November 4, 2024 • 9 mins
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's beautiful things.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show. Isaiah,
good morning, Welcome to this show. How are you hey?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Good morning? All right?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
How are you doing great?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
But I can tell I can just you hear it
in this man's voice that he wants some answers, and
that's what we're here to deliver. On waiting by the phone.
This is our public service to the world. We're trying
to figure out why it is that this woman, Charlotte
is not responding to you any longer. But we got
to know the backstory. How did you meet Charlotte? How
many dates have you been on? You know, what do
you think is going on?
Speaker 3 (00:35):
So we've been on hinge and we've just been on
one date. But I'm telling you the date was really
really fun. Like I thought for sure that I would
be seeing her again, like no question, we would have
a second date. And afterwards I'm texting her and then
she's just like completely short with me and it was
(00:57):
super confusing and I try to elong gate the conversation.
She wasn't having any of it until she just eventually
ghosted me. I mean she just completely cut me off.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Wow, Okay, and really so you're looking back on this
and you you can't think of any stumbling block. You
can't think of any reason why this person would go
from being interested in seeing you to not ever wanting
to talk to you again.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Look, I have.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Thought about this for her a long time, and I
honestly cannot tell where I misstepped. It really was a
perfect date.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah, and that could be annoying, right, I mean, you
like somebody, and you we've said a thousand times on here,
but you like somebody, you're interested, you think it's maybe
going somewhere, and then you don't hear from them, and
then you kind of agonize, especially if you have any
level of anxiety, you kind of or you're an overthinker. Right,
you sit back and you're like, what did I say?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
What did I do?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
What could have happened? And at least like those answers,
and you're not getting those. And that's where we come in.
We're gonna call this woman Charlotte. We're gonna have you
on the phone at the same time, we're gonna ask
the questions. At some point you're welcome to jump in,
and the hope is that we can straighten this out.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Maybe she has a.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Good expert nation for not being responsive and then if
that's the case, we'll set you up on a second.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Date and day for Okay, that's awesome, thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Let's see what happens next Part two of waiting on
the phone after to bring a carpenter back in two
minutes on the Fred Shows. Stay right here, it's the
Fred Show commercial free for the next hour. You don't
have to go anywhere, Isaiah. Yes, all right, let's call Charlotte.
You guys went on one date that you thought went
really well, except the communication has faded away since that
(02:27):
date to nothing now, and you want to know what
happened because you thought the date went well, you thought
there'd be a second date, and it's bugging you. You're
trying to figure out, you know, where did things go wrong?
That's right, all right, Well, let's call Sharwa now good luck?
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Hi is this Charlotte? Yeah, Charlotte, Hey, good morning. My
name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred Show, the
Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now. I do need
your permission to continue with the call. You can hang
up any time, but can we chat for just a
second yeah, sure, Okay, Well, thank you so much for
calling on behalf of a guy named Isaiah. He says
that you guys meant unhinge and had a really fun date,
(03:09):
but you've kind of faded away since then.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Do you remember this guy?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I do, all right, So what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
What's your side of the story here, because he just
described to us, you know, that he liked you and
was excited about the potential, and that you've kind of
you know, I don't know if you're bread crumbing. I
guess you're not breadcrumbing him because well now he's hungry
because there ain't nothing. He says, you're not responding to
him at all. So what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, so we had a fun date.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I thought he was cool, but I.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Remember when we were driving home from the restaurant, we
got a flat tire and he literally had no idea
how to change a tire.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So he's taking you home from the date, so he
picked you up, which it doesn't happen much anymore. And
I'm a single guy, and I should you know, I
don't know. I guess it has more to do with one,
you know, these people are strangers, and two do you
send a car I have. I have, But then again
that means someone's giving me their address, which I don't
(04:11):
assume anybody wants to do, but I would say I
could make a little more effort. So this guy makes
the effort, and you guys have a nice date and
you're driving home flat tire, and this guy is like,
I don't know what to do?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Is you look into you to do?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I mean I told him like no, I mean he
didn't ask me. But honestly, like at that point, I
felt like I needed all I needed. I saw all
I needed to see, you know, like my dad has
always told me, like if a guy doesn't know how
to change a tire, you know okay, and you should
steer your career.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Well what did you do to get home? Did you
call an uber or something? Or how did he rectify
the situation?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
He called triple A, which I thought was kind of
a cop out. And then we had to like d
to them to come.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I forgot to I'm sorry, Isaiah is here. I forgot
to mention that Isaiah is here.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I guess I want to hear what you have to say.
But my first initial thought is I know how to
change its higher. But I also have triple A, right,
So why does it matter as long as I fix
the problem or the problem gets fixed? As it matter?
I mean, does it really matter who does it?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Well? It's not so much that it's just like if
you don't know how to change its higher? What other
things are you incapable of that will like come into
play in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
And I guess higher well, And I guess my argument
to that would be as a guy who's done incredibly handy,
you know, if something's broken, is if I get it
fixed for you or if I fix it, what difference
does it make as long as it gets fixed, right?
Speaker 4 (05:33):
I just would rather have someone who's not helpless and
like not good with their hands, Okay, you know, like
I want someone who is like a well rounded, smart
person that can take care of me.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I don't know he's dumb.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
I mean, this is it's very rare that I defend
the person number one, But I'm defending person number one
in this, Isaiah. But I want I interrupted you earlier, Isaiah,
I just wanted to make those points.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
But what did you want to say?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
No?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Well, first, Charlotte Hyde, I am just kind of pick
the back by this, you won't see me again because
I don't know how to change my tire.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yes, I mean that's that's the that's the trucks of it. Yeah,
that's that's Those are the says they say.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
You say, like, this is an obvious thing. I mean,
I have triple A. That's what it's for. You would
think that you would admire the maturity of having a
service like that, for instance, like that you're.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Just throwing money at the problem instead of taking the
problem into your own hand.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
See, I would think, as I mean, I think again,
you're you're entitled to whatever perspective you want, Charlotte. But
I would think if he just kind of stood there
like I don't know what to do, and kind of
looked to you to fix it and had no solution,
I would think that's a really big turnoff. I would
think that's what that would be the turnoff. Now, if
this guy's like, oh, we got a flat tire, let
me get we're gonna get on this, yeah, and call
somebody and they come fix it.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Is that as sexy as if he gets down there
on his hands and knees and you know, whatever fixes
the problem and pulls the transmission out, and you don't
do that for a flat tie. I don't think, but
you know what I mean, I don't know if it
pulls out of the first date.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
On a first date when you're trying to make a
good impression of like who you are as a person,
like that would have been that would have really like
sold me on having a second date with him, because
like I.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Look at my my parents for example, and my dad
can do all this stuff, but my dad. I think
my mom's probably with my dad is a lot of
times he doesn't want to do it, so it just
doesn't get done when all she really wants is for
it to get done. And I don't think she cares
whether he's under the sink with the wrench or he
calls somebody and gets them to come over.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
As long as he gets done. That's the sexy part,
right like where.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
My son gave me so much crap for dating a
guy who couldn't change a tire.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I mean, he was really upset about it. I don't
feel that way. I can't change a tire, but the
dad's how comes Charlott, Your dad didn't teach you how
to change a tire. That is an interesting point. Do
you know how to change it?
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Time?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Can you do it? Could you have done it?
Speaker 4 (07:47):
I actually can, Yes, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
My dad did teach me how to do it.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
But I was in a dress and heel.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Because it was right.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
We were on a date.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Well, girl, I wasn't gonna li What if he don't
have a dad? Oh okay, yeah, maybe he don't know.
Maybe he'd never had it, so you don't know to
change Maybe, no one, time, no one go on.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
YouTube and search for how to change it. Time.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
You already know how to change the tire. Why didn't
you guys just get out together and you could have
just instructed them. Hey, there's step one, here's step two. Well, yeah,
I mean you could have. I guess you could have
helped him get triple A. Yeah, but he fixed it.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
But he fixed it and you got home safely, like
I guess. I guess that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, she's been tough.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Yeah, but you know what you're entitled to. What you're
entitled to, what you want. And again, for me, if
I just if I'm a dude and my tires flat
and I don't know what to do, and I just
kind of stand there and look at you like, how
are you going to fix this?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I think that's a turn off.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
But if I'm like, okay, we got a flat tire,
you know what solution, Triple A. I got nice jeans on,
I'm not getting dirty. But in twenty minutes they'll be
here and I pay for this and they'll fix it.
And you know what, the Triple A guy is going
to judge me. But I can deal with that as
long as my date doesn't judge me. But in this case,
you want somebody who's a little more assertive and and
has these skills. And uh, I guess I say it's
(08:59):
not that, and that is your right, Charlotte and Isaiah.
I you know, it's a shame because Charlotte, would you
admit up until that point that things were going.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Well, yeah, yeah, we had a great date.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
That's too bad. But anyway, so no second date. We'll
pay for it. You can take it.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Over, right. It's just I don't think he's for me.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
All right, Well that's you're right, Isaiah. I'm sorry it's
not going to work out, but I wish you both
the best of luck and thank you for your time.
It's beautiful things.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show. Isaiah,
good morning, Welcome to this show. How are you hey?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Good morning? All right?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
How are you doing great?
Speaker 2 (00:14):
But I can tell I can just you hear it
in this man's voice that he wants some answers, and
that's what we're here to deliver. On waiting by the phone.
This is our public service to the world. We're trying
to figure out why it is that this woman, Charlotte
is not responding to you any longer. But we got
to know the backstory. How did you meet Charlotte? How
many dates have you been on? You know, what do
you think is going on?
Speaker 3 (00:35):
So we've been on hinge and we've just been on
one date. But I'm telling you the date was really
really fun. Like I thought for sure that I would
be seeing her again, like no question, we would have
a second date. And afterwards I'm texting her and then
she's just like completely short with me and it was
(00:57):
super confusing and I try to elong gate the conversation.
She wasn't having any of it until she just eventually
ghosted me. I mean she just completely cut me off.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Wow, Okay, and really so you're looking back on this
and you you can't think of any stumbling block. You
can't think of any reason why this person would go
from being interested in seeing you to not ever wanting
to talk to you again.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Look, I have.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Thought about this for her a long time, and I
honestly cannot tell where I misstepped. It really was a
perfect date.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah, and that could be annoying, right, I mean, you
like somebody, and you we've said a thousand times on here,
but you like somebody, you're interested, you think it's maybe
going somewhere, and then you don't hear from them, and
then you kind of agonize, especially if you have any
level of anxiety, you kind of or you're an overthinker. Right,
you sit back and you're like, what did I say?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
What did I do?
Speaker 2 (01:45):
What could have happened? And at least like those answers,
and you're not getting those. And that's where we come in.
We're gonna call this woman Charlotte. We're gonna have you
on the phone at the same time, we're gonna ask
the questions. At some point you're welcome to jump in,
and the hope is that we can straighten this out.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Maybe she has a.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Good expert nation for not being responsive and then if
that's the case, we'll set you up on a second.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Date and day for Okay, that's awesome, thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Let's see what happens next Part two of waiting on
the phone after to bring a carpenter back in two
minutes on the Fred Shows. Stay right here, it's the
Fred Show commercial free for the next hour. You don't
have to go anywhere, Isaiah. Yes, all right, let's call Charlotte.
You guys went on one date that you thought went
really well, except the communication has faded away since that
(02:27):
date to nothing now, and you want to know what
happened because you thought the date went well, you thought
there'd be a second date, and it's bugging you. You're
trying to figure out, you know, where did things go wrong?
That's right, all right, Well, let's call Sharwa now good luck?
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Hello?
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Hi is this Charlotte? Yeah, Charlotte, Hey, good morning. My
name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred Show, the
Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now. I do need
your permission to continue with the call. You can hang
up any time, but can we chat for just a
second yeah, sure, Okay, Well, thank you so much for
calling on behalf of a guy named Isaiah. He says
that you guys meant unhinge and had a really fun date,
(03:09):
but you've kind of faded away since then.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Do you remember this guy?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I do, all right, So what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
What's your side of the story here, because he just
described to us, you know, that he liked you and
was excited about the potential, and that you've kind of
you know, I don't know if you're bread crumbing. I
guess you're not breadcrumbing him because well now he's hungry
because there ain't nothing. He says, you're not responding to
him at all. So what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, so we had a fun date.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I thought he was cool, but I.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Remember when we were driving home from the restaurant, we
got a flat tire and he literally had no idea
how to change a tire.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
So he's taking you home from the date, so he
picked you up, which it doesn't happen much anymore. And
I'm a single guy, and I should you know, I
don't know. I guess it has more to do with one,
you know, these people are strangers, and two do you
send a car I have. I have, But then again
that means someone's giving me their address, which I don't
(04:11):
assume anybody wants to do, but I would say I
could make a little more effort. So this guy makes
the effort, and you guys have a nice date and
you're driving home flat tire, and this guy is like,
I don't know what to do?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Is you look into you to do?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I mean I told him like no, I mean he
didn't ask me. But honestly, like at that point, I
felt like I needed all I needed. I saw all
I needed to see, you know, like my dad has
always told me, like if a guy doesn't know how
to change a tire, you know okay, and you should
steer your career.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Well what did you do to get home? Did you
call an uber or something? Or how did he rectify
the situation?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
He called triple A, which I thought was kind of
a cop out. And then we had to like d
to them to come.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I forgot to I'm sorry, Isaiah is here. I forgot
to mention that Isaiah is here.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I guess I want to hear what you have to say.
But my first initial thought is I know how to
change its higher. But I also have triple A, right,
So why does it matter as long as I fix
the problem or the problem gets fixed? As it matter?
I mean, does it really matter who does it?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
Well? It's not so much that it's just like if
you don't know how to change its higher? What other
things are you incapable of that will like come into
play in a relationship?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
And I guess higher well, And I guess my argument
to that would be as a guy who's done incredibly handy,
you know, if something's broken, is if I get it
fixed for you or if I fix it, what difference
does it make as long as it gets fixed, right?
Speaker 4 (05:33):
I just would rather have someone who's not helpless and
like not good with their hands, Okay, you know, like
I want someone who is like a well rounded, smart
person that can take care of me.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I don't know he's dumb.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
I mean, this is it's very rare that I defend
the person number one, But I'm defending person number one
in this, Isaiah. But I want I interrupted you earlier, Isaiah,
I just wanted to make those points.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
But what did you want to say?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
No?
Speaker 3 (05:58):
Well, first, Charlotte Hyde, I am just kind of pick
the back by this, you won't see me again because
I don't know how to change my tire.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yes, I mean that's that's the that's the trucks of it. Yeah,
that's that's Those are the says they say.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
You say, like, this is an obvious thing. I mean,
I have triple A. That's what it's for. You would
think that you would admire the maturity of having a
service like that, for instance, like that you're.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Just throwing money at the problem instead of taking the
problem into your own hand.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
See, I would think, as I mean, I think again,
you're you're entitled to whatever perspective you want, Charlotte. But
I would think if he just kind of stood there
like I don't know what to do, and kind of
looked to you to fix it and had no solution,
I would think that's a really big turnoff. I would
think that's what that would be the turnoff. Now, if
this guy's like, oh, we got a flat tire, let
me get we're gonna get on this, yeah, and call
somebody and they come fix it.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Is that as sexy as if he gets down there
on his hands and knees and you know, whatever fixes
the problem and pulls the transmission out, and you don't
do that for a flat tie. I don't think, but
you know what I mean, I don't know if it
pulls out of the first date.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
On a first date when you're trying to make a
good impression of like who you are as a person,
like that would have been that would have really like
sold me on having a second date with him, because
like I.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Look at my my parents for example, and my dad
can do all this stuff, but my dad. I think
my mom's probably with my dad is a lot of
times he doesn't want to do it, so it just
doesn't get done when all she really wants is for
it to get done. And I don't think she cares
whether he's under the sink with the wrench or he
calls somebody and gets them to come over.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
As long as he gets done. That's the sexy part,
right like where.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
My son gave me so much crap for dating a
guy who couldn't change a tire.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I mean, he was really upset about it. I don't
feel that way. I can't change a tire, but the
dad's how comes Charlott, Your dad didn't teach you how
to change a tire. That is an interesting point. Do
you know how to change it?
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Time?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Can you do it? Could you have done it?
Speaker 4 (07:47):
I actually can, Yes, absolutely.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
My dad did teach me how to do it.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
But I was in a dress and heel.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Because it was right.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
We were on a date.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Well, girl, I wasn't gonna li What if he don't
have a dad? Oh okay, yeah, maybe he don't know.
Maybe he'd never had it, so you don't know to
change Maybe, no one, time, no one go on.
Speaker 4 (08:03):
YouTube and search for how to change it. Time.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
You already know how to change the tire. Why didn't
you guys just get out together and you could have
just instructed them. Hey, there's step one, here's step two. Well, yeah,
I mean you could have. I guess you could have
helped him get triple A. Yeah, but he fixed it.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
But he fixed it and you got home safely, like
I guess. I guess that's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, she's been tough.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Yeah, but you know what you're entitled to. What you're
entitled to, what you want. And again, for me, if
I just if I'm a dude and my tires flat
and I don't know what to do, and I just
kind of stand there and look at you like, how
are you going to fix this?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
I think that's a turn off.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
But if I'm like, okay, we got a flat tire,
you know what solution, Triple A. I got nice jeans on,
I'm not getting dirty. But in twenty minutes they'll be
here and I pay for this and they'll fix it.
And you know what, the Triple A guy is going
to judge me. But I can deal with that as
long as my date doesn't judge me. But in this case,
you want somebody who's a little more assertive and and
has these skills. And uh, I guess I say it's
(08:59):
not that, and that is your right, Charlotte and Isaiah.
I you know, it's a shame because Charlotte, would you
admit up until that point that things were going.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Well, yeah, yeah, we had a great date.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
That's too bad. But anyway, so no second date. We'll
pay for it. You can take it.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Over, right. It's just I don't think he's for me.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Huh.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
All right, Well that's you're right, Isaiah. I'm sorry it's
not going to work out, but I wish you both
the best of luck and thank you for your time.
The Fred Show On Demand News
Show Links
Official WebsitePopular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Special Summer Offer: Exclusively on Apple Podcasts, try our Dateline Premium subscription completely free for one month! With Dateline Premium, you get every episode ad-free plus exclusive bonus content.
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!