April 10, 2025 • 10 mins
Jonah is confused after a he had a fun night with Paige and she hasn't called him back. Find out why Jonah got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jonah,
good morning, welcome to the program. How are you.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I'm doing all right, but trying to help you out
here though it waiting on the phone. So what's going
on with this woman? Page? Like, I need to know
how how you met, about any dates you've been on,
and then where things are now, and then how we
can help.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Obviously we met on the apps. You know most people,
I guess meeting that way. But you know, we had
a great first date. We went out after talking on
the after a little while and went out and and uh,
you know, we went back to my place and I
had an even better time.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Let's just put it that way, you know, Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
You know not you know she's uh and then she
just straight ghosted me afterwards. Like and what I don't
understand is like, you know, we had a good time,
we had a great time. I'm if she was down
to go back to my place and hook up. You
know why the ghosting? You know why she goes to
me now I'd like to see her again, I would say.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Most of the time. I mean I've been doing this
for a long We've all been doing these calls for
a long time, So I mean I would normally say
when someone on a first date wants to go home
with you that that's a good thing. So everything was
good until that point, I guess. But now you're not
able to get a hold of this woman. You've called her,
you've texted her, you've tried, and she's not responding to
you at.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
All, not at all, like straight ghosted, which you know,
it's not like anything bad happened. We had a good time,
you know, we had fun. Yeah, nothing weird, nothing, you know,
it was just I don't know, I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
All right, Well, look, Jonah, we'll be the judge of
that in just a second. Okay, we're gonna find out
what's going on. We're gonna call Page, see if we
can get her on the phone, ask some questions. You'll
be on the phone at the same time, and you
welcome to jump in at some point. And the hope,
as always is that we can straighten us out, figure
out what's going on, set you guys up on an date,
and pay for it.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
All right, would love that, Thank you. Let's see what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
In Part two, of waiting metaphone after Traviy McCoy back
in two minutes on The Fred Show, The freend Show
commercial free for the next thirty minutes. You don't have
to go anywhere, Hey, Jonah, Yeah, all right, let's call
it Page.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
You guys met on one of the dating apps. You
went on a date.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
You felt like it was a successful date, so much
so that she wound up going back to your place
after the dinner and the drinks or whatever you guys did.
But you have not heard from this woman since then,
and it's bugging you because obviously you liked whatever happened
and liked her and wanted to see her again, and
now you can't.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You can't find her.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Absolutely, have you guys can help me track her down?
That'd be great.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
We're gonna find out right now. Good luck, man. Hello,
Hi is his page?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I hate page. Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I'm calling from The Fred Show, the Morning Radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your prem
to continue with the calls and cool for chat for
just a second. Uh Okay, I know, I know it's
kind of strange, and I'm sorry. To sort of barge
you in on your life like this, But you're welcome
to hang up in any time. We're calling on behalf
of a guy who reached out to us for help.
(03:15):
His name is Jonah. Do you remember going on a
date with Jonah?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I do, all right, Well, he described to us what
he thought was a really good date. He liked you
a lot, so he did say that you guys wander
back at his place. He didn't get into detail about that,
but he says he hasn't heard from you since then,
So what's going on? Why?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Why are you ghosting Jonah?
Speaker 5 (03:34):
It looks like, oh my god, this is so embarrassing.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Okay, yes we went on a date, but god, I
mean I wouldn't normally kiss and tell like this is mortifying,
but it's kind of like why.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I guess it's a safe place.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
This is a safe place page and he asked us
to do this, So you're welcome to say whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
So after we hooked up, Jonah was so rude, Like
the second we finished, he was up and collecting my
things so that I could get dressed, and he was like,
what's your dress? I'll call you an uber?
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Oh, what a gentleman, was it?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Fred?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Stop it right now, I'm not It takes me a
few minutes to get everything together. Just come on. So okay,
So you guys, you hook up, you had a good time.
Everything is fine up until this moment. And as soon
as it's over, he's like, oh, there's your bra okay,
and then you know, Sam's on his way in the
Honda Civic licensed late one, two three four. He'll be downstairs.
(04:46):
Yeah I know he Well he went for the uber comfort.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Yes, what a guy? Right, So it kind of went
like that you're saying.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Yeah, it's just like it made it feel so cheap,
like like it was so fast. It was like a
flipped switch.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
You know what I mean, Like like I got the
hint and I laughed, but it just made me feel.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Like, oh, there's by the way, uh because because you're
getting there.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I like my bed.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Look, I like my bed to myself, and I was
tired and that makes me a tool.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
No, But like, why did you invite me over if
there was like a time limit on the evening?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Like it was just rude.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Look, we were having a good time. I mean, we
were vibing.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Obviously we connected, you know, I mean, you know where
I was tired.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I just wanted to go to sleep. I mean, I
don't understand.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
There's a difference between who might have talked, but there's
a difference between like wanting to sleep, you know, or
having an early morning or whatever. I mean, you gotta
be you gotta be a little more casual about it.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Like you can't.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I mean, okay, I mean you can get have like
are you still going, like you know, the heart's still
pumping and it's like uber will be here in two minutes.
You got to be a little bit more laid back
about it.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
I'm a single guy. I'm used to sleeping by myself.
I used to have some space, and I mean, I'll
be honest. I was just like I was just writing
to pass out.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Man. It was a struggle just to call that uber.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
But I paid for your Uber. Okay. You need to
tell you that beforehand, though, Like.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
If you're if you want someone to come over and
you want to do that, like I feel like that's
okay if you want that, but you definitely need.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
To make the other person aware of that prior to
the you.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Know, I don't know, I look, I wanted you to
come over I think we had a fun time. If
I told you I was tired, you might have not
come over. You know what I mean, Like I'm just saying, you.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Know, you acted like it was a business transaction like
it was.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
It was really crappy. Like I thought I was being
a gentleman. I thought I was. I thought I was
doing like the right thing.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I mean, it's like.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Like you call your own no.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
But I didn't say, like, Okay, why don't you call
your own uber?
Speaker 6 (06:58):
No?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
I was.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I thought I was. It was like being icy, so.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
You politely kicked her out. I got you, I get it.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
The clothes were everywhere, I got straightened them up, I
gathered you know, I mean, I got them all together
for her. You know, I was trying to be I
was trying to be a nice, a comedy icye.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
So as opposed to being like, two seconds after it's over,
hey call your own uber. You just went ahead and
did it for I'll be honest. That is casting over
right there. That I mean something about raising the bar.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Okay you put it that way. Yeah, But I felt
like I was doing the right thing at a time.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Keep them.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I was super tired too. I was exhausted, you know.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I mean I say that, you can say that, be like, hey,
look I'm really tired. I gotta go to bed. You know,
I got to get up early tomorrow. I mean, people
can take a hint. But like I again, we just
did this very personal thing. I wouldn't necessarily do this, right,
I mean, just say, hey, you know you want some water,
like I don't know, just.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Say it like you say, jar, well, what would you prefer?
You don't want me to offer you hydration? The don
want you to kick me out at all.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
But I'm not kicking anybody out.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I'm just saying, like, there's a way to do this
where let sleep over.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
I mean, sure maybe, but you can't honestly tell me
that every time you've hooked up with some other people
in the room, that every time you've hooked up with
someone you wanted them to stay the night. I mean,
I don't think this is I think this guy was rude,
but I don't think this is a signature male move only.
I've definitely been at women's houses before where they were like,
(08:36):
oh oh doing the yawning thing.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Oh man, oh I'm so.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Tired, and it's like, okay, I wasn't invited to stay,
so I'm not going to stay. That happens on the
other end too, of course.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
It does, but I still think it's rude from both parties.
Oh yeah, that's true.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Yeah, it was like if you had just said all
of that, I would have understood.
Speaker 6 (08:55):
But it was so like the second it was over,
I was like, okay, bye, see yourself out.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Everybody knows your three to five minutes. It's definitely that
it does. I can see why.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
It felt very transactional. I can I'd love to understand,
and Page, I.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Totally get it.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Yeah, I didn't intend it to come across that way.
Like I said, I thought I was doing the right thing.
My gathering up your clothes for you.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I thought it was I was, you know, I mean
I was.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
I was not in my in the right mindset. But
I will say I had a great time. I thought
you did too, And uh, you know, if you maybe,
if you'd wanted to go out with me again, I
would love to. I mean, that was okay, that was awesome.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
So Page, look, he I don't know if he really
is getting it, but he is. Let's say that he's
accepted that what he did was rude. You obviously liked
him up until that point. If he promises you to
be a little more respectful moving forward, uh, and you know,
maybe wait a little while before he calls the uber.
Would you consider going out with him again?
Speaker 6 (09:59):
Absolutely not, because I have self respect and I'm not
putting myself in that situation again.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
It's something to think about, it's something something to think about. Yeah,
I'm gonna I'm just gonna noodle this one for a
while and you know maybe Okay, look it's not gonna
work out. Jonah, she's not interested. Paige, thank you for
your time. Good luck to you and Jonah as well.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Okay, fine, thanks for trying.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
The entertainment reporting is up next in two minutes. Show
Me is kicking in for Shelley. Three point fifty is
the prize if you can beat her in five pop
cultured questions, all on the way and we're commercial free.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Fred Shoe
Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jonah,
good morning, welcome to the program. How are you.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
I'm good, I'm good. Yeah, how are you?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I'm doing all right, but trying to help you out
here though it waiting on the phone. So what's going
on with this woman? Page? Like, I need to know
how how you met, about any dates you've been on,
and then where things are now, and then how we
can help.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Obviously we met on the apps. You know most people,
I guess meeting that way. But you know, we had
a great first date. We went out after talking on
the after a little while and went out and and uh,
you know, we went back to my place and I
had an even better time.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Let's just put it that way, you know, Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
You know not you know she's uh and then she
just straight ghosted me afterwards. Like and what I don't
understand is like, you know, we had a good time,
we had a great time. I'm if she was down
to go back to my place and hook up. You
know why the ghosting? You know why she goes to
me now I'd like to see her again, I would say.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Most of the time. I mean I've been doing this
for a long We've all been doing these calls for
a long time, So I mean I would normally say
when someone on a first date wants to go home
with you that that's a good thing. So everything was
good until that point, I guess. But now you're not
able to get a hold of this woman. You've called her,
you've texted her, you've tried, and she's not responding to
you at.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
All, not at all, like straight ghosted, which you know,
it's not like anything bad happened. We had a good time,
you know, we had fun. Yeah, nothing weird, nothing, you know,
it was just I don't know, I don't get it.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
All right, Well, look, Jonah, we'll be the judge of
that in just a second. Okay, we're gonna find out
what's going on. We're gonna call Page, see if we
can get her on the phone, ask some questions. You'll
be on the phone at the same time, and you
welcome to jump in at some point. And the hope,
as always is that we can straighten us out, figure
out what's going on, set you guys up on an date,
and pay for it.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
All right, would love that, Thank you. Let's see what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
In Part two, of waiting metaphone after Traviy McCoy back
in two minutes on The Fred Show, The freend Show
commercial free for the next thirty minutes. You don't have
to go anywhere, Hey, Jonah, Yeah, all right, let's call
it Page.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
You guys met on one of the dating apps. You
went on a date.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
You felt like it was a successful date, so much
so that she wound up going back to your place
after the dinner and the drinks or whatever you guys did.
But you have not heard from this woman since then,
and it's bugging you because obviously you liked whatever happened
and liked her and wanted to see her again, and
now you can't.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You can't find her.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Absolutely, have you guys can help me track her down?
That'd be great.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
We're gonna find out right now. Good luck, man. Hello,
Hi is his page?
Speaker 2 (02:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I hate page. Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
I'm calling from The Fred Show, the Morning Radio Show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your prem
to continue with the calls and cool for chat for
just a second. Uh Okay, I know, I know it's
kind of strange, and I'm sorry. To sort of barge
you in on your life like this, But you're welcome
to hang up in any time. We're calling on behalf
of a guy who reached out to us for help.
(03:15):
His name is Jonah. Do you remember going on a
date with Jonah?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I do, all right, Well, he described to us what
he thought was a really good date. He liked you
a lot, so he did say that you guys wander
back at his place. He didn't get into detail about that,
but he says he hasn't heard from you since then,
So what's going on? Why?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Why are you ghosting Jonah?
Speaker 5 (03:34):
It looks like, oh my god, this is so embarrassing.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Okay, yes we went on a date, but god, I
mean I wouldn't normally kiss and tell like this is mortifying,
but it's kind of like why.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I guess it's a safe place.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
This is a safe place page and he asked us
to do this, So you're welcome to say whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
So after we hooked up, Jonah was so rude, Like
the second we finished, he was up and collecting my
things so that I could get dressed, and he was like,
what's your dress? I'll call you an uber?
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Oh, what a gentleman, was it?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Fred?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Stop it right now, I'm not It takes me a
few minutes to get everything together. Just come on. So okay,
So you guys, you hook up, you had a good time.
Everything is fine up until this moment. And as soon
as it's over, he's like, oh, there's your bra okay,
and then you know, Sam's on his way in the
Honda Civic licensed late one, two three four. He'll be downstairs.
(04:46):
Yeah I know he Well he went for the uber comfort.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Yes, what a guy? Right, So it kind of went
like that you're saying.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Yeah, it's just like it made it feel so cheap,
like like it was so fast. It was like a
flipped switch.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
You know what I mean, Like like I got the
hint and I laughed, but it just made me feel.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Like, oh, there's by the way, uh because because you're
getting there.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I like my bed.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
Look, I like my bed to myself, and I was
tired and that makes me a tool.
Speaker 6 (05:20):
No, But like, why did you invite me over if
there was like a time limit on the evening?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Like it was just rude.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Look, we were having a good time. I mean, we
were vibing.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
Obviously we connected, you know, I mean, you know where
I was tired.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I just wanted to go to sleep. I mean, I
don't understand.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
There's a difference between who might have talked, but there's
a difference between like wanting to sleep, you know, or
having an early morning or whatever. I mean, you gotta
be you gotta be a little more casual about it.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Like you can't.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
I mean, okay, I mean you can get have like
are you still going, like you know, the heart's still
pumping and it's like uber will be here in two minutes.
You got to be a little bit more laid back
about it.
Speaker 4 (06:00):
I'm a single guy. I'm used to sleeping by myself.
I used to have some space, and I mean, I'll
be honest. I was just like I was just writing
to pass out.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Man. It was a struggle just to call that uber.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
But I paid for your Uber. Okay. You need to
tell you that beforehand, though, Like.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
If you're if you want someone to come over and
you want to do that, like I feel like that's
okay if you want that, but you definitely need.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
To make the other person aware of that prior to
the you.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Know, I don't know, I look, I wanted you to
come over I think we had a fun time. If
I told you I was tired, you might have not
come over. You know what I mean, Like I'm just saying, you.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Know, you acted like it was a business transaction like
it was.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
It was really crappy. Like I thought I was being
a gentleman. I thought I was. I thought I was
doing like the right thing.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
I mean, it's like.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
Like you call your own no.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
But I didn't say, like, Okay, why don't you call
your own uber?
Speaker 6 (06:58):
No?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
I was.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I thought I was. It was like being icy, so.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
You politely kicked her out. I got you, I get it.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
The clothes were everywhere, I got straightened them up, I
gathered you know, I mean, I got them all together
for her. You know, I was trying to be I
was trying to be a nice, a comedy icye.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
So as opposed to being like, two seconds after it's over,
hey call your own uber. You just went ahead and
did it for I'll be honest. That is casting over
right there. That I mean something about raising the bar.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
Okay you put it that way. Yeah, But I felt
like I was doing the right thing at a time.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Keep them.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I was super tired too. I was exhausted, you know.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I mean I say that, you can say that, be like, hey,
look I'm really tired. I gotta go to bed. You know,
I got to get up early tomorrow. I mean, people
can take a hint. But like I again, we just
did this very personal thing. I wouldn't necessarily do this, right,
I mean, just say, hey, you know you want some water,
like I don't know, just.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Say it like you say, jar, well, what would you prefer?
You don't want me to offer you hydration? The don
want you to kick me out at all.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
But I'm not kicking anybody out.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I'm just saying, like, there's a way to do this
where let sleep over.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
I mean, sure maybe, but you can't honestly tell me
that every time you've hooked up with some other people
in the room, that every time you've hooked up with
someone you wanted them to stay the night. I mean,
I don't think this is I think this guy was rude,
but I don't think this is a signature male move only.
I've definitely been at women's houses before where they were like,
(08:36):
oh oh doing the yawning thing.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Oh man, oh I'm so.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
Tired, and it's like, okay, I wasn't invited to stay,
so I'm not going to stay. That happens on the
other end too, of course.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
It does, but I still think it's rude from both parties.
Oh yeah, that's true.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Yeah, it was like if you had just said all
of that, I would have understood.
Speaker 6 (08:55):
But it was so like the second it was over,
I was like, okay, bye, see yourself out.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Everybody knows your three to five minutes. It's definitely that
it does. I can see why.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
It felt very transactional. I can I'd love to understand,
and Page, I.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Totally get it.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Yeah, I didn't intend it to come across that way.
Like I said, I thought I was doing the right thing.
My gathering up your clothes for you.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I thought it was I was, you know, I mean
I was.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
I was not in my in the right mindset. But
I will say I had a great time. I thought
you did too, And uh, you know, if you maybe,
if you'd wanted to go out with me again, I
would love to. I mean, that was okay, that was awesome.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
So Page, look, he I don't know if he really
is getting it, but he is. Let's say that he's
accepted that what he did was rude. You obviously liked
him up until that point. If he promises you to
be a little more respectful moving forward, uh, and you know,
maybe wait a little while before he calls the uber.
Would you consider going out with him again?
Speaker 6 (09:59):
Absolutely not, because I have self respect and I'm not
putting myself in that situation again.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
I get it.
Speaker 3 (10:04):
It's something to think about, it's something something to think about. Yeah,
I'm gonna I'm just gonna noodle this one for a
while and you know maybe Okay, look it's not gonna
work out. Jonah, she's not interested. Paige, thank you for
your time. Good luck to you and Jonah as well.
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Okay, fine, thanks for trying.
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The entertainment reporting is up next in two minutes. Show
Me is kicking in for Shelley. Three point fifty is
the prize if you can beat her in five pop
cultured questions, all on the way and we're commercial free.
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