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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Beautiful thing.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Hey, Dmitri, Hey, how are you? Hey man
doing okay, welcome to the program. Here we are waiting
by the phone. Of course. Why don't you tell us
what's going on with this woman, Kelly? We got to
know all the backstory. How did you meet?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then where things are now?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
So you know, I apply to Hinch and you know,
I'm sure you know adding comments on these girls and
you're trying to find the wand and you know you.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Mean adding comments where you like, you'd like you're matching
with people and then giving them commentary on themselves. Think
they accept everybody and they let on there over and
over again.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, so on hints, you.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Can like add a comment if you want, like basically
like oh you're your beautiful smile or your you.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Know, when you like the picture, you can add something.
You're exactly right. I just never do that. Yeah, yeah,
that's a lot of work, but like stand out. So
I got you, Okay, So you you were commenting on
stuff and stuff, so you matched with Kelly?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yes, I did. I was surprisingly I'm like, oh wow.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
So we talked for like a while, and then we
even plan out a date, you know, which was surprisingly
because usually I don't get that far. But you know, yeah,
for a while she ghosted me, and I was like,
what the heck?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
So you yeah, yeah, Caitlin, So you guys never went
I'm just trying to figure out this story.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
No, we never went, like we were like very close,
but then like she ghosted.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Me icy, So this was never even a date. I mean,
this was simply chatting that you thought was going somewhere.
So you got ghosted before you could get ghosted, right, huh? Okay,
well I don't know, so huh. Well, let's see we
can get her on the phone and and let's she
remembers you and and we'll see if we can figure
out maybe why she did that. Okay, Okay, I'm gonna
(02:01):
play one song, Dmitri. We'll come back and do it
in the second.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Hang on, we're.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Gonna find out what's going on a pot of It's
after Sabrina Carpenter in two minutes, Part two of Waiting
about the phone on The Fred Show.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
It's the Fred Show. Good morning.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We're on the radio, of course, and the iHeart app
anytime search for the Fred Show on demand. Dimitri, Yes,
welcome back. Let's call Kelly. You guys met on Hinge.
We actually never really met. You just matched and messaged
and then Kelly kind of ghosted before you could ever
finalize plans to go out, right, That is true? All right, Well,
let's call her now and let's see if we can
(02:34):
figure out what's going on with her.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, good luck, thank you?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Is this Kelly?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Yah?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Hi Kelly.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
My name is Fred. The whole crew is here for
the Fred Show and this is kind of a weird one.
But I would need your permission to continue talking because
we are on the air.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Is that okay?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
If we chat for a second. Sure, I know, kind
of startling, but this is waiting a phone and a
dude reached out to us who you've actually apparently never met,
but you matched with him and chatted with him on
the dating app pin.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
His name is Dimitri. Do you remember this guy?
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Uh huh yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
All right, Well, he reached out to us and thought
he was close to a day with you. Thought things
were really headed in the right direction, but then apparently
you stop communicating with him. Before the date could happen.
And he's a little bit confused about that.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Uh huh, yeah, I mean he was close to a
date with me, and then what happened was he literally
asked me for my snapchat before the date. Okay, and
we all know what we all know what snapchat is.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
For, right, Uh Well, I thought I did. I mean,
it's for nudes. But I also thought, like I thought,
that's how people some people communicated these days too, gen
Z does.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yeah, yeah, but we're not gen Z. I mean, like,
to me, that was a major red flag for someone
of my age to be like asking for that.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, I kind of agree, Yeah, so.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, I mean clearly you know, yeah, I mean, was
the conversation was it sexual in nature at all? Was
it flirty? Was it like, you know, was there any
part of the dialogue that would have led him to
believe that that that was appropriate.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I mean, it was flirty, but like not in an
inappropriate way. But then it suddenly went from like zero
to one hundred, and I was like whoa, like, yeah,
absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, I hear that. I get that. Uh as a
guy who uh.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Has a Snapchat, Well I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I don't have a snapchat, but I don't know, I do,
but not for that. Let me bring Dimitrian Dimitri. I'm sorry, Kelly,
I forgot to mention that Dimitri is here, but I
want to be clear on that now. So you Dmitri,
you were trying to get cute and maybe get some
sexy photos. That is correct, Okay, all right? I mean,
why here's the thing?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Can't be real? I mean, why not?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Just I guess the snapchat thing is kind of a
Koy way, or an really a Koy way. It's sort
of an indirect way of asking for it. Why not
just ask for it? Why not just say, hey, like,
what's up with some pictures or something? I mean, I
don't know, why not If that's what you're after, why
not just say what you want and take the risk
of that person's not gonna like you anymore.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Well, you know, that's the way we everyone communicates. So
that's why ask.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Her for her snapchat? Okay, okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
So you thought, okay, she gives it to me, then
that implies that I'm that she's gonna send me, you know,
graphic photos, maybe sexy photos maybe maybe.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Yeah, and you know, potentially go out and you know,
that was the whole goal.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
But I guess she didn't like that.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah, I mean that's not going to be for everybody.
A lot of people are are sex positive, some people
are not. It sounds like she wasn't into it. Sounds
like it was a little early in the game for her.
I mean, Kelly, is there any circumstance under which you
would have played that game with someone who you hadn't met? No?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Absolutely not, Like you're clearly a boy.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
If like, if.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
You're asking a stranger for nudes like that, that point
to the type of person that you are, So like
you can wait until after you know, our like third
date or whatever, when we had already had sex to
like ask you know, it's like it to me, it's gross.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Oh see.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
To me, it's like, you know, if you're gonna you know,
shamey nwds and whatnot, that's an indication for me that
you know, we're heading it all really well.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I mean that that would be that indication. Yeah, that's.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Like you're really improving all of the points I'm making,
you know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Know, I see both sides of this, because sometimes conversation,
in my experience, does lead there early on, and it
gets flirty and that sometimes you know, you can figure
out what people are on the apps trying to achieve,
especially if you're straightforward, you know with what you're looking for.
I think also though, if someone is looking for a
(06:55):
relationship where they're looking for, you know, something more stable
or or you know, less sex forward, then they don't
want to hear that upfront.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
And that's your right.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
But Dimitri, you got to know that that's I mean,
that's sort of read the room on this man. Like
you went there, she stopped responding to you. That's the
that's the problem, right, But if she I want to
be mad about.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
He's literally just like on the site, we get as
many duds as possible.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah, oh Jmitri, Okay, well look that's not a Kelly.
I assume this isn't gonna this isn't for you. You're
not that he didn't talk. Yeah, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Glad I found out before we actually went.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
On a date. Hey, look, if you're gonna swing big,
and I've been there, I'll admit it. You swing big
and you might with you know, and then you might
you might, you might hit on it. You know, somebody
might be into it. She's not.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
But you got to know when you do that it
may not work and you can't be mad about it.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Yeah it's okay, I'll find the one that liked it.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
So does this work for you often? I know the answer,
by the way, But does it work for you often? Not? Really?
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Oh yeah, oh well for him? That's the thing.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Is like I always say when talking about dating apps
and the things that it's like. For example, I know
guys who lead with pictures or they lead, they lead,
they lead with something very sexual like friends of female
friends of mine. You guys have shown me stuff, I
mean stuff that I would never ever, ever, ever ever
ever do, just very very forward. And these people are
(08:46):
like this is disgusting. I can't believe. And a lot
of people probably feel that way. But these guys are
not doing this stuff if it never works, you know
what I mean. I'm telling you this, like, these guys
don't swing like that. If I see it on TikTok too,
Guys who talk about their approach with women and how
they're extremely forward off the bat and it works. I mean,
so it must work for someone just to meet you
(09:07):
want just well, Kelly, wasn't the one? Sounds like no
one is the one for your approach to Beetri. No
for this approach. Oh yeah, I would suggest a new
approach for you, Tomit.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Yeah, I'll think about it.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
The more you know, the more you know. Okay, Kelly,
thank you for your time. I'm really sorry to bother Dmitrie.
Good luck out there.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Man.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
The entertainber of for Kaylin has that next after the
weekend trending stories and fun fact all on the way
next to Fred Show is back in two minutes.
Beautiful thing.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Hey, Dmitri, Hey, how are you? Hey man
doing okay, welcome to the program. Here we are waiting
by the phone. Of course. Why don't you tell us
what's going on with this woman, Kelly? We got to
know all the backstory. How did you meet?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then where things are now?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
So you know, I apply to Hinch and you know,
I'm sure you know adding comments on these girls and
you're trying to find the wand and you know you.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Mean adding comments where you like, you'd like you're matching
with people and then giving them commentary on themselves. Think
they accept everybody and they let on there over and
over again.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, so on hints, you.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Can like add a comment if you want, like basically
like oh you're your beautiful smile or your you.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Know, when you like the picture, you can add something.
You're exactly right. I just never do that. Yeah, yeah,
that's a lot of work, but like stand out. So
I got you, Okay, So you you were commenting on
stuff and stuff, so you matched with Kelly?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yes, I did. I was surprisingly I'm like, oh wow.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
So we talked for like a while, and then we
even plan out a date, you know, which was surprisingly
because usually I don't get that far. But you know, yeah,
for a while she ghosted me, and I was like,
what the heck?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (01:31):
So you yeah, yeah, Caitlin, So you guys never went
I'm just trying to figure out this story.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
No, we never went, like we were like very close,
but then like she ghosted.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Me icy, So this was never even a date. I mean,
this was simply chatting that you thought was going somewhere.
So you got ghosted before you could get ghosted, right, huh? Okay,
well I don't know, so huh. Well, let's see we
can get her on the phone and and let's she
remembers you and and we'll see if we can figure
out maybe why she did that. Okay, Okay, I'm gonna
(02:01):
play one song, Dmitri. We'll come back and do it
in the second.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Hang on, we're.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Gonna find out what's going on a pot of It's
after Sabrina Carpenter in two minutes, Part two of Waiting
about the phone on The Fred Show.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
It's the Fred Show. Good morning.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
We're on the radio, of course, and the iHeart app
anytime search for the Fred Show on demand. Dimitri, Yes,
welcome back. Let's call Kelly. You guys met on Hinge.
We actually never really met. You just matched and messaged
and then Kelly kind of ghosted before you could ever
finalize plans to go out, right, That is true? All right, Well,
let's call her now and let's see if we can
(02:34):
figure out what's going on with her.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, good luck, thank you?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
Is this Kelly?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Yah?
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Hi Kelly.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
My name is Fred. The whole crew is here for
the Fred Show and this is kind of a weird one.
But I would need your permission to continue talking because
we are on the air.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Is that okay?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
If we chat for a second. Sure, I know, kind
of startling, but this is waiting a phone and a
dude reached out to us who you've actually apparently never met,
but you matched with him and chatted with him on
the dating app pin.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
His name is Dimitri. Do you remember this guy?
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Uh huh yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
All right, Well, he reached out to us and thought
he was close to a day with you. Thought things
were really headed in the right direction, but then apparently
you stop communicating with him. Before the date could happen.
And he's a little bit confused about that.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Uh huh, yeah, I mean he was close to a
date with me, and then what happened was he literally
asked me for my snapchat before the date. Okay, and
we all know what we all know what snapchat is.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
For, right, Uh Well, I thought I did. I mean,
it's for nudes. But I also thought, like I thought,
that's how people some people communicated these days too, gen
Z does.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yeah, yeah, but we're not gen Z. I mean, like,
to me, that was a major red flag for someone
of my age to be like asking for that.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, I kind of agree, Yeah, so.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, I mean clearly you know, yeah, I mean, was
the conversation was it sexual in nature at all? Was
it flirty? Was it like, you know, was there any
part of the dialogue that would have led him to
believe that that that was appropriate.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I mean, it was flirty, but like not in an
inappropriate way. But then it suddenly went from like zero
to one hundred, and I was like whoa, like, yeah,
absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, I hear that. I get that. Uh as a
guy who uh.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Has a Snapchat, Well I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I don't have a snapchat, but I don't know, I do,
but not for that. Let me bring Dimitrian Dimitri. I'm sorry, Kelly,
I forgot to mention that Dimitri is here, but I
want to be clear on that now. So you Dmitri,
you were trying to get cute and maybe get some
sexy photos. That is correct, Okay, all right? I mean,
why here's the thing?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Can't be real? I mean, why not?
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Just I guess the snapchat thing is kind of a
Koy way, or an really a Koy way. It's sort
of an indirect way of asking for it. Why not
just ask for it? Why not just say, hey, like,
what's up with some pictures or something? I mean, I
don't know, why not If that's what you're after, why
not just say what you want and take the risk
of that person's not gonna like you anymore.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Well, you know, that's the way we everyone communicates. So
that's why ask.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
Her for her snapchat? Okay, okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
So you thought, okay, she gives it to me, then
that implies that I'm that she's gonna send me, you know,
graphic photos, maybe sexy photos maybe maybe.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Yeah, and you know, potentially go out and you know,
that was the whole goal.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
But I guess she didn't like that.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah, I mean that's not going to be for everybody.
A lot of people are are sex positive, some people
are not. It sounds like she wasn't into it. Sounds
like it was a little early in the game for her.
I mean, Kelly, is there any circumstance under which you
would have played that game with someone who you hadn't met? No?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Absolutely not, Like you're clearly a boy.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
If like, if.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
You're asking a stranger for nudes like that, that point
to the type of person that you are, So like
you can wait until after you know, our like third
date or whatever, when we had already had sex to
like ask you know, it's like it to me, it's gross.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Oh see.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
To me, it's like, you know, if you're gonna you know,
shamey nwds and whatnot, that's an indication for me that
you know, we're heading it all really well.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I mean that that would be that indication. Yeah, that's.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Like you're really improving all of the points I'm making,
you know, I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Know, I see both sides of this, because sometimes conversation,
in my experience, does lead there early on, and it
gets flirty and that sometimes you know, you can figure
out what people are on the apps trying to achieve,
especially if you're straightforward, you know with what you're looking for.
I think also though, if someone is looking for a
(06:55):
relationship where they're looking for, you know, something more stable
or or you know, less sex forward, then they don't
want to hear that upfront.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
And that's your right.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
But Dimitri, you got to know that that's I mean,
that's sort of read the room on this man. Like
you went there, she stopped responding to you. That's the
that's the problem, right, But if she I want to
be mad about.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
He's literally just like on the site, we get as
many duds as possible.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah, oh Jmitri, Okay, well look that's not a Kelly.
I assume this isn't gonna this isn't for you. You're
not that he didn't talk. Yeah, yeah, I'm.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Glad I found out before we actually went.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
On a date. Hey, look, if you're gonna swing big,
and I've been there, I'll admit it. You swing big
and you might with you know, and then you might
you might, you might hit on it. You know, somebody
might be into it. She's not.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
But you got to know when you do that it
may not work and you can't be mad about it.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Yeah it's okay, I'll find the one that liked it.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
So does this work for you often? I know the answer,
by the way, But does it work for you often? Not? Really?
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Oh yeah, oh well for him? That's the thing.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Is like I always say when talking about dating apps
and the things that it's like. For example, I know
guys who lead with pictures or they lead, they lead,
they lead with something very sexual like friends of female
friends of mine. You guys have shown me stuff, I
mean stuff that I would never ever, ever, ever ever
ever do, just very very forward. And these people are
(08:46):
like this is disgusting. I can't believe. And a lot
of people probably feel that way. But these guys are
not doing this stuff if it never works, you know
what I mean. I'm telling you this, like, these guys
don't swing like that. If I see it on TikTok too,
Guys who talk about their approach with women and how
they're extremely forward off the bat and it works. I mean,
so it must work for someone just to meet you
(09:07):
want just well, Kelly, wasn't the one? Sounds like no
one is the one for your approach to Beetri. No
for this approach. Oh yeah, I would suggest a new
approach for you, Tomit.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Yeah, I'll think about it.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
The more you know, the more you know. Okay, Kelly,
thank you for your time. I'm really sorry to bother Dmitrie.
Good luck out there.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
Man.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
The entertainber of for Kaylin has that next after the
weekend trending stories and fun fact all on the way
next to Fred Show is back in two minutes.
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