February 27, 2025 • 7 mins
Angel is confused why her date won't call her back after they had a great night out... Find out why she got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Angel,
Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you I'm
doing Wow? How are you all doing? Great? Thank you
for asking. So it's waiting by the phone. We're trying
to figure out if you've been ghosted by this guy, Travis.
So we got to know all the backstory though, like
how did you meet? Tell us about any dates that
you've been on. Where things are now?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, Well, we met on a dating app and it
was actually a really good date, like things just felt
promising and really good. We went to dinner and we
were there for like three hours. I mean it was
like a long time for our first date. And now
(00:44):
he's ghosting me and I never thought i'd be on
waiting by the phone, but the situation is really bothering
me because I really like him.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I mean, that is a long date if it's a
date that wasn't going well, three hours to be out
with one that you don't want to be out with
is a long like if I'm not going to call
somebody again and I know that I'm probably not hanging
out with him for three hours night. So I can
see where you Yeah, I can see where you're coming
from here, and so you haven't heard from this guy
since today? You left thinking, Hey, this went really well.
(01:15):
It was a long date. I like the guy, good conversation,
the whole deal, but you haven't heard from him since No,
not a peek. Okay, well, we're gonna call this guy
Travis in just a second. You'll be on the phone
Angel at the same time, we're going to ask these
questions on your behalf. At some point you're welcome to
jump in, and the hope is always is that he's
got a good reason for not calling, and then we'll
set you guys up on in this case, a second
(01:36):
date and pay for it. All right, okay, cool, let's
find out what's going on in part too of waiting
Metaphone after Rose. In two minutes, we're back on the
Freend Show. Don't move Rose. The Fred Show is on
the radio and the iHeart app live and anytime search
for the Fred Show onto Man and you can make
us preset your number one preset on the iHeart app. Angel. Yeah,
all right, let's call this guy Travis. You guys man
(01:58):
on one of the apps, right and out on a
first date, A long first date, by the way, three
hours for a first date. That's usually a good sign,
except you haven't heard from the guy since the date.
He hasn't called or texted or set anything else up
or responded to you or whatever, and you want to
know why, right, All right, let's call him now. Good luck? Okay,
thank you? Hi? Is this Travis Travis? Good morning. My
(02:31):
name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the
morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with this call. Can which
that for just a second?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Yeah, I know the show.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's good. Yeah, oh, thank you. Well that's nice. That's
the show and it's good. Well I appreciate that. Yeah, no,
I saw, thank you. We rarely get complimented on this stuff,
but maybe you know what's going on. We're calling on
behalf of a woman named Angel, who I guess you
met on the apps and went out with. Yeah, okay,
I know. Well what happened because she called us and
(03:05):
said she liked you and that you had a three
hour day, which is usually a good sign, and then
she figured you'd call again for another one, and you haven't,
So what happened? It was honestly, it was a good day.
It was great. She is she's nice. But during the date,
she ran into some guy she knew, and when they
greet each other, they kissed on the lips and I
(03:26):
was like what the dude? I was like, what is
this right?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
It was just really odd and I was off and
I was like, you know, I don't go up to
my girlfriends and kiss them on the lips.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Was it was just like so weird to me. Dude,
So you're on a date with Angel, You're on this
date and the dude walks up. It's like, oh hey, Angel,
and she sits stands up and did she just lock
slip with the guy? It was so weird. I've never
seen anything like that before. I was like, dude, well,
why don't you go off with him? Did you say, oh, wait,
(04:01):
hold on, there's Angel. Angel's on the phone too, which
you probably knew, Travis. I want to get to that,
But Travis, did you say something like did you sit
back down? And You're like, well that was on obviously
strangely close to do.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I didn't really say anything else, like I'm just done
with this, check all right?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
And then you never called her again? Makes sense? Now, Angel,
what why are we kissing other men on the lips
while we're on a date? I mean, did you see
how that might be off putting to the person who
you're out with.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I mean maybe, but if they're secure, it shouldn't offend them.
We're friends, he has a relationship. I mean, he's in
a committed relationship. This is just how we greet each other.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Did you guys used to do more than that?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
No, We've always just been really good friends. I have
my best friend. I mean this is like a good friendship.
So no, we've never been more than just friends.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Trying to think if I have any female friends that
I kiss on the lips, or that I would kiss
on the lips on a date, or that would even
come up to me on a date unsolicited, I do
or feel that comfortable? Maybe maybe maybe I don't know.
Was the understanding of a saint? Right? Yes? Right? Yeah,
that's that's a good point. Like, what is this? Do
you do this in front of her too? Jason km here? No?
(05:17):
I icky girl? One female that I would kiss on
the lip? Work? Jason kme here. Yeah, I didn't say
nothing about you. Now wait a minute, but Angel does
the guy does your friend who you kiss on the mouth?
Does his girlfriend? Do you do this in front of
his girlfriend too?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Absolutely, we've done it before. I mean she's totally understanding
and we're just really close.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
No, that's a parent. Do you kiss all your male
friends on the lips? No? Just him, we're best friend.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I like family.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Do you kiss your uncle on the lip? Well?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
No, right girl?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, I mean Travis, I'm seeing your perspective here. Like
if I'm sitting there and some dude walks up and
my day kisses the man, you're not on the cheek
or even I don't, I guess I would have questions,
And in this case, you're like, I don't even I'm
not even gonna ask. I just don't. I'm just not interested.
It was over. After that, I was like, I'm done.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Yeah, that is a new one. I've not heard this
one before. And Angel, you're saying this is just normal.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yeah, I mean normal between us.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Yeah, okay, Well did you hear the pause after you
ask if anything else happened between them? I think she's
holding something there. There's something going on. Yeah, I'm gonna
I'll just revisit that one more time. Like you're saying
nothing romantic has ever happened. You just kiss on the mouth.
Oh no, girl, I'm not buying that one day neither. Yeah,
it's a strange thing to do. Did you tap on
(06:46):
the butt too, or like? Yeah, well yeah, no, it's normal.
Like she grabs him in the jrunkts that's normal. Like
that's a normal greeting. But it's her best, right, But
for them, that's just that's how they normally interact with
That's how friends come on. Yeah, okay, well that I
don't see a problem. Jason tries to greet me like
that every day and he's one of my closest friends. Right, yeah,
(07:08):
what's your thing? I've actually never done it back, and
I've asked for help before. But all right, look, Travis,
thank you for your time. I think I know the
answer about a second date. Angel. Hey, I like that
level of comfort. Good for you. I can see how
that might be an issue for some people, but for
(07:28):
you it works. So Angel, he's not interested, But okay, I.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Mean it is what it is. I mean, I'm not
going to stop doing what I've been doing, you know,
and we're not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
It's just a cad, right, I mean, don't stop showing
that level of affection to another man in front of
your romantic dates. That I got it, Angel. Good luck
to you, Travis, good luck to you as well. The
Entertainment Report with Kaitlin is up next in two minutes
and six hundred Bucks with Shelby Shelley. If you can
beat our pop culture expert in five questions, you win
in ten Fred Show
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Angel,
Good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you I'm
doing Wow? How are you all doing? Great? Thank you
for asking. So it's waiting by the phone. We're trying
to figure out if you've been ghosted by this guy, Travis.
So we got to know all the backstory though, like
how did you meet? Tell us about any dates that
you've been on. Where things are now?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, Well, we met on a dating app and it
was actually a really good date, like things just felt
promising and really good. We went to dinner and we
were there for like three hours. I mean it was
like a long time for our first date. And now
(00:44):
he's ghosting me and I never thought i'd be on
waiting by the phone, but the situation is really bothering
me because I really like him.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I mean, that is a long date if it's a
date that wasn't going well, three hours to be out
with one that you don't want to be out with
is a long like if I'm not going to call
somebody again and I know that I'm probably not hanging
out with him for three hours night. So I can
see where you Yeah, I can see where you're coming
from here, and so you haven't heard from this guy
since today? You left thinking, Hey, this went really well.
(01:15):
It was a long date. I like the guy, good conversation,
the whole deal, but you haven't heard from him since No,
not a peek. Okay, well, we're gonna call this guy
Travis in just a second. You'll be on the phone
Angel at the same time, we're going to ask these
questions on your behalf. At some point you're welcome to
jump in, and the hope is always is that he's
got a good reason for not calling, and then we'll
set you guys up on in this case, a second
(01:36):
date and pay for it. All right, okay, cool, let's
find out what's going on in part too of waiting
Metaphone after Rose. In two minutes, we're back on the
Freend Show. Don't move Rose. The Fred Show is on
the radio and the iHeart app live and anytime search
for the Fred Show onto Man and you can make
us preset your number one preset on the iHeart app. Angel. Yeah,
all right, let's call this guy Travis. You guys man
(01:58):
on one of the apps, right and out on a
first date, A long first date, by the way, three
hours for a first date. That's usually a good sign,
except you haven't heard from the guy since the date.
He hasn't called or texted or set anything else up
or responded to you or whatever, and you want to
know why, right, All right, let's call him now. Good luck? Okay,
thank you? Hi? Is this Travis Travis? Good morning. My
(02:31):
name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the
morning radio show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with this call. Can which
that for just a second?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Yeah, I know the show.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
It's good. Yeah, oh, thank you. Well that's nice. That's
the show and it's good. Well I appreciate that. Yeah, no,
I saw, thank you. We rarely get complimented on this stuff,
but maybe you know what's going on. We're calling on
behalf of a woman named Angel, who I guess you
met on the apps and went out with. Yeah, okay,
I know. Well what happened because she called us and
(03:05):
said she liked you and that you had a three
hour day, which is usually a good sign, and then
she figured you'd call again for another one, and you haven't,
So what happened? It was honestly, it was a good day.
It was great. She is she's nice. But during the date,
she ran into some guy she knew, and when they
greet each other, they kissed on the lips and I
(03:26):
was like what the dude? I was like, what is
this right?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
It was just really odd and I was off and
I was like, you know, I don't go up to
my girlfriends and kiss them on the lips.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Was it was just like so weird to me. Dude,
So you're on a date with Angel, You're on this
date and the dude walks up. It's like, oh hey, Angel,
and she sits stands up and did she just lock
slip with the guy? It was so weird. I've never
seen anything like that before. I was like, dude, well,
why don't you go off with him? Did you say, oh, wait,
(04:01):
hold on, there's Angel. Angel's on the phone too, which
you probably knew, Travis. I want to get to that,
But Travis, did you say something like did you sit
back down? And You're like, well that was on obviously
strangely close to do.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I didn't really say anything else, like I'm just done
with this, check all right?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
And then you never called her again? Makes sense? Now, Angel,
what why are we kissing other men on the lips
while we're on a date? I mean, did you see
how that might be off putting to the person who
you're out with.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I mean maybe, but if they're secure, it shouldn't offend them.
We're friends, he has a relationship. I mean, he's in
a committed relationship. This is just how we greet each other.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Did you guys used to do more than that?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
No, We've always just been really good friends. I have
my best friend. I mean this is like a good friendship.
So no, we've never been more than just friends.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Trying to think if I have any female friends that
I kiss on the lips, or that I would kiss
on the lips on a date, or that would even
come up to me on a date unsolicited, I do
or feel that comfortable? Maybe maybe maybe I don't know.
Was the understanding of a saint? Right? Yes? Right? Yeah,
that's that's a good point. Like, what is this? Do
you do this in front of her too? Jason km here? No?
(05:17):
I icky girl? One female that I would kiss on
the lip? Work? Jason kme here. Yeah, I didn't say
nothing about you. Now wait a minute, but Angel does
the guy does your friend who you kiss on the mouth?
Does his girlfriend? Do you do this in front of
his girlfriend too?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Absolutely, we've done it before. I mean she's totally understanding
and we're just really close.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
No, that's a parent. Do you kiss all your male
friends on the lips? No? Just him, we're best friend.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I like family.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Do you kiss your uncle on the lip? Well?
Speaker 2 (05:58):
No, right girl?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, I mean Travis, I'm seeing your perspective here. Like
if I'm sitting there and some dude walks up and
my day kisses the man, you're not on the cheek
or even I don't, I guess I would have questions,
And in this case, you're like, I don't even I'm
not even gonna ask. I just don't. I'm just not interested.
It was over. After that, I was like, I'm done.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
That's it.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Yeah, that is a new one. I've not heard this
one before. And Angel, you're saying this is just normal.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Yeah, I mean normal between us.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Yeah, okay, Well did you hear the pause after you
ask if anything else happened between them? I think she's
holding something there. There's something going on. Yeah, I'm gonna
I'll just revisit that one more time. Like you're saying
nothing romantic has ever happened. You just kiss on the mouth.
Oh no, girl, I'm not buying that one day neither. Yeah,
it's a strange thing to do. Did you tap on
(06:46):
the butt too, or like? Yeah, well yeah, no, it's normal.
Like she grabs him in the jrunkts that's normal. Like
that's a normal greeting. But it's her best, right, But
for them, that's just that's how they normally interact with
That's how friends come on. Yeah, okay, well that I
don't see a problem. Jason tries to greet me like
that every day and he's one of my closest friends. Right, yeah,
(07:08):
what's your thing? I've actually never done it back, and
I've asked for help before. But all right, look, Travis,
thank you for your time. I think I know the
answer about a second date. Angel. Hey, I like that
level of comfort. Good for you. I can see how
that might be an issue for some people, but for
(07:28):
you it works. So Angel, he's not interested, But okay, I.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
Mean it is what it is. I mean, I'm not
going to stop doing what I've been doing, you know,
and we're not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
It's just a cad, right, I mean, don't stop showing
that level of affection to another man in front of
your romantic dates. That I got it, Angel. Good luck
to you, Travis, good luck to you as well. The
Entertainment Report with Kaitlin is up next in two minutes
and six hundred Bucks with Shelby Shelley. If you can
beat our pop culture expert in five questions, you win
in ten Fred Show
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