February 24, 2025 • 9 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Wes,
good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you, good morning.
I'm doing all right, thank you. How are you okay?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Just all right? That's fair. I'm doing great. Thanks for asking.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
But we want to help you out here because you
met a woman named Colleen and you, guys, I guess,
went out and you feel like maybe now you're being ghosted.
So fill us in all the backstory. How did you meet,
any dates that you've been on kind of any information
that we need to know.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Totally, I'm definitely being ghosted. We met on Tinder and
we went out on Valentine's Day. It was a beautiful date.
I mean, as far as I could tell. Drinks were flowing.
Obviously I was gonna like I got a flowers. We're talking.
(00:49):
She seemed like sure us into me, and then I
don't know, like just throwout, Like in the middle of
our dinner she told me, oh, sorry, I have an
emergency and that she had to go, which I totally get.
Things happen, you know, and I was totally expecting for
(01:10):
her to like call me back or like get a
second date, and then I don't know, Radio silence, couldn't
get a hold of her.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I'm just wondering, what's what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Because everything was going so well.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Wow, So this was a great date until like a
hard stop and then she's like I got to get
out of here, and you've like tried to check in
on her and maybe schedule another date, and she's not
responding to you at all exactly. It was so bro Well,
all right, well, let's call this woman Colleen. We'll see
if we can get her on the phone in just
a second. We'll ask these questions. You'll be on the
phone too, and you're welcome to jump in at some point.
(01:44):
And the hope, as always is that we can straighten
this out and set you guys up on another date
that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
All Right, all right, I'm nervous, let's do it.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
All right, let's get into this part two of waiting
by the phone. It's two minutes away. After go go
on Bruno Mars Spread Show, Stay here, four hundred and
fifty bucks showll be Shelley in the show down. You
can wait if you can beat our pop culture expert
in five questions in ten minutes. On the Fred Show,
Hey Wes, Hello, let's call Colleen. You guys recently went
on a date and you thought the date was going
really well until at some point during the date, she's like, hey,
(02:15):
I gotta go abruptly, and then she takes off and
you're sitting there going, I don't know what happened here,
And you've reached out since then, trying to reschedule or
you know, go out again, and she's not responding, and
you want to know what's going on? Yeah, okay, I'd
love to know and get some closure. Right right, well,
let's call Colleen right now? Good luck, Wes. Hello, Hi
(02:40):
is this Colleen?
Speaker 4 (02:42):
This Colleen?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Hey Colleen, good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which have for just
a second on the air, you can hang off any semyone?
So is it okay if we talked for a second?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
H yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Okay, Well, thank you for calling on. Behalf of a
dude name Wes. I guess you guys met on Tinder
recently and you went on a date. Do you remember
this guy?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Oh? Yeah, yes, I do.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
So he Well, he called us and told us that.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
He was excited to meet you and that when he
did meet you, he you know, everything was going well
on the date, he thought, and then at some point
you abruptly left and now he can't get a hold
of you. So what is all that about, because I
think he wanted to see you again.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Well, did he tell you about what happened?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
No, he just said that you guys met and then
he was into you, and that you said you had
to go and that you won't talk to him.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Now that's all we know.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Okay, Well let me let me catch you up from
the beginning and tell you what actually happened.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Please.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
So we matched on Tinder, and like you know, he
was cute. I thought it was promising. And then I'm
not sure if he told you this, Like I guess
he hasn't told you much. Our first date actually just
like happened to be on Valentine's Day, which we both
thought was like funny, you know, because there was like
no real pressure. It was just like up and to
(04:00):
be the day we were both free thought it was funny.
So we met up for drinks and you know, I thought,
like the drinks were going well whatever, and then he
was like heay, guess what, I have a surprise for you.
We're going to another location. And I was like, okay,
well this is like turning out well, you know whatever.
And then he took me to a spa to get
(04:24):
a couple's massage, and he told me that we would
get the massage at a hotel and then get room
service and that like in a room that he would
get for us later at the hotel.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Okay, yeah, that presumptive there, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
And like, keep in mind, this is our first time meeting,
like first time meeting this guy, and like I was like,
I have an emergency. I gotta go, Like, ye, I'm
not trying to do that on Valentine's Day. I have
the first time I'm meeting you.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Please, Yeah, because I've had a couple's massage before and
you're you know, you're stripping down, you're getting all naked
right there. You know, there's really no way to avoid that.
They put The point is they put the tables like
right next to each other. Why are we in a
random hotel room? On top of that, I mean a
lot of layers of like this is super intimate and
we just met.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yeah, I was freaked out by it.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
If I'm being so for real, I don't blame you.
I forgot to mention, by the way, that Wes is here.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Wes.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
I mean you tried it, you know, and you also
left that part out. I mean, that's not going to
work most of the time.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
You do know that.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Maybe you don't. No, I'm totally I understand where she's
coming from.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
Hey, by the way, but listen, guys, my train of
thought was it's Valentine's Day. I was like, yeah, yeah,
I like to I like to treated girl, you know.
And as soon as I realized, okay, this date is
going great, I like her. I don't want to like
(06:00):
offer that put it on the table. I already like,
did all this planning. I'm spending all that money. I'm
not a creep. I'm just I'm just a lover, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
You know, it could be a fine line sometimes between
creep and lover, you know what I mean, It can
be a very fun tailor to beleeve.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
But I mentioned in a month I just wanted to
give a girl a special voute. You know how girls
are on Valentine's Day. I don't know, I have a
history of knowing.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
They love to go to a random hotel room with
a stranger.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
They everybody like all these couples and they're doing all
the cute stuff and here you are, likeingo, and I mean,
you want to know each other, Wes you've never met.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
There's a series of very intimate you know, almost sort
of I'm not going to say unsafe, but like sort
of risky behavior on a first date. I mean, this
woman does not know you, and you've your forethought is
let's go get naked and have a massage.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
And then go to a hotel room. Yeah, I mean
what were you all going to do in the hotel
depends on you know, man, it's a spa. It's a
beautiful time.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
And listen, hey, if there's any ladies listening out again,
like please please call West.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
You know what game.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
He's just a lover. It's not his fault. He's a lover.
He's not a creep. No, no, and he's planning. That's
more than.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
That.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
He is true.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I've never put so much thought into a first day.
I will say. Wow, Okay, so Colleen, look it was
a misstep. It was clearly you know, he was he
was giving more come for them. Yeah, he was giving
a little further, a little more advanced than you were
at that point. But if we're if we're going to
(08:00):
look on the bright side, he was thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I guess honestly, I'm just over here like so shocked.
I can't even believe what I'm cheering over here. Like see,
you know, there could be a girl that he might
be able to like hire for a.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Night like that.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
But you know, I don't know about maybe meeting anyone
like special who wants to do that the first time
you're meeting.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, that's more of like a relationship type activity. That's
definitely not a first date activity. I don't well, I'll
down for the next time.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
Thank you for you guys. You know.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
You're still learning. Look you live, you learn, guy living
and learning over here. He's not a creep. He's a lover.
That's what it is now is an expensive massage. He
said no to I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Gonna get that embroidered on a pillow. I'm not a lover, Colleen. Look,
I know the answer. But do you want to go
out with him again?
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I'm good, Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Hey, Wes, Look, man, I do a little bit but
we wish you too. Bett.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You know, you know, you don't seem like a terrible guy,
but I don't know, maybe maybe a little tone death,
but good luck out there. Thank you. The Entertainer Report
four hundred and fifty bucks with Sheby Is Shilling in
the Showdown.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Good News Stories, and Kiki's Court all coming up. Fred
show back in too,
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Wes,
good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you, good morning.
I'm doing all right, thank you. How are you okay?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Just all right? That's fair. I'm doing great. Thanks for asking.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
But we want to help you out here because you
met a woman named Colleen and you, guys, I guess,
went out and you feel like maybe now you're being ghosted.
So fill us in all the backstory. How did you meet,
any dates that you've been on kind of any information
that we need to know.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Totally, I'm definitely being ghosted. We met on Tinder and
we went out on Valentine's Day. It was a beautiful date.
I mean, as far as I could tell. Drinks were flowing.
Obviously I was gonna like I got a flowers. We're talking.
(00:49):
She seemed like sure us into me, and then I
don't know, like just throwout, Like in the middle of
our dinner she told me, oh, sorry, I have an
emergency and that she had to go, which I totally get.
Things happen, you know, and I was totally expecting for
(01:10):
her to like call me back or like get a
second date, and then I don't know, Radio silence, couldn't
get a hold of her.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I'm just wondering, what's what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Because everything was going so well.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Wow, So this was a great date until like a
hard stop and then she's like I got to get
out of here, and you've like tried to check in
on her and maybe schedule another date, and she's not
responding to you at all exactly. It was so bro Well,
all right, well, let's call this woman Colleen. We'll see
if we can get her on the phone in just
a second. We'll ask these questions. You'll be on the
phone too, and you're welcome to jump in at some point.
(01:44):
And the hope, as always is that we can straighten
this out and set you guys up on another date
that we pay for.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
All Right, all right, I'm nervous, let's do it.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
All right, let's get into this part two of waiting
by the phone. It's two minutes away. After go go
on Bruno Mars Spread Show, Stay here, four hundred and
fifty bucks showll be Shelley in the show down. You
can wait if you can beat our pop culture expert
in five questions in ten minutes. On the Fred Show,
Hey Wes, Hello, let's call Colleen. You guys recently went
on a date and you thought the date was going
really well until at some point during the date, she's like, hey,
(02:15):
I gotta go abruptly, and then she takes off and
you're sitting there going, I don't know what happened here,
And you've reached out since then, trying to reschedule or
you know, go out again, and she's not responding, and
you want to know what's going on? Yeah, okay, I'd
love to know and get some closure. Right right, well,
let's call Colleen right now? Good luck, Wes. Hello, Hi
(02:40):
is this Colleen?
Speaker 4 (02:42):
This Colleen?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Hey Colleen, good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which have for just
a second on the air, you can hang off any semyone?
So is it okay if we talked for a second?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
H yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Okay, Well, thank you for calling on. Behalf of a
dude name Wes. I guess you guys met on Tinder
recently and you went on a date. Do you remember
this guy?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Oh? Yeah, yes, I do.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
So he Well, he called us and told us that.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
He was excited to meet you and that when he
did meet you, he you know, everything was going well
on the date, he thought, and then at some point
you abruptly left and now he can't get a hold
of you. So what is all that about, because I
think he wanted to see you again.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Well, did he tell you about what happened?
Speaker 1 (03:27):
No, he just said that you guys met and then
he was into you, and that you said you had
to go and that you won't talk to him.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Now that's all we know.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Okay, Well let me let me catch you up from
the beginning and tell you what actually happened.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Please.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
So we matched on Tinder, and like you know, he
was cute. I thought it was promising. And then I'm
not sure if he told you this, Like I guess
he hasn't told you much. Our first date actually just
like happened to be on Valentine's Day, which we both
thought was like funny, you know, because there was like
no real pressure. It was just like up and to
(04:00):
be the day we were both free thought it was funny.
So we met up for drinks and you know, I thought,
like the drinks were going well whatever, and then he
was like heay, guess what, I have a surprise for you.
We're going to another location. And I was like, okay,
well this is like turning out well, you know whatever.
And then he took me to a spa to get
(04:24):
a couple's massage, and he told me that we would
get the massage at a hotel and then get room
service and that like in a room that he would
get for us later at the hotel.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Okay, yeah, that presumptive there, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
And like, keep in mind, this is our first time meeting,
like first time meeting this guy, and like I was like,
I have an emergency. I gotta go, Like, ye, I'm
not trying to do that on Valentine's Day. I have
the first time I'm meeting you.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Please, Yeah, because I've had a couple's massage before and
you're you know, you're stripping down, you're getting all naked
right there. You know, there's really no way to avoid that.
They put The point is they put the tables like
right next to each other. Why are we in a
random hotel room? On top of that, I mean a
lot of layers of like this is super intimate and
we just met.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yeah, I was freaked out by it.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
If I'm being so for real, I don't blame you.
I forgot to mention, by the way, that Wes is here.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Wes.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
I mean you tried it, you know, and you also
left that part out. I mean, that's not going to
work most of the time.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
You do know that.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Maybe you don't. No, I'm totally I understand where she's
coming from.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
Hey, by the way, but listen, guys, my train of
thought was it's Valentine's Day. I was like, yeah, yeah,
I like to I like to treated girl, you know.
And as soon as I realized, okay, this date is
going great, I like her. I don't want to like
(06:00):
offer that put it on the table. I already like,
did all this planning. I'm spending all that money. I'm
not a creep. I'm just I'm just a lover, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
You know, it could be a fine line sometimes between
creep and lover, you know what I mean, It can
be a very fun tailor to beleeve.
Speaker 6 (06:19):
But I mentioned in a month I just wanted to
give a girl a special voute. You know how girls
are on Valentine's Day. I don't know, I have a
history of knowing.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
They love to go to a random hotel room with
a stranger.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
They everybody like all these couples and they're doing all
the cute stuff and here you are, likeingo, and I mean,
you want to know each other, Wes you've never met.
Speaker 1 (06:48):
There's a series of very intimate you know, almost sort
of I'm not going to say unsafe, but like sort
of risky behavior on a first date. I mean, this
woman does not know you, and you've your forethought is
let's go get naked and have a massage.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
And then go to a hotel room. Yeah, I mean
what were you all going to do in the hotel
depends on you know, man, it's a spa. It's a
beautiful time.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
And listen, hey, if there's any ladies listening out again,
like please please call West.
Speaker 4 (07:28):
You know what game.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
He's just a lover. It's not his fault. He's a lover.
He's not a creep. No, no, and he's planning. That's
more than.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
That.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
He is true.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I've never put so much thought into a first day.
I will say. Wow, Okay, so Colleen, look it was
a misstep. It was clearly you know, he was he
was giving more come for them. Yeah, he was giving
a little further, a little more advanced than you were
at that point. But if we're if we're going to
(08:00):
look on the bright side, he was thoughtful.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
I guess honestly, I'm just over here like so shocked.
I can't even believe what I'm cheering over here. Like see,
you know, there could be a girl that he might
be able to like hire for a.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Night like that.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
But you know, I don't know about maybe meeting anyone
like special who wants to do that the first time
you're meeting.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Yeah, that's more of like a relationship type activity. That's
definitely not a first date activity. I don't well, I'll
down for the next time.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
Thank you for you guys. You know.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
You're still learning. Look you live, you learn, guy living
and learning over here. He's not a creep. He's a lover.
That's what it is now is an expensive massage. He
said no to I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Gonna get that embroidered on a pillow. I'm not a lover, Colleen. Look,
I know the answer. But do you want to go
out with him again?
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I'm good, Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Hey, Wes, Look, man, I do a little bit but
we wish you too. Bett.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You know, you know, you don't seem like a terrible guy,
but I don't know, maybe maybe a little tone death,
but good luck out there. Thank you. The Entertainer Report
four hundred and fifty bucks with Sheby Is Shilling in
the Showdown.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Good News Stories, and Kiki's Court all coming up. Fred
show back in too,
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