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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Bread Show. This is what's trending.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
So we had this debate before about that Sabrina Carpenter's song.
But what did we decide Because the way that I
hear the song, is you getting.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Like, uh, I always say.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
This seconds is it?
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Well?
Speaker 2 (00:18):
That was what I That was what I was trying
not to say, thank you appreciate well, I mean, I
don't know. I was trying to think of another way
to say it. But anyway, you're so like, yeah, you
guys might be together, but like he's out here doing
this with me on the side, so like enjoy that,
you know when y'all get together. Is that what she's
saying or is she saying like I'm it's like sanctioned
(00:42):
the three of us.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
But no, it's like it's like you're dating her now,
but you're thinking I was there because yeah, I hate
it first period.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Because I had to obey with somebody when that song
first came out, like I was like, I sent it
to somebody. I was like I love this song, and
it was like that person heard it differently than I heard.
I was like, well, this is this is nasty situation
right here, you know. And then and she was like,
oh no, I hear it like, you know, because then
the person was like, are you into that?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I'm like, what am I into?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
What?
Speaker 1 (01:13):
You know?
Speaker 2 (01:13):
It's like, are you into you know? Adding in? I'm
like no, no, no, no, that's that's the way I
hear it. I hear it like, you know, you go
out and live your life and you do your thing,
and but.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Just know, just know that I was I was already privy.
I was privy to.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
That writes about Shawn Mendez and Camila Cabeo, Right.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
No, I see that. You know I didn't know that.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Yeah, yeah, I'm pretty sure because she dated Sean after
he and Camilla broke up, and then Camilla and him
got back together, and she.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Was upset about it.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
That's why she doesn't say taste in the one song.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
She performed, right, That's why she left the word out.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
Yeah, So she's like, so technically Camilla hit it first,
then she hit it.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
Then she's like mad they got back together. So she's like,
I was there, like.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Her Driver's License song, like because Olivia r Regal whatever
carp before that, Yeah, got it interesting, just tastes an
air about it.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
And Sabrina's in multiple like love triangle, like, what are
you doing girl?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
You missed?
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Yeah right, well, okay, we're on the same page. Thank
you for that attack. Seven o eight. We were gifted
at home by my in laws, a very nice home,
but I didn't grow up that way at all. We
drive two nice cars, but they never make comments about
it or anything. They've actually commented to get a different
luxury car than the one we bought.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Not gonna lie.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
It makes me feel weird because I didn't grow up
that way, but I'm so very thankful for them. They
just want to make sure that our family and our
kids are set up and good, which hey, I think
that's you know, for some people, that's their intention, but
I guess nothing's I'd say it again, nothing's free. I
feel like there's always a trade off, a brother, right, right, Jason,
(02:54):
you picked the the Browns?
Speaker 7 (02:56):
I think so.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Yeah, they didn't win last night, Yeah, no one.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Yeah, you didn't do.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Much better when we when we had you pick games
yesterday after they were already played, even so I don't.
Speaker 7 (03:11):
Right, yeah, let's keep doing that.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
I mean, okay, moral the stories, it doesn't seem to matter, right.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
I like Monday's better than Fridays.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I like you.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
If you're heading into twenty twenty five with an I
for some affordable fun. Wallet Hub has broken down which
American cities are your best bet. The funnest city, I
don't know if that's you say that way, the most
fun city? What would you guess is the most fun
city in the US? Orlando, Vegas, that's number two. Vegas
is one, Vegas is one, Orlando, Miami, Atlanta, New Orleans, Austin,
(03:50):
San Francisco, Chicago at eight, Houston nine, and New York
is ten. It earned last place though in the costs category.
I guess, so yeah, if I have a good time,
go to Las Vegas. I don't know, Vegas is a lot.
Maybe I've outgrown Las Vegas a little bit. It's crazy
to say, like the stuff that I wanted to do
there when I was twenty one twenty two. You don't
(04:12):
go to the with the club gamble, you know, I
don't know, drink a whole bunch. Now It's like what
fine dining establishments can I frequent when I you know,
I don't know, right, you know what I mean? Like
I'm looking at I'm not where I can eat when
I go to Vegas I'm looking like, who's got them
a bed without bed bugs?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
And I can sleep in? You know, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
I'm thinking like, who's got a pool where I can
go do nothing? Like it's a completely different experience, Like
what's happening between ten am and you know, eight pm
as opposed to what's happening between eight pm and ten
am the other way around. A pair of Long Island
homeowners installed a forty two foot inflatable Santa Claus on
their front lawn. Neighbors say they wanted to make Christmas
(04:53):
great again. Uh yeah, after seeing a decline in Holliday
cheer in their neighbor So this thing was three thousand dollars.
It's one hundred and thirty five pound Chris Kringle. They
bought it at some website, forty two feet tall, and
ever since putting up the larger than life Father Christmas,
visitors have been dropping by the look his latest ten pm,
(05:14):
that's the thing. Now you got a spectacle. So like,
you got this huge thing. I'm sure it's lit up.
It's massive in next to your house, and now it's
in the news, and now you've got people driving by
at all hours of the night. To look at it.
So your neighborhood's congested now?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Is that what happened?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I mean, Rufio, we have an actual holiday award winner. Yes,
on our show. This man doesn't let anybody else win anything.
He just keeps winning and competing for the village. He
lives in it, you know, they call it the village,
his neighborhood. He keeps what all of you won. You've
won Halloween and Christmas multiple times, right, yeah, so I
can't do it back to back. They wont let you
enter back to back year, so every other year. So
(05:52):
this year was.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Halloween, I one first place, and then next year I'll
do Christmas.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
But what was it? I've seen, I've seen the pictures.
It's very You're very creative about it.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I say, yeah, I get really creative, especially with Halloween.
I have a bunch of skeletons and I make them
do different things every year. So yeah, so it's a
lot of fun. I take pride in it.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Do people drive through your neighborhood and clog up the
streets and stuff to look at people?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
They don't clog up the streets, But somehow, some way,
like my address has to be on some kind of
Facebook group because people just show up and they take
pictures and videos and then and then they just be
on their way. I should put a donation box out
there or something, a little Venmo cash QR coach.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Stand if you like what you see. Stand this't buy
me a house?
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Yeah, pet my son out there right right as out
there selling souvenirs, T shirts and stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
When your face on that. Yeah, anyway, this things massive.
I don't know where you buy it, but forty two
feet tall. And then also in trending stories today and
this is kind of like a side note, but apparently
a package has arrived at the radio station and now
in the past on the show, we've had a bit
of an issue with one member of the show, a Ruvio,
(07:10):
opening any mail that has anything associated with Fred on it.
So it could actually say Fred and he would open it.
It could say Fred's show. No, no, it could say
yeah it was, so he would open it and then
he would take whatever was in there, and then even
knowing that I probably wouldn't take it, which is fine,
(07:31):
except he never told me that it arrived. So then
people would email me like months later and be like, hey,
ungrateful ahole, did you get the you know prickly pair
jam I sent you from my Niemau's you know branch or,
I don't know, some crap that someone sent us. It
was very thoughtful, and I'm like, no, I never saw it.
And then Ruvio comes in and he's got prickly pair,
(07:51):
you know jam on his face because you've been eating
it for the last however long and I never knew
it existed. So we have a rule around here that
if it says Fred on it, that I at least
need to be present for the opening of the package.
Now you're saying that's not how it went down, but
that's how went Do we all agree that's how it
went out.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Jason is my witness and he was there when it happened.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
Which one the one time I ate the chocolate?
Speaker 8 (08:14):
Yes? Yeah, correct, I did that, Yes, the one I
wanted the chocolate?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
Yeah, because it said the Fread Show and we were
the show was on vacation and that chocolate would have
sat here for three weeks without anyone knowing that it
was there.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
It was like, I want the chocolate. I'm on the
Fred Show.
Speaker 8 (08:29):
This is making sense chocolate that I will I've never
opened anything that said, just if it just says Fred
and it's addressed to you, never but if it said
the Fred Show, I don't know about that.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Any one of us in this room could open that.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Well.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
No, I would say that's probably true, except again, you
are the Fred Show, and I agree with what you're saying.
Except for whatever reason, people tend to come to me
after they send somebody to The Fred Show and then
asking for my approval. You know what I mean, They
come to me, did you get it? Did you like it?
You know that kind of thing. Otherwise they would put
Rufio or they would put you know, Kaylin or whatever
(09:07):
they which they have in the past. They'll just put
your name right on it.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
It's to you.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
And then and then you can deal with, you know,
thanking somebody or not thinking someone, Like if we get
anything in the mail, you guys can attest to this.
I'm like, give me the card, give me the get dressed,
give me the thing because I want it, you know,
as often as possible, thank whoever was thoughtful enough to
send us something. But Ruvia doesn't do that, and so
half the time these people are like, did you get
the you know gold bar I sent you. I'm like
(09:34):
you know, I didn't, but I know exactly where it is.
And then I, you know, go to go to Rufo's
office and there it is. Is the gold bar that
I was looking for. Anyway, long story, short, long story, longer.
I guess there is a package. But Jason and Kaylyn
already know what it is based on the shape, you think, so.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
Yes, it's then there's a hold on, hold on, can
Kaylen and I'm time Jason, Kaylen?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Can Jason and Klen tell me what they think it is?
Chase Nick kaelin what is it?
Speaker 6 (10:02):
So we think it may be a Taylor Swift book
based on the pattern on the tape and the address of.
Speaker 8 (10:08):
Where it came from. Yeah, it's giving Airs Tour a
long time coming. Big giant body flags is what it's giving.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Okay, you know this because you've already been to Target
and wrestled preteens to get these said items.
Speaker 8 (10:21):
I was body slamming little girls. Oh yes, wow, yeah
you want to know you know? Yeah, yeah, you wanted to.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Sell you on the news.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I'm glad you said you worked for another radio station,
even though your name is forever synonymous with this one.
There's no there is no you can't work anywhere else
because this is where you. In fact, you're going into
the Hall of Fame for marketing. It doesn't exists. I mean,
the majority of the people who listen to us have
(10:54):
your personal phone number for some reason. Like it's pretty
wild that your commitment to the craft anyway, Right, sou
hand over the package because I believe that it should
go to them since they know what it.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
Is that we all paid for our books already.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Right right, let's.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Open it up and let's see what Let's see what
we got and let's see what's going up on e
Bayley's the other thing is just gonna sell.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
It all right, he's opening it does look like it
was already opened.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Autographed.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
Why does she just pop out?
Speaker 7 (11:27):
This is gonna get man, Oh, dad's gonna be.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
I'm not a confetti, I'm not another guy.
Speaker 7 (11:36):
It's enjoy decorative, Kaylyn. You should read the note. Read
the note aloud.
Speaker 5 (11:45):
Her chicken scratch.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
Oh hi.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
As we conclude the wildest, most extraordinary adventure of my life,
the Ariostour, I wanted to share with a few friends
my memories from it. The friendship bracelets, the traditions, the
backstage secrets, the costumes, the world travels, the rain, shows
and sunsets. But what truly made this tour what it
became was the passion joy on what is it?
Speaker 5 (12:09):
Unbridled, bridled ard, mind, emotion, and love the fans showed
us every night.
Speaker 6 (12:19):
I hope you'll enjoy this journey through the memories of
my proudest moments.
Speaker 5 (12:23):
The erastour loved Taylor. There's pain unbridled a book. It's
a good she wrote.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
She wrote that note just to us today.
Speaker 5 (12:36):
Definitely not confetti the target price.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Yeah girl, that's what That's what Taylor did.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
She she wrote us that note and then she swung
my target and she, you know, grabbed a couple of
books and shipped them to us.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
That's what Taylor did.
Speaker 7 (12:52):
Yeah. Right, this is giving altered server days. And I
used to have to hold the Bible out, you know,
like this is what my bible? Yeah. Now we have
a studio copy of the book.
Speaker 5 (13:04):
Yeah, yeah, would you want to read it?
Speaker 1 (13:07):
Paper?
Speaker 5 (13:07):
Mean, what what does the pink paper mean?
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Do you think that means something?
Speaker 7 (13:11):
I think it just went with the with the with
the motif at the opening of the show.
Speaker 8 (13:18):
It means reputations coming up to Yeah, there's black writing
on the box, the boxes black and white.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (13:25):
All right, so what do we return one of ours?
And then slim.
Speaker 8 (13:29):
Right?
Speaker 7 (13:30):
Because I have ten dollars, right, she took all my money.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
I hope you guys enjoyed that. Every other station in
the country did not receive that, so I just want
you to know that was just for you too. It
should have just said Kaitlin and Jason on it, and
we could have skipped this whole bit.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
But there you go.
Speaker 5 (13:46):
Yeah, you can't sell this roofie?
Speaker 3 (13:47):
Yeah, can you return it to Target without a receipt?
Speaker 9 (13:49):
Like?
Speaker 6 (13:50):
No, right, something like Transformers comes, I'll get to see
you or whatever the hell you're into over there, magic.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Whatever you're reading.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
If a box of magic Tricks arrives, it's National Day
of Giving Giving Tuesday, and it's also National Roof over
your Head Day, created as a day to be thankful
for what you have, starting with the roof over your head.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
So there you go.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Yeah, that's very nice. The Entertainment Report will do it
next in three minutes. The French show is Fresh Show
is on.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
It's Stay or Go all.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Right, Madison is here, Bring on Madison. Hello, good morning,
welcome to the show. How are you good, How are
you doing great? What's going on with your boyfriend? In
this case, instay or go tell us everything?
Speaker 10 (14:40):
Okay, Well, I've been dating my boyfriend for six months
now and I really really think we're great together. It's
just that I can't get over this one thing. I
went to this party with my friends and I brought
him because I wanted him to meet all my friends,
and he kind of embarrassed me, and I thought it
(15:01):
was fun, but then afterward, like somebody told me this thing,
and I was like, what, So okay. So one of
my friends was pouring me drinks and she pulls me
over and she says, you know, your boyfriend just told
me to cut you off. And I was like, what,
my boyfriend told my friend to cut me off, like
(15:23):
he couldn't do it himself, and and just met her.
He had just met her, And I was like, that's
kind of a bad impression, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (15:36):
And maybe I don't know, did you need to be
cut off?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
Like I'm not trying to be a jackass, but in
all honesty, like sometimes I wish somebody would tell me.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
Enough, at least in the past. Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 10 (15:51):
Mean, I'm at my best friend's house. I thought, like, who,
here's the holidays, like whatever, let me be who I am.
And I don't know, I'm just like, I'm kind of
weirded out that he couldn't just tell me that himself
and he had to go through my friend.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
And then if there was me like that, well, I mean,
if again, Madison, if you're drunk, then that's usually that
a conversation when I have with somebody, it's it's usually
that a good time to try and reason with a person,
you know what I mean. And so if she was
the one pouring the drinks, I guess all he was
really doing was avoiding that that argument, that altercation.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
I don't like her.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Why don't you like it?
Speaker 6 (16:32):
I just I don't think like the night that you
meet your girls, all her best friends, I don't think
that's a time to be telling a friend secretly to
cut her off, especially when it sounds like the friends
didn't the friend didn't think she needed to be cut off,
and she's with all her best friends and no one
else felt that way. I don't know, I don't I
don't like that moment.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Then then the friend says okay, I'm not doing it
like I think she's okay. I'll watch her, but I.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
Don't like the move on the boyfriend's It's just my opinion, but.
Speaker 10 (17:01):
I don't thank you. Yeah, I'm wondering if I'm going
crazy here, because like they're my best friends, they know
me too. They would help me if I was completely fastered,
and I wasn't. I mean, I was drunk, but I
wasn't like.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Like tripping and pulling.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
Like I guess, I can see how this comes off controlling,
But at the same time, I've also been on both
sides of the conversation if I'm being honest, where it's like, hey,
you know what, like let's call it for the night
or whatever, and you don't want to and that's not
a time to have a No one's reasonable when they're drunk, right,
So I don't. I guess I don't know who he
was supposed to tell if he was worried about it,
(17:37):
because he's you know, he could go to his girlfriend
or maybe or you in this case, and you could say, hey,
I don't think you should drink anymore, and then it's
going to be a you know, it's possible there's going
to be a confrontation or a fight or an argument
in front of the friends, which he doesn't want the
first time he's meeting them.
Speaker 5 (17:52):
He's not getting sick, she's not starting fights.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
So what But to his to the guy's defence, like
this was the first time hanging out with her friends.
He doesn't know, he doesn't know how she gets you
know what I'm saying she this might be the first
time heard him seeing her like that. So instead of
him saying it, he knows that they've been friends for
a long time, and he's just like, hey, can you
just you know, cut her off because.
Speaker 5 (18:14):
It's the friend didn't agree because she went her and
said I didn't like this move.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
Well, I mean he's just he's being protective without starting
anything because you don't know how that conversation is going
to go, like this is the first time you're hanging out,
she's drunk, and just let the friend do it and
be like, hey, you know, I think we should cut
her off.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
She looks pretty drunk. Rufio Okalen.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Maybe maybe he you know, he spends six months and
Mattison up talking about you like you're not here, but
you know, maybe maybe he knows that you get him
a like, Look, I've I've dated people. I have friends
who are not good drunks. They're not good drinkers. They
get emotional, they get argumentative, they get sloppy, and yeah,
her friends might know that, but her friends also aren't
(18:55):
the ones who have to deal with that during or after.
So again, you know, I don't know that he could
have had the conversation with her. I don't know who
else she was supposed to have the conversation with if,
in fact, he didn't want her to become argumentative potentially
or emotional or there might be, because that's the last
thing you want is a drunk person to start a
fight in front of her friends with you, And then
(19:16):
now you're in a position where you're being judged not
only on who you are and first impressions, but how
you're going to manage that when you know, maybe it
was like, hey, can we just pump the brakes on
this a little bit, because uh, you.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
Know, I just feel like the friend would like then
if she gets emotional.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
It doesn't sound like she was Like, if she gets emotional,
I think the friend would not then go to her
and have an issue with it, Like if it was
a problem.
Speaker 5 (19:38):
I don't think that the friends would be upset by
that move. I don't know. It just doesn't Are you
an emotional drunk?
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Do you know that?
Speaker 8 (19:44):
Like?
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Are you so?
Speaker 11 (19:46):
No?
Speaker 10 (19:47):
No, I'm not, I'm fun.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Yeah, okay, But let me ask you this on the
flip side, Let's say this dude just watches this all
go down and there's absolutely nothing like I realized she's
an adult and she can do whatever she wants. But
you know, she just gets completely hammered and he just
sits like he doesn't care. I could see this going
the other way where it's like does this dude not? Like,
does this he doesn't care at all?
Speaker 6 (20:05):
There's a middle ground between that between cutting someone off
of it's just making watching out, making sure she drinks water,
taking care of her. But if she's truly having fun
like she's saying, and she's in a safe place, she's
not driving, I don't know if they were staying over
or not.
Speaker 5 (20:20):
I don't understand, Like, I don't know. It just doesn't
sound like that's a situation.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
It's also not fun for him, Like, yeah, he doesn't
get to have any fun because he's got a life.
Speaker 6 (20:28):
One night and he's meeting all her best friends. I
don't know unless she's not self aware, and then yeah,
then we don't know.
Speaker 10 (20:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:35):
Well, and you know, Madison again talking about you like
you're not here. You might be a self aware of queen.
You might also be completely oblivious, and that's why you're
calling us and acting like you don't know what's going
I mean, I don't, we don't know you. And so
I want to take your side and say, hey, look,
maybe the guy overstepped, but I guess I can come
up with more reasons why this benefits you then it
(20:56):
hurts you. I mean, it's not as though. It's not
as though he went to her friends and said give
her more. I would imagine Wenn, he's a predator and
he's he's weird. I'm just what I'm saying. What he
did was he went to her and said, hey, can
we slow it down? And again her friends said I
don't agree with you and didn't or whatever. And by
the way, we haven't even taken into consideration the fact
(21:17):
the friend might be it's little crap starter, you know,
the little friends.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Oh, she's right, and it was a weird move and
she didn't think she was too drunk.
Speaker 9 (21:24):
We don't know, that's the thing. Yeah, and also thinking too,
like is she or medicine? Are you like different around
your friends versus your man, because I've seen that a lot, right,
Like around your friends, Oh, you're the party, but like
you said, Fred, you go home and there's fights and
next thing you know, you're throwing something across the room.
Speaker 5 (21:40):
I'm just saying, maybe he.
Speaker 9 (21:41):
Doesn't want to deal with that, if that's how she is,
and maybe there isn't self awareness.
Speaker 5 (21:45):
I'm just speaking out loud here.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I fear definitely.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
I definitely have friends and people i've dated who I
don't think hold their liquor very well, and all I
can think and I don't think i'd say anything. I
don't know that I would say anything unless I was
really accustomed to the friends and ingratiated with that group.
But at the same time, I've sat there and watched
it go down and been like, great, this is gonna
be the rest of my night. Like I'm gonna be,
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you know, holding the hair. I'm gonna be, not in
a fun way, I'm gonna be you know. I mean,
this is gonna become my responsibility and it's and it's not.
It's not gonna be their responsibility. So it's all fun
and games, right, like, oh yeah, let her drink, letter, drink,
have a good time. And at the end of the night,
it's like, now here you go, and then you get
to sort of well, have you gotten sick with him?
Or have you guys, have you started fights with him?
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I mean we can ask her no, no, definitely not.
Speaker 10 (22:34):
I'm not confrontational at all.
Speaker 11 (22:37):
The red flag to me is that he had to
go tell your friends, Like why didn't he feel comfortable
coming to tell you?
Speaker 5 (22:43):
That's strong, that's.
Speaker 11 (22:45):
The red But yeah, so that's the issue for me,
even if I'm like anebriated, Like you should still feel
comfortable to come tell me. I know your girl, don't
go talk about me to my friend. That's the issue
that I'm kind of having with it. Like, and I
don't know if it's something you've done in the past
and maybe you don't remember that has made him feel
uncomfortable to talk to you that or about it or whatever,
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But like, that is a big reflect to me. Don't
ever feel more comfortable talking to my friends about me
then you feel comfortable.
Speaker 6 (23:11):
Coming to me?
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Yes he did. Anyone called her sloppy drunk. He was
asking for help.
Speaker 12 (23:16):
He's saying she's a sloppy drunk cut how drunk for
the friends as well too. You don't know that situation either. Well,
you know what, this man just needs to leave you,
maybe because maybe you and your whole group of friends
y'all are sloppy drunks.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
And you know what I'm saying, don't There's a very
good chance. There's a very good chance there's a whole
nother side. We're only hearing her side by, right, And
what do you mean when I'm listening to it? Well,
but we are all these answers. She's sober now, right right,
But it's her perspective. We're not hearing his. She's telling
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us about her. With all due respect to Madison, I
don't know that you're gonna call up a radio showngle
I'm a raging drunk with an alcohol problem and and
my boyfriend cut me off.
Speaker 1 (24:01):
How dare he?
Speaker 4 (24:02):
You know?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
I don't think that's what's going to happen. And so
what's being presented here is another perspective, which is maybe
the guy gave a damn and didn't want her to
puke all night like it's possible that this is not nefarious,
is all that Rufio and I are saying as people
who have had to be cared for and have had
to care for other people. And I don't really know
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what he was supposed to do there except for let
her just get hammered, which he's entitled to do because
she's a grown up. That sounds like a little more
of a nostril situation there. But let me take some
(24:47):
phocos of this medicine. Have a good morning, Okay, good luck.
I love how Kiki goes from don't you do that
he should leave her?
Speaker 11 (24:58):
But we need to save this man because I don't
know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
Why we're I don't know why we're taking the drunk
girl's story as gospel. I don't know why we're not
exploring the possibility that there's there's maybe more to it
than that. And we don't know the friends. We don't
know this girl. She's telling her own story.
Speaker 7 (25:17):
You know.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
I would love for someone to be honest enough to
call up here and go, I am a drunk yes,
and and this is what happened. But if she wouldn't
say that then there's no debate because if she were
to call up here and go, I'm a drunk and
my boyfriend asked my friend to stop pouring me drinks,
well then no one here is going to argue that
he didn't do the right thing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6 (25:37):
But I'm just saying there's also another side where it
was a controlling move, or he should have talked to
her first.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
I agree with Keiki, like, try you.
Speaker 6 (25:44):
We've never gotten to a fight, I've never gotten sick,
she said, so try to at least talk to me first.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
If it goes south, then that's a different story next time.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
But how do you know that happened. How do you
know it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (25:54):
We always believe people that call up here and now
we just don't drunk.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
Maybe they did have a converse, and maybe he was
trying to slower down.
Speaker 5 (26:01):
I think it's hard of his liquor involves.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Right, So that's what I mean. That's what I mean.
And Kiki also said that he should leave, and she probably.
Speaker 5 (26:09):
Thinks he's cheating too.
Speaker 13 (26:10):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
He Actually he's sleeping with friends in the friend and
the friend is trying to blow this whole thing up
so they can move on.
Speaker 5 (26:21):
They do that she needs rehab.
Speaker 1 (26:24):
She was doing.
Speaker 14 (26:30):
All right?
Speaker 5 (26:30):
Yea?
Speaker 1 (26:32):
Is it Alyssa?
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Is that how you say your name? Yes, Jelisa High. Okay,
So you and Kiki and I might be aligned on this,
go ahead.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 4 (26:44):
Yeah, I think that he needs to leave just because,
like you said, and Kiki that he's also been dating
her for six months, so he's probably seen her in
her hot mess state and he's just trying to avoid
like some confrontation or conflicts when they go home. And
so yeah, he was just you know, suggesting to the
front that he should cut her off. And I, at
least honestly, we think that she's calling you guys for
(27:06):
validation on her end, just to like say that she
was that she's not crazy, which I don't believe, no
offense for her.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
I think he should go.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
I'm sorry, And I want to say, for the record, Caitlin,
I don't usually agree or believe the people that call
up for say or go.
Speaker 1 (27:23):
I don't know, Yah.
Speaker 6 (27:24):
Usually we're on their side because they're calling with an
issue that I mean. I'm just saying, like I don't
understand why this specific instance, we're not believing someone because well, no,
it's not that I'm not believing her.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
I'm presenting the idea that and and Paulina said the
same thing. There's alcohol involved, and she's telling a story
about something that happened while she was drunk. That is,
that is high emotion. So there's a possibility that we're
missing a step here. And that's all I'm presenting is
I just try. I think if this guy had done nothing,
he's a jackass. If he does something, he's a jackass.
(27:54):
I don't exactly know what he was. He wasn't necessarily
set up for success here, uh, in my opinion, But
thank you, have a great day, Thanks for calling.
Speaker 5 (28:03):
Love you guys, and shirt.
Speaker 1 (28:07):
Good Yes they're coming soon.
Speaker 12 (28:09):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
Yvonne, yvon Hi, good morning.
Speaker 15 (28:12):
Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
I think alcohol, good morning. Alcohol is the major component here.
If this if alcohol weren't involved, if everybody was sober
and of sound mind, and this dude's going around the
way to try and you know, work a problem with
his girl instead of talking to her directly, that's a problem.
And if he didn't make any attempt to talk to
her directly, that's the problem. But we don't really know.
Speaker 6 (28:33):
For me, it's the best friends, Like I have best
friends that love and take care of me, and then
I've been friends with for years.
Speaker 5 (28:38):
So if my friend read the situation like you need.
Speaker 6 (28:40):
To be cut off, my friends will cut me off
and they will handle it and they will agree. But
they're not coming to me saying your new man is
trying to cut you off. This feels weird. If it
doesn't feel weird, that's the only reason I'm riding for that, Yvon,
What does.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
You want to say? Welcome? By the way, I'm.
Speaker 15 (28:54):
Sorry, thank you, No, And that's kind of I'm kind
of leaning towards Kalen as well, because I guess the
way I see it, like you said, alcohol is involved,
so it can be it can go either way. There's
a lot to the story we probably don't know, but
I think what I factor in is if it's different,
it's a different setting, it's a fresh relationship. You're just
meeting her group of friends. This is probably the one
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time you should let her get weight sick and let
her get sick and all that kind of stuff because
her friends are there and you're there to take care
of her. Now, if there was the opposite, and I
say in group of friends his family, and he's like,
oh man, she's gonna embarrass me. Then maybe tell one
a year for or not even talk to her. But
if she's too drugs, then tell one of your people. Hey,
let's take it back. But if this is her friends,
(29:37):
this is the one time he should let her come.
And that's where if that's where I think it might
be a little bit controlling.
Speaker 2 (29:43):
And now what if he what if he'd been like,
you know what, cool, You guys are having a great time.
You're getting after it.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (29:48):
And I don't really want to deal with this because
you're making this choice. So I'm out of here and
I'll see tomorrow or I'll see another day or whatever.
He's an a hole for that too, like there's no
out for this guy, Like there's no And by the way,
I'm speaking from the perspective of a guy who has
been the one guy meeting the new group of girls.
It's a and I think the other way is probably
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also precarious. But it's a tricky spot. It's a tricky
spot to be the new boyfriend meeting all the girls
for the first time, because while your friends Caitlin might
be completely welcoming and love everybody you date and be
very kind, and that's the experience.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
That's not always the experience.
Speaker 2 (30:30):
And so then you take that and then you add
alcohol to it, and it's not necessarily a recipe for success.
And it's like, I don't I'm just putting myself in
his position and going anytime that there's too much alcohol,
it's like a it's kind of like a pipe bomb,
like anything can happen, and I don't really want to
necessarily have a blow up in my face. And then
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this is the first impression you get of me, is
me sort of mismanaging a situation with my girlfriend who's hammered.
Speaker 6 (30:57):
I just feel like it's just one night, it's the
first time, and like in the future, he can do that.
Speaker 5 (31:01):
That's that's all I was saying.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
But yeah, floppy drunk.
Speaker 15 (31:06):
She could be like, Hey, this is your friend here.
You guys want to help me pick her?
Speaker 2 (31:09):
You want to see her?
Speaker 3 (31:11):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:11):
I guess that's how I would look at it.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
I guess you could. I could also see them being like, oh, really,
you're not even going to take care of her. Oh okay,
but thank you having. Honestly, I think it's a tough spot.
I really do, and I see both sides, but I'm
trying to put myself in a position of a guy
meeting a group of girls for the first time and go,
oh man.
Speaker 5 (31:29):
You've been there before, so that's where you're coming from.
I get that.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, Samantha, Hi, Hi, how are you?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (31:38):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Stay?
Speaker 4 (31:39):
Or go?
Speaker 1 (31:39):
You what do you think I think she should go?
Speaker 15 (31:43):
I think that will.
Speaker 13 (31:45):
The entire conversation that just happened on air and people
were questioning her, she never once got defensive or angry
or she kind of just took it, And I think
that speaks her character in the first place, like she
doesn't assume a confrontations for something.
Speaker 1 (32:04):
She was taking it. She was taking something. She was
taking something to get herself through a call.
Speaker 2 (32:09):
I mean, so, I'm sorry, but this love product you're saying,
she's calling up here telling me she's self aware that
all of a sudden, you.
Speaker 9 (32:15):
Hear, Oh my god, you guys don't see jes that's
music making a little money.
Speaker 5 (32:22):
Yes, I agree, I hear you.
Speaker 2 (32:25):
I'm sorry. That's funny though, It's just if that was it,
if that was in if that, if she was making
a protein shake and that a man rita, then I
don't you know that's it was just an unfortunate sound
at that moment. But anyway, Samantha, I love you, thank
you for calling.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
I have a good day. Samantha's like, you're a You're
an idiot, You're an overress.
Speaker 2 (32:51):
I am an idiot. No, I'm an idiot, but I'm
not a drunk. Hey, Christie high, Hi, what do you
think there? Go?
Speaker 14 (33:04):
I think he should leave her.
Speaker 4 (33:06):
I think she's a hot met.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
To finish your thought, Christy, And then I want to
get back to Jason's statement, But so he should go.
Speaker 15 (33:22):
Because mom and collected she was on the phone call.
But and I know there's two sides to every story,
but if.
Speaker 14 (33:28):
This girl has been dating this guy for six months
and she had to go as far and go on
the radio where this dude can't defend himself for trying
to be in her best interest, Like why couldn't she
just be like, hey, I didn't really appreciate, like what
was your reason for doing that? After being together for
six months? By girl, like it sounds like this guy
was like had her best interest.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
At hert you know, and here she I mean, the
opposite is completely unacceptable, right, the opposite him be like, yeah,
I seed it to you or let.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
Us go, Like you can't do that.
Speaker 12 (33:58):
Right.
Speaker 14 (33:58):
He should have been a total douchebag and been like, oh,
get so hammered that you don't know what the heck
you're doing. But no, he like actually intervened and was like, hey,
let's just cut her off a little bit. And it
sounds like her friends need to have her best interest
at heart as well, because trust me, I've been with
friends that didn't care to look. You just keep drinking,
keep drinking, keep drinking, you know, and they called your friends.
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That guy is always going to have to run every
decision through her friends because obviously her friend's opinions are
more important than you know, anything else.
Speaker 1 (34:43):
Preaching and Christie, thank you, thanks for calling.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Has a good day. I appreciate you and everybody who call.
And I agree, I agree completely that in nine times
out of ten, it's a simple conversation that you have
with her and with nobody else except for the fact
that she was drunk, which there's no reason.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
There's no reason going on in those moments.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
Have you ever tried to have a reasonable conversation with
a drunk person, Like it's in my experience arguing with
drunk people, it's like, how about you go to bed
and we'll talk about it tomorrow. You know, I can
also see how it could come off controlling, but sorry,
you got to blow that.
Speaker 5 (35:19):
I heard Ale in there.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
I was just that was my protein shape I always
I always snorted everything