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Speaker 1 (00:00):
In Bread show. This is what's trending. I'm a text
eight sixty four. Keep your expectations low and the day
can always get better. That's the way to do it.
Get just approach every day like it's going to suck,
and then if something good happens, why then that's right. Yeah,
problem solved. I'm a single mom who works full time.
This is from two sixty nine, and I don't want
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to be at work, but I don't necessarily want to
be at home either. Sometimes I'll say an extra few
minutes after work and take my time getting home. That's
my relaxed time.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I feel you.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
I get that. So now Paulina's volunteering for everything over here.
She's like, yeah, you guys need anything else?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, the next pot luck that's me hosting.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Yeah, yeah, Yes, she's trying to get a show on
the Religious Station.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yes, sonya call me?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I know. Yeah, what would that sound like? What would
be your first topic of conversation on the Religious station? Well,
if your show starts today at ten am, what are
you going to do?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Oh at ten am?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah? Today? Like today? Right? Well, I mean you're trying
to extend your day, okay, I mean you love your kid,
but like as soon as you go home, then the
kids attached to you and what are you going to do?
Or in the case of last week, she was attached
to you at work too, so there was no escape
for you.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
There was none.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
She came with me, no, and she and I are
negotiating right now. Actually we're thinking about, you know, moving
on to the next generation. We're thinking about wishing at
your best in your future endeavors. And we're going to
slide Gigi in here already. Yeah, yeah, just she's beautiful
and she is didn't have a lot to say, you know,
she was crazy. She was very easy to manage, it seemed,
and so yeah, we're.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Just she took her headphones added on video.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
She's a very expensive she did. She still headphones from
the studio, but she's very expensive. I'm dealing with her
people right now and it's like unbelievable agents and managers
and I'm like, what on earth? So what's what's the
first topic of the conversation today on the New Religious
Show with Paulina.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
We're going to discuss today on the show right by
Religious Show, We're going to have a special guest. Yeah,
We're going to have the Vatican personally call in.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
The Vatican, entire Vatican City, the city itself. Basic gonna
call it to Inspiration thirteen ninety later on today. Okay, wow,
what's that gonna be? And what's the time of conversation
Paulina from the from the Vatican, the whole Vatican.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Well, some may not appreciate this. I might, but I've
been talking about a rebrand for the church. Correct, wow,
And I don't think I actually.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
It's a good idea.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
I think so do.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I don't think Inspiration the thirteen ninety is a Catholic station,
but I.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Will make it that.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Oh wow, yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
And when we talked to you the whole Vatican, Okay,
that's good. No, this is great.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Yes. And then after the Vatican calls, well, I'm gona
I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
First, so the show is based in New York. Now,
all of a sudden, the cools, the cooling, all right,
I know, it's great praise with Paulino right here. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Wow, we're a little little chat. We're gonna We're gonna
talk about the rebrand. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
I'm talking here, I'm walking and I'm talking and we're
gonna talk about the rebrand, and then after that, Kirk
Franklin's gonna come back.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, I got the big gun.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Wow the first day and Kirk and Brown on there.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I don't know after he's after.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Me life after Altered boy A Yeah, that's actually it's
called Altered Boy Reveal. You should trademark that. I think.
I think a lot of people feel that way after religion.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Needs to get tomatoes. Potatoes girl too. She's heard talk
to you, Yes, yes, thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I didn't know her.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
You talk to you for your first day and inspiration talk.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
To yeah yeah yeah. She comes on Sundays usually a turn.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Wow. She has her own because usually wow, this this
is the impression. Really took a turn. We love Everybody
trending stories is wanting a dangerous heat wave. It says
it's returning, but I think it kind of has and
it started yesterday. A dangerous heat waves returning to the
central and eastern US this week. Forecaster said they'll be
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unseasonably hot temperatures in the upper Midwest and mid Atlantic,
where it could feel like anywhere between one hundred and
five and one hundred and fifteen degrees due to humidity,
The heat is projected to rise in the Midwest through
today and will eventually shift to the mid Atlantic and southeast.
By the middle of this week. Many areas in the
Midwest we'll see temperatures over ninety What are they saying
almost one hundred today?
Speaker 5 (04:29):
You could get to the heated next one hundred and fifteen.
Stop it, just stop it. I know something is supposed
to be over yeah, but then it starts to cool down.
So and I feel like that ondly I talking about weather,
but like that's a it's yesterday was wild, today's wild.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Stop it right now. Inter Oh, here comes our fair
and balance reporting, guys, fair and balanced. It turns out
the surprise guest at the DNC. Oh, by the way,
all the right is all the people on the rights
to be very happy to hear this. The surprise guest
of the DNC was not Beyonce, It was not Taylor Swift,
it was not George W. Bush. You know who it was.
(05:04):
You know what it was. It was COVID. Apparently, positive
test results for the virus are starting to come in
from people who attended the convention, including some of the
staff of Vice President Kamala Harris. So far sources to
say the symptoms of the age are mild, and spokespeople
for the Harris campaign and the Democratic Convention haven't applied
to requests for comment from NBC News as of last night.
(05:24):
But yeah, wouldn't that be something if it's just a
crazy outbreak of COVID in the United Center and then
McCormick Place and a lot of people that work you
were there, well then in the iHeart radio stations too.
It was so cool at this point. Yeah, right, I'm like,
what is the protocol? Now here we go? There are
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like eight versions of the bag. I don't see here
we go, you and your propaganda's yes that I can't
even talk about any of this stuff. Surely we can
balance the story, Kiki, with a Republican story. Go ahead,
say something about Republicans. Put your head.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
I don't want to play this game exactly, something about
the protocol for COVID exactly, because I feel like we
all just get sick and then we try to send
each other a picture like I got tested and then
it's like the test may be negative, maybe positive.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
I don't know, but like if it is positive, what
do I do?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I don't I don't really know. I will admit I
kind of stopped the vaccines a long time ago, so
I don't I don't get every new I don't doubt
every new version. I don't get every new version of
the vaccine. You know, like when it's just time for
an update, I'm like.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Software updates and they're done that do we have to
It's like an iPhone?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, exactly, That's where I'm going with it. It's like,
what do I get for this? Oh, you're gonna fix
the fitness app. I'm okay, I don't use that one anyway.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
We'll get like a text for email, Hey, this person
got COVID, And then I come to work the next
day that person's at work. I'm like, what do I
don't know?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
What are we doing here? I really don't know, Honestly,
I don't know anymore. I would assume if you have
COVID that you should stay at home, but I don't know.
And I also don't know if anyone's even bothering to
test anymore. If they're just like I got the cold,
or I have a cold, or I have allergies or what,
and it's just we're just going on like normal business.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Like truly, how is it different from having a fluoric
I don't understand, you know what I mean. Some can
be worse, some can be better. So it's like and.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Then I don't even know if the tests I have
test different variants. I really don't know at this point.
I'm very confused. If I don't feel well, I just
don't go around people, and we're just that's what I'm doing.
And I'm not sure if that's what Fauci would say.
But I think he has COVID right now. Honestly, I
think he actually right now has a respiratory issue. I
think I read that yesterday. So I won't be able
to ask doctor Fauci. I normally had call in, but
he's busy. Bark Air this is a real thing and
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their first flight is Thursday, and they're trending. Bark Air
is launching their first ever airline catered to dogs. It's
the first ever airline catering to dogs. It started by
the pet company Bark. The airline aims to revolutionize flying
for dogs and makes its first flight on Thursday from
New York to LA A domestic flight will cause about
six thousand dollars a ticket domestic flight six grand to
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go across the country an international ticket eight thousand dollars each.
The company will offer white Paws service and ear muffs
and treats for puppies.
Speaker 8 (08:13):
Oh that's cute. I mean I can't afford that. That's cute. Yeah,
I guess is it dogs only? I think the human
we don't know where they are. The human and the
dog goes together, Buddy, I.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Go somewhere warms. Yeah, they have no idea.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
They can't tell their butt from a hole in the ground.
They don't know where they're going.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
I don't like the price. I don't like this for dogs.
That's not right. You see, I'm regular people as well.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
I think you get to go. And then I think
it's also more of like a private jet environment, like
I think it's an actual like pj I somehow, I
don't think it's like, you know, an airbus or a
Boeing and homeways on that Boeing spaceship they're using. Because
we don't trust that thing, nothing can happen. I love
that because whenever I fly the dogs, you know, for
pilotan pause, I swear to you everybody, every new rescue
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at work with I'll meet them and we'll load the
dogs up, and they'll go are the dogs going to
be okay? And I'm like, are the dogs gonna be okay?
Are the dogs going to be okay? Is the pilot
gonna be okay? He is a nice question to ask
as well, And the answer is a pilot is going
to be okay, which means the dogs are going to
be okay. That being said, I am far more concerned
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about the comfort of the dogs on the plane than
I am myself or the people. So this is a
baseball story, Jays. I'm surprised you weren't running in here
this morning to tell me, or you were. Actually it
was the first thing you couldn't wait to tell me.
You might mean a parking lot to tell me this.
But this may come up someday on Jeopardy or if
there's a sports Jeopardy, or we ever go up against
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Aaron Rodgers or whatever, because he's actually a very smart guy.
I'm reading his book right now and I hate to
say this, but it's fascinating. It really is. I'm not
an Aaron Rodgers guy. He didn't write the book. It's
an unauthorized biography about him. Okay, he didn't comment. He
did sit down and make some comments on answer some
questions towards the book, but he did not say, like,
write this book and then I'll get the money. The
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guy wrote it about him. It's interesting though, talks about
his obviously his playing career and how he wasn't drafted early.
He went from the number one draft pick to number
twenty four draft pick, and his family stuff and it's interesting.
But anywayship, yeah, yeah, this guy named Danny Jansen became
the first Major leaguer ever to appear on both sides
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of a baseball box score. He played for the same
to play for two different teams in the same game.
Oh wow, he got traded in the middle of the game,
so he got So what happened was he took the
field for Boston on Monday in the continuation of a
range lad game that he started for Toronto in June
before he was traded to the Red Sox, so he
played the game back in the day they rescheduled it.
By the time they got back to this game, he
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was now playing for a different team. I dated a
girl whose dad played for two different teams in the
same day, and I think that maybe his last name
is young Blood. I think that may be the which
a cool ass last name. Yeah, but it may be
the only person who's ever done that. He played, and
I believe Chicago was involved. I think he played for
somebody and he was at Wrigley and they traded him
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during a day game. During the game, they traded him,
so he was like okay, and they're like, you can
go to a hare and catch a flight and get
to New York to play for the Mets. You can
get to New York by the night game. And so
he drove to a cab. I guess he got his
crap because like, you're not on his team anymore. So
he took his little bag and he went out and
he got a cab, and he went to O'Hare and
he went up to the ticket counter and he bought
a ticket. I think this was in the nineties. And
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he flew to New York and he played at Chase
Stadium in that game too, and he had a hit.
I think the status he had a hit in both games.
Speaker 9 (11:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Well, he's the man known for getting two hits for
two teams in one day.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
There you go, there you go.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
It looks like it was he was. He was on
the Mets playing against the Cubs in Wrigley and then
I don't know where he ended up. Then he got
traded to the Exposer. Yeah, maybe that was it. It
was something like that.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Anyway, so they're like, you're out of here, and he's like, okay,
So he just went and then went to another team
and they're like, okay, you're in. You're playing tonight. You
made it in time. But anyway, there's your stat this guy,
he's the first to play for two teams in the
same game. Technically. The top party school in the US
has been announced. And I don't know why I did
not consult this list when I was looking for colleges
(12:14):
to go to. I don't know why this wasn't you
know Princeton Review, Top Schools, Top fifty schools, all this stuff. No,
why was not looking at the right list. The University
of California at Santa Barbara has been ranked the top
party school for the third straight year. How bad could
that possibly be? The University of Santa Barbara? What nice
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possibly could be bad about that? California, It's a beach town.
It's I mean, unbelievable. Five hundred thousand student reviews they
asked to come up with this, or they ask these
people to come up with it. The five categories that
are used to create the ranking spots include bar accessibility,
restaurant access, Greek life, school athletics, and transparent student surveys.
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One student set. It's literally heaven on earth. As long
as you don't overdo it. You have to prioritize school
of for partying because the academic load is rigorous. The
University of Oklahoma at second place and the University of
Cincinnati the bear Cats took the third spot. So I'm
not sure what a bear cat is but the bear
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and the cat. But can you reason with that? Probably
certainly I could, especially in Cincinnati. If I had that
spaghetti chili combo with the onions on top, what do
they call that? Yeah? If I had that, I just
I would negotiate. It would be fine. Joel young Blood
is the guy that's a Joel young Blood and his
hot ass daughter. I don't know, Okay, it doesn't matter.
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And Mary, she's a wonderful person. I wish you will.
She's a boyfriend I think as for a while. She's
the one I see. Never mind, I'm not getting into this.
She's the one I see on inadvertently on whatever. The app,
the money app is the one that shows you who's
paying Boom. She's constantly paying for stuff with some guy
and I'm like, you don't pay for anything when you
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dated me. You know how you can see like the
spending history. We've talked about it before, and it doesn't
tell you how much they spent, but you can see
who's paying home and like a little is a venmo
that does that? Yeah, And there's a little comment there
and like I noticed that. I guess because we're friends.
This is a great stalking tool that people don't know
about because I guess if they're in your phone book
in the app is attached to your phone book, then
it will show up and you'll see people's like you
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know who they've sent money to and who they've received
money from. And she's constantly sending money into this guy,
like and it will be like for dinner, it'll be
like a little picture of food and I'm like, I
paid for every day. Hell's going on here? And new
research shows that US based social media users use more
curse words than those in any other country. In a
state by state breakdown, Maryland residents swear the most, then Louisiana, Georgia,
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and Virginia respectively. The top ten cursing capitals in the
US were then rounded out by Ohio, Mississippi, Pennsylvania, and
that of New Jersey and Michigan. It's where they cust
the most. I love a good cuss word.
Speaker 9 (14:57):
I do.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
It's National Just Because Day, which means do something you
want just because and make your day great before eight
thirty six or whatever. I told you. It's gonna be
a good one today, right right, Yes, okay, cool, The
entertainment of the Bread Show is on. It's stay or go.
Danny's here. Good morning, Danny. How you doing?
Speaker 10 (15:22):
Hey, good morning?
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I gots them all right, Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny. You
ever had a Philly cheese steak egg roll? By the way,
They're delicious, aren't they. They were invented right here exactly.
You're talking to delay.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
Now.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
I know there's some question about maybe the nineties. People
say in the nineties, But no, Kiki put him on
the mask, right, He's never had mine. No, But Danny,
that's not That's not why you called about the Philly
cheesteak eggroll. You called about something else. What is that?
Speaker 10 (15:51):
Yeah, I'm calling actually about my relationship that I'm in.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
I need a little advice.
Speaker 10 (15:58):
I have been dating this girl for four months and
we recently had this conversation that seems like a little
bit of a red flag here. We were talking about
our exes and she admitted that she has cheated on
her most recent ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
She said she knows it's wrong.
Speaker 10 (16:20):
And she said she wouldn't do it again.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
But I'm like, like, how would I know that?
Speaker 10 (16:25):
You know, like I appreciated her honesty, but like like
I just like can't imagine cheating on a partner, and like,
I guess the thing is, like it wouldn't be that
big of a deal to it was like a ex
boyfriend from like years and years ago, but she said
it was like a recent ex boyfriend, and I kind
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of like believe that, saying, like once a cheater, always
a cheater. So now I've just got it in my
head that like this this girl is a cheater, and
I don't know if I should like break up with
her now before it becomes a problem where if I
should think it out and then like but I feel
like if I stick it out and I'm just gonna
get cheated on later.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
I don't know, did you ask any questions? I mean,
not that not that is ever a reason to cheat,
But I mean did she I mean, was it just
flat out like yeah, I was seeing him and then
another guy and started hooking up with that guy. I mean,
was it like very flip? I mean, how does she
tell you this? Did it seem like it was just
a normal thing for her to do, or like did
she justify it? Did she say to you, I cheated
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on him and I feel terrible about it. I mean,
was there any remorse or like, you know, anything like that,
any emotion.
Speaker 10 (17:32):
No, she just kind of like breathed over it. Like
we were talking about and the people that we had
dated in the past and why like why we broke up,
and she just said, you know, name the other guy's name.
She's like, yeah, I ended up cheating on him. And
that's when I started to date so and so, and I, you.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Know, cheated on him.
Speaker 10 (17:51):
She was like two guys at the like, she cheated
on one, they broke up, cheated on another. They broke up.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
And now she's seen me and.
Speaker 5 (17:57):
I'm like twice you see now you're not the recipient
of that said, like she wasn't cheating on this guy
with you, right?
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Correct? Yeah, I'm not matter. I don't know how like,
what's your problem you're with her? Now, That's what I'm saying. Okay,
So eight five five five one three five is the
number of college group therapy Danny's I gonna say, I
my opinion on this has changed a little bit. I
can I think there are situations where, like, people screw up,
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you know, maybe there are a lot of different ways
that can happen. But like if it's a one time,
no strings attached and I know this is like I'm
really like, you know, sort of splitting hairs here. But
if it's a one time, no strings attached situation where
you made a mistake and the person's not a part
of your life and never will be and whatever, maybe
And I also, by the way, think that if it's
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truly a one time deal and you truly believe in
your heart that you screwed up, and you truly believe
that it's not something that you could find yourself ever
doing again, I also, hot take believe that you that
goes with you, you get buried with that. I don't
know that you necessarily should be telling your partner that
you did that. And this is controversial, but this requires
a lot of self awareness that sometimes people who are
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willing to cheat don't have. But my thing is a
lot of times when people cheat and then they go
tell the other person, their partner that they cheated, that's
about them, that's not about their partner. They're not trying
to They're trying to get it off their chest and
basically put that on someone else who then gets to
live with that so that they can feel better. If
you screwed up one time, truly, I think you got
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to go down with that. That's a separate thought. But
somebody who's cheated more than once, I think that's a
personality disorder. And then this is coming from a non
licensed therapist me untrained, non licensed, I think it speaks
to the fact that they see themselves as more important
than everybody else. If it's habitual. If you're somebody who
constantly I would say twice before you the most recent relationships,
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she cheated twice, it strikes me as somebody who just
doesn't necessarily to care about about other people as much
as you might think. And it strikes me somebody who
will put her needs above others one time, maybe depending
on the situation, multiple times. That's a person who is
only concerned with herself in my opinion, in which case
I think it's a bad sign, and I think you
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should go.
Speaker 7 (20:18):
Guys thoughts, I agree. I don't understand why she's telling
him that she cheated like that, then you're comfortable, like yeah,
like why would you ever tell your new partner that
you cheated? And if you if she if you were
the side dude at one point, Danny, like you were
her side piece. Just know, you know, how you get
them is sometimes how you lose them. That's what the
lady tell me.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
It's for the lady.
Speaker 7 (20:39):
Yeah, the wise lady that the wise lady that ates me.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Yeah, this relationship, he should go.
Speaker 5 (20:44):
Yeah, I mean it's it's already in his head that
he's gonna get cheated on, like he's never gonna stop.
And that could be the same problem with the other
two guys. She could have told those guys, oh, I
cheated on somebody, and then they're never going to forget that.
They'll be, you know, in your business suspicious all the time,
and she's just gonna end up cheating on you.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
So do you actually walk away from someone who your
relationship is good, you love them, and nothing has happened
to you. Can you walk just walk away clean and
never think of them again.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
If you cheated more than once and you're willing to
tell me about it, it's almost like you're foreshadowing what
might happen to you. Yes, so that you can say, well.
Speaker 4 (21:20):
Totally, like in your relationships, like deep conversations about mistakes
you made in the past, how you've grown.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
I think a mistake is one time calein. I think
if you cheat on somebody one time, that's the mistake.
I think if you if you can cheat on someone
more than once, got me. Yeah, that's that's where I'm at.
One time. Let's have a conversation about it. Let's sit down,
let me understand what was happening. Let me understand why
you thought that that was a good idea or why
you didn't. That's another thing, is you know if she
were like, yeah, I did cheat once and it's the
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worst thing I ever did, and I'm so remorseful, and
you know, there really seems to be like a weight
on her or him or whomever it was you know
that was cheating. That really makes you feel as though
they learned from it. That's something that I might, I
might lean into a little further. But for her to
be like, yeah, I cheated twice.
Speaker 4 (22:03):
It was recent, recent relationship, Like we give addicts another chance,
Like what if somebody does the work, Like maybe if
you think it's a personality disorder, what if somebody shows
that they want to work on it.
Speaker 1 (22:13):
You know, I don't know if I think it. I
mean maybe maybe like an addiction specialist or something, or
a mental health specialist, maybe they would put those things together.
But if anything, I think there's a lot.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Of things that people struggle with.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
I mean, shopping can be an addiction that somebody genuinely
needs help for and you're gonna leave somebody over.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
I'm just trying to show another side.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
Of it in fantas though, no matter what it is,
it doesn't mean you have to stay, of course not.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
But I wouldn't be able to walk away from a
relationship where nothing bad happened, and it happened in their
past now two times is where I understand where you're
coming from.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
But I would never let it go in my head
what maybe could have been.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
But he's never gonna let it go that she's she
cheated on two people, Like it's gonna be in his
head then, yeah, that's what I'm saying in his head
that she's gonna cheat on me.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
She's gonna cheat on me, and she with head attitudes,
she probably will end up cheating. Let me take some
calls here, Danny, and you can listen to the radio
or iHeart and I hope it works out for you.
Thanks for sharing, man, Good luck, Thank you. Eight five
five five three five. Danny's been with a woman for
four months and she admitted pretty casually. It sounded like
(23:16):
that she has cheated on the last two guys she's dated.
And you talk about alcoholism or whatever, narcissism, it's like,
I don't necessarily know. I mean, you can give somebody
a chance, I guess, but like, let's say this woman
is narcissistic and that's why she's doing these things. Well, right, well,
so as addiction, So is alcohol and drug addiction. You
could treat it, but it's it's a it's a disease.
(23:37):
I don't I don't think it's curable.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
But there's no like program for like narcissists can't become
not narcissists, like addicts can be sober.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
Sure, that's true, you know what I mean? I don't know.
I don't have enough and I don't know enough to
compare the two. But what I can say is one
seems one is chemical, and one, more often than not,
in my opinion, is a choice. And by the way,
even a narcissistic person's making a choice to cheat. I
don't think, Oh, I do think. I think people, but again,
(24:05):
this is just my personal opinion. I still think there's
a thought process going on. And even if there's not,
that person's put themselves above you, end of story, end
of story. And they put themselves above other people now
multiple times in the recent history, multiple times. That's a
big thing for me. Is I mean one, people screw up, right,
People make mistakes. One time you cheated on the last
(24:25):
two guys you dated. We can we go back a
little further? Can we zoom out a little bit? What
about before that? I don't like it. I don't like it. Hey, Brittany,
good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 9 (24:36):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
What do you think when you hear this dayre.
Speaker 11 (24:38):
Go so coming from someone who's just got out of
a five year relationship where he was cheating on me.
The whole time, and I stayed and hope that he
would change. My thing is that it's only four months
in and if this was a long time ago, and
like you said, if she was like it was one time,
it was the worst this suson I ever made in
my life, I could probably move past it. But like
(25:00):
Luciel said, this was so recent and she was just
so openly like, yeah, cheer on this one. Oh yeah,
then I cheer on this one. It would stay in
my mind like she's gonna seat on me, and it
would eat at me every single day, and it would
end up just ruining the relationship.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Anyway.
Speaker 11 (25:15):
Now, I do understand where Canon's coming from as well,
but like I said, at the same time, me personally,
it would just eat at me every single day and
it would just ruin the relationship. Anyway.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
I'm sorry that happened to you, by the way.
Speaker 11 (25:26):
Yeah, I know it's it's okay. Me and my daughter
were better now, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Good. Good Brittany, thanks for calling, Thanks for sharing.
Speaker 11 (25:36):
Thank you, love you guys.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Have a good day. I love you too. Have a
great day. Hey Jessica, good morning, Welcome.
Speaker 7 (25:41):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
How are you hi there? What do you think, sayre go,
what do you think? What do.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
I think he should go?
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Yeah? Why?
Speaker 9 (25:51):
I think that that's anxiety that you'll just never get over.
I had something similar happened to me. He ended up
seeing me with not only one, but two girls. He
now has a baby with one of them, and it's
a trauma thing like you can't control what other people do, unfortunately,
so you just like kind of like he said, like
(26:13):
the way you get him, the way.
Speaker 5 (26:14):
You lose them.
Speaker 9 (26:15):
Completely agree.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Yeah, I think you really have to ask the questions,
gauge the reaction, gauge if there's any emotion or pain
attached to it. And you got to look at this situationally.
I mean, someone who's done this back to back, by.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
The way, is that just how he heard it the
information delivered, or is that actually how it was delivered.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
I'm just trying to play devil's advocate.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
Well, I don't know that we can.
Speaker 11 (26:38):
I think that if he goes to ask questions and
she kind of, you know, gets defensive about it, I
think you have your answer.
Speaker 9 (26:45):
No answer is the answered.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Okay, Yeah, Jessica, thank you, have a good day. I
don't know that there's another side of love you I
don't know if there's another side to repetitive habitual cheating.
I don't know if there is another Say hey, Kayla,
you're a therapist. Oh good, someone who knows the hell
they're talking about.
Speaker 10 (27:01):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (27:02):
Hi, how are you certain? I'll speak for myself, I
don't know what the hell I'm talking about. What do
you think?
Speaker 11 (27:08):
Well, so I.
Speaker 12 (27:10):
Am a licensed therapist and I'm about to be taking
my clinical license exams.
Speaker 11 (27:14):
So the first thought that I had really was just.
Speaker 12 (27:17):
You know that there it didn't seem like there was
much conversation about how he was feeling about what she said,
you know, and he didn't like come to her and say, hey,
you said this thing that bothered me, and I kind
of want to talk about it to see to kind
of get what her reaction would be. Because if you
don't talk about the feelings, you know, it's not going
(27:38):
to work out. And if she's kind of still flippant,
like you said, Fred, I mean, I think he probably
should go at that point. But if she's going to
have a conversation and say, you know, I did feel
bad about this and this was something that I was
having an issue with, and now I'm trying to work
on it or be different. That's one that's something different completely.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
Yeah, I mean I guess, But do you believe, Kayla,
that somebody who does this repetitively, do you believe that
it might speak to something sort of deeper or at
least a sort of overarching in that this person may
have an issue believing that they're more important than other people,
or they may have an issue, you know, putting their
(28:21):
needs above others. I mean, again, one time, let's talk
about it, let's dig in, let's try and figure this out,
but multiple times, and that's what we know about. That's
in recent history. A lot of people are texting going, hey,
can we hear about can we hear about like your
past relationships? Like it is really the first two times?
And you know what I mean, right, I mean, don't
you look at that and say, this person might not
(28:42):
really care what I think?
Speaker 8 (28:45):
Right?
Speaker 12 (28:45):
And I actually think that you made a good point
because if you connect all those dots together and it
continues to be an habitual problem, I'm seeing like the
lack of empathy there, which kind of might go towards
a little bit of narcissism and not saying it's a
personality disorder, but I think it definitely lacks empathy. If
(29:06):
it's a habitual, over and over type of thing, then
you know, thinking you're better than other people, that might
be a serious issue to you know, have to dive into.
And maybe that's not even his his issue, you know,
to deal with with her, it's obviously hers. So I
just don't think that he should. He should at least
have one conversation or try to at least to see
(29:29):
where she stands with it. But if somebody cheats over
and over and over again and it's this pattern of dysfunction,
I really think that that's definitely something deeper with like
attachment styles. And I won't even go into that kind
of stuff.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
But I also think Kayla, and again unlicensed versus license
over here, Kayla, But it seems like projection to me.
And I said this before, but it almost seems like
she's coming clean early on, because it's like, well, this
might happen to you, and what it does. I told
you so, I told you that I have a terrible person,
and so I just want to he just heads up.
I mean, I you know, I mean it's been surprised,
(30:04):
you thought, you know, whatever, it seems it feels like that.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
I agree with you.
Speaker 12 (30:08):
I agree with you, Fred, I actually do.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
I think that you're right.
Speaker 10 (30:11):
Down that one.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Okay, good? So can you license me? Like by can
you because your license? Can can you then like hand
the license off to me? And can you? Are you
sanctioned to do that? Because I feel like I'm really
cool for it.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
I don't know if I can do that.
Speaker 12 (30:23):
I would if I could, but I definitely cannot do that.
But I've been listening to you guys for.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
Over ten years.
Speaker 12 (30:30):
I was in college, and so I just want to
say I love all of you guys so much, and
I'm I listen every single day.
Speaker 1 (30:38):
Well you are the best.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Kill you throw the summer.
Speaker 7 (30:42):
Because I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
The hell everybody's I'm over it. Now we're moving on.
I am god bless you. I think everybody did. I
just don't know what's going on. Thank you, Cale, I
have a good day.
Speaker 12 (30:53):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
You think maybe the Durabils started stopped running in the
little cage and the little wheel over at that anyway,
I don't know what I can say and not get fined.
I don't want to get fined. I'm just here, so
I don't get fined. Yeah, that's him. The entertainer reporting
is next. Kaylin's back and if you want to take
on show Big Shelley in the showdown one hundred bucks,
but you could make history today. She's never lost two
in a row eight five five five three five play
(31:16):
Next Spread.
Speaker 13 (31:17):
Show is on Friend's Fun Fact Fred Fun.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
So my friend, uh finance Casey sent me this Casey
who also is a book She's my book dealer. She's
like a drug dealer but with books. Uh, this woman
can read like a book a day, almost like a
book every couple of days. I don't. I mean, apparently
she's a gainfully employed to you, it's extremely sexy, like
I'm tingling in certain areas right now, my ankle, my
left elbow, you know those kind of areas. But then
(31:50):
she I don't. I wish I had that ability if
I had a super I have a few superpowers. I
wish I could like see people's thoughts as like a
pop up above their head. Yeah, I wish I could
really know what people were thinking. I really do.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
No, you don't.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
It would make I think, it'll make my life easier
because sometimes it's like anyway, but really, what I wish
I could do, honestly, is I wish I could like
just ingest information, like just look at a book and
be like and it just goes in my head and
I retain it. I would love to just have like
just be so smart and just know everything and like
just like, I like this topic over here, I want
(32:24):
to learn about this and then just go boo boo
boo boo boom, and it just downloads into my head.
And I know, yes, like that makes you just like
that anyway, but I can't. It takes me forever to
read a book for whatever reason. However, she sent me this.
Have you ever heard of corn sweat? Corn sweat? With
temperatures heating up in the Midwest, you might hear the
term corn sweat thrown around this week. It's from the
(32:44):
weather Channel. By the way, refers to a process by
which plants exhale water called evappo transpiration. This process peaks
in corn between mid July and late August, so corn
will give off about three thousand and four thousand gallons
of water every day. That added moisture in the air
that increases dew points and humidity. The corn itself will
(33:07):
make the place more humid where the corn is, which
is crazy anyway, So corn sweats. I just wanted you
to know that it gets hot and steamy, and it
gets turned on and it gets moist and it sweats.
Speaker 13 (33:19):
Same Yeah right, More Fresh show next
In Bread show. This is what's trending. I'm a text
eight sixty four. Keep your expectations low and the day
can always get better. That's the way to do it.
Get just approach every day like it's going to suck,
and then if something good happens, why then that's right. Yeah,
problem solved. I'm a single mom who works full time.
This is from two sixty nine, and I don't want
(00:22):
to be at work, but I don't necessarily want to
be at home either. Sometimes I'll say an extra few
minutes after work and take my time getting home. That's
my relaxed time.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I feel you.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
I get that. So now Paulina's volunteering for everything over here.
She's like, yeah, you guys need anything else?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, the next pot luck that's me hosting.
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Yeah, yeah, Yes, she's trying to get a show on
the Religious Station.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yes, sonya call me?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I know. Yeah, what would that sound like? What would
be your first topic of conversation on the Religious station? Well,
if your show starts today at ten am, what are
you going to do?
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Oh at ten am?
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah? Today? Like today? Right? Well, I mean you're trying
to extend your day, okay, I mean you love your kid,
but like as soon as you go home, then the
kids attached to you and what are you going to do?
Or in the case of last week, she was attached
to you at work too, so there was no escape
for you.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
There was none.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
She came with me, no, and she and I are
negotiating right now. Actually we're thinking about, you know, moving
on to the next generation. We're thinking about wishing at
your best in your future endeavors. And we're going to
slide Gigi in here already. Yeah, yeah, just she's beautiful
and she is didn't have a lot to say, you know,
she was crazy. She was very easy to manage, it seemed,
and so yeah, we're.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Just she took her headphones added on video.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
She's a very expensive she did. She still headphones from
the studio, but she's very expensive. I'm dealing with her
people right now and it's like unbelievable agents and managers
and I'm like, what on earth? So what's what's the
first topic of the conversation today on the New Religious
Show with Paulina.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
We're going to discuss today on the show right by
Religious Show, We're going to have a special guest. Yeah,
We're going to have the Vatican personally call in.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
The Vatican, entire Vatican City, the city itself. Basic gonna
call it to Inspiration thirteen ninety later on today. Okay, wow,
what's that gonna be? And what's the time of conversation
Paulina from the from the Vatican, the whole Vatican.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Well, some may not appreciate this. I might, but I've
been talking about a rebrand for the church. Correct, wow,
And I don't think I actually.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
It's a good idea.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
I think so do.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I don't think Inspiration the thirteen ninety is a Catholic station,
but I.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Will make it that.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Oh wow, yeah, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
And when we talked to you the whole Vatican, Okay,
that's good. No, this is great.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Yes. And then after the Vatican calls, well, I'm gona
I'm gonna.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
First, so the show is based in New York. Now,
all of a sudden, the cools, the cooling, all right,
I know, it's great praise with Paulino right here. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Wow, we're a little little chat. We're gonna We're gonna
talk about the rebrand. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
I'm talking here, I'm walking and I'm talking and we're
gonna talk about the rebrand, and then after that, Kirk
Franklin's gonna come back.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, I got the big gun.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Wow the first day and Kirk and Brown on there.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I don't know after he's after.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Me life after Altered boy A Yeah, that's actually it's
called Altered Boy Reveal. You should trademark that. I think.
I think a lot of people feel that way after religion.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Needs to get tomatoes. Potatoes girl too. She's heard talk
to you, Yes, yes, thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
I didn't know her.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
You talk to you for your first day and inspiration talk.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
To yeah yeah yeah. She comes on Sundays usually a turn.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Wow. She has her own because usually wow, this this
is the impression. Really took a turn. We love Everybody
trending stories is wanting a dangerous heat wave. It says
it's returning, but I think it kind of has and
it started yesterday. A dangerous heat waves returning to the
central and eastern US this week. Forecaster said they'll be
(04:09):
unseasonably hot temperatures in the upper Midwest and mid Atlantic,
where it could feel like anywhere between one hundred and
five and one hundred and fifteen degrees due to humidity,
The heat is projected to rise in the Midwest through
today and will eventually shift to the mid Atlantic and southeast.
By the middle of this week. Many areas in the
Midwest we'll see temperatures over ninety What are they saying
almost one hundred today?
Speaker 5 (04:29):
You could get to the heated next one hundred and fifteen.
Stop it, just stop it. I know something is supposed
to be over yeah, but then it starts to cool down.
So and I feel like that ondly I talking about weather,
but like that's a it's yesterday was wild, today's wild.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Stop it right now. Inter Oh, here comes our fair
and balance reporting, guys, fair and balanced. It turns out
the surprise guest at the DNC. Oh, by the way,
all the right is all the people on the rights
to be very happy to hear this. The surprise guest
of the DNC was not Beyonce, It was not Taylor Swift,
it was not George W. Bush. You know who it was.
(05:04):
You know what it was. It was COVID. Apparently, positive
test results for the virus are starting to come in
from people who attended the convention, including some of the
staff of Vice President Kamala Harris. So far sources to
say the symptoms of the age are mild, and spokespeople
for the Harris campaign and the Democratic Convention haven't applied
to requests for comment from NBC News as of last night.
(05:24):
But yeah, wouldn't that be something if it's just a
crazy outbreak of COVID in the United Center and then
McCormick Place and a lot of people that work you
were there, well then in the iHeart radio stations too.
It was so cool at this point. Yeah, right, I'm like,
what is the protocol? Now here we go? There are
(05:47):
like eight versions of the bag. I don't see here
we go, you and your propaganda's yes that I can't
even talk about any of this stuff. Surely we can
balance the story, Kiki, with a Republican story. Go ahead,
say something about Republicans. Put your head.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
I don't want to play this game exactly, something about
the protocol for COVID exactly, because I feel like we
all just get sick and then we try to send
each other a picture like I got tested and then
it's like the test may be negative, maybe positive.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
I don't know, but like if it is positive, what
do I do?
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I don't I don't really know. I will admit I
kind of stopped the vaccines a long time ago, so
I don't I don't get every new I don't doubt
every new version. I don't get every new version of
the vaccine. You know, like when it's just time for
an update, I'm like.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Software updates and they're done that do we have to
It's like an iPhone?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, exactly, That's where I'm going with it. It's like,
what do I get for this? Oh, you're gonna fix
the fitness app. I'm okay, I don't use that one anyway.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
We'll get like a text for email, Hey, this person
got COVID, And then I come to work the next
day that person's at work. I'm like, what do I
don't know?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
What are we doing here? I really don't know, Honestly,
I don't know anymore. I would assume if you have
COVID that you should stay at home, but I don't know.
And I also don't know if anyone's even bothering to
test anymore. If they're just like I got the cold,
or I have a cold, or I have allergies or what,
and it's just we're just going on like normal business.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Like truly, how is it different from having a fluoric
I don't understand, you know what I mean. Some can
be worse, some can be better. So it's like and.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Then I don't even know if the tests I have
test different variants. I really don't know at this point.
I'm very confused. If I don't feel well, I just
don't go around people, and we're just that's what I'm doing.
And I'm not sure if that's what Fauci would say.
But I think he has COVID right now. Honestly, I
think he actually right now has a respiratory issue. I
think I read that yesterday. So I won't be able
to ask doctor Fauci. I normally had call in, but
he's busy. Bark Air this is a real thing and
(07:42):
their first flight is Thursday, and they're trending. Bark Air
is launching their first ever airline catered to dogs. It's
the first ever airline catering to dogs. It started by
the pet company Bark. The airline aims to revolutionize flying
for dogs and makes its first flight on Thursday from
New York to LA A domestic flight will cause about
six thousand dollars a ticket domestic flight six grand to
(08:04):
go across the country an international ticket eight thousand dollars each.
The company will offer white Paws service and ear muffs
and treats for puppies.
Speaker 8 (08:13):
Oh that's cute. I mean I can't afford that. That's cute. Yeah,
I guess is it dogs only? I think the human
we don't know where they are. The human and the
dog goes together, Buddy, I.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Go somewhere warms. Yeah, they have no idea.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
They can't tell their butt from a hole in the ground.
They don't know where they're going.
Speaker 7 (08:33):
I don't like the price. I don't like this for dogs.
That's not right. You see, I'm regular people as well.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
I think you get to go. And then I think
it's also more of like a private jet environment, like
I think it's an actual like pj I somehow, I
don't think it's like, you know, an airbus or a
Boeing and homeways on that Boeing spaceship they're using. Because
we don't trust that thing, nothing can happen. I love
that because whenever I fly the dogs, you know, for
pilotan pause, I swear to you everybody, every new rescue
(08:59):
at work with I'll meet them and we'll load the
dogs up, and they'll go are the dogs going to
be okay? And I'm like, are the dogs gonna be okay?
Are the dogs going to be okay? Is the pilot
gonna be okay? He is a nice question to ask
as well, And the answer is a pilot is going
to be okay, which means the dogs are going to
be okay. That being said, I am far more concerned
(09:20):
about the comfort of the dogs on the plane than
I am myself or the people. So this is a
baseball story, Jays. I'm surprised you weren't running in here
this morning to tell me, or you were. Actually it
was the first thing you couldn't wait to tell me.
You might mean a parking lot to tell me this.
But this may come up someday on Jeopardy or if
there's a sports Jeopardy, or we ever go up against
(09:41):
Aaron Rodgers or whatever, because he's actually a very smart guy.
I'm reading his book right now and I hate to
say this, but it's fascinating. It really is. I'm not
an Aaron Rodgers guy. He didn't write the book. It's
an unauthorized biography about him. Okay, he didn't comment. He
did sit down and make some comments on answer some
questions towards the book, but he did not say, like,
write this book and then I'll get the money. The
(10:02):
guy wrote it about him. It's interesting though, talks about
his obviously his playing career and how he wasn't drafted early.
He went from the number one draft pick to number
twenty four draft pick, and his family stuff and it's interesting.
But anywayship, yeah, yeah, this guy named Danny Jansen became
the first Major leaguer ever to appear on both sides
(10:24):
of a baseball box score. He played for the same
to play for two different teams in the same game.
Oh wow, he got traded in the middle of the game,
so he got So what happened was he took the
field for Boston on Monday in the continuation of a
range lad game that he started for Toronto in June
before he was traded to the Red Sox, so he
played the game back in the day they rescheduled it.
By the time they got back to this game, he
(10:45):
was now playing for a different team. I dated a
girl whose dad played for two different teams in the
same day, and I think that maybe his last name
is young Blood. I think that may be the which
a cool ass last name. Yeah, but it may be
the only person who's ever done that. He played, and
I believe Chicago was involved. I think he played for
somebody and he was at Wrigley and they traded him
(11:08):
during a day game. During the game, they traded him,
so he was like okay, and they're like, you can
go to a hare and catch a flight and get
to New York to play for the Mets. You can
get to New York by the night game. And so
he drove to a cab. I guess he got his
crap because like, you're not on his team anymore. So
he took his little bag and he went out and
he got a cab, and he went to O'Hare and
he went up to the ticket counter and he bought
a ticket. I think this was in the nineties. And
(11:28):
he flew to New York and he played at Chase
Stadium in that game too, and he had a hit.
I think the status he had a hit in both games.
Speaker 9 (11:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Well, he's the man known for getting two hits for
two teams in one day.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
There you go, there you go.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
It looks like it was he was. He was on
the Mets playing against the Cubs in Wrigley and then
I don't know where he ended up. Then he got
traded to the Exposer. Yeah, maybe that was it. It
was something like that.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Anyway, so they're like, you're out of here, and he's like, okay,
So he just went and then went to another team
and they're like, okay, you're in. You're playing tonight. You
made it in time. But anyway, there's your stat this guy,
he's the first to play for two teams in the
same game. Technically. The top party school in the US
has been announced. And I don't know why I did
not consult this list when I was looking for colleges
(12:14):
to go to. I don't know why this wasn't you
know Princeton Review, Top Schools, Top fifty schools, all this stuff. No,
why was not looking at the right list. The University
of California at Santa Barbara has been ranked the top
party school for the third straight year. How bad could
that possibly be? The University of Santa Barbara? What nice
(12:35):
possibly could be bad about that? California, It's a beach town.
It's I mean, unbelievable. Five hundred thousand student reviews they
asked to come up with this, or they ask these
people to come up with it. The five categories that
are used to create the ranking spots include bar accessibility,
restaurant access, Greek life, school athletics, and transparent student surveys.
(12:56):
One student set. It's literally heaven on earth. As long
as you don't overdo it. You have to prioritize school
of for partying because the academic load is rigorous. The
University of Oklahoma at second place and the University of
Cincinnati the bear Cats took the third spot. So I'm
not sure what a bear cat is but the bear
(13:17):
and the cat. But can you reason with that? Probably
certainly I could, especially in Cincinnati. If I had that
spaghetti chili combo with the onions on top, what do
they call that? Yeah? If I had that, I just
I would negotiate. It would be fine. Joel young Blood
is the guy that's a Joel young Blood and his
hot ass daughter. I don't know, Okay, it doesn't matter.
(13:39):
And Mary, she's a wonderful person. I wish you will.
She's a boyfriend I think as for a while. She's
the one I see. Never mind, I'm not getting into this.
She's the one I see on inadvertently on whatever. The app,
the money app is the one that shows you who's
paying Boom. She's constantly paying for stuff with some guy
and I'm like, you don't pay for anything when you
(14:01):
dated me. You know how you can see like the
spending history. We've talked about it before, and it doesn't
tell you how much they spent, but you can see
who's paying home and like a little is a venmo
that does that? Yeah, And there's a little comment there
and like I noticed that. I guess because we're friends.
This is a great stalking tool that people don't know
about because I guess if they're in your phone book
in the app is attached to your phone book, then
it will show up and you'll see people's like you
(14:22):
know who they've sent money to and who they've received
money from. And she's constantly sending money into this guy,
like and it will be like for dinner, it'll be
like a little picture of food and I'm like, I
paid for every day. Hell's going on here? And new
research shows that US based social media users use more
curse words than those in any other country. In a
state by state breakdown, Maryland residents swear the most, then Louisiana, Georgia,
(14:46):
and Virginia respectively. The top ten cursing capitals in the
US were then rounded out by Ohio, Mississippi, Pennsylvania, and
that of New Jersey and Michigan. It's where they cust
the most. I love a good cuss word.
Speaker 9 (14:57):
I do.
Speaker 1 (14:58):
It's National Just Because Day, which means do something you
want just because and make your day great before eight
thirty six or whatever. I told you. It's gonna be
a good one today, right right, Yes, okay, cool, The
entertainment of the Bread Show is on. It's stay or go.
Danny's here. Good morning, Danny. How you doing?
Speaker 10 (15:22):
Hey, good morning?
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I gots them all right, Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny. You
ever had a Philly cheese steak egg roll? By the way,
They're delicious, aren't they. They were invented right here exactly.
You're talking to delay.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
Now.
Speaker 1 (15:37):
I know there's some question about maybe the nineties. People
say in the nineties, But no, Kiki put him on
the mask, right, He's never had mine. No, But Danny,
that's not That's not why you called about the Philly
cheesteak eggroll. You called about something else. What is that?
Speaker 10 (15:51):
Yeah, I'm calling actually about my relationship that I'm in.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
I need a little advice.
Speaker 10 (15:58):
I have been dating this girl for four months and
we recently had this conversation that seems like a little
bit of a red flag here. We were talking about
our exes and she admitted that she has cheated on
her most recent ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
She said she knows it's wrong.
Speaker 10 (16:20):
And she said she wouldn't do it again.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
But I'm like, like, how would I know that?
Speaker 10 (16:25):
You know, like I appreciated her honesty, but like like
I just like can't imagine cheating on a partner, and like,
I guess the thing is, like it wouldn't be that
big of a deal to it was like a ex
boyfriend from like years and years ago, but she said
it was like a recent ex boyfriend, and I kind
(16:45):
of like believe that, saying, like once a cheater, always
a cheater. So now I've just got it in my
head that like this this girl is a cheater, and
I don't know if I should like break up with
her now before it becomes a problem where if I
should think it out and then like but I feel
like if I stick it out and I'm just gonna
get cheated on later.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
I don't know, did you ask any questions? I mean,
not that not that is ever a reason to cheat,
But I mean did she I mean, was it just
flat out like yeah, I was seeing him and then
another guy and started hooking up with that guy. I mean,
was it like very flip? I mean, how does she
tell you this? Did it seem like it was just
a normal thing for her to do, or like did
she justify it? Did she say to you, I cheated
(17:25):
on him and I feel terrible about it. I mean,
was there any remorse or like, you know, anything like that,
any emotion.
Speaker 10 (17:32):
No, she just kind of like breathed over it. Like
we were talking about and the people that we had
dated in the past and why like why we broke up,
and she just said, you know, name the other guy's name.
She's like, yeah, I ended up cheating on him. And
that's when I started to date so and so, and I, you.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Know, cheated on him.
Speaker 10 (17:51):
She was like two guys at the like, she cheated
on one, they broke up, cheated on another. They broke up.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
And now she's seen me and.
Speaker 5 (17:57):
I'm like twice you see now you're not the recipient
of that said, like she wasn't cheating on this guy
with you, right?
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Correct? Yeah, I'm not matter. I don't know how like,
what's your problem you're with her? Now, That's what I'm saying. Okay,
So eight five five five one three five is the
number of college group therapy Danny's I gonna say, I
my opinion on this has changed a little bit. I
can I think there are situations where, like, people screw up,
(18:30):
you know, maybe there are a lot of different ways
that can happen. But like if it's a one time,
no strings attached and I know this is like I'm
really like, you know, sort of splitting hairs here. But
if it's a one time, no strings attached situation where
you made a mistake and the person's not a part
of your life and never will be and whatever, maybe
And I also, by the way, think that if it's
(18:50):
truly a one time deal and you truly believe in
your heart that you screwed up, and you truly believe
that it's not something that you could find yourself ever
doing again, I also, hot take believe that you that
goes with you, you get buried with that. I don't
know that you necessarily should be telling your partner that
you did that. And this is controversial, but this requires
a lot of self awareness that sometimes people who are
(19:11):
willing to cheat don't have. But my thing is a
lot of times when people cheat and then they go
tell the other person, their partner that they cheated, that's
about them, that's not about their partner. They're not trying
to They're trying to get it off their chest and
basically put that on someone else who then gets to
live with that so that they can feel better. If
you screwed up one time, truly, I think you got
(19:32):
to go down with that. That's a separate thought. But
somebody who's cheated more than once, I think that's a
personality disorder. And then this is coming from a non
licensed therapist me untrained, non licensed, I think it speaks
to the fact that they see themselves as more important
than everybody else. If it's habitual. If you're somebody who
constantly I would say twice before you the most recent relationships,
(19:56):
she cheated twice, it strikes me as somebody who just
doesn't necessarily to care about about other people as much
as you might think. And it strikes me somebody who
will put her needs above others one time, maybe depending
on the situation, multiple times. That's a person who is
only concerned with herself in my opinion, in which case
I think it's a bad sign, and I think you
(20:17):
should go.
Speaker 7 (20:18):
Guys thoughts, I agree. I don't understand why she's telling
him that she cheated like that, then you're comfortable, like yeah,
like why would you ever tell your new partner that
you cheated? And if you if she if you were
the side dude at one point, Danny, like you were
her side piece. Just know, you know, how you get
them is sometimes how you lose them. That's what the
lady tell me.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
It's for the lady.
Speaker 7 (20:39):
Yeah, the wise lady that the wise lady that ates me.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Yeah, this relationship, he should go.
Speaker 5 (20:44):
Yeah, I mean it's it's already in his head that
he's gonna get cheated on, like he's never gonna stop.
And that could be the same problem with the other
two guys. She could have told those guys, oh, I
cheated on somebody, and then they're never going to forget that.
They'll be, you know, in your business suspicious all the time,
and she's just gonna end up cheating on you.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
So do you actually walk away from someone who your
relationship is good, you love them, and nothing has happened
to you. Can you walk just walk away clean and
never think of them again.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
If you cheated more than once and you're willing to
tell me about it, it's almost like you're foreshadowing what
might happen to you. Yes, so that you can say, well.
Speaker 4 (21:20):
Totally, like in your relationships, like deep conversations about mistakes
you made in the past, how you've grown.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
I think a mistake is one time calein. I think
if you cheat on somebody one time, that's the mistake.
I think if you if you can cheat on someone
more than once, got me. Yeah, that's that's where I'm at.
One time. Let's have a conversation about it. Let's sit down,
let me understand what was happening. Let me understand why
you thought that that was a good idea or why
you didn't. That's another thing, is you know if she
were like, yeah, I did cheat once and it's the
(21:48):
worst thing I ever did, and I'm so remorseful, and
you know, there really seems to be like a weight
on her or him or whomever it was you know
that was cheating. That really makes you feel as though
they learned from it. That's something that I might, I
might lean into a little further. But for her to
be like, yeah, I cheated twice.
Speaker 4 (22:03):
It was recent, recent relationship, Like we give addicts another chance,
Like what if somebody does the work, Like maybe if
you think it's a personality disorder, what if somebody shows
that they want to work on it.
Speaker 1 (22:13):
You know, I don't know if I think it. I
mean maybe maybe like an addiction specialist or something, or
a mental health specialist, maybe they would put those things together.
But if anything, I think there's a lot.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Of things that people struggle with.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
I mean, shopping can be an addiction that somebody genuinely
needs help for and you're gonna leave somebody over.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
I'm just trying to show another side.
Speaker 1 (22:31):
Of it in fantas though, no matter what it is,
it doesn't mean you have to stay, of course not.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
But I wouldn't be able to walk away from a
relationship where nothing bad happened, and it happened in their
past now two times is where I understand where you're
coming from.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
But I would never let it go in my head
what maybe could have been.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
But he's never gonna let it go that she's she
cheated on two people, Like it's gonna be in his
head then, yeah, that's what I'm saying in his head
that she's gonna cheat on me.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
She's gonna cheat on me, and she with head attitudes,
she probably will end up cheating. Let me take some
calls here, Danny, and you can listen to the radio
or iHeart and I hope it works out for you.
Thanks for sharing, man, Good luck, Thank you. Eight five
five five three five. Danny's been with a woman for
four months and she admitted pretty casually. It sounded like
(23:16):
that she has cheated on the last two guys she's dated.
And you talk about alcoholism or whatever, narcissism, it's like,
I don't necessarily know. I mean, you can give somebody
a chance, I guess, but like, let's say this woman
is narcissistic and that's why she's doing these things. Well, right, well,
so as addiction, So is alcohol and drug addiction. You
could treat it, but it's it's a it's a disease.
(23:37):
I don't I don't think it's curable.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
But there's no like program for like narcissists can't become
not narcissists, like addicts can be sober.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
Sure, that's true, you know what I mean? I don't know.
I don't have enough and I don't know enough to
compare the two. But what I can say is one
seems one is chemical, and one, more often than not,
in my opinion, is a choice. And by the way,
even a narcissistic person's making a choice to cheat. I
don't think, Oh, I do think. I think people, but again,
(24:05):
this is just my personal opinion. I still think there's
a thought process going on. And even if there's not,
that person's put themselves above you, end of story, end
of story. And they put themselves above other people now
multiple times in the recent history, multiple times. That's a
big thing for me. Is I mean one, people screw up, right,
People make mistakes. One time you cheated on the last
(24:25):
two guys you dated. We can we go back a
little further? Can we zoom out a little bit? What
about before that? I don't like it. I don't like it. Hey, Brittany,
good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 9 (24:36):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
What do you think when you hear this dayre.
Speaker 11 (24:38):
Go so coming from someone who's just got out of
a five year relationship where he was cheating on me.
The whole time, and I stayed and hope that he
would change. My thing is that it's only four months
in and if this was a long time ago, and
like you said, if she was like it was one time,
it was the worst this suson I ever made in
my life, I could probably move past it. But like
(25:00):
Luciel said, this was so recent and she was just
so openly like, yeah, cheer on this one. Oh yeah,
then I cheer on this one. It would stay in
my mind like she's gonna seat on me, and it
would eat at me every single day, and it would
end up just ruining the relationship.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Anyway.
Speaker 11 (25:15):
Now, I do understand where Canon's coming from as well,
but like I said, at the same time, me personally,
it would just eat at me every single day and
it would just ruin the relationship. Anyway.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
I'm sorry that happened to you, by the way.
Speaker 11 (25:26):
Yeah, I know it's it's okay. Me and my daughter
were better now, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Good. Good Brittany, thanks for calling, Thanks for sharing.
Speaker 11 (25:36):
Thank you, love you guys.
Speaker 1 (25:37):
Have a good day. I love you too. Have a
great day. Hey Jessica, good morning, Welcome.
Speaker 7 (25:41):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
How are you hi there? What do you think, sayre go,
what do you think? What do.
Speaker 3 (25:47):
I think he should go?
Speaker 1 (25:49):
Yeah? Why?
Speaker 9 (25:51):
I think that that's anxiety that you'll just never get over.
I had something similar happened to me. He ended up
seeing me with not only one, but two girls. He
now has a baby with one of them, and it's
a trauma thing like you can't control what other people do, unfortunately,
so you just like kind of like he said, like
(26:13):
the way you get him, the way.
Speaker 5 (26:14):
You lose them.
Speaker 9 (26:15):
Completely agree.
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Yeah, I think you really have to ask the questions,
gauge the reaction, gauge if there's any emotion or pain
attached to it. And you got to look at this situationally.
I mean, someone who's done this back to back, by.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
The way, is that just how he heard it the
information delivered, or is that actually how it was delivered.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
I'm just trying to play devil's advocate.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
Well, I don't know that we can.
Speaker 11 (26:38):
I think that if he goes to ask questions and
she kind of, you know, gets defensive about it, I
think you have your answer.
Speaker 9 (26:45):
No answer is the answered.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Okay, Yeah, Jessica, thank you, have a good day. I
don't know that there's another side of love you I
don't know if there's another side to repetitive habitual cheating.
I don't know if there is another Say hey, Kayla,
you're a therapist. Oh good, someone who knows the hell
they're talking about.
Speaker 10 (27:01):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (27:02):
Hi, how are you certain? I'll speak for myself, I
don't know what the hell I'm talking about. What do
you think?
Speaker 11 (27:08):
Well, so I.
Speaker 12 (27:10):
Am a licensed therapist and I'm about to be taking
my clinical license exams.
Speaker 11 (27:14):
So the first thought that I had really was just.
Speaker 12 (27:17):
You know that there it didn't seem like there was
much conversation about how he was feeling about what she said,
you know, and he didn't like come to her and say, hey,
you said this thing that bothered me, and I kind
of want to talk about it to see to kind
of get what her reaction would be. Because if you
don't talk about the feelings, you know, it's not going
(27:38):
to work out. And if she's kind of still flippant,
like you said, Fred, I mean, I think he probably
should go at that point. But if she's going to
have a conversation and say, you know, I did feel
bad about this and this was something that I was
having an issue with, and now I'm trying to work
on it or be different. That's one that's something different completely.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
Yeah, I mean I guess, But do you believe, Kayla,
that somebody who does this repetitively, do you believe that
it might speak to something sort of deeper or at
least a sort of overarching in that this person may
have an issue believing that they're more important than other people,
or they may have an issue, you know, putting their
(28:21):
needs above others. I mean, again, one time, let's talk
about it, let's dig in, let's try and figure this out,
but multiple times, and that's what we know about. That's
in recent history. A lot of people are texting going, hey,
can we hear about can we hear about like your
past relationships? Like it is really the first two times?
And you know what I mean, right, I mean, don't
you look at that and say, this person might not
(28:42):
really care what I think?
Speaker 8 (28:45):
Right?
Speaker 12 (28:45):
And I actually think that you made a good point
because if you connect all those dots together and it
continues to be an habitual problem, I'm seeing like the
lack of empathy there, which kind of might go towards
a little bit of narcissism and not saying it's a
personality disorder, but I think it definitely lacks empathy. If
(29:06):
it's a habitual, over and over type of thing, then
you know, thinking you're better than other people, that might
be a serious issue to you know, have to dive into.
And maybe that's not even his his issue, you know,
to deal with with her, it's obviously hers. So I
just don't think that he should. He should at least
have one conversation or try to at least to see
(29:29):
where she stands with it. But if somebody cheats over
and over and over again and it's this pattern of dysfunction,
I really think that that's definitely something deeper with like
attachment styles. And I won't even go into that kind
of stuff.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
But I also think Kayla, and again unlicensed versus license
over here, Kayla, But it seems like projection to me.
And I said this before, but it almost seems like
she's coming clean early on, because it's like, well, this
might happen to you, and what it does. I told
you so, I told you that I have a terrible person,
and so I just want to he just heads up.
I mean, I you know, I mean it's been surprised,
(30:04):
you thought, you know, whatever, it seems it feels like that.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
I agree with you.
Speaker 12 (30:08):
I agree with you, Fred, I actually do.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
I think that you're right.
Speaker 10 (30:11):
Down that one.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Okay, good? So can you license me? Like by can
you because your license? Can can you then like hand
the license off to me? And can you? Are you
sanctioned to do that? Because I feel like I'm really
cool for it.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
I don't know if I can do that.
Speaker 12 (30:23):
I would if I could, but I definitely cannot do that.
But I've been listening to you guys for.
Speaker 2 (30:28):
Over ten years.
Speaker 12 (30:30):
I was in college, and so I just want to
say I love all of you guys so much, and
I'm I listen every single day.
Speaker 1 (30:38):
Well you are the best.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Kill you throw the summer.
Speaker 7 (30:42):
Because I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (30:43):
The hell everybody's I'm over it. Now we're moving on.
I am god bless you. I think everybody did. I
just don't know what's going on. Thank you, Cale, I
have a good day.
Speaker 12 (30:53):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
You think maybe the Durabils started stopped running in the
little cage and the little wheel over at that anyway,
I don't know what I can say and not get fined.
I don't want to get fined. I'm just here, so
I don't get fined. Yeah, that's him. The entertainer reporting
is next. Kaylin's back and if you want to take
on show Big Shelley in the showdown one hundred bucks,
but you could make history today. She's never lost two
in a row eight five five five three five play
(31:16):
Next Spread.
Speaker 13 (31:17):
Show is on Friend's Fun Fact Fred Fun.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
So my friend, uh finance Casey sent me this Casey
who also is a book She's my book dealer. She's
like a drug dealer but with books. Uh, this woman
can read like a book a day, almost like a
book every couple of days. I don't. I mean, apparently
she's a gainfully employed to you, it's extremely sexy, like
I'm tingling in certain areas right now, my ankle, my
left elbow, you know those kind of areas. But then
(31:50):
she I don't. I wish I had that ability if
I had a super I have a few superpowers. I
wish I could like see people's thoughts as like a
pop up above their head. Yeah, I wish I could
really know what people were thinking. I really do.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
No, you don't.
Speaker 1 (32:02):
It would make I think, it'll make my life easier
because sometimes it's like anyway, but really, what I wish
I could do, honestly, is I wish I could like
just ingest information, like just look at a book and
be like and it just goes in my head and
I retain it. I would love to just have like
just be so smart and just know everything and like
just like, I like this topic over here, I want
(32:24):
to learn about this and then just go boo boo
boo boo boom, and it just downloads into my head.
And I know, yes, like that makes you just like
that anyway, but I can't. It takes me forever to
read a book for whatever reason. However, she sent me this.
Have you ever heard of corn sweat? Corn sweat? With
temperatures heating up in the Midwest, you might hear the
term corn sweat thrown around this week. It's from the
(32:44):
weather Channel. By the way, refers to a process by
which plants exhale water called evappo transpiration. This process peaks
in corn between mid July and late August, so corn
will give off about three thousand and four thousand gallons
of water every day. That added moisture in the air
that increases dew points and humidity. The corn itself will
(33:07):
make the place more humid where the corn is, which
is crazy anyway, So corn sweats. I just wanted you
to know that it gets hot and steamy, and it
gets turned on and it gets moist and it sweats.
Speaker 13 (33:19):
Same Yeah right, More Fresh show next
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