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Speaker 1 (00:01):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Brad, good morning, welcome to the program. How
are you I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm a little bit confused, honestly.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Okay, Brad is confused. Let's see if we can help
with the confusion. So we're trying to figure out if
this woman, Cassie maybe ghosting you. So tell us about
Cassie and then about any dates that you've been on,
and did all the backstory here, and then how we
can help.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
So I'm at Cassie at this networking event for other people.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
In real estate. I'm a real estate agent. She's a lawyer.
She's like cute.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
I got her number and after the event I asked
her out on the date and she said, yes.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
We met up at this cool bar, and I know
she left kind of quickly, like after.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Two drinks, but I thought we had a pretty good time.
I just figured she had in an early meeting.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Okay, So she kind of took off after the date,
like kind of quickly and two days excuse me, two drinks.
I feel like is the standard, whether you like it
or not, for a first date. I feel like that's
kind of like people's comfort level like, hey, I'll go
off for a drink with you. That way, if I
have one maybe two, and then I want to get out,
I have an out. But at least is how I
(01:16):
look at it, because then if like, let's say you
go for two drinks it goes really well, then you
can extend the date, Hey, you want to get something
to eat, or like, we can go do something else.
But then if it doesn't go well, which I don't
know what happened here exactly, then you've got your out,
like I did my drinks thing, and then we're gonna
move on.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Did you feel like that?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Did you feel like, hey, we had two drinks and
it kind of fizzled and she walked away. I mean,
you must not feel that way if you were expecting
her to call.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
No, I don't think it's fizzled. I honestly don't know
to be because this doesn't happen often.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, So my man here, Brad, like you got a
great batting record with these women, like you're out here
just you're getting all the dates you want, is what
you're saying, Brad.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah, I mean I'm a good looking guy myself.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
Okay, Okay, I see right.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
So your puzzle here because it's like, hey, we we
talked to the event and then we went and had drinks,
so that's not really two dates. But like it wasn't
a total flyer. I mean, she knew what she was
getting into and knew what you looked like and kind
of knew the vibe and so you know, you have
these drinks and then she doesn't call you back.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
You're like, what the heck?
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Yeah, my normal first date is like most people's third
or fourth day.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Oh oh okay, I see, well what does that mean?
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Hold on?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Im trying to make what does that mean exactly? You
knew about the so he's closing on? Oh I got it? Aye,
My goodness. Okay, So for Brad, the Brad effect is
we don't go to Normally it would be three dates.
Not for Brad, Brad date number one Kiki. You know
you know what he's talking about. I'm learning. Yeah, yeah,
(02:42):
because Kiki, for Big Tim several dates made him wait,
you know, many many dates. But if she going out
with Brad, yeahs of years. Yeah, well that might be
part of the problem. Then maybe I just where the
ring is then, but I don't know. All right, Well,
let's let's call this woman, Cassie. We're gonna have you
on the phone at the same time. Of course, we're
going to ask quest on your behalf, and at some
point you're welcome to jump in. And the hope is
(03:03):
that whatever's going on we can straighten out. Maybe she's
been busy or distracted somehow, and if that's the case,
we'll set you up on another date and pay for it. Okay,
let's see what's going on. PARTUO of waiting by the phone.
Right after goy gon Bruno Mars back in two minutes.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Stay right here.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
It's the Fred Show and he got got Bruno Mars,
the frend Show on the radio, and the iHeart app
live and anytime search for the Fresh Show on demand. Hey, Brad,
hey man, let's call Cassie. You guys, you met in
person in a networking event. You went on a date,
had a couple drinks, you thought it went well, but
you have not heard from her since then, and you
want to know why. Please all right, let's call her now.
(03:38):
Good luck, Brad. Hi is this Cassie. Hi, Cassie, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here, and
I do have to tell you that you are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
(03:59):
to continue with the call. Can we chat for just
a second on the on the show? Would you mind?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I guess I don't mind.
Speaker 5 (04:05):
I don't know how you guys got my number.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Though, Okay, well I'm gonna get to that, so thank you.
I think that was a guest. So we're called on
behalf of a guy named Brad. I guess you went
out with Brad. You met him at a networking event
and you went out and had a couple of drinks.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Do you remember Brad?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Yeah? I do?
Speaker 1 (04:24):
Okay, well you remember Brad? So what happened? Because he
reached out to us and he told us that he
had a great time with you and felt like things
went well on the date. But he's reached out since
then and you haven't responded, So what's going on?
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Honestly, I thought that date was a prank? Like are
you are you?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Guys?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Did he give you my number? Because that was a prank?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
No, I can honestly tell you that the date was
not a Why do you think the date was a prank?
We actually had nothing to do with the date. We
only got involved when you'd stop calling him.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Oh well, I felt like it was a prank, be
because like Brad was just very like he's so handsome
and just like charismatic and stuff, and I was just
looking forward to the date, like me and my friends
got me all dressed up and I had a friend
curl my hair and everything was great. And so then
I got there. We sat down and we made a
(05:16):
drink and instantly Brad started talking about how hot the
server was and he was like he's at least eight,
and I'm like okay, and then he's like, can you
rate her too?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
And I'm like I guess.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
And then for like forty five minutes over only like
there's like two drinks. We he went person to person
in that bar, and we were supposed to rate how
hot or not everyone only the only woman know only
the woman, and I just I couldn't believe that, Like,
at no point then he asked about me, comment on
(05:51):
me being pretty or anything like I just at that point,
I was like, this is a frank and I.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Need to get out of here.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
So we were talking about everybody but every woman but Brad.
I forgot to mention that Brad is here. Yeah, Brad
is after the chat room exactly. I'm sorry I didn't
forget to mention Cassie the Brad was here. I'm very forgetful. So, Brad,
you're on a date with Cassie, who made an effort
to go out with you and look really pretty, and
you don't even bother to compliment her, but rather go
(06:17):
around the room and talk about every other woman and
then objectify them and rate them. I just want to
because that was the date activity.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Obviously she's hot because I after that, and I guess.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
You would never go out with anybody who wasn't what
an eight pick eight plus?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I mean, yeah, I mean go.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
On a date probably in a plus if you know,
I'm in a pint, maybe a.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Seven I saw in a pant. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
So so she should have just assumed that she was
among the elites because you chose hers.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
What is what? I just want to be clear, that's
what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, okay, And she should have just assumed that. So, like,
it's not your job on a date to compliment the
person who you're on the date with. Instead, we should
just focus on everybody else.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I mean, I think that would have been rude.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
But if we rated got well, Cassie, I have a question,
how would you rate Brad? Because apparently no one's asked
that question? What would you give him?
Speaker 5 (07:10):
I mean, in terms of the red I'd say the
sally seven point five, and then if there's a personality
now and I'm hearing about it, I'd give.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Him a three.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Okay, yeah you're seven point five. Brad thoughts on that, I.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Think she's just salty at this point.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Yeah, yeah, I've already moved on. I'm already thinking about
going to that same Barilee out to on the date
because they're definitely a lot of eyes in there.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Again, Yeah, that's not work at all. You know, there's
a good amount of seven.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I just I don't know why you're on a date
with someone who you were saying was in your mind attractive,
but yet we spent time talking about how attractive or
unattractive everybody else was. Like, there's kind of a lot
of problems with that.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I just thought it was a fun game, you know,
I like to find if a girl thing is also
in another girl, you know, the fun.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
Oh so you're hoping that she would rate other women highly?
And oh I wow, this is a complicated game.
Speaker 4 (08:13):
The first date, we're going to do that, Well, we
call that the Brad effect, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah, yeah, Well so Cassie, you were supposed to be
rating women so that you could maybe include them in
the evening.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Kick right over there. No, I can't get over to
sound his voice.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
I don't know how she ended up on a date
with this man like that alone is just not doing
it for me.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
But he's Brad. Yeah, yeah, I mean Brad be Brad. Yeah,
you're talking to Yeah, that's the one.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Okay, That's why I gave him a seven point five.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
It's the voice.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
The voice is so annoying.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Wow. So he would have been maybe like in the
age or something. So he must be a good looking
guy then, because if you're giving any picks, Brad some
picks over yea, why don't you send over a little
portfolio and it will be the judge.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
How about that?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
Normally I don't even have to talk.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Oh, I see, he's so good looking. Maybe would have
been better if you hadn't exactly maybe you maybe you
shouldn't have talked, and then things would have gone way
better for you. But okay, I Brad, Cassie, I'll ask
the question, but I know the answer.
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Would you like to go out with Brad again?
Speaker 5 (09:16):
Oh? No, absolutely not?
Speaker 4 (09:19):
What.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I don't blame you, Brad. I'm sorry, it's not gonna
work out. I guess go back to the bar because
you see a lot of a lot of talent in there.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Apparently, yes, you got to shoot.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I'll do okay.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I do love though, when these guys call up here
and they're like, I want to know why she didn't
call me because they liked her and stuff, and then
as soon as they realized that they screwed it up.
Now all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I don't
care if they go out with me. I don't want her, right,
but you wanted her ten minutes ago when you asked
us a caller and do this, So what?
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, it really is all right, Cassie. Thank you for
your time. Best of luck to you, Brad, good luck
to you as well.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Thank thank you.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
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