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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Tony,
good morning, Welcome.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
To the show. How are you good about you doing great? Thanks?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Man?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
What's going on with this woman? Kelly? We got to
know kind of the whole story. How did you meet?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Tell us about any dates that you've been on? And
then you know, why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, it's I'm completely bewildered by it.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I met him, bumble with her, and you know, we
we had a little back and forth before we set
up a date, so I already felt like we kind
of knew each other a little bit. She doesn't drink,
so I was like, okay, I can I can work
with this. I'll take here to coffee.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
You know, it was nice. We had great conversation. We
both have a dog, we both love dogs. We both think,
like you know, family is important. We love to travel,
going to concerts. So it's just like we were checking
each other's boxes, just down the list, very basic. I
just you know, I thought it was going well and
I asked her if she you would want to see
(01:00):
me again, and she said yes, Okay. It was like
quick too. It wasn't like she thought about it. She
was like, oh my yes, of course, and now you
know called since the date and texted her my good
old three text and I can't text you anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Rule goes you'll text somebody three times with no response
before you.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I'll do I'll do it.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
I'll do the first text, and then I'll do, like,
you know, a follow up text with something charming, and
then i'll do like a shortened one with like maybe
an emoji.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
And if they don't respond to that, then what am
I supposed to do?
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I'm a left on red once guy? You leave me
on red? Uh maybe maybe.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
One more time after a couple of days, but I don't,
I mean, come on, but hey, whatever works for you, Tony. However,
in this case, all you're you're looking for really is
some answers, because it's like, why why did you tell
me on the date you want to go out with
me again?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
And then why are you ignoring me?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Now I can understand why that would that would be
troublesome exactly. All right, we're gonna call it call. You'll
be on the phone. We're going to ask these questions
on your behalf. At some point, you're welcome to jump in.
And the hope is always is that we can straighten
this out, figure out what's up, and set you guys
up on another date, in this case, the second date,
and pay for it. Okay, stay right here, let's figure
out what's going on. We'll call her Part two of waiting.
(02:16):
Met the phone after Sizza in three minutes on The
Fred Show. SiZ I, it's the Fred Show. It's Friday,
pay Tony. Yeah, all right, let's call Cally. You guys,
you met on Bumble, the dating app. You went on
a date. You went for a walk. She's not a drinker,
so you tried to plan something that was alcohol was
not involved, which every single date I ever go on
(02:36):
alcohol is involved. But okay, this is good. I thought
it was very thoughtful of you. You had a lot
in common, you liked each other. And you haven't heard
from her though since the date, even though she told
you on the date that she wanted to see you again,
and so you're confused. Let's call CALLI right now.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Good luck, Tony, thank you? Hello? Hi is this Kelly? Yes, Kelley? Hi,
good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which have for just
a minute on the show? Would you mind? Okay, I
know it's a little bit strange, but thank you so much.
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Tony. He
says he met you on Bumble and you guys went
on a date recently, a coffee date. Yeah, okay, remember Tony,
(03:28):
all right, we're off your good starts. So what happened?
Because he called us and told us a lot of
nice things about you, that he liked you, and that
you had a lot in common, and that he was
excited to see you again. He even says that he
asked you if you wanted to see him again and
you said yes. But he says you're not responding to
any of his text messages now, So why is that.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
I'm a little surprised to hear from you.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
I guess Tony should know he was being weird.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, what happened, Like the beginning.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Of it was fine, and then he found out that
I had a three year old and he got weird,
like he seemed really fixated on my kid and and
specifically like how he was born.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Like he he flat out asked me what my birth
method was, like, like how did the baby come out
of my body?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I have a three year old?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
And he goes cool, how did Like was it natural
or sea section?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Is that what he was asking you?
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Both are natural, but you know what was the primary right? Right? Okay?
So so he was concerned with the extraction methods.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yeah, do you want to call it that?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Hy No one had.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Asked me that.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Uh, and he.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
He seemed satisfied that.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I had a c section, But like, I didn't owe
him that explanation, and I just wanted to disheartening question.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I've never in my life asked now people volunteered that
they'll be like, oh I had a C section or
this is where this or that the women will volunteer
their experience. I've never in my life asked somebody with
kids what their birth birthing method was. Let me, I forgot, Well,
I know, I just don't know why you would none
of my business, but I'd like to know. Actually, and
(05:28):
we luckily we have an answer. We can get an answer.
Tony is here, Kelly. I'm sorry I forgot to mention
that Tony is here. I'm very forgetful, Tony. What are
you doing? Why would you ask a woman that question?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah? Well, I mean I don't think I don't understand
what the big deal is. Honestly, you know, it's like
for me, I'm asking because I know the childbirth is
can be, you know, quite an ordeal, and I wanted
to know what i'd be working with.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
God, No, that's a legitimate thing to ask. What you're
working with?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
All normal because you know.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
The parts normal? What is going on with anatomy lately?
On this segment, you do people like it realized how
the body works.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Well, you know, if you're going to get it on,
you want to make sure that it's like, you know, okay,
may it almost feels like she didn't have a kid
or you know, you're entering I don't know, like Alien
part nine.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And that's something you got to no kind of a front.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
The hell are you talking about? Yeah, you are a
sick man, so basically in your minds that big of
a deal.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yes, it is in your in your mind, if she'd
had a natural or a I keep saying natural, but
if she'd had any I don't know what I guess
I can I don't know. Yeah, I guess so if
she'd had a vaginal birth in that case, then you
would have an issue with that in your in your
little mind, do you think that that somehow will will
(06:59):
make everything differ down there? And then then that would
be a bad experience for you.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
I had a bad experience before.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
So that's why I'm kind of figuring that out, because
I mean, to be honest.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Look, you could go on a bunch of dates, you could.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Be courting somebody, and then it doesn't work out when
you guys get intimate, and then and then you're like, oh,
I just you know, spent a bunch of money.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Spend a bunch of money.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Oh yeah, God for now and common being and then
and now in your mind, now, doctor Tony over here
says that if he if he invests in a woman
and then it gets to the intimacy part and if
she's had that kind of birth, then then it won't
be good for him.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
That's where Tony's bring Is it the bird for what
Tony might be working with?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Yes, say, maybe everything went back to normal like it
usually does, and maybe maybe Tony is do you have
the issue right?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
No?
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I mean everybody wants.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Maybe your dad should have pulled out, Maybe that shouldn't
his birthing method.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
This is gross. I'm sorry, Yeah, and oh it is.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
It's a very very inappropriate thing to ask someone. And
also it's not even a it's not even a founded argument,
like I don't even like that. What you're saying is
not tried and true, like it's not like every time,
every situation, and even then, and you've doubled down now
to say, God forbid, I invest in someone who can't
please me in that way, and you know you're even right,
(08:20):
You're not even based, this is even based in fact.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Now, I ad have to disagree. I think a lot
of people are being polite, but.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
If you really ask dudes, they're gonna tell you behind
closed doors.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
The same thing.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Well, I am a dude, and a dude, and Jason
even knows a little something about this, which is why
I were talking.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Without without you being on the radio show. You would
one hundred percent agree with.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Pagree with you. I would one hundred percent disagree with you. Actually,
and even even if you were right, which you're not,
that is a crazy thing and a crazy justification for
asking somebody. And I can see now It's funny though,
because Tony over here, to your point, Kiki, he seems
to be having this problem regularly, So.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You might have the issue, my boy. And there's medicine
for that, I've heard.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Yeah, pumps, Yeah, why don't you Why don't you go
get yourself a medical procedure.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Then you have a Microm'm.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Working with plenty of.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Yeah, big swing and Tony over here, that's what they
call it.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
That's why, Cally, I'm sorry, and I appreciate you telling
us what I happened. That's very rude, inappropriate, incorrect, insensitive,
so many things, and I honestly I can't believe that.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
No, and I really hope he doesn't have kids, because
I got a picture him being that dude in the
waiting or look when the delivery happens and being like
going an extra.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Stitch doctor, one of those guys. Yeah, don't be that again.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Thank you? What's that? That comes? All right? CALLI?
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Thank you for your time. I'm sorry you had to
relive that, Tony. I don't know, man, I might rethink
the whole I might take an anatomy class or something.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
That's rethink it and come back over to my side.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Oh no, no, no, no, I'm not. I'm all sick. You're the
one that needs to rethink it.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
You're just saying that because you're on the radio.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Man, No I'm not all right. Thank you for your time,
Good luck out there. The Entertainment Report and two Fitty
with Shelby's Shelley in the Showdown both next Fred Show
back in
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Tony,
good morning, Welcome.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
To the show. How are you good about you doing great? Thanks?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Man?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
What's going on with this woman? Kelly? We got to
know kind of the whole story. How did you meet?
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Tell us about any dates that you've been on? And
then you know, why do you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, it's I'm completely bewildered by it.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I met him, bumble with her, and you know, we
we had a little back and forth before we set
up a date, so I already felt like we kind
of knew each other a little bit. She doesn't drink,
so I was like, okay, I can I can work
with this. I'll take here to coffee.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
Uh.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
You know, it was nice. We had great conversation. We
both have a dog, we both love dogs. We both think,
like you know, family is important. We love to travel,
going to concerts. So it's just like we were checking
each other's boxes, just down the list, very basic. I
just you know, I thought it was going well and
I asked her if she you would want to see
(01:00):
me again, and she said yes, Okay. It was like
quick too. It wasn't like she thought about it. She
was like, oh my yes, of course, and now you
know called since the date and texted her my good
old three text and I can't text you anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Rule goes you'll text somebody three times with no response
before you.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I'll do I'll do it.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
I'll do the first text, and then I'll do, like,
you know, a follow up text with something charming, and
then i'll do like a shortened one with like maybe
an emoji.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
And if they don't respond to that, then what am
I supposed to do?
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I'm a left on red once guy? You leave me
on red? Uh maybe maybe.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
One more time after a couple of days, but I don't,
I mean, come on, but hey, whatever works for you, Tony. However,
in this case, all you're you're looking for really is
some answers, because it's like, why why did you tell
me on the date you want to go out with
me again?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
And then why are you ignoring me?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Now I can understand why that would that would be
troublesome exactly. All right, we're gonna call it call. You'll
be on the phone. We're going to ask these questions
on your behalf. At some point, you're welcome to jump in.
And the hope is always is that we can straighten
this out, figure out what's up, and set you guys
up on another date, in this case, the second date,
and pay for it. Okay, stay right here, let's figure
out what's going on. We'll call her Part two of waiting.
(02:16):
Met the phone after Sizza in three minutes on The
Fred Show. SiZ I, it's the Fred Show. It's Friday,
pay Tony. Yeah, all right, let's call Cally. You guys,
you met on Bumble, the dating app. You went on
a date. You went for a walk. She's not a drinker,
so you tried to plan something that was alcohol was
not involved, which every single date I ever go on
(02:36):
alcohol is involved. But okay, this is good. I thought
it was very thoughtful of you. You had a lot
in common, you liked each other. And you haven't heard
from her though since the date, even though she told
you on the date that she wanted to see you again,
and so you're confused. Let's call CALLI right now.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Good luck, Tony, thank you? Hello? Hi is this Kelly? Yes, Kelley? Hi,
good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which have for just
a minute on the show? Would you mind? Okay, I
know it's a little bit strange, but thank you so much.
We're calling on behalf of a guy named Tony. He
says he met you on Bumble and you guys went
on a date recently, a coffee date. Yeah, okay, remember Tony,
(03:28):
all right, we're off your good starts. So what happened?
Because he called us and told us a lot of
nice things about you, that he liked you, and that
you had a lot in common, and that he was
excited to see you again. He even says that he
asked you if you wanted to see him again and
you said yes. But he says you're not responding to
any of his text messages now, So why is that.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
I'm a little surprised to hear from you.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
I guess Tony should know he was being weird.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, what happened, Like the beginning.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
Of it was fine, and then he found out that
I had a three year old and he got weird,
like he seemed really fixated on my kid and and
specifically like how he was born.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Like he he flat out asked me what my birth
method was, like, like how did the baby come out
of my body?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
I have a three year old?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
And he goes cool, how did Like was it natural
or sea section?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Is that what he was asking you?
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Both are natural, but you know what was the primary right? Right? Okay?
So so he was concerned with the extraction methods.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yeah, do you want to call it that?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Hy No one had.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Asked me that.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
Uh, and he.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
He seemed satisfied that.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
I had a c section, But like, I didn't owe
him that explanation, and I just wanted to disheartening question.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
I've never in my life asked now people volunteered that
they'll be like, oh I had a C section or
this is where this or that the women will volunteer
their experience. I've never in my life asked somebody with
kids what their birth birthing method was. Let me, I forgot, Well,
I know, I just don't know why you would none
of my business, but I'd like to know. Actually, and
(05:28):
we luckily we have an answer. We can get an answer.
Tony is here, Kelly. I'm sorry I forgot to mention
that Tony is here. I'm very forgetful, Tony. What are
you doing? Why would you ask a woman that question?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah? Well, I mean I don't think I don't understand
what the big deal is. Honestly, you know, it's like
for me, I'm asking because I know the childbirth is
can be, you know, quite an ordeal, and I wanted
to know what i'd be working with.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
God, No, that's a legitimate thing to ask. What you're
working with?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
All normal because you know.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
The parts normal? What is going on with anatomy lately?
On this segment, you do people like it realized how
the body works.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Well, you know, if you're going to get it on,
you want to make sure that it's like, you know, okay,
may it almost feels like she didn't have a kid
or you know, you're entering I don't know, like Alien
part nine.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And that's something you got to no kind of a front.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
The hell are you talking about? Yeah, you are a
sick man, so basically in your minds that big of
a deal.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yes, it is in your in your mind, if she'd
had a natural or a I keep saying natural, but
if she'd had any I don't know what I guess
I can I don't know. Yeah, I guess so if
she'd had a vaginal birth in that case, then you
would have an issue with that in your in your
little mind, do you think that that somehow will will
(06:59):
make everything differ down there? And then then that would
be a bad experience for you.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
I had a bad experience before.
Speaker 4 (07:05):
So that's why I'm kind of figuring that out, because
I mean, to be honest.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Look, you could go on a bunch of dates, you could.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Be courting somebody, and then it doesn't work out when
you guys get intimate, and then and then you're like, oh,
I just you know, spent a bunch of money.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Spend a bunch of money.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Oh yeah, God for now and common being and then
and now in your mind, now, doctor Tony over here
says that if he if he invests in a woman
and then it gets to the intimacy part and if
she's had that kind of birth, then then it won't
be good for him.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
That's where Tony's bring Is it the bird for what
Tony might be working with?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Yes, say, maybe everything went back to normal like it
usually does, and maybe maybe Tony is do you have
the issue right?
Speaker 4 (07:48):
No?
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I mean everybody wants.
Speaker 5 (07:51):
Maybe your dad should have pulled out, Maybe that shouldn't
his birthing method.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
This is gross. I'm sorry, Yeah, and oh it is.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
It's a very very inappropriate thing to ask someone. And
also it's not even a it's not even a founded argument,
like I don't even like that. What you're saying is
not tried and true, like it's not like every time,
every situation, and even then, and you've doubled down now
to say, God forbid, I invest in someone who can't
please me in that way, and you know you're even right,
(08:20):
You're not even based, this is even based in fact.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Now, I ad have to disagree. I think a lot
of people are being polite, but.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
If you really ask dudes, they're gonna tell you behind
closed doors.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
The same thing.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Well, I am a dude, and a dude, and Jason
even knows a little something about this, which is why
I were talking.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Without without you being on the radio show. You would
one hundred percent agree with.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Pagree with you. I would one hundred percent disagree with you. Actually,
and even even if you were right, which you're not,
that is a crazy thing and a crazy justification for
asking somebody. And I can see now It's funny though,
because Tony over here, to your point, Kiki, he seems
to be having this problem regularly, So.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You might have the issue, my boy. And there's medicine
for that, I've heard.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Yeah, pumps, Yeah, why don't you Why don't you go
get yourself a medical procedure.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Then you have a Microm'm.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Working with plenty of.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Yeah, big swing and Tony over here, that's what they
call it.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
That's why, Cally, I'm sorry, and I appreciate you telling
us what I happened. That's very rude, inappropriate, incorrect, insensitive,
so many things, and I honestly I can't believe that.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
No, and I really hope he doesn't have kids, because
I got a picture him being that dude in the
waiting or look when the delivery happens and being like
going an extra.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Stitch doctor, one of those guys. Yeah, don't be that again.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Thank you? What's that? That comes? All right? CALLI?
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Thank you for your time. I'm sorry you had to
relive that, Tony. I don't know, man, I might rethink
the whole I might take an anatomy class or something.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
That's rethink it and come back over to my side.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Oh no, no, no, no, I'm not. I'm all sick. You're the
one that needs to rethink it.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
You're just saying that because you're on the radio.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Man, No I'm not all right. Thank you for your time,
Good luck out there. The Entertainment Report and two Fitty
with Shelby's Shelley in the Showdown both next Fred Show
back in
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