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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Clients is WITHOT.

Speaker 2 (00:00):
We'll just sit in the stall for like twenty thirty
minutes at a time so they don't have to work.
Is that a real thing. I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
I try to personally get in and get out as
quickly as humanly possible.

Speaker 4 (00:11):
But they do, hear they a lot of dudes do it.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Some people are like you could hear.

Speaker 4 (00:16):
What they're listening to. They're watching videos on their phone.
I'm like, what what are you guys doing? They're doing
all that stall.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Because I've had this job for my whole life, basically,
and there's never been a time where I've had enough
time at work, Like there's never the longest time we
might have is like maybe ten minutes maybe something like that,
so you know, and usually it's more like three or
five or something. So I mean, if I go to
the bathroom, it's like, I guess that's how I've trained
myself not to go in the morning because I just

(00:46):
there's usually not enough time, So I don't know what
that would be like. I also don't have an eight
hour day job necessarily, so you know, like when we're
here and when we go is kind of up to us.
So I'm not wasting too much time at work, but
I'm like you, especially if we're in a stall situation,
I'm trying to be I'm trying to be a Navy
seal up in there. Like I'm trying. I don't want
anyone to know I came in or left. Like I

(01:08):
hide my shoes so you can't see, because you know,
you walk in and people can look down, they can see,
you know, who's in the stalls or whatever. And I'm
always wear in check advance so you know exactly who
is in there blowing things up, you know, because if
I'm in there and then into an emergency situation, so
I hide my shoes so you can't necessarily see. I mean,
we're trying to get in and out of this thing.
I am certainly not going to waste time in the

(01:31):
stall for twenty minutes, right.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
I would love to see you tall ass man hide your.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Shoes, my friend?

Speaker 1 (01:39):
Is that you know, It's like I want to see
the position.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Oh yeah, roof, you don't wear similar shoes. Want. The
other thing is I'm tall enough that when I sit
I can basically see at the top of the stall.
So it's a little weird, you know, that's what I
want to I want to see it. Not really, but
that's a good visual, isn't It was like, what is.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
It like a pretzel position? Like I want to see
how we're doing.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
A sweet around the door?

Speaker 1 (02:08):
It could be like that.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
It could it could be feet behind the hut, it
could be feet on the like I need you need
to reenact.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yes, my squatty botty myselfe I my feet against the
against the door and squatty potty you don't even know.
I mean, I hang on to the sides. I push
against the side I.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
See like Spider Man on the side of the walls.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
I levitate. I levitate like the matrix when I'm using
public restrooms. I float sometimes you have to, yeah, sometimes, right,
But it got me thinking, like I I don't. I
don't want to sound unrelatable because again, I mean, this
is un orthodox job. It's just not like other jobs.

(02:50):
And you know that I learned, over twenty years of
doing this to really hate the conventions of normal jobs.
Like I can't stand a zoom meeting that didn't need
to be. I can't stand, you know, to gather in
this crap, you know, to waste time during the day Okay,
that's what all that stuff is. You know. Oh hey,
let's let's you know, count how many skittles are in
the stupid HiT's? Like how about we sell something? You

(03:11):
know what I mean? Like, how about we work? I
don't know. And in fact, I saw a thing on
the Today Show. My mom said it to me yesterday.
Apparently there's a new trend now another new work trend
where like your your boss gives you your tasks for
the day, and if you do all your tasks in
two hours or three or five instead of eight, you
go home. If it takes you eight, it takes you eight.

(03:34):
If it takes you ten, it takes you ten. If
you want to do it at home, do it at home.
But the point is you get your work done, you
get to go home. In fact, they've heard their delivery
jobs like this too, where you know, they load your
truck up with beer or whatever it is. Yeah, and
if you get it all done, you know, and I'm
not sure how safe this is because if you really
don't want to work, then you know, very long, then
you just drive the thing like you know, Grand theft

(03:54):
auto and you're out of there. But I mean, you know,
it makes sense to me. It's like, here's your work.
It's kind of how our show work. Like, here's what
you You know, what you got to get done, get
it done. And if it takes you four hours, great,
If it takes you eight, fine. If you want to
sit around like Rufio in the prod room and and
watch TikTok videos for six hours, then tell everybody that
you're the hardest working person in radio. And that's fine.

(04:14):
You're welcome to do that, like, no one's stopping you.
But I guess what I mean is I guess I
can't relate to this idea of coming up with ways
to waste time instead of working. And aren't they combating
a lot of that with like software now, Like don't
our salespeople have like a thing that tracks like if
their mouse is moving.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, like on teams like Microsoft teams, like your bubble
will be yellow if you haven't like moved your mouse
in a while, so like, and you could check anyone's
bubble at any time.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
I see that in managers.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
Yeah, email somebody like there's a little circle, Yeah that's
the bubble.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
Oh so green is like you're available rather is and
you're in a call or a meeting, and then yellow
is like idle.

Speaker 4 (05:00):
That concept you're talking about, like if someone gets their
work done in four hours, are they still getting paid
for the full day or that they just get paid.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
Well, I guess that's the theory, is that I'm assuming
these are salary jobs. Okay, But here's the thing, like
I wonder if if you own a business, or if
I wonder what you think about this eight five, five, five,
nine one one oh three five, because I would just
be inclined to give I mean, I hate to say this,
but if I'm paying you for eight hours a day
at my business, I guess I would just be inclined
to give you more work than I know you could

(05:27):
get done, you know what I mean, as opposed to
just say, here's your task, get it done, and then
you can go home if it takes you two hours.
Because I mean, I suppose mentally there's the thing where like,
well did you rush that? You know? Did you really?
Did you really? You know? Should you have taken more
time to do that? Or like could I have given
you more work? Or like? But then again, should you
be penalized for being efficient? I would argue no, because

(05:50):
I like efficiency, Like I would prefer to come to
work and just keep working consecutively, just not stop, no bs,
just get everything done and then go home. I would
rather that. Some people, you know, for various reasons, whether
it's they don't have anything else to do, or work
is where they socialize, or they don't want to go
home and you know, have to deal with their second job,

(06:10):
which is their relationship or their family or whatever, they'll
you know, they don't mind being there all day. I
just don't want to be like it for me. I
just I don't I want to be productive when I'm
at work, and I want to do my own thing
when I'm not. But like, I just wonder, you know,
if you guys were the boss and everybody was going
home after three hours, and wouldn't you start giving people
more work? And then before long you're giving them like

(06:31):
this ridiculous amount of work so that they don't leave,
you know.

Speaker 4 (06:36):
Right, because especially if you're paying them a full days
work and they're only doing.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
A half the day, right. But what I really wanted
to know is how they help people stall at work
all day. That's what I mean. This other thing is
interesting from the Today Show. Thanks Mom for the show
prep but what I was really interested in, like, if
people are sitting in the toilet for forty five minutes,
then they don't have to. I just wonder, like, how
how else are you stalling at work? Like it's incredible.
People are very, very, very creative. But I guess we

(07:02):
can't relate to that because, like the I mean, if
you're stalling it, there's no way to stall at work
here really, Like if you're talking, you're talking. If you're like,
if you have stuff to say, then you do. If
we have stuff to talk about, then we do. If
we don't, then we don't, and everybody would know it,
so there's no hiding. Virginia, Hi, Virginia, how you doing?

Speaker 5 (07:22):
Good morning?

Speaker 2 (07:24):
Bathroom for twenty minutes? Oh? Good, thank you? Yes, yes
I do, Okay, I mean right now?

Speaker 6 (07:33):
What?

Speaker 7 (07:33):
Hell?

Speaker 2 (07:34):
Well, I'm trying to understand you. It should take you
about what a minute? Two minutes? But you take twenty
What because you don't want to work?

Speaker 8 (07:42):
Well, okay, let's not go out. How many times a.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Day do smoke er take a break?

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Yes? Okay, there's there's another there's another way to not
have to work. It's go take a smoke break.

Speaker 8 (07:55):
Right, Well, what if I in the bathroom, take you
my sweet time, making sure that everything is completed and
sending an email, texting my child, doing the other things
that I need to do. And it's the only time
during the day that I have the opportunity to sit.

(08:17):
I'm on my feet all day otherwise, So heck, yeah,
I'm gonna take twenty minutes in the bathroom, and if
you need me, you can page me.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
Yeah, okay, all Virginia is doing what you gotta do.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
All right, Virginia, Well, thank you are You're not there
right now though, you're not calling a radio show from
the bathroom yet.

Speaker 8 (08:38):
Oh no, I'm in my car at work about dig
clock in.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
Okay, Well go clock in and then and then go
back out in the car and cock cl and then
go to the right to the bathroom.

Speaker 9 (08:49):
Yes, we.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Have a good day at work, Virginia. Bang, okay, bye
all yeah, you do you girl?

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
Someone texted seven oh eight. I worked for the railroad.
If you finish your work in six or seven hours,
you can leave and get paid for the eight hours anyway. Nice, okay,
all right.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
It's like one of those jobs, like the railroad.

Speaker 4 (09:13):
You've got to make sure your job's done right, Like
I can do the job at four, But is it right?

Speaker 2 (09:19):
Right? Are the tracks clear or whatever? Right? Like did
the train get to the place he was supposed to
go or did you just stop? Yeah? Someone else texted
eighty four to seven. I had a coworker who was
sitting in the bathroom so she could clock out on
the hour. If it was three fifty, she'd sit till four.
I had another. I had a coworker in college who

(09:40):
would wait to go number two until he got to
work because he knew it was going to take time,
so you may as well get paid for it. I mean,
you know, I don't know, is that ingenius or whatever.
Then you also got these offices where they have like
nap rooms and stuff, and I understand what that's about.
It's like, well, you know, it's more of a culture
and it's an environment and we have you know, food

(10:00):
and drinks and a nap room and you know whatever.
If you get your work done, then you can do
all this other stuff at video games and basketball courts
and gyms, and you hear about these places. We don't
have any of that. But it's like, you know, I
think that's more about they just want you to gravitate
towards the office, you know, because it's like, well, if
you're there, maybe maybe you'll work. Like I don't know,

(10:21):
like if everything, if I get free food, if I
get free breakfast, then maybe I'll show up early for
free breakfast and then maybe somebody can ask me a
question and now I'm working, or I don't know. If
I work out at work, well then I'm already there,
so I guess I'll do something. I mean, I suppose
that's the thinking, but it's crazy. I'm amazed at the
creative ways that people are able to get paid to

(10:44):
do nothing.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
And I.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
Kind of wish we could figure it out around here. Yeah, Jason,
get to work on that, would you.

Speaker 5 (10:51):
Yeah? U though.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
We know what you're gonna do. It's just a bit. Though,
it's just a bit, if you know, you know it's
not a bit. It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trending,
A bunch of texts about work. I'm a nurse. What's
a break? I believe it? I believe it. Let me

(11:17):
see here, someone of my job takes naps on the
toilet when he doesn't have any work to do. Damn.
Like again, I'm not trying to hang out in there.
Though even if I'm not working, it's like I do,
I think I'd rather work. I work for a utility company,
and when we go to people's houses, we take our
sweet times, so an hour job becomes two hours. But

(11:38):
my question is do you are you charging somebody for
two hour? I guess you're charging the utility company for
two hours, But like, am I paying for two hours
as a customer? I hope not? Probably not. I know
people that work in certain government jobs where it's like
they go on a call or something, it's like this
is this is gonna take a while. You know, It's

(11:59):
like I'm out here, so we're gonna walk around for
a while. We're gonna look at everything like we're really
gonna maybe there's nothing going on here, but I got
to justify this visit. So we're gonna take a little
walk walk you walking around a can you pull all
the permits. Let's take a look at that too. And
it's so annoying for you know, the people who own
the business. But it's also like this, I guess this
is how you're evaluated if you're effective. Is how much

(12:19):
time it takes? You know, how long you're out doing
what and maybe you don't want to mess with people.
But it's like, well, I don't have that much to do,
so I'm getting paid for it. Because that's the way
the model works is I got to work eight hours
a day, so I gotta come up with eight hours
of stuff to do every single day. I work for Chase.
If you finished early, you have to stay until clockout
time or leave and use PTO for the rest. See

(12:41):
that's a bad deal. Yeah, you know, if you get
all your stuff done and you're really efficient, then you
should Shouldn't you be rewarded for that? I guess No,
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (12:54):
I don't know Chase like that, But I don't know
what job you're leaving early, Like, if you finish your work,
if you're a teller, aren't you there for the whole round?

Speaker 2 (13:02):
You give your shit? Yeah, I gave all the money away.
I'm out of money. I don't have any money. I
talk to all the people. I talked to everybody. There's
no one left security. I'm the security guarter Chase. I
get done early. I'm out of here right what? Yeah?
My drawers out of money? What do you want me
to do? Something? You work till well, then you got

(13:24):
Jason who's working like twenty seven hours a day. I
mean I feel like the guy's never not working somehow. Yeah,
but wouldn't you say in some ways that's my choice.
Like you could probably put it down at some point,
but you just that you you just don't want to.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
Yeah, I could, but like the problem with me is
like if I'm like, it's like I don't know'slock at
night and I'm like, oh, like, I just do this
because if I think about it, then tomorrow then I
have to do it on top of everything else I
have to do, and it all just like stockpiles. Right
then I'll just like rolls downhill to the next day.
So I'm like, I'm just going to get this done.
But then, yeah, it's not good because then I'm working

(13:57):
till nine pm. That's not good.

Speaker 2 (13:58):
That's how I am with email in the little bubbles,
like it's just I just got to make them go
away because that means there's something to do. I mean,
there's something left over to do, and if I don't
do it because I don't like the bubbles, then I
either do it or make the bubble go away and
don't do it. You see what I'm saying, So like it,
I may as well just respond to the email because
otherwise if I if I make the bubble go away,
then I'll never remember. Oh. So, so the email is

(14:22):
the biggest gimmick. Email is the biggest trap out there
because you know, remember like in the early two thousands,
maybe some of you don't, but like before email was
on every phone all the time. It was like kind
of a special thing if you had a BlackBerry and
you had email or whatever. But like if somebody emailed you,
they you had to be near a computer to email

(14:43):
to respond, and everybody knew that. So like there was
a very good chance that if I wrote you an email,
I wasn't going to get a reply until tomorrow because
maybe you weren't near a computer, maybe you were traveling,
maybe you were on the road, maybe you were you know,
living your life or whatever. But now I know you
got it. Like I know, if I send you and
I didn't realize, there are RULs run here, like no
emails after five, which is total bs. But I mean

(15:04):
it's like I know you got the emails, so now
I'm now I'm like, why didn't you respond to it?

Speaker 10 (15:09):
Right?

Speaker 2 (15:10):
I'm annoy it. Well, what's that business hours? Well I know,
but you got it, so it's in your hand, so
right back.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
I know it's about delayed delivery for me, and I
feel so bad because like someone that I work with
very close labor day was off yesterday, so like I
delayed deliver stuff to him at eight am today, so
he's back right today, he's back. So I just know
his inbox at eight am is gonna be like Jason,
it's all gonna hit its.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
Her inbox right right, yes orox there inbox?

Speaker 2 (15:37):
Yes, I see, I see. Yeah, I don't know. I
just I send the email. I just don't expect a
response because if I don't, I don't do all that
delayed delivery stuff. Like I'll just hit send and if
it's after five o'clock, I don't necessarily expect you to respond.
But what I've realized is some people, if it's after
five o'clock, they just don't think they have to respond
at all. No, I've written emails to certain people work

(16:00):
for our company that if well that actually I've written
a number of emails to people during business hours. They
just don't think they have to respond. But you know,
that's okay. It's almost like if they think it's a
therapy session or something like. No, this was a dialogue,
this was a two way thing. There was an answer
required there. But anyway, it's okay. The thing is if
you answer my question, I make up the answer and
then I just do what I want. So maybe maybe
these people just know that why are you asking the question?

(16:21):
Like you're asking me a question, but you're gonna do
what you want anyway, So why am I going to respond?
Maybe that's what it is. I'm not sure. Guys, Entertainment Tonight,
Entertainment Tonight, the VP debate. Who is going to be
glued to their TV watching JD Van's take on Tim Walls? Everybody?

Speaker 6 (16:37):
Yes, Yeah, I want to watch. I actually want to
watch this one. I already heard of some of the
other ones, you know.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah, heard some of the other ones.

Speaker 6 (16:44):
Yeah, Like I mean, if Trump has already been president,
so I was like, I know what I'm going to
get with that.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
You know what I mean? Yeah, this is the one
that I want us to I'm curious.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Maybe you should watch for Kamala then for sure, to
see what you're gonna get from her.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
I did.

Speaker 6 (16:57):
I'm just saying I'm more interested in this one because
I don't know much about that.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
I just want to see these two, like square up
a little. Kamala's in office, Trump was in office. These too.
They're new to me. Yeah, you know, I don't know
her especially. Oh, I can't wait.

Speaker 2 (17:10):
There was also a Verizon outage yesterday and my phone
was on SOS all day and then to the point
where I was checking to see if I paid my bill.
I was like, what the hell's going on? Like it's
just like an insufficient fund situation, Like what's going on?
But turned out it was just some kind of an
outage that was connected to the hurricane, which, by the way, unfortunately,

(17:31):
the death toll from Hurricane Helene is up to at
least one hundred and thirty people across six states in
North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, Tennessee, and Virginia. Six
hundred people still accounted unaccounted for. Rather in Asheville, North Carolina,
as the city suffers from washed out roads and bridges,
sell service outages. In Black House, extensive damage to roads

(17:51):
and infrastructure has isolated many remote communities and prevents a
crew from breaching residents with vital supplies. Some sad news
this morning as well. Pete Rose and to Kemba Matembo
legends in their own right. Pete Rose, of course, for baseball,
the career hits leader who was blocked from the Hall
of Fame for gambling on the game has died. Now. Granted,

(18:14):
you can gamble on all these games in the Major
League Baseball and all these other leagues make money on that,
but I guess as a player, you're not supposed to
do it. Nonetheless, he was eighty three years old. A
lot of people think he should have been in the
Hall of Fame, and maybe now he will be, but
he won't see it, which.

Speaker 4 (18:28):
Is which would be so sad. That they'll let him
in posthumously, which is going to be so sad.

Speaker 2 (18:35):
Nice word, Rufio, posthumously, well done, Thank you, I was
really good.

Speaker 1 (18:39):
Happened to Ron Santo.

Speaker 4 (18:41):
Ron Santo got in posthumously, which was sad as well.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
You're doubling down on that word, like I mean, I
don't know, a little bit hard to say. Yes, it
is a little bit hard to say. It's hard for
me to say, and I think I don't think I
would dare say it three times in a row, because
I'm pretty sure by the third time it would be
be b BB and Hall of Famer to Kemy Matembo
has passed away of brain cancer very young, at the

(19:05):
age of fifty eight. Seven foot two native of the
Democratic Republic of Congo was known for three things, in
particular his ability to block shots, his signature finger wag
after blocking the shots, and his humanitarian work in Africa.
Also fun fact, he spoke nine languages. Wow. Played for
a bunch of teams over eighteen years. The Nuggets, the Hawks,
the seventy six Ers, the New Jersey and NBA team

(19:29):
Jason Ooh, the.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
New Jersey Nuts. It is the right, Yeah, not to
be confused with the New York Giants of that's football. Yes,
but we're talking about basketball. Oh, New York the I
don't know, dude, The Knickerbockers, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:52):
The Knicks, the nick Oh is that? What is that?

Speaker 3 (19:54):
What Nicks is short for?

Speaker 8 (19:57):
Ya?

Speaker 11 (19:57):
Wait?

Speaker 12 (19:58):
New Jersey is now the they moved to Brooklyn, the
Brooklyn Nets, I know.

Speaker 2 (20:03):
That, but they were then called the New Jersey Nets.

Speaker 4 (20:05):
I did not know that year and then jay Z
part on them. They moved them to Brooklyn. They said,
see you guys, I'm out of here.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
I see.

Speaker 2 (20:12):
And then, uh, he played for the Houston NBA team
of course, Jason. You know the Houston NBA Horses, the Horses. Yeah,
he played for them too. Yeah, he the Rockets as well. Yeah,
he was a very when I was a ball boy,
when I was eighth grade for the in the eighth
grade for the Phoenix sense he was a very nice guy. Uh,
I just remember him being a very nice guy with

(20:34):
his with his finger wag though if you see, if
you know, you know, he'd block a shot and he'd go,
you know, you can't see me doing it, but I
would do it.

Speaker 4 (20:41):
No, no, no, And it wasn't that guygo commercial doing
the same thing.

Speaker 2 (20:45):
Ye, a guy has gone viral after bidding on a
autographed Tailor Swift guitar. And then, by the way, I
should I should warn you that this this, uh, this
story has traumatic images for some people in the room.
You were discretion as advised. Okay, there are a couple
of people in the room who need to be sheltered

(21:06):
from this story. But in fact, Kaylin, Jason, take your
headphones off, you know, encountered thirty Okay, everything's going to
be okay. But a guy's gone viral forbidding on an
autographed Taoy Swift guitar and then smashing it the moment
that he got it. This guy announced to the front
of the room of the Alice County Wild Game Dinner
just outside of Texas on Sunday that he was going
to pay four thousand dollars for the guitar, and he

(21:28):
was going to take ownership, and he was going to
go rogue, and he smashed it. I'm not really sure
why he proved he did that. I don't know. Well
he tried to say, it really didn't work in the beginning.
It's a nonprofit group that supports agricultural education for local
youth and the money went to their charity. The instrument

(21:49):
had been donated to the auction by a third party.
It was not intended to be demolished, okay, But the
new owner made the decision to do what he wanted
with it, and he chose the aggressive beating of the guitar.
Take that, Taylor, I'm sure you learn your lesson against
the Ellis County Wild Game Dinner. Don't you come around
here no more? Oh my good ridiculous four thousand dollars

(22:12):
to basically just light it on fire. I mean what
it is, you're flex It's National Taco Tuesday, National Taco Tuesday.
Job it everywhere, guys WHOA National Fire Pup Day recognizing
the canine firefighters that have long been members of fire
departments across the country. National Green City Day to highlight
the progress and the innovation cities are making to become

(22:32):
more sustainable. And National Black Dog Day very specific, but
it's a National Black Dog of Day today as well.
The Entertainer Reports Text's two minutes Fresh Show.

Speaker 11 (22:45):
Aaron's Entertainer Report is on The Fresh Show.

Speaker 6 (22:48):
A new ID documentary called Chris Brown A History of
Violence will explore his many many legal issues. Of course,
those date back to two thousand and nine when he
assaulted then girlfriend Brianna, causing so vere facial injuries and.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
She actually had to go to the hospital.

Speaker 6 (23:03):
In the years following, he pled guilty to you know,
a different assault.

Speaker 1 (23:10):
I think there was a variety of.

Speaker 6 (23:11):
Other legal issues, and this documentary is going to start
with his childhood and I guess explore the impact of
the cycle of abuse. But the biggest news I think
that's coming with this though, is that there's a new
accuser whose identity is hidden that comes forward with allegations
against Chris. That documentary airs October twenty seventh, followed by
a conversation about intimate partner violence led by one of

(23:34):
the hosts of the view. Rumors that Drake sent a
cease and assist letter to Kendrick Lamar to block him
from performing his number one distract Not Like Us during
the Super Bowl halftime show have been going around and
I don't know if you guys heard that. A rub
for Drake says that's not true though. The story, I
guess started over the weekend when the Gaines manager made
a claim during an interview, But word is he has

(23:55):
no plans to take legal action. I am interested to
see how Drake handles that week though, because he's always
out partying and stuff.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
But it's going to be a weird time for my
Kendrick will bring out with Drake, please, I think so,
And if they.

Speaker 6 (24:09):
Do, then I'm going to be like, this was all
corny and.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
That would be embarrassing. Drake should just leave the country
that weekend if I was him, Yeah, yeah, go to
see you have a house there, get on their Drake.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
I'm sure you don't have forty TVs on that thing
to watch the super Bowl and just yeah, just go
somewhere else. It'll be fine.

Speaker 6 (24:27):
Yeah, just for the weekend. Take a hike and sweet.
Ninety year old Frankie Valley has been going viral after
someone posted a video of him during one of his concerts,
I'm going to use this in quotes performing during his
Greatest Hits tour with the Four Seasons. He shared a
statement in part saying, I know there's been a lot

(24:49):
of stuff about me on the Internet lately, so I
wanted to clear the air. And I don't know how
this is clearing the air, but he said, I'm blessed
to be ninety years old and still doing what I
love to do. And as long as I'm able and
the audiences want to come see me, I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
Be out there performing as I always do.

Speaker 6 (25:04):
I love what I do, and I know we put
on a great show because our fans are still coming
out in force and the show rocks. He and the
Four Seasons, like I said, are on this Greatest Hits
Tour with performances scheduled through next year, which it's giving
elder abuse I don't know who has him up on
that stage.

Speaker 1 (25:22):
He concluded, I.

Speaker 6 (25:23):
Plan to be doing shows as long as I can,
delivering that great four season sound like that line in
Jersey Boys.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
I'm like that bunny on TV that just keeps going
and going and going, chasing the music.

Speaker 6 (25:35):
Whatever you say, Frankie, wherever you think you are doing,
whatever you think you're doing, as long as.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
You're happy, that'll be us with Fred.

Speaker 4 (25:42):
We're gonna, We're gonna, We're gonna.

Speaker 2 (25:49):
We get avert the we can't.

Speaker 6 (25:54):
And of course the internet takes nothing seriously and there's a.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Ton of memes.

Speaker 6 (25:58):
It makes me said, I I never in my life
I do an entertainment report about Frankie Valley. But there
you go again, not on my bingo card. If you
are a fan of Waiting by the Phone, you can
catch up on that a couple different ways. You can
go on the free iHeartRadio app and search the Fred
Show on demand as well as the Fred Show TikTok.

Speaker 1 (26:16):
It is dedicated to our waiting by the phone.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
His mouth is barely moving in these videos. It's kind
of sad like it's the other guys are singing and
they're much much, much younger, and then he's kind of
standing there and like you have to really like squint
almost to look to see if he's even like, I
don't know what the hell's going on.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
It's like a big reveal.

Speaker 6 (26:33):
They separate and he comes forward and then he gives nothing.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
He gives who's in the audience, like people like the
same age, Like I think so.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
Because he said is his fans are coming out in droves.

Speaker 7 (26:45):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (26:46):
Are they still a lot?

Speaker 2 (26:48):
That's the trick. It's like if you're eighty or ninety
years old and you go to this thing, you can't
even see if the guy's book lips are moving anyway,
So it doesn't like because you don't have the best
eyes sight, that's true.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
They can't hear. Probably are, so it's probably great. You know,
they're probably throwing their.

Speaker 6 (27:01):
Little bras on stage and I don't hear. They were
those boys back in the day. So the smell of
mothballs is probably get it gives.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
It gives I need money to pay for my retirement
home or whatever. But I hope that's not true. I
hope he's doing it for the love of the music.
That's what I hope.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
It seems like he is so God bless him.

Speaker 2 (27:20):
By the way, Jason, what was Jason in the sports
report yesterday or his picks for the week? The NFL picks?
He was like ten and five or something. He was no,
he was eleven and four, ten and four because you
had one wrong, okay, ten and four, and then you
had the Titans and the Lions, didn't you? He had
the Dolphins yesterday? Oh you had the Dolphins. Okay, so
you're you're twelve and five week eleven and I see that.

(27:44):
Damn it. I don't know. I can't do math. But anyway,
eleven and five, that's really good. Jason basically did a
great job, is what I mean. Are you proud of me?
I'm so proud of you. Thank you?

Speaker 1 (27:53):
Until next week?

Speaker 3 (27:53):
I need that every day, Yes, thank you.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
What about the parcelay? Did he get that?

Speaker 4 (27:58):
He hit two out of three? Are you Williams? Caleb
Williams got sacked three times. He said it was.

Speaker 2 (28:07):
Can you use proper terminough?

Speaker 4 (28:10):
The sexy i'mon Rossaint Brown was going to get a touchdown.
He actually he actually threw a touchdown yesterday, so that's.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
Yeah, it was so sick.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
But then he said the beautiful.

Speaker 4 (28:20):
Derek Carr was going to score two touchdowns and he
scored zero. So that's the one he missed.

Speaker 3 (28:24):
I already forgot about him.

Speaker 2 (28:25):
Yeah all right, Well, I'm proud of you. Jason did
a great job. People could have actually won money on that, so.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
I hope someone did.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
How is this not sponsored? It makes no sense to me?
Why is draft kings?

Speaker 4 (28:40):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (28:41):
Ben MGM was? Why fan duel? Why no one? Why
is it no one attached themselves to this yet?

Speaker 10 (28:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (28:47):
Draft Queen's exactly anybody we're open?

Speaker 2 (28:51):
Well, Draft Queens isn't the thing we learned, but I
mean the other ones are, so they should have been.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
Hello, give me a call.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
Let's do vlogs next day or go? Debasing relationship rama
five hundred and fifty bucks with show vs. Shelley waiting
by the phone. All next, I got more thread show Next,
the Thread show is on. It's stay or go All right.
Beth is here? Hi Bath, Good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you okay?

Speaker 1 (29:17):
How are you doing?

Speaker 2 (29:18):
Beth? Doing great? What's going on with your husband? We
got to hear all about this. Some group therapy actually
going on right now? Yeah? Good?

Speaker 9 (29:25):
I need it.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
I'm sure, I'm like a lot.

Speaker 9 (29:28):
Of women out there.

Speaker 5 (29:29):
But.

Speaker 9 (29:31):
I'm not happy because it's football season and I lose
my husband during football season.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
So I need some advice here.

Speaker 9 (29:42):
He's had tickets like his whole life, and it's just
that thing where every Sunday during football season he gets
up early, he tailgates, He's gone like the entire day.

Speaker 1 (29:55):
And I don't know, even if I.

Speaker 9 (29:57):
Liked football, it's not like I could go with him
because we have kids.

Speaker 13 (30:01):
But I I.

Speaker 9 (30:03):
Need some advice how to handle this. I feel like
if the roles were reversed and I was going out
drinking with my friends on like every Saturday during the summer,
he would look at me like I was crazy.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
So I just why did you get to do that?

Speaker 2 (30:17):
Why don't you come up with some form of compromise.
I'm not I'm not saying that you're not right to
find it annoying but to to you, But I mean, like,
why not come up with some form of compromise. Why
don't you say, hey, I want to do this.

Speaker 9 (30:31):
I feel like I don't.

Speaker 14 (30:32):
I just kids.

Speaker 9 (30:33):
I don't know. It just feels I'd rather he just
chill out a little bit, maybe go like half the
time as opposed to being like full.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Out everything we don't know.

Speaker 4 (30:44):
Come on, now, what do you mean he's had You said,
he's had these tickets since he was forever, since he
was a kid or whatever it is you knew going
into this relationship.

Speaker 1 (30:54):
What get married and says you know, but this is
something well.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
Know, looking look at Rovio being all big time. Oh
you know what you tell you don't what you tell
the little lady over here that this is what I'm
gonna do. We just did a story a couple of
days ago about how you you got tricked into not
even tricked. It was well, you're welcome to come, but
what that meant is your ass is coming and you went,
so you know how it goes.

Speaker 4 (31:20):
Yeah, but I mean this is this is totally different,
like he's had these tickets forever.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
Like if you have season tickets or something.

Speaker 4 (31:26):
You not like like it's it is like you literally
pay for it and so you don't want to go anymore.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
I mean, like his life is different now and that's
just the reality of it.

Speaker 4 (31:34):
But this is something that this is something that he's
had before before they were even together.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
So like some things they don't have to change. Like
it does.

Speaker 4 (31:41):
I mean, let him have his thing like he's he
has like some passion for it.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
You know what I'm saying. Let him doing well.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
I used to stay out till four in the morning,
get the club and hook up with bottle girls amore.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Like this, he's going off.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
Tickets to the bottle girls forever.

Speaker 1 (32:02):
Stop Now like he's going like it's.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
Only going to the home games.

Speaker 1 (32:05):
It's not like he's going to every road game, but
leaving in the morning drinking all day. Probably now after
knew that going into this, this is what I know.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
This is a hot this is his hobby.

Speaker 1 (32:14):
This is what he's done for his whole life. You
want to know the way to ask you this?

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Go ahead, Well we quick out.

Speaker 12 (32:19):
Let's say the reason why she can't do the same
when it comes to like I don't know every Sunday
she'll be brunching in the summer is because I guarantee
you she's a default parent. So her doing it every
Sunday or Saturday whatever, it requires more work to get
everything ready, to get the kids, babysitters, all of that,
So it's for her it's not even worth it.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
So he is lucky he can even do that does
that make sense?

Speaker 4 (32:38):
And where this This is where Frick comes in and says,
you know, there's got to be some kind of compromise,
like is Saturday's her day or whatever?

Speaker 1 (32:46):
You know, Saturdays are for the girls.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
Whatever. Let me ask my question, probably ask my questions, Rufio,
thank you, Beth. Is he a good father overall? Like
outside of the whatever seventeen weeks or however many weeks
the NFL season is out. I mean, is this guy
doing a good job?

Speaker 9 (33:03):
Yes, I can't even Yes, he's a great dad. He's
a great dad.

Speaker 13 (33:08):
Six dayly weak great.

Speaker 7 (33:09):
I gotta say he's great.

Speaker 2 (33:11):
Okay, so he's a good dad. It's not you know whatever,
ten home games, nine home games, whatever it is. He's
been doing it forever with his family, with his family, brothers.
I don't know who all goes to this thing. I
don't know why you can't go necessarily. Why can't you
hire a babysitter and then you guys go together occasionally
at least.

Speaker 9 (33:32):
I mean, listen, you're making it sound better than it feels.
But I mean I hear you, like that does sound
like a good solution. It feels like a lot of work.
We have three kids, Like it's just a deal. But
now that I'm like saying it out loud, I feel.

Speaker 13 (33:49):
Like that sounds fair one of them.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
I'm not trying to make you feel bad about you know,
your needs, of your requests or or you know the
fact that you guys are in a relationship ship now
and have kids and have to do things together. I'm
not I'm not suggesting that. I'm not asking you to
backtrack on on what you called. I guess I'm just
wondering if there's not a compromise where everybody, Yeah, you know,
you're not gonna get everything you want. He will get
everything he wants. But like I mean, if he's a

(34:16):
great dad, doesn't I say something in itself about yeah.

Speaker 9 (34:22):
Is there where like I get a couple of those days.
But like I hear you, like that's that just makes
both parents busy one day though, And I want it
to be like the opposite.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
It would look at you funny if you did the
same thing. Yeah, that's just what goes with it.

Speaker 12 (34:36):
And also to I guarantee, if you go out to Bruno,
whatever you do for the whole day, I'm talking like
from morning till night, you're gonna get blown up by
your husband a hundred times.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
Where are the bottles? Where's it?

Speaker 12 (34:44):
Where's the formula? Where's extra diapers? I can't find this
because I'm a wife and.

Speaker 4 (34:49):
I'm a father, and i do daddy duties all day,
all week, and I'm not calling my wife.

Speaker 1 (34:55):
Majority of men will I will.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
Say to hold on, now, hold on. Not every guy
is a complete due. No, I will say that God
meant like my brother in law, for all the crap
I've given him, is an extremely capable father. Now, my
sister will tell you that she does everything better. And
I love my sister, but I'm not sure if that's true.
That's what she thinks, but he does a great job,

(35:17):
and so I don't know that it necessarily means just
because you're not what And by the way, maybe this
is a complex that he's developed. I'm not saying this
is your fault, Bath or Paulina or whomever. But maybe
he's like, look, I'm not gonna do it right anyway,
So I'm gonna go to my football game and you
watch the kids. And that's what we're doing. Because he's
of the mindset that no matter what he does, he

(35:38):
won't be right anyway.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Yeah, no one does it better.

Speaker 12 (35:41):
I just I know how this game goes because I
live it and I understand it. That's why I'm more
comfy with my baby sometimes going to my mom's because
I feel like she won't be blowing me up. It'll
be a little less stress free. I'm not saying all
men are like this. I'm just saying from what I see,
especially on TikTok and social media, I'm not.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
The only one who thinks this way or lives this life.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
I mean, rufio. When Jessco's to work every day and
you have you know, you guys swap right. You work
in the morning and then you you come home and
then essentially she goes to work and you watch the kids.
You're not calling her every five minutes asking her how
to do it? Right? No, I mean you're asleep, So
it's not like.

Speaker 1 (36:14):
Oh, no, I'm kidding.

Speaker 2 (36:16):
I'm kidding.

Speaker 4 (36:17):
Yeah, no, I'm kidding. Yeah, I got two kids. I
take care of a newborn, I take I take Ash
into school.

Speaker 12 (36:24):
It's and you do, and you do a great job
with that. But I'm just saying I know how this
goes for a lot of people. Unfortunately, not that you
can't just I can't assume.

Speaker 4 (36:31):
Every dad's the same, like they don't know what they're doing.
But it happens a lot, it does. But you know,
there are really good dads out there, one hundred percent
I have. I have a good husband and a good dad.
I want to be very clear, but I'll call my
my mom first.

Speaker 1 (36:42):
Even if dads have questions, it doesn't make them a
bad dad, right.

Speaker 6 (36:45):
Saying that boom a period, it's just different from others.
Even scientifically it is. It feels different.

Speaker 1 (36:50):
Period.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
Uh eight five three five In context to saying number Beth,
I'm gonna take some phone calls and we're gonna talk
about you behind your back. But but good luck with this.
Have the radio on, and thank you for calling her
for sharing. We appreciate you.

Speaker 10 (37:03):
Thank you, Bob.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
Here's Bob stuck to Bob.

Speaker 10 (37:08):
Hi, Bob, Hey, what's up guys, Bob.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
So, just to recap here, Beth calls this because her
husband has season tickets to football and he goes every
week and he has basically his whole life and so
I don't know, seven, eight, nine, Sundays whatever it is
a year, he's gone for the day and he's out
drinking and having a good time. She's at home with
three kids. Sounds like she's kind of over it and

(37:31):
wants to know, you know, how to manage this.

Speaker 10 (37:36):
What would you say, Well, she's got to do exactly
what my wife did with me when it comes to
my golfing with my buddies. She sat me down. I
had to come to Jesus moment. She said, are you
an individual or are you a team in this thing
of arns? I was like, WHOA. So that I really
thought about it, I was like, you know what, she's
taking care of the kids a lot while I'm working.
I was like, oh, guys, want to go play around

(37:56):
the golf. Let's go. She's like, no, get your ass
home and be a dad. And it worked. So that's
what she needs to do, you know. I mean, because again,
either you're a teammate because that's what husbands and wives are,
or you're an individual doing your own thing on your
own terms, and that's when it doesn't work.

Speaker 2 (38:14):
So Bob, there's no he goes to these games, you know,
on Sundays. And again I'm not minimizing her at all.
I'm not minimizing her complaint, but like in a big picture.
She says, he's a great dad. She says, she does
a good job. There's no world in which she goes
to these games and then she they compromise and she
gets to do something else.

Speaker 10 (38:36):
Well, I mean, it's like my wife wants to go
do something, I tell her go, Like you go to
that concert with your girls, go to dinner, you go
to that long weekend. I got, I got the girls,
you know what I mean. And that's just the way
it's gott to be. It's give and take, you know
what I mean. It can't be you know, if I'm
working seventy hours a week and then oh, I go
play golfer is an all day thing for those of
my fellow golfers out there. It's not a three hour games,

(39:00):
all day extravaganza and then you're going to have some
beverages afterwards.

Speaker 1 (39:03):
So yeah, no, Bob, No, it's not an all day
it's not.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Oh, it's not all things.

Speaker 4 (39:09):
If I play golf and I'm allowed to play golf,
I play golf and I go home, I don't.

Speaker 1 (39:13):
I don't sit there.

Speaker 2 (39:14):
Like, let's go on the.

Speaker 1 (39:20):
Communicate to you, Bob, because you're taking all days. It's
like all day time.

Speaker 2 (39:27):
Customer. Okay, Bobby, you're okay. We appreciate your calling space.
Bob's ever gonna listen again. Thanks for whatever doing, Bob,
you suck you. I'm drinking all day and I'm going

(39:48):
to eat lunch with my boys. No play golf and
get your mother, then get your A S S home
and take care of the kids. I like credit. That
sounds like a lot more like you know, every Sunday, right,
almost every Sunday when the weather's nice, versus a few
Sundays during football. I mean, I do feel like in
the grand scheme of things, there is a compromise to
be hot here that you know, we're not talking about

(40:10):
hey all weekend. Every weekend, I'm gone all the time,
and you got to watch the kids and I'm not
ever going to do anything else. I mean, if this
guy were a loser and a bad dad and negligent
in other ways, and then he also didn't care about Sundays,
but she said, hey, he's a good dad, he does
a great job, and this is the compromise and he's
been doing it forever. I just I think they got

(40:31):
to talk about it is what it sounds like. It does.
It's like there's a whole lot of a whole lot
of talking going on. Hey Jeffrey, good morning, Hey, how
you doing, Hey man, what do you want to say? Welcome?

Speaker 5 (40:42):
You know what, I got a bunch of friends who
goes to this with their wives. This is where I
think a couple of things. I think that women know
before they get married what their husband's preacher husbands go
through on Sundays, and they're fine with it.

Speaker 11 (40:58):
When they're dating.

Speaker 5 (41:01):
What happens is that what they get there, they tried
to change. They try to change what their husbands are doing.
I got a bunch of friends who went through that.
And secondly, things have changed now. Men are much more
hands on. I'm a husband and my father, uh and
I do a lot more. I've probably basically raised my
kids a lot more than my wife does because she

(41:22):
goes out and I'm a entrepreneur. I'm able to do
a lot more, be able to be their hands on.
I do a lot more things hands on with my
kids what my wife does. And so things have changed now.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
And Jeffrey, thank you man. I appreciate you calling. Have
a great day. Thanks for listening to I hear what
you're saying. Pauline, I do, and I think a lot
of people can agree with you because I think you
guys tend to take the reins and uh, it.

Speaker 12 (41:49):
Just is, you know, the default parent thing, like whether
we want to or not, that this will be falling
too as women for the most fin unless you're the
guy who just called apparently he's raising those kids, Soloe.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
I want to make sure that we're not that we're
not perpetuating any kind of stigma that that men are
incapable of doing this. And you didn't say that, And
I'm not saying I I said, you didn't say that,
But I also think that there is an implication that
only mom can do it right, and with moms out there,
then dad's gonna screw it up. And I don't think
that's necessarily true. I mean, I think I think it's
also kind of a I don't want to say control thing,

(42:23):
but that maternal instinct that like I need to be there,
I need to do it. And I do think that
it's a real thing. I see it with my family
where mom has a really hard time letting go and
saying I'm gonna love you know, the kid's gonna be fine.
It's not gonna get done my way, but everything's gonna
be okay, and I can go out and enjoy my day.
I think sometimes not all the time. Maybe that's a

(42:43):
little bit self fulfilling, where it's like if you just said,
hobvey handle it and you left, I think you'd be okay.
Guy's a firefighter, he's a paramedic, like you'd be okay.
But I think you have to let yourself do that,
and I think for a lot of reasons it's difficult
for women to do that one hundred percent.

Speaker 12 (43:00):
Agree what you're saying. I think with us, it's I'm
working on it. I do, you know, go to the
store now and say, hey, you know whatever, handle it.
And he does a great job, and he watches her
every morning. They're together right now, like that's his job
is to be a father. When he said, homies, gonna
watch this kid, I'm just you're right. I'm trying to
let go a little bit. And at the end of
the day, I still think that it's like a primal thing.
It's like this mental thing, like that baby was attached

(43:21):
to me. So I think I'm always gonna feel this
separation anxiety from her, you know what. I mean, so
if I go out for a whole day, I'll be like,
he'll be calling me, I'll be texting him, and I
don't know if it's really worth it as much.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
You know.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
Well, I guess the where I'm coming from here is
that she says he's a good dad. She also says, basically,
I'm not gonna take the same days even if he'd
give them to me, because and I'm paraphrasing here, it's
just too much work and it's gonna be a mess.
He's gonna screw it up. I don't know if that's true.
I mean, she she herself said he's a great dad.
So I guess what I mean is maybe there is

(43:54):
compromise here. She's just not willing to see it. And
I think it's probably unfair or maybe unfair in some
ways to say, well, I'm you know, yeah, he says
I can go out with my girls on Saturdays, but
I just I'm not gonna do it because he's gonna
screw everything up. It's like, well, but you say he
was a great dad, so maybe he won't. Maybe you
should take those days for yourself and have a great day,

(44:16):
and maybe this is less of a problem because there's
your compromise.

Speaker 12 (44:19):
Yeah, I think they need some form of compromise or
like every home game or whatever. Let's just say, maybe
that's Sunday, there's something going on that she wants him
to be a part of.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
I don't know, the pumpkin patch with Rufel or something,
you know what I mean. Then I feel like then
he needs to not go to this this football game,
and that's it. Period.

Speaker 12 (44:33):
But maybe, yeah, maybe he can't go out on you know,
every whatever game.

Speaker 1 (44:37):
If it's in town he wants to go, that's fine.

Speaker 12 (44:40):
But if there's something else going on or she doesn't
want him to go, I think that's also okay.

Speaker 1 (44:44):
They're a family now, they're a unit.

Speaker 2 (44:46):
Yeah, Oh, I think every Sunday blanket, I'm going, there's
nothing to do about it, YadA, YadA. I don't know
if that's that's certainly not the attitude to take. But again,
if he's offering compromise and she's saying no, because well
he just won't. He just won't get the job done.
She said it was a great dad, So I mean,
I guess I don't. I'm a little confused about that.
Hey Courtney, good.

Speaker 7 (45:06):
Morning, Hi, good morning friend.

Speaker 2 (45:09):
Hi, what do you want to say? Good morning? Thanks
for calling.

Speaker 11 (45:12):
Thanks.

Speaker 7 (45:14):
So I think it's definitely a compromise situation. But I
really just wanted to say, Rufio, this is not about you, baby.

Speaker 13 (45:20):
You do not have to feel this defensive.

Speaker 7 (45:22):
You are a good dad, You're doing a great job.
This is about their situation, and I think that there
can't be just okay, well she gets the same amount
of days.

Speaker 13 (45:31):
It is a different situation.

Speaker 7 (45:33):
He's taking it, however, many sundays away from the family,
like they need to have a serious conversation about priorities.

Speaker 11 (45:39):
I think I.

Speaker 4 (45:41):
Don't know where the defense of like defensive, like what
Like I was defending you know, other dans out there
because of the statement that Paulina was making that like
the mom's better than dad, you know what I'm saying,
So like that's that's why I was getting defensive, because
not all dads are are bad day well they're not.

Speaker 7 (45:59):
But I'm sure, no, no, what he's saying that it's
it's just every situation is different, and I'm a mom.
I'm with you, Paulina, Like it is a different situation
leaving the kids at home than when the non mom
partner gets to go out, and like there's just a
different level of separation. And that doesn't mean that he's
not a good dad. It's just like maybe they need

(46:19):
to have some practice, he needs to stay home with
the kids more whatever, to get comfortable. But I just
want to say, like you, it's not a reflection on
you as a dad if we're talking about one person
maybe not being a great dad.

Speaker 2 (46:30):
All the time. Hi, Corney, thank you. I appreciate you.
Have a great day.

Speaker 1 (46:34):
Yeah, you too.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
Now, I just I get defensive over my brother in
law because again, and who knew, who knew years ago
that I would be the guy sticking up for him.
And I love my sister so much and she does
a great job. But I came from a long line
of type, a very strong, stubborn women who their way
is the only way. And I love them and I
appreciate that, and I'm used to it. I was raised
by it forty three years. My sister is one, my niece,

(46:56):
my nieces will both be women like that and they're
strong and they're incredible. But my sister will complain about
the way Colin does stuff, and he's These kids are
not in peril at all. They're spoiled rotten by this guy.
He's an incredible girl.

Speaker 11 (47:11):
Dad.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
He's incredible dad. And I think some of the things
I hear about are, like, by God, there are so
many women that would love to have a guy who
takes the kids and gets them out of the house
on Saturday morning so that you can sleep in, and
takes them to the park and takes initiative and does
all these things. He's fully capable of it. Now, is
he gonna do it the way she's gonna do it? No?
But I think sometimes what he's combating is that maternal

(47:32):
instinct that you're talking about, and that's not entirely fair.

Speaker 12 (47:36):
Yeah, I mean, listen, I feel like there needs to
be compromised.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
But at the end of the day, I just I
don't know. I don't know. I'm not saying all the
other are not capable, because they are capable.

Speaker 12 (47:45):
You didn't say that, you know what I mean. It's
just different. No, I know, but I'm just echoing what
were said earlier. But I don't know, it's just different man,
you know, being a woman.

Speaker 4 (47:52):
I'm just saying like it's I mean, it's eight Sundays
out of three hundred and sixty five days and it's
not like back to back Sunday sometimes, you know, he's
only going to home games, he's not They could be
on the road for two weeks in a row and
they're together.

Speaker 1 (48:07):
You know what I'm saying every Sunday. And a lot
of people are texting too.

Speaker 12 (48:10):
Sorry, they're just texting and saying that, you know, she's
so selfish in that, But like, why are we judging
like what bothers her or like what you know doesn't
work for her family?

Speaker 1 (48:17):
Because I think that's not fair either.

Speaker 12 (48:18):
We're all like, oh, she's so selfish, she's such a
this and that, but like we're not their family, we're
not her like that bothers her, That bothers her.

Speaker 2 (48:24):
Yeah, well, and someone texted Fred being a good dad
doesn't mean you get to ignore your family one day
a week. Okay, that's a little extreme, right, But I
guess I guess that's the exact point that I'm making,
is I just want to be sure that and I
don't know these people, right, I mean they call the radio.
I don't know these people, but I want to make
sure that he's not offering up a compromise and she's
not deciding not to take it because well, I don't know,

(48:46):
it's just it's too much work, or you know, because
maybe it's that she's just not comfortable with that, and
that's okay. But you know, just because he's gone every
Sunday during football season, every other Sunday or whatever, I
guess I don't know that that means we don't know
the other side of this, is all I'm arguing. Maybe
there is a compromise here and she doesn't want to

(49:07):
take it, and he's going to have to give a
little more. Maybe he doesn't get to go to every
single game. Maybe he's going to have to give in
a little bit more than he's already giving. But I
think everyone's just assuming that one person or the other
is a bad person here, or one person or the
other is selfish, and I think, you know, maybe there's
a little bit of going on on both sides where
everyone needs to kind of rethink how this goes. Maybe

(49:28):
I don't know, I don't know these people. What do
you think that.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
Don't have a dad so I can't play this game?
That's it.

Speaker 2 (49:34):
Mike drop Okay, the entertainer of Coortse Next and it's
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Speaker 11 (49:42):
Karin's Entertainer Report, he is on the.

Speaker 6 (49:44):
Fread show Well It's All Ray and Elligator tour guide
Jeremy Dufree got married last week and no one was
more surprised about that than.

Speaker 1 (49:52):
His ex so Kelly Welsh told The Daily Mail.

Speaker 6 (49:56):
I'm in shock because we were engaged for twelve years
and he got married after one month.

Speaker 2 (50:00):
Oh his I thought somebody was saying that she was
with a guy for twelve years, because I'm like, no,
she stated, a whole bunch of different people. So I'm like,
how could that be? I see his ex?

Speaker 6 (50:13):
Yes, his ex Yeah, And despite being taken aback by
the whirlwind wedding, she's flipped on us and she had
really good things to say about him. She said, he's
very protective, he's hard working, He's a manly man. He's
always been a giver, so to have someone give to him,
he deserves it. He's a very solid guy, which is
not a turn I expected. And this is the best
press that an ex can give. Because she added his

(50:35):
ability to love and care and protect people makes him
so attractive.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
So I don't know.

Speaker 15 (50:39):
What, like, yeah, pleasure, what are we doing after you
invested twelve years girl.

Speaker 1 (50:45):
I know, isn't that crazy?

Speaker 15 (50:47):
That's how it always happens. And it hurts so bad
when he's gonna get married and too tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (50:53):
Yeah, ring for seven years, Yeah, I'll be ready to go.

Speaker 1 (50:58):
Yeah. She even went as far as to say Lana
had that diamond.

Speaker 2 (51:04):
I didn't give it to you, right.

Speaker 6 (51:07):
Thought Lana is a good match for him though, even
though they do seem so opposite to the rest of us,
and said they do look like they're in love. By
the way, if you didn't know, Lana and Jeremy met
in twenty nineteen when she posted a ton of photos
from an air boat tour on Facebook with Jeremy as
the tour guide, writing, Jeremy let me be captain at
Arthur's airboat tours X, which I wonder if he's.

Speaker 1 (51:30):
Still working, because like, I want to go do the tour.

Speaker 4 (51:33):
Was he with this X while Lanna Delray was like
flirting with this man?

Speaker 1 (51:38):
I think back, well, she took the tour.

Speaker 6 (51:39):
I don't know how far the flirting went, but yeah,
I think they were together at that time, and I
don't know. I was confused, but twelve years being engaged,
I don't know. Mike tip for the day is maybe
it's not going to happen after twelve years.

Speaker 1 (51:50):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (51:51):
I've never been engaged, but call me crazy. Doesn't seem
like it might be coming. After that, Morgan Walland made
a five hundred thousand dollars donation to the Red Cross
for her Kine Helene relief through his Morgan Wallin Foundation.
As you know, parts of Tennessee, Georgia, Florida, Virginia, and
North Carolina were decimated by the storm that hit on
September twenty seventh, with more than one hundred people already

(52:12):
reported dead. Many towns still are inaccessible due to washed
out roads, and parts of East Tennessee, where Morgan's from
in Southwest Virginia, got more than ten inches of rain
during the storm, while western North Carolina got off to
thirty inches. He posted on his story, writing, my family
in East Tennessee are safe, but I know many are
absolutely devastated, and there are in multiple states. All my

(52:35):
prayers are geared towards them tonight. Those hills and hollers
are very important to me in so many ways. It's
going to take a monumental effort, and I'm in contact
with my team and others working on ways I can help.
So three dollars from every concert ticket that he sells
is going to his foundation, and that's always it always
goes to this foundation, and usually the foundation helps underserved

(52:56):
communities through supporting music and sports youth and he's donated
more than a.

Speaker 1 (53:02):
Million just last year alone.

Speaker 6 (53:04):
But right now he's going to focus on hurricane relief
efforts and if you can donate, it's really bad, please
do because anything helps, and real quick. Chris Martin says
Coldplay is only going to be releasing two more proper albums.
The band's dropping their tenth album, Moon Music Friday, and
Chris says, we're only going to do twelve proper albums,
and that's real because less is more, and for some

(53:24):
of our critics even less would be more.

Speaker 1 (53:27):
It's really important that we have that limit.

Speaker 6 (53:28):
He pointed out that Harry Potter books there's only seven,
also a bunch of artists that he respects, and bands
only have you know a certain amount of albums. He said,
there's only twelve and a half Beatles albums. There's about
the same for Bob Marley, so all of our heroes.
And also having that limit means that the quality control
is so high right now, and for a song to
make it, it's almost impossible, which is great.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
He said that they want to improve rather than coasting.

Speaker 6 (53:54):
So he did say he's not going to stop doing music,
but he kind of thinks there should be a cap
on the Coldplay albums.

Speaker 1 (54:00):
So there you go. An end of an era, Jason.
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(54:41):
We're getting these paragraphs from people. I have to be honest, though,
I have to be honest. We don't know these people.
There's a lot of projection in these messages that we're getting.
It's a lot of people talking about their relationships and
how women and men in their lives aren't adjusting to
the lifestyle of being a family person. And I clearly

(55:01):
that's an epidemic. Like, clearly it's a thing. I guess
it's just in that particular example, since that guy didn't
get to talk, I was just wondering, you know, is
this an example of him being selfish or is he
trying to make up for it in other ways and
she won't let him. I don't know the answer. I'm
not sure, but like we're getting these paragraphs some people going,
you know, so and so is selfish, and my husband's selfish,
and my husband doesn't do this, and my husband doesn't

(55:22):
do that. Look, that's unacceptable, Like you can't live like
you're a single person when you have a family. You can't.
But at the same time, people seem very triggered by
drinking in football, and if we're being really honest, remove
the drinking, and you know, what are the things that
other people are doing, whether it's male or female, in

(55:43):
their lives that take up time that could be spent
as a family unit, whether there's drinking or no drinking,
or whether there's football or no football. Like you know,
for a lot of women, football doesn't mean anything for
a lot of women going out. And I'm just saying,
in this particular example, for a lot of you know,
watching sports on Sunday is a waste of time. Okay, Well,
I guess then for a lot of men, you could
argue that some other form of camaraderie would be a

(56:05):
waste of time. Or how about we don't argue about
that at all. How about we don't quantify, you know,
each other's the things that make each other happy, and
we figure out a way that's fair and equitable that
you get to do your thing without judgment, and I
get to do my thing without judgment, and nobody feels
left out, and nobody feels like there's an imbalance. Yeah,
but the football sports thing has always I think it's

(56:29):
like sense that you know, til tales old as time
has been. I can't believe you sit there and watch
that crap all day. Well I could, I suppose, and
I'm not doing this because I do it. I suppose
I could turn around and say something that's, you know,
more stereotypically female, like, oh, I can't believe you sit
around and watch Desperate Housewives or Real Housewives or or
any of these other shows all day. I would not

(56:49):
do that because if that's how you decompress, then more
power to you. If it's if you're not watching your
kids to do it, how is that any better than
me watching football not watching my kids. Again, I don't
mean to make this a gender thing, nor do I
mean to make it an epidemic, but I definitely think
we need to make sure we're not quantifying based on
the nature of the activity, because if everyone's getting to

(57:12):
do their thing right, then yeah, everything should be okay, right.

Speaker 12 (57:16):
Yeah, it's important for both parties, mom and dad to
you know, do things outside of the home for themselves, right, Friends,
whatever it might be, whatever it makes you happy. Someone
did text this in though, and I think this really
nails it for me at least, or from what I'm understanding,
is that you know, he met, they met, whye whatever,
years ago, they got married, and this was you know,
his thing before they even knew each other, which is okay,
I get you, but someone that doesn't.

Speaker 1 (57:36):
Really mean anything.

Speaker 12 (57:37):
And I kind of agree because they're saying that whatever
she wants to do probably hasn't forgotten and left behind,
and I think that happens for a lot of moms.
I'm just speaking for a lot of moms, and I'm
not me in particular, because I still will do what
I want to do. But I know a lot of
moms have lost that quote, their identity, things that made
them happy, So that could also she could be projecting totally,
but this also could be deeper than just football.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
Do you think there are men out there who feel
like whether it's football or golf or any other thing,
do you think there are men out there who feel
the same way? Do you think there are men who
feel that they've lost some aspect of individuality?

Speaker 1 (58:10):
I agree, but I do I'm a ride. I'm a
ride with this one.

Speaker 12 (58:13):
I do think it's the mother, the mom who loses
the identity more I've seen it.

Speaker 1 (58:17):
It's true, it happens, and it's easy too.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
You know, I can't speak to it, I mean as
a firsthand I can only speak to it observationally. But
I just I guess, again, seeing great examples of men
in my life who are great fathers and make a
lot of sacrifice, you know, I guess you may not
understand what it is they want to do or why,
but they don't have to understand what you want to
do or why nobody should be asking questions as long

(58:40):
as it's fair and equitable and everything's getting taken care of,
and if that's not happening, then that's the problem.

Speaker 1 (58:46):
Yeah, that's why that's true.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
But these responses I'm seeing are very specific and very pointed,
and I think you know, that's a shame. It's a
shame if if if it's if there are a bunch
of if in fact, there are a bunch of men
out there who negate their duties to watch football and
get drunk. I don't know if it's that simple, though,
but it does seem that way on the text Let's
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Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
Wor took a different spin. Today's some different high shells.
Good morning.

Speaker 13 (01:00:08):
Hi.

Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
You hear this debate about parenting and you're like, yeah,
my husband's in the military and he's gone twenty seven
months out of the year.

Speaker 6 (01:00:14):
So well, that's why I feel like so Jay, because
my husband works once a week, like overnight, so I'm
just fully in charge.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
He goes away for weeks at a time monster, So
I feel yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:00:25):
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Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
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Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
Shelley gets on the radio and goes, yeah, my my
husband's top what's his rank?

Speaker 1 (01:00:36):
Lieutenant?

Speaker 2 (01:00:37):
He's a lieutenant. He's in a top secret location right now.
I don't even know what he's doing. And I'm like, well,
that's funny because on his Instagram it's him flexing on
a beach in a bisa. I know what he's doing. Hey, Sage,
good morning. How you doing, Sage?

Speaker 13 (01:00:55):
Oh pretty good?

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
Hey, thank you for hanging on. Let's play the game.
It's five questions pop culture questions against their expert show
up his Shelley. Five hundred and fifty bucks is the prize,
ninety eight and sixty four is the record, and she
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Speaker 1 (01:01:07):
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Speaker 2 (01:01:11):
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Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
No, I'm just nervous.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
Oh no, don't be nervous. No one listens to this crap.
It's fine. Question number one, Which Pitch Perfect actors got
married in Italy over the weekend.

Speaker 4 (01:01:30):
Three?

Speaker 1 (01:01:31):
Two, one, Okay, we have four left.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
We're good. Which singer jokes about her link to the
New York City Mayor's indictment during her concert there on
Sunday three. She likes the way it tastes and the
please please bet cam and then and then she likes
it espresso. Yes, we'll take that. Yeah, sure that that

(01:01:58):
works for me. We can speak in word. That's Gwyneth
Paltrow celebrated her six year wedding anniversary with a photo
of she and her husband Brad. I'm not evenna try
and say that name Falca. What is the name of
the health and wellness company that she founded, Gwyneth Paltrow's company?
What is it?

Speaker 1 (01:02:19):
Three? Two?

Speaker 2 (01:02:24):
Okay? Good? I was gonna say, say a word if
you're okay, say a word if you're okay. Model in
former Miss Universe Olivia Colpo and her NFL star husband
bought George Clooney's La home. What is Olivia's husband's name?
He plays for Belhamin's favorite team.

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
He's a Christian? Yeah, three Christian?

Speaker 13 (01:02:48):
Christian meant something?

Speaker 1 (01:02:49):
I know, yep, Christian. That's yep, that's him, yep?

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
Good? Yeah, sure, one not? And which actor reprised his
role as Captain Jack Sparrow at a children's hospital in Spain.

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
Three two Jacks Barrow.

Speaker 2 (01:03:05):
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Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
Poof how did she do?

Speaker 2 (01:03:14):
Answer? Within? She got a two.

Speaker 1 (01:03:17):
Kind of two kind of Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:03:19):
It's a two. It's it's a blurry too, it's a
two ish sort of which Pitch Perfect actress got married
in Italy over the weekend.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
Rebel Wilson Yeah, Which.

Speaker 2 (01:03:29):
Singer jokes about her link to the New York City
mayor's indictment during her concert there.

Speaker 1 (01:03:33):
On Sunday, Sabrina Carpenter Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:03:36):
Gwyneth Paltro celebrated her six year wedding anniversary with a
photo of she and her husband. What is the name
of the health and wellness company that she founded goop? Yeah?
Model in former Miss Universe Olivia Colfo and her NFL
star husband bought George Kooney's La home. What is Olivia's
husband's name?

Speaker 1 (01:03:56):
Christian McCafferty, No, McMath.

Speaker 2 (01:04:02):
You already won? Which Active reprised this role as Captain
Jack Sparrow at a children's hospital in Spain.

Speaker 1 (01:04:09):
Johnny Depp.

Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
That's it. That's a win. Was a four to four
point four. That's a win. Nice job, Shells. Stage, you
gotta say it. My name is Sage. I got showed
up on a showdown. You know the rest.

Speaker 1 (01:04:23):
Okay, my name is Stage and I got showed up
in the showdown.

Speaker 2 (01:04:29):
Okay, that's okay, that's all right, and you Sage can't
hang with a garrilla Sage was just a little nervous. Understandable.
I get nervous every single day stage. I'm nervous right

(01:04:53):
now talking to you, Sage.

Speaker 1 (01:04:54):
I am, yeah, you know.

Speaker 14 (01:04:58):
Much of us.

Speaker 2 (01:05:00):
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Speaker 2 (01:05:12):
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Sure sounds great.

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All right, have a good day, Shell.

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That okay, you too.

Speaker 2 (01:05:32):
By all right, the entertainment report is coming up. Trending
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next after Teddy swims back at two minutes Fred's Show.
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Shane,
good morning, welcome, thank you for having me. Hey, it's

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our pleasure waiting by the phone. Shane phillis in on
this date with Kira. Tell us what happened on the days,
give us some background on how you met, and then
tell us what's going on now, and we'll see how
we can help.

Speaker 13 (01:06:06):
As quickly as possible. I met her on Hinge, took
her out for drinks and we had fun. And normally,
if you don't hear back from a girl, you got to.

Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
Take that on the chin.

Speaker 13 (01:06:16):
But the date we connected in the conversation was so effortless.
There was no awkward silences.

Speaker 11 (01:06:24):
At any point.

Speaker 13 (01:06:26):
And I can't even begin to tell you how well
I was, like, oh my gosh, I am clicking with
this person on such an intimate level, really really quickly.
And then after two calls and a couple of texts.

Speaker 2 (01:06:38):
Nothing, Wow. I listen to this energy. You sound like
you're into it. You sound like you're engaged. What is
not to like about Shane? Amen, there's something something. Okay,
So you were excited about her, you wanted to see
her again. You've reached out and she is not responding

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at all. You're being completely ghosted. Correct. Okay, Let's call
Kira and we'll see if we can get her on
the phone, and we'll ask some questions for you. You'll
be on the phone as well. At some point you're
welcome to jump in on the call. But hopefully we
can figure out what's going on. Maybe there's a good
reason why she hasn't called you back. We can set
you guys up on another day. We can pay for it,
and then everybody's happening. Hang on one second, Shan, We'll

(01:07:23):
be right back and to play a song. We'll come
back and today let's art what's going on? Court to
you have? Wad you bet the phone? After David Getta
and Sue mix, we'll do it the French. You always
a del lou Hey, Shane, Yes, all right, let's call Kira.
You guys, you met on a dating app and you
went out and you really felt good about this date.
You felt like it was a strong connection, that there
was chemistry. Except now Kira is ghosting you this This

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woman's not calling you back at all, and you want
to know why exactly. Let's call her now, good luck? Hello,
Hi is iss Kira?

Speaker 10 (01:07:59):
It air?

Speaker 11 (01:08:00):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (01:08:00):
Here a good morning Fred from the Friend Show. The
whole crew is here and I'm sorry to bother you,
but I do have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now and I would need your
consent and continue with the calls. That okay if we
chat for a second.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
Yeah sure, I know.

Speaker 2 (01:08:13):
It's weird, but thank you so much. We're calling on
behalf of a guy named Shane who says he met
you on a dating app and took you out. Do
you remember this guy?

Speaker 14 (01:08:22):
Oh my god, yes, I couldnot forget that kind.

Speaker 2 (01:08:25):
Okay, here comes the story. Well, he told us that
he thought the date went really well, and then he
liked you and that he was hoping to hear from
you again and says that he hasn't. So what happened. Yeah,
so the.

Speaker 14 (01:08:36):
Date was going really well actually, and up until the
point where we were talking about like family and how
we grew up. And then he disclosed that he grew
up in a naked household and that is like entire
family would walk around naked.

Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
They were dusts.

Speaker 1 (01:08:55):
Yes, same, Yeah, I didn't realize that was a thing.

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
So nobody at home, Like some will take their shoes
off when they go home, Like these people take off
all their clothes, all of it.

Speaker 14 (01:09:04):
Yeah, like full on news like everything, like.

Speaker 6 (01:09:09):
Yeah, parents and the kids and until the whole family.

Speaker 2 (01:09:13):
Huh yeah, and so why why would he tell you this?
Because is that how he still lives, like he goes home.

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
And we were just kind of yeah, like I don't know.

Speaker 14 (01:09:21):
We were just kind of talking about, like, you know,
just things that had happened as we were growing up
and just like our family dynamics. And yeah, that is
not at all what I hadn't like anticipated him saying.
And so I just was very weirded out by the
whole situation, and like.

Speaker 2 (01:09:42):
Well, Kira, I forgot to mention the chain is here,
shame uh, weird things to bring up on a date.
At what point did this stop? Or or when you
go to college when you're eighteen or something that's when
it stopped.

Speaker 13 (01:09:53):
I don't think there's anything shameful or embarrassing about nudity.
I guess I should probably state that.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
Yeah, I didn't.

Speaker 2 (01:10:00):
I didn't know.

Speaker 13 (01:10:02):
That that was the that was the issue. It's just
come on, yeah, yeah, I have I have zero body
image or issues of any kind. Either my older brother
or my younger sister.

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
Everyone's like, do you do everyone really cool?

Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
Yeah? I mean when you go home to visit the
family and you know, you guys break bread. Are you
all nude?

Speaker 13 (01:10:25):
There's not a rule. It's what you're comfortable at any point.

Speaker 1 (01:10:29):
Stop if you want.

Speaker 13 (01:10:33):
I think you guys have weird, weird body issues.

Speaker 2 (01:10:36):
Fall I don't want to know. Maybe we're just modest people.
I don't think it. I think that you could be
body positive and not have your wang hanging out in
front of your mom and dad.

Speaker 1 (01:10:46):
Yeah, I walk around naked a lot.

Speaker 13 (01:10:48):
Seem like that you automatically go to like potty humor.

Speaker 1 (01:10:52):
No, dude, it's just being comfortable. I mean, it's like
it's weird. It's a humor like you're.

Speaker 2 (01:11:00):
Yeah, you said what you're saying you do. You're saying
you guys all don't wear clothes at home, that's what
you're doing.

Speaker 1 (01:11:05):
Yeah, when your mom would cook as she was, she
just sweater. Yeahsul wear apron.

Speaker 13 (01:11:13):
You wear an apron to cover sensitive areas.

Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
But how could I have not known?

Speaker 4 (01:11:18):
I told you wear an apron to cover your clothes
from getting stained on, not your naked skin, not your song.

Speaker 12 (01:11:24):
Okay, so yes, like we've all probably seen our parents
at some point whatever, Like our mom's naked.

Speaker 1 (01:11:29):
We were kids, and I.

Speaker 12 (01:11:30):
Get that, right, Like we've all done that. We want
to forget, we want to forget it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
So why are you still doing this into adulthood? You
know what I'm saying, like I is.

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
That he's body positive. So that's what this is about
the future.

Speaker 13 (01:11:42):
I think you guys have a lot of hang ups
and a lot of issues, and I don't have that
at all.

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
That's true.

Speaker 14 (01:11:50):
I couldn't imagine like meeting his parents for the first
time and thinking about, like am I sitting where his dad?

Speaker 2 (01:11:57):
But you know, if you go over to his Houseira,
do you have to participate? Like if you go over
to the house, is it like, well, you know, we're
taking out, we're taking it all off, or it's time
for dinner.

Speaker 14 (01:12:09):
Yeah, It's just I can't. I can't even with that,
you know, I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:12:13):
I don't know. I think it's interesting, Shane, that you're
saying that it's weird that we think it's weird. I
think most people are going to think that's weird.

Speaker 13 (01:12:21):
I don't like parade around in the neighborhood. But when
we're inside our home and we're surrounded by our loved ones,
then we're free to be your Are you okay?

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
Do you need a therapist?

Speaker 2 (01:12:31):
It's strange, it is.

Speaker 13 (01:12:33):
I think you guys need a therapist. I think we
will have problems. That probably makes sense if you could
talk to them about how, regardless of your physical appearance,
you are a beautiful person inside and out. Nothing.

Speaker 2 (01:12:47):
It has more to do with seeing my parents. Thank it, frankly,
but anyway, all right, look so no second take here,
I take it.

Speaker 14 (01:12:54):
I'm absolutely not well.

Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
Hey, thank you for answering. Wow, We've heard a lot
of things. I've never I've actually never heard this in
any context, frankly, but Shane, good luck to you.

Speaker 1 (01:13:05):
I guess you need.

Speaker 13 (01:13:06):
It back at I hope good luck for you guys.
I mean you really need to get comfortable in your
own skin, all right.

Speaker 2 (01:13:12):
I mean the entertainment report with Calen trending story is
fun fact all all the way next to the French
show back in two minutes, Good mord.

Speaker 11 (01:13:19):
Calin's entertainment report is on the fread show.

Speaker 6 (01:13:23):
Mariana Grande was talking to Vanity Fair about her relationship
with Wicked co star Ethan Slater after what she called
a tough ride with the tabloids.

Speaker 1 (01:13:31):
She also addressed rumors.

Speaker 6 (01:13:32):
That their relationship began while they were both with other people,
she said the most disappointing part was to see so
many people believe the worst version of it.

Speaker 1 (01:13:40):
That was definitely a very tough ride.

Speaker 3 (01:13:42):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:13:43):
While reflecting on her fame starting from a very young age,
she said, I was this approachable, funny redhead on Nickelodeon
and everyone liked me. Then I had one too many
hit records and everyone decided that I was.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
An evil diva.

Speaker 6 (01:13:55):
And then other terrible things happened, and all of a sudden,
I was a hero and this victim. As for fans
pointing out that her voice has changed since she started
working on Wicked, she said, there is a part of
the world that isn't familiar with what it takes to
transform your voice, whether it's singing or taking on a
different dialect for a role, or doing a character voice
for something.

Speaker 1 (01:14:14):
When it's a.

Speaker 6 (01:14:15):
Male actor that does it, it's acclaimed. There definitely are
jokes that are made as well, but it's often often
after being led with praise and her voice, I mean,
her voice does sound different.

Speaker 1 (01:14:26):
I guess it is for the role.

Speaker 6 (01:14:27):
Speaking of Wicket, she also did one of those lie
detector tests that Vanity Fair does, and she did it
with co star Cynthia Arrivo, who asked her if she's
had her nose done, gotten a boob job, facelift, chin implant,
or fox eye lift, which she's all been accused of.
She said no to all those questions, and she did
pass the lie detector. But she admitted that she has

(01:14:47):
done fillers in botox, but that she sapped those treatments
four years ago, and that's the extent. Also made it
clear that she doesn't judge anyone who does those things,
but she said no and she passed. If we still
believe in lie detectors, Ashton Kutcher is apparently a very
worried that Diddy may lie about his famous friends in
order to clear his own name. Now, if you didn't know,
Ashin has been pretty close friends with the rapper for

(01:15:10):
almost two decades, with the duo always speaking really highly
of each other. Over the years, we've, i mean, we've
seen a ton of these resurface interviews and Ashton going
to various didty parties, you know, most famous the White Party,
And now that he's been arrested, Ashin is apparently worried
the same way that he was worried about disgraced actor
Danny Masterson. And remember in October of last year, he

(01:15:32):
and wife Mie Lacunis came under fire after they shared
letters of support for the former that seventies show co
star to both of them where they pled for the
judge to show leniency to the actor before he was
then sentenced to thirty years for rape.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
So it was a bad look.

Speaker 6 (01:15:47):
Then, I think he's worried that something similar is going
to happen, or maybe even worse, which is interesting nothing.

Speaker 15 (01:15:54):
Else exact rrect, he'd better be worried that he doesn't
tell the truth about some things on exactly.

Speaker 11 (01:16:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:16:02):
I also heard another interview where someone was saying that
there is a video with someone who's even more They
said it was even.

Speaker 1 (01:16:09):
More high profile than Diddy.

Speaker 6 (01:16:10):
I saw that, and that person was in the video
with Diddy doing something that would be very bad for
the world to see. So I think again, Yeah, Ashton actually.

Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
Steam flight logs, man, they have steam flight logs. No,
nobody wants those to come out because there's a bunch
of famous people and politicians and world leaders on that thing,
and it's like everybody's sleeping not as soundly, because eventually
we're gonna find out who's been at those parties and
who's been on the plane and everything else.

Speaker 6 (01:16:44):
Yeah, there's a lot of people, I think who should
be worried, and there's other people who've been vocal, like Yo,
I knew when it was time to leave those parties.
I went, and I knew when it was time to leave.
So again, why you worried Ashen, I don't know. We'll
see exactly and real quick. Christen Cavaleri and Mark says
is split was due to their age gap and fanny
family planning.

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
So the thirty seven.

Speaker 6 (01:17:02):
Year old actress, Oh not actress, what.

Speaker 1 (01:17:04):
Am I talking about? Hills start? I'm so sorry.

Speaker 6 (01:17:06):
Actress she did act on the hills because it was
all fake, right, an entrepreneur.

Speaker 1 (01:17:12):
Yeah, I'm sorry, Jason. I know that's your queen owner.

Speaker 6 (01:17:15):
But she split with and she split from her twenty
four year old influencer boyfriend over the weekend. Well, she
confirmed it, and word is that obviously, and we knew
this was going to come as they started to get
more serious. They had those kinds of conversations about the future.
They weren't aligned. I guess Mark has been really vocal
about wanting to settle downstart a family from the start,
and Kristin, who's a mom of three, was open to

(01:17:35):
the idea of maybe expanding, but she also feels really
content with her life and family and having another baby
with something she just wasn't sure that she was ready for.
It's a thirteen year age gap, and obviously that became
a huge factor. I think this is just two hot
people who wanted to do each other and that clouded
their vision.

Speaker 1 (01:17:53):
But I think it was lost.

Speaker 2 (01:17:54):
They got caught well, she got caught up in lust
and he got caught up in Oh the older woman
came as older woman and the cloud and that's why
I think happened. But you know what, I don't believe
in love anymore because I thought I thought for sure
that they would, that they would persevere and overcome all
odds I thought.

Speaker 6 (01:18:11):
I mean, she found her Montana boy, and now I
don't know where she's going to go.

Speaker 2 (01:18:14):
No, I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (01:18:16):
I think they'll both be just fine.

Speaker 6 (01:18:17):
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App Jason had the Lions last night, but he did
not have the Titans, So still a pretty impressive week
four though for you, Jason, well done. Thank you. I'm
getting bound on it. I'm proud of you. Unfortunately, the
death toll from Hurricane Helene is up to at least
one hundred and thirty people across six states. Six hundred
people still accounted for in Asheville, North Carolina alone, by

(01:18:48):
the way, shout out to and I don't I'm sure
other radio groups did this too, but shout out to
our team in Asheville, North Carolina, the iHeart team there.
I'm hearing about some incredible stories from the folks that
work at the radio stations that are part of the
iHeart family there. I mean, like hiking into the radio
station and bringing life saving dialysis equipment to people that

(01:19:12):
were I mean, just a bunch of just crazy stories
of folks making sure those radio stations stayed on the
air so that they could get people that the life
saving information that they needed. Because no one had power,
so maybe the only way you were able to get information.
You didn't have the Internet, you didn't have mobile phones,
didn't have power, so the radio may have been the
only way that people were able to get information. So

(01:19:34):
a lot of really incredible stories there, and of course
we're wishing them the best at our station in raleighs
doing a big relief effort for them for the people
in the western part of the state tomorrow in the Triangle.
If you are there, I hope you will support it.
What else do we have here? Oh? Pete Rose and
to Kevi Matsumba, legends in their own right, sports legends
in their own right, both passed away very sad. A

(01:19:58):
Taylor Swift guitar was smashed in a viral moment from
a guy that paid four thousand dollars for it. I
don't know why, but that's a viral story this morning.
And National Taco Tuesday, though is today, So everything's gonna
be okay because it's National Taco Tuesday, National Fire Pop Day,
recognizing the canine firefighters that have long been members of

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