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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Yeah, they talk better than they.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. So
imagine that we're writing in our Moleskin diaries, which we
all have. Of course, now we had the ones with
little lock on it, remember those when you were a kid,
like the lock as if that couldn't be broken into.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I'm also read it very easily.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah what age was she reading it?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Like writing of my whole life? She didn't believe in privacy?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Wow, she's yeah, that explained a lot.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll talk about it therapy.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
But yeah, yeah, so really, so did you actually daily
write in a diary?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
When I was younger, I had sins and then also
I had my cousins read it at one point and
I was like, I just need to stop writing diaries.
But very on brand, I did write that one of
my very I was very young and wrote that one
of my friend's dads I had a crush.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
On him, So that kind of tracks.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I also said, ps, my favorite band is the Jackson Five.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Now yeah, so I mean same.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
So like like I was in the ninety so.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
It is kind of fine.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I can remember being young and listening to stuff like
I'm trying to think of an example like just music
that nobody else would have listened to.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
That because my parents told me about it and listened
to it.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I was listening to like Van Morrison.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
It's very odd I was hamming a Whitney Houston people.
Maybe I should have off. Ye, Maybe maybe there's more
to me than I know. Maybe he could really like
our friend Trevor was the boss in a couple of
places where we're on. You know, he was asking begging
his parents to take him to Seleneian at eight years old,
and they didn't know that he was gay.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I mean, you know, so I don't know. Maybe maybe
you do go to West Palm a lot all the.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Time and the Keys. I'm always at the Keys. I'm
always at that place.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
The naked bar.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeah, the naked bar on the roof for you, Yes,
that's what it's called.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
For some reason, all of my straight, white married friends
wanted I don't know what white has to do with it.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
They were, they were white, but for some reason, the
right they didn't wait to go there.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I'm like, guys, what do you think is really happening
at a naked bar in Key West?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And it's exactly what I thought it would be.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I didn't go it is it is old man with
walking around naked at the bar. Yeah, where your friends naked, No,
they kept their clothes on.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
But my thing is like, what what do you do?
You you needs a strip club? Like what do you like?
What do you think is?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
What do you think it's a bar where you can
walk around naked. It's like if you've been to a
nude beach in Europe, it's different, but a lot of
nude beaches are not what you would hope that it
would be.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Correct. I stayed at a hotel.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Near a nude beach one time where we rented like
an Airbnb or something, I don't remember where we were,
and I was, that's a nude beach, yes, And I
look over and it's old, old people naked, and I'm like,
that is not in my mind what I thought I
was going to be experiencing.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
So a certain space in life where you don't care,
you just let it all hang out.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I'm there. I'm pretty much there.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I eat some Yeah, I think my no craps given,
My no crap's given.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Jason's like, really, I go with it.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I think I think it's happening for me earlier than
it happens for most like for my mom had happened
around six. For me, it's happening now my no craps
given phase. Yeah, or it's just like you know, I'm
just going to say and do whatever I want within reason,
and I don't know, maybe I'll maybe be a happier existence.
I'm not sure. Uh, Caitlin, take it away, do a blog, please,
deer blog.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
So, I don't know if you guys have noticed.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Obviously, you know, it's a very good thing that a
lot of people are more comfortable talking about their mental
health these days. It's a very big question. But I
don't know if you guys noticed that, like all doctors,
not just therapists, psychiatrists are now trying to like figure
out if you have good mental health, which.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Is probably a good thing.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
But there's places you don't expect it, like the dentist
or the chiropractor, which is where I went yesterday.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
I needed a new chiropractor. I'm in like a ton
of pain.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I have TMJ, which is with your John it kind
of runs like through my whole body. And so I
was filling out their intake form and it was really
in depth on like my mentals and I was kind
of like, may're asking me this?
Speaker 1 (03:51):
So they gave cat you might have to do with
the stress that you're carrying. Well, in that case, you
might have to do with that.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
But I want to say that this is a thing
that's going that they're doing now, like they do it
at the like the general doctor or whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Internal message.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yeah, And I think it's because you're like alone in
a room and there wouldn't be anyone else around you,
so you can answer the question honestly, like in a
safe place, like maybe you're in an abusive relationship and
you can't tell anybody else. Well, now you're in this
room and like nobody would think to go in there
with you. So then they ask you this question that
might be your like outlet, right, that might be your
your your rescue to be like, yeah, no, I actually
(04:26):
things are not good at home, And then maybe they
could I think that's why they do it for sure.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
And I'm used to being asked like are you anxious,
do you have depression?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Whatever? And I'm was like check check, check one of everything.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
But they're also casting for Bravo shows too, Oh good,
yeah right, yeah, but I could use it.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
But this time they were giving me categories like friends, family,
social life, work, and I had to rank how much
I cared about each of those categories.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
So it was a little more in depth.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
And they also asked me all in your health one
out of one hundred percent, what would you rank yourself
including mental, physical, everything?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
What did you say?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I think?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I said, that is higher than I would give myself.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Yeah, well, I'm I'm starting to I'm not at.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Three lying.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
No, my men, I lie at the doctor about your
mental health.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Well, no, I just like about everything. How many drinks
did you have? You know, how.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Many week in fifteen minute period? And then on a
Friday and in too per fifteen minutes. Yeah, I don't know,
it's like how many you know what else? They ask you, Oh,
that sexual partner is like I don't know, yah, don't
do that and that's actually not.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
A life But and then I told you, well, yeah,
and my mental health is doing a lot better than
it has in the past, so I was kind of
happy with eighty two percent all in, and I'm you know,
my physical knock on wood is good, but yeah, And
then the nurse asked me to ask how tall I was?
How high are you? And I said, not right now,
maybe later, Like have you ever heard someone ask higher?
Speaker 5 (05:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
So I don't know about this.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I mean I'd like to be higher.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Actually not right now, you know.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
But so it was very interesting, and I of course
overthought every question because I'm like, well, you know, there's
a lot of factors, depends on the day.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
What I would rank you, Okay, in.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
My life, Ki, would you rate your mental health?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I would have put one hundred on everything. That's why
when she was like what did you put? I was like,
I hope she put tens across the board. Look, I've
got the doctor for you to figure out all this stuff.
You know, I would I'm great every.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Other job.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
In physical mentale, I.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Gotta go fifty. I'm like half and half hour.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
So we got to check on Jason later.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Like that's for real. Yeah, no, I believe that. Yeah,
I get that.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Yeah, it varies two days ago actually.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So it varies significantly day by day. I would have
for me, I have to say, And I think that's
the whole goal, is to try and even it out.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And I also get really nervous about the pregnancy question,
even though I literally know I'm not right now, Like
I get They asked me, any chance you could be pregnant?
Every doctor asked you that, and I'm like no, and
I get really like nervous, and then I said like, well,
I'm on my period right now, like I tried to
prove it, and this gay nurse was like.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Okay, I believe you.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I don't need to see that.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
It just started today.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
He's like okay, a verbal Will more Fred Show next
Yeah, they talk better than they.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. So
imagine that we're writing in our Moleskin diaries, which we
all have. Of course, now we had the ones with
little lock on it, remember those when you were a kid,
like the lock as if that couldn't be broken into.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I'm also read it very easily.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah what age was she reading it?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Like writing of my whole life? She didn't believe in privacy?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Wow, she's yeah, that explained a lot.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll talk about it therapy.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
But yeah, yeah, so really, so did you actually daily
write in a diary?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
When I was younger, I had sins and then also
I had my cousins read it at one point and
I was like, I just need to stop writing diaries.
But very on brand, I did write that one of
my very I was very young and wrote that one
of my friend's dads I had a crush.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
On him, So that kind of tracks.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
I also said, ps, my favorite band is the Jackson Five.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Now yeah, so I mean same.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
So like like I was in the ninety so.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
It is kind of fine.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
I can remember being young and listening to stuff like
I'm trying to think of an example like just music
that nobody else would have listened to.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
That because my parents told me about it and listened
to it.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I was listening to like Van Morrison.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
It's very odd I was hamming a Whitney Houston people.
Maybe I should have off. Ye, Maybe maybe there's more
to me than I know. Maybe he could really like
our friend Trevor was the boss in a couple of
places where we're on. You know, he was asking begging
his parents to take him to Seleneian at eight years old,
and they didn't know that he was gay.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I mean, you know, so I don't know. Maybe maybe
you do go to West Palm a lot all the.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Time and the Keys. I'm always at the Keys. I'm
always at that place.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
The naked bar.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Yeah, the naked bar on the roof for you, Yes,
that's what it's called.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
For some reason, all of my straight, white married friends
wanted I don't know what white has to do with it.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
They were, they were white, but for some reason, the
right they didn't wait to go there.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I'm like, guys, what do you think is really happening
at a naked bar in Key West?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
And it's exactly what I thought it would be.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I didn't go it is it is old man with
walking around naked at the bar. Yeah, where your friends naked, No,
they kept their clothes on.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
But my thing is like, what what do you do?
You you needs a strip club? Like what do you like?
What do you think is?
Speaker 2 (02:14):
What do you think it's a bar where you can
walk around naked. It's like if you've been to a
nude beach in Europe, it's different, but a lot of
nude beaches are not what you would hope that it
would be.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Correct. I stayed at a hotel.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Near a nude beach one time where we rented like
an Airbnb or something, I don't remember where we were,
and I was, that's a nude beach, yes, And I
look over and it's old, old people naked, and I'm like,
that is not in my mind what I thought I
was going to be experiencing.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
So a certain space in life where you don't care,
you just let it all hang out.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I'm there. I'm pretty much there.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I eat some Yeah, I think my no craps given,
My no crap's given.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Jason's like, really, I go with it.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I think I think it's happening for me earlier than
it happens for most like for my mom had happened
around six. For me, it's happening now my no craps
given phase. Yeah, or it's just like you know, I'm
just going to say and do whatever I want within reason,
and I don't know, maybe I'll maybe be a happier existence.
I'm not sure. Uh, Caitlin, take it away, do a blog, please,
deer blog.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
So, I don't know if you guys have noticed.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Obviously, you know, it's a very good thing that a
lot of people are more comfortable talking about their mental
health these days. It's a very big question. But I
don't know if you guys noticed that, like all doctors,
not just therapists, psychiatrists are now trying to like figure
out if you have good mental health, which.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Is probably a good thing.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
But there's places you don't expect it, like the dentist
or the chiropractor, which is where I went yesterday.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
I needed a new chiropractor. I'm in like a ton
of pain.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I have TMJ, which is with your John it kind
of runs like through my whole body. And so I
was filling out their intake form and it was really
in depth on like my mentals and I was kind
of like, may're asking me this?
Speaker 1 (03:51):
So they gave cat you might have to do with
the stress that you're carrying. Well, in that case, you
might have to do with that.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
But I want to say that this is a thing
that's going that they're doing now, like they do it
at the like the general doctor or whatever.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Internal message.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yeah, And I think it's because you're like alone in
a room and there wouldn't be anyone else around you,
so you can answer the question honestly, like in a
safe place, like maybe you're in an abusive relationship and
you can't tell anybody else. Well, now you're in this
room and like nobody would think to go in there
with you. So then they ask you this question that
might be your like outlet, right, that might be your
your your rescue to be like, yeah, no, I actually
(04:26):
things are not good at home, And then maybe they
could I think that's why they do it for sure.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
And I'm used to being asked like are you anxious,
do you have depression?
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Whatever? And I'm was like check check, check one of everything.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
But they're also casting for Bravo shows too, Oh good,
yeah right, yeah, but I could use it.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
But this time they were giving me categories like friends, family,
social life, work, and I had to rank how much
I cared about each of those categories.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
So it was a little more in depth.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
And they also asked me all in your health one
out of one hundred percent, what would you rank yourself
including mental, physical, everything?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
What did you say?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
I think?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I said, that is higher than I would give myself.
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Yeah, well, I'm I'm starting to I'm not at.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Three lying.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
No, my men, I lie at the doctor about your
mental health.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Well, no, I just like about everything. How many drinks
did you have? You know, how.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Many week in fifteen minute period? And then on a
Friday and in too per fifteen minutes. Yeah, I don't know,
it's like how many you know what else? They ask you, Oh,
that sexual partner is like I don't know, yah, don't
do that and that's actually not.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
A life But and then I told you, well, yeah,
and my mental health is doing a lot better than
it has in the past, so I was kind of
happy with eighty two percent all in, and I'm you know,
my physical knock on wood is good, but yeah, And
then the nurse asked me to ask how tall I was?
How high are you? And I said, not right now,
maybe later, Like have you ever heard someone ask higher?
Speaker 5 (05:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
So I don't know about this.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I mean I'd like to be higher.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Actually not right now, you know.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
But so it was very interesting, and I of course
overthought every question because I'm like, well, you know, there's
a lot of factors, depends on the day.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
What I would rank you, Okay, in.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
My life, Ki, would you rate your mental health?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
I would have put one hundred on everything. That's why
when she was like what did you put? I was like,
I hope she put tens across the board. Look, I've
got the doctor for you to figure out all this stuff.
You know, I would I'm great every.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Other job.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
In physical mentale, I.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Gotta go fifty. I'm like half and half hour.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
So we got to check on Jason later.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Like that's for real. Yeah, no, I believe that. Yeah,
I get that.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Yeah, it varies two days ago actually.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
So it varies significantly day by day. I would have
for me, I have to say, And I think that's
the whole goal, is to try and even it out.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And I also get really nervous about the pregnancy question,
even though I literally know I'm not right now, Like
I get They asked me, any chance you could be pregnant?
Every doctor asked you that, and I'm like no, and
I get really like nervous, and then I said like, well,
I'm on my period right now, like I tried to
prove it, and this gay nurse was like.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Okay, I believe you.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I don't need to see that.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
It just started today.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
He's like okay, a verbal Will more Fred Show next
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