March 7, 2025 • 10 mins
Jonah is confused why his date won't call him back after a great night that even included going back to his place.... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jonah, good morning, welcome to
the program. How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I'm doing all right well. Trying to help you out
here though it waiting on the phone. So what's going
on with this woman? Page? Like, I need to know
how you met, about any dates you've been on, and
then where things are now, and then how we can help.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Obviously we met on the apps. You know most people,
I guess meeting that way. But you know, we had
a great first date. We went out after talking on
the after a little while and went out and and
you know, we went back to my place and I
had an even better time. Let's just put it that way,
(00:46):
you know, Okay, you know not you know she's uh
and then she's just straight ghosted me afterwards. Like and
what I don't understand is, like, you know, we had
a good time, we had a great time. If she
was down to go back to my place and hook up,
you know why the ghosting? You know why she goes
to me now I'd like to see her again, I.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Would say most of the time. I mean I've been
doing this for a long We've all been doing these
calls for a long time, so I mean, I would
normally say when someone on a first date wants to
go home with you that that's a good thing. So
everything was good until that point, I guess. But now
you're not able to get a hold of this woman.
You've called her, you've texted her, you've tried, and she's
not responding to you.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
At all, not at all, like straight ghosted, which you know,
it's not like anything bad happened. We had a good time,
you know, we had fun. Yeah, nothing weird, nothing, you know,
it was just I don't know, I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
All right, Well, look, Jonah, we'll be the judge of
that in just a second. Okay, we're gonna find out
what's going on. We're gonna call Page, see if we
can get her on the phone, ask some questions. You'll
be on the phone at the same time, and you
welcome to jump in at some point. And the hope,
as always is that we can straighten this out, figure
out what's going on, set you guys up on another.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Date, and play for it. All right, We love that,
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Let's find out what's going on. Two of Waiting by
the phone is have to Sizza back in two minutes.
You plan to hear this. It's the Fred Show. Stay
so on the Fred Show. We're commercial free for the
next forty minutes. You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Jonah, Yeah,
all right, let's call it page. You guys met on
one of the dating apps. You went on a date.
You felt like it was a successful date, so much
(02:23):
so that she wound up going back to your place
after the dinner and the drinks or whatever you guys did.
But you have not heard from this woman since then,
and it's bugging you because obviously you liked whatever happened
and liked her and wanted to see her again, and
now you can't.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
You can't find her.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Absolutely, Have you guys can help me track her down?
That'd be great.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
We're gonna find out right now. Good luck.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Man. Hello?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Hi is his page?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I hate page. Good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
My name is Fredam calling from The Fred Show, the
Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the calls and cool
if we chat for just a second.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Uh Okay, I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
It's kind of strange, and I'm sorry to sort of
barge you in on your life like this, but you're
welcome to hang up in any time. We're calling on
behalf of a guy who reached out to us for help.
His name is Jonah. Do you remember going on a
date with Jonah?
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I do, all right, Well, he described to us what
he thought was a really good date. He liked you
a lot. He did say that you guys wander back
at his place. He didn't get into detail about that,
but he says he hasn't heard from you since then,
So what's going on?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Why? Why are you ghosting Jonah?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
It looks like, oh my god, this is so embarrassing. Okay,
yes we went on a date, but god, I mean
I wouldn't normally kiss and tell like this is mortifying,
but it's kind of like why, I guess it's.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
A safe place.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
This is a safe place page and uh he asked
us to do this, so you're welcome to say whatever
you want.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
So after we hooked up, Jonah was so rude, Like
the second we finished, he was up and collecting my
things so that I could get dressed, and he was like,
what's your address I'll call you an uber.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Oh what a gentleman? Was it? Fred? Stop it right now?
I am not. It takes me a few minutes to
get everything together. Come on.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
So okay, So you guys, you hook up, You had
a good time. Everything is fine up until this moment.
And as soon as it's over, he's like, oh, there's
your bra okay, and then you know, Sam's on his
way in the Honda Civic license plate one two three four.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
He'll be downstairs. Yeah, no, he well he went for
the uber comfort. Yes, what a guy? Right, So it
kind of went like that you're saying.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yeah, it's just like it made it feel so cheap,
like like it was so fast. It was like a
flip switch, you know what I mean. Like it was
just like I got the hint and I laughed, But
it just made me feel like, by the.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Way, uh, because because you were getting there.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
I like my bed. Look, I like my bed to myself,
and I was tired and that makes me a tool.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
No, but like why did you invite me over if
there was like a time limit on the evening?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Like it was just rude.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Look, we were having a good time, I mean, we
were vibing obviously we connected, you know, I mean, you
know where I was tired. I just wanted to go
to sleep. I mean, I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
There's a difference between who might have talk, but there's
a difference between like wanting to sleep, you know, or
having an early morning or whatever. I mean, you gotta
be you gotta be a little more casual about it,
Like you can't.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Mean okay, but I mean you can't.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Have like are you still going, like you know, the
heart's still pumping and it's like Uber will be here
in two minutes. You got to be a little bit
more laid back about it.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I'm a single guy. I'm used to sleeping by myself.
I used to have some space and uh, I mean,
I'll be honest. I was just like I was just
right to pass out. Man, it was a struggle just
to call that Uber.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
But for your Uber, Okay, you need to tell you
that beforehand, though, Like if you're if you want someone
to come over and you want to do that, like
I feel like that's okay if you want that, but
you definitely need to make the other person aware of
that prior.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
To the you know, I don't know, I look, I
wanted you to come over. I think we had a
fun time. If I told you I was tired, you
might have not come over, you know what I mean,
Like I'm just.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Saying, right, you acted like it was a business transaction
like it was. It was really crappy.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
It's like I thought I was being a gentleman.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I thought I was.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
I thought I was doing like the right thing, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I mean it's like.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Like like you saw your owns. No, But I didn't say, like, okay,
you call your own uber.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
No, I was.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I thought it was. It was like being a icy
you know.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
So you politely kicked her out. I got you. Look,
I get it.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
The clothes were everywhere. I got straightened them up, I
gathered you. I mean, I got them all together for her.
You know, I was decided to be I was trying
to be a nice and accommedy.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Icy so as opposed to being like, two seconds after
it's over, hey call your own uber. You just went
ahead and did it for I'll be honest. That is
casting over right there. That I mean what it's about
raising the bar.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Okay you put it that way. Yeah, But I felt
like I was doing the right thing at the time.
People I was super tired too. I was exhausted, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
I mean I say that, you can say that, be like, hey,
look I'm really tired. I gotta go to bed. You
know I got to get up early tomorrow. I mean,
people can take a hint. But like I again, you
just did this very personal thing. I wouldn't necessarily do this, right,
I mean, just say, hey, you know you want some water,
Like I don't know what you did, say, like, jar, well,
(08:04):
what would you prefer?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
You don't want me to offer you hydration.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
I don't want you to kick me out at all.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
But I'm.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Not kicking anybody out.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
I'm just saying, like, there's a way to do this
where some sep I mean, sure maybe, but you can't
honestly tell me that every time you've hooked up with
some other people in the room, that every time you've
hooked up with someone you wanted them to stay the night.
I mean, I don't think this is I think this
guy was rude, but I don't think this is a
(08:34):
signature male move only. I've definitely been at women's houses
before where they were like, oh oh doing the yawning thing.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Oh man, oh, I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
So tired and it's like, Okay, I wasn't invited to stay,
so I'm not going to stay.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
That happens on the other end.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Too, of course it does, but I still think it's
rude from both parties.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Oh yeah, that's true. Yeah it was. If you had
just said all of that, I would have understood.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
But it was so like the and it was over,
I was like, okay, bye, see yourself out.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Everybody knows you three to five minutes. It's definitely it does.
I can see why. It felt very transactional.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I can.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I love to understand. And Page, I.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Told, yeah, I didn't intended to come across that way.
Like I said, I thought I was doing the right
thing by gathering up your clothes for you.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
I thought it was you know, I mean I was.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
I was not in my in the right mindset. But
I will say I had a great time. I thought
you did too, And uh, you know, if.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You maybe, if if you'd wanted to.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Go out with me again, I would love to.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I mean, that was okay, that was awesome.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
So Page, look, he I don't know if he really
is getting it, but he is. Let's say that he's
accepted that what he did was rude. You obviously liked
him up until that point. If he promises you to
be a little more respectful moving forward, uh, and you know,
maybe wait a little while before he calls the uber.
Would you consider going out with him again?
Speaker 4 (10:02):
Absolutely not, because I have self respect and I'm not
putting myself in that situation again.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
I get it. It's something to think about.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
It's something something about, yeah, I'm gonna I'm just gonna
noodle this one for a while and you know maybe Okay,
look it's not gonna work out. Jonah, she's not interested. Paige,
thank you for your time. Good luck to you and
Jonah as well.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Okay, but thanks for trying.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
The Entertainment Report Kaitlyn has that next in two minutes,
showby is Jason, in for Showbiz, Kiki in for show
by Shelley who just had a little baby boy, beautiful
baby boy.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
It's all next to The Fred Show.
Ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jonah, good morning, welcome to
the program. How are you.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, how are you?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
I'm doing all right well. Trying to help you out
here though it waiting on the phone. So what's going
on with this woman? Page? Like, I need to know
how you met, about any dates you've been on, and
then where things are now, and then how we can help.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Obviously we met on the apps. You know most people,
I guess meeting that way. But you know, we had
a great first date. We went out after talking on
the after a little while and went out and and
you know, we went back to my place and I
had an even better time. Let's just put it that way,
(00:46):
you know, Okay, you know not you know she's uh
and then she's just straight ghosted me afterwards. Like and
what I don't understand is, like, you know, we had
a good time, we had a great time. If she
was down to go back to my place and hook up,
you know why the ghosting? You know why she goes
to me now I'd like to see her again, I.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Would say most of the time. I mean I've been
doing this for a long We've all been doing these
calls for a long time, so I mean, I would
normally say when someone on a first date wants to
go home with you that that's a good thing. So
everything was good until that point, I guess. But now
you're not able to get a hold of this woman.
You've called her, you've texted her, you've tried, and she's
not responding to you.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
At all, not at all, like straight ghosted, which you know,
it's not like anything bad happened. We had a good time,
you know, we had fun. Yeah, nothing weird, nothing, you know,
it was just I don't know, I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
All right, Well, look, Jonah, we'll be the judge of
that in just a second. Okay, we're gonna find out
what's going on. We're gonna call Page, see if we
can get her on the phone, ask some questions. You'll
be on the phone at the same time, and you
welcome to jump in at some point. And the hope,
as always is that we can straighten this out, figure
out what's going on, set you guys up on another.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Date, and play for it. All right, We love that,
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Let's find out what's going on. Two of Waiting by
the phone is have to Sizza back in two minutes.
You plan to hear this. It's the Fred Show. Stay
so on the Fred Show. We're commercial free for the
next forty minutes. You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Jonah, Yeah,
all right, let's call it page. You guys met on
one of the dating apps. You went on a date.
You felt like it was a successful date, so much
(02:23):
so that she wound up going back to your place
after the dinner and the drinks or whatever you guys did.
But you have not heard from this woman since then,
and it's bugging you because obviously you liked whatever happened
and liked her and wanted to see her again, and
now you can't.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
You can't find her.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Absolutely, Have you guys can help me track her down?
That'd be great.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
We're gonna find out right now. Good luck.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Man. Hello?
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Hi is his page?
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I hate page. Good morning.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
My name is Fredam calling from The Fred Show, the
Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now and I would
need your permission to continue with the calls and cool
if we chat for just a second.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Uh Okay, I know, I know.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
It's kind of strange, and I'm sorry to sort of
barge you in on your life like this, but you're
welcome to hang up in any time. We're calling on
behalf of a guy who reached out to us for help.
His name is Jonah. Do you remember going on a
date with Jonah?
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I do, all right, Well, he described to us what
he thought was a really good date. He liked you
a lot. He did say that you guys wander back
at his place. He didn't get into detail about that,
but he says he hasn't heard from you since then,
So what's going on?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Why? Why are you ghosting Jonah?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
It looks like, oh my god, this is so embarrassing. Okay,
yes we went on a date, but god, I mean
I wouldn't normally kiss and tell like this is mortifying,
but it's kind of like why, I guess it's.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
A safe place.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
This is a safe place page and uh he asked
us to do this, so you're welcome to say whatever
you want.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
So after we hooked up, Jonah was so rude, Like
the second we finished, he was up and collecting my
things so that I could get dressed, and he was like,
what's your address I'll call you an uber.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Oh what a gentleman? Was it? Fred? Stop it right now?
I am not. It takes me a few minutes to
get everything together. Come on.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
So okay, So you guys, you hook up, You had
a good time. Everything is fine up until this moment.
And as soon as it's over, he's like, oh, there's
your bra okay, and then you know, Sam's on his
way in the Honda Civic license plate one two three four.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
He'll be downstairs. Yeah, no, he well he went for
the uber comfort. Yes, what a guy? Right, So it
kind of went like that you're saying.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yeah, it's just like it made it feel so cheap,
like like it was so fast. It was like a
flip switch, you know what I mean. Like it was
just like I got the hint and I laughed, But
it just made me feel like, by the.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Way, uh, because because you were getting there.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
I like my bed. Look, I like my bed to myself,
and I was tired and that makes me a tool.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
No, but like why did you invite me over if
there was like a time limit on the evening?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Like it was just rude.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Look, we were having a good time, I mean, we
were vibing obviously we connected, you know, I mean, you
know where I was tired. I just wanted to go
to sleep. I mean, I don't understand.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
There's a difference between who might have talk, but there's
a difference between like wanting to sleep, you know, or
having an early morning or whatever. I mean, you gotta
be you gotta be a little more casual about it,
Like you can't.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Mean okay, but I mean you can't.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Have like are you still going, like you know, the
heart's still pumping and it's like Uber will be here
in two minutes. You got to be a little bit
more laid back about it.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
I'm a single guy. I'm used to sleeping by myself.
I used to have some space and uh, I mean,
I'll be honest. I was just like I was just
right to pass out. Man, it was a struggle just
to call that Uber.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
But for your Uber, Okay, you need to tell you
that beforehand, though, Like if you're if you want someone
to come over and you want to do that, like
I feel like that's okay if you want that, but
you definitely need to make the other person aware of
that prior.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
To the you know, I don't know, I look, I
wanted you to come over. I think we had a
fun time. If I told you I was tired, you
might have not come over, you know what I mean,
Like I'm just.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Saying, right, you acted like it was a business transaction
like it was. It was really crappy.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
It's like I thought I was being a gentleman.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
I thought I was.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
I thought I was doing like the right thing, you know.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I mean it's like.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
Like like you saw your owns. No, But I didn't say, like, okay,
you call your own uber.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
No, I was.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
I thought it was. It was like being a icy
you know.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
So you politely kicked her out. I got you. Look,
I get it.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
The clothes were everywhere. I got straightened them up, I
gathered you. I mean, I got them all together for her.
You know, I was decided to be I was trying
to be a nice and accommedy.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Icy so as opposed to being like, two seconds after
it's over, hey call your own uber. You just went
ahead and did it for I'll be honest. That is
casting over right there. That I mean what it's about
raising the bar.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Okay you put it that way. Yeah, But I felt
like I was doing the right thing at the time.
People I was super tired too. I was exhausted, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
I mean I say that, you can say that, be like, hey,
look I'm really tired. I gotta go to bed. You
know I got to get up early tomorrow. I mean,
people can take a hint. But like I again, you
just did this very personal thing. I wouldn't necessarily do this, right,
I mean, just say, hey, you know you want some water,
Like I don't know what you did, say, like, jar, well,
(08:04):
what would you prefer?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
You don't want me to offer you hydration.
Speaker 6 (08:07):
I don't want you to kick me out at all.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
But I'm.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Not kicking anybody out.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
I'm just saying, like, there's a way to do this
where some sep I mean, sure maybe, but you can't
honestly tell me that every time you've hooked up with
some other people in the room, that every time you've
hooked up with someone you wanted them to stay the night.
I mean, I don't think this is I think this
guy was rude, but I don't think this is a
(08:34):
signature male move only. I've definitely been at women's houses
before where they were like, oh oh doing the yawning thing.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Oh man, oh, I'm.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
So tired and it's like, Okay, I wasn't invited to stay,
so I'm not going to stay.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
That happens on the other end.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Too, of course it does, but I still think it's
rude from both parties.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Oh yeah, that's true. Yeah it was. If you had
just said all of that, I would have understood.
Speaker 4 (08:58):
But it was so like the and it was over,
I was like, okay, bye, see yourself out.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Everybody knows you three to five minutes. It's definitely it does.
I can see why. It felt very transactional.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I can.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I love to understand. And Page, I.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Told, yeah, I didn't intended to come across that way.
Like I said, I thought I was doing the right
thing by gathering up your clothes for you.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
I thought it was you know, I mean I was.
Speaker 3 (09:30):
I was not in my in the right mindset. But
I will say I had a great time. I thought
you did too, And uh, you know, if.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You maybe, if if you'd wanted to.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Go out with me again, I would love to.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I mean, that was okay, that was awesome.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
So Page, look, he I don't know if he really
is getting it, but he is. Let's say that he's
accepted that what he did was rude. You obviously liked
him up until that point. If he promises you to
be a little more respectful moving forward, uh, and you know,
maybe wait a little while before he calls the uber.
Would you consider going out with him again?
Speaker 4 (10:02):
Absolutely not, because I have self respect and I'm not
putting myself in that situation again.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
I get it. It's something to think about.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
It's something something about, yeah, I'm gonna I'm just gonna
noodle this one for a while and you know maybe Okay,
look it's not gonna work out. Jonah, she's not interested. Paige,
thank you for your time. Good luck to you and
Jonah as well.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Okay, but thanks for trying.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
The Entertainment Report Kaitlyn has that next in two minutes,
showby is Jason, in for Showbiz, Kiki in for show
by Shelley who just had a little baby boy, beautiful
baby boy.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
It's all next to The Fred Show.
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Therapy Gecko
An unlicensed lizard psychologist travels the universe talking to strangers about absolutely nothing. TO CALL THE GECKO: follow me on https://www.twitch.tv/lyleforever to get a notification for when I am taking calls. I am usually live Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays but lately a lot of other times too. I am a gecko.