March 27, 2025 • 10 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Carl, good morning, Welcome to the program.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
How are you, uh don't okay?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Considering okay, all right, just okay, which is honest because
you think maybe you've been ghosted. So tell us about Mina,
this woman, and then you know about how you met
any date you've been on, kind of all the backstory.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Fill listen.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah, like you said, her her name is Mina.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I met her on a dating app.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
We chatted for a little bit on there, and then
we decided to meet up and we uh we went
to this uh this rest of this Italian place, my
favorite place, and it was it was a great day.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
It was great.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
And did I never hear from her? So I'm you know,
maybe it wasn't great.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
I feel like I'm I'm I'm missing something because every
time I try to respond or I try to, you know,
reach out to her, I'm not getting anything back right
one hundred percent and ghosting. So I don't, you know,
was it something I did.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, it's always kind of a risk when you meet
someone on the apps that the chemistry and person will
be what you hope it is. But hey, you're looking
back on this date, you're thinking, Hey, I thought it
went really well. Conversation was good. I thought there was
attraction in chemistry and all that, except this woman is
not responding to you now for another date, and you
kind of want to know, Well, if I if I
thought everything went well, then what am I missing exactly?
(01:29):
All right, Well, Carl, let's play a song. Come back
in a couple of minutes. We'll call Mina, we'll ask
these questions. You'll be on the phone. You're welcome a
jump in at some point. And the hope is always
is that we can straighten all of this out and
set you guys up on another date that we pay for.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Sounds good, Yeah, yeah, yeah, that'd be great.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
We're gonna find out what's going on towards you of
waiting meta phone right after its Bread of Carpenter Vackmes
two minute, it's The Fred's Show and we're commercial free there.
It is The Fred Show. Good Morning on the radio
live and anytime. Search for The Fred's Show on demand
the iHeart app and make us a pre set as well. Hey, Carl,
welcome back.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Man.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Let's call Mina. You met on one of the dating apps.
You went on a date, You went to a nice
spot that you picked out. You thought everything went really well.
You felt like the conversation was flowing and the chemistry
was good, and there was a connection. You walked away thinking, Hey,
I'm going to reach out to Mina. We're going to
go on another date. This is going someplace. Except you
did that, and she has not responded to you, and
you want to know why exactly exactly right? Yeah, all right,
(02:23):
let's call Mina now, good luck? Hi is this Mina? Hey, Mina,
good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the
Friend's Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is here.
I have to tell you that we are on the
(02:43):
radio right now. I would need your permission to continue
with the call. Can we ch have for just a
second on the air. You can hang up anytime, I guess. Okay,
I'll take that as a yes.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
We're calling on behalf of a dude named Carl who
you met on a recently apparently and went on a
date with Italian restaurant.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Does it ring a bell?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Okay, So he called us and had nice things to
say about you. And that he was excited about you
and thought the date went well. He says he's reached
out since then for another date and you're not responding.
He feels like he's being ghosted. So what, you know,
what's kind of your side of the story. Is that true?
Are you avoiding him?
Speaker 5 (03:22):
I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he
I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do
you want me to tell.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
You what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us
what happened.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Okay, So yeah, he asked us, you can order for
the table, and you know, I thought that that made
sense because he took me to his favorite spot and
I'm not picky, and he ordered like a lot, like
a ton of food, and I would say it was
an abnormal amount of and yeah that the dinner just
(04:04):
got kind of weird from there. And then I realized
that he wasn't really eating much, but he just kept
insisting that I should eat and try things. And then
you know, after some time, you know, we'd had some
wine and everything. I finally was just like, what is
going on? What is the deal?
Speaker 5 (04:23):
And then he was like, I just want you to
eat so much that you feel sick.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
And that was.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
What the yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
And then he.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
Yeah, he said that he like wanted to hook up,
but that I like, he's feeling sick.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I think it was some sort of kink of his,
Like it was very weird.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat
all the food, and then he wanted to go mess around.
Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get
most able to hook up with you? Like I don't
normally think eat everything. Let's go to let's go to
the you know, Brazilian steakhouse and just all the meat
on the stick, and.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Then let's go home and get it on blue cheese crest.
Oh no, thank you, no, thank you, Ryan.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
So you think he was in because he's watching you
eat and then he wants to go home and do
some stuff and he thinks that's like something he's into.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
I think he used to do this so much that
I felt sick and then he wanted to hook up.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
I've forgot to mentioned that Carl is here, the masochist. Carl,
what what?
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Okay, Look it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a
well known thing. It's called them, all right, and yeah,
and yeah I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
It's called I'm a feeder, all right.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I've seed my partners and they get, you know, till
they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are
knocking it.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Have you ever tried? You're all right? I mean on purpose?
Se yes, but not the first time.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Yeah, I know it's usually like you know, the comfort
levels too high? Yes, yes, it's way too high at
that point. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
You know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of judgment
over here.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
And and you know I don't. I don't.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
I don't think I signed up for that when I
asked you guys.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
No little help.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Okay, okay, well let's relax for a second, Carl, And
no one's judging you. I think we're trying to figure
out okay, well me is I'm not judging you. I'm
trying to figure out, you know, where's the turn on?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Right?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
But for him that's his thing, feederism. Did you make
that up? Or is that real?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
No?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
There is a small community of us. We are small
but vocal. You guys are laughing. I mean, I mean you.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Look it up.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
I think we're not laughing.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Your passion is amazing. The sex, it's the best sex
I've ever had when I'm with a partner who is
you know, filled to the guilt.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Stopping.
Speaker 7 (07:04):
If you, guys, if you got to come from your
ivory power and listen to me for a second, maybe
you know you could see things.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Every Why don't you have to eat? Though? I don't
get that. Yeah, wouldn't this be like both of you eat? No?
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Are you going? Are you guys listening? I'm I'm the fever.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my
partner the food I provide then and.
Speaker 8 (07:30):
Then once there, you know, so you feed, you feed
her and then y'all go to bas and I'm like
garlic butter and get it popping. And that's it.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Well, and it's amazing, it's absolutely amazing me.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
What did you want to say? Please?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
I mean, Kiki's into this. I guess carling later, But uh,
what did you want to say? Mena?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Because you were trying to get in wea.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
I just okay, here's the thing, that's what you're into. Whatever,
But you need to just schools that to somebody before
you asked him on a date and start making them
do that.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
You should talk about the first.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
You know, this is the thing. I'm married. I'm not
I need you to cal him down, sir. He's exactly
passionate about his craft. That's what I meant.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Angry he doesn't get Carl, I'm gonna let what what
did you get to say? Something else? What do you
want to say?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
You know, it's it's I thought I had made some
references to that in our chats, you know, and.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Day you know, I'm not a I'm not a mind reader,
all right.
Speaker 7 (08:37):
I don't have a crystal ball over here, okay, but
I mean I think you know, from what from what
we talked about before I was I would hope that
you would be, uh, you know a little bit more
open minded about it, you know. And now here's the thing. Okay,
we're talking about it now. And that's that's step one too.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
In the process on the radio, in the convergent process this. Yeah,
you know.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
You weren't upfront about it.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
And here's the thing. There's the field app so you
can go on there and.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into and like we.
Speaker 7 (09:15):
Talked about, you have you have no idea while he.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Is you but no you yeah, trick me and gross.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I mean, I'm with you the number one way to
get me to probably not hook up with you, Like
if you're on a day with me and you don't
want to mess around, like just stuff food in my face,
like you know, make me eat more, because then I
get home I feel disgusted.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Don't you feel tired too?
Speaker 8 (09:37):
Like the first thing I want to do is get
it on, like I.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Just want to lay like a beach oil like vertically.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Yeah, well, don't hey, be careful Carl's getting turned on.
Yeah all right, Look, I mean I'll ask the question.
I think I know the answer. But would you be
interested in going out with Carl again?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
All right?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Not not interested? Hey, Carl, Look, no one's judging you,
no one's king shaming you do whatever you do. I
just you got to realize. I think it's not gonna
be for everybody.
Speaker 7 (10:04):
You know, feeders are the most maligned thinks in this country.
And I think one day it's you know, one day
that the table is gonna you know, be on the
other foot and it's gonna turn.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
On the other foot. Huh. And you know, you know
what you know what I'm saying. I'm sorry, I get
you know what I mean. It's just frustrating. I'm sorry
that you're frustrated.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Carl street Car Yeah okay, well, Calen's interested, excuse me,
Kiky's interested.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Paulina might be interested.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I'm not sure you'll have to hit them up separately,
but all right, guys, thank you for your time.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Best of luck to both of you. Yeah, thank you.
The Entertainment
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Carl, good morning, Welcome to the program.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
How are you, uh don't okay?
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Considering okay, all right, just okay, which is honest because
you think maybe you've been ghosted. So tell us about Mina,
this woman, and then you know about how you met
any date you've been on, kind of all the backstory.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Fill listen.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah, like you said, her her name is Mina.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
I met her on a dating app.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
We chatted for a little bit on there, and then
we decided to meet up and we uh we went
to this uh this rest of this Italian place, my
favorite place, and it was it was a great day.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
It was great.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
And did I never hear from her? So I'm you know,
maybe it wasn't great.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
I feel like I'm I'm I'm missing something because every
time I try to respond or I try to, you know,
reach out to her, I'm not getting anything back right
one hundred percent and ghosting. So I don't, you know,
was it something I did.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I don't know. I'm really in the dark over here.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, it's always kind of a risk when you meet
someone on the apps that the chemistry and person will
be what you hope it is. But hey, you're looking
back on this date, you're thinking, Hey, I thought it
went really well. Conversation was good. I thought there was
attraction in chemistry and all that, except this woman is
not responding to you now for another date, and you
kind of want to know, Well, if I if I
thought everything went well, then what am I missing exactly?
(01:29):
All right, Well, Carl, let's play a song. Come back
in a couple of minutes. We'll call Mina, we'll ask
these questions. You'll be on the phone. You're welcome a
jump in at some point. And the hope is always
is that we can straighten all of this out and
set you guys up on another date that we pay for.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Sounds good, Yeah, yeah, yeah, that'd be great.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
We're gonna find out what's going on towards you of
waiting meta phone right after its Bread of Carpenter Vackmes
two minute, it's The Fred's Show and we're commercial free there.
It is The Fred Show. Good Morning on the radio
live and anytime. Search for The Fred's Show on demand
the iHeart app and make us a pre set as well. Hey, Carl,
welcome back.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Man.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Let's call Mina. You met on one of the dating apps.
You went on a date, You went to a nice
spot that you picked out. You thought everything went really well.
You felt like the conversation was flowing and the chemistry
was good, and there was a connection. You walked away thinking, Hey,
I'm going to reach out to Mina. We're going to
go on another date. This is going someplace. Except you
did that, and she has not responded to you, and
you want to know why exactly exactly right? Yeah, all right,
(02:23):
let's call Mina now, good luck? Hi is this Mina? Hey, Mina,
good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling for the
Friend's Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is here.
I have to tell you that we are on the
(02:43):
radio right now. I would need your permission to continue
with the call. Can we ch have for just a
second on the air. You can hang up anytime, I guess. Okay,
I'll take that as a yes.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
We're calling on behalf of a dude named Carl who
you met on a recently apparently and went on a
date with Italian restaurant.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Does it ring a bell?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Okay, So he called us and had nice things to
say about you. And that he was excited about you
and thought the date went well. He says he's reached
out since then for another date and you're not responding.
He feels like he's being ghosted. So what, you know,
what's kind of your side of the story. Is that true?
Are you avoiding him?
Speaker 5 (03:22):
I mean, yeah, he seemed normal at first and he
I don't know, it was just a weird situation. Do
you want me to tell.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
You what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Absolutely? We all we would like you to tell us
what happened.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Okay, So yeah, he asked us, you can order for
the table, and you know, I thought that that made
sense because he took me to his favorite spot and
I'm not picky, and he ordered like a lot, like
a ton of food, and I would say it was
an abnormal amount of and yeah that the dinner just
(04:04):
got kind of weird from there. And then I realized
that he wasn't really eating much, but he just kept
insisting that I should eat and try things. And then
you know, after some time, you know, we'd had some
wine and everything. I finally was just like, what is
going on? What is the deal?
Speaker 5 (04:23):
And then he was like, I just want you to
eat so much that you feel sick.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
And that was.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
What the yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
And then he.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
Yeah, he said that he like wanted to hook up,
but that I like, he's feeling sick.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
I think it was some sort of kink of his,
Like it was very weird.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
So he wanted you to like in gorge and eat
all the food, and then he wanted to go mess around.
Like isn't that the exact opposite of how you get
most able to hook up with you? Like I don't
normally think eat everything. Let's go to let's go to
the you know, Brazilian steakhouse and just all the meat
on the stick, and.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Then let's go home and get it on blue cheese crest.
Oh no, thank you, no, thank you, Ryan.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
So you think he was in because he's watching you
eat and then he wants to go home and do
some stuff and he thinks that's like something he's into.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
I think he used to do this so much that
I felt sick and then he wanted to hook up.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
I've forgot to mentioned that Carl is here, the masochist. Carl,
what what?
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Okay, Look it's it's not masochism, Okay, it's it's a
well known thing. It's called them, all right, and yeah,
and yeah I'm into it.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
It's called I'm a feeder, all right.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I've seed my partners and they get, you know, till
they're full, and then we have an amazing sexual experience together.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
And you know, you know, you guys, you guys are
knocking it.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Have you ever tried? You're all right? I mean on purpose?
Se yes, but not the first time.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Yeah, I know it's usually like you know, the comfort
levels too high? Yes, yes, it's way too high at
that point. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
You know I'm getting I'm getting a lot of judgment
over here.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
And and you know I don't. I don't.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
I don't think I signed up for that when I
asked you guys.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
No little help.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Okay, okay, well let's relax for a second, Carl, And
no one's judging you. I think we're trying to figure
out okay, well me is I'm not judging you. I'm
trying to figure out, you know, where's the turn on?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Right?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
But for him that's his thing, feederism. Did you make
that up? Or is that real?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
No?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
There is a small community of us. We are small
but vocal. You guys are laughing. I mean, I mean you.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Look it up.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
I think we're not laughing.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Your passion is amazing. The sex, it's the best sex
I've ever had when I'm with a partner who is
you know, filled to the guilt.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Stopping.
Speaker 7 (07:04):
If you, guys, if you got to come from your
ivory power and listen to me for a second, maybe
you know you could see things.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Every Why don't you have to eat? Though? I don't
get that. Yeah, wouldn't this be like both of you eat? No?
Speaker 6 (07:20):
Are you going? Are you guys listening? I'm I'm the fever.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
I wish I would say, okay, okay, I give my
partner the food I provide then and.
Speaker 8 (07:30):
Then once there, you know, so you feed, you feed
her and then y'all go to bas and I'm like
garlic butter and get it popping. And that's it.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Well, and it's amazing, it's absolutely amazing me.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
What did you want to say? Please?
Speaker 2 (07:47):
I mean, Kiki's into this. I guess carling later, But uh,
what did you want to say? Mena?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Because you were trying to get in wea.
Speaker 5 (07:54):
I just okay, here's the thing, that's what you're into. Whatever,
But you need to just schools that to somebody before
you asked him on a date and start making them
do that.
Speaker 4 (08:05):
You should talk about the first.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
You know, this is the thing. I'm married. I'm not
I need you to cal him down, sir. He's exactly
passionate about his craft. That's what I meant.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Angry he doesn't get Carl, I'm gonna let what what
did you get to say? Something else? What do you
want to say?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
You know, it's it's I thought I had made some
references to that in our chats, you know, and.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Day you know, I'm not a I'm not a mind reader,
all right.
Speaker 7 (08:37):
I don't have a crystal ball over here, okay, but
I mean I think you know, from what from what
we talked about before I was I would hope that
you would be, uh, you know a little bit more
open minded about it, you know. And now here's the thing. Okay,
we're talking about it now. And that's that's step one too.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
In the process on the radio, in the convergent process this. Yeah,
you know.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
You weren't upfront about it.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
And here's the thing. There's the field app so you
can go on there and.
Speaker 4 (09:09):
Oh yeah, hey, everything that you're into and like we.
Speaker 7 (09:15):
Talked about, you have you have no idea while he.
Speaker 4 (09:21):
Is you but no you yeah, trick me and gross.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I mean, I'm with you the number one way to
get me to probably not hook up with you, Like
if you're on a day with me and you don't
want to mess around, like just stuff food in my face,
like you know, make me eat more, because then I
get home I feel disgusted.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Don't you feel tired too?
Speaker 8 (09:37):
Like the first thing I want to do is get
it on, like I.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Just want to lay like a beach oil like vertically.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Yeah, well, don't hey, be careful Carl's getting turned on.
Yeah all right, Look, I mean I'll ask the question.
I think I know the answer. But would you be
interested in going out with Carl again?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
All right?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Not not interested? Hey, Carl, Look, no one's judging you,
no one's king shaming you do whatever you do. I
just you got to realize. I think it's not gonna
be for everybody.
Speaker 7 (10:04):
You know, feeders are the most maligned thinks in this country.
And I think one day it's you know, one day
that the table is gonna you know, be on the
other foot and it's gonna turn.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
On the other foot. Huh. And you know, you know
what you know what I'm saying. I'm sorry, I get
you know what I mean. It's just frustrating. I'm sorry
that you're frustrated.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Carl street Car Yeah okay, well, Calen's interested, excuse me,
Kiky's interested.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Paulina might be interested.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
I'm not sure you'll have to hit them up separately,
but all right, guys, thank you for your time.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
Best of luck to both of you. Yeah, thank you.
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Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
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