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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's the Fred Show, Savedney, Good morning, welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good morning, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
It's our pleasure. What's going on with this guy? Mike
on waiting by the phone? Tell us how you met,
tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then where things are now.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
So I matched with.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Mike on Hinge and we've actually never met, but we
messaged a whole bunch and we're making plans to go
out before Mike seemed to get kind of annoyed and
stop responding.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Huh Okay, So you guys chatted a whole bunch, except
you never actually met in person, so it was like,
you're kind of setting things up to me but then
never met.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
No, the banter was strong, like we were definitely like
we were talking about what to do, and I mean
he was good looking, successful, it seems cool.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Like I just don't understand how you can go someone
before you even.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Meet them, right, So something must have happened in a
course of conversation. But you're looking back and you're like,
either maybe he met somebody else or whatever reason he
lost interest in. It's bothering you because you thought you
were well on the way to meeting.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Oh yeah, like I thought that it was going well.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So yeah, I think i'd want to know why too,
Like why why was everything going so well? And then
you just stopped talking to me? But I guess that's
kind of dating these days. But that's where we come in.
We're gonna call this guy Mike. We're gonna ask some questions.
You'll be on the phone at the same time, and
the hope is always is that we can straighten things out,
figure out what's been going on. Maybe there's a good explanation,
and then set you up on what would be I
guess the first date in this case, and we pay
(01:39):
for that, all.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Right, Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Stay right here.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
You have to hear what happens next part too of
when he met a phone after Hosier in two minutes
on The Fred Show. I don't want to say like
the oer, it just sounds sexier. I don't know what
it sounds like it does it? BA get two minutes
Fred Show. It's the Fred Show. Good morning, Thank you
so much for waking up with us. The entertainmer of
for two hundred bucks with show Beat Shelley Games Show Wednesday.
(02:04):
All coming up? Hey, Sydney, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call
this guy Mike. You guys matched on one of the
dating apps, and you guys were chatting for a while,
messaging back and forth kind of a lot, actually, you
were saying, except he's disappeared before you could even go
on the date, before you could even meet. It's like,
how am I getting ghosted before I even had a
chance to mess this up? Ry?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Is that what you're thinking?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Exactly? I just don't know what went wrong, so I
just want to know.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Okay, Well, let's call Mike now, see you we can
get him on the phone. Good luck, Thank you so much. Hello,
Hi is this Mike? Yeah speaking Hey Mike, good morning.
My name is iss Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
(02:53):
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a
second on the show, would you mind? I guess so
I'll take that as a yes.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
We're calling on behalf of a woman who reached out
to us. Her name is Sydney. She says that you
guys matched on one of the dating apps recently, and
you were chatting and talking about going on a date.
Do you remember interacting with Sydney?
Speaker 6 (03:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I do.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
She you're saying she contacted you about what?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Right, Well, she reached out to us because we do
this segment where we're trying to figure out, you know,
kind of what happened, and uh, you know why, maybe
you're ghosting her. She says that you guys chatted for
a while but never met and then cold turkey, you
just stopped messaging.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Right, she has no idea why? Oh my god, this.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
Woman Okay, yeah, sure, I'll chat with you. This woman
is zero software. She's saying, a ghosted or we're just
chatting on the app.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Okay, but she I guess thought that, you know, when
you match with somebody and you start talking to them,
I guess you're chatting and working towards going on a
date and then you just stopped talking to her.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So what why did you stop talking to her?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Well?
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Well, yeah, yeah, that's that's accurate. Sure, But I mean
I was excited, Yeah, I was excited to meet her.
We were trying to play in a date together. But
she sent me a text and I just I guess, yeah, sure,
I ghosted her because the last thing she texted me
was absolutely insane.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Well what was that?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
That's just like, well, okay, so we were chatting. I
was trying to take like a time and a place
where we could go out together. And then the conversation
just took a big pivot because all of a sudden
she goes and just and so annoyed.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I can pull up the text.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
She said something like I'm so annoyed. Yeah, I'm so
annoyed because all the men I'm dating just want to
sleep with me, and I'm tired of being used for sex.
She said this to me after I said are you
free Friday or sat?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So you were not talking about sex, you were not proposed.
I'm some form of casual thing, like you were trying
to plan a date. And this is what she said
to you.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
That exact verbatim, And I was like, haha, I'm sorry.
Was this meant for me? Like trying to give her
an out, because I, like I said, it was just
a heart, such a hard left. And then no, it's
just like the floodgates up and she's like, no, I'm
tired of being.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Used for sex and I don't know.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
I was actually like trying to go out on a
date with her, and I just they took me off
so much, and she just kept going on. She's like, yeah,
last up of dates. I went, not know, basically just
like coming over to my house and then we'd sleep
together and then they'd leave.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Why why would you say that? Why are you telling
me that?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
By the way, I forgot to mention Mike that Sydney's here.
That's Sydney. She just jumped in Sidney. Why are you
telling a guy who's trying to take you on a
date about the other message?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Oh my god?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Why?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
I was just caught in a particularly bad moment. I
have been misled a little bit by other people, and I.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Just needed to I just was just caught up and
needed to be like really honest. Suddenly I had just
gotten rejected from somebody else. So I but my point
is valid. I mean a lot of men are lazy,
and I just really wanted to like make sure that
was the case here.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I guess, weren't you trying to plan it right in
the problem, Like, weren't you asking her like to go
and do the exact thing that she's complaining doesn't happen.
When then she told you that she's been used by
everybody else, I.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Guess, yeah, that was a lot. Yeah, no kidding, I
don't know, Sydney. Hey, I awkward, but yeah, I don't know.
The whole time, I was like, I would never.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
Do that to somebody, even if the roles were reversed
or something. I would never say that to a woman.
It just feels like inappropriate. I'm sorry, like generalizing that
men are lazy or whatever.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
But I was actually just trying to go out with.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
You, Like I don't know that he needs to hear
about whatever's been going on with other men, Like, Okay,
we're on the dating apps, we're dating.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
You're not supposed to be honest about what's going on
with my life, and like, make.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Sure it's not that honest that your free Friday or Saturday.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Yes I'm available, you want to date?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
It was the everything you were complaining about, wasn't trying
to drive by?
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Yeah that's right. Yeah, that's a good point. Like I'm
just literally trying to ask you out of the date
with zero expectations. I'm sorry that you've been hurt in
the past, but like, yeah, obviously this.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Isn't a good MAS.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
That message should have stayed in the female group chat, like,
you know, we got a group chat for the girls
that shouldn't have left that era message.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
I would be like, is this for me?
Speaker 7 (07:47):
Right?
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Like exactly what he said? Are you sure you wanted
me to see inner monologue?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
But why monologue?
Speaker 3 (07:57):
I don't know. I just feel pretty judged right now
and kind of shamed.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I gotta ask you, Sydney, if a man were to
say to you, man, I'm just so tired of running
through all these chicks.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
You know, I'm just so tired of it. For dinner,
I have sex. Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
I'm just I'm exhausted from all these women I'm getting with.
I don't know if I have the energy for you.
I mean, wouldn't you feel less.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Than That's not how I put it. I'm just as
I've been trying to normal person.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Read it back the testimony.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I don't know Kiki and me, are you not hearing
what I'm hearing, which is that this is just we
got to keep this stuff to ourselves. Yeah, girl, that
was between you and the woman in the mirror, Like
you were not supposed to text this man because now
you gave him an idea, like if you let everybody
else hit it, you know, without mind dinner? Why not
in fairness, Sydney, That's that's where my head would go.
It's well, wait a minute, so guy, you're telling me
(08:59):
that dudes just come over and hook up and leave it.
Now you want me to take you to dinner? Like,
I guess, I don't know why I got to take
you to Just get me the pass code? What's the
door code? I mean, tell your doorman, I'm on my way.
Can you understand how a guy might feel less, he
feels devalued.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I mean, I guess, but you know, I just believe
in radical honesty. You know.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
She wanted to ask, though?
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Did he asked?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Like, hey, everybody hitting it?
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I was just Mi's like, I was just curious, Like
what if I bring the dinner over and maybe we
eat it later? I just leave it for you? And
what if I'm just pretending to be a doordass driver
and we do a role player?
Speaker 1 (09:47):
All right? Mike?
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Look so, Sydney, maybe she said too much. Maybe you
caught her at a week moment. Would you consider going
on a date with her? A dinner date? The whole
you know, the whole thing. We'll pay for it. You
don't have to do anything but show.
Speaker 6 (10:00):
Up that that's a kind offer. But I think I'm okay, honestly,
I think it's just like one of those learning moments
where I think we're better off just okay, not trying
to go out.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Hey, Sydney, I'm sorry that you're having a tough time,
you know, with dating and that the standards and that,
which you'd like, But I guess i'd keep that to
myself maybe because then this is kind of what happens.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Fine, I mean, I just think you should be able
to be honest, but okay, honest, but then maybe.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
Not, you know, yeah, yeah, but you're generalizing like we
haven't even there's a thing between honesty and just assuming
the worst in me, and I just I got nothing
to pretty to you, lady.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
I just that's right, lady. Hey guys, Sidney, thank you
for your time. Mike, thanks you for your time. Is
what best it looks at both of you. The entertainment
report is next two minutes, so I it's the French show.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Say right here,
I've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
It's the Fred Show, Savedney, Good morning, welcome to the show.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Good morning, thanks for having me.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
It's our pleasure. What's going on with this guy? Mike
on waiting by the phone? Tell us how you met,
tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then where things are now.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
So I matched with.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Mike on Hinge and we've actually never met, but we
messaged a whole bunch and we're making plans to go
out before Mike seemed to get kind of annoyed and
stop responding.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Huh Okay, So you guys chatted a whole bunch, except
you never actually met in person, so it was like,
you're kind of setting things up to me but then
never met.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
No, the banter was strong, like we were definitely like
we were talking about what to do, and I mean
he was good looking, successful, it seems cool.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Like I just don't understand how you can go someone
before you even.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Meet them, right, So something must have happened in a
course of conversation. But you're looking back and you're like,
either maybe he met somebody else or whatever reason he
lost interest in. It's bothering you because you thought you
were well on the way to meeting.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Oh yeah, like I thought that it was going well.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So yeah, I think i'd want to know why too,
Like why why was everything going so well? And then
you just stopped talking to me? But I guess that's
kind of dating these days. But that's where we come in.
We're gonna call this guy Mike. We're gonna ask some questions.
You'll be on the phone at the same time, and
the hope is always is that we can straighten things out,
figure out what's been going on. Maybe there's a good explanation,
and then set you up on what would be I
guess the first date in this case, and we pay
(01:39):
for that, all.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Right, Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Stay right here.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
You have to hear what happens next part too of
when he met a phone after Hosier in two minutes
on The Fred Show. I don't want to say like
the oer, it just sounds sexier. I don't know what
it sounds like it does it? BA get two minutes
Fred Show. It's the Fred Show. Good morning, Thank you
so much for waking up with us. The entertainmer of
for two hundred bucks with show Beat Shelley Games Show Wednesday.
(02:04):
All coming up? Hey, Sydney, Yeah, welcome back. Let's call
this guy Mike. You guys matched on one of the
dating apps, and you guys were chatting for a while,
messaging back and forth kind of a lot, actually, you
were saying, except he's disappeared before you could even go
on the date, before you could even meet. It's like,
how am I getting ghosted before I even had a
chance to mess this up? Ry?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Is that what you're thinking?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Exactly? I just don't know what went wrong, so I
just want to know.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Okay, Well, let's call Mike now, see you we can
get him on the phone. Good luck, Thank you so much. Hello,
Hi is this Mike? Yeah speaking Hey Mike, good morning.
My name is iss Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I have to tell you that we are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
(02:53):
continue with the call. Can we chat for just a
second on the show, would you mind? I guess so
I'll take that as a yes.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
We're calling on behalf of a woman who reached out
to us. Her name is Sydney. She says that you
guys matched on one of the dating apps recently, and
you were chatting and talking about going on a date.
Do you remember interacting with Sydney?
Speaker 6 (03:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I do.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
She you're saying she contacted you about what?
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Right, Well, she reached out to us because we do
this segment where we're trying to figure out, you know,
kind of what happened, and uh, you know why, maybe
you're ghosting her. She says that you guys chatted for
a while but never met and then cold turkey, you
just stopped messaging.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Right, she has no idea why? Oh my god, this.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
Woman Okay, yeah, sure, I'll chat with you. This woman
is zero software. She's saying, a ghosted or we're just
chatting on the app.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Okay, but she I guess thought that, you know, when
you match with somebody and you start talking to them,
I guess you're chatting and working towards going on a
date and then you just stopped talking to her.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
So what why did you stop talking to her?
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Well?
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Well, yeah, yeah, that's that's accurate. Sure, But I mean
I was excited, Yeah, I was excited to meet her.
We were trying to play in a date together. But
she sent me a text and I just I guess, yeah, sure,
I ghosted her because the last thing she texted me
was absolutely insane.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Well what was that?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
That's just like, well, okay, so we were chatting. I
was trying to take like a time and a place
where we could go out together. And then the conversation
just took a big pivot because all of a sudden
she goes and just and so annoyed.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I can pull up the text.
Speaker 6 (04:34):
She said something like I'm so annoyed. Yeah, I'm so
annoyed because all the men I'm dating just want to
sleep with me, and I'm tired of being used for sex.
She said this to me after I said are you
free Friday or sat?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
So you were not talking about sex, you were not proposed.
I'm some form of casual thing, like you were trying
to plan a date. And this is what she said
to you.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
That exact verbatim, And I was like, haha, I'm sorry.
Was this meant for me? Like trying to give her
an out, because I, like I said, it was just
a heart, such a hard left. And then no, it's
just like the floodgates up and she's like, no, I'm
tired of being.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Used for sex and I don't know.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
I was actually like trying to go out on a
date with her, and I just they took me off
so much, and she just kept going on. She's like, yeah,
last up of dates. I went, not know, basically just
like coming over to my house and then we'd sleep
together and then they'd leave.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Why why would you say that? Why are you telling
me that?
Speaker 2 (05:42):
By the way, I forgot to mention Mike that Sydney's here.
That's Sydney. She just jumped in Sidney. Why are you
telling a guy who's trying to take you on a
date about the other message?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Oh my god?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Why?
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
I was just caught in a particularly bad moment. I
have been misled a little bit by other people, and I.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Just needed to I just was just caught up and
needed to be like really honest. Suddenly I had just
gotten rejected from somebody else. So I but my point
is valid. I mean a lot of men are lazy,
and I just really wanted to like make sure that
was the case here.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I guess, weren't you trying to plan it right in
the problem, Like, weren't you asking her like to go
and do the exact thing that she's complaining doesn't happen.
When then she told you that she's been used by
everybody else, I.
Speaker 5 (06:34):
Guess, yeah, that was a lot. Yeah, no kidding, I
don't know, Sydney. Hey, I awkward, but yeah, I don't know.
The whole time, I was like, I would never.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
Do that to somebody, even if the roles were reversed
or something. I would never say that to a woman.
It just feels like inappropriate. I'm sorry, like generalizing that
men are lazy or whatever.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
But I was actually just trying to go out with.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
You, Like I don't know that he needs to hear
about whatever's been going on with other men, Like, Okay,
we're on the dating apps, we're dating.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
You're not supposed to be honest about what's going on
with my life, and like, make.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Sure it's not that honest that your free Friday or Saturday.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Yes I'm available, you want to date?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
It was the everything you were complaining about, wasn't trying
to drive by?
Speaker 6 (07:24):
Yeah that's right. Yeah, that's a good point. Like I'm
just literally trying to ask you out of the date
with zero expectations. I'm sorry that you've been hurt in
the past, but like, yeah, obviously this.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Isn't a good MAS.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
That message should have stayed in the female group chat, like,
you know, we got a group chat for the girls
that shouldn't have left that era message.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
I would be like, is this for me?
Speaker 7 (07:47):
Right?
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Like exactly what he said? Are you sure you wanted
me to see inner monologue?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
But why monologue?
Speaker 3 (07:57):
I don't know. I just feel pretty judged right now
and kind of shamed.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
I gotta ask you, Sydney, if a man were to
say to you, man, I'm just so tired of running
through all these chicks.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
You know, I'm just so tired of it. For dinner,
I have sex. Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
I'm just I'm exhausted from all these women I'm getting with.
I don't know if I have the energy for you.
I mean, wouldn't you feel less.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Than That's not how I put it. I'm just as
I've been trying to normal person.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Read it back the testimony.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
I don't know Kiki and me, are you not hearing
what I'm hearing, which is that this is just we
got to keep this stuff to ourselves. Yeah, girl, that
was between you and the woman in the mirror, Like
you were not supposed to text this man because now
you gave him an idea, like if you let everybody
else hit it, you know, without mind dinner? Why not
in fairness, Sydney, That's that's where my head would go.
It's well, wait a minute, so guy, you're telling me
(08:59):
that dudes just come over and hook up and leave it.
Now you want me to take you to dinner? Like,
I guess, I don't know why I got to take
you to Just get me the pass code? What's the
door code? I mean, tell your doorman, I'm on my way.
Can you understand how a guy might feel less, he
feels devalued.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
I mean, I guess, but you know, I just believe
in radical honesty. You know.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
She wanted to ask, though?
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Did he asked?
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Like, hey, everybody hitting it?
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I was just Mi's like, I was just curious, Like
what if I bring the dinner over and maybe we
eat it later? I just leave it for you? And
what if I'm just pretending to be a doordass driver
and we do a role player?
Speaker 1 (09:47):
All right? Mike?
Speaker 2 (09:48):
Look so, Sydney, maybe she said too much. Maybe you
caught her at a week moment. Would you consider going
on a date with her? A dinner date? The whole
you know, the whole thing. We'll pay for it. You
don't have to do anything but show.
Speaker 6 (10:00):
Up that that's a kind offer. But I think I'm okay, honestly,
I think it's just like one of those learning moments
where I think we're better off just okay, not trying
to go out.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
Hey, Sydney, I'm sorry that you're having a tough time,
you know, with dating and that the standards and that,
which you'd like, But I guess i'd keep that to
myself maybe because then this is kind of what happens.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
Fine, I mean, I just think you should be able
to be honest, but okay, honest, but then maybe.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
Not, you know, yeah, yeah, but you're generalizing like we
haven't even there's a thing between honesty and just assuming
the worst in me, and I just I got nothing
to pretty to you, lady.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
I just that's right, lady. Hey guys, Sidney, thank you
for your time. Mike, thanks you for your time. Is
what best it looks at both of you. The entertainment
report is next two minutes, so I it's the French show.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Say right here,
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Ding dong! Join your culture consultants, Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang, on an unforgettable journey into the beating heart of CULTURE. Alongside sizzling special guests, they GET INTO the hottest pop-culture moments of the day and the formative cultural experiences that turned them into Culturistas. Produced by the Big Money Players Network and iHeartRadio.