April 14, 2025 • 28 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Bread Show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.
I'm not sure why the Masters it gets me every year,
but the mask I watch the Sunday Masters, I do,
and I don't watch golf really and I don't normally
care about the PGA, but the Sunday Masters, it's like
that that little piano music they play. It's like Sunday.
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It's like perfect Sunday nap, you know, like three or
four naps, you know, over the course of four hours.
I'll wake up like what because you fall asleep, wow,
to see if I can find the Master's music for you? Right,
what are you watching?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Like?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
What are they doing it?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
They're playing golf, but it tasts like four hours.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
It is very chill.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah, it's like who it's the biggest thing that's ever
going to happen to these people, Like if they win, it's.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
It's it's the greatest moment of their lives. And you're
watching it all unfold. And yesterday Roy mcelory almost blew it.
He had it, he had it. And this seems to
happen on Sunday because the pressure, I think gets to
these men. And then and then you know, what's his
name Justin Rose I think was his name, came back.
He had like nine shot better game that around on
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Sunday that he's one Saturday. And then it went to
a playoff and then Rory almost lost, and I can't.
I don't know if this is the music. I don't
know what I'm listening to. This is a I'm not
even gonna I'm not even gonna shot even attempt this.
It's a little piano music. Did bloom bloom blam blam
bl bloom. You never heard this, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
I'm about no.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
I don't watch the Masters, you know, not big on
my list, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
And then you got Jim nance and I can't. I
make fun of this every year, but yesterday he was
he was on any and and the man, Jim you know,
he had to go into a playoff. You could tell
like they really tee up the final round sort of
like storytelling. And then as they're walking down eighteen and
it looks like one of them is gonna win, they
get into the really sappy stories when the problem was
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then it went to a playoff and then Jim Nantzy's like, oh,
give me another sheet, you know, because now I gotta
do this for another hour. It's like Roy mclory, he's
walking down eighteen growing up his parents. This is real,
This is real. Growing up, his parents didn't have a
lot of money and they spent all of it so
that their son would have the best possible chance. And
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one time, when Roy was thirteen, they went to the
driving range and his dad only had a quarter and
that was only going to get him thirty balls. And
he's like walking, you know, up to the green or whatever.
And Roy went to his dad and said, I want
to play some golf today and he said, son, I'm
dead serious, son, I only have a quarter that's only
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going to get your thirty balls, and I don't get
paid till Tuesday. So hit each one of them like
the masters, depends on it.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
And that moment is now, oh my god, it's like
jel him cheers and streaming down my face like that
moment is now, it's right now.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Rory, Well mess this up that he did, but he won,
but he won. Roy Roy McElroy won his first green
jacket the thirty five year old. And here's the other thing.
Were you watching, Caitlin, because shame time made you watch.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I was forced all different places.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
His wife is not having it. His wife done like him. Now,
if you remember a year ago, there were rumors, yep,
that Roy was hooking up and I called it before
the rumors even came out because I was just watching this.
But there's a woman who does like the post interviews
with the golfers that don't win.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I remember this.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I can't remember what her name is, but but but
there was there were rumors that he was getting Roy
was getting with that woman. And then he reconcile with
his wife, and his wife was there because the Master
is like a whole week thing, and there's like family
events earlier in the week, and they were showing footage
of early in the week, like his daughter did something
really cute and whatever, and the wife just wasn't having it,
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didn't want to, like, wasn't involved in half the activities,
didn't smile one time. It was like she did not
want to be there. And then even yesterday they kept
going to her and it was like this forced enthusiasm
because there were cameras all over her, you know, so
she couldn't like not support her husband, but you could tell,
you know, I just I could see the body language
that this woman was not and then and then even
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Rory like when he was when he won, he grabs
his daughter and not his wife grabbed it, and then
he leaves them both of them behind and walks in
front of all of them, like fifty feet in front
of his whole family, walking up to the thing. I'm like,
my wife and my kid would be right there with me.
I just won the Masters. Why are they so far
behind me? What's my mom? Why are they all with me?
I was very upset about this, But he won, and
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he completed a career Grand Slam, which means he's won
all of the all the big tournaments. And he joins
a bunch of guys Jack Nicholas, Tiger Woods, Ben Hogan,
Gary Player, and Jean Sarah's him who are the only
golfers to capture the four major championships in the Master's era.
So he's got all of them. So congratulations to Rory.
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You should watch.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
It's very I mean, maybe, okay, there's a lot of
cheating going on in golf.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I think there are shenanigans. Yeah, but you're talking about
you're talking about relationships.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yes, I'm here for I got to figure this whole
thing out.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Well, girl, speaking of that my uh my best friend's
fiance was at the master's and they can't bring their
phone in, so for twelve hours a day.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Oh, he's just missing. He's just missing. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
And I have no idea how they enforce that. I
have no idea how they're going to know. I know,
your phone down in your pants. I have no idea
how they would know.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
But I was like, girl, twelve hours a day, you
don't know if he's okay. That would freak me out.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah. Yeah, Mere's Caylin walking into work today. She's always
dreamed of being an entertainment reporter on a major's naturally
syndicated radio show, and today is her moment. And she
once went to her mom and said, Mom, I want
to be the lead in the play. And her mom said,
we don't have the money.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Pretty much, but she always found it somewhere.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
We don't have the money for the costumes, and cale,
why are we supplying the costage? Young young? I don't know.
I don't know, and I said, yeah, someone else's not.
And then she asked, why can't dad pay for it?
And mom said, we don't know who dad is. I'm getting.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
His dad was making my costume. That's where he was.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
And then Calen found the cigarettes her dad left behind
and sold them beach one by one to raise the
money for that day. And she was the star.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
My grand slam is today of.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Snow white in the first grade. And now look at
her sore in her moment. That's what it is. That's
what they do. Jeff Bezos. Blue Origin is going to
launch its eleventh crewed flight today with pop star Katie
Perry on board. Why not saying why why wouldn't. It's
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the first all all female crew since someone from the
Soviet Union became the first woman in space during his
solo flight in nineteen sixty three. Also, Gail King is
going to be on there, and some other people, some
scientists and oh and Lauren Sanchez, the fiance of Blue
Origin founder Jeff Bezos. They're going to launch the crew
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from the company's launch site one in West Texas. It'll
fly a suborbital trajectory that will give its crew several
minutes of waitless time to float around. Their new Shepherd
will land under parachutes on the desert floor to end
the trip. The whole ride will take about ten minutes.
There'll be a live stream of this. You know it's
gonna be on CBS and the whole thing. But I
saw them doing all the press over the weekend. Those
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spacesuits were so fitted.
Speaker 8 (07:36):
I was like, oh my god, I kind of want
a space suits.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Space suits have no functionality whatsoever. They probably spend hours
making them just perfect for each one of them, cause
skin tight.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, in these things it looks like fashion nova. I'm
not even kidding that.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
I'm like, is there any actual like is this going
to save them from anything like it? Because when it's that,
when you're going fashion over function, like, is this you know,
I don't know. Oh yeah, you congratulations? I just want one.
That shit.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
The wast oh the little built.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
A bunch of Coachella stories. Today, some festival goers were
stuck in traffic for twelve hours before getting into the
Coachella grounds. They were sharing what they didn't have access to,
like bathrooms, water, or gas while they waited in line
with temperatures at one hundred degrees. Also, Coachella attendees are
slamming the festivals diabolical food and drink. Price has been
hearing about this forever, but the Coachella Valley Music and
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Arts festival, they were mad. For example, one woman shared
on TikTok that the taco, nachos and lemonades for two
people were one hundred and two dollars. What about this
is appealing one way in, one way out. Takes twelve
hours to get in. If you're not camping, then you
got to try and get in and out every day.
You've done it right?
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (08:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Why because it's the best festival there is. Honestly, it's clean,
it's well run. I would never camp at Coachella. So
that's their first issue. First of all, the dust storms
make you inhale hail like the dust. You have black
boogers after so and you're in the desert and it's
like so hot. Why would you camp? First of all,
that's your first mistake. But it's a great festival.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It's run well.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
If you saw the sets, I mean, I'm gonna talk
about them.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
In the port, but it's amazing.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
A young Kalin just named her whole life to attend Coachella.
This is true, and finally she got her moment to
cram with black boogers. Yes, it seems like that they
would be at Coachella. I don't know the b fifty
two's and black boogers for Kalin, but she had her
shining moment for one shining moment. Let me see you. Oh,
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we've had lists in the last couple of days, like
you know what they found in ubers and just weird stuff.
Now the weirdest finds inside unclaimed luggage. So I guess
if you and I know, this is confusing to me
because they have these places where you can go and
buy bags that people just never claimed. And my thing is,
like if the bag exists and it had a is
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it just no tag on it? Or like if your
bag just doesn't go into the ether if it's lost, right,
Like if I go to the airport and I scan
my bag and I show up in Salt Lake sitting
in my bag's not there. It's not just gone forever.
It didn't burn up, you know, like it's somewhere. But
I guess you get to a point in the process
where you just accept it as being lost and then
they sell it, and they sell so you can go
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to a store and you can buy these just unclaimed
bags from people. Some of the most bizarre things that
they found inside the bag freeze, dried chicken foot, a
script from the eighty five film The Goonies. Other unusual
items included a toilet seed. You can't get those anywhere.
You can't get a toilet seed at any home, depot
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or lows anywhere in the nation. A glass eye, like
if I had a glass eye in my bag, I
would have a vested interest in finding the bag because
my other eye is in it. An uncut sheet of
two dollars bills, an ice spiced chia pet Jason, go
get your bag. A replica suit of medieval armor, a
nineteen forty four letter signed by Eleanor Roosevelt, a jar
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of whiskey containing a preserved rattle steak, a cuckoo clock,
a silicone pregnancy belly, a antique magician's hat, and an
antique mustache curler. Also a forty thousand dollars diamond ring,
a twenty thousand dollars rolex, and a ten thousand dollars
Louis Vuitton bag. Wow, all within these bags, I would
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really try hard to find my bag. If I had
a Rolex in it, I wouldn't just go Okay, you know,
I'll take whatever the airline will give me from insurance.
Plus everyone puts air tags and stuff in their bags
these days, so you know where it is. I don't
know how this happens. And finally, a woman from Long
Island is celebrating her one hundredth birthday by doing things
that none of us in this room can do. Her
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name is Jerry. She's a great grandmother, and she performed
a five minute plank five minutes now. Everyone else in
the class quit it two minutes, and she held on
for another three. She's one hundred years old. That has
to be some form of record. But do you think
you could do it? A five minute plank? And this
woman's a hundred no, and she did it.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
No, you can't feel the rest of her body though.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Feeling of your body and one hundred she's.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
One hundred, like she don't that stuff don't even work.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
She don't feel that what you need to don't work.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
How do you flay for five minutes and one hundred?
Like half your body probably is already up there?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
What you get what I'm saying?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Like her, she might not even feel.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I don't think I could do two minutes. This woman
did five. She's one hundred years old. Yeah, it's National
Gardening Day, National Dolphin Day, and National expouse Day. Oh,
we celebrate those. I don't know why we're celebrating those,
but okay, orders a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right,
the honorable kikilik Kiki. But judge Kiki, Yes, I take
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it away?
Speaker 3 (12:50):
All right, now, let's get into the courtroom. The gabble
has been hit.
Speaker 8 (12:54):
It says, hey, Ki Ki, am I wrong for telling
my best friend we don't want her around because of
her baby. My name is Elena, and one of my
best friends became a mom eleven months ago, and obviously
our friend group has been so happy for her.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
However, we all secretly.
Speaker 8 (13:10):
Feel like she's allowed motherhood to completely take over her
entire personality. She brings the baby everywhere we go, and
all the baby does is cry. It's so exhausting. She's
also breastfeeding, so when we're out, she doesn't drink and
then complains if we drink without her. So we have
our annual spring break girls trip coming up, but my
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friends and I have decided that we don't want her
to come. We've already booked our trip and started a
separate group chat, but she just texts us all to
ask about the plans. I responded and told her the
truth about us not wanting her to tag along because
of the baby. We all want a kid free vibe.
She just doesn't fit the vibe anymore. So she got
really upset and removed herself from the group chat and
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blocked me. Am I wrong for being honest? And am
I wrong for how I feel?
Speaker 1 (13:58):
So this woman the friend group wants to have like
a like a freakom girls trip, Yes, like the Cobbo
San Lucas or whatever, and I don't know whatever, it's
seniors and someone wants to come and bring the baby. Yes,
I know what say you though, I'm sorry, I feel
a certain kind of way about this. But there's a
time and a place.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Are you saying the mom is wrong for wanting to
bring the baby?
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yes to a girl's weekend?
Speaker 9 (14:24):
No?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
But look, there's a time and a place. Are we
going to Wisconsin? Dell's you know are going to? Are
we going to? Uh? I don't know. Is it something
that's kid friendly or is it something that's intended to
be for adults?
Speaker 8 (14:38):
Okay, Well, here's the thing. I don't feel like she's wrong, right, Lena.
I don't feel like you're wrong for wanting a girl
or kid free weekend.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Yes, I don't feel like you're.
Speaker 8 (14:49):
Wrong for maybe being a little annoyed with your friend
and how she brings the baby everywhere.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
You're allowed to feel how you feel.
Speaker 8 (14:56):
But you are wrong for planning the annual girls trip
that you know she usually comes on and then just
removing it like starting a separate group chat.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
That's very shady.
Speaker 8 (15:05):
And you guys booked the whole trip, didn't tell her,
and then she reaches out to ask about the trip,
and then you just throw that on her like we
didn't want you to come because of your baby, given
her the.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Option, the president has been set. This woman will not
go anywhere without her child. So I suppose you could
one more time go back to the well and say, hey,
we're planning the girl's trip. However, no kids on this thing,
and then she could throw a fed again.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
But at least you told her.
Speaker 8 (15:30):
Because now if I'm your friend, I feel like you
move a shady Why I got a separate group chat
without Why Why would I ask about the trip it's already.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Booked because you're the lady who wants to so we
know what we'll we'll plan something else. I guess at
the McDonald's play place for you. I'm not trying to
be mean. I'm really not, but I mean to me,
i'm not though I really don't. I do not believe
that thing. Look, my mom and my dad went on
trips that didn't include us, Yes, because it was a
different kind of trip, you know what I mean. There
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were a trips, there were girls' trips, there's guys trips,
and there's family trips. It's either I think you pick
a destination everybody brings their kids, it's a whole different vibe.
Or if it's a girl's trip, we're gonna sit, you know,
by the pool and drink margaritas or whatever. Then then
there doesn't need to be a baby there because they're
not bringing their babies exactly. No, I agree with you.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
The baby does not need an invite. But you can
at least tell your friend, hey, we are going on
our usual trip. You are invited, no kids allowed, though,
you can at least say that. But to just start
another group chat without me, it's very shady.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
But it sounds like they've done that and she still
brings the kid.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Well that's true.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Yeah, So I don't know what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 8 (16:39):
How do you tell your friend Lee like I don't
want to be around your baby, Like, why your baby
always crying?
Speaker 3 (16:44):
She said, the baby is always crying and meth is off.
Speaker 4 (16:46):
You can you can tell your friends like, hey, you know,
I kind of want this to be like a girl's
thing or just be like our own thing.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
And I don't think that's bad.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
And as a mother of a twelve month old, so
very close to this girl situation, I have a lot
to unpack here, and I think I want to start
with saying that just because I had a baby doesn't
mean that life has to change for everybody else around me.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
I've changed my own life. I'm very well aware of that.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
I am so happy with my choice, and therefore I'm
not going to affect your trip and your trip if
we're all going to a girl's trip, like this is
our set thing, we do this every year, whatever it
is like, if I can't go, then I say my
ass home and I can't go if I'm not comfortable
leaving my baby, that's okay. And as friends, I expect
you guys to be okay with that, which just sounds
like the girls would be if we have no choice. Really,
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but that's like where I'm at, Like, Okay, if I'm
staying home, staying home, I can't do everything anymore, and that's.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
Okay, But how many times falling in it do your
friends have to ask you to do something that you
bring the baby before they decide it's we can't ask anymore,
like because it's a fight every time and you're not
getting it. You're not getting that there's a time and
a place for that. There's a time and a place
for this. One hundred percent agree. And I don't think
babies belong everywhere, and that's me being a mom. But
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I also do have a lot of help, so I
know that I come from like a privileged position by
saying like I can't meet you guys out for you know,
Margarite's on Friday, I'm going to leave my baby with
either dad or grandma whoever.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Right I have the village. I'm so aware of that,
But at the same time, it's like, I don't know.
I shouldn't have to be told by you guys, like
I can read the room. I should be able to
read the room to be like, Okay, this is a
girl's trip, like no baby on the boob on this one.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
You have a lot of self awareness about this, Paulic. Yeah,
I do, and it doesn't sound like this woman does.
And I understand that she's dedicated to being a parent
and she wants to be with her baby, and maybe
she doesn't have access to as consistent of childcare or
a lot of things. I understand all that. But that
might mean then that she doesn't get to do everything anymore,
and that's a shame. But you chose to have a kid,
and and so you either that's just an extra step
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for you, and I acknowledge that it's an extra step
for you, but it is, yeah, and it's a step
I might have to take, or maybe I do. You know,
that's another thing. I don't know how many of these
other girls have kids. They're not bringing their kids, which
means they have the same burden.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
I still think you go about it, like Keeky said,
the proper channels so you can feel good about yourself.
So even in the long thing, Hey, we're planning this trip,
you know, and then you say, oh, whatever her name is,
Hey Maya, I'm so sorry if you can't come because
of the baby. We totally understand you will be missed.
That's a nice way of saying, your baby's not coming
and you have to stay home, will miss.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
You, and you're not being shady about it. Yeah, and
she wants to be invited.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
I'm as a mother, like, we want to be invited,
even if you know, like, okay, Paulina probably can't go,
like she's got the baby. You know she's not gonna
leave whatever. At least I want to get that invite
and feel.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Included FaceTime you want to then what else you know?
Speaker 4 (19:29):
But from the mother's perspective, we have to be okay.
What's staying back and saying Okay, this isn't for me
do and I don't.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Think this woman is. She's proven that, so I guess
I don't know how many times I have to ask
my friend to go to something the baby shows up
before I'm like okay, he or she's just not getting
it and I'm sorry about that, but like this is
a adult's only trip. Yeah, And I can no longer
run the risk of fighting with you about this. I
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think Hey eight five five, five one three five, I
love you guys with the Jerry, I'd love to know
what you think. Hey, ky, Hi, how are you, Hi, Ky,
good morning. So what do you think kis court? Essentially,
there's a woman who's part of a friend group who
brings your kid to everything her baby, and the friends
are like, look, we're gonna it's gone on long enough,
We're going on an adult's all girls trip. We don't
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want the baby there. So they kind of have planned
this whole thing without her.
Speaker 7 (20:18):
What do you think, Well, I have two toddlers of
my own. Number one, if I'm going on a girl's trip,
the toddlers for not coming.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
With yeah, I mean yeah, And honestly, like I wait.
Speaker 7 (20:33):
For my friends to say, like, oh, the baby is welcome,
the kids are welcome to come. I don't automatically assume
my children are invited to everything. And I love my
kids very much, but I don't want them there all
the time. This mom needs to like read the room exactly.
Like Paulina said, you can't bring your baby everywhere.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
I'm sorry, yeah, yeah, no, I I think you're right.
Thank you, Kate, thank you?
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Or husband, like sometimes I don't want to hang out
with your husband and your boy friend, like leave them
at home too.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
I don't think that's any difference. I don't think that's
any different than the girl or the guy that can't
go anywhere without their significant other. It's like, no, he
or she is not invited on this trip. It is not.
It is a guy's trip or a girl's trip. And
if you then decide I'm bringing my wife or girlfriend, well,
first of all, that's going to be weird that the
rest of us don't, or then all of a sudden
it becomes a whole different kind of trip. Yeah, which,
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I think there's a time and a place for both.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
I think there's a time for us all to go
somewhere that's kid friendly together. I think it's a time
for us all to go somewhere to get hammered and
not have to worry about the kid or you not
being being limited as to what you can do because
you got to watch the kid or whatever, like, because
it does kind of if the intention of the trip
is for girls to go and have a good time
and be a little irresponsible, then it does kind of
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put a damper on that, and I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 8 (21:46):
And you know what I feel Lena in this because
you can even say she told her friend like, hey,
we don't want the baby to come this time. If
Lena looks up the resort and kids are allowed, she
might still say, Hey, I'm bringing her anyway. And then
when I hang out with you guys, I just will
leave the baby with the nanny or with with my
husband whatever.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
And now it's a family trip.
Speaker 8 (22:03):
So I understand Lena's in a tough spot, but I
feel like not telling your friend about the trip at
all is just a little shady.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Ummm let me see here. I'm going to throw all
the texts. As long as they have times where she
can bring her baby, I think it's completely fine for
this trip to be kid free. However, if they're really
her friends, they should carve out time for her to
bring her baby. No, they shouldn't. No, they shouldn't.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
I think they mean like other times, like let's go
to brunch, bring the baby next Friday.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It sounds like you just invite her somewhere in the
baby comes, they don't have to carve out time. It's
just this particular trip, we're not doing that. Hey, Emily, Hi, Emily, Hi, Hey,
good morning. What say you?
Speaker 7 (22:40):
What if the mom is a single mom and she
doesn't have any care for the baby, Hey, look, and.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
I hear that, but but this may not be the
trip for her then, and that's a shame, absolutely right.
Speaker 7 (22:54):
I'm just saying the friends need to consider that as well,
and Lena didn't put that in the letter.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Yeah. No, I don't like the whole isolation thing. But again,
I'll say it one more time. How many times you
ask someone or express your needs as a friend group
and they're ignored Before it's like, well, we can't pause
our lives because this one person can't do the thing
that we all want to do. I mean, at what
point do you do you just sort of do it separately?
Speaker 7 (23:20):
Yeah, I just yeah, I agree. I was a single
mom at one point and so I was able to
figure things out and I had care. But yeah, you
shouldn't be bringing your baby everywhere. Mom needs mom time.
I just it's just a different approach potentially to thinks
about things that maybe you could include in and have
that conversation versus exclusion.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
It's a very different vibe, Emily. When I'm at the
Senior Frogs in Continental and they're pouring, you know, shots
in my mouth that everyone else's mouth has been attached
to you, and yet there's a baby with a bottle
next to me. It's a different vibe. We can't have this,
It's totally.
Speaker 7 (23:56):
A different vibe.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I agree, Emily, don't ForwArt my fun. Have a good day,
trying to turn up over here and is a baby crying?
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Is going on?
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Get rid of the baby.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
It's like the Hangover movie with the baby. What is
this baby doing here? Hey Carlos, Hey, what's going on? Guy? Carlos? Hey? Man,
what do you? What say you in Kiggi's cord.
Speaker 10 (24:21):
Listen man, I say she's got a kick rocks. Listen
what we do and we gotta we gotta. We do
a family like a friends giving every year. You know,
we do a friend's trip as well.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Every year.
Speaker 10 (24:31):
You know, a bunch of couples go to get together
either eat dinner or we do or we do a
trip as well. And you know, it started coming as like, hey,
there's no kids involved. We were pretty you know, specific
on there are no kids invited until one of us.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
You know, we're we're old.
Speaker 10 (24:44):
I'm forty four years old, so we have older kids now,
you know, so I have a twenty five year old.
My my wife has a twenty seven year old. You know,
so we we're we're older, and so they started on.
One couple started bringing their child because she was twenty three,
and I was like, what is going on?
Speaker 9 (24:57):
My daughter's out of me here.
Speaker 10 (24:58):
We tell them they beat it, you know, And so
we had to specifically state in our invitations now no offsprings,
because it's just, you.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Know, we just don't allow me.
Speaker 10 (25:08):
I don't care if you're an adult. You know, we
talk about things that we shouldn't be talking about around
our children and makes our children uncomfortable. We all pop
gummies and we walk in the door.
Speaker 9 (25:16):
You know.
Speaker 10 (25:16):
It's one of those that get having fun. Don't freaky
to say, no diddy stuff.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
You guys, are you guys switching partners or something?
Speaker 1 (25:26):
What sort of establish what sort of groups? And are
you accepting new members?
Speaker 10 (25:32):
Don't play well with others? So no, you know, it's
it's just it's something we talk about. You know, there's
things that you know, even though they're adults, there's just
certain things they shouldn't it shouldn't hear or shouldn't hear
their mother's friends talking about, you know, and it's just
that's it's the rule, and it's no kids, we're having
a good time, we're gonna get wasted. We only do
this once a year, so we're gonna have We're gonna
we're gonna let loose, you know.
Speaker 9 (25:51):
So I say she's got to kick rocks.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I think that is I think I think the kick
rocks is aggressive. But I think I agree with what
you're saying. Carlos, Thank you. Have a good day, you too,
Now run a hang with Carlin. I do too, and
I would like to see what they're up to. Hey, Brittany,
good morning. Hey Brittany, So you bring up a good
point in Kiky's court. It's a it's a group of friends.
One always brings her baby and they're getting tired of it.
(26:15):
So as supposed to fighting about it, they've kind of
branched off and they're planning a girl's trip without her
and kind of leaving her out of the planning process.
But what do you think?
Speaker 9 (26:25):
Yeah, so my thing is this is an annual trip
and they do it every year. My thing is, you know,
because they do say that you lose friends and you
become a mom. And that's why I just kind of
like upset me when to hear like their thoughts on it.
They both could have went about it a different way.
My thing is, what if the mother was like, oh,
you know, this is our annual trip. What if like
she had a sitter lined up and this is her
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had like her first time away from the baby. And
you know, I mean, because I assume would be that
obviously you're going on a girls trip. I would not
bring a baby to that. It's it's different from like
they were going out to life or like we're just
getting together at home. But you know, they didn't even
say like hey, like you know, like just wanting to
ask like are you still going to come with us?
(27:09):
You know, they didn't even take it into consideration. They
just find it without her. So I totally understand where
she's coming from and being upset. I would be upset
too if somebody didn't include me.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
Yeah, yeah, and pretty I hear you, and I agree
with that. I gotta believe them. We don't know this,
but I'm just I'm of the mindset that these folks
are only doing this now because it's a fight every time.
I gotta think this is a lie. If this is
just a one time deal she had a baby and
that we're not inviting her anymore. But we don't know,
do these other girls have kids. Are these other women
having to accommodate for the kids? I mean, you know,
(27:42):
in the past, have you made suggestions like, well, why
don't you leave your baby with my babysitter or with
my husband or with my you know, my mom will
watch both of them so we can go. We don't
know any of this, but I'd like to believe that
if I start not being invited to things, it's because
I simply won't adjust. I'd like to believe that's.
Speaker 9 (27:59):
The case, right, right, right, But for this specific events,
sansitive annually they go every yere I would have just
brought it up to them, like do you still want
to be included? Are you going to have a sitter? Like,
just so we can plan accordingly. But I mean they
didn't even give rid of the options. So it was
a miscommunication on both ings. They both have communicated.
Speaker 1 (28:19):
I get it.
Speaker 10 (28:19):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Thank you so much, Brittany. Have a good day. You're
glad you called. I don't know, kids closed. What do
you think?
Speaker 8 (28:25):
Man, you're the judge, Lena, listen you you are right
to not want that baby around.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Some people don't want to hear it. I don't want
to hit that crying. How happened? This is your friend.
You could have text her and let her know about
the trip.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Man's when I.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
Find out my friends got separate group chats behind my back.
You shady for having to me? Mm hmm, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Put me in a group chat, man, Cancel the reservation
at Chippendale. Can't come now. No, baby's a lot in there.
No baby, they don't need to be. They're not ready
to be. Seeing what happens in that thing, you know,
it gets wow, man,
The Bread Show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.
I'm not sure why the Masters it gets me every year,
but the mask I watch the Sunday Masters, I do,
and I don't watch golf really and I don't normally
care about the PGA, but the Sunday Masters, it's like
that that little piano music they play. It's like Sunday.
(00:21):
It's like perfect Sunday nap, you know, like three or
four naps, you know, over the course of four hours.
I'll wake up like what because you fall asleep, wow,
to see if I can find the Master's music for you? Right,
what are you watching?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Like?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
What are they doing it?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
They're playing golf, but it tasts like four hours.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
It is very chill.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Yeah, it's like who it's the biggest thing that's ever
going to happen to these people, Like if they win, it's.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
It's it's the greatest moment of their lives. And you're
watching it all unfold. And yesterday Roy mcelory almost blew it.
He had it, he had it. And this seems to
happen on Sunday because the pressure, I think gets to
these men. And then and then you know, what's his
name Justin Rose I think was his name, came back.
He had like nine shot better game that around on
(01:14):
Sunday that he's one Saturday. And then it went to
a playoff and then Rory almost lost, and I can't.
I don't know if this is the music. I don't
know what I'm listening to. This is a I'm not
even gonna I'm not even gonna shot even attempt this.
It's a little piano music. Did bloom bloom blam blam
bl bloom. You never heard this, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
I'm about no.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
I don't watch the Masters, you know, not big on
my list, you know.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
And then you got Jim nance and I can't. I
make fun of this every year, but yesterday he was
he was on any and and the man, Jim you know,
he had to go into a playoff. You could tell
like they really tee up the final round sort of
like storytelling. And then as they're walking down eighteen and
it looks like one of them is gonna win, they
get into the really sappy stories when the problem was
(01:56):
then it went to a playoff and then Jim Nantzy's like, oh,
give me another sheet, you know, because now I gotta
do this for another hour. It's like Roy mclory, he's
walking down eighteen growing up his parents. This is real,
This is real. Growing up, his parents didn't have a
lot of money and they spent all of it so
that their son would have the best possible chance. And
(02:17):
one time, when Roy was thirteen, they went to the
driving range and his dad only had a quarter and
that was only going to get him thirty balls. And
he's like walking, you know, up to the green or whatever.
And Roy went to his dad and said, I want
to play some golf today and he said, son, I'm
dead serious, son, I only have a quarter that's only
(02:41):
going to get your thirty balls, and I don't get
paid till Tuesday. So hit each one of them like
the masters, depends on it.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
And that moment is now, oh my god, it's like
jel him cheers and streaming down my face like that
moment is now, it's right now.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Rory, Well mess this up that he did, but he won,
but he won. Roy Roy McElroy won his first green
jacket the thirty five year old. And here's the other thing.
Were you watching, Caitlin, because shame time made you watch.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
I was forced all different places.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
His wife is not having it. His wife done like him. Now,
if you remember a year ago, there were rumors, yep,
that Roy was hooking up and I called it before
the rumors even came out because I was just watching this.
But there's a woman who does like the post interviews
with the golfers that don't win.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I remember this.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
I can't remember what her name is, but but but
there was there were rumors that he was getting Roy
was getting with that woman. And then he reconcile with
his wife, and his wife was there because the Master
is like a whole week thing, and there's like family
events earlier in the week, and they were showing footage
of early in the week, like his daughter did something
really cute and whatever, and the wife just wasn't having it,
(03:52):
didn't want to, like, wasn't involved in half the activities,
didn't smile one time. It was like she did not
want to be there. And then even yesterday they kept
going to her and it was like this forced enthusiasm
because there were cameras all over her, you know, so
she couldn't like not support her husband, but you could tell,
you know, I just I could see the body language
that this woman was not and then and then even
(04:15):
Rory like when he was when he won, he grabs
his daughter and not his wife grabbed it, and then
he leaves them both of them behind and walks in
front of all of them, like fifty feet in front
of his whole family, walking up to the thing. I'm like,
my wife and my kid would be right there with me.
I just won the Masters. Why are they so far
behind me? What's my mom? Why are they all with me?
I was very upset about this, But he won, and
(04:38):
he completed a career Grand Slam, which means he's won
all of the all the big tournaments. And he joins
a bunch of guys Jack Nicholas, Tiger Woods, Ben Hogan,
Gary Player, and Jean Sarah's him who are the only
golfers to capture the four major championships in the Master's era.
So he's got all of them. So congratulations to Rory.
(04:59):
You should watch.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
It's very I mean, maybe, okay, there's a lot of
cheating going on in golf.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I think there are shenanigans. Yeah, but you're talking about
you're talking about relationships.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Yes, I'm here for I got to figure this whole
thing out.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Well, girl, speaking of that my uh my best friend's
fiance was at the master's and they can't bring their
phone in, so for twelve hours a day.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Oh, he's just missing. He's just missing. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
And I have no idea how they enforce that. I
have no idea how they're going to know. I know,
your phone down in your pants. I have no idea
how they would know.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
But I was like, girl, twelve hours a day, you
don't know if he's okay. That would freak me out.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah. Yeah, Mere's Caylin walking into work today. She's always
dreamed of being an entertainment reporter on a major's naturally
syndicated radio show, and today is her moment. And she
once went to her mom and said, Mom, I want
to be the lead in the play. And her mom said,
we don't have the money.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Pretty much, but she always found it somewhere.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
We don't have the money for the costumes, and cale,
why are we supplying the costage? Young young? I don't know.
I don't know, and I said, yeah, someone else's not.
And then she asked, why can't dad pay for it?
And mom said, we don't know who dad is. I'm getting.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
His dad was making my costume. That's where he was.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
And then Calen found the cigarettes her dad left behind
and sold them beach one by one to raise the
money for that day. And she was the star.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
My grand slam is today of.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Snow white in the first grade. And now look at
her sore in her moment. That's what it is. That's
what they do. Jeff Bezos. Blue Origin is going to
launch its eleventh crewed flight today with pop star Katie
Perry on board. Why not saying why why wouldn't. It's
(06:51):
the first all all female crew since someone from the
Soviet Union became the first woman in space during his
solo flight in nineteen sixty three. Also, Gail King is
going to be on there, and some other people, some
scientists and oh and Lauren Sanchez, the fiance of Blue
Origin founder Jeff Bezos. They're going to launch the crew
(07:14):
from the company's launch site one in West Texas. It'll
fly a suborbital trajectory that will give its crew several
minutes of waitless time to float around. Their new Shepherd
will land under parachutes on the desert floor to end
the trip. The whole ride will take about ten minutes.
There'll be a live stream of this. You know it's
gonna be on CBS and the whole thing. But I
saw them doing all the press over the weekend. Those
(07:34):
spacesuits were so fitted.
Speaker 8 (07:36):
I was like, oh my god, I kind of want
a space suits.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Space suits have no functionality whatsoever. They probably spend hours
making them just perfect for each one of them, cause
skin tight.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, in these things it looks like fashion nova. I'm
not even kidding that.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
I'm like, is there any actual like is this going
to save them from anything like it? Because when it's that,
when you're going fashion over function, like, is this you know,
I don't know. Oh yeah, you congratulations? I just want one.
That shit.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
The wast oh the little built.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
A bunch of Coachella stories. Today, some festival goers were
stuck in traffic for twelve hours before getting into the
Coachella grounds. They were sharing what they didn't have access to,
like bathrooms, water, or gas while they waited in line
with temperatures at one hundred degrees. Also, Coachella attendees are
slamming the festivals diabolical food and drink. Price has been
hearing about this forever, but the Coachella Valley Music and
(08:29):
Arts festival, they were mad. For example, one woman shared
on TikTok that the taco, nachos and lemonades for two
people were one hundred and two dollars. What about this
is appealing one way in, one way out. Takes twelve
hours to get in. If you're not camping, then you
got to try and get in and out every day.
You've done it right?
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (08:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Why because it's the best festival there is. Honestly, it's clean,
it's well run. I would never camp at Coachella. So
that's their first issue. First of all, the dust storms
make you inhale hail like the dust. You have black
boogers after so and you're in the desert and it's
like so hot. Why would you camp? First of all,
that's your first mistake. But it's a great festival.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
It's run well.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
If you saw the sets, I mean, I'm gonna talk
about them.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
In the port, but it's amazing.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
A young Kalin just named her whole life to attend Coachella.
This is true, and finally she got her moment to
cram with black boogers. Yes, it seems like that they
would be at Coachella. I don't know the b fifty
two's and black boogers for Kalin, but she had her
shining moment for one shining moment. Let me see you. Oh,
(09:37):
we've had lists in the last couple of days, like
you know what they found in ubers and just weird stuff.
Now the weirdest finds inside unclaimed luggage. So I guess
if you and I know, this is confusing to me
because they have these places where you can go and
buy bags that people just never claimed. And my thing is,
like if the bag exists and it had a is
(09:59):
it just no tag on it? Or like if your
bag just doesn't go into the ether if it's lost, right,
Like if I go to the airport and I scan
my bag and I show up in Salt Lake sitting
in my bag's not there. It's not just gone forever.
It didn't burn up, you know, like it's somewhere. But
I guess you get to a point in the process
where you just accept it as being lost and then
they sell it, and they sell so you can go
(10:20):
to a store and you can buy these just unclaimed
bags from people. Some of the most bizarre things that
they found inside the bag freeze, dried chicken foot, a
script from the eighty five film The Goonies. Other unusual
items included a toilet seed. You can't get those anywhere.
You can't get a toilet seed at any home, depot
(10:40):
or lows anywhere in the nation. A glass eye, like
if I had a glass eye in my bag, I
would have a vested interest in finding the bag because
my other eye is in it. An uncut sheet of
two dollars bills, an ice spiced chia pet Jason, go
get your bag. A replica suit of medieval armor, a
nineteen forty four letter signed by Eleanor Roosevelt, a jar
(11:03):
of whiskey containing a preserved rattle steak, a cuckoo clock,
a silicone pregnancy belly, a antique magician's hat, and an
antique mustache curler. Also a forty thousand dollars diamond ring,
a twenty thousand dollars rolex, and a ten thousand dollars
Louis Vuitton bag. Wow, all within these bags, I would
(11:26):
really try hard to find my bag. If I had
a Rolex in it, I wouldn't just go Okay, you know,
I'll take whatever the airline will give me from insurance.
Plus everyone puts air tags and stuff in their bags
these days, so you know where it is. I don't
know how this happens. And finally, a woman from Long
Island is celebrating her one hundredth birthday by doing things
that none of us in this room can do. Her
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name is Jerry. She's a great grandmother, and she performed
a five minute plank five minutes now. Everyone else in
the class quit it two minutes, and she held on
for another three. She's one hundred years old. That has
to be some form of record. But do you think
you could do it? A five minute plank? And this
woman's a hundred no, and she did it.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
No, you can't feel the rest of her body though.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Feeling of your body and one hundred she's.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
One hundred, like she don't that stuff don't even work.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
She don't feel that what you need to don't work.
Speaker 3 (12:16):
How do you flay for five minutes and one hundred?
Like half your body probably is already up there?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
What you get what I'm saying?
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Like her, she might not even feel.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
I don't think I could do two minutes. This woman
did five. She's one hundred years old. Yeah, it's National
Gardening Day, National Dolphin Day, and National expouse Day. Oh,
we celebrate those. I don't know why we're celebrating those,
but okay, orders a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right,
the honorable kikilik Kiki. But judge Kiki, Yes, I take
(12:50):
it away?
Speaker 3 (12:50):
All right, now, let's get into the courtroom. The gabble
has been hit.
Speaker 8 (12:54):
It says, hey, Ki Ki, am I wrong for telling
my best friend we don't want her around because of
her baby. My name is Elena, and one of my
best friends became a mom eleven months ago, and obviously
our friend group has been so happy for her.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
However, we all secretly.
Speaker 8 (13:10):
Feel like she's allowed motherhood to completely take over her
entire personality. She brings the baby everywhere we go, and
all the baby does is cry. It's so exhausting. She's
also breastfeeding, so when we're out, she doesn't drink and
then complains if we drink without her. So we have
our annual spring break girls trip coming up, but my
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friends and I have decided that we don't want her
to come. We've already booked our trip and started a
separate group chat, but she just texts us all to
ask about the plans. I responded and told her the
truth about us not wanting her to tag along because
of the baby. We all want a kid free vibe.
She just doesn't fit the vibe anymore. So she got
really upset and removed herself from the group chat and
(13:53):
blocked me. Am I wrong for being honest? And am
I wrong for how I feel?
Speaker 1 (13:58):
So this woman the friend group wants to have like
a like a freakom girls trip, Yes, like the Cobbo
San Lucas or whatever, and I don't know whatever, it's
seniors and someone wants to come and bring the baby. Yes,
I know what say you though, I'm sorry, I feel
a certain kind of way about this. But there's a
time and a place.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Are you saying the mom is wrong for wanting to
bring the baby?
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Yes to a girl's weekend?
Speaker 9 (14:24):
No?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
But look, there's a time and a place. Are we
going to Wisconsin? Dell's you know are going to? Are
we going to? Uh? I don't know. Is it something
that's kid friendly or is it something that's intended to
be for adults?
Speaker 8 (14:38):
Okay, Well, here's the thing. I don't feel like she's wrong, right, Lena.
I don't feel like you're wrong for wanting a girl
or kid free weekend.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Yes, I don't feel like you're.
Speaker 8 (14:49):
Wrong for maybe being a little annoyed with your friend
and how she brings the baby everywhere.
Speaker 3 (14:54):
You're allowed to feel how you feel.
Speaker 8 (14:56):
But you are wrong for planning the annual girls trip
that you know she usually comes on and then just
removing it like starting a separate group chat.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
That's very shady.
Speaker 8 (15:05):
And you guys booked the whole trip, didn't tell her,
and then she reaches out to ask about the trip,
and then you just throw that on her like we
didn't want you to come because of your baby, given
her the.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Option, the president has been set. This woman will not
go anywhere without her child. So I suppose you could
one more time go back to the well and say, hey,
we're planning the girl's trip. However, no kids on this thing,
and then she could throw a fed again.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
But at least you told her.
Speaker 8 (15:30):
Because now if I'm your friend, I feel like you
move a shady Why I got a separate group chat
without Why Why would I ask about the trip it's already.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Booked because you're the lady who wants to so we
know what we'll we'll plan something else. I guess at
the McDonald's play place for you. I'm not trying to
be mean. I'm really not, but I mean to me,
i'm not though I really don't. I do not believe
that thing. Look, my mom and my dad went on
trips that didn't include us, Yes, because it was a
different kind of trip, you know what I mean. There
(15:59):
were a trips, there were girls' trips, there's guys trips,
and there's family trips. It's either I think you pick
a destination everybody brings their kids, it's a whole different vibe.
Or if it's a girl's trip, we're gonna sit, you know,
by the pool and drink margaritas or whatever. Then then
there doesn't need to be a baby there because they're
not bringing their babies exactly. No, I agree with you.
Speaker 8 (16:19):
The baby does not need an invite. But you can
at least tell your friend, hey, we are going on
our usual trip. You are invited, no kids allowed, though,
you can at least say that. But to just start
another group chat without me, it's very shady.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
But it sounds like they've done that and she still
brings the kid.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
Well that's true.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Yeah, So I don't know what you're supposed to do.
Speaker 8 (16:39):
How do you tell your friend Lee like I don't
want to be around your baby, Like, why your baby
always crying?
Speaker 3 (16:44):
She said, the baby is always crying and meth is off.
Speaker 4 (16:46):
You can you can tell your friends like, hey, you know,
I kind of want this to be like a girl's
thing or just be like our own thing.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
And I don't think that's bad.
Speaker 4 (16:54):
And as a mother of a twelve month old, so
very close to this girl situation, I have a lot
to unpack here, and I think I want to start
with saying that just because I had a baby doesn't
mean that life has to change for everybody else around me.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
I've changed my own life. I'm very well aware of that.
Speaker 4 (17:10):
I am so happy with my choice, and therefore I'm
not going to affect your trip and your trip if
we're all going to a girl's trip, like this is
our set thing, we do this every year, whatever it
is like, if I can't go, then I say my
ass home and I can't go if I'm not comfortable
leaving my baby, that's okay. And as friends, I expect
you guys to be okay with that, which just sounds
like the girls would be if we have no choice. Really,
(17:30):
but that's like where I'm at, Like, Okay, if I'm
staying home, staying home, I can't do everything anymore, and that's.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
Okay, But how many times falling in it do your
friends have to ask you to do something that you
bring the baby before they decide it's we can't ask anymore,
like because it's a fight every time and you're not
getting it. You're not getting that there's a time and
a place for that. There's a time and a place
for this. One hundred percent agree. And I don't think
babies belong everywhere, and that's me being a mom. But
(17:56):
I also do have a lot of help, so I
know that I come from like a privileged position by
saying like I can't meet you guys out for you know,
Margarite's on Friday, I'm going to leave my baby with
either dad or grandma whoever.
Speaker 4 (18:05):
Right I have the village. I'm so aware of that,
But at the same time, it's like, I don't know.
I shouldn't have to be told by you guys, like
I can read the room. I should be able to
read the room to be like, Okay, this is a
girl's trip, like no baby on the boob on this one.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
You have a lot of self awareness about this, Paulic. Yeah,
I do, and it doesn't sound like this woman does.
And I understand that she's dedicated to being a parent
and she wants to be with her baby, and maybe
she doesn't have access to as consistent of childcare or
a lot of things. I understand all that. But that
might mean then that she doesn't get to do everything anymore,
and that's a shame. But you chose to have a kid,
and and so you either that's just an extra step
(18:41):
for you, and I acknowledge that it's an extra step
for you, but it is, yeah, and it's a step
I might have to take, or maybe I do. You know,
that's another thing. I don't know how many of these
other girls have kids. They're not bringing their kids, which
means they have the same burden.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
I still think you go about it, like Keeky said,
the proper channels so you can feel good about yourself.
So even in the long thing, Hey, we're planning this trip,
you know, and then you say, oh, whatever her name is,
Hey Maya, I'm so sorry if you can't come because
of the baby. We totally understand you will be missed.
That's a nice way of saying, your baby's not coming
and you have to stay home, will miss.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
You, and you're not being shady about it. Yeah, and
she wants to be invited.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
I'm as a mother, like, we want to be invited,
even if you know, like, okay, Paulina probably can't go,
like she's got the baby. You know she's not gonna
leave whatever. At least I want to get that invite
and feel.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Included FaceTime you want to then what else you know?
Speaker 4 (19:29):
But from the mother's perspective, we have to be okay.
What's staying back and saying Okay, this isn't for me
do and I don't.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Think this woman is. She's proven that, so I guess
I don't know how many times I have to ask
my friend to go to something the baby shows up
before I'm like okay, he or she's just not getting
it and I'm sorry about that, but like this is
a adult's only trip. Yeah, And I can no longer
run the risk of fighting with you about this. I
(19:55):
think Hey eight five five, five one three five, I
love you guys with the Jerry, I'd love to know
what you think. Hey, ky, Hi, how are you, Hi, Ky,
good morning. So what do you think kis court? Essentially,
there's a woman who's part of a friend group who
brings your kid to everything her baby, and the friends
are like, look, we're gonna it's gone on long enough,
We're going on an adult's all girls trip. We don't
(20:15):
want the baby there. So they kind of have planned
this whole thing without her.
Speaker 7 (20:18):
What do you think, Well, I have two toddlers of
my own. Number one, if I'm going on a girl's trip,
the toddlers for not coming.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
With yeah, I mean yeah, And honestly, like I wait.
Speaker 7 (20:33):
For my friends to say, like, oh, the baby is welcome,
the kids are welcome to come. I don't automatically assume
my children are invited to everything. And I love my
kids very much, but I don't want them there all
the time. This mom needs to like read the room exactly.
Like Paulina said, you can't bring your baby everywhere.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
I'm sorry, yeah, yeah, no, I I think you're right.
Thank you, Kate, thank you?
Speaker 4 (20:57):
Or husband, like sometimes I don't want to hang out
with your husband and your boy friend, like leave them
at home too.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
I don't think that's any difference. I don't think that's
any different than the girl or the guy that can't
go anywhere without their significant other. It's like, no, he
or she is not invited on this trip. It is not.
It is a guy's trip or a girl's trip. And
if you then decide I'm bringing my wife or girlfriend, well,
first of all, that's going to be weird that the
rest of us don't, or then all of a sudden
it becomes a whole different kind of trip. Yeah, which,
(21:21):
I think there's a time and a place for both.
Speaker 3 (21:23):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
I think there's a time for us all to go
somewhere that's kid friendly together. I think it's a time
for us all to go somewhere to get hammered and
not have to worry about the kid or you not
being being limited as to what you can do because
you got to watch the kid or whatever, like, because
it does kind of if the intention of the trip
is for girls to go and have a good time
and be a little irresponsible, then it does kind of
(21:44):
put a damper on that, and I don't think that's fair.
Speaker 8 (21:46):
And you know what I feel Lena in this because
you can even say she told her friend like, hey,
we don't want the baby to come this time. If
Lena looks up the resort and kids are allowed, she
might still say, Hey, I'm bringing her anyway. And then
when I hang out with you guys, I just will
leave the baby with the nanny or with with my
husband whatever.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
And now it's a family trip.
Speaker 8 (22:03):
So I understand Lena's in a tough spot, but I
feel like not telling your friend about the trip at
all is just a little shady.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
Ummm let me see here. I'm going to throw all
the texts. As long as they have times where she
can bring her baby, I think it's completely fine for
this trip to be kid free. However, if they're really
her friends, they should carve out time for her to
bring her baby. No, they shouldn't. No, they shouldn't.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
I think they mean like other times, like let's go
to brunch, bring the baby next Friday.
Speaker 1 (22:28):
It sounds like you just invite her somewhere in the
baby comes, they don't have to carve out time. It's
just this particular trip, we're not doing that. Hey, Emily, Hi, Emily, Hi, Hey,
good morning. What say you?
Speaker 7 (22:40):
What if the mom is a single mom and she
doesn't have any care for the baby, Hey, look, and.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
I hear that, but but this may not be the
trip for her then, and that's a shame, absolutely right.
Speaker 7 (22:54):
I'm just saying the friends need to consider that as well,
and Lena didn't put that in the letter.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Yeah. No, I don't like the whole isolation thing. But again,
I'll say it one more time. How many times you
ask someone or express your needs as a friend group
and they're ignored Before it's like, well, we can't pause
our lives because this one person can't do the thing
that we all want to do. I mean, at what
point do you do you just sort of do it separately?
Speaker 7 (23:20):
Yeah, I just yeah, I agree. I was a single
mom at one point and so I was able to
figure things out and I had care. But yeah, you
shouldn't be bringing your baby everywhere. Mom needs mom time.
I just it's just a different approach potentially to thinks
about things that maybe you could include in and have
that conversation versus exclusion.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
It's a very different vibe, Emily. When I'm at the
Senior Frogs in Continental and they're pouring, you know, shots
in my mouth that everyone else's mouth has been attached
to you, and yet there's a baby with a bottle
next to me. It's a different vibe. We can't have this,
It's totally.
Speaker 7 (23:56):
A different vibe.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I agree, Emily, don't ForwArt my fun. Have a good day,
trying to turn up over here and is a baby crying?
Speaker 2 (24:08):
Is going on?
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Get rid of the baby.
Speaker 1 (24:10):
It's like the Hangover movie with the baby. What is
this baby doing here? Hey Carlos, Hey, what's going on? Guy? Carlos? Hey? Man,
what do you? What say you in Kiggi's cord.
Speaker 10 (24:21):
Listen man, I say she's got a kick rocks. Listen
what we do and we gotta we gotta. We do
a family like a friends giving every year. You know,
we do a friend's trip as well.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Every year.
Speaker 10 (24:31):
You know, a bunch of couples go to get together
either eat dinner or we do or we do a
trip as well. And you know, it started coming as like, hey,
there's no kids involved. We were pretty you know, specific
on there are no kids invited until one of us.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
You know, we're we're old.
Speaker 10 (24:44):
I'm forty four years old, so we have older kids now,
you know, so I have a twenty five year old.
My my wife has a twenty seven year old. You know,
so we we're we're older, and so they started on.
One couple started bringing their child because she was twenty three,
and I was like, what is going on?
Speaker 9 (24:57):
My daughter's out of me here.
Speaker 10 (24:58):
We tell them they beat it, you know, And so
we had to specifically state in our invitations now no offsprings,
because it's just, you.
Speaker 1 (25:06):
Know, we just don't allow me.
Speaker 10 (25:08):
I don't care if you're an adult. You know, we
talk about things that we shouldn't be talking about around
our children and makes our children uncomfortable. We all pop
gummies and we walk in the door.
Speaker 9 (25:16):
You know.
Speaker 10 (25:16):
It's one of those that get having fun. Don't freaky
to say, no diddy stuff.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
You guys, are you guys switching partners or something?
Speaker 1 (25:26):
What sort of establish what sort of groups? And are
you accepting new members?
Speaker 10 (25:32):
Don't play well with others? So no, you know, it's
it's just it's something we talk about. You know, there's
things that you know, even though they're adults, there's just
certain things they shouldn't it shouldn't hear or shouldn't hear
their mother's friends talking about, you know, and it's just
that's it's the rule, and it's no kids, we're having
a good time, we're gonna get wasted. We only do
this once a year, so we're gonna have We're gonna
we're gonna let loose, you know.
Speaker 9 (25:51):
So I say she's got to kick rocks.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I think that is I think I think the kick
rocks is aggressive. But I think I agree with what
you're saying. Carlos, Thank you. Have a good day, you too,
Now run a hang with Carlin. I do too, and
I would like to see what they're up to. Hey, Brittany,
good morning. Hey Brittany, So you bring up a good
point in Kiky's court. It's a it's a group of friends.
One always brings her baby and they're getting tired of it.
(26:15):
So as supposed to fighting about it, they've kind of
branched off and they're planning a girl's trip without her
and kind of leaving her out of the planning process.
But what do you think?
Speaker 9 (26:25):
Yeah, so my thing is this is an annual trip
and they do it every year. My thing is, you know,
because they do say that you lose friends and you
become a mom. And that's why I just kind of
like upset me when to hear like their thoughts on it.
They both could have went about it a different way.
My thing is, what if the mother was like, oh,
you know, this is our annual trip. What if like
she had a sitter lined up and this is her
(26:48):
had like her first time away from the baby. And
you know, I mean, because I assume would be that
obviously you're going on a girls trip. I would not
bring a baby to that. It's it's different from like
they were going out to life or like we're just
getting together at home. But you know, they didn't even
say like hey, like you know, like just wanting to
ask like are you still going to come with us?
(27:09):
You know, they didn't even take it into consideration. They
just find it without her. So I totally understand where
she's coming from and being upset. I would be upset
too if somebody didn't include me.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
Yeah, yeah, and pretty I hear you, and I agree
with that. I gotta believe them. We don't know this,
but I'm just I'm of the mindset that these folks
are only doing this now because it's a fight every time.
I gotta think this is a lie. If this is
just a one time deal she had a baby and
that we're not inviting her anymore. But we don't know,
do these other girls have kids. Are these other women
having to accommodate for the kids? I mean, you know,
(27:42):
in the past, have you made suggestions like, well, why
don't you leave your baby with my babysitter or with
my husband or with my you know, my mom will
watch both of them so we can go. We don't
know any of this, but I'd like to believe that
if I start not being invited to things, it's because
I simply won't adjust. I'd like to believe that's.
Speaker 9 (27:59):
The case, right, right, right, But for this specific events,
sansitive annually they go every yere I would have just
brought it up to them, like do you still want
to be included? Are you going to have a sitter? Like,
just so we can plan accordingly. But I mean they
didn't even give rid of the options. So it was
a miscommunication on both ings. They both have communicated.
Speaker 1 (28:19):
I get it.
Speaker 10 (28:19):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Thank you so much, Brittany. Have a good day. You're
glad you called. I don't know, kids closed. What do
you think?
Speaker 8 (28:25):
Man, you're the judge, Lena, listen you you are right
to not want that baby around.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Some people don't want to hear it. I don't want
to hit that crying. How happened? This is your friend.
You could have text her and let her know about
the trip.
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Man's when I.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
Find out my friends got separate group chats behind my back.
You shady for having to me? Mm hmm, yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
Put me in a group chat, man, Cancel the reservation
at Chippendale. Can't come now. No, baby's a lot in there.
No baby, they don't need to be. They're not ready
to be. Seeing what happens in that thing, you know,
it gets wow, man,
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