February 21, 2025 • 10 mins
An interesting new fetish is learned on The Fred Show, and it's the reason this guy gets ghosted... Find out what it is!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Carl,
good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you, Uh,
you're doing okay, considering okay, all right, just okay, which
is honest because you think maybe you've been ghosted. So
tell us about Mina, this woman, and then you know
about how you met any date you've been on, kind
(00:23):
of all the backstory fill us in.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, like you said, her her name is Mina.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I met her on a dating app.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
We chatted for a little bit on there, and then
we decided to meet up and we uh we went
to this uh this rest of this Italian place, my
favorite place, and it was it was a great day.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It was great.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And did I never hear from her? So I'm, you know,
maybe it wasn't great.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I feel like I'm I'm I'm missing something because every
time I try to respond or I try to, you know,
reach out to her, I'm not getting anything back right
one percent and ghosting.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
So I don't, you know, what was it something I did?
I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here. Yeah,
it's always kind of a risk when you meet someone
on the apps. The chemistry and person will be what
you hope it is. But hey, you're looking back on
this date, you're thinking, Hey, I thought it went really well.
Conversation was good. I thought there was a traction in
chemistry and all that, except this woman is not responding
(01:22):
to you now for another date, and you kind of
want to know what if I if I thought everything
went well, then what am I missing? Exactly right? Well, Carl,
let's play a song. Come back in a couple of minutes.
We'll call Mina, we'll ask these questions. You'll be on
the phone. You're welcome a jump in at some point.
And the hope is always is that we can straighten
all of this out and set you guys up on
another date that we pay for. Sound good, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
(01:44):
that'd be great. Let's see what's up. Part two of
waiting by the phone. After Teddy swims back in two minutes,
stay right here. It's the Frend Show. The Frend Show's
on the radio on the iHeart app live at any time.
Make us a preset on the iHeart app. By the way,
search for a Freend show on demand. Hey, Carl, Yeah,
welcome back, man. Let's call Mina. You met on one
of the dating apps, You went on a date, You
went to a nice spot that you picked out. You
thought everything went really well. You felt like the conversation
(02:07):
was flowing and the chemistry was good and there was
a connection. You walked away thinking, Hey, I'm going to
reach out to Mina. We're gonna go on another day.
This is going someplace. Except you did that, and she
has not responded to you, and you want to know
why exactly exactly right? Yeah, all right, let's call Mina now,
good luck? Hi is this Mina? Hey, Mina, good morning.
(02:36):
My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Friend's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here. I
have to tell you that we are on the radio
right now. I would need your permission to continue with
the call. Can we chat for just a second on
the air. You can hang up anytime, I guess okay,
I'll take tennis a Yes, thank you. We're calling on
behalf of a dude named Carl who you met on
(02:58):
a dating app recently apparently and went on a date
with Italian restaurant. Does it ring it?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Okay, So he called us and had nice things to
say about you and that he was excited about you.
And thought the date went well. He says he's reached
out since then for another date and you're not responding.
He feels like he's being ghosted. So what, you know,
what's kind of your side of the story. Is that true?
Are you avoiding him?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he
I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do
you want me to tell you what happened?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us
what happened.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Okay, So yeah, he asked this, you can order for
the table, and you know, I thought that that made
sense because he took me to his favorite spot and
I'm not picky, and he ordered like a lot, like
a ton of food, and I would say it was
an abnormal amount of food, and yeah, that the dinner
(04:02):
just got kind of weird from there. And then I
realized that he wasn't really eating much, but he just
kept insisting that I should eat and try things. And then,
you know, after some time, you know, we'd had some
wine and everything. I finally was just like, what is
going on? What is the deal? And then he was like,
(04:24):
I just want you to eat so much that you
feel sick.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
And that was why he want that?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
What's the yeah? And then he yeah, he said that
he like wanted to hook up, but that I like
he feeling sick. I don't know. I think it was
some sort of kink of his, Like it was very weird.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat
all the food and then he wanted to go mess around,
Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get
most people to hook up with you? Like, I don't
normally think eat everything, Let's go to let's go to
the you know, Brazilian steakhouse and just all the meat
on the stick, and then let's go home and get
it on blue cheese crest. No thank you, no thank you, Ryan.
(05:14):
So you think he was in because he's watching you
eat and then he wants to go home and do
some stuff and he thinks that's like something he's into.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I think he used to do this so much that
I felt sick and then he wanted to hook up.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
I've Igatin mentioned that Carl is here the masochist. Carl,
what what?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Okay, Look it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a
well known thing. It's called them all right, and yeah,
and yeah I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
It's called I'm a feeder, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
I feed my partners and they get, you know, till
they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are
knocking it. Have you ever tried it? No? You have,
all right, I mean not a purpose but sex, Yes,
but not the first time. Yeah, I know it's usually
like you know, the comfort levels too high? Yes, yes,
it's way too high at that point. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
You know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of judgment
over here, and and you know I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I don't. I don't think I signed up for that
when I asked you guys help. Okay, okay, well let's
relax for a second, Carl, And no one's judging you.
I think we're trying to figure out okay, well is
I'm not judging you. I'm trying to figure out, you know,
where's the turn on? Right? But for him that's his thing, feederism.
Did you make that up? Or is that real?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
There is a small community of us. We we are
small but vocal. You guys are laughing. I mean, I mean,
you look it up.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
I think it's we're not thing and I'm laughing. Your
passion is amazing.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
The sex, it's the best sex I've ever had when
I'm with a partner who is you know, filled to
the guilt.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Stop.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
If you guys, if you got to come down from
your ivory power and listen to me for a second
with you, maybe you know you could see things.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Why don't you have to eat? Though? I don't get that. Yeah,
wouldn't this be like both of you eat? No? Are
you going? Are you guys listening? I'm I'm the fever.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my
partner the food.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I provide them and.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Then once they're you know.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
So you feed, you feed her and then y'all go
to bas and I'm like garlic butter and get it,
pass it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
And that's that well, and it's amazing. It's absolutely amazing. Mean,
what did you want to say? I mean, Kiki's into this,
I guess carling later, but uh, what did you want
to say? Mena? Because you were trying to get in Well,
I just.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Okay, here's the thing it is, that's what you're into whatever,
But you need to just close that to somebody before
you have him on a date and start making them
do that. You should talk about it, curse.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
You know, this is I'm not he need you to
cal him down, sir. He's exctly passionate about his craft.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Hungry, That's what I meant. He's angry. He doesn't get Carl,
I'm gonna let what what did you get to say?
Something else? What do you want to say?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
You know, it's it's I thought I had made some
references to that in our chats.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
You know, and like the day you know, I'm not
I'm not a mind reader, all right.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I don't have a crystal ball over here, Okay, but
I mean I think, you know, from what from what
we talked about before, I was I would hope that
you would be, uh, you know a little bit more
open minded about it, you know. And now here's the thing. Okay,
we're talking about it now, and that's that's step one.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
To in the process on the radio, in the conversion process. Yeah,
and you know, to.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You weren't up front about it. And here's the thing.
There's the field app so you can go on there
and oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into, and like.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
We talked about it. You have no idea?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Is you?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
But no you?
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Yeah, trick me and gross.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I mean, I'm with you the number one way to
get me to probably not hook up with you, Like
if you're on a day with me and you don't
want to mess around, like just stuff food in my face,
like you know, make me eat more, because then I
get home I feel disgusted. Don't you feel tired too?
Like the only thing I want to do is get
it on, like I just want to lay like a
beach oil like vertically. Yeah. Well, don't hey, be careful.
Carl's getting turned off. Yeah all right, Look, I mean
(09:46):
i'll ask the question. I think I know the answer.
But would you be interested in going out with Carl again?
All right? Not not interested? Hey, Carl, Look, no one's
judging you, no one's king shaming you. Do whatever you do.
I do. You got to realize, I think it's not
gonna be for everybody.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
You know, feeders are the most maligned thanks in this country.
And I think one day it's you know, one day
that the table's gonna you know, be on the other foot,
and it's gonna turn.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
The table gonna be on the other foot. Huh And
you know.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
You know what, you know what I'm saying, I get
you know, I mean, this is just frustrating.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I'm sorry that you're frustrated. Carl on the streets Carl,
Yeah you think. Okay, Well, Kaylen's interested, excuse me, Kiky's interested.
Paulina might be interested. I'm not sure you'll have to
hit them up separately. But all right, guys, thank you
for your time. Best of luck to both of you. Yeah,
thank you. The Entertainment Report. Kaylyn has it next, Kevin
the Science Feature versus show Biz Shelley in our pop
(10:42):
culture battle the Show Bis Shelley show Down for four
hundred bucks. That's next too. Fred Show's on
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Carl,
good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you, Uh,
you're doing okay, considering okay, all right, just okay, which
is honest because you think maybe you've been ghosted. So
tell us about Mina, this woman, and then you know
about how you met any date you've been on, kind
(00:23):
of all the backstory fill us in.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, like you said, her her name is Mina.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I met her on a dating app.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
We chatted for a little bit on there, and then
we decided to meet up and we uh we went
to this uh this rest of this Italian place, my
favorite place, and it was it was a great day.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
It was great.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And did I never hear from her? So I'm, you know,
maybe it wasn't great.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I feel like I'm I'm I'm missing something because every
time I try to respond or I try to, you know,
reach out to her, I'm not getting anything back right
one percent and ghosting.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
So I don't, you know, what was it something I did?
I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here. Yeah,
it's always kind of a risk when you meet someone
on the apps. The chemistry and person will be what
you hope it is. But hey, you're looking back on
this date, you're thinking, Hey, I thought it went really well.
Conversation was good. I thought there was a traction in
chemistry and all that, except this woman is not responding
(01:22):
to you now for another date, and you kind of
want to know what if I if I thought everything
went well, then what am I missing? Exactly right? Well, Carl,
let's play a song. Come back in a couple of minutes.
We'll call Mina, we'll ask these questions. You'll be on
the phone. You're welcome a jump in at some point.
And the hope is always is that we can straighten
all of this out and set you guys up on
another date that we pay for. Sound good, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
(01:44):
that'd be great. Let's see what's up. Part two of
waiting by the phone. After Teddy swims back in two minutes,
stay right here. It's the Frend Show. The Frend Show's
on the radio on the iHeart app live at any time.
Make us a preset on the iHeart app. By the way,
search for a Freend show on demand. Hey, Carl, Yeah,
welcome back, man. Let's call Mina. You met on one
of the dating apps, You went on a date, You
went to a nice spot that you picked out. You
thought everything went really well. You felt like the conversation
(02:07):
was flowing and the chemistry was good and there was
a connection. You walked away thinking, Hey, I'm going to
reach out to Mina. We're gonna go on another day.
This is going someplace. Except you did that, and she
has not responded to you, and you want to know
why exactly exactly right? Yeah, all right, let's call Mina now,
good luck? Hi is this Mina? Hey, Mina, good morning.
(02:36):
My name is Fred. I'm calling for the Friend's Show,
the morning radio show. The whole crew is here. I
have to tell you that we are on the radio
right now. I would need your permission to continue with
the call. Can we chat for just a second on
the air. You can hang up anytime, I guess okay,
I'll take tennis a Yes, thank you. We're calling on
behalf of a dude named Carl who you met on
(02:58):
a dating app recently apparently and went on a date
with Italian restaurant. Does it ring it?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:04):
Okay, So he called us and had nice things to
say about you and that he was excited about you.
And thought the date went well. He says he's reached
out since then for another date and you're not responding.
He feels like he's being ghosted. So what, you know,
what's kind of your side of the story. Is that true?
Are you avoiding him?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he
I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do
you want me to tell you what happened?
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us
what happened.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Okay, So yeah, he asked this, you can order for
the table, and you know, I thought that that made
sense because he took me to his favorite spot and
I'm not picky, and he ordered like a lot, like
a ton of food, and I would say it was
an abnormal amount of food, and yeah, that the dinner
(04:02):
just got kind of weird from there. And then I
realized that he wasn't really eating much, but he just
kept insisting that I should eat and try things. And then,
you know, after some time, you know, we'd had some
wine and everything. I finally was just like, what is
going on? What is the deal? And then he was like,
(04:24):
I just want you to eat so much that you
feel sick.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
And that was why he want that?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
What's the yeah? And then he yeah, he said that
he like wanted to hook up, but that I like
he feeling sick. I don't know. I think it was
some sort of kink of his, Like it was very weird.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat
all the food and then he wanted to go mess around,
Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get
most people to hook up with you? Like, I don't
normally think eat everything, Let's go to let's go to
the you know, Brazilian steakhouse and just all the meat
on the stick, and then let's go home and get
it on blue cheese crest. No thank you, no thank you, Ryan.
(05:14):
So you think he was in because he's watching you
eat and then he wants to go home and do
some stuff and he thinks that's like something he's into.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I think he used to do this so much that
I felt sick and then he wanted to hook up.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
I've Igatin mentioned that Carl is here the masochist. Carl,
what what?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Okay, Look it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a
well known thing. It's called them all right, and yeah,
and yeah I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
It's called I'm a feeder, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
I feed my partners and they get, you know, till
they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are
knocking it. Have you ever tried it? No? You have,
all right, I mean not a purpose but sex, Yes,
but not the first time. Yeah, I know it's usually
like you know, the comfort levels too high? Yes, yes,
it's way too high at that point. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
You know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of judgment
over here, and and you know I don't.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I don't. I don't think I signed up for that
when I asked you guys help. Okay, okay, well let's
relax for a second, Carl, And no one's judging you.
I think we're trying to figure out okay, well is
I'm not judging you. I'm trying to figure out, you know,
where's the turn on? Right? But for him that's his thing, feederism.
Did you make that up? Or is that real?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:35):
There is a small community of us. We we are
small but vocal. You guys are laughing. I mean, I mean,
you look it up.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
I think it's we're not thing and I'm laughing. Your
passion is amazing.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
The sex, it's the best sex I've ever had when
I'm with a partner who is you know, filled to
the guilt.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
Stop.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
If you guys, if you got to come down from
your ivory power and listen to me for a second
with you, maybe you know you could see things.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
Why don't you have to eat? Though? I don't get that. Yeah,
wouldn't this be like both of you eat? No? Are
you going? Are you guys listening? I'm I'm the fever.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my
partner the food.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I provide them and.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Then once they're you know.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
So you feed, you feed her and then y'all go
to bas and I'm like garlic butter and get it,
pass it.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
And that's that well, and it's amazing. It's absolutely amazing. Mean,
what did you want to say? I mean, Kiki's into this,
I guess carling later, but uh, what did you want
to say? Mena? Because you were trying to get in Well,
I just.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
Okay, here's the thing it is, that's what you're into whatever,
But you need to just close that to somebody before
you have him on a date and start making them
do that. You should talk about it, curse.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
You know, this is I'm not he need you to
cal him down, sir. He's exctly passionate about his craft.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
Hungry, That's what I meant. He's angry. He doesn't get Carl,
I'm gonna let what what did you get to say?
Something else? What do you want to say?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
You know, it's it's I thought I had made some
references to that in our chats.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
You know, and like the day you know, I'm not
I'm not a mind reader, all right.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I don't have a crystal ball over here, Okay, but
I mean I think, you know, from what from what
we talked about before, I was I would hope that
you would be, uh, you know a little bit more
open minded about it, you know. And now here's the thing. Okay,
we're talking about it now, and that's that's step one.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
To in the process on the radio, in the conversion process. Yeah,
and you know, to.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You weren't up front about it. And here's the thing.
There's the field app so you can go on there
and oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into, and like.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
We talked about it. You have no idea?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Is you?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
But no you?
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Yeah, trick me and gross.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I mean, I'm with you the number one way to
get me to probably not hook up with you, Like
if you're on a day with me and you don't
want to mess around, like just stuff food in my face,
like you know, make me eat more, because then I
get home I feel disgusted. Don't you feel tired too?
Like the only thing I want to do is get
it on, like I just want to lay like a
beach oil like vertically. Yeah. Well, don't hey, be careful.
Carl's getting turned off. Yeah all right, Look, I mean
(09:46):
i'll ask the question. I think I know the answer.
But would you be interested in going out with Carl again?
All right? Not not interested? Hey, Carl, Look, no one's
judging you, no one's king shaming you. Do whatever you do.
I do. You got to realize, I think it's not
gonna be for everybody.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
You know, feeders are the most maligned thanks in this country.
And I think one day it's you know, one day
that the table's gonna you know, be on the other foot,
and it's gonna turn.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
The table gonna be on the other foot. Huh And
you know.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
You know what, you know what I'm saying, I get
you know, I mean, this is just frustrating.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I'm sorry that you're frustrated. Carl on the streets Carl,
Yeah you think. Okay, Well, Kaylen's interested, excuse me, Kiky's interested.
Paulina might be interested. I'm not sure you'll have to
hit them up separately. But all right, guys, thank you
for your time. Best of luck to both of you. Yeah,
thank you. The Entertainment Report. Kaylyn has it next, Kevin
the Science Feature versus show Biz Shelley in our pop
(10:42):
culture battle the Show Bis Shelley show Down for four
hundred bucks. That's next too. Fred Show's on
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