February 13, 2025 • 7 mins
Dominic is confused why his date won't call him back after a fun night. Find out why!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
You've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show Dominic. Fill listen, man, what's going
on with you and this woman Jillian? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then what's happening right now for you guys?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, okay, So we met on Hinge and I was
so pumped, so I thought she was out of my
league actually, but you know, I got her number and
we went out and I thought it.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Went really well. You know, we got some drinks and
I don't know what happened because I thought I thought
I did this as well, you know, and I thought
she was into it, and so now she's ghosting and
I really don't know. All right.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So you guys meet on the app, you chat normal stuff.
You wind up on this district state and you walk
out of the state and you're like, oh, this is
I'm excited about this. I'm gonna see Jillian again. You
you're planning dates in your head, and you know you
can't wait to reach out. That's the feeling.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, I wanted to take like a minute to reach
out again.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
But yeah, well no, but I'm saying, you know, you
leave the date with it was certain that you would
hear from her again and that there'd be a second date.
Except you can't get a hold of her now, exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Yeah, and I'm I'm really trying to figure that out.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Okay, Well, let's call this woman Jillian. We'll see if
we can get her on the phone, and you'll be
on the phone as well. We'll ask all these questions
and hopefully we can straighten this out and set you
guys up on a second date and we'll pay for that.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
All right, Oh that'd be great, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
I'm going to play one song and we'll come back
and do it. So hang on, let's find out what's
going on. Part two of Waiting Metaphonei's next one hundred
and fifty bucks with show by Shelley and Moore coming up.
We're commercial free on the Freend Show. He's the frend Show.
Commercial free for the next forty minutes. You don't have
to go anywhere, dominic. Yeah, welcome back. Let's call Gillian.
You met on a Hinge, the dating app, and you
had a great first date, except you can't get a
(01:50):
hold of her now. She's ghosting you. And of course,
like anybody, you want to know why. Yeah, let's call
her now. Good luck man. Hello, Hi is this Chillian Jillian?
Good morning. It's Fred. The Fred Show is here, the
whole crew, and I have to tell you that we
(02:11):
are on the radio right now and I need your
permission to continue with the call. Can we chat for
a couple of minutes? I guess I know it's weird
and we do a lot of these. Maybe you've heard
him before, but this is called waiting by the phone
and we're calling on your half of a guy you
met named Dominic on Hinge and I guess you guys
had a drink dape Dominic right, you remember? Do you
(02:32):
remember him?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
I mean, yeah, yeah, of course I remember him. He's
a creep.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
He's a creep. Okay, Well, here's what we know. He
called us and said that he liked you and he
actually felt that your your date went really well. You
seem to have a different story. So what's going on?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Like he was recording me?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
When was he recording you?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
How everything was like? Uh? I thought everything was like
normal that I looked at his phone and he he
was like, you know, like like recording my voice and
he's like recording the audio.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Like a phone memoir a voice notoe or whatever?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, like why on? Like I don't know, like, are
you positive?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I am absolutely positive. Like I was so freached out
that I just like I just needed.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
To get out of there. You ask him, did you
so you see this? And you're like, I think I'm
being recorded? Did you say something?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
It's just like.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Really like I was weirded out and I was like,
what he's like a private detective or something.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't know, you've never heard this one. Let me
bring Dominic in. I forgot you mention. I'm sorry because
now that you're he kind of creeps you out. I
don't mean to do this to you, but Dominic is
on the phone here he is listening again like a
creep But what are you doing? Why did you record her?
Are you recording her?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
First of all, wait, I think there's a misunderstanding. I wasn't.
I was recording me, okay, like recording both of you?
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Why well?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
But the reason, the reason, like it wasn't. It wasn't
a creepy thing. I Oh my gosh, Jillian, I like
you so much and I want to make sure that
I was doing well on the date. And so I
was recording myself and I see where I was, you know,
doing well.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Like so like when you go home and then review
the film, I don't want to hear myself on a
date ever again, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
But okay, So but I read something that like, you know,
if you can measure what you're doing, you can you
can get better at it. So if I if I
know that I'm I'm making some mistakes, then I can
address them and then.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Like here's the here's the thing you're like, I really
like aside from this very creepy thing that you have
dying like you.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Cannot do that.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
You're very sweet, but like the facts that you think
that you need to like get better. But no, no,
it doesn't have to take You're in a different than
I am.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
You know, Look, I appreciate what you're trying to do.
I guess for if that's your method, but you can't
do it and it's weird. It's gonna come off weird
every time. So I don't know. I mean, and I guess,
how how.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Do I get better.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
Yourself or something?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
But it sounds like you were fine, like I think
you would have been Jillian. Would he have been okay?
Had he not been recording you without your.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Knowledge actual not acted like a serial killer.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
The y see, I've never I have never hurt any
any bus in my house.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Got it. It's a weird thing to do. And it
sounds like you're fine. It sounds like maybe you have
some anxiety or.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Or you're yes, yes, anxiety, Yes to the home.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
And decompressed in a lot of ways without recording somebody,
because it's gonna come off the wrong way every time.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Doesn't everybody record everybody? There?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Actually no? So okay, yeah, well, I mean, yes, your
apple does, but that's different. That's totally different. Look, you're
sweet man. It sounds like you had the best intentions,
but it didn't come off the right way. And also sounds,
to say one more time, it sounds like you were fine.
So I don't think you should worry about you know,
I don't think you should overthink this. In the future,
(06:16):
you don't have to record your date, and it sounds
like maybe you'd be okay.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Well okay, Well what if we just tried it again
and there wasn't any recording, Like I could just leave
my phone at home.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
That would be a good place to start. But is
there any way Jillian would you consider that go to therapy? Okay,
Chastise the guy.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I think therapy is great, and I I go therapy.
It just seems like you have like a crippling like
anxiety and you know.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Okay, guys, guys, guys, we're not going to solve this
in this segment here, but you know, I starting to
think about dominic. We wish you the best, Jillian. I'm
sorry you were freaked out. At least now you have
some answers and guys, thanks for your time.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Thanks The Entertainer Report at one hundred and fifty bucks
for show vis Shelley in the Showdown vault. Next is
The Fred Show.
You've ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show Dominic. Fill listen, man, what's going
on with you and this woman Jillian? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates that you've been on, and
then what's happening right now for you guys?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, okay, So we met on Hinge and I was
so pumped, so I thought she was out of my
league actually, but you know, I got her number and
we went out and I thought it.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Went really well. You know, we got some drinks and
I don't know what happened because I thought I thought
I did this as well, you know, and I thought
she was into it, and so now she's ghosting and
I really don't know. All right.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So you guys meet on the app, you chat normal stuff.
You wind up on this district state and you walk
out of the state and you're like, oh, this is
I'm excited about this. I'm gonna see Jillian again. You
you're planning dates in your head, and you know you
can't wait to reach out. That's the feeling.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, I wanted to take like a minute to reach
out again.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
But yeah, well no, but I'm saying, you know, you
leave the date with it was certain that you would
hear from her again and that there'd be a second date.
Except you can't get a hold of her now, exactly.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Yeah, and I'm I'm really trying to figure that out.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Okay, Well, let's call this woman Jillian. We'll see if
we can get her on the phone, and you'll be
on the phone as well. We'll ask all these questions
and hopefully we can straighten this out and set you
guys up on a second date and we'll pay for that.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
All right, Oh that'd be great, Thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
I'm going to play one song and we'll come back
and do it. So hang on, let's find out what's
going on. Part two of Waiting Metaphonei's next one hundred
and fifty bucks with show by Shelley and Moore coming up.
We're commercial free on the Freend Show. He's the frend Show.
Commercial free for the next forty minutes. You don't have
to go anywhere, dominic. Yeah, welcome back. Let's call Gillian.
You met on a Hinge, the dating app, and you
had a great first date, except you can't get a
(01:50):
hold of her now. She's ghosting you. And of course,
like anybody, you want to know why. Yeah, let's call
her now. Good luck man. Hello, Hi is this Chillian Jillian?
Good morning. It's Fred. The Fred Show is here, the
whole crew, and I have to tell you that we
(02:11):
are on the radio right now and I need your
permission to continue with the call. Can we chat for
a couple of minutes? I guess I know it's weird
and we do a lot of these. Maybe you've heard
him before, but this is called waiting by the phone
and we're calling on your half of a guy you
met named Dominic on Hinge and I guess you guys
had a drink dape Dominic right, you remember? Do you
(02:32):
remember him?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
I mean, yeah, yeah, of course I remember him. He's
a creep.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
He's a creep. Okay, Well, here's what we know. He
called us and said that he liked you and he
actually felt that your your date went really well. You
seem to have a different story. So what's going on?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Like he was recording me?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
When was he recording you?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
How everything was like? Uh? I thought everything was like
normal that I looked at his phone and he he
was like, you know, like like recording my voice and
he's like recording the audio.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Like a phone memoir a voice notoe or whatever?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, like why on? Like I don't know, like, are
you positive?
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:17):
I am absolutely positive. Like I was so freached out
that I just like I just needed.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
To get out of there. You ask him, did you
so you see this? And you're like, I think I'm
being recorded? Did you say something?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
It's just like.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
Really like I was weirded out and I was like,
what he's like a private detective or something.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't know, you've never heard this one. Let me
bring Dominic in. I forgot you mention. I'm sorry because
now that you're he kind of creeps you out. I
don't mean to do this to you, but Dominic is
on the phone here he is listening again like a
creep But what are you doing? Why did you record her?
Are you recording her?
Speaker 1 (03:49):
First of all, wait, I think there's a misunderstanding. I wasn't.
I was recording me, okay, like recording both of you?
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Why well?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
But the reason, the reason, like it wasn't. It wasn't
a creepy thing. I Oh my gosh, Jillian, I like
you so much and I want to make sure that
I was doing well on the date. And so I
was recording myself and I see where I was, you know,
doing well.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Like so like when you go home and then review
the film, I don't want to hear myself on a
date ever again, Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
But okay, So but I read something that like, you know,
if you can measure what you're doing, you can you
can get better at it. So if I if I
know that I'm I'm making some mistakes, then I can
address them and then.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Like here's the here's the thing you're like, I really
like aside from this very creepy thing that you have
dying like you.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Cannot do that.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
You're very sweet, but like the facts that you think
that you need to like get better. But no, no,
it doesn't have to take You're in a different than
I am.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
You know, Look, I appreciate what you're trying to do.
I guess for if that's your method, but you can't
do it and it's weird. It's gonna come off weird
every time. So I don't know. I mean, and I guess,
how how.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Do I get better.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
Yourself or something?
Speaker 2 (05:16):
But it sounds like you were fine, like I think
you would have been Jillian. Would he have been okay?
Had he not been recording you without your.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Knowledge actual not acted like a serial killer.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
The y see, I've never I have never hurt any
any bus in my house.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Got it. It's a weird thing to do. And it
sounds like you're fine. It sounds like maybe you have
some anxiety or.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Or you're yes, yes, anxiety, Yes to the home.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
And decompressed in a lot of ways without recording somebody,
because it's gonna come off the wrong way every time.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Doesn't everybody record everybody? There?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Actually no? So okay, yeah, well, I mean, yes, your
apple does, but that's different. That's totally different. Look, you're
sweet man. It sounds like you had the best intentions,
but it didn't come off the right way. And also sounds,
to say one more time, it sounds like you were fine.
So I don't think you should worry about you know,
I don't think you should overthink this. In the future,
(06:16):
you don't have to record your date, and it sounds
like maybe you'd be okay.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Well okay, Well what if we just tried it again
and there wasn't any recording, Like I could just leave
my phone at home.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
That would be a good place to start. But is
there any way Jillian would you consider that go to therapy? Okay,
Chastise the guy.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I think therapy is great, and I I go therapy.
It just seems like you have like a crippling like
anxiety and you know.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Okay, guys, guys, guys, we're not going to solve this
in this segment here, but you know, I starting to
think about dominic. We wish you the best, Jillian. I'm
sorry you were freaked out. At least now you have
some answers and guys, thanks for your time.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Thanks The Entertainer Report at one hundred and fifty bucks
for show vis Shelley in the Showdown vault. Next is
The Fred Show.
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