February 25, 2025 • 9 mins
Brad is confused why his date won't call him back after a fun night out... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you I'm
doing I'm a little bit confused. Okay, Brad is confused.
Let's see if we can help with the confusion. So
we're trying to figure out if this woman, Cassie maybe
ghosting you. So tell us about Cassie, and then about
any dates that you've been on, and did all the
backstory here, and then how we can help.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
So I met Cassie at this networking event for other
people in real estate. I'm a real estate.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Agent, she's a lawyer.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
She's like cute. We got her number, and after the
event that I asked her out on the date and
she said yes.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
We met up at this cool bar and.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I know she left kind of quickly, like after two drinks,
but I thought we had a pretty good time. I
just figured she had an early meeting.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Okay, So she kind of took off after the date,
like kind of quickly and two days excuse me. Two
drinks I feel like is the standard, whether you like
it or not, for a first date. I feel like
that's kind of like comfort level, Like hey, I'll go
off for a drink with you that way if I
have one maybe two, and then I want to get out.
I have an out, but at least is how I
(01:09):
look at it, because then if like, let's say you
go for two drinks it goes really well, then you
can extend the date. Hey, you want to get something
to eat, or like, we can go do something else.
But then if it doesn't go well, which I don't
know what happened here exactly, then you've got your out,
Like I did my drinks thing, and then we're gonna
move on. Did you feel like that? Did you feel like, hey,
we had two drinks and it kind of fizzled and
(01:30):
she walked away. I mean, you must not feel that
way if you were expecting her to call. No, I
don't think it's fizzled.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I honestly don't know, because this doesn't happen often.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, So my man here, Brad, like he's got a
you got a great batting record with these women, Like
you're out here just you're getting all the dates you want,
is what you're saying, ok.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Brad, Yeah, I mean I'm a good looking guy myself.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Okay, Okay, I see right. So you're puzzled here because
it's like, Hey, we talked to the event and then
we went and had drinks, so that's not really two dates,
but like it wasn't a total flyer. I mean, she
knew what she was getting into and knew what you
looked like and kind of knew the vibe and so
you know, you have these drinks and then she doesn't
call you back. You're like, what the heck?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Yeah, my normal first date is like most people's third
or fourth day.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Oh oh okay, I see, well what does that mean?
Hold on, I'm trying to be what does that mean exactly?
You knew about the so he's closing on? Oh I
got it? Aye, My goodness. Okay, So for Brad, the
Brad effect is we don't go to normally, it would
be three dates. Not for Brad, Brad date number one
(02:32):
Kiki you know what? You know what he's talking about. Yeah, yeah,
because Kiki for Big Tim several dates made him wait,
you know, many many dates. But if she going out
with Brad, yeah, lots of years. Yeah, well that might
be part of the problem. Then maybe that's where the
ring is then, but I don't know. All right, well,
let's let's call this woman Cassie. We're gonna have you
on the phone at the same time. Of course, we're
going to ask questions on your behalf, and at some
(02:54):
point you're welcome to jump in. And the hope is
that whatever's going on we can straighten out. Maybe she's
been busy or just acted somehow, and if that's the case,
we'll set you up on another date and pay for it. Okay,
we're gonna find out what's up. Part two Waiting by
the phone after Rose and Bruno in two minutes went
back on the Fred Show. Don't move Rose, It's the
Fred Show on the radio and on the iHeart app
(03:15):
live and anytime starts put a Fred Show on demand
and make us a preset. Please, Hey, Brady, hey man,
let's call Cassie. You guys, you met in person in
a networking event, you went on a date, had a
couple drinks, you thought it went well, but you have
not heard from her since then, and you want to
know why. Yeah, please, all right, let's call her now.
Good luck, Brad.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Hullo.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Hi is this Cassie? Yeah, Hi, Cassie, good morning. My
name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the
morning radio show. The whole crew is here and I
do have to tell you that you are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
continue with the call can which hat for just a
second on the on the show, would you mind?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
I guess I don't my I don't know how you
guys got my number though.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Okay, well I'm gonna get to that, so thank you.
I think that was a guest. So we're calling on
behalf of a guy named Brad. I guess you went
out with Brad. You met him at a networking event
and you went out and had a couple of drinks.
Do you remember Brad?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
I do? Okay, well you remember Brad? So what happened?
Because he reached out to us and he told us
that he had a great time with you and felt
like things went well on the date. But he's reached
out since then and you haven't responded, So what's going on? Honestly,
I thought that date was a prank?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Like are you are you guys?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Vanim?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Did he give you my number?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Because that was a brank?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
No, I can honestly tell you that the date was
not a Why do you think the date was a prank?
We actually had nothing to do with the date. We
only got involved when you'd stop calling him.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Oh, well, I felt like it was a prank because
like Brad was just very like he's so handsome and
just like charismatic and stuff, and I was just looking
forward to the date, like me and my friends got
me all dressed up and I had a friend curl
my hair and everything was great. And so then I
got there. We sat down and we made a drink
(05:12):
and instantly Bread started talking about how hot the server
was and he was like, Jesus least eight and I'm
like okay, and then he's like, can you rate her too?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And I'm like I guess.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
And then for like forty five minutes over only like there's.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Like two drinks. We he went person to.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Person in that bar and we were supposed to rate
how hot or not everyone only the only the woman,
know only the woman, and I just I couldn't believe that, Like,
at no point then he asked about me, comment on
me being pretty or anything like. At that point, I
was like, this is a prank and I need to
get out of here.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
So we were talking about everybody, but I forgot you
mentioned that Brad is here the chatroom exactly. I'm sorry
I didn't forget to mention Gussie to Brad was here,
I'm very forgetful. So, Brad, you're on a date with Cassie,
who made an effort to go out with you and
look really pretty, and you don't even bother to compliment her,
(06:11):
but rather go around the room and talk about every
other woman and then objectify them and rate them. I
just want to because that was the date activity.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Obviously she's hot because I asked her that, And.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I guess you would never go out with anybody who
wasn't what an eight pick eight plus?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
I mean, yeah, I mean go on a date probably
in a plus if you know, I'm in a pint,
maybe a seven.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I saw it in a pant. Yeah, So so she
should have just assumed that she was among the elites
because you chose her as what is what? I just
want to be clear, that's what you're saying. Yeah, like okay,
and she should have just assumed that. So, like, it's
not your job on a date to compliment the person
who you're on the date with. Instead we should just
focus on everybody else.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I mean, I think that would have been rude.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
But rate it well, Cassie, I have a ques. How
would you rate Brad? Because apparently no one's asked that question.
What would you give him?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I mean, in terms of the bad I'd say the
Sally seven point five, and then if there's a personality
down I'm hearing about it, I give him a three.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Wow. Okay, yeah you're seven point five. Brad thoughts on that.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
I think he's just salty at this point. Yeah, yeah,
I've already moved on. I'm already thinking about going to
that same barie one out too on the date because
there's definitely a lot of eyes in there.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Again, Yeah, that's not work at all.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You know, there's a good amount of seven.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I just I don't know why you're on a date
with someone who you're saying was in your mind attractive,
but yet we spent time talking about how attractive or
unattractive everybody else was. Like, there's kind of a lot
of problems with that.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
It was a fun gig, you know. I like to
find if the girl I'm seeing is also interested in
another girl.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
You know, Oh, so you're hoping that she would rate
other women highly and oh I wow, this is a
complicated game. The first date we're going to do that.
We call that the Brad effect, you know. Yeah, yeah, Well, so, Cassie,
you were supposed to be rating women so that you
could maybe include them in the evening. Kick right over there. No,
(08:21):
I can't get over to sound his voice.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
So I don't know how she ended up on a
date with this man like that alone is just not
doing it for me.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
But he's Brad. Yeah, yeah, I mean Brad be Brad.
Yeah you're talking to Yeah, that's the one. Okay.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
That's why I gave him a seven point five.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
It's the voice.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
The voice is so annoying.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Wow. So he would have been maybe like in the
ages or something. So he must be a good looking
guy then, because if you're giving.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Any pigs, Brad some pigs ore, yeh, why don't you
send over a little portfolio and it will be the
judge about that. Normally I don't even have to talk.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Oh, I see, he's so good looking. Maybe would have
been better if you hadn't exactly maybe you maybe you
shouldn't have talked, and then things would have gone way
better for you. But okay, I Brad, Cassie, I'll ask
the question, but I know the answer. Would you like
to go out with Brad again? Hell?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
What I don't blame you, Brad. I'm sorry, it's not
gonna work out. I guess go back to the bar
because you see a lot of a lot of talent
in there. Apparently, yes, you gotta shoot.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
I'll do okay.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I do love though, when these guys call up here
and they're like, I want to know why she didn't
call me because they liked her and stuff, and then
as soon as they realized that they screwed it up,
now all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I don't
care if they go out with me. I don't want her, right,
but you wanted her ten minutes ago when you asked
us a caller and do this, So what Okay? Yeah,
it really is all right, Cassie. Thank you for your time.
Best of luck to you, Brad. Good luck to you
as well. Than the Entertainer Report, the biggest stories of
(09:49):
the day and the fun in fact all next Fret
show back in two minutes
Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you I'm
doing I'm a little bit confused. Okay, Brad is confused.
Let's see if we can help with the confusion. So
we're trying to figure out if this woman, Cassie maybe
ghosting you. So tell us about Cassie, and then about
any dates that you've been on, and did all the
backstory here, and then how we can help.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
So I met Cassie at this networking event for other
people in real estate. I'm a real estate.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Agent, she's a lawyer.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
She's like cute. We got her number, and after the
event that I asked her out on the date and
she said yes.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
We met up at this cool bar and.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I know she left kind of quickly, like after two drinks,
but I thought we had a pretty good time. I
just figured she had an early meeting.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Okay, So she kind of took off after the date,
like kind of quickly and two days excuse me. Two
drinks I feel like is the standard, whether you like
it or not, for a first date. I feel like
that's kind of like comfort level, Like hey, I'll go
off for a drink with you that way if I
have one maybe two, and then I want to get out.
I have an out, but at least is how I
(01:09):
look at it, because then if like, let's say you
go for two drinks it goes really well, then you
can extend the date. Hey, you want to get something
to eat, or like, we can go do something else.
But then if it doesn't go well, which I don't
know what happened here exactly, then you've got your out,
Like I did my drinks thing, and then we're gonna
move on. Did you feel like that? Did you feel like, hey,
we had two drinks and it kind of fizzled and
(01:30):
she walked away. I mean, you must not feel that
way if you were expecting her to call. No, I
don't think it's fizzled.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I honestly don't know, because this doesn't happen often.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Okay, So my man here, Brad, like he's got a
you got a great batting record with these women, Like
you're out here just you're getting all the dates you want,
is what you're saying, ok.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Brad, Yeah, I mean I'm a good looking guy myself.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Okay, Okay, I see right. So you're puzzled here because
it's like, Hey, we talked to the event and then
we went and had drinks, so that's not really two dates,
but like it wasn't a total flyer. I mean, she
knew what she was getting into and knew what you
looked like and kind of knew the vibe and so
you know, you have these drinks and then she doesn't
call you back. You're like, what the heck?
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Yeah, my normal first date is like most people's third
or fourth day.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Oh oh okay, I see, well what does that mean?
Hold on, I'm trying to be what does that mean exactly?
You knew about the so he's closing on? Oh I
got it? Aye, My goodness. Okay, So for Brad, the
Brad effect is we don't go to normally, it would
be three dates. Not for Brad, Brad date number one
(02:32):
Kiki you know what? You know what he's talking about. Yeah, yeah,
because Kiki for Big Tim several dates made him wait,
you know, many many dates. But if she going out
with Brad, yeah, lots of years. Yeah, well that might
be part of the problem. Then maybe that's where the
ring is then, but I don't know. All right, well,
let's let's call this woman Cassie. We're gonna have you
on the phone at the same time. Of course, we're
going to ask questions on your behalf, and at some
(02:54):
point you're welcome to jump in. And the hope is
that whatever's going on we can straighten out. Maybe she's
been busy or just acted somehow, and if that's the case,
we'll set you up on another date and pay for it. Okay,
we're gonna find out what's up. Part two Waiting by
the phone after Rose and Bruno in two minutes went
back on the Fred Show. Don't move Rose, It's the
Fred Show on the radio and on the iHeart app
(03:15):
live and anytime starts put a Fred Show on demand
and make us a preset. Please, Hey, Brady, hey man,
let's call Cassie. You guys, you met in person in
a networking event, you went on a date, had a
couple drinks, you thought it went well, but you have
not heard from her since then, and you want to
know why. Yeah, please, all right, let's call her now.
Good luck, Brad.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Hullo.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Hi is this Cassie? Yeah, Hi, Cassie, good morning. My
name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the
morning radio show. The whole crew is here and I
do have to tell you that you are on the
radio right now, and I would need your permission to
continue with the call can which hat for just a
second on the on the show, would you mind?
Speaker 3 (03:59):
I guess I don't my I don't know how you
guys got my number though.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
Okay, well I'm gonna get to that, so thank you.
I think that was a guest. So we're calling on
behalf of a guy named Brad. I guess you went
out with Brad. You met him at a networking event
and you went out and had a couple of drinks.
Do you remember Brad?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
I do? Okay, well you remember Brad? So what happened?
Because he reached out to us and he told us
that he had a great time with you and felt
like things went well on the date. But he's reached
out since then and you haven't responded, So what's going on? Honestly,
I thought that date was a prank?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Like are you are you guys?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Vanim?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Did he give you my number?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
Because that was a brank?
Speaker 1 (04:41):
No, I can honestly tell you that the date was
not a Why do you think the date was a prank?
We actually had nothing to do with the date. We
only got involved when you'd stop calling him.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Oh, well, I felt like it was a prank because
like Brad was just very like he's so handsome and
just like charismatic and stuff, and I was just looking
forward to the date, like me and my friends got
me all dressed up and I had a friend curl
my hair and everything was great. And so then I
got there. We sat down and we made a drink
(05:12):
and instantly Bread started talking about how hot the server
was and he was like, Jesus least eight and I'm
like okay, and then he's like, can you rate her too?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And I'm like I guess.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
And then for like forty five minutes over only like there's.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Like two drinks. We he went person to.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Person in that bar and we were supposed to rate
how hot or not everyone only the only the woman,
know only the woman, and I just I couldn't believe that, Like,
at no point then he asked about me, comment on
me being pretty or anything like. At that point, I
was like, this is a prank and I need to
get out of here.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
So we were talking about everybody, but I forgot you
mentioned that Brad is here the chatroom exactly. I'm sorry
I didn't forget to mention Gussie to Brad was here,
I'm very forgetful. So, Brad, you're on a date with Cassie,
who made an effort to go out with you and
look really pretty, and you don't even bother to compliment her,
(06:11):
but rather go around the room and talk about every
other woman and then objectify them and rate them. I
just want to because that was the date activity.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Obviously she's hot because I asked her that, And.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I guess you would never go out with anybody who
wasn't what an eight pick eight plus?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
I mean, yeah, I mean go on a date probably
in a plus if you know, I'm in a pint,
maybe a seven.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
I saw it in a pant. Yeah, So so she
should have just assumed that she was among the elites
because you chose her as what is what? I just
want to be clear, that's what you're saying. Yeah, like okay,
and she should have just assumed that. So, like, it's
not your job on a date to compliment the person
who you're on the date with. Instead we should just
focus on everybody else.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I mean, I think that would have been rude.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
But rate it well, Cassie, I have a ques. How
would you rate Brad? Because apparently no one's asked that question.
What would you give him?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I mean, in terms of the bad I'd say the
Sally seven point five, and then if there's a personality
down I'm hearing about it, I give him a three.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Wow. Okay, yeah you're seven point five. Brad thoughts on that.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
I think he's just salty at this point. Yeah, yeah,
I've already moved on. I'm already thinking about going to
that same barie one out too on the date because
there's definitely a lot of eyes in there.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Again, Yeah, that's not work at all.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
You know, there's a good amount of seven.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I just I don't know why you're on a date
with someone who you're saying was in your mind attractive,
but yet we spent time talking about how attractive or
unattractive everybody else was. Like, there's kind of a lot
of problems with that.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
It was a fun gig, you know. I like to
find if the girl I'm seeing is also interested in
another girl.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
You know, Oh, so you're hoping that she would rate
other women highly and oh I wow, this is a
complicated game. The first date we're going to do that.
We call that the Brad effect, you know. Yeah, yeah, Well, so, Cassie,
you were supposed to be rating women so that you
could maybe include them in the evening. Kick right over there. No,
(08:21):
I can't get over to sound his voice.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
So I don't know how she ended up on a
date with this man like that alone is just not
doing it for me.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
But he's Brad. Yeah, yeah, I mean Brad be Brad.
Yeah you're talking to Yeah, that's the one. Okay.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
That's why I gave him a seven point five.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
It's the voice.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
The voice is so annoying.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Wow. So he would have been maybe like in the
ages or something. So he must be a good looking
guy then, because if you're giving.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Any pigs, Brad some pigs ore, yeh, why don't you
send over a little portfolio and it will be the
judge about that. Normally I don't even have to talk.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Oh, I see, he's so good looking. Maybe would have
been better if you hadn't exactly maybe you maybe you
shouldn't have talked, and then things would have gone way
better for you. But okay, I Brad, Cassie, I'll ask
the question, but I know the answer. Would you like
to go out with Brad again? Hell?
Speaker 3 (09:11):
No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
What I don't blame you, Brad. I'm sorry, it's not
gonna work out. I guess go back to the bar
because you see a lot of a lot of talent
in there. Apparently, yes, you gotta shoot.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
I'll do okay.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I do love though, when these guys call up here
and they're like, I want to know why she didn't
call me because they liked her and stuff, and then
as soon as they realized that they screwed it up,
now all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I don't
care if they go out with me. I don't want her, right,
but you wanted her ten minutes ago when you asked
us a caller and do this, So what Okay? Yeah,
it really is all right, Cassie. Thank you for your time.
Best of luck to you, Brad. Good luck to you
as well. Than the Entertainer Report, the biggest stories of
(09:49):
the day and the fun in fact all next Fret
show back in two minutes
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