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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Wait here, and Kiki, you have a demographic of fans
that I never knew about. Really, it is fifty plus
year old white men. What did they wait?

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Come give me.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Here?

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Every day Fred's show is on, I'm going to figure
out how you how your headphones are on with the
big purple furry hat.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
You know they're there?

Speaker 4 (00:33):
You know?

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Are they going through the hat? No, it's on this Okay,
the other side, you got the I was just trying
to figure out. We keep the fashion accessories on and
we wear the handsets too.

Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yes, it's a it's a process, no sudden movement, but
everything is in place.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Well fashion over function, yes, most important with the pose.
Hi Kaitlin, good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi, Kiky's here,
good morning show me Shelley. Five hundred bucks is the
prize hour just a couple of days till she goes
on maternity leave. I thought the baby might come early.
I thought Kiki might have to start early.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Stop saying that we need to take her time.

Speaker 1 (01:09):
The people want you. They yeah, they do, especially fifty
plus year old men in the suburbs. They love you.
Man had no idea, I love them. Yeah. Well, yeah,
next year I'm going to take you to where they live,
and I'm going to take you to where they all
hang out.

Speaker 5 (01:22):
Well, I lay with a fifty plus white man suburbs
that he loves you see.

Speaker 4 (01:27):
Yeah, see it's your fifty plus white man pays all
the bills.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Fifty plus white man.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
I think I think some of the guys coming up
to me, you could could certainly pay the bills. Yeah,
I think so. Yeah, I was just I was. I
don't know why. I mean, I think you're for all people,
but I also know I think you're for all people.
But I think the people that keept kept coming up
to me. I just I guess I didn't think they'd be,
you know, fan number one, two, three, four, five, six,

(01:54):
seventy nine ten, the Kiki Fanclub, But they were.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Yes, I love that for them. Yeah, and yeah, no,
I did too.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
I did. Two morning, everybody, let's see, we'll just starrego
this morning, debate some relationship drama waiting by the phone,
of course, Why did somebody get ghosted? Five hundred bucks
with show bis Shelley in the Showdown The entertainment Repard,
fun fact trending stories all coming up? What are you
working on?

Speaker 2 (02:13):
K the actor that got lots of beef today.

Speaker 6 (02:16):
The actor that got into a fight with a Trump impersonator,
also a boy meets World feud.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
What year is it?

Speaker 7 (02:26):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (02:26):
We were talking about Stave by the Bell yesterday and
then people were mad. I said, I was gonna put
on my story that that clip of when they were
doing the Friends Together song. I told you about this yesterday.
So some musicians. I don't know why I can't talk already,
We've only been here for five minutes. Some musicians decided
to take the Save by the Bell Friends Forever, where
they were all in a band, a garage band together,

(02:48):
take their actual hand movements of them because they were
obviously lip syncing, so but they were pretending to play instruments.
So they actually like studied the video and had real
musicians play the same notes they were playing, so that
this song sounded like what it would really sound like
with their fake you know, instrument playing. And I forgot
to post it, and then I got like ten dms
yesterday you said you're gonna post it? What are you

(03:09):
doing at your Job's your job to entertain us all
day twenty four to seven, And I didn't, So anyway,
I made up for it. You also all thought I
got fired yesterday, which I didn't. I didn't get fired.
I posted something very nice on my Instagram story was gratitude.
We got some good news around here. It's been a
little wild and I just was grateful and I posted

(03:29):
a message of gratitude. And that was only followed up
by oh, you got fired. This is your goodbye? Where
are you going?

Speaker 8 (03:37):
Like?

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Well, first of all, mine had gratitude, so no, I
wasn't getting fired, And second of all I had to
then follow it up with no, I'm not getting fired.
I was saying, thank you for listening. That's all. See
you did.

Speaker 4 (03:47):
We've told you about how you write stuff though you
use correct grammar, and so you gotta add some exclamation points,
some emojis to let people know this is not serious,
this is light. Well how about I said thank you,
but you didn't you use the period you use, You
use a black background and little white funt.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
I was alarmed, and I'll look here, nobody saw me nothing.
You know. I said thank.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
You for listen. I said thank you for your support.
That's all I said. You know, I think if I
got fired, it would be a different message. Thank you
and goodbye, right, right, thank you, right, thank you and goodbye?
And why didn't all of you vote yes for my raise?
I don't know vote because we all know it's it's
the tribunal around Trio Survivor. When it comes to raises.

(04:36):
We all sit around in a big pow wow, big circle.
We light a fire, and we decide, once and for all.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I'm gonna need some more from you.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
What's going to happen? Right right exactly, That's what happens
around here. It's just a complete free for all. We
sit around and we vote, are we talk about you
behind your back, and then and then we announced to
you what we've decided. Right, Trust me, because I'd vote
a million dollars for Jason every time I could use it. Sadly,

(05:05):
they don't care everyone, they don't care what I think
about anything, But nonetheless I did it was it was
a message of gratitude, and so I didn't get fired. Clearly,
I'm still here and you know it's fine, everything's good.
I first saw the headline of this of this viral video,
make a viral video. Fred. You know, we had a
suit that used to say that to us. We had

(05:26):
a more on a moron suit that literally used to
walk in the studio and say, hey, can you guys
make a viral video today please? And then leave.

Speaker 8 (05:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
No, We'll get right on that, because that's how that works.
We hope that all videos that we make go viral,
like we try every time each time. We're hoping the
whole world sees our videos right right, and and yet
you know, but if you could just keep you today,
if you could just make a viral video, that would
be great. So I saw this and the headline says

(05:55):
best man reveals his previous relationship with bride during his
reception toast. Now this seemed bad to me. I'm thinking
his dude went up there and like broke the news
that he used to sleep with the bride at the
said bride and groom's wedding, and there's all this reaction
online about this. I don't think this is that bad.

(06:16):
Listen to this. I don't have a big issue with it.

Speaker 9 (06:19):
Should they have?

Speaker 10 (06:21):
They show together the way they looked at each other,
and you think it sound really romantic, But the only
problem was I was dating Rachel at the time.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
That's what he said. He said he saw the way
they connected with one another, and the only issue was
he was dating or at the time and.

Speaker 6 (06:35):
He was for real.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Yeah, oh then that's fine to say, right.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
No, But the way that it came off, the way
the headline reads, is that the dude, like, you know,
the way that I when I read the headline, the
way that I'm thinking this happened was that the dude
went up there, tried to get cute in his little
wedding speech, thought he was funny, which some people do.
If you ever have toasts at your wedding, you know,
some people think it's like a roast, which it's not.
They think they're nicky glazer they're not, you know, or

(07:00):
they try and be funny but they're not necessarily you know,
comedically funny, which most people aren't. So that's fine. But
I've seen it time and time again. People go up,
you know and make these speeches and then they oh,
you know, and they say something that's like snide. Not
the time in front of people, Nana, It's just not like,
that's not the venue to roast your friend. So here
I thought he went up there and was like, yeah,

(07:21):
I'm so happy for them, but you know, you know
what I used to do. I mean, that's kind of
what he said, right, But what he was really saying, though,
is like I lost the girl to the guy who's
marrying the girl, and we're still friends and he was
chosen to speak at the wedding. You don't like it.
I don't why you don't like I mean, he's if

(07:42):
it were if he were somehow making a joke that
elevated him, then I or embarrassed her. But the reaction
was very positive, like she was like, yeah, you know whatever.
But if he were doing something to make himself look
good at her wedding or make her look bad at
her wedding, I'd have a problem with that. But it
was tough deprecating. They fell in love, I guess while

(08:04):
she knew him the other guy, not the place.

Speaker 6 (08:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
I don't have much experience with this dating.

Speaker 4 (08:11):
Uh, friends that dated you know, Kaylen, you've talked we've
talked about this before because some of your friends. You said,
have you guys have dated the same guy or whatever.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
It's just one instance, Okay, yeah, all right. They don't
get down like that, so thank you for making seem
like that. I heard swapping each other around.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
I heard once you're in, you're in it's.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
Right right around there.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
All get down, all access for everybody.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
Tineapples everywhere.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
Once you're accepted into the circle, you just it's free
for all.

Speaker 11 (08:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:43):
Do you think he's going back to Michigan right?

Speaker 6 (08:46):
Not for a baby shower?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
That's how.

Speaker 4 (08:49):
Yeah, one last dig, like he took one last little
dig at the fact, like, yeah, you know we you
today and I get that.

Speaker 6 (09:02):
I agree, we know. We have to listen to it again.

Speaker 2 (09:05):
He was saying. He was making himself sound like the loser.

Speaker 6 (09:09):
He was like, I was dating this girl and they
were looking at each other like they were in love
with each other, and I was like.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
What's going on here? That's the truly how they met.
Like basically, look at these two snakes. Yeah, y'all belong together.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
They tend to speak, right. They chose this man to
speak at their wedding. And what he's saying is like, yeah,
we were dating, but you know clearly when she met him,
she had a deeper connection and that look, they're getting married.

Speaker 2 (09:34):
You deserve each other.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
I'm gonna transplate again, but I have to like be sorry, No.

Speaker 10 (09:40):
It's I just noticed the connection they have, the last
they show together, the way they looked at each other.

Speaker 12 (09:45):
And that's fine.

Speaker 10 (09:46):
You think it sound really romantic, But the only problem
was I was Zadie Rachel at the job?

Speaker 6 (09:51):
Why why I got to say that part?

Speaker 1 (09:52):
It does kind of seem like he wants everyone to know, like, yeah, scandal,
I hit it first?

Speaker 6 (09:57):
Did you hear how hard?

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Everyone laughed like everyone and he and he seemed fine
with it too, And I was really I was less.
I mean, maybe I should be more concerned about him,
but I was more. I was less concerned about him
and more concerned about what she would do. And she
and I don't know, she was just putting it on
for the crowd, but you know she like you started
pumping her fists like you know, like and I don't know,

(10:19):
kind of like raise your glass to him and whatever.
So but you got to think you're right, most people
that were there knew that most people that were there
knew that they had at one time hooked up. Or
maybe it was so casual that it didn't matter. Maybe
he was trying to get with her and realize that,
but you're right, that's not all necessarily implied there. But
when I first saw the headline, I'm like, did this
guy really go up there at the podium thing whatever

(10:41):
and make a toast and be like it good for
you guys, but just so you know, it was good
for me too. Ah see's why let me give speeches. See.
But I would never do that, though, I would never.
I would never. I had been to weddings of people
I slept with, and I don't think the groom knew,
and I wasn't going to be the one to tell him.

Speaker 6 (11:00):
Yeah that's I mean, that's different. I would run that
joke by the couple. If I was about to make
that joke, I am, I think this is not you
guys want a problem so bad?

Speaker 2 (11:10):
It's fine?

Speaker 1 (11:12):
Well you do, like I said, Yeah, when I when
I saw the headline of the video, I'm going, oh
my god, what is this cute? And then I watched it,
I'm like, it's kind of sweet. She liked him better,
Like she liked him better again, you know, if he
had made it like you know, she may like him better,
but she right, right right, And I like the way

(11:34):
she did it, you know what I mean? Bro, Like,
you know that would be hilarious. But as a spectator
at the wedding, I would enjoy that myself. But I
wouldn't be even happened to me, So you'd be mad.

Speaker 6 (11:46):
Yes, if one of.

Speaker 13 (11:47):
Hobby's little friends made a joke and like we were
like let's just say we dated prior to me dating
my husband Hobby, that would bother me, Like it's in
a way you're making this about you, Like you could
have just said, oh, they had connection, Oh I love
seeing them together, give me hope, Like give me that,
like you know, simp.

Speaker 6 (12:02):
Speech now on that for my wedding.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
You don't need to know, like buy I dated her
first though, or like, oh, but you know we were dating?

Speaker 6 (12:09):
And then I was like, what is this connection? Like
you're making it kind of about you too?

Speaker 5 (12:12):
How do you not mention that literally about me too?
But if that's how they met, that's their meeting story.
Was they met through you?

Speaker 1 (12:25):
I will agree that's a detail that didn't have to
be in the speech.

Speaker 5 (12:29):
Every when don't you talk about how they met and
like how you witnessed them following you?

Speaker 2 (12:34):
But you could probably say that without being like, but
she used to lay with me, right, No, I mean a.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
Minute. So you couldn't just give a speech and be
like I've witnessed their love and I've witnessed how it's
grown and how how they look at each other. You
couldn't have said all that without mentioning that you used
to do it too.

Speaker 5 (12:54):
You're gonna talk about the day they met and how
much they were falling in love, and you're not going
to mention why you were there.

Speaker 6 (13:00):
And maybe they didn't do it, maybe they haven't been
hooked up, maybe they were just dating, or it was
a first date or something. Yeah, I could have been
super casual.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
He left.

Speaker 4 (13:07):
He left too much out there now, everybody at the wedding,
his second day right where they engaged first to get
see both sides of this.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
But it could have been so much worse. It could
have been so much worse.

Speaker 6 (13:17):
And knew he was going to talk about that. And
I think if that's what they wanted, then we should
be okay with that. I don't know.

Speaker 9 (13:25):
It.

Speaker 1 (13:25):
Do you know your role? You know your role is
to we have to we have to dissect everything and
come up with all the angles. Okay, So no, it
doesn't matter what they think. I am not going They
posted a video. Now it's up to me. Trending Stories
Red's Show is on Fred's Biggest stories of the day,

(13:46):
So I flew Delta for the first time going to
Salt Lake City. I've never flown Delta on my whole life,
well because I've never lived anywhere where you needed to
fly Delta or you really could. You know, Arizona, Phoenix
is uh American, a US Air before that or whatever American,
and then a Dallas American for the most part, Charlotte
American for the most part. I mean literally, I don't

(14:08):
even know if they have I don't know if they
have maybe two flights out of Phoenix to Atlanta or
something on Delta.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Cities have specific airlines they kind of.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
Love, well they have they have big hubs where like
you know, for example, well like if you live in Chicago,
you go to a Midway, you're basically only flying Southwest
out of Midway. Basically, yes, there's a couple other airlines,
but like you're talking on one or two gates like
Porter and a Velo, And I think there's one Delta
flight that goes to New York or something back and
forth all day. But whatever the case may be, I've

(14:38):
just never really had the occasion. But so Lake City
is a Delta hub, so I flew them. I had
a very nice experience. Some people last week didn't have
as nice as an experience, but they did walk away
and they're going to get thirty thousand dollars, which is
very nice, in addition to the being gazillions of dollars
in the lawsuit that they're going to be filing that
part two. However, ah Man another bad day for Delta.

(15:00):
A Delta flight bound for South Carolina was forced to
return to Atlanta on Monday when some hayes filled the cabin,
just two days after a similar mishap diverted yet another
Delta flight in LA. They were in the air, ninety
nine passengers and crew on board about eight thirty in
the morning. The pilot turned the mowing around and landed
back at the Hartsfield Jackson International Airport. Everybody evacuated on

(15:21):
the slides, no reported injuries. Footage taken before the plane
return shows passengers covering their noses inside the hazy cabin.
The FAA will be investigating. A growing number of US
restaurants are responding to the nationwide egg shortage by adding
a temporary surcharge to their egg based meals at some locations.
So Denny's is going to do this a fifty cent

(15:44):
surch charge. Costco and Trader Joe's are taking action as well,
imposing limits on how many eggs one customer can buy.
And this is all because the Avian flu has killed
more than one hundred and forty million egg laying birds
in the country. Since twenty twenty two. At least eighteen
point nine million birds have been when is this cold

(16:05):
in the last in the past thirty days. It's a
a birge of dying all the time. That's very sad.
And I'm stuttering about it because I just don't have
enough egg intake in my life. I've just I've fanned
them all I started. I bought chickens, and they're just
running around my house right now. I'm waiting for them
to lay their eggs. I'm told they just do that.
I don't know if I need to, like, do I
need to talk to them about it? Or do I
doesn't anyone else need to be involved? I mean, do

(16:26):
I need to get a coopright? Do I need a coop?
Do I almost said something? I mean I wish Yeah,
I almost said something I shouldn't say, even though it
was It's I'm referring to the animal itself. Do I
need males too? Because I only bought feet, I only
bought hens. I didn't buy any roosters.

Speaker 6 (16:42):
Yeah, that's a problem.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
Clearly, I don't know what I'm talking about, but my
hoa is gonna have a real problem with that. Seven
and ten Americans would support a cell phone ban in schools.
That's trending today. A new survey of two thousand American
shows that only twenty nine percent say that they would
not support a ban on cell phones in school. Seventy
one one percent are in favor in some form. Fifty
percent advocate for a ban in elementary schools, lessening as

(17:06):
people get older. The biggest reason to support a ban
is the worry over them distracting in lessons and impacting
education the phones. That is followed by overall worry that
children are on devices too much. The biggest reason people
wouldn't support it is that parents skill they should be
able to get a hold of their child at all times. Yeah,
I mean we didn't have phones. No, we didn't have them.

(17:29):
Didn't No one had phones. Didn't When I was in
elementary school, Well, phones existed, but we didn't.

Speaker 6 (17:35):
Have like your iPhones.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
There was there wasn't an iPhone in nineteen ninety or
whenever I was in elementary school, they didn't exist that,
I'm sorry to say.

Speaker 6 (17:43):
Yeah, maybe a pager, but yeah, I didn't.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
Have a pager when I was in first grade either,
though that was more of a third grade thing. Was
to hit me, hit me on the two way you know,
which you've heard me go on this rant before. But
I knew people and then the two thousands that had
those two way pagers that were they're very cool. It
was text message before text message, except the only way

(18:08):
you The only people you could talk to were the
other people that had two way pages. So not a
lot of people had them, so like the only person
I could hit up was and I didn't buy one
because I only knew one of the person that had one,
and maybe I wanted to talk to more people than
just him. Of course you know who it is, Cam.
And my friend Billy the Kid had one. Of course
he did. Of course he had one, and that was
that's his name, Billy the Kid, and he had to

(18:30):
have a two way page. I don't know who he
was talking to because I didn't know anybody else who
had one. So but anyway, I guess I don't know.
I feel like now most classrooms have phones in them,
so I would agree though that they've got to be distracting.
If you're a teacher, Oh yes, they've God's got to
be distracting for every single kid to have a device.

Speaker 5 (18:47):
Right, Like when was there not a band Like I
hit a ban all the time I was in school.
It wasn't an option, Like if you got they would
take your phone.

Speaker 8 (18:54):
Literally.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
Yeah, if you're teacher eight five five five nine one
three five quickly, I would love to know if this
is an actual issue, because I get it. I mean,
if I'm a parent and I have a child, based
on some of the things that have been happening in
schools over the past decade, I would want to be
able to get to my whole a hold of my
child very quickly. That being said, I can also see
why I wouldn't want my kid to have one in
their pocket because they're going to be doing stuff other

(19:17):
than learning.

Speaker 13 (19:18):
Of course, we'll be on TikTok during class. No, it's
hard because like I think about this all the time.
For my kid, I'm like, I don't know at what
age am I going to get her a phone? You know,
I know most of her little friends are going to
have them at a young age. It's just the world
we live in.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
But I don't like that.

Speaker 6 (19:30):
I don't agree with it.

Speaker 13 (19:31):
But I know that I don't want her to be
like cast it out because you don't got a phone,
because I was that kid in eighth grade.

Speaker 2 (19:36):
But I also don't I don't know, want her to
be having access to so much.

Speaker 6 (19:39):
A lot of kids now have Apple watches and not phones,
so I can like communicate with them, but you don't
have access to the Internet and all that craziness.

Speaker 2 (19:48):
I like that, so that might be an option.

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Well, how do you communicate with no access to the internet.

Speaker 6 (19:53):
Was it WiFi?

Speaker 9 (19:53):
Maybe?

Speaker 1 (19:54):
Well yeah, I think you can't browse yeah, oh yeah,
but it's connected to something so people could hit.

Speaker 14 (20:00):
I just meant like they can't go on YouTube and
see like a beheading. Oh well that's nice. I mean
whenever I look at me, I like, I like the
bigger screens typically for my beheading. It's like I prefer
when I'm gonna watch the beheading.

Speaker 2 (20:12):
I use we had no like like boundaries on the
internet when you're a little.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
I'm pretty sure there aren't any now either. But yeah, yeah,
when I'm looking at typically, I like to use my
eight inch for that. I mean, I want to really,
I want to capture the moment so scary. I mean, yes,
I would imagine it was. Yeah, yeah, putty in an
apple wash just wouldn't do it for me with that,
you know, come on, unlocked, come on?

Speaker 2 (20:36):
Like you know, god, I mean, like, you.

Speaker 1 (20:40):
Know, I can look at adult stuff on my phone,
but I'm not watching a movie on it. You know,
I need if I'm watching a motion picture, we need
something bigger. But you know, in a pinch, you know
it's fine. Oh my god, Kaylen. Nothing good can come
from the TikTok trend, And this is another reason why
I guess we don't need phones in the classroom. The
hashtag for this new trend is dropping things on my foot?

(21:04):
What how about we don't? How about we don't make
videos of you dropping things on your foot? A doctor
is having to warn people that a TikTok trend that's
gone viral under that hashtag is leading people disabled for life.
The trend involves people making videos of themselves dropping things
on their actual feet. They then give a rating of
how much pain the object that was dropped on their

(21:24):
foot caused. One doctor says this trend, which is encouraging
people to drop sharp and increasingly heavy household objects on
their feet, is highly likely to result in foot injuries.
So maybe not. And Ihop hopes to set a new
Guinness World Record for the most pancake served in eight
hours to celebrate National Pancake Days twentieth anniversary. They're having

(21:46):
this in Santa Monica, California, or at the Pier specifically
on Saturday from nine to five. They hope to serve
twenty thousand pancakes and they're inviting fans across La to
take part in the festivities. There is a teritable angle
for every pancake served during the record attempt, I hop
will donate one dollar Defeating America, benefiting the La Regional

(22:07):
Food Bank and its efforts to fight hunger in LA County.
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Michael Hi, Michael Hight. We know how Camon feels about it,
But how about cell phones in school?

Speaker 8 (22:37):
So I used to be a teacher. Grant that I
taught five year olds, so they don't really have the phones.
But I'm against the ban. I think, you know, teachers
have been having to you know, stop students from passing
notes all the time. And back when I was in school,
I had a razor, so I didn't have like internet
access and all that stuff. But to me, it just

(22:57):
kind of feels like we're faulting the kids just for
the how phones have changed, you know, just because now
we have iPhones, it doesn't I don't think that it's
appropriate for teachers to now have the band phones from schools.
I think it just falls on teachers to have to
be able to you know, monitor that as well as
you would like notes in a classroom or things like that.

(23:19):
I'm I'm on the side of like if I if
my son was in school and I couldn't reach him,
I'd be pretty pod. I would rather on my son
be able to have a phone and just let him know, like,
don't use it in school inappropriately.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
That's a valid argument, and thank you, Michael, have a
great day, Thanks for listening. That's a valid argument about,
you know, wanting to get a hold of your kid
based on all the different things. But you know, kids
will never know. They'll never know what it's like to
rip a little piece of paper off the side and
write and write a note, or have to write in
some form of code or hieroglyphics, and then have to
somehow pass that to someone across the room not get caught,

(23:53):
and then receive a message back. I mean, these are
the kind of things that kids will never know. Kids
will never know what it's like to have to call
a girl as a boy. Kids will never know what
it's like to have to call a girl's house and
their dad answers the phone, and you're gonna navigate through
pops to get to the girl, you know, and dads
would be intentionally intimidating. Now they got the direct line,

(24:15):
they just call the cell phone. Dad's does an answer anymore.
Kids will never understand what that's like. No, the pressure,
Hey Gina, hey can you hear me? I can? I
can hear you? So you're a teacher and your antiphone?

Speaker 15 (24:28):
Why even I mean, first of all, they cheat all
the time, so like the smallest worksheet and they're just
gonna look up the answers and like not use their brains.
But what's really sad is if there's any downtime, instead
of talking to each other and interacting in like a
natural way, they're just all on their phone. And I
want them to like speak to each other and get

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to know each other and like play a game, you know.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (24:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
Kids will also never know, Gina, how you got to
be more creative and have some ingenuity win cheating. Kids
will never understand this exactly.

Speaker 15 (25:01):
But you know what, I just force them. I offer
them extra credit at the beginning of the year, and
if you're on your phone, I take the extra credit away.
So that seems to work. We're in no phone zone.

Speaker 8 (25:11):
There you go.

Speaker 1 (25:11):
Thank you, Gina. Have a good day. I love that.

Speaker 15 (25:14):
Thanks you, guys.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
I'm fine with this. I'm fine with this. Yeah, because again,
I think most schools have now they have phones in
the classroom, and there are other things that we also
didn't have back in the day. I don't think when
my elementary school didn't have a landline phone in the classroom,
none of them did. So I mean the phone a
cell phone would have been helpful back then, but now
I think there are other ways. Hey, Julie, Yes, hi Julie,

(25:36):
good morning. So phones in the classroom, a lot of
people are in favor of well, I guess some people
are in favor of a band. Most people are not, though,
because they want to get ahold of their kid all
the time.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
Right.

Speaker 16 (25:49):
I am a middle school teacher, and I am completely
against it. I agree with the other listeners of inter
acts and all that stuff. Just the other week, I
was my students were working on a project, and I
found that one of my students was live streaming in

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my class. So I took your cell phone and was
going to turn it into the office. And the next
I talked to the mom. The mom was like, oh,
thank you so much for taking the phone. And then
the next day that mother stopped traffic morning car traffic
to demand a meeting about me, the teacher taking the phone,

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not her son live streaming in class.

Speaker 17 (26:36):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
Okay, wow, Yeah, that's how you're right. I mean, whether
it's the live stream, or whether it's watching YouTube videos,
or cheating or or accessing stuff that you wouldn't you
know that no one's watching at home to see if
you're looking at or whatever. I can see why, you know,
having that little device. The other thing is I used
to lose stuff and break stuff at school all the time.

(26:58):
And like I didn't even get to wear my night
stuff to school either until I was older because I
messed it up. And so giving my kid a thousand
dollars phone to put in their pocket to carry around,
I don't know about that. Let's get him a jitter bub.

Speaker 16 (27:10):
Even they can't even bring a pencil to my class.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
So bring a phone out of the right.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
There you go, Thank you, Julie, have a good day.

Speaker 2 (27:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
They beginning like one of those old people phones where
you know, you can call like two numbers. I can
call home and I can call the hospital and that's it.

Speaker 2 (27:27):
And I don't know.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
When I was in school, my parents never wanted to
talk to me like it was you know, you're I'm
at school there at work. Oh yeah, So what do
we need to be in constant communication about? Like if
you need the kids, These kids need to feel the
thrill of somebody coming over the intercom and saying, you know, Kiki,
I need you to come down to the office.

Speaker 2 (27:45):
And you don't know why the whole class is like.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
Well, that was because you were the ringleader of a
girl gang, that's part of it.

Speaker 2 (27:51):
But I didn't have a phone, so I was able.
I was the leader of a movement with no phone.

Speaker 1 (27:56):
Just because you were the Griselda Blanco of your middle school.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
That's moment with no phone. These kids need to know
what it's like to write a girl, would you meet
my girlfriend?

Speaker 17 (28:06):
Yes? Or no?

Speaker 1 (28:07):
You know the three old I agree. I agree. There's
there's personal contact that the kids don't have to have anymore,
and I think that that they're they're not as well
off for it. You need to know what it's like
to have to have the courage to speak to someone.

Speaker 13 (28:22):
Justice for the teachers, like, honestly, I do feel really
bad for teachers.

Speaker 4 (28:25):
Yeah, you call in the meeting because your child was
live screaming or streaming in my class.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
Oh you're right, though, you're right in that. When I
would use the phone to call home, it was either
because I forgot something and you're going to have to
drive up and give it to me, like a book,
And it was thirty minutes away from my house. So
if the phone rang at home, my mom was going
to have to do something, come get me, because I
was trying to say I was sick, because I usually wasn't,
but I was trying to go home, or I needed

(28:50):
money for something. So you're right, those are the three
reasons that I would have been calling home, and I
don't think anybody want to hear them anyway. Yes, so yeah,
you know, how about like an i CB radio if
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you know what I mean? There's a smoky on my
tail and if you don't know that joke, and I'm
sorry for you. The Entertainer Report. Next fresshow Cawin's Entertainer Report.

(29:13):
He's on The Fresh Show.

Speaker 6 (29:15):
Actor Alec Baldwin lost to school in New York after
a comedian heckled him over the fatal twenty twenty one brushshooting.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
He missed it, and there's lots of video. Jason Scoop, impersonating.

Speaker 6 (29:25):
Donald Trump, taunted Baldwin outside his home, mocking his legal
troubles and demanded he kiss the ring for a fake parton.
Alec mostly stayed silent, but eventually snapped, getting in Jason's
face and threaten well.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
We called him a murder or two right directly. Yeah,
he didn't just wrap except you're a murderer.

Speaker 18 (29:42):
That was wow.

Speaker 1 (29:42):
So that I mean, that was I mean, I'm all
for celebrities having composure, but you call me a murder
or twice in front of my house where my kids.
I mean, I wouldn't love that either. And now I
don't think I would then threaten to murder him, which
is what he then did. But I just looked at
the camera like I'm addressing it like that, you know,
But no, it was a little beyond I think it

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was a little beyond the scope of just like some
funny impersonation.

Speaker 6 (30:07):
Of course, of course, Alec mostly stayed silent, but eventually snapped,
getting in Jason's face and threatening to break his neck
and shove a camera up his ass, even though even
then the comedian kept going so he hit stamina. But yeah, no,
not not ideal outside of your house. And of course,
I mean he may not be found guilty. I don't know,
it's still they're going back and forth. But like, that

(30:27):
is an insanely hard situation to go through, and you
don't want someone joking about it and playing in your face.
Speaking of fighting, the girlies are fighting. Boy Meets World
co stars Danielle Fischl and Maitland Ward aka Panga and
Rachel McGuire rehashed their ongoing feud, which I didn't know
they had. During a recent podcast, Maitland accused Danielle of
ignoring her on the set of Girl Meets World and

(30:49):
even unfollowing her on Facebook.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
Danielle claims that's not true.

Speaker 6 (30:54):
The two went back and forth over mixed signals, pass messages,
and whether there ever was real beef between them. Sanielle apologized,
but tensions lingered. By the way, if you didn't know
what Maitland is up to now, she is an adult
film actress, so she's still acting in a different, a
very different kind of show than she was in before.

Speaker 2 (31:16):
And you've never seen Boy Meets World, Jason, No, I
have not.

Speaker 17 (31:18):
I know.

Speaker 6 (31:19):
I know that was my reaction, but you're around for that.

Speaker 2 (31:23):
I feel like I was, but I didn't sell me
up to it.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
I was watching the one.

Speaker 6 (31:30):
Okay, I'm choking over you're not watching Boy Meets World.
Speaking up things to watch if you are watching the
new season of The White Lotus. Sam Novola, who plays
Lachlan Ratliff, said before heading to Thailand to film the show, which,
by the way, I want to go to Thailand now
I didn't before.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
But it looks beautiful, he said.

Speaker 6 (31:49):
Show creator Mike White told him to watch one of
Ravo's most popular reality shows as inspiration for the role.
He said, Mike told us to go watch Southern Charm,
which takes place in Charlton Charleston, South Carolina. In fact,
Jason Isaacs, who plays our dad, kind of modeled his
entire accent and character off of that cast. But Jesus,
I cannot catch my brother, Arnold Schwarzenegger. By the way,

(32:10):
his son Patrick plays his brother. By the way, also
in this like Southern rich family, and we get some
nude scenes. So now maybe Jason will finally watch the show.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
No, I'm here for it. There's lots of naughty Patrick scenes.

Speaker 19 (32:22):
So there you go.

Speaker 6 (32:23):
By the way, if you missed any part of our show,
The Fred Show, you can catch up on every single
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Speaker 1 (32:32):
Well, I want to hear, Pauline. I want to hear
your thoughts on deleting deleting people from social media.

Speaker 11 (32:38):
Let's do it.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
I can't wait.

Speaker 11 (32:39):
Yeah, they talk better than dog nut. These are the
radio blogs on the Fred Show.

Speaker 1 (32:45):
Okay, someone suggesting that we didn't offer enough different perspectives
on that last topic about phones, Well, we had our opinions,
and then we open the phones and people shared their opinions.

Speaker 6 (32:56):
Yeah, they sure did that.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
We don't dictate, so we try and be balanced. But
I also don't plant phone calls. So anyway, let's do
a blog show. I mean, guys, we don't have to
complain about everything. We can complain about most things we
don't have to complain about. We don't. We don't have
to look for reasons to complain about every segment. Correct,

(33:18):
maybe maybe not every segment. You know, may your blog
take it away. I mean, guys, come on, silly radio show.

Speaker 6 (33:29):
It is.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
We're having a nice time over here. Aren't we.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
So much fun?

Speaker 1 (33:34):
We are still guys, none of this is that serious.
I mean, that is a relatively serious topic. I mean,
and people are welcome to have varying opinions. I think
the teachers were saying they're in distraction. I don't think
anybody was saying that. You know, that wouldn't be useful
for safety. But I don't think anyone can argue that.
They clearly that it's not a distraction to kids. Take
it away, Paulina, thank you so much.

Speaker 13 (33:53):
Let's debate some more so, dear blog, I had a
question because somebody brought this up yesterday.

Speaker 6 (33:58):
My friend's hoty actually shot to her.

Speaker 13 (34:00):
Her and I were talking about this, and it was
really interesting because I never thought of it from a
different perspective or like, you know what about this situation,
but we've all seen or heard or maybe done the
whole Like when you break up with somebody, do you
delete the photos off your Instagram right or off your
social media?

Speaker 2 (34:17):
I think that is a question that people agree or
disagree with. Right.

Speaker 13 (34:21):
Some people are like, no, what happened, I lived it,
photos are saying. Some people are like no, like we're
not together, so I'm wiping clean, right? And I thought
that was very interesting because her and I had different opinions,
and I believe it was just like I would take
it off not to be petty, I just would wipe
it because it's not relevant to my life, Like it's
not like if I'm not with you, why would you
be on my on my Instagram?

Speaker 2 (34:43):
Personally, I'm like and I'm not trying to be dramatic
like oh I'm to.

Speaker 13 (34:45):
This whole like wipe it clean, and like you gotta
figure out what happened, and like everyone's talking about it
at Talk of the Town.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
Like to me, it's not that, it's more of just
I would like a clean slate, like I know what happened.

Speaker 6 (34:55):
I lived it. It was beautiful or maybe it wasn't.

Speaker 18 (34:56):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (34:57):
But point is, in this fake scenario, it's it's gone.

Speaker 6 (35:00):
It happened, right.

Speaker 1 (35:01):
It was a little weird when you started dating someone
new and you know, you go back and look in
their social media or like scroll through the grid and
it's like, oh, there's the last guy kind and they
looked real happy there, you know. But then again, it
doesn't mean just because it did happen, right, whether there's
a picture of it or not, it happened. Maybe we
don't need the reminder. I also think it can be
indicative of how the relationship ended, because sometimes you'll see

(35:23):
people who people used to date and it's like they're
still there, which suggests to me that maybe it wasn't
a horrible ending. If someone goes and wipes their social
media of a human being typically that means I want
no remembrance of that human, which you know, it could
mean that they're scorned by that person or that it
was a bad breakup or whatever. So I think that

(35:45):
can be the deciding factor.

Speaker 13 (35:47):
That's true too, even if we had the most beautiful,
cleanest breakup ever, I would still do it.

Speaker 6 (35:52):
I just want that clean slay. I just feel like, listen,
I know what happened.

Speaker 13 (35:55):
Maybe I wouldn't delete it, I'd archive it so you
know it can always put it back, and I want
to but I forget back together.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
I don't know, you know, just thinking out loud, but
I feel like to me that that's my choice.

Speaker 13 (36:04):
But then she asked me, would you lead a photo
of a friend that you broke up with or like you're.

Speaker 6 (36:09):
Not friends with no more? And I never thought of
that because I don't know.

Speaker 2 (36:13):
I think no, like, why would I lead a friend like?
That doesn't to me? But what's the difference?

Speaker 13 (36:18):
Right at the same time, Zoo, you're asking you know,
you de leade your ex, but you won't lead a
friend that maybe you fell off with or that like
kind of did you dirty or whatever?

Speaker 6 (36:24):
But you're just not friends with no more? And I
guess she has.

Speaker 13 (36:27):
My friend has done that, and I'm like, I've never
leaded a photo of anybody that's just a friend, like
even if we're not cool, No more like that. Now
we're just really reaching, Like whereas it wipe clean the
whole grid, Like I don't know, I didn't really think that.

Speaker 1 (36:40):
I don't think I've ever wiped a friend. I don't.
I don't know that I've ever been serious enough with
anybody in the social media age to be posting their pictures,
which is a different conversation for me. It's a higher bar,
not not because I'm special, but because I think exposing
a relationship that I'm in on my social media that's
intended for public consumption and for the show and whatever

(37:01):
else that I don't know that everyone's ready for that.
Come in here and read our text messages for one morning,
and you'll realize people just tend to, for whatever reason,
they think they can be unkind because they don't have
to look us in the eye. And so I've told
this to people I have dated before, Like you want
me to put you up there, but I'm telling you
someone's gonna say something really mean and you may not
like it. And you don't deserve it. But but you

(37:21):
didn't sign up for that, so I don't know. So
I guess I've never had to take anybody down. But
I am, I am the king of I am Captain Petty.
If i'm if I'm done with you, I will unfollow you.
The unfollow, I will unfollow you.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
Yeah, And it's like, why why I follow you?

Speaker 1 (37:36):
Why am I following you? If we were not friends anymore,
if we don't talk, there's no reason for me to
be seeing your stuff. I could mute you, I guess,
and I realized for some people that's very triggering. But no,
I won't necessarily erase you. I will unfollow you, which
is petty.

Speaker 2 (37:48):
I know, no, no, because I do to. Yeah, I
think if anything, I would do the unfollow.

Speaker 13 (37:52):
I wouldn't go to lead our photo spread, but I
would unfollow you if you and I had a crazy
falling out or whatever, or me and Jason.

Speaker 2 (38:01):
I know I'm doing this, it's a fake scenario. I
was just saying. I'm saying no, it's not no, guys, I'm.

Speaker 13 (38:07):
Just saying, but no to me, like I'm not going
to lead our photos we're friends, like it happened right.

Speaker 6 (38:11):
I'd soon rather delete a friend than I would delete
it X. I just think like, oh interesting, Yeah, like
an X is like a whole.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
It's a whole.

Speaker 6 (38:19):
I mean years and years you've spend with someone. I
think it looks so goofy to like act like it
never happened.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
If you do me.

Speaker 1 (38:25):
Dirty, I'm unfollowing you. If you do me dirty, I'm
I'm fine to show the world I don't support what you're.

Speaker 6 (38:30):
That's when I was gonna make it shows me that
you're more pressed.

Speaker 2 (38:33):
About me than if you don't.

Speaker 6 (38:34):
If you just leave me up there, I'd be like,
oh why, I'd ask my current boyfriend, like, why are
you so pressed that you need to delete everything?

Speaker 2 (38:40):
Like you're so mad? I don't know, and I agree
with you.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
That's the reason I'm self critical of the unfollowed because
it does sort of give someone else power. It does
suggest to them, oh this, Oh I got him, you
know with that one. But at the same time, what
I'm saying to you is I really don't care about
your bs, Like I'm not interested in looking at your
stuff because you did me wrong, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (39:01):
Yeah, have you ever had to refollow somebody after youd
you big one them.

Speaker 6 (39:05):
Yes, I feel like a clown.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
But we don't have we don't have to talk about that.
I mean, it's Fred Show next, it's the Frend Show.
Good Morning one on three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number
one hit music station. You had to re follow your
own husband.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
I'm telling you, I'm a clown. I'm married to him.
You unfollowed your husband?

Speaker 1 (39:25):
Yes, I said, you will have no access to me
except for when I'm in the house we share.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
And the home we share, in the marriage we share,
and the child. Yeah, all that, you unfollowed your own husband.

Speaker 6 (39:37):
What.

Speaker 4 (39:37):
I'm mad, you guys, I'm mad though I loved him,
You're crazy, Yes, sir, I am.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
I want him, Yeah, a lot.

Speaker 8 (39:47):
You mean.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
I could see if you divorced him.

Speaker 2 (39:52):
Maybe, Oh, come on, now, we're going too far.

Speaker 6 (39:54):
It's just a little unfollowed, a little scared.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
No, but I'm saying I couldn't see if if you
guys broke up permanently. I can see why you would
unfollow him. But like, of course, he's if you're not
breaking up, then that means there's going to come a
time where you're going to have to refollow him to
Kiki's point, and that's like having to crawl back.

Speaker 13 (40:09):
Yes, you have to keep them on their toes though,
Like if I can unfollow you, then you know you
don't want to mess with me because tomorrow I might
block your number.

Speaker 6 (40:15):
I've told to lose my number.

Speaker 2 (40:16):
Mind you, like we literally are married, all right, But
when I'm mad you guys have.

Speaker 1 (40:21):
I will tell you the following. The unfollow can be
very interesting as far as like you can tell people
who you're not talking to, you can tell where they're
at in life. Like for example, I don't mean to
brag I have a lot of followers.

Speaker 17 (40:33):
I do.

Speaker 20 (40:34):
I do.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
I do fread on air actually compared to most people,
I don't, but fred on air. Go ahead and give
me a follow, but like I won't necessarily notice if
someone unfollows me, like someone I may be hooked up
with or dated, and then they'll date someone else and
then maybe six months later, I get a refollow, and
that says to me, oh, didn't work out, cause like
you know what I'm saying, Like like that, that signals

(40:55):
to me, all for some reason, now you're interested in
what I have, what I'm up to. Now, why would
that be or like if I'm in an argument with
someone or I've had like you know, some sort of
you know, distance created between you know whatever, I'm a
strained from someone, and then all of a sudden they
pop up as a follow.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
Oh oh really, welcome back. Somebody would like back in?
How about that?

Speaker 6 (41:17):
They always do?

Speaker 2 (41:18):
You know what, don't they? They always come back.

Speaker 6 (41:21):
I've come back.

Speaker 1 (41:22):
I'm telling you, Hauling, you're a crazy person. Let's see
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One.

Speaker 1 (42:42):
It's fine up dating that all right, team a consultant team?
If you which is which is full?

Speaker 17 (42:48):
You?

Speaker 1 (42:49):
And Bella right? Bella Hamene is here as well. Let
me see. Mister Nasty texted us. Oh, mister nasty, my
wife will stop sharing her location with me. Oh and
she's mad, but still keep mine. Oh yeah, my mom
does the same thing to my dad. She'll she'll turn
off his access to see where she is. Oh, that's
my everyday life. Why is that necessary in a relationship.

(43:13):
Why is it necessary for everyone to know where everyone
is all the time? Oh?

Speaker 5 (43:18):
I mean, I don't mind if someone knows where I am.
I wish it was reciprocated, but it's not. So you
don't get to know where he is, but he gets
to know where you are. I was like, you need
to share it, and he shared it for like five
minutes and then like you figured out how to turn
it off you the same way.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
What do you do this too?

Speaker 6 (43:33):
No?

Speaker 4 (43:33):
No, but I was agreeing with mama friend, like I
can turn off my location, you cannot turn off yours.

Speaker 1 (43:38):
My God, I am dating you and you're my mom.
So somehow you're straight with Kiki and somehow I'm working
with my mom.

Speaker 8 (43:52):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
And the other thing that's crazy about Kiki is it
like my mom now will just slide into conversation on
a weekly basis, private conversation that she and Kiki are having.
On the side, they texted a regular basis. I was
talking to Keiky earlier and I'm like, what, I haven't
talked to you in two days, you won't answer the phone.

Speaker 11 (44:12):
Right.

Speaker 6 (44:12):
How's she doing?

Speaker 1 (44:13):
By the way, she'd shoulder surgery, which is hard to
say quickly. She's doing she's doing well. But my mom
will not stop. My mom is non stop, and so
they she got a new shoulder because she hurt her shoulder.
And then she's like this is hard and it won't
it hurts and it won't move. But then she tried
to like, you know, work at a moving company or

(44:33):
something like. She's like she's like carrying someone's couch for them.
I'm like, well, Mom, I mean, you just got a
brand new shoulder. Was stop right, Like what do you do?
She Last night she's holding Mayve because Amanda went. My
sister went to like her aunt went, my aunt. Her
sister went after the surgery. My sister's there now and
brought the baby and then my mom's sitting there and
the baby's like, you know, playing with her, and I'm like, mom,

(44:56):
like leave the thing heal, you know, I don't know
it hurts. I'm like, get hurt because it's a baby
banging on it. That's why crazy Starego will debate some
relationship drama in just a second showbiz with five hundred
bucks good news stories this hour, Stay or Go? That
I mentioned that I think I may. I don't know
what I mentioned her. Now we lost our person though,
That's why I got distracted. We need our person. We
need our person back for stairgo. Where's Melanie? Get Melanie?

Speaker 2 (45:18):
We're having some issues with Melanie, so oh are we?

Speaker 12 (45:21):
Well?

Speaker 1 (45:21):
May I may have to tell Melanie's story for her
in my bath to female boys.

Speaker 6 (45:25):
Oh yeah, we love it.

Speaker 1 (45:26):
This is Melanie.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
Oh my god, that's also Melanie, the same person.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
The smoke if I.

Speaker 2 (45:39):
Become the Poe.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
Yeah, I don't know anyway, I may have to tell
you Melanie's story in just a second if we can't
get her and the Entertainment report this hour too. What
are you working on?

Speaker 6 (45:48):
K Michael Jordan's very Naughty Son? We got to talk about. Also,
a book that we had to read in school is
being turned into a movie.

Speaker 1 (45:56):
Okay, and forty minutes of commercial free Fred show starts
right now back in two minutes after Go Got Bruno,
the frend show is on. It's Stay or Go. So
we called Melanie because she wrote us. We booked her.
We booked the lady who emailed us. We called her
a dude answered, yes, pretty sure. It's the dude we're
talking about right now. So let's just we're just gonna

(46:18):
I'm gonna tell you the story getting weird, right, Like,
I didn't want to tell him, Hey, we're about to
talk about your you know, bedroom prowess or lack thereof,
but now we are. So we didn't tell him that.
We should have been like, hey, she wrote us this
note about you, and she wanted us to talk about
you on the radio for millions of people. But how
about we just talk to you about it instead?

Speaker 21 (46:36):
Right?

Speaker 1 (46:36):
What do you think?

Speaker 17 (46:37):
Right?

Speaker 1 (46:38):
So this is this scenario that she laid out for us.
A woman named Melanie who we now can't get a
hold of. She is married, and apparently this dude went
on medication to help with anxiety and depression. The meads
are working for him, which is wonderful, but they have
lowered his intimacy drive drastically, and so we'll leave it there.

(47:02):
Anyone who's ever been on an antidepressant knows this is
a possible side effect. There are a number of them.
There's there can be issues with drive, there can be
issues with arousal. Is that a nice, a medical way
of saying, because you know, I'm not currently licensed, but
we're working to get it back. But anyway, that's the issue,

(47:23):
I guess. She said she's happy that he feels better psychologically,
but physical intimacy is extremely important to her and she
doesn't want to be in a relationship without it. When
she brings it up, her husband gets defensive and asks
why she would want him off medication that is helping him.
Even though he says hits the medication. She can't help

(47:44):
but feel like he is not attracted to her anymore.
What should she do back? I can tell you this
scenario back in the day before I realized I maybe
wasn't supposed to be taking certain medicines, and I stopped
for different reasons. I can relate to that because it
does do a little number on the drive. And as

(48:05):
much as you show somebody like, look, here are the
actual side effects. Let's look at their website, like, this
is real stuff here that happens when you take certain
It doesn't even have to be psychological medication. It could
be in a number of different medications. But you know,
medication can change people's what we'll call them sexual What's

(48:27):
the word. I'm trying to come up with a nice
way of saying it. It can change the way that
people perform in the bedroom and so, but it's easy
to get inside your head about that, right and be like, well,
of course this has to be about me. You know,
everybody else I've been with, this is how they act,
and this is what happens. But again, the physiological results

(48:47):
or repercussions or whatever you want to call them of
taking medicine, the side effects are real, and so you know,
you have to weigh in this case, this is helping
him feel better as a human being day in and
day out, but it is affecting the bedroom stuff, and
it's making her feel self conscious. I might argue that
while that sucks or doesn't, that's not really fair for

(49:09):
her to necessarily put that on him, because he's saying,
I'm taking this medicine, this is what's doing it, This
makes me feel better. Why are we making this about you?
You know, why are we making why do I have
Why do I now have to defend my attraction to
you because I need to do something that I think
is better for my life. And you know, he could
probably go to the doctor and see if the dosing
is right, or see if there's an alternative. Oftentimes you

(49:32):
can offset one with another. I mean, there are different
things you can do, and maybe he's done that, But
I don't necessarily think it's fair that when he can.
I mean, it's scientifically proven that these are the effects
that whatever kind of medicine. I think there are other
medicines that do this too. I don't think it's just
stuff for anxiety and depression. I think other medicines can
cause different kinds of side effects. It could be detrimental

(49:55):
to that part of your life. I don't think it's
fair for her to be like, well, he doesn't he
doesn't think I'm attractive anymore, when when that may have
absolutely nothing there's no proof of that.

Speaker 17 (50:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
I can only speak for what I would do, and
I would not leave my husband over this at all.
Like I would be so proud of my husband for
figuring out what's going on with him or trying to
work through his issues getting medicated, like get it. I
would work with him through this entire process, let him
get comfortable with the meds and figure it out, and
then we can focus on getting our sex life back popping.

(50:25):
Like most importantly for me in that relationship is my
partner's mental health. Like, so I would sacrifice anything to
know that my partner is mentally feeling much better before
I'm worried about, like why you're not trying to take
me down, you know, Like it's so much bigger than that.

Speaker 2 (50:40):
So I can only say what I would do. I
would not leave my husband over this.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
I feel like that's what she's saying to him basically, though,
is this makes me feel insecure, which I'm sorry about, right.
I'm sure he doesn't intend for that. No, but you're
trying to get health here. Essentially, I would rather. I'd
almost rather that I feel attractive and you not be
comfortable in everyday life. That's whether she means to say
that or not. That's what she's saying essentially, is I

(51:06):
feel insecure. You may have a good reason for it.
I don't really care. I don't want to feel insecure,
so I need you back the way you were. And
if that's not, if that doesn't, if your quality of
life suffers from that, then sorry, at least I feel wanted.
I mean, I'm sorry, but that's the way that comes
off to me, and it is unfortunate that he has
these issues and that the medicine is causing these issues

(51:27):
to his libido. Thank you for the people who texted
that was the word I was looking for. But yet
I and that is a problem. I realize that's a
huge problem. But I think you have to ask yourself,
what's a bigger problem my partner living every day with
crippling anxiety or ruminating or overthinking, or you know, I

(51:47):
don't know whatever it is, or me being reinforced that
I'm actually attractive. I don't mean to minimize it, but
let's be honest to you. That's what we're saying.

Speaker 6 (51:57):
So is it like, I mean, I'm saying this as
someone who's on antidepressant, so obviously I am on his side.
But is it like a wait and see, like do
we just wait for a while while you get stable
and then we try a different medication or is it
are we agreeing we're not really going to have that intimacy.

Speaker 4 (52:12):
Ever, I say, wait and see, wait and see, and
then there's other options. Somebody on the text mentioned like,
there's a lot of other things you can do that
may not you know, you can you can get freaky
other ways.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
Basically, like, you know, I don't want to name all
the way, but they freaky.

Speaker 1 (52:32):
Freak like to hear it.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
That's for the tangent, but.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
Boiled trim.

Speaker 4 (52:42):
With me because that's more importable, you know, Like we
can talk about other ways to please me later once
you get healthy, Okay, yeah, and just quickly.

Speaker 1 (52:48):
Eight five five five one three five if you want
to cheme in on this, on this situation, yes, Paulina, I'm.

Speaker 13 (52:55):
Curious, like not even talking about the sex life, but
does the medication affect you in other ways? Either are
our caller's boyfriend or like people who are on it,
like Kaylin, Like does it affect you know the other ways?
Like when I was taking stuff for because I'm add
they were giving me something to take right and I
was just a full on zombie all day.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
Nothing to do with my sex life, but I just
like how I felt sleep.

Speaker 1 (53:13):
I mean there's a ton of side effects sleeping, sweating, okay, uh,
poor sleeping appetite. I mean, there's a million different things,
and unfortunately they don't all show up in everybody consistently,
and there's not there's not a clear path to you know,
knowing what's gonna happen. Knowing what medicine is going to
do what, and then knowing how to offset it. It

(53:34):
can be tricky. Yeah, it can be tricky.

Speaker 6 (53:36):
Of course, then it probably is.

Speaker 13 (53:38):
And I only suggest this if it's affecting his day
to day, right, maybe he's.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
Losing his personality or whatever it might be.

Speaker 17 (53:44):
Right.

Speaker 6 (53:45):
I think that's a misconception that a lot of people think.
If you take antidepressants, a lot of people think, oh,
it's gonna numb you out. It's gonna numb you out.
And and yes some of them can. Obviously that would
be the wrong medication. They're wrong dosage. You know me,
I am not numb, I cry, I'm happy, I can
get angry, like I have, all the range of emotions. Absolutely,
So if it's numbing you out or making you a
zombie like adderall for example, or whatever which is mine,

(54:06):
you should switch medication.

Speaker 2 (54:08):
It shouldn't make you like that.

Speaker 1 (54:09):
He probably needs to at least examine tweaking into the
dosage you're trying. I mean, is he That would be
my question? Is he trying different things? Because I'm sure
and that's another thing that that people don't seem to
take into consideration. I bet he don't like it either.

Speaker 17 (54:24):
You know.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
Another issue that people have hypothetically is that they are
excited to be there there's just no finish, and that
throws people off too, because it's like, oh, you know,
I can't we can't get to the end. And it's like,
trust me, I would love it.

Speaker 17 (54:43):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (54:45):
I'm trying to get there now.

Speaker 2 (54:46):
I'm a people. Please. They don't even play with me
like that.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
You know, I'm not saying that, like, I'm not saying
this is easy, and it would mess with me too.
But if I love someone and I've seen the effects
of whatever they're dealing with, whatever they're medical condition is,
it doesn't have to be psychological. And you're telling me
this medicine makes your life better, which I think will
ultimately make my life better, then I got to be

(55:10):
more understanding than I want to be because it's not
about me. And I think once you start projecting, oh
I'm unattractive or I'm not good in bad or I'm
not doing this stuff, it's just so unfair because this
is this isn't up for interpretation. It's scientific, like, this
is what the medicine does. It's been proven.

Speaker 6 (55:26):
Yeah, I would like to tell her if I could
talk to her again. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (55:29):
She call this guy and tell him. I would like
to tell him without a boner.

Speaker 6 (55:33):
Oh, there is a mouth swab that they offer now
that shows you how you metabolize each medication. So it
gives you a green zone, a yellow zone, and a
red zone. Do not take a might work for you?
And will you can metabolize this?

Speaker 17 (55:45):
I did that.

Speaker 6 (55:45):
It helped me on my journey of knowing what worked
best for me, So that's helpful. That's also an option I.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
Feel for both of them. I just think it's like, please,
don't make this something that it probably isn't.

Speaker 6 (55:55):
Making it about you.

Speaker 1 (55:57):
It's sort of yeah, it's like, so now I have
to I have to deal with this and prove to
you that I'm still attracted to you even though I
am and always have been. Or I have to just
deal with my condition, whatever it is, and then I
guess you'll feel better. I don't know about that. Hey Elizabeth, Hi,
Hi Elizabeth, Hey, good morning. What do you want to say.

Speaker 21 (56:20):
Mine? I'm totally anti farm so I don't like any
of the pharmacuticals for a myriad of reasons. And also
I'm like the grandma of GOT thirteen.

Speaker 7 (56:30):
So I'm at that age and my body is physically changing.
And I also had a relap sublime.

Speaker 21 (56:35):
To see Brenda beat of COVID and MI my guy.
He kind of stopped wanting to.

Speaker 19 (56:41):
Touch me stuff.

Speaker 21 (56:42):
I thought it would be as well, but he said,
I didn't know how you were at pained for having.

Speaker 19 (56:48):
Emultions and all that.

Speaker 7 (56:50):
But he didn't want to lead you, but I didn't
want to crush it you.

Speaker 21 (56:53):
And that was like a year ago, and it's like
in the last couple of months that it's been fact
a great.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Okay, So you're saying, let's see how this. Let's just
be patient and see over time if things change or
you know, make adjustments.

Speaker 21 (57:09):
If you love him and understand that he's going to
do something and not me.

Speaker 1 (57:14):
So okay, thank you, Elizabeth, have a good day, and
we don't care. You can be one hundred as long
as you're part of the thirteen. It doesn't but it all,
it all counts, and it all matters. Hi, Michael, Hey, Michael,
So you can relate to this.

Speaker 4 (57:31):
I can.

Speaker 19 (57:32):
I'm in a similar situation with my partner. He's been
on anxiety depression meds for quite a while, and you know,
it's it's hard because it's it's a no win situation.
You know, I think instinctially or everybody longs to want

(57:53):
to have that feelings. I can sympathize with her because
this is for me, has been going on for quite
some time, and I choose to stay. But it's not
an easy it's not an easy task to stay because
I say, because I love him and I understand.

Speaker 2 (58:09):
That it's not his fault.

Speaker 19 (58:11):
But if she chooses to stay, it's going to take
a lot of work.

Speaker 11 (58:18):
To continue to say.

Speaker 1 (58:19):
Yeah, I'm sure it's not easy, but I would encourage
her not to make this about her because it isn't
It probably isn't.

Speaker 19 (58:28):
I agree, it's not about her, but you can't fight
that that feeling of even if you take at a
step further, just wanting to have you know, more sex
or your sex drive is obviously still normal and healthy.
So that that makes it very hard to kind of

(58:49):
process everything.

Speaker 1 (58:51):
Yeah, yeah, thank you, have a good day. Glad you called.

Speaker 9 (58:54):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (58:55):
Well, I'm not trying to be vague, but you know,
I'm a pilot and there's a whole list of things
we're not allowed to take as pilots. And I didn't
know that much younger in my life, and so I
don't anymore. But I may have and I have been
in relationship for people basically have said to me, stop
taking it because I need that WHOA. And I'll be
honest with you, it was the end of the relationship
when that happened, because what you're saying to me is

(59:16):
I don't care about your quality of life. I need
to feel wanted more and you're not. And you're so
not only are you not fulfilling me, but I'm not
concerned with your well being. Is what the person saying
to you, whether they mean it or not. And I
get I'm sorry that people feel that way when someone's
not feeling well or going through a bodily transition or

(59:38):
a life transition, or the taking medicine and has side effects.
That sucks. I'm sorry, But isn't that sort of the
nature of a relationship. Is that if I'm working to
try and fix it and I am trying my best
to make you feel wanted, don't you want what's best
for me?

Speaker 17 (59:53):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (59:53):
Yeah, But I do think as partners we do have
to have a plan in place because my feelings matter too,
And I just I'm getting this from the take. Somebody
said that they were in this situation and it's been
five years that they haven't really been intimate because of
the same reason, and she's like, well, how much longer
should I wait?

Speaker 1 (01:00:08):
That's the real thing.

Speaker 4 (01:00:09):
And as a partner, you have to work together, so
you know, put his mental health first right now, but
you know, come together for a game plan in the
future to kind of figure out how you can please
your partner because five years.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
Five years no intimacy. And by the way, I don't
know that we're talking about no intimacy. I hope. I
mean I think we're talking about different intimacy or more
limited or some of the things we've talked about. No intimacy,
intimacy in five years. That's tough. Yeah, that is that's
really difficult. You're gonna have to I would agree. You
got to figure out some kind of work around. Hey Jamie, Hi, Hi,
good morning. What do you want to say? This is

(01:00:41):
to a woman who we basically we wind up calling
the guy that we're talking about right now, and then
we pretended that we were a telemarketer and we start
speaking of touent blowing lass right, And so basically, though,
this guy is on some medication that's affecting his libido,
and this woman's upset about it, and she said, I
don't feel as attractive anymore, even though I know he's
on the map, and like, I don't know what to do.
What do you think?

Speaker 12 (01:01:03):
Well, I've been on anxiety medicine for a long time,
and this was an issue for me to lower text drive,
and of course it was brought up and I was
really offended and hurt, and it was an issue for
a while, and then thankfully I switched medicine so I
could get pregnant. And now this medicine is the right

(01:01:26):
one for me because everything has returned to normal. But
she definitely needs to give him time to figure that
out and space to breathe and just feel good for
a while before this becomes an issue that she would
leave him over.

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
Yeah, I agree, I agree. Thank you, Jamie, have a
great day. Thanks for listening. You're terrible appreciate you sharing.
People have texted birth control can do this too. I've
actually read about women changing birth control and becoming essentially
resistant to their partner, like all of a sudden they
don't smell good, or they don't like.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
Ohing goth that can do that too. Some of my
friends have experienced that, like.

Speaker 1 (01:02:04):
We're all of a sudden there, it's like they're somehow
revolted by the very same thing they were attracted to
prior and because of pheromones or hormones or something, and
it's like that's a problem, right, we got to work
through that somehow. But I mean to say, like, well,
you better take those hormones to make me feel I
mean again, five years, that's a long time. But from
my reaction to be initially, I don't care what's best

(01:02:25):
for you or your body because I don't feel wanted.
That's not the way to approach it. I don't think, Hey, Cassandra, Hi, Hi,
So you're coming at this from the perspective of a
mental health therapist, what do you think?

Speaker 7 (01:02:39):
Yeah, so, I've actually worked with clients and I have
perinal experience. I used to be on anti anxiety medication
and depression medication before. I think she's being incredibly selfish
in this situation, and I know that sounds very harsh. However,
I believe she needs to do some self exploration as

(01:02:59):
to like why this is making her feel so insecure.
And the beautiful thing about like medication and therapy is
that it could be done like in tandem, so he
could potentially get to the point like if he goes
to therapy, he gets the coping skills for his anxiety
and depression, and he gets to the point where I'm like,
he's like, hey, like I feel like I don't need
to be on medication anymore. That's very much a possibility,

(01:03:22):
but that work needs to be done prior to that happening,
so that way he has that foundation in place, he
has all those tools in place to help him with
his day to day life.

Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
Yeah, Cassandra, thank you, have a good day, you too,
Thank you. Love you guys, Yeah, I love you too. Again,
I don't mean to make it seem like her needs
don't matter, but again I think when you from personal experience,
when you approach somebody with Okay, well this isn't working
for me, even though it's best for you. And we're
talking about your health and your and your quality of life.

(01:03:54):
We're not talking about, uh, you know, whether you cut
your all your hair off or shave your beard off,
or change your job or you know, we're not talking
about things that are I'm not going to call them trivial,
but things that can be adjusted or there's compromise. I mean, again,
do you want me to live this way forever? If
I need this, or do you want to or do

(01:04:15):
you need me to reinforce that. I like you, I'm
with you. I want to be here, I want to
do those And I think by taking that perspective, you're
also not giving any consideration to this person and how
they probably feel about that, because trust me, it's not fun.
It's not fun to do the deal and not get
the deal at the end the deal and then not.

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
The Deal's familiar with both deals. I want the deal,
you need the deal, the deal?

Speaker 1 (01:04:40):
How do you think I feel? Are you getting the deal?

Speaker 2 (01:04:44):
That would be that's torture.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Like yeah, when I was like, you know, twenty and
a strong wind would come by and it, you know,
was over, I really would have I would have dreamed
for that scenario.

Speaker 2 (01:04:54):
You're right over there, she's crying and deal man.

Speaker 1 (01:04:59):
Well, no, I get the deal, because this is this
is old news. The deal has been I got the dough.
I found the DT No, I don't say I found
out I wasn't supposed to be doing that. I'm not
doing that, and I figured out other ways. I did
therapy and whatever else. Excuse me, professional coaching. I mean,
I go to professional coaching.

Speaker 6 (01:05:15):
You've got a lot of rules and regulations.

Speaker 1 (01:05:17):
I'm just I'm gonna I'm just here so I don't
get fined. Let's see the entertainer report next in two minutes, Shelley,
if you want to take her on, five hundred bucks,
is the price eight five five five three five call now,
we'll play next. Calin's entertainer report is on The Fresh Show.

Speaker 6 (01:05:35):
It turns out that white substance cops found in Marcus
Jordan's pocket, son of Michael Jordan, during his DUI arrest,
was determined to be ketamine, not cocaine.

Speaker 2 (01:05:44):
Oh no, okay.

Speaker 6 (01:05:45):
Cops conducted a field test on powdered during his February
fourth traffic stop, you know the one where he told
him they wouldn't find anything in his pants other than
a big you know what. And then he also tried
to request Mariah Carey when they were taking him into
the station.

Speaker 2 (01:06:00):
I'm just gonna leave that right there.

Speaker 6 (01:06:02):
But while in his initial testing showed that he was
positive for cocaine. After further testing, they realized it was
still drugs, just ketamine. I guess the two substances feature,
of course, the same color and texture, and ketamine can
often yield a positive cocaine reading, so it's not out
of the ordinary. I guess I'm hearing. So they updated
his charges to reflect that. But this actually could benefit him,

(01:06:24):
as cocaine is a Schedule two drug and ketamine is
a Schedule three drug in Florida where he got the DUI. Now,
Marcus has been pretty quiet since the arrests he should be.
He did make sure to wish his dad a happy
sixty second birthday. His dad has also not commented on
the dui. I can't imagine why. In music news, Selena
Gomez in Benny Blanco's new album I Said I Love

(01:06:45):
You first dropped March twenty first. I'm very excited for it,
and while we now have a first look at one
of the music videos that they're shooting for the album
with the recently engaged couple as the stars of it. Now,
I don't know if you guys saw these photos, but
Selena is in a few different hout fits for the shoot,
but most noticeable. Is this like black slip lingerie and
a red lip, so it's probably a nazy music video. Benny,

(01:07:06):
on the other hand, was in a seventies inspired burnt
orange suit a la Travis Kelce walking into that Game
Beg's Want to Be costume and he was being wired
and lifted into the air or for a stunt.

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
I don't know what they're up to, and I'm not
also not sure what song that's for.

Speaker 6 (01:07:22):
But Selena, Benny, and Gracie Abrams recently released the official
video for their song call Me When You Break Up,
which is a really good song and it was all
recorded completely on an iPhone by the trio in a bedroom.

Speaker 2 (01:07:34):
By the way, if you miss any.

Speaker 6 (01:07:35):
Part of our show, The Fred Show, you can catch
up on every single thing. It's all up on the free,
new and improved iHeartRadio app. Just search The Fred Show
on demand.

Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
I just tried to spell the words physiology. I don't
know how to do that, because somebody texted, well, lack
of intimacy will then affect the other person's mental health.
That is true, but I think we're talking about two
different things. I think maybe we're talking about it again.
I'm not a professional, But I think we're talking about
semi controllable versus uncontrollable. Right, if it's physiological, if it's chemical,

(01:08:06):
that's different than you feeling I'm not saying it's less
than But isn't that different than you being depressed that
you don't feel wanted by me?

Speaker 2 (01:08:13):
Yeah? I mean one could you could lose your life.

Speaker 1 (01:08:16):
The other one, I'm not sure, And I'm not saying again,
I'm not saying one is more important than the other necessarily,
But like, if you're feeling depressed because you're not wanted
and yet you know the reason why, then I guess
I would encourage you maybe to take ownership of those feelings.
Because if I have a psychological issue anxiety depression, it's chemical,

(01:08:36):
I don't necessarily get to just take a mental control.
It's not necessarily controllable by the person who's suffering from that.

Speaker 11 (01:08:46):
So I think it's two different things. But Fred show,
do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley In the show Biz Showdown, Shoby is welcome to
the Medical Hour.

Speaker 2 (01:08:56):
I know, I know, good morning, Hi, Let's play the game.

Speaker 8 (01:09:00):
It's excited.

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
Let's just shift gears, you know, boom, boom, back we go,
we go, medicine, we go, depress shann exactly, we go,
Libido boom right to fun games. Hi, Lonnie, how you doing, Lonnie?

Speaker 17 (01:09:13):
I'm good, Lonnie.

Speaker 1 (01:09:14):
Welcome to the program. Tell us about you.

Speaker 19 (01:09:18):
I'm on my way to work.

Speaker 16 (01:09:21):
I have a dog, Hi having more?

Speaker 1 (01:09:25):
Well, congratulations. What's your son's name?

Speaker 2 (01:09:29):
Connor?

Speaker 1 (01:09:30):
Well, Connor, Welcome to the world. Welcome to the thirteen.
We need all that we can get. We'll take all
the newborns, all the pets, all the dogs and cats
and iguanas and whatever else.

Speaker 6 (01:09:39):
I'm coming for you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
Yep, well right, thank god. You know required listening when
you come out of when you come out of show
a bit, Shelley, then you have to listen to the show. Sorry,
it's required. Let's play the game five bucks to surprise
Shelley's record one thousand and six wins and only sixty
eight losses.

Speaker 2 (01:09:55):
Ready, all right, good luck, all right, Lonnie, Here we go.

Speaker 1 (01:09:58):
Shelly's off to the sam boof poof. Here we go.
Question number one, which awards show happened on Sunday? Which?
Excuse me? Actor Martin Short said he caught COVID at
the SNL anniversary celebration? Which number season is the show celebrating?

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:10:22):
What season that is celebrating? Right now?

Speaker 3 (01:10:25):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:10:25):
Poor? Okay, by the way, she said sad right for
number one?

Speaker 2 (01:10:29):
I don't think so. I heard. I heard the saga.

Speaker 1 (01:10:33):
Okay, what is the name of What is the name
of the popular YouTube show where celebrities eat increasingly spicy
or chicken wings while being interviewed by Sean Evans? Or
is Sean? Yeah? I would get is this Seann? Or
is a scene? Some people say scene for Sean? They's
fell the same way, don't they?

Speaker 6 (01:10:51):
What Sean is?

Speaker 2 (01:10:52):
Se An is still show you?

Speaker 4 (01:10:54):
No, I know that.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
But some people say scene for the same don't they
say scene for the same spelling?

Speaker 2 (01:10:57):
Now, where do you hang out right with scene?

Speaker 1 (01:11:00):
Seeing?

Speaker 2 (01:11:01):
You know it's Sean Emmons? But I see that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:03):
I can said that, you know, I like to make
names fancier than they are. I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:11:06):
There's no.

Speaker 2 (01:11:08):
No, there is but to meet them.

Speaker 1 (01:11:11):
A maerologist in Arizona called see McLaughlins. So you know what,
you know what? You knock it off? That's the reason
I'm confused, because he spells it the same way. Yeah,
there's no one there's no one on earth name scene.
Thank you Paulina for that.

Speaker 2 (01:11:30):
Say it again.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
Nobody somebody called that, says me. Now, if you're as
now and if they don't, they don't exist. Which I
just love it. You're over here going that doesn't exist
in the world.

Speaker 7 (01:11:50):
You know, I love you.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
But I'm just like, I don't think I can say that.
I don't think I can say about anything that it
doesn't exist in the world. But which golden girl is
the face of a new Forever stamp? I know we
were playing a game. I'm sorry for one. Yeah, and
did she get number three? We get number three. Some

(01:12:13):
of the characters in the new season of The White
Lotus were inspired by the show Southern Charm on which
network would you find Southern Charm? So one, I'll give
you two, I'll give you saga, I'll give it to you.

Speaker 2 (01:12:29):
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
It's fine, it's it's all right.

Speaker 2 (01:12:31):
I'm getting forgot about me.

Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
No, we didn't. Was just telling us what does and
doesn't exist in the world based on her worldview. I'd
love it, Okay, somebody, somebody, somebody said, is there a
scene out there or not? I'm going to call it.
See McLaughlin in Arizona.

Speaker 2 (01:12:49):
Right now is an s C A N.

Speaker 1 (01:12:53):
John Vaughn is an s C A N.

Speaker 6 (01:12:55):
Yeah, Well that's see, that's right.

Speaker 1 (01:12:59):
The man is scene here. They Okay, which awards show
happened on Sunday? She got a five? She got a
kind of a one? Okay, Okay, which awards show happened
on Sunday? I'm gonna dm C McLaughlin right now, I
really do. Actor Martin Short said that he cut COVID

(01:13:21):
at the SNL anniversary celebration. Which number season is the
show celebrating? Yeah? What is the name of a popular
YouTube show where celebrities eat increasingly spicy your chicken wings
while being interviewed by Sean Evans.

Speaker 2 (01:13:36):
Hot one?

Speaker 1 (01:13:39):
Which Golden Girl is the face of a new Forever stamp?
That's right, And some of the characters in the new
season of White Lotus were inspired by the show Southern
Charm on which network? Would you find Southern Charm? Bramo,
All right, that's a five? Hey, Lonnie, not even close.
I love you. I love you did a great job
and you had to put up with all that. Jason,
Can we give her something? Because yeah, I had to

(01:14:00):
put up with all that. You don't get the money,
but you do get something. Hold on. Okay, all right,
some people call her Steve, but some people call Annie Steve.
They do what in this world? It doesn't exist. That's
your number one thousand and seven and five and fifty

(01:14:25):
bucks tomorrow. I want to go home. Okay, I'm gonna
leave now, I'm gonna go. I'm going to get out
of here, Shelley. Yeah, once you have a great day.

Speaker 2 (01:14:33):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
Three more days left with you? I need all three?
Okay it is three?

Speaker 2 (01:14:38):
Yeah, yeah, okay, I'm gonna do my best.

Speaker 1 (01:14:41):
And then when is the baby actually supposed to come?

Speaker 6 (01:14:43):
I know that the six is a due date?

Speaker 1 (01:14:45):
Okay, so you're giving yourself a little bit of you know,
a window there.

Speaker 6 (01:14:49):
Yes, because my daughter came a little bit early. So yeah,
it makes a feel litt more caught.

Speaker 1 (01:14:53):
I think early. I bet early. And now Calen's the
gambler in the room.

Speaker 18 (01:14:56):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
What is Vegas saying?

Speaker 2 (01:14:57):
What's the over under second kid? I had one the
first game?

Speaker 1 (01:15:01):
Just fall out right?

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
Yeah, that kid is gonna crip walk right on out ye.

Speaker 1 (01:15:05):
Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm thinking I'm thinking early, Williams. I'm
thinking thirty second labor. Just walk out. Just hello, I'm here.

Speaker 2 (01:15:13):
Yeah, well I hope I hope that. Are you going
natural again? Shall Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:15:18):
Yeah you are by so yeah, it's no no epidural.

Speaker 6 (01:15:23):
I'm gonna give it a shot.

Speaker 2 (01:15:25):
Yeah, good for you, Thank you, good lord, thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:15:28):
Okay, all right, have a good day.

Speaker 6 (01:15:30):
Thanks, all right, you too.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
Bye. Look at this we got scene.

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
I'm irish. I have four cousins name sc a n
pronounced sane. Stop it right now, y'all just trying to
be fancy.

Speaker 11 (01:15:42):
Yeah, that's it. I texted that. But more thread show. Next,
you've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show. Brad, Good morning, welcome to the program.

Speaker 1 (01:15:59):
How are you I'm doing I'm a little bit confused. Okay,
Brad is confused. Let's see if we can help with
the confusion. So we're trying to figure out if this
woman Cassie maybe ghosting you. So tell us about Cassie
and then about any dates that you've been on and
did all the backstory here, and then how we can help.

Speaker 3 (01:16:15):
So I'm at Cassie at this networking event for other
people in real estate.

Speaker 20 (01:16:21):
I'm a real estate agent.

Speaker 2 (01:16:22):
She's a lawyer.

Speaker 6 (01:16:24):
She's like cute.

Speaker 1 (01:16:25):
We got her number, and.

Speaker 20 (01:16:27):
After the event that I asked her out on a
date and she said yes. We met up at this
cool bar, and I know she left kind of quickly,
like after two drinks, but I thought we had a
pretty good time. I just figured she had an early meeting.

Speaker 1 (01:16:46):
Okay, so she kind of took off after the date,
like kind of quickly and two days excuse me, two drinks.
I feel like is the standard, whether you like it
or not, for a first date. I feel like that's
kind of like people's comfort level, Like, hey, I'll go
off for with you that way. If I have one
maybe two, and then I want to get out, I
have an out. But at least is how I look

(01:17:07):
at it, because then if like, let's say you go
for two drinks it goes really well, then you can
extend the date. Hey, you want to get something to eat,
or like we can go do something else. But then
if it doesn't go well, which I don't know what
happened here exactly, then you've got your out, like I
did my drinks thing, and then we're gonna move on.
Did you feel like that? Did you feel like, hey,
we had two drinks and it kind of fizzled and

(01:17:27):
she walked away. I mean, you must not feel that
way if you were expecting her to call. No, I
don't think it's fizzled.

Speaker 20 (01:17:33):
I honestly don't know to be because this doesn't happen often.

Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
Okay, So my man here, Brad, like he's got a
you got a great batting record with these women. Like
you're out here just you're getting all the dates you want,
is what you're saying, Brad. Yeah, I mean I'm a
good looking guy.

Speaker 2 (01:17:47):
Myself.

Speaker 1 (01:17:48):
Okay, okay, I see right. So you're puzzled here because
it's like, hey, we we talked to the event and
then we went and had drinks, so that's not really
two dates. But like it wasn't a total flyer. I mean,
she knew what she was getting into, knew what you
look like, and kind of knew the vibe, and so
you know, you have these drinks and then she doesn't
call you back. You're like, what the heck?

Speaker 20 (01:18:05):
Yeah, my normal first date is like most people's third
or fourth day.

Speaker 1 (01:18:09):
Oh oh okay, I see, well what does that mean?
Hold on, I'm trying to be what does that mean exactly?
You know, about the So he's closing on Oh I
got eye, My goodness. Okay, So for Brad, the Brad
effect is we don't go to normally it would be
three dates. Not for Brad, Brad date number one Kiki

(01:18:30):
you know what, you know what he's talking about. Yeah, yeah,
because Kiki for Big Tim several dates made him wait,
you know, many many dates. But if she going out
with Brad, yeah, lots of years. Yeah, well that might
be part of the problem. Then maybe that's where the
ring is then, but I don't know. All right, Well,
let's let's call this woman, Cassie. We're gonna have you
on the phone at the same time. Of course, we're
going to ask questions on your behalf, and at some

(01:18:52):
point you're welcome to jump in. And the hope is
that whatever's going on we can straighten out. Maybe she's
been busy or distracted somehow, and if that's the case,
we'll you up on another date and pay for it. Okay,
We're gonna find out what's up. Parks to waiting by
the phone. After Rose and Bruno in two minutes went
back on The Fred Show. Don't move Rose, It's the
Fred Show on the radio and on the iHeart app

(01:19:13):
live and anytime starts put a Fred show on demand
and make us a preset. Please, Hey Brad, ye, hey man,
Let's call Cassie. You guys, you met in person in
a networking event, you went on a date and had
a couple drinks. You thought it went well, but you
have not heard from her since then, and you want
to know why. Yeah, please, all right, let's call her now.
Good luck, Brad, hullo. Hi is this Cassie? Yeah, Hi Cassie,

(01:19:43):
good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the
Fred Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is here,
and I do have to tell you that you are
on the radio right now, and I would need your
permission to continue with the call. Can which hat for
just a second on the on the show? Would you mind?

Speaker 20 (01:19:56):
I guess I don't mind.

Speaker 17 (01:19:58):
I don't know how you guys got my number.

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Okay, Well I'm gonna get to that, so thank you.
I think that was a guest. So we're calling on
behalf of a guy named Brad. I guess you went
out with Brad. You met him at a networking event
and you went out and had a couple of drinks.
Do you remember Brad?

Speaker 20 (01:20:14):
Yeah I do.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
Okay, Well you remember Brad? So what happened? Because he
reached out to us and he told us that he
had a great time with you and felt like things
went well on the date. But he's reached out since
then and you haven't responded, so what's going on?

Speaker 20 (01:20:30):
Honestly, I thought that date was a prank?

Speaker 8 (01:20:32):
Like are you are you guys?

Speaker 10 (01:20:35):
Vandam?

Speaker 20 (01:20:36):
Did he give you my number?

Speaker 16 (01:20:37):
Because that was a brank.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
No, I can honestly tell you that the date was
not a Why do you think the date was a prank?
We actually had nothing to do with the date. We
only got involved when you'd stop calling him.

Speaker 17 (01:20:48):
Oh well, I felt like it was a prank because
like Brad was just very like he's so handsome and.

Speaker 12 (01:20:57):
Just like charismatic and stuff, and I was.

Speaker 17 (01:20:59):
Just looking forward to the date, like me and my
friends got me all dressed up and I had a
friend curl my hair and everything was great. And so
then I got there. We sat down and we made
a drink and instantly Bred started talking about how hot
the server was and he was like Jesu at least
eight And I'm like okay, and then he's like can

(01:21:20):
you rate her too?

Speaker 19 (01:21:21):
And I'm like, I guess, And.

Speaker 17 (01:21:23):
Then for like forty five minutes over only like there's
like two drinks. We he went person to person in
that bar, and we were supposed to rate how hot
or not everyone only the only woman, know only the woman,
and I just I couldn't believe that, Like, at no
point then he asked about me, comment on me being

(01:21:44):
pretty or anything like.

Speaker 12 (01:21:46):
At that point, I was like, this is a prank
and I need.

Speaker 1 (01:21:48):
To get out of here. So we were talking about
everybody but every woman but those bad I forgot you
mentioned that Brad is here the chat room exactly. I'm
sorry I didn't forget to mention guess Brad was here.
I'm very forgetful. So, Brad, you're on a date with Cassie,
who made an effort to go out with you and
look really pretty, and you don't even bother to compliment her,

(01:22:09):
but rather go around the room and talk about every
other woman and then objectify them and rate them. I
just want to because that was the date.

Speaker 20 (01:22:15):
Activity Obviously she's hot because I asked her that, And.

Speaker 1 (01:22:21):
I guess you would never go out with anybody who
wasn't what an eight pick eight plus.

Speaker 3 (01:22:26):
I mean, yeah, I mean go on a date probably
in eight plus. If you know, I'm in a pint,
maybe a seven.

Speaker 1 (01:22:34):
I saw it in a pant. Yeah. So so she
should have just assumed that she was among the elites
because you chose her, is what I just want to
be clear, that's what you're saying. Yeah, like bro okay,
and she should have just assumed that. So like, it's
not your job on a date to compliment the person
who you're on the date with. Instead, we should just
focus on everybody else.

Speaker 2 (01:22:52):
I mean, I think that would have been rud rate it.

Speaker 1 (01:22:56):
Got it well, Cassie. I have a question, how would
you rate Brad? Because apparently no one's ask that question.
What would you give him?

Speaker 17 (01:23:02):
I mean, in terms of the look bad, I'd say
the Sally seven point five, and then if there's a
personality down I'm.

Speaker 6 (01:23:12):
Hearing about it, I give him a three.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
Wow. Okay, yeah you're seven point five. Brad. Thoughts on that,
I think.

Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
She's just salty at this point.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
Yeah, I've already moved on.

Speaker 3 (01:23:24):
I'm already thinking about going to that same Barie one
out to on the date because there's definitely a lot
of eyes in there again.

Speaker 20 (01:23:32):
Yeah, that's not work at all. You know, there's a
good amount of seven.

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
I just I don't know why you're on a date
with someone who you were saying was in your mind attractive,
but yet we spent time talking about how attractive or
unattractive everybody else was. Like, there's kind of a lot
of problems with that.

Speaker 20 (01:23:47):
I thought it was a fun.

Speaker 3 (01:23:50):
You know, I like to find if the girl i'm
seeing is also interested in another girl, you know, doing
the fun.

Speaker 1 (01:23:58):
Oh and she would rate other women highly, and oh,
I wow, this is a complicated game.

Speaker 2 (01:24:05):
The first date we're going to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:24:07):
We call that the Brad effect, you know. Yeah, yeah,
well so Cassie, you were supposed to be rating women
so that you could maybe include them in the evening.
Kick right over there.

Speaker 4 (01:24:18):
No, I can't get over to sound his voice. I
don't know how she ended up on a date with
this man like that alone is just not doing it
for me.

Speaker 1 (01:24:26):
But he's Brad. Yeah, yeah, I mean Brad, be Brad.
Yeah you're talking to Yeah, that's the one. Okay, That's why.

Speaker 17 (01:24:35):
I gave him a seven point five.

Speaker 12 (01:24:36):
It's the voice.

Speaker 17 (01:24:37):
The voice is so annoying.

Speaker 1 (01:24:39):
Wow, so he would have been maybe like in the
ages or something. He must be a good looking guy then,
because if you're.

Speaker 2 (01:24:43):
Giving me pigs, Brad sent some pigs over.

Speaker 1 (01:24:46):
Yeah, why don't you send over a little portfolio? And
it will be the judge about that.

Speaker 20 (01:24:51):
Normally I don't even have to talk.

Speaker 1 (01:24:53):
Oh, I see he's so good looking. Maybe would have
been better if you hadn't exactly, Maybe maybe you shouldn't
have talked, and then things would have goneway better for you.
But okay, I Brad, Cassie, I'll ask the question, but
I know the answer. Would you like to go out
with Brad again?

Speaker 6 (01:25:08):
Hell?

Speaker 12 (01:25:08):
No, absolutely not.

Speaker 2 (01:25:12):
What I don't blame you, Brad.

Speaker 1 (01:25:14):
I'm sorry, it's not going to work out. I guess
go back to the bar because you see a lot
of a lot of talent in there. Apparently, yes, you
got to shoot.

Speaker 2 (01:25:22):
I'll do okay.

Speaker 1 (01:25:24):
I do love though, when these guys call up here
and they're like, I want to know why she didn't
call me because they liked her and stuff, And then
as soon as they realize that they screwed it up. Now,
all of a sudden, it's like, oh, I don't care
if they go out with me. I don't want her, right,
but you wanted her ten minutes ago when you asked
us a caller and do this. So what okay? The
classic Yeah, it really is all right, Cassie. Thank you
for your time. Best of luck to you, Brad, good
luck to you as well. Thank you. The Entertainer Report,

(01:25:46):
the biggest stories of the day and the fun in
fact all next Fread show back in two minutes. Report
is on the Fread Show.

Speaker 6 (01:25:53):
Megan the Stallion file documents asking a judge to approve
her lawyer is taking a deposition from Tory Lanez right
from his jail cell as they investigate her cyber stocking case. Now,
if you didn't know, she's suing this blogger, Mulagro Cooper
for an alleged online campaign to spread misinformation about her
in the wake of Tory's conviction for shooting her. Megan's

(01:26:14):
team wants to explore the nature of Tory's relationship with
the blogger that they've already alleged he's funding and possibly
directing her campaign to discredit Megan. So, in Layman's terms,
she thinks that Tory is having someone on the outside
have this smear campaign against her, so that she doesn't,
so that he doesn't look like the bad guy, and

(01:26:35):
that it looks like she's lying basically. Last month, the
judge also approved a restraining order against Tory after they
alleged that he was engaging in psychological warfare to continue
harassing her from behind bars.

Speaker 2 (01:26:48):
So they think he's in cahoots with this blogger.

Speaker 6 (01:26:51):
Tory is serving a ten year sentence in a California
state prison for the twenty twenty shooting, and I should
mention that his lawyers say he will not sit down
for the deposition, So I don't know how that works.
I don't know if you're allowed to just say no,
I'm good, but I'll obviously i'll hit you.

Speaker 1 (01:27:08):
I got this pen. It's like with the fines.

Speaker 2 (01:27:13):
Yeah a suggestion, Yeah, yeah, you don't how to do
it right.

Speaker 6 (01:27:17):
They were like, his lawyer was like, I don't know
if you know toy, but he doesn't sit for depositions.
I'm like, well, I think people have to get their ass,
so I guess we'll.

Speaker 2 (01:27:24):
See if he has to.

Speaker 6 (01:27:26):
In a sense delated tweet, Kevin Durant, who plays for
the Phoenix Suns, took to x to defend j Cole
and his latest song clouds Now. There's a lot of
moving parts to this, but the NBA start quote tweeted
over a post sharing the songwriting, I don't care about none.

Speaker 2 (01:27:39):
Of that fake tough guy spit. This is mastery, so
he likes the song.

Speaker 6 (01:27:43):
When one one fan tried to say that he needed
permission from Drake to support J Cole while throwing shade
at Kendrick Lamar, the future Hall of Famer replied, I'm
throwing shade at fans like you who have been hating
on Cole the whole time. Just listen to the music
and st FU. When another guy right he was like
feeling we're all angry. When another guy suggested that Drake
and J Cole make fake tough guy music, Kdie disagreed

(01:28:06):
and answered, rapping about protecting everything you've earned is not fake.

Speaker 2 (01:28:09):
Tough guy spit.

Speaker 6 (01:28:10):
Lots of people took his og tweet mentioning that fake
tough guy spit as a shot at Kendrick's disses towards Drake,
but he cleared that up right away, said he was
actually shading the fans. I'm just saying all y'all fans
who can't listen to J Cole without saying he's soft.
I do feel like we all forget though that Ja
Cole was actually in that Drake Kendrick beef and.

Speaker 2 (01:28:28):
Apologize the next day. But Drake is the one who
like at least Drake tried. Yeah, I mean fought a
good fight, right, Yeah, he tried his best.

Speaker 6 (01:28:36):
He tried, he tried.

Speaker 2 (01:28:37):
He did not win, but he tried his best.

Speaker 6 (01:28:39):
But no one's going at j Cole for saying, oh
my god, I'm so sorry, I don't want to be
in this rap.

Speaker 2 (01:28:43):
Beef and Jason, this one's for you and I.

Speaker 6 (01:28:45):
Sunday Night, Kelsey Ballerini played a show at Florida's Hard
Rock Live in Hollywood and called out fans in the
crowd for screaming a certain line in her smash hit Penhouse,
which you and I played that song to Helen.

Speaker 2 (01:28:57):
Back if you didn't know.

Speaker 6 (01:28:58):
Kelsey went through a very very public divorce from fellow
country singer Morgan Evans in twenty twenty two, and subsequently
released her Rolling Up the Welcome Matt EP, which is
an amazing EP if you have not listened to it.

Speaker 2 (01:29:09):
The song Penthouse details.

Speaker 6 (01:29:11):
A lot of their issues and her feelings on moving on,
and it quickly became a fan favorite. Fans especially love
screaming you got half and that whole line at her shows,
which like he took half of her money. But after
fans screamed that line that they've always been screaming on Sunday,
Kelsey got pissed. She stopped the song to tell fans
that they needed to move on. She told the crowd, guys,
we have to stop saying that. Seriously, we're three years

(01:29:32):
past it. Everything's fine now. I sing the song for
you now and it's not about me anymore. Please, all right,
for everyone that's moving forward with their life, will you
sing with me?

Speaker 2 (01:29:41):
Girl?

Speaker 6 (01:29:41):
Come on, you can't release that and then we're all
screaming it with you and now you're mad. It's giving
lyric right, like it's giving that. Maybe her boyfriend Chase
Stokes is like, I don't love this anymore, but.

Speaker 1 (01:29:52):
Well, how do you think anyone who dates Taylor Swift
feels when the song she's like about other men?

Speaker 6 (01:29:58):
So many artists is.

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
Like, yeah, I can't you know what. Travis calc is.

Speaker 6 (01:30:02):
A real one for that because obviously, like there's some
naughty songs, but I guess it was a time and
close your ears, maybe chase.

Speaker 1 (01:30:08):
But hop in my BJA and fly around the world
with you. I think I'll deal with it. Yeah, it'll
be okay.

Speaker 2 (01:30:13):
He shut in the hell up? He doesn't mind.

Speaker 6 (01:30:15):
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Speaker 11 (01:30:24):
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Speaker 1 (01:30:34):
Learn so much guys. So if you go in the
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and you spend a few minutes with your eyes closed,
and then you open them and you look around. You
would expect to see nothing, but actually you'll notice that
you're seeing a sort of gray shade. You ever done
this before? You actually kind of see like it's weird.

(01:30:56):
It's not actually pitch black. There's a word that color.
You want to know what it is?

Speaker 2 (01:31:02):
Yes, well, I happen to be able to tell you
grow eigen graw.

Speaker 9 (01:31:09):
But in English it's usually pronounced eigen growl the same way.

Speaker 1 (01:31:15):
Hold on, what's the difference.

Speaker 9 (01:31:18):
It's usually pronounced eigen growl Okay, iigen growl right here?

Speaker 17 (01:31:25):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:31:25):
Movie d was on how wait what?

Speaker 11 (01:31:27):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:31:27):
I want to hear the part where he says it
the same way and both.

Speaker 9 (01:31:29):
Plays eigen growl, but in English it's usually pronounced eigen growl.

Speaker 2 (01:31:40):
Good to know, but that's what it is.

Speaker 11 (01:31:42):
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The Fresh Show, like.

Speaker 1 (01:31:51):
Running in our tirees, except we say them loud. We
call them blogs.

Speaker 2 (01:31:55):
Kaylin, take it away, Thank you, dear blog.

Speaker 6 (01:31:58):
I just want to start out by giving a shout
out to anyone who has ever been a maid of
honor in their entire life, because whoa did I not
know what this job entailed and what it does entail.
I am in my maid of honor era for the
first time ever. I have been many a bridesmaid, but

(01:32:19):
never a maid of honor, and I am now right
now for my best friend Laurie, and it is like
it's another full time job. And right now we're just
working on the bachelorette, but like we need to figure
out stuff for the wedding as well, and I just
why is it your job? It's the maid of honor's job.

Speaker 1 (01:32:37):
Oh yes, yeah, you're a wedding planer.

Speaker 6 (01:32:39):
Now, girl a girl, and my best friend is a
doesn't really love a phone like she doesn't love being
responsive on a phone.

Speaker 1 (01:32:47):
Oh that's nice.

Speaker 6 (01:32:48):
She doesn't love a deadline. She doesn't love getting things done.
So we are you know, I'm I'm fighting for my
life a little bit. On top of that, the bride
didn't know where she wanted to go for her bachelorette weekend,
so that that took us a very long time to
land that plane. We have settled on a little.

Speaker 2 (01:33:06):
Town in Maine coastal Maine.

Speaker 1 (01:33:09):
Easy to get to, I'm sure easy to get to.
Let's go to a really far out place that requires
you know, many planes, trains and automobiles, horse and carriage
and bucky.

Speaker 2 (01:33:20):
Yeah, it's it's a time and those.

Speaker 1 (01:33:22):
Dogs in the winter that you have to use, you
got to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:33:25):
Yeah yeah, getting there?

Speaker 6 (01:33:27):
Yeah, that is ever getting there. I have never been
to Maine. I don't know anything about the East coast anything.
So now I could tell you like literally every city
on the ocean. I can tell you I know way
too much about Maine. But this whole weekend entails I mean,
there's like themed nights, there's reservations, there's a chef coming to.

Speaker 2 (01:33:46):
The house that I have to pick the menu for.
There are even the itinerary needs to have like a theme.

Speaker 1 (01:33:53):
Sounds affordable. Yeah, that's the difference between bachelorette and bachelor parties.
Like bachelor parties are like, Yo, We're gonna meet in
Vegas on Friday, I don't know, somewhere between noon and
ten pm, and I don't know. Maybe we'll get some
dinner and then see what happens, and the next day
we'll go to the pool. I guess maybe if you

(01:34:14):
wake up in time, and then we'll go to dinner
and then we'll leave. That's it. You guys, outfits we got,
you know, matching shirts and hats.

Speaker 2 (01:34:22):
Oh no, we're not, Yeah, we're not.

Speaker 1 (01:34:23):
We gotta you know, we gotta drag along the sister
that you know that no one knows, that doesn't fit
in with anybody else, you know what I mean. It's
in like green Peace and has to come home from
Africa to go right, you know what I mean? It
is all you can if you look at a bachelorette
party as I mean an outsider, you can see the
people who like knew each other, the core group, and

(01:34:44):
then the people who were required to be invited.

Speaker 6 (01:34:47):
Yeah, and being an empathetic person, I'm I'm having a
hard time.

Speaker 2 (01:34:52):
Like, I know everyone has different money situations.

Speaker 6 (01:34:54):
I know that everyone. You know, some people don't like
to share a room, some people can sleep to other
some people like So it's a lot for my little
emotional brain. But I'm proud of myself because I think
I'm accomplishing a lot. Like I don't I don't know
anything about Maine, but TikTok is the unsung hero, Like
I have found a really cool biker bar that has
like bras hanging from the ceiling. Like, but I'm a

(01:35:16):
I'm an event planner. I think, Yeah, it sounds and
it's hard because my my best friend I love her
so much, but she won't answer for like weeks at
a time on things that I need answers on. And
then I'll get like thirty tacks in a row and
I'll go, Okay, I have her attention. I need to
answer all these really quick.

Speaker 1 (01:35:34):
I'll tell you what though, if that's the way she is,
that she can't complain about anything that you choose to do,
and she won't. She won't.

Speaker 6 (01:35:39):
She's she's great about that, but I want to make
it special for her because she chose me over one
of her sisters. They're over her sister to be her
made of honest, So like, I'm taking it very seriously.
But yeah, no, if when I had colored hair, I
would pass another you know, pink hair, I would pass
someone else on the street and like we would do
ahead nod like yo, you know, or like the jeep wave.
I wish there was a way to know if someone
else has been a maid of honor.

Speaker 1 (01:36:01):
There was a handshake up from what I understand, Yeah,
I've been one.

Speaker 2 (01:36:03):
You have, Oh, yes, very rough.

Speaker 9 (01:36:05):
Oh.

Speaker 4 (01:36:06):
I would love to see if you're friends with the
rest of the bridal party by the time the wedding
gets here, because it's never the I mean, the bride
is her own thing. Yeah, you can take the bride
because that's your girl. But it's the other members of
the bridal party that are gonna make you upset. They're
going to test your limits.

Speaker 1 (01:36:21):
And there was drama. There was drama within my sister's
wedding party because several girls believed that they were they
should have been the maid of honor, and my sister
made the obvious choice. I mean, does she live with
this girl? They were in the same sorority, like they
I mean they were inseparable for years. But then there
were other girls that thought they should have been that
and they were. They were they they played nice, but

(01:36:42):
you could from what I understand, you could tell there
was a little division. Why does she get to be
the one?

Speaker 6 (01:36:47):
That's so funny when I don't get picked for these roles,
I'm like, thank.

Speaker 1 (01:36:50):
You, well you have the same now you know why,
Like I don't want this. I'll show up and I
I'll attend. I'll be supportive and I don't make me
play it.

Speaker 6 (01:36:58):
But it's an honor. Yeah, it's trussful making it seriously.
But for me, if I ever get married, you know,
I have mixed feelings. I am having a bachelor party.

Speaker 1 (01:37:06):
That's okay, that's what.

Speaker 6 (01:37:07):
I want more fit for that.

Speaker 13 (01:37:09):
Wait, that's what you want for your next wedding, the
next one? Yes, But for mine, I wanted it. I
mean I got knocked up, so I couldn't really do much.
But if I wanted just like a chill like nighty
on the town, We'll go to a couple of bars
on the ones that I frequent and call it a
night and get some good Chinese food after. Like I
was just so chill about it. I'm like, I don't
want to do the whole show and pony. I just
didn't the whole show and a pony show whatever scene

(01:37:30):
shout out to the max of honor.

Speaker 1 (01:37:32):
I don't know that. I guess I'm getting to a
stage in my life where my friends. I had this
conversation with someone not that long ago where it's like,
what are we gonna do if you get married? What
could we possibly do in a weekend that we haven't
already done? Like, what are we gonna do? Like we've
I've known you for twenty years, but it's like all
the Shenanigans we've done it Like that wouldn't there would

(01:37:55):
be nothing like surprising about any of that.

Speaker 2 (01:37:58):
I know, But it's just about spending time.

Speaker 1 (01:38:00):
But it's just so much easier for the guys. Yeah,
there's just no I mean, everything's easier for guys, but
there's just there's just none of this. There's none of this.
It's hey, are you coming cool? All?

Speaker 10 (01:38:09):
Know?

Speaker 1 (01:38:10):
This day? Show up?

Speaker 6 (01:38:11):
You mean there's not a chef and eight different people
have eight different diets. We got a dairy free, we
got a gluten free. I'm like, no, but she wants Italian.

Speaker 20 (01:38:19):
I'm like, I do that.

Speaker 17 (01:38:21):
No.

Speaker 1 (01:38:22):
The last what I went to, I'm like, what are
we doing? I guess we'll figure it out.

Speaker 11 (01:38:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:38:25):
We could do this, we could do that, and then
we'll just we'll just wake up and decide. That's exactly
what we did. We had one thing. We had a
boat for the day, and we went on a boat.
We had to do that. It was like, you know,
we had it booked eleven to six, and.

Speaker 12 (01:38:37):
It was that.

Speaker 1 (01:38:37):
That was it. Otherwise, I love men. I didn't even
go to half the stuff because I met a girl
on the bachelor party and I was busy.

Speaker 6 (01:38:45):
So is that the lady of the interesting lady?

Speaker 1 (01:38:49):
I don't remember. I don't know.

Speaker 11 (01:38:52):
We got it.

Speaker 18 (01:38:54):
A dancer at one point where was okay, there was
that too, okay, then a girl and ditch the crew.
See that would be like you would be kicked out
the wedding for doing something.

Speaker 1 (01:39:05):
They didn't care. They're all married. They wanted me to
do it. They're like, come back and tell us about it.
Oh my god. All these guys have been with the
same woman for ten years. They're like, oh, take pictures,
not of you, getting you out of them, but I
want to see her. They probably looking at ones with
me and they know this boy. They don't care. They're deprived.
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