FULL SHOW: 03/04/2025

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Speaker 1 (00:10):
It's Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years. This
is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in ten
years this was a science experiment. No, it's just like,
let's just mess with everything and see if they can
manage to get people to continue listening. Fred's show is on. No,
I think that's what it is. I think that's what
it is. It's Radio Survivor. Guys, morning, everybody. Welcome to

(00:31):
the latest edition of Radio Survivors, Tuesday, March forward. The
Fred Show is not Hi Kailin, good morning. Hi Jason Brown,
Hi Paulina, Hi Kiki, good morning. And you know, I
want to say show Biz Shelley. I wonder how long
it's going to be until she has her baby. I
wonder how long it's gonna be until I stopped trying
to say Showbiz Shelley. But she's on maternity to leave
Kiki filling in for show Bis Shelley. Today. The number

(00:53):
one is yesterday and and you won. You are one
and oh in the game, Yes I Am, which means
one hundred and fifty bucks is the price a day.
We'll see if it's if it's you who wins the money,
whoa I was thinking last night, because that's what I do.
I shod thinking about the show all the time. I
think about all of you every moment of every day.
But what would it be like if Kiki went undefeated?

(01:17):
I know, she wins one game and now I'm like
undefeated in the show with Shelley showdown me too.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
That's how I was thinking last night too, Like what
would it be like? You know, what would you buy me?

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Well? Yeah, I buy you?

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Can we give her the money if she goes undefeated?
Can can Kiki have the money? It? Don't worry like that.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
I'll splity with you.

Speaker 1 (01:39):
I think I greeted that there's no way. There's no
way she goes undefeated.

Speaker 4 (01:43):
What do you mean there's no way?

Speaker 1 (01:45):
See how much money would that be? Approximate? Let me see.
I'm gonna do some math right now. I'm a calculator.
I'm a t I eighty two calculator. We don't know
what that is. If you don't know what a t
I AD two is, then I'm sorry. I can't hang
out with you upside.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
Down and the boobs.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Yeah, so basically, three thousand bucks if you were if
you were to play sixty times, come on and I'm
estivating because you know she's out for Shelley's out for
three months, so that's approximately sixty shows ish or games
ish well, right, so then one hundred bucks, and then
so fit one hundred and then fifty nine times, so

(02:22):
around three thousand, it'd be three thousand dollars. I say,
if you go undefeated, we give you three thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Oh, I think we should, kayln listen, I'll send you
the questions.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
If you split it with me, I'll send you.

Speaker 5 (02:34):
The question Hold on heart, Okay, I'm going to sign you.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
Let me say cheat. No, we can't shoot and do that.
Don't say that.

Speaker 4 (02:44):
There no my bar. You're talking about this on the air,
breaking off a piece.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
I like it. Well, we know it'll be taxed and whatever,
so by the time you see it'll be you know,
twenty five dollars. But still anything, he bro I'm down
for this. If you if you go undefeated, if you
don't lose one time, then you can have the money.
I feel because there's no way. There's no way.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Well I'm not losing.

Speaker 2 (03:06):
Yeah, so let's go. Let's hurry up and get to
the game, because I'm not doing it. I'm not lose it.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
I'm gonna text the boss right now. See you begin,
because I think that makes it way more exciting. Yes,
and there's an end, you know, there's like a defined end.
When shovich Shelley comes back, then it's over. So it's
not like, you know, we can't do the same thing
for Shelley, because I mean, she could rack that thing
up to like ten grand and then well, but here's
the thing. We're gonna have to spend the money either
way because someone you know, people are gonna lose. You're
gonna lose or whatever. You either either you lose and

(03:34):
we pay the money out or you or you win
every time and then we give you the money because
it doesn't go to Shelley because then Shelley goes back
to the score from this is what we're doing.

Speaker 4 (03:43):
What you're thinking, man, I think.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
For me, this is way more exciting. So that's what
we're gonna do. I just decided that, thank you, our
biggest stories of the day, we'll get to those. The
entertainmer ofport and blogs this hour this morning, some group
therapy and stare Go waiting by the phone, of course,
Kiki Showby's Kiki One hundred and fifty bucks is the prize.
In the show down, what are you working on? Kieva
deports so.

Speaker 6 (04:05):
The actress that changed her entire appearance to look like
Britney Spears, only for Brittany to be like, m I
don't think you could play me. Also, my heart is
with our sweet Dolly Parton today. I just I love
her and I want to hug her.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
I'm said for her too. Yeah, I'm said for her
too sixty years. But we'll do the story in a
little bit. Kiki's going to my hometown this weekend. You're
going to Scottsdale, Arizona. Do you know where you're aren't you?
Is it this weekend?

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Phoenix?

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, well, same thing.

Speaker 4 (04:31):
We're close to each other.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
I don't know, all right, Yeah, maybe take my word
for it since I grew up there. But anyway, I
look for you. You're like, You're like, no, I'm not.
I'm going to Phoenix, Okay, whatever You're going to here.
Like like most cities, it's uh, it's kind of like
they all kind of blend together. Okay, yet Phoenix, Scottsdale, Masa, Glendale.
I can go on and on, but they there, it's

(04:54):
all kind of like one big, big thing that separate
kind of like Chicago, kind of like a lot of places,
kind of all this one big thing. There's not a
whole lot of separation. Like you could drive down one road,
if you drove down to Scottsdale Road, you could go
from Fountain basically from Fountain Hills Cave Creek all the
way to like, I don't even know where, Tossin Grande,
and you wouldn't necessarily even though you left one town
and went to the other.

Speaker 4 (05:14):
Oh's and a spring training going on there too.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Yeah, it is my.

Speaker 4 (05:19):
In laws, all the baseball players and all the grown girls. Okay,
not me like licking my lips.

Speaker 7 (05:26):
Excuse me?

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Can you me relax?

Speaker 4 (05:29):
I don't know why I just did that to her.
I took my tongue and I lifted my lips.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Well, hey, listen, remember Kiki's going to Phoenix, so you
know she won't see them, right if it's in one
of the neighboring cities. She did have no idea, So
you're going. Do you know where you're staying in Phoena?
I don't have say exactly, because we have psychos that listen,
some psychos that listen, but we have a couple of psychos.
I shouldn't say that of the thirteen, we might have
a psycho that listens. So generally speaking, where are you staying,

(05:54):
like in a big hotel or any airbnb, or what
are you doing?

Speaker 2 (05:56):
We're doing an airbnb with a pool in the backyard, yes, okay?

Speaker 1 (06:01):
And what kind of activities you have planned? Because you
wrote today that you wanted me to tell you where
to go when you go to my hometown Ish for
this trip. But here's the problem. I don't know if
anyone else is like this who doesn't live where they
grew up. But people ask me all the time, like
because they go to Scottsdale in the spring in the
winter time because it's warm there, and hey, what do

(06:22):
I do? Where do I eat? I have no idea.
I don't know, no idea. I haven't lived there in
well over twenty years full time. And when I go back,
I hang out with my parents and my friends. I
don't really even go much further than like my neighborhood.
So I honestly, I have no idea where to tell
you to go. But what do you have planned for
this thing?

Speaker 2 (06:39):
So we're doing like a brunch one day. We're doing
a day at some like indoor adult water park, which
is like a They also have a spa.

Speaker 1 (06:48):
There and an indoor is that like headonism? Water park
is like ever is everyone naked at this thing?

Speaker 8 (06:53):
Like?

Speaker 1 (06:54):
What is it? An indoor adult water bark?

Speaker 9 (06:56):
Ope?

Speaker 2 (06:56):
So I don't know, but it's like they have cabana,
they have bar, you know, bring you drinks.

Speaker 4 (07:03):
It sounds like a resort, but inside.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
A beach club.

Speaker 4 (07:05):
Yeah. Yeah, so we'll do a day there just I
think water park.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
I think like a gigantic water slide and just naked grownups,
which would be sort of a weird thing.

Speaker 4 (07:15):
Now why do you hang out?

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Well, you set an adult water park. I mean if
it's adult, if you have to put the word adult
in front of water park, then I feel like we're
specifying that whatever's going on kids shouldn't see.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
Because I'm trying to make I'm trying to get you
the like the picture a bunch of women by a
pool with drinks in a cabana with a water slide.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
There. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
Okay, you're going to like, yeah, you're going to a
day club. Yes, Sky Island Bungalow oh wait.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Okay, because in my mind I had like, it's a
lazy river there great will floedge for grown ups, like
where you're like naked at the bottom of the slide
and the next guy that comes down like you guys
gotta make out of it. I don't know, maybe this
is just my fantasy, but you're saying adult water park,
and immediately I'm going to, you know, the kind of
place in our friendly on Rodgers hangs out where everyone's

(08:05):
just walking around naked all the time.

Speaker 5 (08:06):
No, we will have on swimsuits just like kids aren't allowed.
But yeah, because it's a bar, you go just raight
to naked, Like, I don't forget you.

Speaker 4 (08:14):
This looks nice.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
I like my version of it. Then I like the
Kiki's going to an adult naked pory water park this weekend.
That's what I like.

Speaker 4 (08:22):
Are you on the slide, this huge slide? You know
I'm not I'm too strong, all right, So you're doing that?

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Are you hanging out with my mom? Because nothing would
surprise me more than if you went to Arizona and
then you wind up meeting up with mom of Fred
and you know, moving in on my inheritance.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
I know, I can't tell you because you will try
to fly there. No, I can't tell you.

Speaker 1 (08:42):
Why would I try to think I would try to intervene.
She couldn't hang out with my mom.

Speaker 4 (08:45):
Yes, you would.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
You talked to my mom probably more than I do.

Speaker 4 (08:48):
You would try to get in the middle of our date.
And we can't have that.

Speaker 1 (08:52):
Don't take my mom to be adult naked porny website,
water slide, wherever you're going.

Speaker 4 (08:57):
Oh, she didn't want to set it up.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Set it up with me. She's a regular.

Speaker 10 (09:03):
Here's my name at the door, she said, right, Oh
my god.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Have you ever have you ever found out something like
that about your parents? Have any of you were I'm
just curious eight five five five three five Have you
ever found out that, like your parents, who you believe
to be unassuming whatever, you're you're grown up now, you're
not in the house anymore, and you find out that
like they go on vacation to one of those hedonism places,
or they go to like a swinger's place, or I'm

(09:31):
not even trying to be like, well, yeah, there's a place.
There's a place in Illinois called the Ciberis, which is
a hotel that is exactly what I'm imagining Kiki's going
to except hers has water slides, and then again I
think this one does too. Actually, but essentially it's a
hotel where the rooms are. It's set up to go
do that. It's set up to go that. That's the

(09:54):
persons like hot tub in the room and likes the
ceilings and whatever, like if the cibberis it's intended for
you to go just do grown up stuff. That's you
don't go there, like that's not the place you stay
on a road trip when you're on your way to
you know, Tuscaloosa or whatever. Like you you don't just
pull over there, you know, for a nice rest, like
you're going there to have an affair. You're going there

(10:17):
to do something crazy. It turns out Jason's parents used
to hang out there when he was growing up, and
they had no idea.

Speaker 10 (10:21):
Frequent flyers or he had no idea he had the
Rewards Club card.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
I feel like your dad, Kalin, would be did your
parents should divorce? You have your stepdad and then you
have your dad. I feel like the way that you
describe your dad, he'd be the kind of guy that
you would find out, you know, goes to one of these,
like I don't know, has some sort of risque hobby
or something.

Speaker 4 (10:40):
Oh, I mean my dad.

Speaker 6 (10:41):
I can remember my dad going to raves, Like my
dad is a partier he was rather so Yeah, I mean,
I definitely believe that, and he spares no detail.

Speaker 4 (10:50):
So I do know about it. Unfortunately I didn't have
to find out from anyone else.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
I'm pretty sure that this person did. Pretty sure this
person did not mean what they just texted. It surprises
me to hear that Fred says an adult porn naked
water park would be his fantasy, considering how homophobic he is.
Oh but the but the next sentence is, imagine the
nastiness I'm assuming you met germophobic? Oh my god, because

(11:19):
I'm very much not homophobic. So again, I wouldn't nothing
nothing on the text line, which surprised me these days,
except the next line says, can you imagine the nastiness?
I mean, I assume you mean, I assume you mean germophobic.
Let's go with that. Yeah, because I am not the
ladder or the former, I am the ladder, so I assume. Yeah,

(11:39):
And honestly, it is not in fact my fantasy, and no,
I would not go there. Because of the germs, because
imagine if you went to a place where that's all
that they that's what it's intended to be, and that's
all they do there, you know, then I mean hotels
are like that anyway. But if you went to a
hotel that's specialized in just being nasty, then yeah, you
can assume there's DNA everywhere. Oh so anyway, okay, So

(12:01):
I was just curious if anybody knew of any sort
of like, oh wait, we do Oh hold on a second, Lizzie, Hey, Lizzie,
good morning, Good morning, Lizzie. So I was just curious
if you since we're talking about where Kiki's going this weekend,
which is a quote unquote adult water park. I still
don't know what that means. But did you have and
then Jason's parents went to like, you know, the Freaky hotel.

(12:23):
Did your parents ever did you find out that your
parents are into something that you're like? What on earth?

Speaker 11 (12:29):
So my parents are the epitome of old people. Couple,
there's seventy four. They met at the Playboy Club in Chicago.

Speaker 1 (12:39):
Oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 11 (12:42):
And apparently there was a hot talb that's where they
met and then they were engaged on their second dates,
and my dad brought a ring to the second date.

Speaker 1 (12:50):
Wow. Wow, Wow. So they used to have these things
all over the country. My dad, my dad was a
I guess you got you were like a key member
or something, and you got a key, and the key
got you into these places all over the country. So
my dad had a membership to one of these, like
in the seventies, and so you'd go to you know,
big cities, and they would have these Playboy clubs, right exactly,
And so I guess you'd go there and it was

(13:11):
like a bar and a hangout. Wasn't necessarily sillacious. But yeah,
so your parents met at the Playboy Club and then
look at you. How long did it take to for
them to make you? Sound like they didn't waste much time.

Speaker 11 (13:24):
I actually am adopted, So twenty years later they adopted me,
and now they've been married for forty five years.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
Wow. Okay, so romance starts at the at the Playboy Club.

Speaker 4 (13:34):
Obviously, Yeah, boy club, we got it out.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
I love that, Lizzie. All right, Well I'll meet you there,
have a good day. Well, Kicky'll be there before me.
But anyways, I hate the same story. Debbie. I mean,
that's love, by the way, that's I mean. When I
think of like Cinderella stories, I think of just the
ones she just told Hey, Debbie, hey, hey, good morning.
Did you what did you find out about your parents

(13:57):
or or people who were important to you later in
life and you were away?

Speaker 12 (14:00):
It was it was kind of my daughter finding out
about me. I went to an adult's only clothing optional
resorts with a male friend of mine and my daughter
was about nineteen twenty, and she had called me while
I was there and asked me how it was going,
and I said, it was really.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
Nice of it.

Speaker 11 (14:20):
And then I slipped up because.

Speaker 12 (14:23):
She was really into tattoos, and I mentioned that there
was a guy there, so, yeah, you wouldn't believe it.

Speaker 11 (14:28):
There's this guy here and.

Speaker 12 (14:29):
He's literally got tattoos everywhere, even you know, down there.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
And she's like, wait a minute, what didn't.

Speaker 11 (14:36):
Know the place they nat And I was like, well, yeah.

Speaker 12 (14:43):
You know, never mind, So yeah, it was. It was
a little awkward, but.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Wow, that's that guy. Must have been a good friend,
a good friend of yours.

Speaker 12 (14:51):
He was a very well, yeah, my friend was a
very good friend. He got me there by telling me
when I said I wasn't sure I could go to
a place and be naked in public. He said, well,
it's not like you're going to be naked in Walmart.

Speaker 7 (15:04):
You know.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
He was right.

Speaker 7 (15:06):
It's a different one is Now?

Speaker 1 (15:08):
Were you guys? Now when you you use the term
friend loosely, I mean in this case, I'm assuming or
do you? Were you actually friends with this guy? And
he was like, hey, Debbie, what are you doing this weekend?
We should go to a naked adult resort together. And
then all of a sudden you realize, oh, we're more
than friends.

Speaker 12 (15:23):
I guess, well, no, we were, you know, kind of
friends with benefits.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
You know, he's my fun friend.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
Hey, everybody needs a fun friend. Yeah, but plus, of
course you're married or in a relationship. But anyway, hey Debbie,
thank you. I have a great day. One of my
favorite parts about doing this show is it doesn't matter
what we're talking about. I can, for the most part's sake,
call now and somebody can somebody can tell us something
about something, And it turns out we got a bunch
of freaky people out there listening to us. It makes

(15:54):
me wonder how much stuff our parents have done that
we don't know about that. I'm good unknowing, like Paulina.
You know, I love Mama Marta deeply, but I can
see it. I can see a world where Mama Marta
may have gone to a place like this and you
never knew about it.

Speaker 13 (16:10):
She still might be you guys, Like she tells me
all the time, I am living my best life right
now in my fifties.

Speaker 4 (16:16):
Divorce like doing my thing.

Speaker 13 (16:17):
You know, I got my little granddaughter, Like she's really
living her best life.

Speaker 4 (16:21):
And she goes missing on weekends. You guys know that. Yeah,
I don't know where she goes sometimes, So she just
might be Marta. Ohio.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
Do you think she has a boyfriend she won't tell
you about? And if she does, why wouldn't she tell you?

Speaker 4 (16:32):
So Marta.

Speaker 13 (16:33):
One thing about Marta that I knew before children, so
BC before kids or be yeah, before children. She used
to get it like that, like she had these men
running circles around her. That's what my aunt literally told me.
They're like, yeah, she was that girl obviously, so and
she should be. So I feel like she's bringing that back.
So I don't think she would have a serious relationship
like a boyfriend, but she probably got a couple guys
in rotation, a couple of good morning texts.

Speaker 1 (16:56):
Wow, she got a couple good morning texts.

Speaker 4 (16:59):
I wouldn't be surprised.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
I would.

Speaker 4 (17:01):
Yeah, should I get married again?

Speaker 13 (17:03):
She's a smart woman, like, she's like I would, did it?

Speaker 1 (17:06):
Well? I'm gonna tell my mom not to hang out
with you this weekend, Kiki, because I don't necessarily need
to know if you guys are going to the adult
water park together. It's really none of my business.

Speaker 4 (17:14):
Is not your business?

Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah? Yeah, okay, let's do the biggest stories of the
day in the Entertainment report. Next, it's the Fread Show.

Speaker 14 (17:20):
The Freads Show is on Friend's Biggest Stories.

Speaker 1 (17:24):
Of the Day. By the way, the texture did mean germophobic,
Jesus confusing talk to text while driving at a stop flight. Sorry,
I was like, wait a minute, now, hold on a minute.
I'm a lot of things, but I'm not fat. But
then again, nothing on the text surprises me anymore. But
then it was this. It was the last sentence that
qualified it for me. Can you imagine the nastiness? No,

(17:47):
I think I would have a problem at a place
like that, because I just think, I you know, when
you know what everyone's doing there. How could you possibly
keep that clean? I don't know how could you?

Speaker 4 (17:57):
But you're okay with a hotel room. You can let
go to hotel, but not a naked water park.

Speaker 1 (18:01):
Well yeah, because I feel like, for whatever reason, I've
just programmed myself to just let go in the hotel
room because where else are you going to stay? You
know what I mean? Like I don't have to go
to a a nasty water park like Kiki. I don't
have to do that, but I have to, say, in
a hotel, And so I just figure, you know, it
is what it is. But yeah, if you don't don't

(18:24):
make me think too much about it. It's I don't want
to think too much about the top stories at the day.
More than fifty five million people across the central and
southern US are at risk of severe weather today as
a violent storm sweeps across the country. In New Orleans,
officials rushed to reschedule Marti Gras events and shortened parade
routes to avoid ferocious winds. According to the AP, forecasts

(18:46):
show the storm will intensify as it moves east in
the hours ahead, threatening the lower Mississippi River valley with
strong tornadoes. That'd be bad if you were at Marty
Grau and it was too windy. But then again, most people,
you know, take their shirt off anyway, so I just
wouldn't want to get slapped in a face with it
with beads or something. Just under eighteen point one million
people turned in or tuned in rather to ABC's telecasts

(19:07):
of the ninety seventh Academy Awards, a seven percent decreased
from decreased rather from last year's broadcast. Guys, I think
this is it. The Powerball and Mega Million's jackpots have risen.
America's two biggest lottery games are soaring. There was no
grand prize winner in last night's Powerball drawing, pushing that
jack pop to two hundred ninety five million dollars ahead
of the next drawing tomorrow. Ahead of that, there'll be

(19:30):
another chance to strike it rich with Mega Millions. Tonight's
drawing stands at two hundred and fifteen million dollars with
a cash option just shy of one hundred and one
million bucks. I don't want to be greedy. I can
live on that. I can make it work, you know.
I mean, the billion dollars would have been nicer but
I can figure out the problem is one hundred and one.

(19:50):
We've done all the math on this a million times,
but one hundred and one million winds up being like
forty million after it's all said and done, because they
take so much, you know, in tax and then whatever
else you get tax, I think twice on it. So
but still I think I could make for the rest
of my life when I have left, you know, a
good probably fifteen twenty years. I could make the forty
million work. Oh yes, Oh, you know, I'm only planning.

(20:12):
I'm only planning to get to like the mid sixties.

Speaker 4 (20:15):
Yeah, wait, hold on, what ye.

Speaker 1 (20:16):
I'm only planning to get to the mid to late
maybe midle sixties, maybe seventy at best. And then if
I run out of money, then I guess I'll I
don't know what I'll do, but I'll figure something out.
But yeah, no, I could live on that forty million bucks.
Invest you know, invest some of it, you know, put
in the stock one never mind, I don't know what
the hell I'm talking about, you know, put in the

(20:39):
stock market, flip it, reverse it, you know. I don't
know what I would do, but yeah, I think I
can make that work. Tattoos. How many people with tattoos?
Kiki has tattoo a tattoo? Who else in the room
has tattooed? Okay, okay, So I'm worried about you guys,
because using data from they said twin pairs, researchers have

(21:01):
found signs that tattoo inc may increase the risk of
skin and lymphoma cancers. It's because tattoo ink accumulates in
the lymph nodes, which are a crucial part of the
immune system, helping to fight infections and filter harmful substances
from the body. The researchers are really concerned the tattoo
ink may trigger chronic inflammation in the lymph nodes, which

(21:24):
over time could lead to abnormal cell growth and an
increased risk of cancer. I'm assuming this is are people
who have a lot of tattoos, like the woman that
who saw the guy at the naked place that just
call in a minute ago, that's got you know, he's
run out of places, so now he's got tattoos on
his you know, nether region. But yeah, I would I
would have guessed it would require a lot of ink

(21:45):
to get caught up in there. But I'm worried about you.
I know that came when you were thinking about extending
the tattoos like to the neck and face area, and
I just I'm worried about you doing that.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
That's okay.

Speaker 6 (21:56):
I've peed in a frat bathroom, so I have a
great immune system.

Speaker 4 (21:59):
I'm good. Yeah, worry about it, you know what.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
Forget about what I said about living a seventy I
lived in a frat house.

Speaker 4 (22:05):
You're good.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Oh, I'm solid, man, I'll probably live to be two hundred.
Give me some tattoos, man, let's do it. And I
respect people who enjoy tattoos and have them. I just
I think there are certain areas where I wonder, like
the neck area. I mean, that's gotta hurt, like a
tattoo on your throat, like right there. Actually, well, I

(22:28):
just I would think that'd be extremely painful.

Speaker 4 (22:30):
But then you're like, ooh, he can like handle that pain.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
It has to be paid for. I have one right
behind my ear and it was the worst. Yeah, it's
just bone there. It was terrible.

Speaker 4 (22:39):
Oh wow, I see a music note, Thank you.

Speaker 1 (22:43):
I saw it. Dude getting a tattoo one time. My
cousin is a tattoo artist. I guess he's he's one
of those people that I call a cousin, even though
we're not related at all. You have any of those, well, yeah,
my dad's best friends. I guess it's I guess it's
my dad's cousin's kid. I don't even really know, so
I guess we're related somehow, way way down the line,
except that I was adopted, so we're pretending. But this

(23:06):
dude's a tattoo artists, and I went there to Brooklyn
where he was doing tattoos at the time, and a
guy was getting he was finishing like a piece on
his back and it took weeks and weeks and weeks.
Every Saturday he would come in and the dude was
crying like he's a big guy, very strong like big dude,
and there were tears streaming down his face as they
did parts of his back. Oh, because I guess it

(23:27):
was that painful, which makes me wonder, why is that
worth it right if it hurts that much? But I'm
not sure. Chipotlet fans are very upset because apparently now
they are weighing the meat in front of you before
they put it in your burrito or your bowl. No
more of this like scoop and maybe you know a
little extra no no, no, now, I guess we're weighing it,

(23:51):
which I understand why people don't love that, because it
feels like you're being I guess nickeled and dimed in
some ways. But a lot of places do this. A
lot of places weigh the meat or the protein or
whatever it is before they give it to you. I'm
trying to think of another example, but it's not uncommon.
If you go to like a barbecue restaurant, I think
they usually weigh it. If you go to a lot
of other places, you know, if you go to Whole

(24:11):
Foods and you get stuff off the salad bar or whatever,
they weigh that, and the more it weighs, the more
it costs. So I guess I don't really know. It
feels kind of cheap, But at the same time, I
don't think it's uncommon. A lot of places have preportion
stuff that they wait out ahead of time, so I mean,
but they have an actual scale in this example, and
it's on little Chipotle bar, and they like put your

(24:33):
bowl on the thing and then they pour it in
there until it's got the right number, and then they
move on.

Speaker 4 (24:37):
Oh that's ridiculous.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
I mean, but I think a lot of people do it.
Why you mad?

Speaker 2 (24:41):
I would rather them just pre portion it because you
not like it. Already takes a long time to get
through a Chipotle line because you you always got somebody
who doesn't know what they want and five different boats
for ten years. Yeah, so can you imagine now every
time I want to scoop of this, now you gotta
weigh they put it on there like just pretty contry.

Speaker 4 (24:59):
One piece to bring a Graham down or whatever.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
Like I don't have.

Speaker 4 (25:02):
Time for this.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
I would like to know who at this point in
America doesn't know how to order at Chipotle, Like I
feel like, you know, it's the same thing as not
knowing what your order at McDonald's is. I'm like, come on, guys,
like this we've been if you've been living here for
a year or two years, you've been you got to
know these things, like this is the kind of stuff.
This is survival. You know. It's like you gotta know.
You gotta know what you're how to order at Chipotle.

(25:25):
You gotta know what your order at McDonald's is. I mean,
who's going into McDonald's and going man, I don't know.
You know, you're standing there staring at your menu.

Speaker 4 (25:32):
When you're inside.

Speaker 2 (25:33):
I feel like people judge off of how the meat
looks currently, right, So if you see that the steak
looks a little bit more fresher than the chicken, and
you're like, okay, you know what, I'll just have the
steak today. Or if the rice is like, you're not
as fresh as the other rice, you want to switch
it the beans.

Speaker 4 (25:47):
I'm like, lady, please just come on.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
That's a good point. Oh yeah, Like if they just
made the steak or the chicken and they're pouring it
in there right now, or they're replacing the thing, I
might be more likely to get that. That's good point.
But I still we're not standing there scratching our you know,
chin going man, I don't know, veggies or tofu. Maybe
today it's gonna be the carnitas. Man, I don't really know.

(26:12):
And then you just take it forever. I don't that's unacceptable.

Speaker 10 (26:14):
Yeah, Or when they have like five things that they're
like ordering five different bowls for five different people, reading
out the phone, like there's an app you pre order it,
so you're not doing this.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
We live in a society we live in a society,
and yeah, now's not the time. The other day, I
was some place I was at, like a sandwich place,
and the person in front of me, right in front
of me. Now, granted the order was already in progress,
so I really couldn't complain, but she was ordering seven sandwiches,
so like it was her job to go get the
sandwiches for the office or whatever. Now again, if if
we had walked in at the same time and that

(26:49):
woman had been like, okay, have seven sandwich order, No,
what you do is you say to the guy, hey,
is it just you, and you go yeah, just me,
You go right ahead because you only have one sandwich,
so you just take a no. So I didn't really
complain because again we were like mid order, but I
had to stand there while they made seven sandwiches for
this lady and I just needed one, just one little sandwich.

(27:10):
But we live in a society, people, and you need
to know what you're doing at the Chipotle line before
you get in the Chipotle line. And did we do
the story yesterday Calein did you do the story about
the little boy who called nine one one for the donuts?

Speaker 4 (27:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (27:21):
Oh you did that.

Speaker 4 (27:22):
Yeah, But you can do it again because it's you.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
I'm not going to do it, you know. If you
want to hear that one, go to the iHeart appened
and Calin did an excellent job apparently with that story.
And I don't remember it's National Sun'sday, it's Fat Tuesday,
it's oh, I always mess this up.

Speaker 4 (27:37):
Potch potcheki.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
Yes, I've only been saying this. It's a it's a
Polish thing, right, it means a European thing. I've only
been saying this for fourteen years and when I learned
what it was. But it's like a like a dumpling
filled with kind of anything, right, sweet savory doesn't matter.

Speaker 13 (27:53):
Yeah, like a doughnut, like filled with just jelly or
scream cheese, whatever you want.

Speaker 4 (27:57):
So I will be having a lot of those today.

Speaker 1 (27:59):
But it's spelled p A c z K I yes,
so so it's punchke.

Speaker 4 (28:04):
Polish people love the letter Z like we we just
it's like they have us in a choke hold with
the letter Z.

Speaker 13 (28:09):
So anything when you see that, it'd be like you
sound like a so like the c Z makes like
a chim yep, yep, love it yep, punch ke say
punch punch.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
K Well, then what does the A do?

Speaker 13 (28:21):
So the A technically like kind of like in Spanish,
you know how there's an accent across letters like A.
So we have an accent that would make the A
it's like at the very bottom and make it a
little a little upside down. What is it like a
question mark?

Speaker 4 (28:33):
Almost? And that A turns into oh so punch.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
K okay, Wow, that was quite the education. Thank you.
I appreciate them. I'm a few days behind him. I
do a leap on that. So sorry. Yeah, I've decided
to be fluent and polish because I think that's going
to come in really handy. Uh well, it actually kind
of would in Chicago. But day National Huga gee I
Day and National Pancake Day today as well. The entertainment report.

(28:56):
Kalin has that next we'll get some blogs, our audio
journals and stay go some group therapy on the show.
In about twenty minutes, Fred show Gaylin's.

Speaker 14 (29:05):
Entertainment Report, and he's on the fread show Man.

Speaker 4 (29:08):
This spuned me out so much. Yesterday.

Speaker 6 (29:10):
Dolly Parton's husband Carl Dean, has passed away at the
age of eighty two, after nearly sixty years of marriage.
And for those who don't know, Dolly actually met Dean
the day she moved to Nashville at eighteen years old.

Speaker 4 (29:24):
Last thing I want is a boyfriend.

Speaker 15 (29:26):
I got it, you know, because I'm leaving two boyfriends
here and I kept saying, no, I'm going to Nashville.
And the very day I got to Nashville, I met Carldean.
And sixty years later, I'm still with Carl ding. You know,
he's quiet and I'm loud. We're funny. Oh, he's hilarious,
and I think one of the things that's made it
last so long through the years. We love each other,
we respect each other, but we have a lot of
fun and we never fought back and forth.

Speaker 16 (29:47):
What do you think was the most important but sometimes
overlooked aspect of you and Carl's relationship.

Speaker 15 (29:53):
Well, he was a homebody and that worked well for us.
He left go places if we were going to drive
across country or go where if we had planned a thing.
But boy, he never could wait to get home. He
doesn't even like to go out to the big dinners
or anything like that. So we even own anniversaries and
stuff like that, we usually stay home, make something special

(30:14):
or go to McDonald's to go somewhere. We want to
go to this comfortable yea, we will go to Mexican restaurants.
He does sitting in a booth and do that. He
loves that. You know, we'll go sit in a booth,
like if it's an anniversary or just sometimes on a Saturday,
we're just going. We know where to go when before
the crowd comes. He doesn't like big crowds. He's just
special to me and I just love him like he is.

Speaker 6 (30:34):
Oh, I believe that was Jelly Roll his wife Bunny
talking by the way, if I could recognize the voice.

Speaker 4 (30:39):
But a lot of people didn't know she was married.

Speaker 6 (30:42):
And I love that for her because she was always
out and about and like she said, he was very
opposite of her, and it worked so much for them.
The pair got married two years later after they met,
when she was eighteen.

Speaker 4 (30:50):
The rest was history, of course.

Speaker 6 (30:52):
She also once said that she was surprised and delighted
while he was talking to her that he was looking
at her face instead.

Speaker 4 (30:57):
Of her yallows, it's hard.

Speaker 1 (31:00):
That would be hard to do with that woman right away,
and there's a lot going on there.

Speaker 6 (31:03):
But yeah, and she said he seemed really interested in
finding out who I was and what I was about.
In a statement yesterday, she said, Carl and I spent
many wonderful years together. Words can't do justice to the
love we shared over sixty years.

Speaker 4 (31:15):
Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.

Speaker 6 (31:17):
If you didn't know, he actually inspired her classic song
Joe Lean after a flirty bank teller was talking to
him and she imagined the whole song and the rest,
like I said, was history.

Speaker 4 (31:28):
So all right, pay Carl.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
I knew she was married too, but I don't think
I've ever seen this man before. And that's got to
be hard to be to have a wife who's that
famous and that beautiful and talented and to stay behind
the scenes like that for sixty years, and they made
it work.

Speaker 4 (31:43):
Yeah, Mayor, it's really sweet.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
I know.

Speaker 4 (31:45):
I love their marriage.

Speaker 6 (31:47):
After internet trolls said Millie Bobby Brown was aging badly,
the Stranger Thing star fired back, saying she's like an
apologize for growing up. Millie, who's now twenty one, newly wide,
I should say, said I grew up in front of
the world, and for some reason people can't seem to
grow with me, and said they act like I'm supposed
to say frozen in time, like I should look the
way I did on Stranger Things season one, and because
I don't, now I'm a target. And she cited all

(32:08):
these articles that were criticizing her for the way she
was aging or talking about what work she may have
done to her face.

Speaker 4 (32:14):
She said, this isn't journalism, this is bullying.

Speaker 6 (32:16):
The fact that adult writers are spending their time dissecting
my face, my body, my choices. It's disturbing, and the
fact that some of these articles are written by women
even worse. And despite all the hate, she said, she
is not going to apologize for growing up.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
She wants everyone to do better for young.

Speaker 6 (32:31):
Girls who deserve to grow up without a fear of
being torn apart. Now, to me, she does look different,
but not in terms of aging.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
She very much dyed her hair blonde and got a
specific haircut, and it's.

Speaker 6 (32:41):
Obvious to me that she still really wants to play
Britney Spears in a movie about her. However, word is
that Brittany isn't on board with Millie playing her. Apparently
she doesn't see the resemblance and doesn't believe she has
what it takes to play her. After seeing an audition tape.
She's actually Britney is heavily involved in this movie. Now,
britt hasn't talked with Millie directly, but people are saying,
you know, if she was right for the role, she

(33:02):
would have already gotten it. And people are saying that
Milly is trying to use her father in law, John
bon Jovi's connections to help her get that.

Speaker 4 (33:08):
Damn role, and I don't even think that's working.

Speaker 6 (33:11):
Universal Studios, by the way, won the rights to produce
that movie and John m chu who did Wicked amongst
a lot of other amazing projects, has signed on to
direct it.

Speaker 4 (33:20):
So the movie will be good.

Speaker 6 (33:21):
We don't know when it's going to be out or
who's playing Brittany, but Milly is certainly trying with that.

Speaker 4 (33:26):
New blonde hair.

Speaker 6 (33:27):
By the way, if you missed any part of our show,
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Speaker 1 (33:35):
App and make us a preset the number one preset
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so it goes like this, you can make precepts on
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just like that, And not because there's any kind of

(33:55):
reports going to the suits about that or anything. It
has nothing to do with It's simply because that's what
we want you to do. Good morning, everybody. Thank you
for having us song. We we love you, and thanks
for making us a part of your day. We'll come back.
We'll do blogs in just a second, stay or go,
we'll debate some relationship drama. Kiky show Biz Kiki. She
is one and one one for one, Yeah, I should

(34:16):
say not one and one one for one in the
Kiki showdown as she fills in for show Biz Shelley
and I promise her she can have all the money
if she goes undefeated. She would have to win sixty games. Yep,
we're going to do and no losses. Yes, but it
would be about three grand and I think she can
have it if she can win sixty in a row.

(34:37):
Jason shaking his head. No, I'm overriding you, Jason, I
have decided, so we'll see what happens in a little bit.
This is the Fread Show. It is the Fred Show
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(35:00):
This is nine number two Jason of the Summer of
ninety nine and beyond festival. Win tickets to see Creed
at eight forty. I can look this up. So who
else is going to be there?

Speaker 10 (35:11):
So the first night is nickelback, but the festival is
stacked every single like band I like knew what was
bringing back my like early two thousands, like energy.

Speaker 1 (35:24):
Oh god, there's a cruise you can go on the
Summer of ninety nine and beyond cruise.

Speaker 10 (35:28):
Oh yeah, so live Daughtry, Tonic, Our Lady Piece, Lit,
three Doors down, seven dust Hinder, vertical Horizon.

Speaker 5 (35:37):
Okay, I'm going so good. Yes, and fuel okay, Shimmer yeah.
And then someone I think it's van Halen Mammoth wv H.
I think that's Van Halen's son. Oh yeah, Wow.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
Yeah, okay, Well hook me, give me a hotel room
in East Troy, Wisconsin, and we're going We're gonna go there.
He'll be at the Naked Adult Pool and I'll be
at the Summer of ninety nine festival, rocking out to
nickelback and lit like it's the greatest two days of
my life, which because it would be the greatest two
days of my life. But free tickets. Got those later

(36:11):
on this morning and all this week or at least
until tomorrow or is it all this week? You know?
A week? Okay? Good, because sometimes Jason, I have to
like read carefully, like Monday through Wednesday, and then Thursday
it's different. Oh, but then Friday. But the reason it's
different Thursday is because it's tate every hour. Yes, there's
a take a takeover, you know it.

Speaker 10 (36:27):
Girl.

Speaker 1 (36:28):
See I read the emails that you send from time
to time occasionally, but it's just so much easier when
you're standing across from me, just to ask you exactly.
I realized you took the time to write an email,
But Jason, what did it say? Yeah? What did that
email say? Also, we've got vacations with Amy with the
right one hundred truck Rered gets signed up a trip

(36:48):
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Tell us why you should get the trip. And you
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who knows you could wind up going around the world
five times in a private I have no idea, just

(37:09):
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Speaker 4 (37:32):
Was kind of fine. Oh yeah he was.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
I like a man and go to work. Yeah. He
beat up at his feet on the ground.

Speaker 4 (37:38):
That's a good there.

Speaker 1 (37:39):
You know that's on it. Fred's show is on of
morning everybody Tuesday. That one makes me laugh at each time.
March forward, It's a Fred Show. Hi Kalin, good morning,
Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina High show Biz Kiki, good morning.
You are one for one in the Showbiz Shelley Showdown
that you're filling in for Showbis Shelley because she's off

(38:00):
having a baby, which hasn't happened yet. I believe she
has to have the baby tomorrow for me to win
in Thursday, for you to win the bat Kalan.

Speaker 4 (38:07):
Uh, yes, I believe so, which means you.

Speaker 1 (38:09):
Have to pay me one hundred bucks and then if
I win, and then I don't have I have to
pig you ten if Yeah.

Speaker 4 (38:15):
No, yeah, I don't recall shaking on terms, but.

Speaker 1 (38:18):
No we did. We totally did. You were I don't
know what you were you were thinking about, so I
know you were looking at you were listening to Taylor Swift,
or that you were a second. Yeah, we totally shook
on it, though it was very official. You signed an
AFFI David too, this said don't worry about him, belahemine
is here on the phone in the text eight five
five five nine one one oh three five. You can
call him text anytime. We'll get to Kiki the Kiki

(38:39):
Show Down, one hundred and fifty bucks, The Entertainer Report,
Good News stories, Uh, stay or go get a debate
and relationship drama with Haley And just a second, what
are you working on? Kiva? The Port the.

Speaker 4 (38:48):
Chapel roone dua we did not know we needed.

Speaker 6 (38:50):
Also a joke that producers really didn't want Conan to
tell at the Oscars, but he did. Anyway, I'll tell
you which one.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
And you guys hate commercials, We went, we like them
because we get paid by them, but we hate them
too sort of. And uh, we're not playing any for
a long time. It's an hour. Commercial free starts right now.
The Yeah, they talk better than they excited. Tell me.

Speaker 14 (39:12):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like
running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
We call them blogs.

Speaker 4 (39:18):
Kalin's got one go Yes, thank you, dear blog.

Speaker 6 (39:22):
So one of my greatest fears in life is asking
people for money that they right fully owe me. But
somehow I have put myself in situations endlessly where I
need to ask people for money, Like I always be
asking people for money.

Speaker 17 (39:41):
So you ask people for money that owe me money,
It's like you way, what do you mean?

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Let's give you an example.

Speaker 6 (39:47):
So, like I I'm very uncomfortable asking for money for myself,
but you know, I like ride for my people harder
than I'll have a ride for myself. So if someone
owes Jason money, I'll show up to the house with
a bath.

Speaker 4 (39:58):
I'm like, pay up.

Speaker 6 (39:59):
But if someone ows me money, I'm like, oh, it's okay,
I'll discover it.

Speaker 4 (40:02):
You know.

Speaker 6 (40:03):
I don't know why, and so it's just very uncomfortable
for me and currently the situation that I'm dealing with.

Speaker 4 (40:09):
I spoke about it the other day on the show.

Speaker 6 (40:11):
I am planning this bachelorette party for one of my
best friends weekend. Rather I am her maid of honor,
and of course, like I'm planning this weekend, so I
need to put my card down for a lot of things. Fine,
no problem, I'm a grown woman. I'm happy to do it.
I want everyone to have fun. However, a lot of people. Actually,

(40:31):
one specific person I won't even say that. I'll say
there's one specific person who I have been trying to
get sixty six dollars from for what feels like an eternity,
and I've now asked three separate times.

Speaker 4 (40:46):
I don't know if there's like a new way.

Speaker 6 (40:48):
That I can ask, if there's like a song and
dance number, but each time it's very difficult for me.
Like I want to tear my skin off, I want
to walk into oncoming traffic.

Speaker 4 (40:55):
I don't like asking for money.

Speaker 6 (40:57):
But also like I make it so clear, and all
the messages, Hey message me privately, like I get it.

Speaker 4 (41:03):
Times are really tough. I can work with you.

Speaker 6 (41:05):
We can do payment plans if you just let me
know plans with people.

Speaker 1 (41:10):
Are you a credit union? Like what?

Speaker 18 (41:12):
No?

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Like? No? No. Everybody knows the etiquette. Everybody knows the etiquette.
You are planning, you are fronting, and and everybody knows
that if you if you owe money, you need to
pay the money now, not later. And if you're agreeing
to go on a bachelorette party to Maine or wherever
the hell you guys are going lobster hunting or whatever.

Speaker 4 (41:34):
You do, then that is what we're doing, lobster.

Speaker 1 (41:36):
Catching or whatever it is. Then then you then you
got to know that's going to cost money, and you
have to be prepared to pay for it. And if
you don't have the money to go on the trip,
then you have to say I can't go, so that
people aren't becoming the bank and you're becoming the bank.
You know what I'm saying, Because you you front all
this stuff and then you go back and ask people
to pay you. Do you want me to call this
this person and say that I'm the collection agency.

Speaker 4 (41:58):
Let's call him right now. Oh them on the air.

Speaker 1 (42:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (42:02):
And it's like if it's one of my friends that
are in the group, like I'll be like girl like side,
like I know you have the money, Like come on, please,
you're just ignoring my text. But it is not one
of my close friends. And so that's what's making it
so difficult.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
And uh, she's.

Speaker 6 (42:18):
Very important to the bride, so I and I don't
want to involve the bride, like I'm not going to
be like a tattle tale.

Speaker 4 (42:23):
But it's getting a little sick.

Speaker 6 (42:25):
I mean, sixty six dollars and there's gonna be other
payments that are going to be more than sixty six dollars,
much more.

Speaker 13 (42:31):
And I'm like, ladies, please, like I hate this. I
hate this the whole like shaking my cup thing for
the money is so.

Speaker 4 (42:38):
Like kills me. I'm tired of it. Like, let's be
big girls.

Speaker 1 (42:43):
What if you did this starting to reupt you, Pauline,
What if you do this, Kalin? What if you were
to say the remaining amount of money? What if you
were to estimate like the remaining amount of money. Everyone's
gonna win? Is this thing next month? This month?

Speaker 6 (42:56):
It is the last weekend in May, and I assume
there's more.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
There's going to be more expense, right, there certainly will be. Yes,
how much do you think everyone's going to wind up owing? Total?
Five hundred bucks? One thousand bucks apiece? Like, how much
do you think it's going to cost total by the
time you're done?

Speaker 4 (43:12):
I'm not sure.

Speaker 6 (43:13):
But the reason that I was trying to separate it
is so that it doesn't seem so much and that
you know, with someone we can use this paycheck for
this payment.

Speaker 4 (43:21):
And another paycheck for another payment.

Speaker 6 (43:22):
I don't want to like put it all into a
bundle and like ask people for that. I don't know,
I just feel like that's harder to do than like
asking for little payments along the way.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
I kind of feel like what my buddy did. He's
actually he's a lawyer, so of course he was thinking ahead. Yeah,
he's a smart guy, but what he did, and granted
he has some dough but like on the bachelor party
I went to recently, and it was the first grown
up bachelor party I had been to, but he wanted
all the points for not only like the Marriott Points

(43:55):
or Hilton or whatever it was, but he wanted the
credit card points like the miles. So he fronted all
of the hotel rooms on his credit card, which was
a law. I mean, I think I don't know how
much it was. It was. I mean we're talking thousands
of dollars. And then he put everything on his card,
the whole weekend, everything, and then he sent us all
a bill basically and was like, you each owe me

(44:16):
this much and I need it in two weeks or
less or whatever. And so I get that that's a lot,
but you don't have to pay the credit card. I
don't know how long your credit card has before there's
interest on it. But my thing would be, I think
you should just say, hey, everybody, I think it's you
don't have to pay me till the end. But I'm
guessing it's going to be about one thousand dollars a piece.

(44:36):
I'm making this up, and that's going to be due
within two weeks of the end of it. And then
just charge everything to your card and that way it's
one time, one bill, and you're not chasing everybody down
for money. And then if you want and everyone's going
to pay you, and if there's someone who doesn't, then
you can go to the bride after the fact, after
she's aware of how much everything costs, and be like, Yo,

(44:56):
you know, lil Lucy over here, your old friend from college,
low Lucy over here trying not to pay me, and
I'm going to send her to collections if you don't.
But I guess it's just easier than trying to scrounge
money out of someone. A bunch of it just less
work for you.

Speaker 4 (45:10):
Yeah, I just feel like my thing is it shouldn't
have to be. It's difficult.

Speaker 6 (45:14):
I think it's like extremely disrespectful if I'm being completely serious,
like I could not rest. I can't rest if I
owe someone money, like I literally will think about it
until I send it. And I think it's just hurts
me that I've been so like communicative about being willing
to work with people because I love my friend. I
want her to have fun, and I think, you know, yes,
I could put it all into one bill, but I

(45:34):
think I'd still run into the same issue. And for me,
I don't ever want to involve the bride. I think
it would make her very uncomfortable to know what we're
spending on her. It would be nice for her to know,
but you know, she's not paying for basically anything.

Speaker 1 (45:48):
I just don't know how else to do it. Because
people were staying on the text. They're saying, don't front money,
and I get that. I get that, but I also
don't know how else to do it in an organized way.
And unfortunately, if you're the planner, I just I don't
know how else to do it.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
I like a girls group right now for this trip
that I'm going on, and the you know, the organizer,
which like the you of the group, has been very
transparent in the group.

Speaker 4 (46:11):
Chat dummy chat about what's old. Right.

Speaker 2 (46:15):
So here's my suggestion is to get in the group chat,
put hey, I've received money from Alison Keykey, Paulina Jason right,
and then be like I'm still missing money.

Speaker 4 (46:26):
From put her.

Speaker 1 (46:30):
Say wait a minute. The only person he left out
was me. Well, I paid, I paid you.

Speaker 2 (46:35):
Frank still owes me sixty six dollars and put it
all in a group Yes, people, I'm telling you, girl,
you gotta do it. Should I just say it's for
bookkeeping purposes? Girls just putting it here for everybody.

Speaker 19 (46:49):
To see, shouldn't I message her primarily.

Speaker 4 (46:52):
Person, you got you six dollars. I don't play it
by my money. I don't like I can't run, so
I'm never a fraend.

Speaker 2 (47:03):
It's gonna be like, hey, I'll pay because I won't
ever ask you for money. I'll just talk about you
for twenty years. You want to pay me back sixty
six good? But in this case, I really think you
have to put her on blast in front of the
other girls because she looks crazy being how close she
is to the bride too. I know who she is
to the bride. That's insane that you that you're the problem.
You should not be the problem.

Speaker 1 (47:22):
Oh, there's an app. There's an app calt.

Speaker 4 (47:25):
Yeah, I was just about to bring that up. There
is an app.

Speaker 6 (47:28):
But that's more helpful if like, multiple people are paying
for stuff. If it's just one person, then it's it's
just you pay that one person.

Speaker 1 (47:35):
I just think it sounds like you're gonna have an
organizational nightmare if it's yeah, every week, hey I need
this much and this much and this much and this much,
and it all adds up to whatever it is. And again,
it's messed up that you would have to front or
the other thing you could do. I guess is say, hey,
I estimate this trip is gonna cost fifteen a thousand
dollars a person or whatever. Everybody owes me a g

(47:57):
and then I will give you an accurate coounting of
how much we spent in the end, and if there's
left over, then everybody, I'll give everybody money back or whatever,
because that way, at least you're working off of and
the money that's already there, as opposed to you having
to front all this cash and then become a debt collector.
Because I just think it's a big pain in the butt.
And if you if it's sixty bucks here and eighty

(48:18):
bucks here, and then you're gonna start justifying in your mind.
All right, I'm gonna let this sixty six go because
I still got to go get them for two fifty
for the hotels or whatever. And I just feel like
before long you're gonna have everyone's gonna owe you a
little bit because people forgot or they're not paying, or
they don't they don't want Just what a pain.

Speaker 2 (48:35):
Yeah, But like the crazy I gotta say, everybody, raise
your hand, if you pay me, Mary, raise your hand,
if you pay the money.

Speaker 20 (48:42):
On God Okay, honestly, you need to have an intervention
with the chief ass who's not paying you, right girl,
and record it and put it on TikTok Live and
everybody can see this is the person, this is the
cheap skate.

Speaker 4 (48:56):
I'll just talk about it on the radio or when
I think, yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
You just accomplished the same thing. Yeah, you're right, Stay
or Go. In two minutes after Sabrina fred Show, the
Fread Show is on. It's stay or Go. All right,
Haley is here for some relationship advice. Good morning, Haley, welcome, Hey,
good morning, Hailey. What's going on? Fill us in with
everything here? Because you know, again, the right thing to

(49:20):
do when you're in a predicament in your relationship is
to call the radio show. And I joke about that
all the time, except you've got a bunch of different
perspectives here. You've got seventeen people on this show, so
surely someone will give you advice. It's it's worthwhile. Probably
not me, but maybe somebody else. Go ahead.

Speaker 7 (49:35):
Yeah, okay. Well, I've been married to my husband for
about three years and we don't have any kids. We
both work full time and we make like okay money,
but we don't have any like substantial savings or you

(49:57):
know money saved up.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Do you? Okayln's sixty salary.

Speaker 7 (50:02):
It's not me.

Speaker 1 (50:05):
Because I was going to handle this right now myself
and shame you publicly. I was going to stone you
in the square until you right exactly. Okay, So all right,
I'm sorry. Continue, Yeah, Okay.

Speaker 7 (50:17):
So recently, my husband Sam brought up the fact that,
like we should start saving more, and I agree, like
that makes sense, we should have you know, savings put away.
So we decided we were going to like stop stop
unnecessary spending, stop boring takeout, and just like even pause.

(50:39):
We we normally have regular date nights, and we haven't
been doing those for like the last couple of months now.
So then here's where the problem comes in a little bit,
after we have this conversation about savings beside to cut back,
my husband comes home with a brand new sixty truck.

Speaker 1 (50:59):
Oh no he didn't. Oh wow, Oh no he didn't.

Speaker 7 (51:04):
So I'm extremely pissed that he didn't talk to me
before making such a big urshes. And then I'm also
just hurt that I was also saving I was also
putting in to this and apparently we don't even have

(51:25):
enough money for him to take me our usual date night.
But then he can go buy that's hugely expensive.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
New car, and you could argue, I mean, he could say, well,
it's not that much more than a car I had
before or whatever. But if you're trying to save money, uh,
you know it developed like a nest egg or some
savings or whatever, then pay the car off that you've got,
as opposed to starting the clock over again, and then
you can use the excess to save, you know. So
for the people saying well, I don't know, I mean,

(51:55):
maybe it didn't cost that much more, maybe he got
a good deal or whatever, my thing would be pay that.
You know, if in fact you're trying to save, then
don't go out and go spend more money, you know,
for the foreseeable future five years however long the loan
is like, pay the car off that you have, and
then you've got extra cats to save. But no, that's
not what he wanted to do, and he didn't talk

(52:16):
to you about this. He just went and did it.

Speaker 7 (52:19):
Right, So now I'm like, well, are we just savings
so he could go buy sub truck?

Speaker 10 (52:25):
Now?

Speaker 2 (52:26):
Right?

Speaker 7 (52:27):
Could heep me into this?

Speaker 1 (52:29):
I don't. I don't know what did you What did
he say to you when I'm sure you said, oh,
because I don't even care if you're saving or if
you have if you're making a conscious effort to do this.
I mean, I would imagine I'm not in a relationship,
but if I would imagine if I were in a
relationship where finances were involved, that that would be something,
especially if there wasn't a lot of extra money and

(52:51):
we were making a conscious effort to save. But I
would imagine that's not something that you just go do
on your own without talking to someone, Like if you're
co mingling funds, I probably don't go buy a sixteenth
thousand dollars car without consulting with you first. But so
what does he say for himself?

Speaker 7 (53:05):
Yeah, so we have a joint account. This was not
you know, you can't argue, oh, with his money, he
can do whatever he wants. Like, we put him to
the same account and he just went and spent the money,
and I told him, you know, this was not okay.
Obviously they spends sixty thousand dollars without talking to me.
And he really didn't have a good answer. He's just like, well,

(53:27):
you can't control me. And you know I needed a
new car and you knew that, which I didn't. I
don't think he did need a new car, but whatever,
this is his resing and we're like.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
The wheels falling off the thing, like does someone steal
the engine?

Speaker 18 (53:42):
Like?

Speaker 1 (53:42):
What what I mean? So he doesn't have a legitimate
argument for.

Speaker 7 (53:45):
That, then No, you guys mentioned numerous times that he
would like to get a truck, but we've never talked
in detail about going to get one. Anytime. It was like, yeah, okay,
yeah maybe someday, Yeah, maybe when you need a new
car or something. I had no idea he was going
to go do it right.

Speaker 13 (54:00):
Wow, that's crazy though, to say you can't control me
or tell me what to do. Sir, we are married.
It's not about controlling you. It's about literally talking things over.
It's a huge purchase and a really big deal and
where is my date nights? Well?

Speaker 1 (54:14):
He does he show this kind of behavior normally? Like
is he typically someone who only thinks of himself or
is this kind of a rare occurrence.

Speaker 7 (54:24):
No, I was really surprised. I mean normally he doesn't
really normally spend a lot of money. I do most
of the shopping things, and I talked to him, if
I'm going to make a big purchase, I don't think
he's ever you know, probably laid a big purchase by himself.
So no, this was really random.

Speaker 1 (54:43):
So what are you gonna do? I mean, I know
you're calling us to get feedback, but I mean, is
this something where you're you're like, this was so inconsiderate,
Like we're cutting corners here and not focusing on things
that like I don't know, trips together or date nights
or this little thing, you know, and eating out and
just small luxuries. We're cutting back on this stuff so

(55:05):
that you can have a car. That's not what we
talked about. Like maybe if you'd agreed to that, Hey
I need a new car. You know my car isn't reliable,
I got to get to work whatever. Okay, well we'll
cut back on stuff so that you can you know,
accomplish that. That's a reasonable conversation. I'm sure happens in
relationships all the time. Or hey, we need a new
air conditioner or whatever it is. But in this case,
he just went and did this that talking to you,

(55:25):
I mean, is it something where you're thinking, I don't
even know if I want to be with this.

Speaker 7 (55:29):
Guy, I mean, honestly yeah, because it's well, like I said,
we don't make a ton of money, Like a sixty
thousand dollars truck is not something I would have ever
even considered. It's just way too much. So now he's
crippling us financially just because he wanted a truck and

(55:52):
didn't give me any opportunity to weigh in, Like this
is going to affect us financially for literally years to
compa songs. He's making these car payments, and I don't
think it's fair to me. So I don't get to
ever get take out, go out and get coffee, have
date nights or whatever so that I can support this truck.

Speaker 1 (56:08):
I don't blame you, Haley, I don't, but eight five
five five nine one three five you can context the
same number. I feel like this is a pretty relatable
story because I do know in relationships where people are
sharing funds that you know sometimes people have different priorities
and disagree with how the money should be spent. And
I do think that's the kind of thing that you
want to establish before you marry somebody or get into

(56:29):
a relationship where you're com mingling funds. Do you guys
have the same philosophy about money that The challenging thing
here is it sounds like you do, and it sounds
like normally he does the right thing, or at least
thus far, but in this case, he definitely didn't. And
I really don't know what you do. I mean, I
guess you could divorce it, I leave him whatever, but
I don't really know how you rectify this because he

(56:52):
did it already. This is kind of like that SNL skit,
Remember the SNL like the fake Lexus commercial where the
guy was like, look, honey, I bought you Alexis you
know it's decembert to remember or whatever, and she's like,
we're broke, and he's like, but it was a low
apor It's like APR like. And then it turns out that,

(57:13):
you know, his wife's messing around with the neighbor and
he borrowed the money to get in there. And it's
if you haven't seen it, I'm sure it's on TikTok
or YouTube or whatever, but this sounds to me like,
but at least that car was for her, Uh, this
car's for him, So I guess what prevents him from
saying you know what, I now I want a new watch,
or now I want this or that, because I guess,
I just I don't know how you correct this behavior.

(57:35):
I guess is where I'm going.

Speaker 7 (57:38):
Yeah, And well, I mean it's not like you can
just go return the truck as soon as he drove
it off the lot, so she's appreciated in value. There's
I'm just concerned, like I said, that now we're going
to be in a bad spot financially for literally years.

Speaker 9 (57:52):
Maybe he sets you guys back, and it's not like
you can go buy a new car and say, well, fine,
you got one, I got one, because then that just
exacerbates the problem and now you've just got more debt,
so you can't even really make it even per se.

Speaker 7 (58:06):
Yeah, there's really That's that's the stressful thing is there's
really nothing I can do to fix this. So it's
just like this is this a life I want? Do
I want to have to?

Speaker 1 (58:17):
You know?

Speaker 7 (58:17):
Because like I said, we were cutting out basically any
little luxuries to quote unquote saves AKA apparently afford this truck.
So it's just do I want to have to live
like that until this thing is payed off?

Speaker 1 (58:29):
Haley, I'm gonna take some phone calls, keep the radio
or the iHeart app on it unless see what people say,
Cause I do think there are people that can relate
to this, and I'd be curious to hear how they
handle it. But thank you for calling. Good luck.

Speaker 7 (58:39):
Hey, thanks?

Speaker 1 (58:40):
Yeah. So eight five five one three five. Haley's calling
stare Go because they were consciously they had decided as
a couple consciously to save money. So they had some
savings and they had agreed how they were going to
do that, and they were going to cut back on
a bunch of stuff. They did that, you know, date nights,
and I thinks that probably would make them closer as
a couple, things that they enjoyed doing together. And then
this guy goes out and buys a new car, brand

(59:01):
new car, without consulting here, And it's like, wait a minute,
I thought we were saving and it's not even like
we were. We were having to cut back on luxuries
in order to do this, and then you go do that.
Micah him Michah, good morning, Good morning, Hia, good morning,
thanks for calling, thanks for listening. You've been through this.

Speaker 7 (59:20):
Yeah, oh what happened?

Speaker 4 (59:22):
Yeah, So.

Speaker 19 (59:25):
My then boyfriend. I mean, I got engaged like a
month and a half ago. But my boyfriend at the
time we lived together, his car got stolen, so maybe
a little bit of a different situation.

Speaker 3 (59:37):
But he went out and got.

Speaker 8 (59:40):
A Mustang, like a nice, like very expensive must It
was giving like midlife crisis like scenario, and it was
a payment that like I knew was stretching him, and like.

Speaker 19 (59:55):
We hadn't fully combined our finances yet, but we're on
our way there. And I said to him multiple multiple times,
like this is not a smart idea. You know, this
is not a smart idea. He went and did it anyway,
fast forward, he proposed, and then I was like, all right,
we got to talk about the Mustang. And he actually

(01:00:15):
he he lives, you know, because we talked it out,
you know, and I was like, look, we've got to
pay for a wedding coming out, like we have other priorities.
He traded it in for something that was a lower
payment that.

Speaker 7 (01:00:27):
He was still happy in.

Speaker 19 (01:00:28):
And so my point is like, yes, i'd just been
through this, but like I think, listening to the scenario, like.

Speaker 7 (01:00:35):
It's her reaction to be like should I leave him?

Speaker 19 (01:00:38):
Sounds like this didn't happen like in a vacuum like this.
This wasn't the first time that she's he's given her
reason to like question, like first of all, just being
considerate of her trust to like all that kind of stuff.
So I think if there was a really solid foundation
of trust and communication, this wouldn't be like a stay

(01:00:59):
or go question. But it sounds like there may be,
isn't that And so therefore like a huge event like this,
I don't know, I just think that needs to be evaluated.

Speaker 8 (01:01:11):
Like and she.

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
Uh, oh he cut off your phone now to pay
for the Mustang? And what happens? Oh Michael, you went away?
Oh now you're back again. Oh no, you you cut
out because I think your I think your husband's trying
to cut off your cell phone, uh, to pay for
a water ski a jet ski. But what so do
you feel like he learned from that? And do you
feel like you know the behavior has been adjusted, like

(01:01:37):
it won't happen again?

Speaker 19 (01:01:39):
Oh yeah, oh yeah, Like granted his dog had just died,
seasonal depression was hitting hard, So I think the Mustang
was like a sin product of a lot of other things. Okay,
but no, we're we've got like some great communication going
and yes, I think he learned his lessons.

Speaker 1 (01:01:55):
Well good Hey Michah, I'm glad and thank you for calling.
Have a good day.

Speaker 19 (01:01:59):
Thank you.

Speaker 21 (01:01:59):
I love you guys, Thank.

Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
You for listening to love you too. This is why
I say all the time and again, the guy who
is not in a relationship, it never is, gives the
relationship advice. But I do think it's so important that
when people get together that they're on the same page
about you know, saving or whatever, because I think those
are habits that are really hard to change. You know,
people who are just used to just buying stuff worrying

(01:02:22):
about it later, and you know, get with somebody who's
really financially conscious and saves a lot. You know. I
feel like this is the kind of thing that you
could run into. Sarah, Hey, good morning, good morning. Hi.
What do you think Stargo?

Speaker 7 (01:02:37):
I think she should go Why?

Speaker 22 (01:02:40):
Because I think when somebody when you sit down and
have a conversation and you come to an agreement and
then they go ahead and do completely opposite of what
you actually sat and talked about, it's going to continue
to happen.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
Yeah, that was my question to her, is what prevents
this from happening again. He already did it once and
that was a big purchase. That's a lot of money.

Speaker 22 (01:03:00):
Well, and not only that, it's like, okay, well she
stayed this time, right, And it doesn't ever even have
to be with money. It can be anything in a relationship, right,
So I just feel like once it's like okay, I got.

Speaker 4 (01:03:11):
That wiggle room in.

Speaker 22 (01:03:13):
Yeah, she's mad, but she'll get over it. Cool, we
can move on. So unless they actually go and they
work on their communication with somebody else, I don't think
it's going to change. I think this could be the
start of a much bigger issue. And finances in a
marriage are huge in communication.

Speaker 1 (01:03:30):
Yeah, I would agree with you. Thank you, Sarah.

Speaker 22 (01:03:32):
Yes, thanks, have a great day.

Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
Yeah you too, thank you. Well, here we go this.
I knew this was coming. Hi Jen, Hi, how are you? Pagan?
Good morning? So this woman called us stay or go
and they were she's married, and they were in this
relationship and they talked about saving they needed money in
the bank and they didn't have any, and they were
cutting back on all kinds of things. And then dude
goes down and buys a brand new sixty thousand dollars

(01:03:55):
car and she's like, wait a minute, I'm not going
to Starbucks. We're not going on date nights, we're not
taking trips together. We decided this together. And then you
go out and spend a bunch of money. What do
you think, why, all of.

Speaker 12 (01:04:08):
A sudden is he changing his character? She said that
this is totally out of the ordinary for him and
their marriage, and normally it sounds like, you know, they
have pretty good communication, and then all of a sudden,
he goes and does this behind her back to me
is a clear cut sign that something else is going on,
especially the fingerpointing. You're trying to control me. I've been there,
done that, I've seen it, and I've had somebody do

(01:04:31):
it to me. As soon as they start pointing the
finger and making you the enemy, like you're trying to
do something to hold them back, there's something else going
on underneath there. So might not have gone as far
as like actually meeting, but talking internet. You know, she
needs to chin his phone, she needs to do something
for sure.

Speaker 4 (01:04:47):
Check that thought.

Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
Yeah, so he's cheating. You're saying he's at least emotionally cheating.
And the new girl's like, I don't like your car.
You better get a brand new truck or else. And
then he went out got himself.

Speaker 12 (01:04:58):
A new rout the other girl all, yeah, I don't
even think it's the other calf telling him that. I
think it's just his ego of like, I can do
what I want. And this is almost a catalyst of hey,
this might kiss her off, but who cares. A husband
doesn't do that. You know, he knows their situation, he
knows what he told her. He's either trying to start
something or he feels inflated by something else and now

(01:05:21):
feels this sense of like entitlement that he can do
this and nobody's going to tell him what to do.
And as soon as that starts, there's something else underneath.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
Interesting. Thank you so much, Jeen, have a good day,
no problem. And Zach, you've listening. Pauline, I don't you
said it before, so I don't. I'm not calling you out,
but I know that you've mentioned that you and Hovey
have pretty different financial pass and attitudes about spending, and
you guys have kind of gotten it together, but I mean,
how do you how do you do it? And you've
been together for a while now, I mean, does it

(01:05:50):
come up well?

Speaker 4 (01:05:51):
It's more like how does hobby do it?

Speaker 13 (01:05:53):
Because I am the one, like you said, that buys
and then thinks about it later. Yeah, yesterday I bought
a new vacuum. Didn't need it, but in my head
like I need to I'll figure out later.

Speaker 4 (01:06:01):
And him and I bump.

Speaker 13 (01:06:02):
Heads a lot because he's trying to be the one
that saves and is responsible and he wants me to
get on board with that, and it is hard. It
is like we've cut things out too just because I'm like,
I don't wanna.

Speaker 4 (01:06:12):
I don't know.

Speaker 13 (01:06:13):
I want to be more financially stable, but also I
want to be more financially responsible and teach my daughter
the same thing.

Speaker 4 (01:06:18):
And I'm I'm on board with that. But here's the thing.
If I came home with a brand new truck or he.

Speaker 13 (01:06:23):
Did without consulting and it's all about talking to each other,
and he took away my hooters or my muddy school's dates,
then I would be there'd be hell to.

Speaker 4 (01:06:30):
Pay because like, at the end of the day.

Speaker 13 (01:06:31):
I look at it as like, Okay, so priority to
you was getting this new car. You didn't talk to
me about it, but you wanted this car. Like I
look at underneath what's going on, Like, you know, is
he acting out?

Speaker 4 (01:06:41):
Is he trying to show me something?

Speaker 13 (01:06:42):
Is he trying to show me I'm the big man
in the house, Like I don't know, there's something underneath that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:46):
It's super inconsiderate to do this, and don't take away
her mane East ghost man. Not the seasons.

Speaker 4 (01:06:52):
I love my date night.

Speaker 1 (01:06:53):
Absolutely not. Hey Jane Jane, Wait are you Jane?

Speaker 3 (01:07:00):
I'm Jeneene.

Speaker 1 (01:07:02):
Well it says Jane, you might have I call you
Jane anyway, So Jean Jane still be it Bellahamine whatever,
God bless her. So she went fast, what you've been
through this sadly, and and what's your experience?

Speaker 3 (01:07:17):
I just had a miscarriage and my act now I'm
thank you. But what had happened was he went, he
took the money to go by himself a vehicle and
not a vehicle but a four wheeler. And then later
on down the road he did something similar and once
that I didn't know about. And the thing ones that
got me that she said, the big red, huge red

(01:07:39):
flag was when she said he was like, you can't
control me. You know I'm going you know this, I'm
gonna do what I want. That is manipulation. That is
a big time red flag manipulation and without some type
of therapy and him addressing his issues. But what he's
doing to her isn't fair. So by trying to gaslighter,
that's basically a way of saying, I know what I

(01:08:00):
did was wrong, but now I'm going to put it
on you. This is a grown man that doesn't even
want to be accountable. And you know, maybe he's never
done anything like this before, but maybe now he's starting
to show who he really is, because we're not talking
about a vacuum, you know, we're talking about sixty thousand

(01:08:22):
dollars that is going to be able to hurt their
ability to have a date night, you know, just the
little stuff. And he just didn't care, you know, and
that is not the sign of an emotionally mature around
a person. And you know, she has to ask herself,
do I want to, you know, try and see if
he's going to start being accountable. But with what he

(01:08:43):
said to her, I don't think he's anywhere near ready.

Speaker 1 (01:08:47):
But I didn't didn't tell you I've got it. Yeah,
I've got it. And he should be more thoughtful about
what you're going through and not adding that extra stress.
But stead he's he's thinking about himself. Hey, Jeane Jane,
thank you, have a good day. Oh bye, Thank you
for calling, Thank you for listening. Geane Jane, love you. Yeah.
I think she should divorce him, take take half the money,
and then go buy yourself like a cyber truck or something.

Speaker 4 (01:09:09):
Yes, I like it.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
You know, just something obnoxious, get it wrapped with pictures
of his face on it, or you know, dollar bills
or I'm not sure, you know, just something something outrageous.

Speaker 2 (01:09:17):
Right, But this is why you always need a separate
account on the side that he doesn't know about.

Speaker 4 (01:09:22):
They're not ready for that conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:09:24):
They let me just be clear, like she should extort
money from them, and that's better them.

Speaker 4 (01:09:31):
You think I'm kidding.

Speaker 1 (01:09:33):
It makes perfect sense. Yet no, you guys are on it.
I don't even know why. We just say that twenty
minutes ago and end the segment. Kiki is up next.
Fread show City. I actually do. I do have a verner.
I do have a burner.

Speaker 4 (01:09:46):
You do you do?

Speaker 1 (01:09:47):
I've never used it, but I have one.

Speaker 4 (01:09:48):
I know you was sex in the show.

Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
Yeah, no, I s here that is so hand I say,
how terrible we are.

Speaker 14 (01:09:56):
Fread's show is on Guys Morning, Tuesday, March four.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
It's a Fred Show. Hi, Kaitlin, Hello morning, Jason Brown,
Paulina Hie show biz, Kiki, good morning. About to play
the game one hundred and fifty bucks. You've played once,
you won once. We'll see how this goes In about
ten seconds, Belahamine's here on the phone and the text
waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll investigate.
Maybe you've seen our tiktoks. Got many a viral TikTok. Kiki,

(01:10:23):
make a viral video, Kiki every day. I'll never forget
that suit who walked in the room one day. Hey,
I need you guys to make a viral video today. Okay,
oh yeah, wait, we'll get right on that. We'll just
make a viral sure, why not the Fred Show? TikTok
for that. My biggest stories of the day, the Entertainment
Report and fun Fact all this hour? What are you
working on? Ok?

Speaker 6 (01:10:43):
A Guinness World record was broken at the Oscars, and
I'll tell you what that.

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
Was, Fred Show.

Speaker 14 (01:10:49):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?
Shelley in the show biz, showdown, show biz.

Speaker 13 (01:10:56):
Kicky, I had to get in the lab and make
you an intro song. Okaye, three months?

Speaker 4 (01:11:03):
You know it's a long time.

Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
You know what, We've been wait for you to get
in the lab for a long time. You like Rihanna
over here, Paulina. A lot of people don't know that
Paulina makes custom songs. She's a recording artist and a DJ.
A lot of people don't know this about Paulina. Perhaps
you've heard some of her work. But we've been hearing
for a very long time now about your return of
the lab, and yet it hasn't happened.

Speaker 16 (01:11:24):
I want to make some time for the lab. I know,
I way overdue. I am like Rihanna, okay, well we
would appreciate that. DJ, mister DJ Fred show what whoa oh?

Speaker 1 (01:11:35):
What was that?

Speaker 4 (01:11:36):
That was just your voice, your inner monologue?

Speaker 1 (01:11:41):
Where the hell did that come from? I don't know
what's going on. Oh you oh you push? You pushed
the button with my voice as opposed to the DJ button. DJ. Yes, sir, Okay, Well,
Pauline is at the Helm. She's driving the ship today,
so you know she's done a great job so far.

Speaker 4 (01:11:56):
Complimented me and here I go.

Speaker 1 (01:11:57):
We never we never know each We just it's like
Jesus take the wheel each time DJ tell us about you.

Speaker 18 (01:12:05):
You know, I listen to your show pretty much every morning.
I listed for certain you know, little topics like what's
coming up next, you know, waiting by the phone and
all of that. And I just feel like I could
weir because the of the Young Lady is on. You know,
she leads, So I think I got a shot.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
Okay, so you're taking you're taking advantage. DJ. Have a
vulnerable Kiki, is what you're saying. It's a wounded animal
that you see and you believe you can take our money.
That's what you think.

Speaker 18 (01:12:32):
Wow, yeah, man, Shelby and Shelley never lose, bro like,
so I gotta try now.

Speaker 7 (01:12:37):
I.

Speaker 1 (01:12:39):
DJ, you you're making my day right now. Honestly, I'm
so glad you called and thank you for listening. Now
here's the deal. And again, the company did not tell
me I can do this, But they don't tell me.
They don't really do anything for me, So I'll do
whatever I want. This is what we're doing. If you
win today, you get one hundred and fifty bucks. But
if Kiki never loses if she goes undefeated until sho

(01:13:02):
Bin Shelley comes back. Whatever that money is, she can
have it, the whole thing, which we think is around
three g's. But let's see how this goes. Five question
Kiki versus DJ one hundred and fifty bucks. She's played once,
she has won once. Let's see how day number two goes.
You ready, I'm ready, ready, Okay, all right, Keiki, with
all due respect, get the hell out, all right back

(01:13:22):
she goes to the sound boof, poof, she must leave
the studio. Okay, here we go DJ. Question number one.
Mark Zuckerberg dressed up as this Beautiful Things singer and
performed for his wife for her fortieth birthday.

Speaker 18 (01:13:38):
Uh, I don't know that one. Pass on that one.

Speaker 1 (01:13:41):
Okay, we'll pass on that one. Ben Affleck and his
ex wife were spotted skipping to the Oscars and to take.

Speaker 4 (01:13:50):
Their whipping the Oscars.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
My apologies, okay. I was like, wow, they were skipping
together to the as they were spotted together at the
Oscars and we're taking their kids to excuse me, they
didn't go to the Oscars and they took their kids
to play paintball.

Speaker 7 (01:14:05):
Name.

Speaker 1 (01:14:05):
That was a very it's a very complicated question name
Ben afflecks X and the mother of his.

Speaker 23 (01:14:10):
Kids, Jennifer Lopez. Okay, okay. Britney Spears is Brittany is not?
Is reportedly not on board with Millie Bobby Brown playing
her in an upcoming biopic biopic however you want to
say it, which Netflix show brought Milly to prominence.

Speaker 7 (01:14:34):
Can you say that question again, please?

Speaker 1 (01:14:36):
Britney Spears is reportedly not on board with Millie Bobby
Brown playing her in an upcoming biopic, which Netflix show
brought Milly to prominence.

Speaker 4 (01:14:48):
Millie Bobby Brown, see, I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:14:51):
Mess around with these persons either, because I don't know
what he get.

Speaker 6 (01:14:53):
I know, I don't want to help them to Yeah,
all right, we got two left, We got two left.

Speaker 1 (01:14:57):
We're good. We are so good right here, DJ, this
is gonna be great. Goldie Han's son jokingly said he's
worried that she loves Andrew Garfield more than him after
they presented an award together at the Oscars, which superhero
is Andrew best known for playing? Oh No, Captain America,

(01:15:21):
not that one. And finally, Brooklyn Beckham has a birthday today.
Name one of Brooklyn's famous parents named Victoria or David
got that David Becka. Okay, my man, my man, I
need to give you a ding. I don't have the ding. Ready,
hold on one moment for the ding in the hold on,

(01:15:43):
there's the ding. One more dang. He got a five.
He got a five, Kiki.

Speaker 4 (01:15:51):
Oh, he got no, really, he got a one.

Speaker 1 (01:15:55):
He got a one.

Speaker 4 (01:15:55):
One. Yeah, we might give you his name is.

Speaker 1 (01:16:02):
His name is dj.

Speaker 8 (01:16:04):
J.

Speaker 1 (01:16:06):
He was talking a lot of smack and then he
got a one. But let's see how this goes. You're
ready to show his kiky? I'm ready, DJ over here. Yeah.
Mark Zuckerberg dressed up as this Beautiful Things singer and
performed for his wife for her fortieth birthday.

Speaker 4 (01:16:22):
My boom, Benson boom.

Speaker 1 (01:16:23):
Okay, there's one, Ben Affleck said his ex wife, And
I'm sorry Ben Fleck. Who with Ben Affleck's.

Speaker 4 (01:16:33):
Ex Jennifer Lopez and a lot of the kids. I
forgot that Jennifer that he's still in love with.

Speaker 2 (01:16:39):
Jennifer who Gardener Gardener Gardner, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:16:47):
Not, I'm not Jennifer Gardener. Jennifer Gardner is the porn
star version. No, Jennifer Gardner. Oh my god, Okay, come on,
all right, we have three left. You only have to
get one of these. Britney Spears is reportedly not on
board with Millie Bobby Brown playing her in an upcoming
biopic biopic which Netflix show brought Milly to prominence.

Speaker 4 (01:17:12):
Hmm, no, three white lotus?

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
Are you gonna say that every time you don't know
an answer?

Speaker 12 (01:17:23):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:17:23):
Anyway, all right, okay, you have to get You have
to get one of these too, or I'm gonna regret
what I just did. Goldie Hans's son jokingly said he's
worried that she loves Andrew Garfield more than him after
they presented an award together at the Oscars, which superhero
is Andrew best known for playing. Oh God, oh no

(01:17:46):
one Spider Man. Oh that was a great guest. You
said it. That was good. And finally, just just kicky
one time, just say one thing and stop talking. Brooklyn
Beckham has a birth today name one of Brooklyn Beckham's
favorite parents, David Beckham. All right, all right, you wan

(01:18:09):
no matter what, my man, DJ. You're a good guy.
You can call any time. We love you, but you
have to say my name is DJ. I got showed
up on a showdown and you can't hang with Key.
I think we're gonna say you can't hang with Kick
with the Yeah.

Speaker 18 (01:18:23):
Okay, yep, I got showed up on the showdown and
I can't hang with Ki Keith And I thought I could.

Speaker 1 (01:18:30):
DJ, I love you? Is this tone? This tone calling
in the right?

Speaker 24 (01:18:36):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:18:36):
Are you tone? No? Okay? Maybe not all right? Hang
on a second, DJ, hold like you stay right there,
my man. You DJ can't hang with Kick cat man.

Speaker 4 (01:18:55):
I was just taking a bag, bro like I love it.
IM gonna play this forever.

Speaker 16 (01:19:00):
It will o My god, you truly have to go.

Speaker 4 (01:19:06):
Yeah, I can't do this, yeah, thinking LI said scream
my name.

Speaker 1 (01:19:13):
Well, guys, Kiki's always calling me saying scream my name.
It's weird. It's it's a weird thing. I'm I out
in public and she's like, do it, you know, and
I and I do. But two hundred bucks is the prize.
Two wins. You are two and zero in the game, Kiki.

Speaker 4 (01:19:27):
Come on three thousand here come baby.

Speaker 1 (01:19:29):
And if you win, if you never lose, if you
go undefeated, I will give you whatever that money is.

Speaker 4 (01:19:36):
Okay.

Speaker 17 (01:19:38):
I hope this personal. Oh no, no, no, no, he said,
I will give you the money. Yeah, no, Jason, I
don't know what you're defending these people for. No, absolutely not.
You are giving them the company money. She gets the
company money. Waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted?
In two minutes, We'll do it Fred's Show.

Speaker 14 (01:19:58):
Never been left waiting the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hi, Brianna,
Welcome to the show.

Speaker 1 (01:20:04):
How are you Hi?

Speaker 24 (01:20:05):
I'm good.

Speaker 1 (01:20:06):
How are you guys doing? Okay? Thank you so much
for being part of the program. Waiting by the phone,
trying to figure out if you've been ghosted by this
guy Seth? So set us up here. How did you
meet Seth? Tell us about any dates you've been on,
and then where things are now?

Speaker 24 (01:20:19):
Well, I met him on like Tinder, and you know,
we just recently went on a date and we were
just planning to meet up for a drink, but we
ended up like staying a long time and getting pretty drunk,
and I mean, I had a great time, and I
just don't know, I just never heard from him after that,
and I'm really bummed about it.

Speaker 1 (01:20:40):
Okay, so this date went well though, I mean you
said you drank a lot. I mean, what was the
conversation good? I mean I don't know, tell us.

Speaker 18 (01:20:49):
A lot more.

Speaker 4 (01:20:49):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 24 (01:20:51):
No, it was really good, Like I had a great
time with him. We were laughing a lot, you know,
So I just I really don't.

Speaker 7 (01:20:59):
Get like what happened.

Speaker 1 (01:21:01):
Okay, all right, but you left the date, even though
you drank a lot and whatever, you left the date
thinking I'm gonna hear from this guy again, We're gonna
go out again.

Speaker 23 (01:21:09):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:21:09):
You know that you thought the chemistry was good, you
were attracted to him, you felt like he was attracted
to you. I mean all these things. You're actually surprised
that he didn't call you.

Speaker 24 (01:21:17):
Yeah, exactly, Yeah, yeah, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
All right, well that's where we come in. We're gonna
call this guy, seth, get him on the phone. We're
gonna ask some questions on your behalf, and you know,
hopefully we can straighten out whatever's going on. Maybe he's
been busy, or you know, something came up, or who
knows what, But the hope is we can set you
up on another date and pay for that, and then
you know, maybe things work better the second time, or
they work as well or even better. Who knows what

(01:21:43):
could happen on a second date, right, Brianna.

Speaker 24 (01:21:45):
Yeah, I'm hoping.

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Okay, all right, well hang on one second. We're gonna
call him, gonna play one song, come back and do it.
Stay there, let's see what's going on. Part two of
waiting by the phone right after Rose back in two
minutes on the Fread Show. Don't move Rose, It's the
Frend Show. Good in morning. Hey, Brianna, welcome back. Let's
call this guy Seth. You guys, you met on Tyinder,
you went on a date. You thought the date went well.
The problem is you haven't heard from him since the date,

(01:22:08):
and you want to know why.

Speaker 24 (01:22:09):
Yeah, I mean, I don't get it. I thought we
had a good time.

Speaker 1 (01:22:12):
All right, We're gonna call him now, good luck. Hello.
Hi's is Seth? Oh, yes, Seth, good morning. My name
is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning
radio show, and I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now and I would need
your permission to continue with the call. Said, okay if
we chat for just a second. Oh yeah, that's okay.

(01:22:33):
What's up? Okay, Well, thank you. We're calling on behalf
of a woman named Brianna. I guess you met on
Timder and you recently went on a date with her.
Do you remember her? Man, Yeah, yeah, okay, Well she
called us and told us that she had a great
time on the date. She admitted that you guys went
for drinks and that you had a lot of drinks.
But the date when well, she said it went for
a while. So that's usually a pretty good sign. But

(01:22:56):
she also says that she hasn't heard from you since
the date. So what happened?

Speaker 21 (01:23:01):
Yeah, so it started out all right, you know, Breannes,
she's really pretty things were going well, but our day
was the Saturday night that they took away TikTok and.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
Odd, she just she's.

Speaker 21 (01:23:15):
Acting like a crack addict. You need another head, you know,
like I know, another way to describe. It's just like,
you know, she checked her phone at one point and
she just screamed. I honestly thought somebody had died. But yes,
TikTok just wasn't working on her phone anymore, you know,
And I'm like, wait, why is she even checking TikTok

(01:23:37):
during the day?

Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
Is this not going the way I thought it was.

Speaker 4 (01:23:41):
Then all of a sudden, she's crying.

Speaker 1 (01:23:42):
She's angry.

Speaker 3 (01:23:43):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:23:43):
It's like, Okay, you.

Speaker 21 (01:23:47):
Were sitting here at dinner and I'm just like, all
of a sudden, there's like she's going through these emotions
and I'm I've I never had TikTok really, I've never
really been on it too much.

Speaker 1 (01:23:55):
So it's not if I want a date with someone
they look at their phone start crying. I'm assuming that
some terrible thing just happened. And that's what happened, okay,
like something like an actually an actual loss, like a death. Again,
it's a human being.

Speaker 4 (01:24:17):
There was a whole funeral interest see it. Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
I mean, look, I had the same level of shock
when I looked at TikTok and it like started, it
started like to act up, and I'm like, uh oh.
And then I got that thing and I was like,
uh oh, But I wasn't. I didn't start crying. I
was like, what am I going to do with the
fourteen hours a day I just got back? But I wasn't.
I wasn't crying about it. If a woman cries in
a first date, something very bad has happened. Actually, not

(01:24:43):
the loss of an app. That's exactly all right. Let me.
I forgot to mention that Brianna is here. I got
so tired up in this story and I'm so forgetful,
But Brihanna is here. Brianna, you cried on the date,
but you didn't mention that. And you cried on the
date over TikTok you didn't mention that either.

Speaker 24 (01:24:58):
Is like, it's a huge part of my life and
I was really upset, you know, I.

Speaker 1 (01:25:05):
Mean, okay, but can you understand why this guy might
be like thinking that was an overreaction?

Speaker 7 (01:25:11):
No, I mean it's just you know, like I'm sure
I'm not the only one that freaked out, like it
was really gone.

Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
It was really gone. But I think if I if
a woman cried or a man or whomever on a
date that I'm on, whatever, whatever kind of date I'm on, well,
I'm not trying. No, I'm just not I'm not limiting
you know this scenario. If I'm on a date and
someone cries, and in this case for me, it would
be a woman, Okay, And I say, what are you
crying about? And she what are you? What are you
hysterically crying about? And she said the loss of TikTok.

(01:25:46):
I think I might say, well that seems aggressive.

Speaker 4 (01:25:52):
Yes, oh my god, where is the compassion right?

Speaker 1 (01:25:55):
Where humanity we need support these Okay, girl, this.

Speaker 2 (01:26:01):
Is a safe space here between Jason and I, and
you were totally fine to cry over your act because
you guys men cry when their favorite football team loses.
I don't know if you okay, well, ever been cut
off and you can't get to your favorite shows? People
break down from.

Speaker 1 (01:26:17):
It, I guess. So I guess my issue isn't the crying.
It's the crying over that because a lot of people
were shot. Kiki, are you okay?

Speaker 8 (01:26:25):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:26:25):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:26:26):
Ye?

Speaker 4 (01:26:26):
Bad for this woman?

Speaker 1 (01:26:27):
Okay, Well how about this? Then seth she she had
this visual reaction, she was shocked, you know she. I
don't know, she like a lot of people, I will
say this, I guess I didn't really think it would
like really really go away. So I wasn't paying much
attention to where to find certain creators elsewhere. So there
was part of me that did feel a bit of
a loss because I was like, where am I going

(01:26:48):
to find these people? And is it going to be
the same, you know, because I don't know. I see
there's certain creators. I see their videos every day, so
I get that, but I don't know that I would
start crying and I have no problem with crying. But
let's just say that she, you know, had a big
react to this seth. But you did sit there with
her for a while, so would you consider another date? Maybe?
Now TikTok's back, we should be okay. I don't think like, uh,

(01:27:11):
you know, aol is going anywhere or whatever. There's YouTube
or something on the date, so she should be fine.
We'll pay for it and we'll try it again. Yeah,
you know, that's that's all fair. I think, yeah, really
one time thing. I think, yeah, she's nice and pretty.
You know, I'll go on another date. This is wonderful.
I'm a little surprised, but okay, so you know what,
she had a big reaction. Everything is going to be okay,

(01:27:33):
and you want to go out with her again, Brianna,
you hear that we got another date going. That's great, Okay, good,
so we'll get all your in. This is not very common.
I think it's happened only a handful of times. I
frankly did not my spidy senses did not see it
happening here. But we're going to pay for another date
and then we're going to follow up with you in
a few days and see how that date went and

(01:27:55):
hopefully that was just a one time deal and everything's fine. Okay,
you guys hang out one second, the Entertainer Report, the
biggest stories of the day, and the fund Sect all
on the way next back a three minutes on the
Fred Show, Klin's Entertainer Report. He's on the Fread Show.

Speaker 6 (01:28:12):
Conan O'Brien's joke writer once everyone who missed the comedic
timing of his Oscars joke about the Drake Kendrick beef
to know that it was just a pop culture reference.

Speaker 4 (01:28:20):
There's no ill intent. No Conan is not picking sides
in the beef, which a lot of people think that
he is.

Speaker 6 (01:28:25):
Skyler Higgley, who wrote the joke for Conan, says, and
if you missed the joke, it was, he says, we're
halfway through the show, so that means it's time for
Kendrick to come out and call Drake a.

Speaker 4 (01:28:35):
Pedophile a lah halftime. He said.

Speaker 6 (01:28:38):
The idea that it's being taken as a real call
out or taking sides in any way in the beef
is absurd. He said it was simply a reference to
Kendrick's Super Bowl performance and a cultural moment of the
past year. Higher ups actually tried to get Conan to
cut that joke as well, but there was one producer
who was really fighting for it. And I mean, yes,

(01:28:58):
it was written by his writer, but if he didn't
want to say it, he wouldn't, so Conan obviously co
signed it as well. Speaking of the Oscars, Conan made
it very clear that he's not playing around with long
acceptance speeches.

Speaker 4 (01:29:08):
But that didn't stop Adrian Brody.

Speaker 6 (01:29:10):
During his Best Actors speech Sunday night, he broke a record,
going on for five minutes and forty seconds. The Guinness
World Records currently cites Greer Garson's nineteen forty three Best
Actress acceptance speech as the longest in Academy history at
five minutes and thirty seconds.

Speaker 4 (01:29:26):
This would mean that Adrian's now the longest.

Speaker 6 (01:29:28):
There is some debate going on because they don't have
the audio of her full speech because it was so
long ago and they only have like three minutes of
it archived, but historians have written that hers was that long. Nonetheless,
Adrian had people asleep in the audience. I'm sure Sunday night,
I mean five minutes and forty seconds, I mean Jesus,
And later that night Chapel roan. She did a duet

(01:29:48):
that we didn't know we needed. She was joined on
stage by Elton John for a duet of Pink Pony Club.
She was the headliner at his thirty third annual Eights
Foundation Oscar party. It was a watch party in West Hollywood,
and she also did a cover of his song Your Song.
Elton was actually a very early fan of Chapel. I
interviewed her when she was opening up for Olivia Rodrigo
on the Guts Tour, right before she blew up. It

(01:30:10):
was like seconds later, and I asked her if anyone
has reached out saying they were a fan of hers,
and she mentioned Elton, So he has been an early
Chapel fan, and boy was he right. By the way,
if you missed any part of our show, The Fred Show,
you can search The Frend Show on demand on the
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Speaker 4 (01:30:28):
Please Friend's fun fact Fred Fund.

Speaker 1 (01:30:40):
Okay, did you know that tigers have striped skin, not
your stripe fur? Oh? Really?

Speaker 2 (01:30:52):
Wait?

Speaker 19 (01:30:52):
What?

Speaker 1 (01:30:53):
I swear that high? I swear that high, but yes,
tigers have striped not just striped fur. And I guess
I never thought about that before, but I guess I
thought most animals would have like skin like ours, you know,
that's just one color and then the fur might be

(01:31:14):
different colors or whatever. But no, no, tigers have striped skin,
not just striped fur. I know you're blown away by this. Yeah,
blown shook, absolutely shook. Kiki tomorrow on the show This
Kiki Showdown, we're doing animal effects now. That's where we're

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at with this game Fread show next. Yeah, they talk
better than.

Speaker 14 (01:31:41):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

Speaker 1 (01:31:46):
It's like we're running in our diaries, except we say
them a loud. We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, take
it away.

Speaker 4 (01:31:52):
Oh thank you so much, dear blog. So I know, Freddy,
You've talked about.

Speaker 13 (01:31:56):
This like many of times here, and I've heard, you know, stories,
but to be completely honest, I've never had like I've
never seen it happen to a friend. It's happened to me,
but I was like, oh, I see it happen to people.
Maybe it's like one of those like fairy tale things
where like it might happen, and like, I don't know,
it didn't really like hit me until my best friend
mentioned the other day, he goes, oh, yeah, you know,

(01:32:17):
I was gonna go out with and I won't name them,
but I was gonna go out this couple, a married couple,
newly married, because like I think there are maybe five
six months in he was no longer invited to something
that he I guess maybe assumed he was invited to.
I guess they made plans like prior, and I guess
he had asked, like kind of like another friend, what's
up with that? You know, why wasn't I invited? And

(01:32:39):
it was a married couple's only kind of event.

Speaker 1 (01:32:42):
Yeah, and I was.

Speaker 13 (01:32:43):
About to go in there swinging and nothing to do
with me. But I was so upset about that for
so many reasons. And I'm a married person. I'm a
married couple over here, and I would never even in
my mind, like ever think of.

Speaker 4 (01:32:54):
Doing that to somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:32:56):
Yeah, that's the thing. No, it's a real thing. As
a single guy, I think there are couples events that
take place and I don't take it personally. Well, it's
hard kind of not to, but I think I don't
get invited because I would be like the odd man out,
you know, I'd be like the third or fifth or
tenth or whatever wheel or I guess tenth wouldn't make
s it, you know, I'd be the eleventh wheel.

Speaker 13 (01:33:18):
But like, I just don't understand. Like to me, my
friends first of all are my people. But if my
friends can't come out with me and my husband and
like have a good time or whatever, like are we
really friends?

Speaker 4 (01:33:27):
Like I has nothing to do.

Speaker 13 (01:33:28):
I don't care if you're married single, if you're seeing
eighteen different men, like I don't care if you're like
the play a player, like I don't care what your
status is. Like that has nothing to do with me
wanting to invite you to my event or my dinner
whatever it is, Like that's the place that you know
what I mean?

Speaker 6 (01:33:41):
Like why are we treating marriage like it's some sort
of elite club that like you need a membership too,
like of chill, Like you decided to do that, and
that's great for you. But a friend is a friend,
Like you need new friends if people are doing that too,
that's crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:33:54):
It's so mean.

Speaker 13 (01:33:55):
And I saw like this TikTok, and I don't know
this girl was talking about. I guess why married couples this? Yeah,
I'm very curious. I am one mind you, but I
never never thought of it this way. I guess it's
married couples want to be around married couples because a
it's the relatability part.

Speaker 4 (01:34:10):
But I guess like it's a secure kind of thing.

Speaker 13 (01:34:13):
So it's like I would invite a single person, which
is really I brought flag on your marriage in my opinion,
because what you're afraid that single person's gonna meddle in
your relationship and gonna come.

Speaker 4 (01:34:24):
I know, Yeah, I saw a video.

Speaker 1 (01:34:26):
I thought it was just because it was like it's
couples and then a random.

Speaker 13 (01:34:30):
Dude, yes, or I saw like not even marriage, but
like if like a couple that's dating does that.

Speaker 4 (01:34:35):
I was like, ma'am, what, like you don't want your
homegirl around your man like that? That's a whole conversation.

Speaker 1 (01:34:41):
I don't know if that, I don't know if I
agree with that. The other thing, this happens a lot
too with and I've said this before over the years,
but it happens with people with kids too, like my friends.
All of my friends, like in one particular friend group,
we all used to be single. Now everyone but me
is married, and everybody but me has a kid. And
I find out that like they hang out a lot,

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but they hang out, you know, the kid's birthday party,
which is at the play place you know, or whatever,
and it's like, well, we didn't invite you because we
didn't think you wanted to go to a play place
on a Saturday with a bunch of screaming kids, And
they're right, I don't. But at the same time, if
that's the only way I'm going to see a lot
of these people, then I guess I probably would go
exactly that's your true you know, but that's more of

(01:35:23):
like a lifestyle thing, I guess. But but yeah, I
think that people with kids hang out with people with
kids a lot, and I think that that couples don't
necessarily invite like a third person to hang out with them,
and I think so we miss out on stuff single people.

Speaker 6 (01:35:38):
When I was single, my friends like loved it because
they wanted to pick my brain about dating and like,
you know, talk all the things, which I mean single
people don't always love when married people are like.

Speaker 4 (01:35:47):
I'm living vicariously through you. But I mean, I don't
know that just that would hurt me.

Speaker 1 (01:35:52):
But yeah, I've gone on vacations though, like trips, weekend
trips and stuff where I'm the like a married couple
on me, I love it. No, and it's fine, I mean,
you know, but it's funny because the wife will in
this case, argued all weekend like I think I'm the
third wheel because basically this is like you two wanted
to go out and do something, but you couldn't get
even't think you get away with it unless I came,

(01:36:13):
and then I guess for me, I don't necessarily want
to invite someone to go on a trip with all
my friends unless the relationship kind of is going someplace,
because I do think if as a dude, if I
say to a woman i'm dating, let's go on a
trip first of all, or let's all go to dinner
with my friends, then I think what we're saying there is, oh, well,

(01:36:33):
let me introduce you to my friends because I'm serious
about you, And if I'm not, then I don't think
that's fair.

Speaker 13 (01:36:39):
Agree, good point, good point, But you should still be
invited to the dinners, to the kids' birthday parties.

Speaker 4 (01:36:44):
Listen.

Speaker 13 (01:36:45):
As a married person was a child, I hate when
people treat it like jail or prison where they can't
see their friends anymore or want to invite other friends, Like.

Speaker 4 (01:36:53):
That's me is so weird. Like yesterday, my husband he
went out with his.

Speaker 13 (01:36:56):
Friends for his friend's birthday and he was like pacing
the house. I'm like, what time are you leaving? What
time are you leaving? And I'm like, you know what's
crazy too, is that your friends are single. I guess
maybe in relationships technically, but they're like single and no kids,
and you're the guy that's married with kids, and yet
your ass is going out more than they do. Like
that's to me crazy, Like maybe it's just me and
like the kind of wife that I am, because I

(01:37:17):
am okay with it, because I also.

Speaker 4 (01:37:19):
I one thing about me is I love my alone time.

Speaker 13 (01:37:22):
I I love being alone and I also love going
out with my friends, and like that's something I'm not
giving up.

Speaker 4 (01:37:27):
Like I'm just I'm sorry, I'm not. Don't get me wrong.
You know, if my kid needs me, of course, like
my daughter will be.

Speaker 1 (01:37:33):
Look, you're one year old. I need some alone time
right now.

Speaker 13 (01:37:36):
So if you get sent for yourself, yeah, mommyan's a margarita,
so I'll be back. But yeah, exactly, I'm kind of
I just look at it like this is crazy, like
this isn't whatever, this isn't a present, like you can
go out with your friends and you should invite all
of your friends.

Speaker 1 (01:37:50):
I'm also not sure as much if if I don't
get invited to stuff, and I do think the couples
and the kids thing is valid, but I'm also the
guy that wants to be invited to everything but may
or may not go, and I don't say that I'm
gonna go and then that show up. I just mean
I tend I'm like you. I like my alone time
a lot, and I get in these modes where I don't,
you know, on the weekend or whatever, I just don't

(01:38:11):
really want to do anything. And so I think that's
part of it too, is that I probably stop getting
invited to stuff because people just assume that I wouldn't go.
And I guess I would like the option, you know,
I would like my friends to continue giving me the
option to go or not go. But I also wouldn't
blame them, Like if I invited someone to something five
times and they didn't go, I'd probably stop calling them,

(01:38:34):
not because I don't like them, but because I just
assume Fred's not coming.

Speaker 6 (01:38:38):
Yeah, that's where you lose me if people say no enough,
I'm not inviting anymore.

Speaker 4 (01:38:41):
Sorry, good point. It hurts my life.

Speaker 1 (01:38:44):
I need to be invited though, I need to be invited. Okay, okay, I.

Speaker 6 (01:38:48):
Know, but it's it's like the people that are doing
the inviting, like some people take it personally and it
hurts their feelings.

Speaker 4 (01:38:54):
So then they stopped.

Speaker 1 (01:38:55):
Well, you should not take it personally because I'm me
and I'm an introvert that can pretend sometimes. No, don't
take it personally. Just make sure you invite me, please.
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