February 14, 2025 • 6 mins
In honor of Valentine's Day, Keke talks about how her love language has evolved.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Yeah, they talk better than they These are the radio
blogs on the Fresh shows.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call the blogs kiki. Yes, I take it away,
dear blogs.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
So, in the spirit of love, yesterday I got a
chance to interview my true soulmate in Love of my
Life Omaran, which is you know, a guy from a
boy band in the early late the early two thousands, yeah,
early two thousands. So as I was interviewing him, I
decided to ask my future husband, what is your love language?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Now?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
This man named all of them.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So I was like, Okay, that's not helpful, but it
made me think about it. What is my love language?
And I truly don't know. I really feel like I
don't know. And I was talking to some people online.
They said that there's a quiz that I can take
to kind of figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Here's his gifts, you thinks, well, here you.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
People don't know about about love languages. There are five
of them. Words of affirmation, quality, time huh, physical touch,
acts of service, and receiving gifts. And the five love
languages describe different ways that people receive an express love
in a relationship. Okay, and so you're saying gifts for
for Kiki Klan.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
I think so.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
I mean not in a bad way, like I think
people are ashamed to say that that's their love language.
But I do think that it's there's more to it,
like somebody thought of you, somebody knew what you wanted.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
But I mean, correct me if I'm wrong. No, I
think that might be right because I'm looking at the list.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
A physical touch is not one of them, like I
don't words of affirmation, like I don't think that's yours.
You think so, I think that's your other one.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
There's two that you can have because I feel like
you like receiving I don't know, I don't compliments. Maybe
I don't know the same thing, but I feel like
you also like receiving. PUB was like, hey, great job today, Kiki.
I feel like you like that, unless you don't.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Know I do. I would love I would love that.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I don't know if I I think I would be
okay if I didn't have it, you know what I'm saying,
Like I would, I would tell myself good job. But
then here quality time, No leave me alone, that's all that.
No acts of service is cool?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I like when my cars, clean the driveway, shovel, you know,
stuff like that. But yeah, I think you might be
right on the money with receiving gifts. So maybe that's mine.
What is everybody else's love.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Length, Pauline?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
And I would guess yours is the same as mine,
which is words of affirmation.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Yeah, it doesn't work as much on me anymore, maybe
because like now my frontal lobe is a little more
about loved animal. So like I feel like I kind
of started shifting. It's weird, but minus physical touch. Really really,
I'm always touching Hobby and he's not that guy, like
he does not want to be touched, so like it's
always like a fight of like, babe, not right now.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I don't want to be smothered.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
I don't want to be this and I love touching
people like I love touching you guys and just passion.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's true, you schoo we like rub me every morning?
Yeah you do?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I do.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, I like touching. So it's weird. I gotta stop.
Maybe that's how you show love. Yeah, yeah, I show
love that way.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I'm gonna say quality time, Kaitlin, I don't know about that.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
That's cool. I feel like I don't even know you anymore?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Any of you.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Nailed.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I'm like you, guys, I think it's either words of
affirmation or physical touch, but only sometimes, but that is
how I show like I'm a big toucher, like touch,
but I think it's words of affirmation as well.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, ye.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Jason, what are you? Then? I won't guess because I
guess I'm not getting it right.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
I think it's acts of service both ways. Like I
think I show people that I love and care about them,
but like doing things for them.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I agree with that.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Yeah, And it's weird because I don't like people doing
things for me unless Mike does something for me. Like so,
I don't know if there's like a differentiation between like
you know, your partner versus like friends or whatever. But
like if he does something for me, like like he said,
like fix the car or whatever, then like that's like
how I'm like, Okay, he does care, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, So I don't know how words of affirmation all
day long, all day long and show mm not physical touch? No, No,
probably not. I would say acts of service or gift
giving if I'm really into you, but I yeah, I
wouldn't say I gravitate towards like I'm going to show
(04:22):
you my love by touching you, Like, yeah, you don't
like to touch.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I feel like I was going, you know, for a
little hug or something, and you're.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Like, oh, get on, it's putting. My mom and my
sister are the most loving people. Of course I grew
up with them, you know, I grew up in a
house of women, and and like they think it's funny,
Like my mom will come over and like literally try
and smother me. My sister's the same way. They think
it's hilarious because I don't not reciprocate, but it's like
it's just not my thing for some reason. Yeah, words
(04:52):
of eff. I want people to tell me that I
did a good job. I want people to tell me
that they like like me. Yeah, even if sometimes I'm
not likable. See yeah, I'm telling you. Where the affirmation? Yeah,
where's the affirmation? And definitely gifts.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
So I think everybody today should text their partner what
their love language is because I think a lot of
us get in relationships and expect people to just know
how to love us, and we haven't even told them
what our.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
True love language is.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Especially if you're like us and we're evolving and changing.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Maybe when you got with hobby it was affirmation, but
now it's touch and now you can't deal with it.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
You gotta tell your partner what you want.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
And yeah, and my husband, he is super what is it?
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Quality time? Okay?
Speaker 5 (05:35):
And one thing about Paulina and Paulina is not a
quality time girl, quality.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Time as we're staying her out.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yeah, we could sit on the couch and be on
our phones and I could do work on my laptop.
You're here next to me, we're physically next to each other, right,
physical touch.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
But to him, that's not quality time. Like he's so
about your focus in yours and I don't have that
to give.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
That's a good point, Kiki, because my boyfriend the way
he shows.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Love, his acts of service.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
But I always have to gently say sometimes we're too helpful.
Sometimes like he tried to unpack my suitcase, God bless him,
but like he put everything in the wrong place, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Sometimes we can help too much.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Now, I love, I love that you want to help,
but sometimes it's too much.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, I love Huh.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Okay. Well, hey, by the way, since we're talking to
the third person, if you could tell Paulina that I
thought that words of affirmation were Paulina's things. They are
just like me as all your teammates, like I believe
it or not, I really focus on like trying to
do those like appeal to each of you in the
right way. And maybe this would explain why I'm not
because I don't know. I don't have any of them
(06:34):
right waiting by the phone. You've got to hear it.
It's next in two minutes.
Yeah, they talk better than they These are the radio
blogs on the Fresh shows.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call the blogs kiki. Yes, I take it away,
dear blogs.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
So, in the spirit of love, yesterday I got a
chance to interview my true soulmate in Love of my
Life Omaran, which is you know, a guy from a
boy band in the early late the early two thousands, yeah,
early two thousands. So as I was interviewing him, I
decided to ask my future husband, what is your love language?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Now?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
This man named all of them.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So I was like, Okay, that's not helpful, but it
made me think about it. What is my love language?
And I truly don't know. I really feel like I
don't know. And I was talking to some people online.
They said that there's a quiz that I can take
to kind of figure it out.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Here's his gifts, you thinks, well, here you.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
People don't know about about love languages. There are five
of them. Words of affirmation, quality, time huh, physical touch,
acts of service, and receiving gifts. And the five love
languages describe different ways that people receive an express love
in a relationship. Okay, and so you're saying gifts for
for Kiki Klan.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
I think so.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
I mean not in a bad way, like I think
people are ashamed to say that that's their love language.
But I do think that it's there's more to it,
like somebody thought of you, somebody knew what you wanted.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
But I mean, correct me if I'm wrong. No, I
think that might be right because I'm looking at the list.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
A physical touch is not one of them, like I
don't words of affirmation, like I don't think that's yours.
You think so, I think that's your other one.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
There's two that you can have because I feel like
you like receiving I don't know, I don't compliments. Maybe
I don't know the same thing, but I feel like
you also like receiving. PUB was like, hey, great job today, Kiki.
I feel like you like that, unless you don't.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Know I do. I would love I would love that.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I don't know if I I think I would be
okay if I didn't have it, you know what I'm saying,
Like I would, I would tell myself good job. But
then here quality time, No leave me alone, that's all that.
No acts of service is cool?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I like when my cars, clean the driveway, shovel, you know,
stuff like that. But yeah, I think you might be
right on the money with receiving gifts. So maybe that's mine.
What is everybody else's love.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Length, Pauline?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
And I would guess yours is the same as mine,
which is words of affirmation.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Yeah, it doesn't work as much on me anymore, maybe
because like now my frontal lobe is a little more
about loved animal. So like I feel like I kind
of started shifting. It's weird, but minus physical touch. Really really,
I'm always touching Hobby and he's not that guy, like
he does not want to be touched, so like it's
always like a fight of like, babe, not right now.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
I don't want to be smothered.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
I don't want to be this and I love touching
people like I love touching you guys and just passion.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's true, you schoo we like rub me every morning?
Yeah you do?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
I do.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, I like touching. So it's weird. I gotta stop.
Maybe that's how you show love. Yeah, yeah, I show
love that way.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I'm gonna say quality time, Kaitlin, I don't know about that.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
That's cool. I feel like I don't even know you anymore?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Any of you.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Nailed.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I'm like you, guys, I think it's either words of
affirmation or physical touch, but only sometimes, but that is
how I show like I'm a big toucher, like touch,
but I think it's words of affirmation as well.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Yeah, ye.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Jason, what are you? Then? I won't guess because I
guess I'm not getting it right.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
I think it's acts of service both ways. Like I
think I show people that I love and care about them,
but like doing things for them.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I agree with that.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Yeah, And it's weird because I don't like people doing
things for me unless Mike does something for me. Like so,
I don't know if there's like a differentiation between like
you know, your partner versus like friends or whatever. But
like if he does something for me, like like he said,
like fix the car or whatever, then like that's like
how I'm like, Okay, he does care, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Yeah, So I don't know how words of affirmation all
day long, all day long and show mm not physical touch? No, No,
probably not. I would say acts of service or gift
giving if I'm really into you, but I yeah, I
wouldn't say I gravitate towards like I'm going to show
(04:22):
you my love by touching you, Like, yeah, you don't
like to touch.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I feel like I was going, you know, for a
little hug or something, and you're.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Like, oh, get on, it's putting. My mom and my
sister are the most loving people. Of course I grew
up with them, you know, I grew up in a
house of women, and and like they think it's funny,
Like my mom will come over and like literally try
and smother me. My sister's the same way. They think
it's hilarious because I don't not reciprocate, but it's like
it's just not my thing for some reason. Yeah, words
(04:52):
of eff. I want people to tell me that I
did a good job. I want people to tell me
that they like like me. Yeah, even if sometimes I'm
not likable. See yeah, I'm telling you. Where the affirmation? Yeah,
where's the affirmation? And definitely gifts.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
So I think everybody today should text their partner what
their love language is because I think a lot of
us get in relationships and expect people to just know
how to love us, and we haven't even told them
what our.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
True love language is.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Especially if you're like us and we're evolving and changing.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Maybe when you got with hobby it was affirmation, but
now it's touch and now you can't deal with it.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
You gotta tell your partner what you want.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
And yeah, and my husband, he is super what is it?
Speaker 6 (05:33):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Quality time? Okay?
Speaker 5 (05:35):
And one thing about Paulina and Paulina is not a
quality time girl, quality.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Time as we're staying her out.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yeah, we could sit on the couch and be on
our phones and I could do work on my laptop.
You're here next to me, we're physically next to each other, right,
physical touch.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
But to him, that's not quality time. Like he's so
about your focus in yours and I don't have that
to give.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
That's a good point, Kiki, because my boyfriend the way
he shows.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Love, his acts of service.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
But I always have to gently say sometimes we're too helpful.
Sometimes like he tried to unpack my suitcase, God bless him,
but like he put everything in the wrong place, you
know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Sometimes we can help too much.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Now, I love, I love that you want to help,
but sometimes it's too much.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, I love Huh.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Okay. Well, hey, by the way, since we're talking to
the third person, if you could tell Paulina that I
thought that words of affirmation were Paulina's things. They are
just like me as all your teammates, like I believe
it or not, I really focus on like trying to
do those like appeal to each of you in the
right way. And maybe this would explain why I'm not
because I don't know. I don't have any of them
(06:34):
right waiting by the phone. You've got to hear it.
It's next in two minutes.
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