of him applying for it. We
called and found out same thing for my boyfriend. There's
no record of him. I'm applying, So again we're less
than thirty days out. We do not have a passport, okay,

(38:04):
and I am going. I don't know if he is going.

Speaker 4 (38:07):
Why don't you get it same day though?

Speaker 3 (38:09):
Like if you go in, if you can get the appointment,
can't you get it same day and then you're all good.

Speaker 4 (38:12):
So here's where we are at.

Speaker 6 (38:13):
We are lucky enough to live in a city with
a passport office, which is clutch because you hear of
people having to drive it.

Speaker 4 (38:19):
Did you have to drive somewhere? I had to drive
to the city to oh, yeah down sound right?

Speaker 8 (38:23):
Because when my grandma passed away in the Philippines, I
had to get a passport.

Speaker 4 (38:27):
I didn't have one and I was going to the
Philippines like the next day, right, okay. So I was
told within thirty days we could do that. I felt
nervous about it, but a little comfy about it. He calls.

Speaker 6 (38:37):
It turns out it's within fourteen days that you need
to get an appointment and go. So he won't have
a passport until we're fourteen days out.

Speaker 4 (38:45):
Hopefully he can get an appointment.

Speaker 6 (38:47):
I know those are hard to get, but I mean,
my heart's beating just talking about it, because like I
can't tell where never mind, you know, I plan this
whole trip, but I can't go, and I.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
Don't I'm not, like, I don't want to go to
Greece alone. So it's gonna be fine.

Speaker 3 (39:02):
It'll be fine. You got it's a two week window,
you'll be good. What that's plenty of time time?

Speaker 4 (39:08):
Why are you guys so casual about that?

Speaker 3 (39:10):
Well, first of all, you better get it done. But
second of always, you know you got your two week window.
It'll be fine.

Speaker 4 (39:15):
Are we sure he can get an appointment?

Speaker 3 (39:16):
I feel like this happened that people just happen to
people like you'll be fine, and don't you have to
prove that you're within a certain period of time to
get the appointment. So like it's not like there's anybody
can just show up and oh, yeah, me too, Like,
you know, he's got a valid argument for trying to
get this thing expedited.

Speaker 4 (39:34):
It's gotta be fine.

Speaker 5 (39:37):
Yeah, I do have a passport, he can take mine.

Speaker 6 (39:42):
You're going you're gonna get your back waxing again, and
we're going to go.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
Well, the back waxing appointment is what I'm most worried about.
Can we get Jason in We might want to have
a backup back waxing appointments in case he's gonna be five.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
Miss.

Speaker 3 (40:02):
Someone said, you're right, your local congressman, your local congressman
want help you get a passport? I say, you just
hit up Kamala Harris and be like you on my vote,
You on my vote, Kamala.

Speaker 4 (40:13):
Yeah, my man and I need to get to Greece.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Frend show is on. It's Stay or Go.

Speaker 3 (40:19):
Darcy is here. Good morning, Darcy. How you doing?

Speaker 16 (40:23):
Good morning?

Speaker 4 (40:24):
I'm doing okay, Darcy. Welcome to the program, Stair Go.

Speaker 3 (40:27):
So a little relationship advice, little little group therapy happening
right now? What's going on with this guy? This is
your husband of fifteen years. You're calling us about something
real like this isn't for real. We're not messing around
with some six month relationship. This is fifteen years. You've
been married to this man.

Speaker 4 (40:43):
Well, not only have we.

Speaker 11 (40:44):
Been married for fifteen years, but we were together seven
years before we got married, and they always told me,
marry your best friend, marry your best friend, so I did.

Speaker 4 (40:53):
Twenty two years. You've been together, right, I does some
quick mats in just two years at the top of
the dome. Yeah, no, I am, I am, I'm good.

Speaker 16 (41:01):
The problem is not that I don't love him.

Speaker 4 (41:05):
I do.

Speaker 11 (41:05):
The problem is is that I don't want to be
intimate with him, Like I don't want to have sex
with him, and I have it for a really long time,
and I try to push those feelings down because, like
you just said, it's been twenty two years that we
have been together. And people say you go through phases
and the spark comes and it goes, but it went
a long time ago and it has not come back,

(41:27):
and like we'll get intimate sometimes, but it's more of
like obligation than it is anything else.

Speaker 16 (41:35):
And I feel terrible about it.

Speaker 11 (41:37):
But every time I try to bring it up with
other people, they always say, oh, the dating world is
so hard and the grass isn't always greener and you
have your best friend, Like what more could you want? Well,
I want to be with someone who I want like that.

Speaker 3 (41:49):
Why would you say things have subsided romantically intimately? Like
can you can you pinpoint why you're not interested? Like
I mean, are you guys still getting along or are
you still can comunicating?

Speaker 4 (42:00):
Well?

Speaker 3 (42:01):
Has there been any kind of infidelity? I mean, is
there some sort of dysfunction? I mean, I'm just trying
to get to the bike. Or is it simply you've
just grown out of wanting to be intimate with him
and you just feel like you're married to your friend.

Speaker 16 (42:15):
I feel like I'm married to my friend, and I
don't know that I ever grew out of it. I
think geek down. I've always known it's always been like that.

Speaker 11 (42:23):
But I listen to everybody else who said, this is
your best friend, and he is like, there's nobody else
I want to spend time with other than him.

Speaker 16 (42:31):
But when it gets down to that bedroom, it's it's
like I'm laying there with my brother and I'm like,
I don't want to do this.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
There's nobody else that does he wants to spend time
with except for maybe somebody to have sex with her
other than that, but other than that, this guy, this
guy's everything this so you can, okay, could you? And
I'm just trying to like if it be proactive here?
I mean, is there anything like what if he tried
to be romantic? Like is there anything that he can do?
I mean, is it really just dead like you're just

(43:01):
not interested? Or is there Is it a matter of effort?
Is it a matter of seduction? Is it a matter
of you know, he's not romantic with you anymore. It
doesn't take you on dates like you know what I mean? Like,
is there anything going on that he could adjust to
maybe make this more attractive to you again?

Speaker 4 (43:18):
Maybe?

Speaker 11 (43:19):
But I think even if he tried, it would just
give me the ick. I think we're at that point
to even if he tried to seduce me, I don't
know if he is the person I want seducing me.
And I know that that sounds so terrible. I know
it sounds so awful, but it's just how I feel.

Speaker 3 (43:35):
Have you discussed this with him? I mean, have you
guys communicated about this? Does he feel the same way she.

Speaker 11 (43:40):
Does not feel the same way. He feels the same
way everybody else does. That we're just going through a
rough patch, and you know, we just need to talk more.

Speaker 16 (43:47):
And I feel like all we do is talk about it,
which I'd rather do than the alternative.

Speaker 4 (43:51):
I'll talk to you forever.

Speaker 11 (43:53):
I just feel like we're talking in a circle and
I don't know if it will ever come back to
me feeling that way towards him, like I love him,
And I always heard people say that's not always thought
it was such a lie. I just don't know that
I'm in love with him, but if there is something
that he could do, I would try it because nothing
would break my heart more than to break his heart.

Speaker 3 (44:14):
Yeah, because if he's still really into it and wants
to do it and you don't, then this isn't a
situation where I think you could go and present some
sort of counter solution, like, you know, you can't go
to a guy who still wants to be with you
and you don't and be like, hey, how about if
we open up this marriage or something. Because I've heard
of situations that people have been married for a very
long time, maybe they have kids, maybe they are established

(44:36):
in their lives, and they care about each other, they
love each other, the intimacy just isn't there, but they
don't want to blow up their whole lives. So they
both decide, hey, look, you know, you can go off
and do something, just don't let me find out about it,
or we can go off, or we're going to open
up this relationship or whatever. But both parties are okay
with that, or at least appear to be in this case.

(44:57):
I feel like if you went to him and said, hey,
can we open up this relationship. He'd be, you know,
highly insulted and hurt.

Speaker 11 (45:04):
I think so too, But a part of me thinks
that sounds like a really good idea, because if I
could go somewhere else and have that aspect of.

Speaker 16 (45:10):
His relationship, she still have this back at home.

Speaker 4 (45:14):
I'm like, what a great idea. I'm serious.

Speaker 3 (45:16):
It's a real thing. This is a real thing. She's
not saying he's a bad guy. She's not saying that
she doesn't love him. She's not saying she doesn't care
about him. She's not even saying she doesn't like spending
time with him. What she's saying is, for whatever reason,
the intimacy has expired. She doesn't believe she can fix it.
And so what does she do? Does she blow up
the entire relationship and lose her best friend over sex?

(45:37):
Does she say forget it? I guess I'll just be celibate.
Does she cheat? She does she ask for an open relationship?

Speaker 4 (45:44):
You know?

Speaker 3 (45:44):
Again, I mean think about what her options are. How
I thought about therapy. People were asking about therapy.

Speaker 16 (45:50):
Yeah, we've thought about therapy and going.

Speaker 11 (45:52):
I just think that we're looking at this situation from
two different viewpoints, and I don't think he's looking at
it as we need therapy.

Speaker 16 (45:58):
I think he's looking at it as.

Speaker 11 (46:00):
We can work this out at home. And I'm perfectly
fine going to therapy. My concern with therapy is saying
something like you just suggested of an open marriage, and
then we just opened up a whole other can of worms,
and I'm nervous about that. We have talked about therapy,
we have not actively.

Speaker 4 (46:14):
Gone you know what he needs?

Speaker 3 (46:16):
He needs that stuff I see advertised on TikTok all
the time, that gum that makes it like super hard,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
Like that there's a gum. I forget what it's called,
like blue cheo or something.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
It's all, oh ye, yeah, I see it advertising on
TikTok all the time.

Speaker 4 (46:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (46:29):
It's like, does your man have the blue Cheo. It's
like because maybe if he comes home and he's just
like maybe maybe what it's going to take is a
little passion on his point the blue che Well, maybe
he's targeting men because he wouldn't say blue cheo.

Speaker 6 (46:42):
I mean, I would get get this.

Speaker 3 (46:46):
I don't need it yet, I'm sure I will, but
I've considered ordering it just to see what the hell.

Speaker 4 (46:50):
Happened, Yeah, an experiment.

Speaker 3 (46:52):
I've thought about getting Viagrad too, just to see what happened,
just to see what I mean again, There's going to
come a time where I'm going to need that stuff.
I don't yet, but I'm afraid my heart would explode it.
I'm afraid I'm just getting greedy. Yeh, that's what I mean.
Like it's already working fine. It doesn't need to work
finer than fine. But I'm curious. You know, my mind
wants to know what the hell is blue shoe stuff?
But it's not even that Darcy, because I asked you

(47:12):
if there was some kind of dysfunction and you said no, No.

Speaker 11 (47:16):
I feel like if he came home with that problem,
that feels like a hymn problem right now, because that
isn't the problem of him being able to perform.

Speaker 16 (47:23):
What the problem is is that I don't want.

Speaker 4 (47:24):
To come to the show. Wouldn't you almost rather that, though?

Speaker 3 (47:27):
Wouldn't you almost rather that you really wanted the guy
and everything was there, he just he just needed to
work through some kind of a physiological issue. Wouldn't that
be better?

Speaker 4 (47:36):
You know?

Speaker 3 (47:36):
If it's like I know, that's also uncomfortable but at
least a desire is there, and you guys can go
together and work it out and figure out whatever the
health matter is or whatever help he needs or you
need or whatever. But in this case, this dude could
be coming in ready to go all the time. He
could be blue chewing it up right now, and it
wouldn't matter because you don't want it.

Speaker 11 (47:54):
No, And I would even be more comfortable right now
if there's been infidelity and we could work it.

Speaker 16 (48:00):
Yea, this feels like I am the problem.

Speaker 11 (48:03):
This feels like I am ruining my marriage because of
the way that I feel, and I can't change the
way that I feel. But if he came to me
and said that he cheated, I could say, well, let's
work on that. This doesn't feel like we can work
on it. I mean, I don't know if other people
that have been married as long or together with someone
for twenty two years have ever been to this situation.
But everyone I seem to talk to just says you

(48:24):
just have to work through it. And it doesn't feel
like something I want to work through because life's a
little too short to be this unhappy.

Speaker 7 (48:31):
Yeah, I think that she's using the word and you
are you're saying that that's my best friend. That's my
best friend, right, So I think you're taking a lot
of this blame on yourself. You're like, I'd rather him
cheat and do that, and it's like, I wouldn't even
go that far. I just think that you have lost
that spark for him. But I think that's okay.

Speaker 4 (48:47):
Sad. I know it's sad.

Speaker 7 (48:48):
It's very upsetting, right, it's her husband for twenty two years.
But if this is a really your best friend that
you keep calling, you know, this is my best friend,
this is the worst and I care about I think
it's best to go your separate ways so that maybe
you can still remain friends.

Speaker 4 (48:58):
You can still remain that.

Speaker 3 (49:00):
Let's face it, if he cheats, then she has an opening.
If he cheats, then she can dump him. If he cheats,
then she could go, well, I know, well why don't
you just keep doing that?

Speaker 4 (49:08):
And I'll do this.

Speaker 3 (49:08):
I mean, it's nice, no offense, Darcy, but him him
doing something anything other than you addressing the issue is
kind of just a cop out. It's kind of just
a workaround, right, I mean, because ultimately none of that's
going to feel You're not really going to be happy
if he cheats because you say you still love him
and you care about him.

Speaker 11 (49:26):
I do, but then I would feel like his needs
of being met. That's the problem with that is and
I you know, he is my best friend. I don't
think our friendship or this relationship would survive me coming
to him and telling him I'm just not attracted you anymore,
because I don't know how I would take that emotionally
my ego if you came to me and said, I
don't want to be intimate with you, I mean, the
only one you should want to.

Speaker 4 (49:46):
Be intimate with, and you're telling me that.

Speaker 16 (49:48):
Like, I love him so much.

Speaker 4 (49:50):
That's why I'm not telling him.

Speaker 15 (49:51):
All of it.

Speaker 4 (49:51):
Darcy.

Speaker 3 (49:52):
A lot of people are like, are pointing to like,
maybe you should go get your hormone check, to this
and that, and I have to ask, I mean, do
you have the desire otherwise not with him, or do
you have no desire at all?

Speaker 4 (50:02):
Just just to check that box.

Speaker 16 (50:04):
No, that's an interesting question.

Speaker 11 (50:06):
There are people that I see that I find attractive
and I fantasize about that. I don't act on it
because I am married, so I think that desire.

Speaker 4 (50:13):
Is still there.

Speaker 3 (50:14):
So this is not a matter of like you know,
I don't know you're taking medicine that it has reduced
your libido or because that's also an issue, where like
there really isn't a problem. There's just you know, as
far as the connections concerned, there's just something going on
where you're you have less drive than you once said.
Let me take some phone calls on this, because we're
a bunch of morons and we're just talking. Maybe other

(50:34):
people have have been through this and can offer something,
but yeah, it kind of sounds like you're gonna have
to have a really tough conversation and you're gonna have
to just be really honest.

Speaker 4 (50:43):
And maybe me, I don't know. I don't know how you.
I really don't know how you fix it. But fair
right for the both of them. And I don't know
one who thinks that.

Speaker 3 (50:50):
Yeah, but here's a guy who sounds like he still
wants it. She just doesn't want it. That's going to
be devastating to hear it is I'm leaving.

Speaker 4 (50:57):
Someone over sex though, I mean after that, I don't know,
the grass ain't always greener on the other side.

Speaker 8 (51:03):
You can't have your cake like that's true, But do
you want a little single, like, yes, you're gonna have
a lot of sex, but you're gonna be You could
not be in a relationship for the longest time.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
You could be lonely for the rest of your life.

Speaker 3 (51:12):
I got a whole list of things you can say
to people on dating apps to if you need it,
like yourself out aw anyway, let me take some phone calls, Darcy,
have the radio one. I wish you the best. This
is tough, this is complicated. I don't know the right
because because Ruvio is right. I mean, do you want
to live a sexless, celibate life with your best friend? No,

(51:33):
But if you lose this guy who's this, you know,
this paramount relationship in your life so that you could
go out and have a bunch of you know, average
of disappointing physical connections, then.

Speaker 4 (51:42):
Then I don't know, is that better? Not sure?

Speaker 3 (51:45):
It probably feels like it now, but it may not
be in the long run. Thank you, Darcy, good luck.

Speaker 4 (51:50):
I got an Amazon for you girl.

Speaker 3 (51:52):
Yeah, okay, for a little So you're suggesting Kiki has
some and then yes, she.

Speaker 10 (51:58):
Might just need to spice it up, get her out
some some adult toys. Maybe that she can try out.
I mean, I feel like she has not tried everything yet.
She's just like I don't want it, but like, try
some things first before you leave your husband. In best friend,
I feel so bad for him all these years, Like
I feel so bad for the husband, like he's I

(52:18):
feel like he's done nothing wrong.

Speaker 4 (52:20):
No, he doesn't want this either though. I mean, you
know you can't fight those.

Speaker 8 (52:23):
But it's not like he's not like it's not like
he's bad in bed or he's not.

Speaker 4 (52:27):
He doesn't want you. He wants to have sex with
his wife. Yeah, but she does.

Speaker 3 (52:30):
Want to have sort of outgrown him in some ways.
And I feel like there's always more in these situations.
There's always more going on. There's something else here that
we probably don't I don't know. But I've also never
been with somebody for twenty two years, so I don't
know what it's. I mean, honestly, I don't know that
I know I would even have any sort of basis
for comparison to be the same person for that period

(52:51):
of time. Hey Christina, good morning. Hey what do you
think stay or go? So, just to recap here, this
woman's been with this man married for like seventeen years,
is together for twenty two or something, and she just
doesn't want to sleep with him anymore, loves him, considers
him her best friend, doesn't really have the desire to
be with him anymore. She still has those desires, just
not with him. He wants to be with her, and

(53:13):
she's not sure what to do. What do you think?

Speaker 17 (53:17):
I just think that sex is something that you know,
every human being needs in their life. So to hold
it back from somebody I think is worse. So I
think that she should go, but you know she should
go in a way where she talks to him about it.
I mean they are best friends, they do have a connection, and.

Speaker 4 (53:37):
And what or she can give it you broke up
in just a second or what?

Speaker 17 (53:42):
Sorry, Like, who's to say they're not going to be
remain best friends. She could talk to him about it,
but I really feel like she needs to go or
give him the option to have an open marriage. Yeah,
because he just can't take that awash from somebody.

Speaker 15 (53:55):
It's like he's being punished.

Speaker 3 (53:57):
But it's just that's just not that symbol, Like it's
not that same to say, because like there's someone like me,
for example, that would never work for me, Like, if
you came to me and said, I love you, but
I don't want to be with you anymore, how about
I sleep with other men and stay with you, I'd
be devastating. That's the end, you know, So, I mean,
it's not just that symbols. Just let's just say by
other folks in like, I don't know. I think I
would either be in or out on that one. I

(54:18):
don't know that I could just be with someone who's like,
I love you, but I really don't want you to
like get anywhere near me sexually like that would have
but other men can. I don't know. Christina, thank you,
have a good day. Glad you called. And that battle
that's just me. I mean, I trust me. Go on,
speaking of dating apps, go on these dating apps, ethical ethic,
this is I'm using air quotes ethical, non monogamy all

(54:41):
over the place, all over the place. People, And yeah,
I'm in a relationship, but I want and it's and
it's all out there. But I want to sleep with
other people too. It's very common and if it works
for you, that's great.

Speaker 6 (54:53):
I just I don't know, right and do we always
have it all every single part of a relationship, all
the time for the end tyrity, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (55:01):
Like, is it always you have every part of it?

Speaker 5 (55:03):
No?

Speaker 4 (55:04):
I feel I feel like that's an unfair expectation. Hey, Dawn,
good morning, Welcome, good morning. So how are y'all? Hey?
What do you think? Great? Thanks for asking? Uh, what
do you think?

Speaker 14 (55:14):
I think she should stay? And I feel like when
she's saying she just keeps herpetting, like best friend, best friend,
I love them and stuff like that. It just sounds
like things are routine and comfortable. And I'm presuming, and
I may have missed this at the very beginning. I'm
presuming that they were pretty sparky at the beginning of
the relationship. That's why they got into relationship and got
married and stuff like that. And I think, and it

(55:36):
sounds really cliche, but it just sounds like the spark
is the spark is missing. I'm not gonna say it's gone,
but it's missing. And maybe maybe they if they talk,
maybe he has to do a little digging and figure out,
you know what, what's something new that or something that
used to work? You know, what's something new that I
can do that They really knocked her off her heels,
you know, and and rest her up.

Speaker 4 (55:56):
I don't see, but I don't think it would matter.

Speaker 3 (55:58):
It doesn't this do come in, you know, wrapped in
latex and you know, all oiled up. But I don't
know that it wouldn't matter. I didn't sound like she
would care. It's a bad spot to be in where
there's nothing you can do.

Speaker 4 (56:11):
All the blue two in the world is not going
to solve this problem.

Speaker 14 (56:14):
But maybe maybe they're just because it's so routine and comfortable,
maybe not thinking outside of the box like that. I mean,
like he said, maybe maybe you gotta go find a
toy or something, or I don't know, maybe the latext thing,
or maybe maybe it's just a nice long day like
in a lazy river somewhere in a picnic and just

(56:34):
I mean, you know what I mean, if you're if
you're like, don't, I don't know their lifestyle. So maybe
they're just constantly until it with kids and work and
whatever and really stressed out until if they just have
a really lazy, calm day and can just I don't know,
threw out different things.

Speaker 4 (56:51):
I hear you figure something out. Thank you.

Speaker 14 (56:54):
That's a little bit more comfortable.

Speaker 4 (56:55):
Well, thank you, Thank you.

Speaker 3 (56:57):
John appreciate you have a great day, so I may
It's gonna be a painful conversation. So before she torpedoes
the whole damn thing, she may as well get a
sex therapist involved or somebody you know, and have that conversation.
You may as well go for it. You may as
well lay it all out there, because it's gonna go
one or two ways. Either he's gonna I don't know,

(57:17):
I guess you could go a number of ways. He's
gonna be super hurt and offended and there's no coming back.
He's gonna say, well, what if we try a bunch
of stuff? And then she'll go, well, I may as well,
or they're gonna break up. I guess he's gonna go
I feel the same way. Maybe I'm not sure, but
let's have Creepy Dad on next. Shall we Creepy Dad
from Waiting by the phone yesterday? He kind of crashed
a date, made it weird, but did he Let's see

(57:39):
what he has to say all three on the show
next after post Bellonadi in two.

Speaker 4 (57:43):
Minutes, It's the French show Good morning, So waiting a
out the phone?

Speaker 3 (57:47):
Yesterday we had Ian and Nina on and if you
remember Ian met Nina on the dating apps.

Speaker 4 (57:54):
They went on a date, and Ian did admit that.

Speaker 3 (57:59):
His father's should rowed up to get carry out at
the restaurant they happened to be at, and and Nina
was kind enough to sort of say, oh, hey, nice
to me. She you want to have a drink with us?
Like why he was waiting for his food, like kind
of incorporate him. End of the date, you know what
I mean? I mean, what are you supposed to do? Like, yeah,
blow off the dad. He's kind of a weird chance

(58:19):
event that that would happen. But anyway, so we hadn't
need an Ian on and they're back. Good morning guys,
running And so what we wanted to know is because
Ian says it's not possible. All wow, I should tell
you the second part in case you didn't hear it.
When we did talk to Nina yesterday, she said that
dominic Ian's dad was flirtatious with her, touched her leg,

(58:41):
was flirting with her.

Speaker 4 (58:43):
Well, he was in the bathroom while.

Speaker 3 (58:45):
While Ian was away. And Ian his response, your response,
Ian and that want to make sure I'm getting all
this right. And Nina too was that there's no way
he could have done this because he's married to your
mom and he.

Speaker 4 (58:56):
Would never That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (58:58):
Okay, And Nina, you you still contend that he absolutely did.

Speaker 15 (59:02):
Yes, I mean absolutely, Like there's a difference between being
friendly and putting your hand on someone's sigh and calling
them beautiful.

Speaker 4 (59:10):
Yeah, I would agree, okay.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
And so we said yesterday, well let's see if we
can get the dad on the phone. His name is
dominic Let's see what happens with that. And so you
texted your dad and we got him. And so, ladies
and gentlemen, I'd like you to meet dominic Ian's dad.
Good morning, dominic Good, good morning Fred? Oh it was it?
Good morning Fred? What is it like like a radio?
Did you have a did you do radio? Or summer

(59:33):
stock or like the community theater or like what? Good
morning everybody?

Speaker 12 (59:38):
Well, if you think I should, we can talk about that.

Speaker 4 (59:40):
But no, I don't. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (59:42):
But okay, so you heard the explanation here. Ian and
Nina went out. I guess you ran into Ian and
Nina at the restaurant. Nina says you flirted with her
and it made her uncomfortable.

Speaker 4 (59:55):
I think this is being blown out of all proportion.

Speaker 12 (59:58):
I think to say I was hitting on her, that's
that's an exaggeration.

Speaker 3 (01:00:03):
You were not hitting on Nina. That and you're you're
a married man, you're married to Ian's mom. You're saying
that Nina made the whole thing up. You did not
touch her leg. I touch I touched her leg.

Speaker 12 (01:00:14):
Look, any any man would be helpless around a woman
that beautiful.

Speaker 4 (01:00:20):
You know, it's just hardly flirting.

Speaker 3 (01:00:22):
You're married, dude, you don't get to be helpless around
other women. You're married. You're married, and plus that's your
that's your son's date.

Speaker 12 (01:00:30):
I didn't think there was anything to it. It was just,
like I said, it's harmless flirting. You know, it just
happens all the time. It's not not a big I
didn't think it would turn into a whole situation.

Speaker 3 (01:00:42):
Okay, so Ian, he's he's not denying it. He flirted
with your date because he was helpless. Very beautiful, she's
very beautiful.

Speaker 4 (01:00:50):
You hear that. Okay, how did you keep your hands
off of her? You know, like, how could you? I think,
first off, I want to say sorry to Nina, and
you know, Dad, I it's just so weird. Man that
that's not cool. Man, my god, say sorry to all
of us. This is weird.

Speaker 3 (01:01:09):
No, first of all, thank you Ian for apologizing to Nina.
That was a nice thing to do because it turned
out that Nina, I'm sorry Nina.

Speaker 16 (01:01:16):
I said, yeah, thank you, Like that was very nice.

Speaker 4 (01:01:19):
I mean, we all believed her. We all knew that
she wasn't crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
The only person here who didn't really believe her, Ian
was you that you apologized.

Speaker 4 (01:01:26):
Uh, he's my dad.

Speaker 14 (01:01:28):
I don't think he's doing it.

Speaker 4 (01:01:30):
Well.

Speaker 3 (01:01:31):
How does it make you feel about your day? Because yeah,
I mean he's married to your mom. Friends friendly. I mean,
there's but don't we know at a certain point in
our lives the difference between lecherous and friendly, like creepy
and being nice, cordial and being like if he.

Speaker 4 (01:01:48):
Was helpless though fried by her beauty. I mean, I mean,
come on, that's.

Speaker 10 (01:01:56):
I can't I tell John his man was a creepy
putting a hand somebody else's leg, like come on there.

Speaker 4 (01:02:02):
Yeah, yeah, it's not appropriate. So it's not like I
was massaging her knee.

Speaker 12 (01:02:07):
I mean maybe I'm from a different time, but it
was just a very casual you know.

Speaker 3 (01:02:12):
Yeah, that's that's called assault. Yeah, you're not supposed to
do that either unless somebody wants you to. So, but
here's my question, though, Nina, like does this change anything,
because you know it sounds like Ian's kind of shocked.
He didn't realize his dad was capable of this or
would do it or did do it, and and and
he kind of is admitting that he did. So I
don't know, do you want nothing to do with Ian

(01:02:32):
because his dad's weird? Or do you do you now
look at Ian differently because he's he's figuring out that
his dad is weird.

Speaker 15 (01:02:39):
I mean, like again, like Ian's great, but like just
to imagine, like I don't know, at Thanksgiving.

Speaker 4 (01:02:45):
Or nothing, you've seen this movie before? You don't, you
don't want any part of it? He accidentally walks it,
you change it? Yeah, I've seen I've seen this one.

Speaker 3 (01:02:53):
Yeah yeah, so no, so no no second date I
because we'll pay for it if you want to get
Ian another chance, and we'll ask the father. We'll get
a restraining order, a protective order against him so he
can't come.

Speaker 4 (01:03:06):
I'm so sorry to Ian, Like.

Speaker 3 (01:03:09):
But no, all right, Ian, I'm sorry, man, I don't
know how you know how you deal with this.

Speaker 4 (01:03:14):
So you need to have a conversation. Yeah, that's that's
that's yeah.

Speaker 17 (01:03:19):
My mom I had to be in that conversation too.

Speaker 4 (01:03:21):
I think she needs to be and a lawyer.

Speaker 3 (01:03:24):
Well, I mean maybe Thanksgiving dinner, a couple of glasses
of wine and everybody will see things a little bit differently.

Speaker 17 (01:03:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:03:31):
Like I said, you know, my day, this was not
a big deal. You know, I was just trying to
be nice.

Speaker 15 (01:03:36):
I think you know it's.

Speaker 4 (01:03:38):
A harmless it was a harmless interaction.

Speaker 3 (01:03:40):
Oh, I see back in your day. Yeah, yeah, okay,
So this is a generational thing, that is what you're saying,
dominic like, because when you were younger, you can just
touch anybody's girlfriend It's okay, But now it's weird you
can't do that.

Speaker 12 (01:03:53):
I don't even if we know if we call that touching,
just just gently putting your hand on it, young lady,
I mean, is that honestly?

Speaker 3 (01:04:02):
Oh, Mecca, that made me feel uncomfortable just hear you,
like right now, my skin is crawling hearing you talk.

Speaker 4 (01:04:08):
So we're gonna be We're gonna be done now. But
maybe it is. Maybe it is a generational thing.

Speaker 3 (01:04:13):
I don't think I think it's a I think I
think we everyone knows what it is. But and I'm
sorry that you find out this way, Nina. Thank you
for your patience and for your time, and I'm sorry
it didn't work out.

Speaker 4 (01:04:22):
Good luck to all of you. Okay.

Speaker 1 (01:04:25):
Calon's entertainment report is on the Fresh Show.

Speaker 4 (01:04:28):
You Well, all I have to say is, well, it
is right, all right. Let me try to get in
the game for my job, my line now.

Speaker 6 (01:04:35):
Chris Brown, Live Nation and two others are facing a
lawsuit filed by four dudes for fifty million after he
allegedly organized some sort of assault against them. Chris is
eleven eleven tour hit Dickey's Arena in Fort Worth, Texas,
on July twentieth, and after the show let out the
four dudes that they were invited backstage escorted there along
with forty women for a post concert hang. According to

(01:04:58):
the suit, one of them congratulated Chris a good show
when a member of his entourage shouted loudly, don't you
remember you two were beefing, and Chris claimed that he
did remember and verbally ordered his crew to beat this
guy up. This man says he was surrounded by seven
to ten guys who punched and kicked him for more
than ten minutes, even through a chair at his head.
All four men so they suffered severe injuries and had

(01:05:18):
to undergo various medical treatments. Their lawyer says at least
one of them is still in the hospital.

Speaker 4 (01:05:23):
In addition to.

Speaker 6 (01:05:24):
The fifty mil, the plaintiffs have also requested a restraining
order against Chris and two members of his crew. Former
Bachelor contestant Anna Redman has been catching a lot of
heat online ever since she shared her clothing itinerary during
a family trip to Auschwitz, a former concentration camp in

(01:05:44):
Poland where a ton of people died during the Holocaust.
So she posted on her Instagram story that she was
going to the now Museum wearing a black dress and
white sandals along with the captain. The best packing hack
is somebody going to match my freak, which is not great.
From there obviously came the backlash, which included threats against
her life. Anna says she understands now why she got that.

(01:06:07):
In hindsight, she deleted the post apologize. She did say,
in the midst of all the hate, some people from
the Jewish community did applaud her for being proud about
her visit and wearing respectable.

Speaker 4 (01:06:17):
It's higher.

Speaker 6 (01:06:18):
I do think her post was dumb and disrespectful, But
I don't think the best way to teach someone something
is to give them death threats. I think maybe you
could message someone and educate them on why that may
have come off insensitive.

Speaker 4 (01:06:31):
No, you should.

Speaker 3 (01:06:32):
You should just go at people, scream at them, tell
them they're horrible. Right, I'm just curious if she used
packing cubes or not. I'm worried she's packing cubes. I'll
send you her posts. How many pair of underwear did
she bring? Because women tend to overpack underwear. In my opinion,
she probably wrote way too much. Yes, probably listen how
much underwear? How much underwear is enough for that setting?

Speaker 4 (01:06:51):
You know what I mean? Right?

Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
Are there certain topics where we just know, like when
when we're saying this thing that we don't mix in
any sort of like opportunity to be an influencer, but
literally like do we not correct, Like there's just certain
stuff like a concentration camp would be.

Speaker 4 (01:07:13):
One of them. Yeah, we don't need to mix those
two world. Yeah, we don't need to be like match,
I mean, should wear like a more breathable material or like,
come on, yeah, it was all better.

Speaker 6 (01:07:21):
It was dumb and she but but I don't think
we're bettering anyone in this world by just you know,
matching them.

Speaker 3 (01:07:28):
That's what we do when we disagree with somebody, or
we're hurt or we're offended, we just we wish death
upon them. That's what we and that solves all the problems.
And when someone's wrong and you back them in a corner,
it certainly doesn't make them any more aggressive. I think
she kind of conceded, But I don't know why people
don't realize that, Like, when you have a difference of
opinion with somebody, if you first of all, you're probably
never going to change their mind. You probably are never

(01:07:48):
going to get someone with whom you have a fundamental
disagreement to at the end of the conversation, especially if
you're screaming at them, go you.

Speaker 4 (01:07:55):
Know what, You're right. I think you're onto something right,
So I agree with you. Let's try to teach people.

Speaker 3 (01:08:00):
That's what we do. We just take it to the
extreme everything. But this was really.

Speaker 4 (01:08:04):
Dumb outfit deeps to a concentration count you guys.

Speaker 3 (01:08:06):
Is particularly triggering for a lot of people for obvious reasons.

Speaker 4 (01:08:10):
No, especially right now, Yes, and really quick.

Speaker 6 (01:08:12):
Post Malone and Luke Holmbs are set to drop a
new collab on Friday called Guy.

Speaker 10 (01:08:16):
For that.

Speaker 4 (01:08:16):
They posted a snippet It sounds amazing.

Speaker 6 (01:08:19):
Posty's country stuff does sound amazing, so and I know
Luke is your guy, so we will be patiently waiting.
We can listen to it when we are on a
little vacation this weekend. If we're gonna have fun, damn it.
If you want to catch up with the show on Instagram,
you can Fred Show Radio and The Fred Show TikTok.

Speaker 3 (01:08:36):
But people are texting. It doesn't really matter where I
take you, guys. I think people are more interested to
see how a weekend get away with this show away
from home goes because you've never really done it. Like
I said, we did go to Paulina's wedding.

Speaker 4 (01:08:49):
Yeah, but that was, like I mean, an occasion, this
is fun.

Speaker 3 (01:08:53):
That was an occasion. It certainly was the occasion being
you know, your beautiful wedding.

Speaker 7 (01:08:58):
Yeah, my marriage yeah yeah, the open matrimony. No, I'm
saying this is gonna be like different, a different element
for all you can drink now, I can drink now,
I'll see the beautiful sights of Carbondale.

Speaker 3 (01:09:08):
Yes, yeah, I mean it's fantastic, it really No. Lake
of Egypt is where we're going to this fancier link
of Egypt on a PJ. On a PJ it's an airline,
then anyone can buy a ticket on. But it just
happens we might be the only ones who bought the
tickets on it, so it's private to us. If we're
the only ones who bought tickets to go down there
this particular weekend, then it's private to us. Right, Yeah,

(01:09:31):
we're gonna play games. Oh fun fact they're letting me
fly the plane too. I don't know if I talk
to you all about that. Yeah, I get to fly.

Speaker 4 (01:09:37):
A plane long right, I think it's like four hours.
It will be there three and a half hours before all.

Speaker 1 (01:09:46):
The even more Fread show next.

Speaker 4 (01:09:52):
Good morning, everybody, thanks for waking up with us. We're
so glad you're here on the radio, on the iHeart
app live or anytime search for a Freads show on
demand show Beeve Shelley if you want to take her
on in the show down. Five hundred bucks is the prize.

Speaker 3 (01:10:04):
We're playing right now eight five, five, five, nine, one
three five her record nine fourteen and sixty five straight
wins for show this. Shelley some ties in there too,
but you could win that money if you can beat
her in five pop culture questions. We'll play next. Hi, Caitlin, Hey,
Jason Sire? Who for y'all?

Speaker 15 (01:10:20):
Hello?

Speaker 3 (01:10:21):
Hello, Paul good morning? Uh waiting by the phone from
the vault. We'll get to that in just a second.
Why did somebody get ghost to trending stories? This is
our headlines that start your Tuesday. Fun fact is coming
up today as well, and the entertainment reports in there.

Speaker 4 (01:10:34):
See what are you working on?

Speaker 6 (01:10:35):
K Well, we were talking about horses off the air,
and speaking of horses, did you guys see what King
Charles Horst did to someone posting for a photo?

Speaker 4 (01:10:43):
No? No, right, I'll tell you no. Did you see it?

Speaker 15 (01:10:46):
All?

Speaker 9 (01:10:47):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:10:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:10:47):
So during the break, Paulina asked me I did. She says, hey,
do you know where Sierra Vista, Arizona is? Because I'm
from Arizona. I said, I know where Sierra Vista is?
And then you looking at it on a map, it's
your Bisbee Arizona.

Speaker 4 (01:11:02):
Where that is?

Speaker 3 (01:11:03):
Sure home stadium, and she said, can you take me
there so I can adopt a horse. Now, this is
a woman who just made a human, Yes I did,
and it has two dogs. Why that she rehomed to
her mother, who her mother then re home to someone else.

Speaker 4 (01:11:19):
Yes, the family friend, very nice home everything. So she
loves better than all of us.

Speaker 3 (01:11:23):
But we probably don't need anything.

Speaker 4 (01:11:26):
I think we're good. We think we're done. Yeah, we've
had a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:11:29):
Of evolutions of Paulina over the years, you know, a
lot of evolutions, a lot.

Speaker 4 (01:11:33):
This is what we can skip.

Speaker 3 (01:11:35):
I think we should probably, I think we should focus
on raising the human. I don't know that we need
to add horse to the yet.

Speaker 7 (01:11:42):
Okay, well, I want to get it more so from
my mom because I feel like it's a piece of
home for her that she never got to experience here
in America.

Speaker 4 (01:11:49):
Do you know what I mean? Well, maybe she should
pick her own horse. Then she could pick her own horse.

Speaker 7 (01:11:54):
Well, she'll probably tell me no for all of this,
all of this does not sound appeelings to her. Okay,
she didn't want a horse, No, I think she that
life so she could notes.

Speaker 3 (01:12:02):
There are a lot of different things you can do
that are sweet for people, but just because they're sweet
as a gesture doesn't mean you're actually doing something nice.
Giving someone a horse who doesn't want a horse strikes
me is not nice actually, Like the sentiment is sweet,
Like if you gave me a horse because you thought
I would like a horse, huh, I would say that
was very sweet that you were thinking of me. But

(01:12:23):
now I own a seven hundred pound animal and needs
to live somewhere and then like healthcare, So basically, you
just gave me a human. You just gave me a
large living creature.

Speaker 7 (01:12:37):
Yes, she's used to horses, though this is gonna be
like her first rodeo shown up with them.

Speaker 4 (01:12:42):
She doesn't want one. Well we don't know that.

Speaker 7 (01:12:44):
Maybe we should ask her and then well, then Jason
set up, I can put it in his backyard.

Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
Yeah, there's stables, give it. Hey mm hmm, you don't
so it kind of works maybe or not.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
You have what it takes to battle show biz, Shelley, and.

Speaker 4 (01:13:01):
You're an extremely sweet, talkful person, but let's skip the
whole horse step. Just skip that.

Speaker 3 (01:13:05):
And this is like, well, will you fly me down there?
And then can we get the horse? I'm like, I
don't know. I know, I don't know how you're going
to get said horse, but I really do.

Speaker 4 (01:13:11):
I can't help you. Yeah, I got to figure out
logistics first. I don't fly a seven forty seven. Like.

Speaker 3 (01:13:15):
This is not a cargo operation. We're not loading Kail's
been on air, Fred, We're not loading a horse.

Speaker 4 (01:13:20):
Up on that thing. I mean, I'll sit in the
back with it like I always do.

Speaker 3 (01:13:23):
We've almost had a horse on there, a two hundred
pounds master up. But that's not Oh yeah, I mean
as a small, small pony. Oh yeah, but you mean
yeah he did.

Speaker 8 (01:13:33):
He did start there some equestrian lessons or something like that.

Speaker 4 (01:13:37):
Yeah, how about we rent a horse? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:13:39):
How about we lease a horse? How about we just
use a horse by the hour? How about that? Okay,
I think it's a great place to start. Yeah, we'll see.
We'll see about the renting part, but it starts adopting
and acquiring.

Speaker 4 (01:13:52):
No, that's done. What we're doing that? Hey, Lex?

Speaker 3 (01:13:54):
How you don't by the way, Alex hilex you doing?

Speaker 18 (01:14:02):
Hey?

Speaker 4 (01:14:02):
Lex? I know we just met, but I took the
liberty of getting you a horse.

Speaker 14 (01:14:08):
Where do I pick it up?

Speaker 3 (01:14:09):
What do you think are you excited. I mean, it's
a really thoughtful gift I.

Speaker 4 (01:14:11):
Got for you.

Speaker 14 (01:14:13):
Yeah, where do I pick it up?

Speaker 4 (01:14:14):
Said? Is Sierra Visa, Arizona, actually, which is a short
fourteen hundred miles from me.

Speaker 3 (01:14:19):
Yeah, and that's in the air by the way. Driving
it will take way longer. You'll need a trailer and
a stable man. Hey, and attack, You'll need a You'll
need basically an a vet.

Speaker 4 (01:14:31):
You'll need a lot of stuff. But anyway, I got
you a horse. Look at her name is Dandy Lyon.

Speaker 18 (01:14:35):
Oh that is a that's a full ass horse. That's
a full ass of horse. Oh God, that is not
a racehorse. Lex, Lex, I can't, I can't.

Speaker 4 (01:14:48):
Lex.

Speaker 3 (01:14:49):
I am a ring leader of a circus, is what
I am. There's no doubt about it. Tell us about
you though, Oh, I said.

Speaker 15 (01:14:57):
I'm a mom with you now, I'm a stay at
home mom. Oh, and I listen to you guys every
single days.

Speaker 14 (01:15:02):
I'm super excited.

Speaker 3 (01:15:03):
Well, thank you, thank you. Now, I guess you what
do you do? What's putting on in the background? There
are you buying lottery tickets?

Speaker 4 (01:15:08):
What are you doing? What's going on?

Speaker 14 (01:15:11):
No, I'm in my car getting ready to go back
to school shopping.

Speaker 4 (01:15:13):
Oh okay, good, all right, it's that time again.

Speaker 3 (01:15:16):
Thank you for listening every day all the time, even
when maybe you're not driving the kids to school and
stuff like that, because I gotta be honest with you.
We had a few people who must have been driving
kids to school and then they stopped. And now the
managers here think we're a bunch of idiots and like
we're you know, in tenth place or something, and we're dumb,
and now we're doing all these stupid meetings and they
have no faith in us, which is just basically that
this is out. This is what they do around here,

(01:15:37):
just total freaking out. It's total freak out mode, a
bunch of idiots. And then like in two weeks we're
going to be back number one again. And like but
because of you though, because you're still there, that's why,
because you haven't given up on us, you haven't taken
a vacation from this show.

Speaker 4 (01:15:53):
But my god, these people they.

Speaker 3 (01:15:54):
Just run around like like they're with their heads on fire,
like it's just it's just crazy. Like it's calm down, Lex,
you know what I mean. Tell him to calm down.
Tell my bosses to calm down, would you?

Speaker 14 (01:16:06):
I will calm down, guys. I'm one of the thirteen.

Speaker 4 (01:16:09):
Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:16:10):
They're all going to come back eventually. I mean some
of the they need a break. Okay, let them go
to Sierra Vista.

Speaker 4 (01:16:16):
Look at a horse corse d Yeah, they're just yeah,
they're just on a horse ride.

Speaker 3 (01:16:19):
It's fine. Jesus show Shelley, I swear man. All right,
let's play the game, shall we. Five hundred bucks is
the prize. Yeah, nine, fourteen and sixty Shelley's record five straight.
Good luck guys. Okay, I think Shelley already left black
here we go. I think she's not coming back. She's
riding a horse. She's gone. Hobby's going to come home
to a whole damn farm. Somebody texted, yeah he is.

(01:16:41):
He is like mother like daughter. He really is.

Speaker 4 (01:16:44):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (01:16:45):
It's like everything's a good idea and then you get
it and then you're like, I don't know what to
do with this.

Speaker 4 (01:16:49):
I just want the horse. We'll start there. Let's not
big question number one? Lex you ready?

Speaker 7 (01:16:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:16:55):
Bellahadied is reportedly preparing to sue this German athletic apparel
brand after an ad she was featured in received backlash.
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitch' daughter took out a newspaper
ad to announced she's dropping Pitt from her last name.

Speaker 4 (01:17:10):
What is her name? First name?

Speaker 10 (01:17:14):
Three?

Speaker 19 (01:17:16):
Two guys, Yeah, Lady Wilson recovered like pro after she
split her pants at the Faster Horses music festival, No,
No Horses over the weekend.

Speaker 4 (01:17:33):
Which popular Western TV drama is Laney in Yellowstone?

Speaker 3 (01:17:38):
Lebron James was selected as Team USA's flag bearer for
the twenty twenty four Olympics.

Speaker 4 (01:17:42):
Where are the Summer Olympics being held?

Speaker 3 (01:17:46):
And which actor known for playing Harry Potter celebrates his
thirty fifth birthday today?

Speaker 4 (01:17:53):
Three? Oh, come on? Two one Daniel Radlush. I don't
think what do you think.

Speaker 18 (01:18:01):
It was?

Speaker 3 (01:18:02):
After the buzzer? Unfortunately that's a four. Though, that's a four.
That's an excellent score. Let's see how this goes. We're
bringing Shelley back four and nearly a five like so close?
Are you ready?

Speaker 14 (01:18:14):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (01:18:15):
A Bella Hadid is reportedly preparing to sue this German
athletic apparel brand after an ad she was featured in
received backlash. Adidas, that's right, Angelina Julian brad Pitt's daughter
took out a newspaper ad to announced she's dropping pit
from her last name.

Speaker 4 (01:18:29):
What is her name? Shiloh?

Speaker 3 (01:18:32):
Lanny Wilson recovered like a pro after she split her
pants at the Faster Horses music festival over the weekend.
Which popular Western TV drama is Lanny in.

Speaker 4 (01:18:43):
Three? Two? I don't know one? How many popular Western
TV drama? And then Paulina is going to buy a horse?
You know what? That's a reality show that I was drama?

(01:19:03):
It produced by me friend. Yeah, I'm got to country Western.
Ryan Seacrest can sucket. I got a better idea. It's
Paulina buys a horse on her Yeah, honestly, I'm going
to invest in that project. I'm green lighting that project
right now.

Speaker 1 (01:19:18):
There you go.

Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
Lebron James was selected as Team USA's flag bearer for
the twenty twenty four Olympics. Where are the Summer Olympics
being held Paris? And which actor you're known for playing?
Harry Potter celebrates his thirty fifth birthday.

Speaker 4 (01:19:30):
Today, Janiel Radcliffe, that's a four.

Speaker 3 (01:19:32):
That's a time and Lex you gotta come back tomorrow, okay, okay,
so good and you may have earned yourself some extra
money to five fifty to prize tomorrow. So stay right there,
have an amazing day. Don't buy a horse, you stay
right there. She's got one that's a Ford she's driving
because I know that noise?

Speaker 4 (01:19:49):
Is that what that is?

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:19:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:19:51):
Maybe a Mustanger, say yeah, that's the only horse you need,
Paulina is maybe a nice moustay and not the electric one.
That's another one. Then we've done that week. How many
phases have we been through? Electric car? Harley Davidson Farmer's
only dog owner? Horse owner? Mom?

Speaker 4 (01:20:12):
Why? I mean, let's there's a few. What's not trade
in on those?

Speaker 7 (01:20:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:20:15):
I am, I'm everything to everyone, that's right? Something like that? Yeah,
all right?

Speaker 3 (01:20:21):
Waiting by the phone from the vault. He's two minutes
away after metro boom and Fred shows up.

Speaker 1 (01:20:28):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show.

Speaker 3 (01:20:33):
Hey, Leslie, good morning, Hi, good morning, welcome to the program.
Here we are doing waiting by the phone with you,
miss Leslie. What's going on with this guy?

Speaker 4 (01:20:41):
Tim?

Speaker 3 (01:20:42):
We got to know the background, how you met, about
any dates that you've been on, and then you know
kind of what's.

Speaker 15 (01:20:47):
Going on now, Yeah, I mean I wish I knew
what was going on. Well, we met on we met
on one of the apps, you know, the usual that's
how you meet people.

Speaker 4 (01:20:55):
Nowadays, and that's right here he went.

Speaker 15 (01:20:58):
Right, Yeah. We went to two really nice dinners. I mean,
I thought he was very handsome and nice, and I
was really excited for our third date because I feel
like the third date you really get to know the
other person. You know, you're still showing off, but it's
not like it's a little bit more in depth.

Speaker 3 (01:21:18):
I guess, Well, for some people, the third date is
like the boom boom date. You know, for some people
they look at it that way.

Speaker 15 (01:21:24):
Well maybe you know, I guess it depends that the
night takes you that way.

Speaker 16 (01:21:27):
But I'm definitely not.

Speaker 15 (01:21:29):
Opposed to it. But anyway, so that never gave through,
So never had a third date. Unfortunately, he just stopped
reaching out after our second date, and I have no
idea why.

Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
Okay, so you look back on these dates, you thought
everything was normal, you had a great time, you liked
this guy, you were certain there would be a third date,
and then and now nothing. Have you reached out to
him or were you like, look, this guy's got to
call me, he's got to text me and ask me out.

Speaker 15 (01:21:57):
No, I did reach out. I texted. I didn't call it,
but I texted and I was like, hey, haven't heard
from you. I was wondering if you want to go
on a on another date?

Speaker 4 (01:22:07):
And I never heard anything and nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:22:08):
He ghosted you there, Okay, all right, so definitely ghosting.

Speaker 4 (01:22:11):
So yeah, I don't know. This possible, something's going on.
Who knows?

Speaker 3 (01:22:14):
Things are weird these days. Let's call this guy out,
is it Big Tim? Let's call Tim. Well, you don't know.
If you don't know, you don't know, but we're gonna go.
We're gonna call Tim.

Speaker 4 (01:22:26):
Oh yeah, let's make this call.

Speaker 3 (01:22:27):
Yeah, we're gonna see if we're gonna see his kiky's boyfriend,
Big Tim. That would explain everything. But how unlucky would
that be?

Speaker 4 (01:22:34):
Man's single? Single?

Speaker 10 (01:22:37):
He is but not he be not be answering his son.

Speaker 4 (01:22:42):
We'll see and we'll ask some questions.

Speaker 3 (01:22:46):
A little spicy in that response, and uh, and let's
see we can figure out what's up and hopefully we
can set you guys up on another date that we
pay for. Okay, thank you, We're gonna find out what's
going on. Part two of waiting at the phone you
don't want to miss. It's two minutes away after a
hose yere Red shows on the French Show is on,

(01:23:09):
by the way, Hoshier at our. iHeart radio Music Festival
free trips if you listen to us long and hard. Hey, Leslie, Hi,
welcome back. Let's call Tim. You guys met on a
dating app. You went on two dates. You thought the
days went great. You're right there, Oka, you make some
noises about you.

Speaker 15 (01:23:25):
I'm just like, I'm nervous. I'm nervous because I don't
I genuinely have no idea.

Speaker 3 (01:23:30):
Yeah, yeah, I'm filling the people in here in case
they missed it. But like you went on two days,
you thought there'd be a third. You reached out. He's
not responding, definitely ghosted. You want to know why? Yeah,
all right, let's call him now. Good luck, Leslie, good luck?

Speaker 9 (01:23:50):
Hi?

Speaker 4 (01:23:51):
Is this Tim? Hey? Tim?

Speaker 3 (01:23:58):
I'm sorry to bother you. She's like, why does this
people call living at me till my name is Fred.
I'm calling for the Fred Show and I'm sorry to
bother it, but I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now, and I would need
your permission to continue with the calls that Okay, if
we talk for a little bit.

Speaker 4 (01:24:12):
Okay, I know it's a little.

Speaker 3 (01:24:14):
Bit strange, but we're calling on behalf of a woman
who meant you on a dating app. I guess you
guys went on a couple of dates. Her name is Leslie.
Uh yeah, okay, Well, Leslie reached out to us and
told us that she enjoyed meeting you and felt like
the dates that you went on went well, and she
was hoping to see you again, but says that you

(01:24:35):
haven't responded to her or called her or initiated a
third date, and she's kind of wondering why you're ghosting.

Speaker 4 (01:24:41):
Yeah, I just didn't really think it was a match.

Speaker 3 (01:24:45):
Okay, Well, you did go on two dates, so and
she felt differently, So why why do you feel that way?

Speaker 17 (01:24:52):
I mean, it's just, you know, one of those those things,
you know.

Speaker 15 (01:24:55):
He's just like, you know, I mean.

Speaker 3 (01:24:57):
I don't know nothing, I don't So I mean, would
you mind like sort of indulging us here with a
little bit like why do you think that's the case,
because we're just going to tell her and then she'll
understand why, but or maybe she won't, but at least
she'll have answers why why wasn't it a match?

Speaker 4 (01:25:12):
All right? I mean if you guys really want to know,
we really want to know.

Speaker 1 (01:25:18):
Honestly, she was just like like way dressed, like way
too sexy on all these dates.

Speaker 3 (01:25:26):
Like I'm personally complaining about that. Yeah, I'm always telling
the people, like what is the deal? Why are we
not wearing tracksuits on dates? So what I'm always saying
this to the people. What what?

Speaker 15 (01:25:38):
What?

Speaker 4 (01:25:38):
What was she wearing that was too sexy? Like please explain?
I mean like the first date or boobe were just
like all out and second or ass was like literally
in a god dress, Like.

Speaker 3 (01:25:51):
She sounds terrible. Don't go out with her again, go
out with her because she's going out with me. But anyway, okay,
so so so too much skin. You thought the outfit
was a little a little too risque for your taste.

Speaker 4 (01:26:04):
It's like everybody's staring, so it's like it's not you know,
but not in like a you know, I don't know,
I'm just not into that count.

Speaker 3 (01:26:13):
So you're a little bit more modest, and you felt
like she was a little bit more out there a
little flashier.

Speaker 15 (01:26:19):
Something.

Speaker 3 (01:26:20):
I'm Sorrylie, Leslie's here. I forgot to mention that I'm
sorry about that. Tim I for some reason, it just
slips my mind. Leslie don't. Yeah, yeah, please by all means, I.

Speaker 15 (01:26:30):
Just feel like I can wear whatever I want. So
like I'm a little confused, Like we live in a
society where that's like, actually, okay, so I'm just confused.

Speaker 4 (01:26:42):
I guess. No, I totally agree with you. You can
absolutely where everyone.

Speaker 17 (01:26:46):
It's just not going to be with me.

Speaker 3 (01:26:48):
I mean that is true that he has a right
as suppose to what he's attracted to or when he
thinks is appropriate, and you don't have to align on that.

Speaker 4 (01:26:55):
I mean, I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:26:56):
Yeah, I don't think what you did was wrong. I
don't necessarily think every man would feel the same way.
I think some guys would be at that, and he's not.

Speaker 15 (01:27:04):
I guess I totally get that. But like, next time
I reached out, it'd be one thing if I just
let it go. But I've reached out to you. The
least you could have done was respond with this, because
like you just ghosted, and.

Speaker 4 (01:27:18):
We're adults, so you may not like the way I.

Speaker 15 (01:27:21):
Dress, but you can just respond and say I'm not interested,
or even straight up say I don't like the way
you dress.

Speaker 3 (01:27:29):
Therefore, Leslie, did he say to you I don't like
the way you dress? What would that have resulted in
you not going out again? And you're not changing? But
you would have been mad?

Speaker 15 (01:27:39):
No, if he didn't ghost, if he just said, hey,
I'm not interested, I would have been Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:27:45):
Yeah, I'm not going to fight it.

Speaker 15 (01:27:46):
I'm not going to try and convince someone to like
me or find me attractive. But ghosting someone there's no closure, Like,
I don't know how you If I don't know how
you feel, why would I not continue to reach out
to you.

Speaker 3 (01:27:59):
I mean, I know a lot of people about this,
but like, I don't know, I would have a very
difficult time reaching out to you and telling you I
wasn't interested because of the way you dressed. Like I
think I would probably reach out.

Speaker 15 (01:28:08):
To him, though, like I'm finally with the one, I'm
not saying right to him.

Speaker 3 (01:28:13):
I just don't think it's for me to have to
tell you. I don't think it's even appropriate for me
to even project onto you how you should act. If
it's not for me, it's just not for me, So
I'm not defending him. Yes, in a perfect world war
all grown ups and we communicate. But I don't know
if the reason that I was uncomfortable going out with
you again was because of your attire. I'm not sure

(01:28:33):
if I have the balls to text you and say
your attire turns me off, I think I would just
fade away, because what's where's the win there? Your feelings
are going to be heard, you're not going to change,
and you shouldn't change, and we're still not going to go.

Speaker 15 (01:28:46):
He doesn't have to tell me why you're.

Speaker 4 (01:28:50):
Interesting. That's it.

Speaker 15 (01:28:52):
Yeah, you can generically say like, hey, I.

Speaker 4 (01:28:54):
Just don't work out, that's it.

Speaker 15 (01:28:57):
I'm not going to ask questions. I'm going to say, Okay,
thank you for the response. I appreciate your candor.

Speaker 4 (01:29:02):
I have a hot take. I don't, Yeah, what's the
hot takes?

Speaker 7 (01:29:05):
The hot take if someone once told me this and
it's actually really true, Like no response is a response,
so like getting ghosted.

Speaker 4 (01:29:10):
Like I've been ghosted. I hate it, but at least I.

Speaker 7 (01:29:13):
Know like where we stand, Like okay, no response is
a response, like you have no interest in me?

Speaker 4 (01:29:17):
Done?

Speaker 7 (01:29:17):
Like that is a form of closure. Too, not a
hot take, maybe just my own take. Yes, it's not great.
I agree that.

Speaker 4 (01:29:22):
I would also say, I mean i've been ghosted.

Speaker 15 (01:29:26):
Like yeah, no response is a response if something negative occurred,
But like, we had a good time. So I would
hope that even if you don't like the way I dress,
you have enough respect for me or for women in general,
just to say, hey, I'm not interested, because when you don't,
you don't have to like the way I dress. My
shirts are score, my skirts are short, and my tops

(01:29:50):
are low. But that's the way I dress. You don't
have to like it, but you that doesn't mean that
I'm not a human being with feelings.

Speaker 4 (01:29:58):
So you can just sayunderstood, I.

Speaker 15 (01:30:00):
Don't see this going anywhere, and I'll move on. I'm
now I'm moved on because of this conversation. But we
could have avoided this by you just sending a simple text.

Speaker 4 (01:30:10):
There you go.

Speaker 15 (01:30:10):
You didn't even have to get on the phone with me.

Speaker 4 (01:30:12):
All right, Well, there you have it, Tim, I mean,
you know, I like he's so I think we got it. No,
he's probably heard it. No, I And it's nice, Tim,
it's good. So something to think about. And uh, yeah,
I feel like there's a little after school special kind
of kind of vibe going here. But Tim, something to
think about and maybe we end this amicably, maybe right.

Speaker 15 (01:30:34):
Yeah, I know I'm fine, Like I don't. I'm not
upset or anything.

Speaker 4 (01:30:38):
I I just wish I U Yeah, no, A good
definitely for a woman who doesn't want any mystery.

Speaker 5 (01:30:45):
It's definitely no mystery.

Speaker 4 (01:30:47):
Which she looks like naked? Damn, you'll never know.

Speaker 7 (01:30:49):
Bro.

Speaker 15 (01:30:49):
Yeah, I look really good.

Speaker 4 (01:30:51):
I show up my Bobby.

Speaker 15 (01:30:52):
I'm young and I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:30:52):
Hard, you know, I don't know. I don't. I feel
like I get it talking to you.

Speaker 15 (01:31:00):
For each other, because like I like the way I dress.

Speaker 4 (01:31:03):
Hey, I want to know. I want to know, Tim,
what what what kind of woman you're looking for? Like
drink like a.

Speaker 3 (01:31:08):
Nice mom jean an a turtleneck? I mean, what are we?
What are we talking about here? Like a cheek goes unfit?

Speaker 4 (01:31:12):
Like what are we? And Taylor lost? What are we?
What are we doing here?

Speaker 17 (01:31:16):
I don't need to go that far of the other extreme,
just somewhere in the middle of the road.

Speaker 3 (01:31:20):
Okay, all right, hey, well look to each here's are
her own guys. I'm sorry talking to work out, but
thank you both for your time and for your transparency.

Speaker 4 (01:31:27):
I wish you both the best. You got it.

Speaker 12 (01:31:29):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:31:30):
The Entertainer Report, trending stories, headlines to start your Tuesday
and fun fact all next Fread show back get two minutes.

Speaker 1 (01:31:37):
Caitlin's Entertainer Report is on the Fread show.

Speaker 6 (01:31:40):
A female tourist in the UK is likely regretting one
stop on our tour of London as she held a
issue with one of King Charles guard horses.

Speaker 4 (01:31:49):
And you need to.

Speaker 6 (01:31:49):
Watch the video, but this woman barely has time to
pose for a photo with the horse when it takes
a big bite out of her arms. She runs away,
starts screaming, falls to the ground. It's not funny, but
it is funny.

Speaker 4 (01:32:00):
Is just the horse that Pauline is trying to adopt,
hopefully not because.

Speaker 6 (01:32:04):
It took a big old chunk well, I mean a
bite and it's tafe for showing now. While it sucks
that she got hurt, she was warned about the risk
of injury. Even in the video you can see a
sign that says beware horses may kick or bite.

Speaker 4 (01:32:17):
But I guess she won't forget her trip to London.

Speaker 6 (01:32:20):
Were to check out online Today the trailer for the
new season of Emily in Paris and the Cardboard Beds
are back. If you know you know Fredshire Radio dot
com fingernails.

Speaker 4 (01:32:30):
The fun Fact today is about fingernails. All right, we'll
do it next.

Speaker 1 (01:32:36):
More Fread Show. Next The Fread Show is on Fread's
Fun Fact.

Speaker 9 (01:32:43):
Fred so much, guys, did you know?

Speaker 1 (01:32:54):
Did you know?

Speaker 3 (01:32:56):
The longest fingernails ever record belong to Lee Redmond and
they reached over twenty eight.

Speaker 4 (01:33:05):
Feet Now, who was wiping his butt? It's a woman,
I think her, but her bud. I have a lot
of questions. Yes, yeah, that's a that's a very good
you have an invested in a day. My goodness, you
need more than a bidet. I mean, twenty eight feet long.
These fingernails nasty and they like curl.

Speaker 2 (01:33:25):
You know.

Speaker 4 (01:33:29):
All I can think of is I guess like when
you die, your fingernails keep growing. Oh so like that's
what it looks like. You know. That's why I want
to be turned into a tree with fingernails, A tree
with long.

Speaker 6 (01:33:40):
Finger nails made it and then made into a no
no fingernails like grandmother Willow.

Speaker 4 (01:33:43):
And you guys can come talk to me. Yeah, well,
I think I'll be a tree before you.

Speaker 1 (01:33:50):
More Pread Show Next, The Fresh Show is on.

Speaker 3 (01:33:57):
Good Morning Everyone, Tuesday, July twenty third, The Free The
Show is not Hi Caitlin, Jase, sincere Rofio, Hello, Hi Paulina,
hikek Morning Showy Shelley. We'll get to blogs in just
a second. The Entertainer Report after that. What are you
working on?

Speaker 4 (01:34:09):
Kaitlin? An influencer made a very very big and bad mistake. Okay,
it's not great. Well yeah I heard about this one.
Yeah one good? No, not good at all, not the
right o OTD no outpadets for this.

Speaker 3 (01:34:28):
But I'm still curious how she fact Yeah I howould
get all that stuff in one bet?

Speaker 4 (01:34:34):
What kind of bag was it? But right, you know,
outfit changes which she taking her temperature into consideration. I'm
not worried about a lot of this stuff. We don't
always need out padus No, no, no, we don't.

Speaker 3 (01:34:44):
Tomorrow on the show New Waiting by the Phone Game
Show Wednesday, Kik Karaoke and more, a tiebreaker would show
Bi Shelley, So have us on tomorrow.

Speaker 4 (01:34:51):
On the radio on the iHeart Yeah they talk better
than they.

Speaker 3 (01:34:57):
These are the radio blogs on the French running in
our diaries, except we say them aloud.

Speaker 4 (01:35:02):
We call them blogs. We got kind of a joint one.
Are you uh? Are you leading this one? Rufiel?

Speaker 13 (01:35:07):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:35:08):
Sure, because I've only heard about this sort of secondhand.

Speaker 3 (01:35:11):
So I need to I need, I need, I need
to get caught up. This involves our weekend getaway that
we're taking as a show. It does, okay, go ahead,
please thank you dear blog. So, as you guys know,
we're taking this trip this weekend. And we all asked
what what do we do?

Speaker 4 (01:35:26):
What are we doing?

Speaker 8 (01:35:27):
And then Jason Brown, who's kind of even charge of
this whole thing, is like, oh, there's an option to golf.

Speaker 4 (01:35:32):
Do you want a golf roofiel?

Speaker 8 (01:35:33):
And I was like, oh, yeah, I think I can
make time to golf, and and I was like should
I bring my clubs? Are the clubs the rent? And
then Fred was like, oh, I think you just bring
your clubs. It's just a carry on, you know what
I'm saying whatever, like it's a check bag. And then
Paulina chimes in and says, hey, can I join you
to golf? And I said, I don't know, why not?

(01:35:59):
What is this not a PGA event.

Speaker 4 (01:36:01):
This is not this is not the time to take
the time.

Speaker 3 (01:36:06):
Was when would be the time when you're playing TV,
when you're when you're playing pebble beaches.

Speaker 4 (01:36:16):
At the time. You you never going to play golf
on a golf course. Is that's not how you do?
Like you gotta he's going to play golf on a
golf course. It's not how you golf? Okay, the time
if not for the first time. No, I've done haunting trails,
I've done it all that mini golf.

Speaker 3 (01:36:35):
So you basically you want you need to focus on
your game and you want you don't want to have
to like coach anybody or helpful.

Speaker 4 (01:36:40):
Yeah right, I'm not going to sit there and be
like this is how you hit the ball, this is
this is where you got to do.

Speaker 8 (01:36:44):
This is all right, let's let's drive. Let's take the
card five feet because that's where you hit it. You know,
that's not that's not that's not my thing. So you
would rather go out there by yourself? Yes, then take
her and coach her and exact time, right, Like what sir? Surprising?
You're such a nurturing guy. I would have figured you'd
be all about I will be happy to give Pauline

(01:37:07):
the lessons starting at a driving range where that's all
we're doing.

Speaker 4 (01:37:11):
Is it's so sweet, like she wants to wake up
early and spend time with you. When else are you
guys gonna get that alone time? She could come with,
she could sit in the cart and just and just
cruise with me. But don't you dare pick up a club?

Speaker 1 (01:37:25):
No.

Speaker 7 (01:37:25):
His reaction yesterday was like, you know when you're little
and your parents make you take your little sibling with,
you have to come.

Speaker 4 (01:37:30):
That's literally what we had.

Speaker 3 (01:37:31):
We were like, you got to take Paulina with your golfing, right,
I mean I have to go if you want to come,
more than change your heart.

Speaker 4 (01:37:47):
It was so sad to watch. She was like, can
I come? And he's absolutely not. He's saying that because
because he knows you probably will say no, oh I'm going.
I'm okay. Well, I always wanted to golf. I always
just like you've always wanted to own a horse. Right,
this is this is the same thing. She's serious. I
am very serious. Outfits. I'll bring you a nice coffee,

(01:38:08):
I'll drive the cart. No no, no, you're not driving
in any car. I was gonna say, I'm getting charged
by this cart ending in the lake. I'm seeing you drive.
That's that's where I draw the line. Okay, you can
go golf and you can't drive anything. Oh my god,
I prefer you just keep the golfing. You can play
a golf club. I'll drive the car.