February 25, 2025 • 7 mins
Kaelin tells Fred and the crew she had no idea how much work being a maid of honor!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, they talk better than they tell me about. These
are the radio blogs on the French like were running
in our tireies, except we say them aloud. We call
them blogs, Kaylin and take it away.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Thank you, dear blog. I just want to start out
by just giving a shout out to anyone who has
ever been a maid of honor in their entire life,
because whoa did I not know what this job entailed
and what it does entail. I am in my maid
of honor era for the first time ever. I have
(00:31):
been many a bridesmaid, but never a maid of honor,
and I am now right now for my best friend Laurie,
and it is like it's another full time job. And
right now we're just working on the Bachelorette, but like
we need to figure out stuff for the wedding as well,
and I.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Just why is it your job?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
It's the maid of honor's job.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Oh yes, yeah, are you a wedding planner now?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Girl?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Girl?
Speaker 2 (00:55):
And my best friend is a doesn't really love a
phone like she does love being responsive on a phone.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Oh that's nice.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
She doesn't love a deadline. She doesn't love getting things done.
So we are you know, I'm I'm fighting for my
life a little bit. On top of that, the I
didn't know where she wanted to go for her bachelor
atte weekend, so that that took us a very long
time to land that plane. We have settled on a
little town in Maine coastal Maine. Easy to get to,
(01:25):
I'm sure easy to get to.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Let's go to a really far out place that requires
you know, many planes, trains and automobiles, horse and carriage
and bucky.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Yeah, it's it's a time and those.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Dogs in the winter that you have to use.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah yeah, getting there, Yeah, that is ever getting there.
I have never been to Maine. I don't know anything
about the East coast anything. So now I could tell
you like literally every city on the ocean. I can
tell you I know way too much about Maine. But
this whole weekend entails. I mean there's like themed nights,
there's reservations, there is a chef coming to the house
(02:01):
that I have to pick the menu for. There are
even the itinerary needs to have like a theme.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Sounds affordable. Yeah, that's the difference between bachelorette and bachelor parties.
Like bachelor parties are like, yo, we're gonna meet in
Vegas on Friday, I don't know, somewhere between noon and
ten pm, and I don't know. Maybe we'll get some
dinner and then see what happens, and the next day
we'll go to the pool. I guess maybe if you
(02:28):
wake up in time, and then we'll go to dinner
and then we'll leave. That's it, you guys, outfits, we got,
you know, matching shirts and hats.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Oh no, we're not, Yeah, we're not.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
We gotta you know, we gotta drag along the sister
that you know that no one knows, that doesn't fit
in with anybody else. You know what I mean. It's
in like green Peace and has to come home from
Africa to go you know what I mean? It is
all you can if you look at a bachelorette party
as I mean an outsider, you can see the people
who like knew each other, the core group, and then
(02:59):
the people who required to be invited.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Yeah, and being an empathetic person, I'm I'm having a
hard te Like. I know, everyone has different money situations.
I know that everyone. You know, some people don't like
to share a room, some people can sleep together, some
people like So it's a lot for my little emotional brain.
But I'm proud of myself because I think I'm accomplishing
(03:21):
a lot. Like I don't I don't know anything about Maine,
but TikTok is the unsung hero, like I have found
a really cool biker bar that has like bras hanging
from the ceiling. Like, but I'm a I'm an event planner.
I think, Yeah, it sounds and it's hard because my
best friend I love her so much, but she won't
answer for like weeks at a time on things that
I need answers on and then I'll get like thirty
(03:43):
tacks in a row and I'll go, Okay, I have
her attention. I need to answer all these really quick.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I'll tell you what though, if that's the way she is,
that she can't complain about anything that you choose to do.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
And she won't.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
She won't.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
She's she's great about that. But I want to make
it special for her because she chose me over one
of her sisters. They're over her sister to be her
maide of honor, so like, I'm taking it very seriously.
But yeah, no, if when I had colored hair, I
would pass another you know, pink hair, I would pass
someone else on the street and like we would do
ahead nod like you know, you know, or like the
jeep wave. I wish there was a way to know
if someone else has been a maid of honor.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
There was a handshake up.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
From what I understand, Yeah, I've been one, you have, Oh, yes,
very rough.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I would love to see if you're friends with the
rest of the bridal party by the time the wedding
gets here, because it's never the I mean, the bride
is her own thing. Yeah, you can take the bride
because that's your girl, But it's the other members of
the bridal party that are going to make you upset.
They're going to access your limits.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
And there was drama. There was drama within my sister's
wedding party because several girls believed that they were they
should have been the maid of honor, and my sister
made the obvious choice. I mean, does she live with
this girl? They were in the same sorority, like they
I mean, they were inseparable for years. But then there
were other girls that thought they should have been that,
and they were they were they they played nice, but
(04:56):
you could, from what I understand, you could tell there
was a little division why does she get to be
the one?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
That's so funny When I don't get picked for these roles,
I'm like, thank.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
You, well you have the same now you know why.
Like I don't want this. I'll show up and i'll attend.
I'll be supportive, but I don't make me plan it.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
But it's an honor. Yeah, it's stressful. I'm taking it seriously.
But for me, if I ever get married, you know,
I have mixed feelings. I am having a bachelor party.
That's okay, that's what I want, more fit for that.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
That's what you want for your next wedding, the.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Next one, yes, But for mine, I wanted it. I
mean I got knocked up, so I couldn't really do much.
But if I wanted just like a chill like night
on the town, We'll go to a couple of bars
on the ones that I frequent and call it a
night and get some good Chinese food after. Like I
was just so chill about it. I'm like, I don't
want to do the whole show and pony. I just
didn't the whole show and pony show. Whatever scene shout
(05:45):
out to the max of honor.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I don't know. I guess I'm getting to a stage
in my life where my friends. I had this conversation
with someone not that long ago where it's like, what
are we gonna do if you get married? What could
we possibly do in a weekend that we haven't already done? Like,
what are we gonna do? Like we've I've known you
for twenty years, but it's like all the Shenanigans we've
(06:08):
done it like that wouldn't there would be nothing like
surprising about any of that.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I know, but it's just about spending time.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But it's just so much easier for the guys. Yeah,
there's just no I mean, everything's easier for guys, but
there's just there's just none of this. There's none of this.
It's hey, are you coming cool? All right? It's you
know this day show up?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
You mean there's not a chef and eight different people
have eight different diets. We got a dairy free, we
got a gluten free. I'm like, no, but she wants Italian.
I'm like, I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
No. The last what I went to, I'm like, what
are we doing? I guess we'll figure it out. I
don't know. We could do this, we could do that
and then we'll just we'll just wake up and decide.
That's exactly what we did. We had one thing we
had We had a boat for the day, and we
went on a boat. We had to do that. It
was like, you know, we had it booked eleven to six,
and it was that. That was it. Otherwise, I love men.
I didn't even go to half the stuff because I
(06:56):
met a girl on the bachelor party and I was busy.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Is that the lady of the interesting lady?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
I don't remember. I don't know why. I got.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
A dancer at one point where there was okay, there
was that too, okay, then a girl and ditched the crew.
See that would be like you would be kicked out
the wedding for doing something.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
They didn't care. They're all married. They wanted me to
do it. They're like, come back and tell us about it.
Oh my god. All these guys have been with the
same woman for ten years. They're like, oh, take pictures,
not of you, getting you out of them, but I
want to see her. They probably looking at one with
me and the boy. They don't care. They're deprived. The
Entertainment Report is next
Yeah, they talk better than they tell me about. These
are the radio blogs on the French like were running
in our tireies, except we say them aloud. We call
them blogs, Kaylin and take it away.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Thank you, dear blog. I just want to start out
by just giving a shout out to anyone who has
ever been a maid of honor in their entire life,
because whoa did I not know what this job entailed
and what it does entail. I am in my maid
of honor era for the first time ever. I have
(00:31):
been many a bridesmaid, but never a maid of honor,
and I am now right now for my best friend Laurie,
and it is like it's another full time job. And
right now we're just working on the Bachelorette, but like
we need to figure out stuff for the wedding as well,
and I.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Just why is it your job?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
It's the maid of honor's job.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Oh yes, yeah, are you a wedding planner now?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Girl?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Girl?
Speaker 2 (00:55):
And my best friend is a doesn't really love a
phone like she does love being responsive on a phone.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Oh that's nice.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
She doesn't love a deadline. She doesn't love getting things done.
So we are you know, I'm I'm fighting for my
life a little bit. On top of that, the I
didn't know where she wanted to go for her bachelor
atte weekend, so that that took us a very long
time to land that plane. We have settled on a
little town in Maine coastal Maine. Easy to get to,
(01:25):
I'm sure easy to get to.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Let's go to a really far out place that requires
you know, many planes, trains and automobiles, horse and carriage
and bucky.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Yeah, it's it's a time and those.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Dogs in the winter that you have to use.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah yeah, getting there, Yeah, that is ever getting there.
I have never been to Maine. I don't know anything
about the East coast anything. So now I could tell
you like literally every city on the ocean. I can
tell you I know way too much about Maine. But
this whole weekend entails. I mean there's like themed nights,
there's reservations, there is a chef coming to the house
(02:01):
that I have to pick the menu for. There are
even the itinerary needs to have like a theme.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Sounds affordable. Yeah, that's the difference between bachelorette and bachelor parties.
Like bachelor parties are like, yo, we're gonna meet in
Vegas on Friday, I don't know, somewhere between noon and
ten pm, and I don't know. Maybe we'll get some
dinner and then see what happens, and the next day
we'll go to the pool. I guess maybe if you
(02:28):
wake up in time, and then we'll go to dinner
and then we'll leave. That's it, you guys, outfits, we got,
you know, matching shirts and hats.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Oh no, we're not, Yeah, we're not.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
We gotta you know, we gotta drag along the sister
that you know that no one knows, that doesn't fit
in with anybody else. You know what I mean. It's
in like green Peace and has to come home from
Africa to go you know what I mean? It is
all you can if you look at a bachelorette party
as I mean an outsider, you can see the people
who like knew each other, the core group, and then
(02:59):
the people who required to be invited.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Yeah, and being an empathetic person, I'm I'm having a
hard te Like. I know, everyone has different money situations.
I know that everyone. You know, some people don't like
to share a room, some people can sleep together, some
people like So it's a lot for my little emotional brain.
But I'm proud of myself because I think I'm accomplishing
(03:21):
a lot. Like I don't I don't know anything about Maine,
but TikTok is the unsung hero, like I have found
a really cool biker bar that has like bras hanging
from the ceiling. Like, but I'm a I'm an event planner.
I think, Yeah, it sounds and it's hard because my
best friend I love her so much, but she won't
answer for like weeks at a time on things that
I need answers on and then I'll get like thirty
(03:43):
tacks in a row and I'll go, Okay, I have
her attention. I need to answer all these really quick.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I'll tell you what though, if that's the way she is,
that she can't complain about anything that you choose to do.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
And she won't.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
She won't.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
She's she's great about that. But I want to make
it special for her because she chose me over one
of her sisters. They're over her sister to be her
maide of honor, so like, I'm taking it very seriously.
But yeah, no, if when I had colored hair, I
would pass another you know, pink hair, I would pass
someone else on the street and like we would do
ahead nod like you know, you know, or like the
jeep wave. I wish there was a way to know
if someone else has been a maid of honor.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
There was a handshake up.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
From what I understand, Yeah, I've been one, you have, Oh, yes,
very rough.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I would love to see if you're friends with the
rest of the bridal party by the time the wedding
gets here, because it's never the I mean, the bride
is her own thing. Yeah, you can take the bride
because that's your girl, But it's the other members of
the bridal party that are going to make you upset.
They're going to access your limits.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
And there was drama. There was drama within my sister's
wedding party because several girls believed that they were they
should have been the maid of honor, and my sister
made the obvious choice. I mean, does she live with
this girl? They were in the same sorority, like they
I mean, they were inseparable for years. But then there
were other girls that thought they should have been that,
and they were they were they they played nice, but
(04:56):
you could, from what I understand, you could tell there
was a little division why does she get to be
the one?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
That's so funny When I don't get picked for these roles,
I'm like, thank.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
You, well you have the same now you know why.
Like I don't want this. I'll show up and i'll attend.
I'll be supportive, but I don't make me plan it.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
But it's an honor. Yeah, it's stressful. I'm taking it seriously.
But for me, if I ever get married, you know,
I have mixed feelings. I am having a bachelor party.
That's okay, that's what I want, more fit for that.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
That's what you want for your next wedding, the.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Next one, yes, But for mine, I wanted it. I
mean I got knocked up, so I couldn't really do much.
But if I wanted just like a chill like night
on the town, We'll go to a couple of bars
on the ones that I frequent and call it a
night and get some good Chinese food after. Like I
was just so chill about it. I'm like, I don't
want to do the whole show and pony. I just
didn't the whole show and pony show. Whatever scene shout
(05:45):
out to the max of honor.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I don't know. I guess I'm getting to a stage
in my life where my friends. I had this conversation
with someone not that long ago where it's like, what
are we gonna do if you get married? What could
we possibly do in a weekend that we haven't already done? Like,
what are we gonna do? Like we've I've known you
for twenty years, but it's like all the Shenanigans we've
(06:08):
done it like that wouldn't there would be nothing like
surprising about any of that.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I know, but it's just about spending time.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But it's just so much easier for the guys. Yeah,
there's just no I mean, everything's easier for guys, but
there's just there's just none of this. There's none of this.
It's hey, are you coming cool? All right? It's you
know this day show up?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
You mean there's not a chef and eight different people
have eight different diets. We got a dairy free, we
got a gluten free. I'm like, no, but she wants Italian.
I'm like, I'm gonna do that.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
No. The last what I went to, I'm like, what
are we doing? I guess we'll figure it out. I
don't know. We could do this, we could do that
and then we'll just we'll just wake up and decide.
That's exactly what we did. We had one thing we
had We had a boat for the day, and we
went on a boat. We had to do that. It
was like, you know, we had it booked eleven to six,
and it was that. That was it. Otherwise, I love men.
I didn't even go to half the stuff because I
(06:56):
met a girl on the bachelor party and I was busy.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Is that the lady of the interesting lady?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
I don't remember. I don't know why. I got.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
A dancer at one point where there was okay, there
was that too, okay, then a girl and ditched the crew.
See that would be like you would be kicked out
the wedding for doing something.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
They didn't care. They're all married. They wanted me to
do it. They're like, come back and tell us about it.
Oh my god. All these guys have been with the
same woman for ten years. They're like, oh, take pictures,
not of you, getting you out of them, but I
want to see her. They probably looking at one with
me and the boy. They don't care. They're deprived. The
Entertainment Report is next
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