February 6, 2025 • 8 mins
Eddie doesn't know why his date won't call him back.. It might have to do with something he's sending her. Find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Hendie,
Welcome to the show. Good morning today. How's it going great?
Everything is good. Thank you for asking. We're all in
great mood, happy to be here. What's going on with
this woman? Anya? We need to know how you guys met,
About any dates that you've been on, any conversations you've had,
and then what's going on now?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, well we met on Hinge and we I mean
we headed off right away. Really, she gave me her
numbers before I even have to ask. She was like,
you know, we would stick into it.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
It was a kind of quick click.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
So that's a good sign, by the way, because you
can keep the messaging going forever, and it's an easy
way for someone to just kind of disappear and goes me.
But once they have, once somebody gives you her number
or his number, now we're talking like, you know, this
is real communication.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Yeah that's what I thought too, because you know, I've
been there where you just kind of talk forever on
the app and then a just stage away. But now
we switched the texting pretty quick.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
A burner phone, they could have a burner phone.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
A bad idea, actually a dating app, burner phone, you
know where, like you just give them that number and
it's not your real actual number. But then when you
carry around two phones everywhere that I think people might
be skeptical.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
That's a sidebar. So you got her number.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Actually, maybe maybe that's what happened, because I haven't heard
from her, so maybe she did have a burn her phone.
Now listen, we it seemed to be going great. We're texting,
we exchanged socials, Instagram and stuff, and then finally we
did make.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
A plan to go on a date.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
The date comes and nothing, so we planned a couple
of days in advance, and on Friday night, she just
didn't respond any text. She was just completely silent. So
the date never happened. And I have no idea why
she just she just ghosted me. I was feeling super bombed.
She never I don't know, she didn't give me a
chance at all. She just just stopped talking. And I'm like,
(01:42):
maybe maybe she met someone else or something, but really
she could have just told me that, and she just
she just gave me nothing. And I have no idea
what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Okay, so you kind of had loose plans, but you know,
the idea was that you would be going out on
this on this Friday night, and then it just comes
and goes and you reached out like you attempted to
kind of circle back, but nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Yeah, like, how Steven work for you?
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Do you want to go here? Nothing?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I sent three texts and I was like, all right,
I don't want to look crazy, but something's up.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Let's call Anya. You'll be on the phone. We'll see
if we can get her on the phone. We'll ask
some questions. Don't say anything right at first, but at
some point you're welcome to jump in on the call
and hopefully we can figure out what's going on and
set you guys up on another date that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Okay, all right, sounds good, Thanks so much.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
You got I'm gonna play one song and then we'll
come back and do it. All right, Let's find out
what's going on? Part two of waiting by the phone.
After Whizz CALEI you put back in two minutes on
the Fred Show, khalif it's the Fred Show on the radio,
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Speaker 3 (02:35):
Eddie, Hey, how's it going? Hey?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Welcome back? Still going great? I still feel like that's
still in a good mood. Everyone's still happy to be Yah.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I go to I just always asking people how they are.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Get Hey, we're good. We're good. Let's call Anya and
figure out what's going on. You guys, you met on
a dating app on Hinge. You messaged and you started texting.
You had loose plans, plans come and go, and now
she's ghosting and you want to know why?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yeah, something, I just I have no idea what happened.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
We're gonna call her right now. Good luck?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Thanks?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Hi is this Anya? Hey? Good morning?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, friend from the Friend Show, the whole crew is here.
I know this is kind of weird. Thank you for
picking up a number that you don't know. But we're
calling on behalf of a guy. Now, first I have
to ask you if it's okay if we talk on
the air. Can we talk on the air for a second. Sure,
it's kind of ridiculous, I know, but thank you so much.
We're calling on behalf of a dude who reached out
to us. His name is Eddie. You met him on
a hinge. I guess you texted a little bit, maybe
(03:38):
had some plans and it never happened with Eddie?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Oh wow, okay, yeah, uh huh, so that's true.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
So you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 4 (03:48):
I do, Yeah, I do?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
All right, Well, what happened because he reached out to
us and described what he thought was like a good
progression that you matched, and then chatted and texted, and
then you had some plans and apparently when he kind
of tried to follow through on those plans, you disappeared
and he hasn't heard from you since.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
So why why is that?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Okay, sure, I'll get into it. Okay, So everything seems enormal,
uh for a while. But at one point while we
were you know, flirting, the like exchange you know, insta handle,
and I thinks it's got weird.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
After that, why did they get weird?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Started sending me like a lot a lot, a lot
a lot of memes.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Which I like memes.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
That's not the weird part. It was just like it
was the content of them.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Okay, So he's start supporting you in like in the
d MS weird memes.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
What what did they say?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Uh? Of course, yeah, hold on, I think I have
let me just.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Pull you can pull them up for us. Oh this
is wonderful.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah, we've got some receipts. Uh.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
So okay.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
So some of them.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Are about like true love, oh homemade. And I was like, okay, dude,
that's cute, but that's way too soon. Yeah, way too soon. Uh.
And he was got into sending me these really sexual means.
And it's not that I'm even prude like I you know,
I obviously would like that to be a part of
(05:24):
my intimate relationship, but these were really weird ones.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
And yeah, can you give us an example of one
of the sexual ones please?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
I just I have to know, Okay.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
So okay, Oh, here's one to me when the airport
security finds the metal butt plug in my ass?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Wait, wait, give us something? Do you have any more?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
So?
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Yeah, okay, so here's here's an Oh, here's a good one. Okay.
So it's a girl like a cartoon woman, and she's
texting and it's just why do you bring me to
the beach every day? And in a thought bubble above
the boy cartoon, it says, desperately trying to get stung
(06:07):
by a jellyfish, so she'll test.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
On me true love soulmates and.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Let me bring Eddie. And I forgot to mention that
Eddie is here. Eddie, I mean, don't you think that
some of this content would be a little better suited
for someone who knew you a little better and got
your sense of humor?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I mean she's never met you.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I mean not really funny funny.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I feel like they're funny really I love.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Okay, So I mean you're all laughing, right, but we're
also not trying to go out with you or like
interested in being in a relationship with you. And I
guess if you're this comfortable with jokes like that and
we've never met, then I mean what, I don't know,
you know.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
It's like people they don't get it means I'm open minded,
I'm I'm you know, it's hard to offend me. It's
I think it's a good thing.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Well, and in fairness, I'm kind of with you on
that in some regard, because you know, if if if
that's your sense of humor and somebody can't handle it,
then it's probably or that you know, you don't hang
out anyway. However, sometimes it takes it, you know, a
few days to get to know someone develop interest in them,
to then determine that Okay, they got kind of a
raunchy sense of humhere.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I can deal with that. She doesn't even know you,
she has no context.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
But like, why beat her on the bush? You know
what I mean? Just show her who I am right away.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
But it does come off kind of pervy too, which
is the risk you take. And I assume it. Anya,
that was sort of your angle. Was this dude's a weirdo?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Yeah? To say the lead not charmed. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Look, he's saying that it's just his sense of humor
and he thought he was being funny. Maybe he can
tone it back a little bit.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Oh no, no, I would never tone it back.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Would you consider actually meeting him once and seeing if
maybe you know he's for you in person?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
All right, well that's a shame. So we don't have
a love match here, Eddie. I'm sorry it's not going
to work out.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
I'll find someone who gets my sense of humor.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Okay, well maybe so, And I hope that for you
and Anya, thank you for your time. Best to luck
to you as well. No Ill, thanks the Entertainment Report.
He's next one thousand whims for Shelby. Shelley, You're thirteen
f fifty for you will play Next as well the
Fred Show commercial free for the next thirty minutes.
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show, Hendie,
Welcome to the show. Good morning today. How's it going great?
Everything is good. Thank you for asking. We're all in
great mood, happy to be here. What's going on with
this woman? Anya? We need to know how you guys met,
About any dates that you've been on, any conversations you've had,
and then what's going on now?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, well we met on Hinge and we I mean
we headed off right away. Really, she gave me her
numbers before I even have to ask. She was like,
you know, we would stick into it.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
It was a kind of quick click.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
So that's a good sign, by the way, because you
can keep the messaging going forever, and it's an easy
way for someone to just kind of disappear and goes me.
But once they have, once somebody gives you her number
or his number, now we're talking like, you know, this
is real communication.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
Yeah that's what I thought too, because you know, I've
been there where you just kind of talk forever on
the app and then a just stage away. But now
we switched the texting pretty quick.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
A burner phone, they could have a burner phone.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
A bad idea, actually a dating app, burner phone, you
know where, like you just give them that number and
it's not your real actual number. But then when you
carry around two phones everywhere that I think people might
be skeptical.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
That's a sidebar. So you got her number.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Actually, maybe maybe that's what happened, because I haven't heard
from her, so maybe she did have a burn her phone.
Now listen, we it seemed to be going great. We're texting,
we exchanged socials, Instagram and stuff, and then finally we
did make.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
A plan to go on a date.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
The date comes and nothing, so we planned a couple
of days in advance, and on Friday night, she just
didn't respond any text. She was just completely silent. So
the date never happened. And I have no idea why
she just she just ghosted me. I was feeling super bombed.
She never I don't know, she didn't give me a
chance at all. She just just stopped talking. And I'm like,
(01:42):
maybe maybe she met someone else or something, but really
she could have just told me that, and she just
she just gave me nothing. And I have no idea
what happened.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Okay, so you kind of had loose plans, but you know,
the idea was that you would be going out on
this on this Friday night, and then it just comes
and goes and you reached out like you attempted to
kind of circle back, but nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Yeah, like, how Steven work for you?
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Do you want to go here? Nothing?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I sent three texts and I was like, all right,
I don't want to look crazy, but something's up.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Let's call Anya. You'll be on the phone. We'll see
if we can get her on the phone. We'll ask
some questions. Don't say anything right at first, but at
some point you're welcome to jump in on the call
and hopefully we can figure out what's going on and
set you guys up on another date that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Okay, all right, sounds good, Thanks so much.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
You got I'm gonna play one song and then we'll
come back and do it. All right, Let's find out
what's going on? Part two of waiting by the phone.
After Whizz CALEI you put back in two minutes on
the Fred Show, khalif it's the Fred Show on the radio,
the iHeart app Live and any time search for a
fread show on demand.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Eddie, Hey, how's it going? Hey?
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Welcome back? Still going great? I still feel like that's
still in a good mood. Everyone's still happy to be Yah.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I go to I just always asking people how they are.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Get Hey, we're good. We're good. Let's call Anya and
figure out what's going on. You guys, you met on
a dating app on Hinge. You messaged and you started texting.
You had loose plans, plans come and go, and now
she's ghosting and you want to know why?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yeah, something, I just I have no idea what happened.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
We're gonna call her right now. Good luck?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Thanks?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Hi is this Anya? Hey? Good morning?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, friend from the Friend Show, the whole crew is here.
I know this is kind of weird. Thank you for
picking up a number that you don't know. But we're
calling on behalf of a guy. Now, first I have
to ask you if it's okay if we talk on
the air. Can we talk on the air for a second. Sure,
it's kind of ridiculous, I know, but thank you so much.
We're calling on behalf of a dude who reached out
to us. His name is Eddie. You met him on
a hinge. I guess you texted a little bit, maybe
(03:38):
had some plans and it never happened with Eddie?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Oh wow, okay, yeah, uh huh, so that's true.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
So you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 4 (03:48):
I do, Yeah, I do?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
All right, Well, what happened because he reached out to
us and described what he thought was like a good
progression that you matched, and then chatted and texted, and
then you had some plans and apparently when he kind
of tried to follow through on those plans, you disappeared
and he hasn't heard from you since.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
So why why is that?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Okay, sure, I'll get into it. Okay, So everything seems enormal,
uh for a while. But at one point while we
were you know, flirting, the like exchange you know, insta handle,
and I thinks it's got weird.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
After that, why did they get weird?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Started sending me like a lot a lot, a lot
a lot of memes.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Which I like memes.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
That's not the weird part. It was just like it
was the content of them.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Okay, So he's start supporting you in like in the
d MS weird memes.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
What what did they say?
Speaker 4 (04:50):
Uh? Of course, yeah, hold on, I think I have
let me just.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Pull you can pull them up for us. Oh this
is wonderful.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah, we've got some receipts. Uh.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
So okay.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
So some of them.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Are about like true love, oh homemade. And I was like, okay, dude,
that's cute, but that's way too soon. Yeah, way too soon. Uh.
And he was got into sending me these really sexual means.
And it's not that I'm even prude like I you know,
I obviously would like that to be a part of
(05:24):
my intimate relationship, but these were really weird ones.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
And yeah, can you give us an example of one
of the sexual ones please?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
I just I have to know, Okay.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
So okay, Oh, here's one to me when the airport
security finds the metal butt plug in my ass?
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Wait, wait, give us something? Do you have any more?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
So?
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Yeah, okay, so here's here's an Oh, here's a good one. Okay.
So it's a girl like a cartoon woman, and she's
texting and it's just why do you bring me to
the beach every day? And in a thought bubble above
the boy cartoon, it says, desperately trying to get stung
(06:07):
by a jellyfish, so she'll test.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
On me true love soulmates and.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Let me bring Eddie. And I forgot to mention that
Eddie is here. Eddie, I mean, don't you think that
some of this content would be a little better suited
for someone who knew you a little better and got
your sense of humor?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I mean she's never met you.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I mean not really funny funny.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
I feel like they're funny really I love.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Okay, So I mean you're all laughing, right, but we're
also not trying to go out with you or like
interested in being in a relationship with you. And I
guess if you're this comfortable with jokes like that and
we've never met, then I mean what, I don't know,
you know.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
It's like people they don't get it means I'm open minded,
I'm I'm you know, it's hard to offend me. It's
I think it's a good thing.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Well, and in fairness, I'm kind of with you on
that in some regard, because you know, if if if
that's your sense of humor and somebody can't handle it,
then it's probably or that you know, you don't hang
out anyway. However, sometimes it takes it, you know, a
few days to get to know someone develop interest in them,
to then determine that Okay, they got kind of a
raunchy sense of humhere.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I can deal with that. She doesn't even know you,
she has no context.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
But like, why beat her on the bush? You know
what I mean? Just show her who I am right away.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
But it does come off kind of pervy too, which
is the risk you take. And I assume it. Anya,
that was sort of your angle. Was this dude's a weirdo?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Yeah? To say the lead not charmed. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Look, he's saying that it's just his sense of humor
and he thought he was being funny. Maybe he can
tone it back a little bit.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Oh no, no, I would never tone it back.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Would you consider actually meeting him once and seeing if
maybe you know he's for you in person?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I don't think so.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
All right, well that's a shame. So we don't have
a love match here, Eddie. I'm sorry it's not going
to work out.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
I'll find someone who gets my sense of humor.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Okay, well maybe so, And I hope that for you
and Anya, thank you for your time. Best to luck
to you as well. No Ill, thanks the Entertainment Report.
He's next one thousand whims for Shelby. Shelley, You're thirteen
f fifty for you will play Next as well the
Fred Show commercial free for the next thirty minutes.
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