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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I take it away.

Speaker 2 (00:00):
Thank you so much, deer blog. So I would love
ladies your help in this. Just how do you explain
this feeling to a man? Okay, because this is a feeling.
This is really something that I hold near and dear
to my heart. It's probably the most basic thing about me.
But I truly enjoy this. I love when it's just
like a day of nothing.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
Right.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's say it's a Saturday or Sunday, you have nothing planned,
nothing to me. It's the best, that's how right, And
I enjoy that now at this point in my life
where I'm like, I just have a slow morning, a
slow day whatever on the weekend. And what about though,
when you have like nothing going on? So you put
on like your comfy's your little boots, right because it's winter,
and then right because it has to be in the winter,

(00:42):
and then you go to either like Starbucks or dunkin
or a coffee shop.

Speaker 1 (00:45):
You got to get your coffee, my latte of coffee,
whatever it.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Is, and then you take your little butt, you drive over.
You're in Home Goods, You're in Marshalls, right, You're at Target,
and you get to just take your time and shop
and like just like emerge in the culture.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
Immer, emerge in the culture. Immersing me.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
Yeah, like I'll never buy that sign, but it's giving that,
Like that's the energy I'm putting out when I do this.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
I need a reindeer with skis. I know where to
go marshals drink.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
Yes, you go there for nothing, but you go there
for everything.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
Like how do you explain this feeling to a man?
I didn't know that I needed a candy cane that
lights up and smokes. They truly have it all. They
have everything.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Like you'll go and you'll get like your bath essentials,
and you'll go shop for like some new jammys. Then
you're gonna go I look at baby clothes now.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
And then I'm looking at mugs I don't need. I
don't even make coffee at home, but I need mugs.
Like you just get everything there.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
And this feeling that I'm trying to describe, Like my
husband doesn't understand because when he comes with me, which
I do not let him go with me anymore, we
gotta go quick and get in it.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
It's like what's on the list, Go get it right?
And you're talking about like a browsing situation. Oh you're
that's how I feel about I feel about bookstores that way.
That's how I feel.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
You got to take your time. You get me a coffee,
go walking around in there, you know, breathe it in.
Time doesn't exist.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
But there's no such thing as time, right, No time
stands still in the bookstore, Marshals, and they're always It's.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Like a home improvement store, you know what I'm saying. Like,
if I go to whatever Home Depot or Low's or Minards,
I will go down every hole like plumbing. I don't
need anything, but for some going to build loon Jason,
it's the record store, right.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
Yeah, yeah, I hate going to home improvement stores except
for that contract.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
I'm here for that.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
I don't even know how to use half the crap
in there. I'm not building anything, but I'll walk in there.
Oh I better, I better see what they have like
rotting lawnmower section. I'm like, you're living a condo in
a high rise.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
Yeah, you got a browse. It's gotta be like nicely paced.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
You know. You can't don't rush me like I got
to do with my coffee in my hand and just
vibes in the other and I'm just I'm just I'm
just in this and it feels great, and I just
want to know, like if anyone else relates to that feeling,
because it really brings me true happiness.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Just do nothing at Marshals and Home Goods. It's a
great feeling. Yeah, thank you. You can go to back
and body Works and just smell the smell. That's another
one they still open.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
Oh yeah, the laundry detergent and everything.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
Oh I can't remember which.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
Body shop that's gone, not that I ever went there,
but maybe that's.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Why it's gone. Okay, No, I get it.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
I get it, and I think theres a lot of
people listening now then they're going, yes, Paulina, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
It's just an enjoyable feeling.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
And really gets that because I feel like everyone's so
fast paced. It's like, you know, you've got to have
a purpose and I can. I can be this way too,
you know. It's like I don't know, I just want
to get all this stuff done so I can, you know,
go home or whatever.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
And the other problem is when I do.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
If I do go to Target and I have, you know,
aimless amount of time, I I then spend aimless amounts
of money on stuff.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's the problem with this, with the vibein that's trying
to get you the hell out of there.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
Yeah, he's a game my credit card, and I say,
what credit card?

Speaker 1 (04:12):
The limit does not exist? True, but it does. Oh
it does, but it does. I got my chopped up.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
The entertainment report is next to Friends show. That sounds
like a different blog.

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