April 22, 2025 • 9 mins
Bebe is confused why her date won't call her back after they hooked up. Find out why Bebe got ghosted!
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:02):
Have I ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show. Hey baby, good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We are super excited to have you here. So waiting
by the phone is on. We're trying to figure out
why you may have been ghosted BBI, So why don't
you tell us about this guy Max, how you met,
give us any background, and then kind of where things
are now and so we can figure out.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
How we can help.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
So, I mean I met Sax on the app, you.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Know, as a lot of us do the days.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So yeah, we started talking and to connect fairly well,
you know, he was witty, he was funny, so I
was like okay, and then you know, we kept talking
and it started to get a little flirty and then
he asked me, asked me for my actual numbers. So
we moved, you know, off the app started to actually
you know, texting and flirty, and we dec to go
(01:00):
out and I was really excited about that. And we
went out. It was great, like underdos aren over that good.
I was happy, shocked that it was going this well.
And I mean, you know, I even ended up you know,
sleeping over at a place at the end of it.
Believe me, I wouldn't see this often and it was
(01:20):
I was shocked. That went as well.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Okay, yeah, no, so you have no idea after this
amazing date, why and even with the you guys hooked
up and everything, so this is all good stuff. And
then since then you have not heard from him. Have
you reached out to him? Have you tried to contact
him at all?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I tried calling him, I texted him. I only texted
him once because I didn't, you know, want to see
too much. I had already tried calling.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
I mean, it would be nice to know after you
hook up with somebody why you know, why they're not interested.
I guess they don't necessarily owe you that, but it's
always nice to know I have some closure.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
It's respectful.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So sure, especially after you hook up with someone you
know we have put together. Okay, see whatever, but at
least why you know?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Ideally you'd like to know, and that's where we come in.
So we'll call. We'll call Max. You'll be on the
phone at the same time. I don't want you to
say anything right at first, because we're gonna try and
get some info for you. But at some point, you're
welcome to jump in and hopefully we can figure out
what's going on. Maybe we can patch things up, I
don't know, any kind of disconnect and get you guys
set up on another date.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
That we pay for. Okay, okay, all right, I'm gonna
play one.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Song and then we'll come back in two minutes and
we'll call this dude and figure it out. Let's see
what's going on in part two of Waiting at the phone.
Right after this song, Sabrina Carpenter back in two minutes
on the Fread Show.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Don't move.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's the Fread Show on the radio, on the iHeart app.
Listen live and anytime. You can catch up all day
and search for the friend show for that and make
us a preset. Hey bb Yeah, Hi Bby, welcome back.
Let's call Max. You guys met on one of the
dating apps and you chatted and you went on this
date that you thought went really well, so well that
you slipped over his house, you know. So that's good. However,
(03:03):
since then you haven't heard from him. You've reached out once,
he hasn't responded. I can understand why that might bother you,
because you want to know why you want to know
what happened?
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Where's this guy? Where did he go? Right?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah, I mean I just want to know why. You know,
at the end of the day, if he's not interested, well,
but at least let me know why.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Yeah, fair enough, let's call him now. Good luck. Phoebe?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Hi? Is this Max?
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Hey Max? Good morning.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show on
one O three five Kiss FM, and I'm starting to bother.
I do have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we start for a
couple of minutes on the show?
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
That's fun, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I'm not sure if you've heard this before, but we're
actually calling on behalf of a woman named Phoebe who
says she met you on one of the days aps
you guys went out recently and had a what she
described as a really successful date.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
To remember her, Yeah, yeah, I definitely remember.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Okay, all right, Well, so what she told us that
you know that you guys were flirting again? Long, Well,
she did say that she slept over at your house. However,
she says she can't get a hold of you you're
not responding, you're not reaching out. It's kind of bugging her.
We had no problem getting ahold of you. So what
you know, can you kind of would you mind filling
us in on where you're at with her?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah? Yeah, the date was good.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
The everything else that happened after was good. Uh, it
was just actually it was it was sort of What
happened after after was what was kind of weird. I
woke up like just in the middle of the I
just had to pee and I was like hearing noises
from my living room and I walked it into my
living room and.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
She was watching like porn.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Oh did she fire up the fifty in should like
you know, share it to the street, Like.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Yeah, Like we had just soaked up like an hour
before that.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
There's just like, hey, hey, maybe this lady is insatiable.
Maybe she you know, maybe she was ready for another round. Uh. Well,
you know what, I forgot to mention that BB you here.
I I don't know what. I always have this laps
in my memory. I forget to mention that part. The
(05:29):
BB's here, Max. You guys know each other.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
BB.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
So what was going on on the couch after afterwards?
And why was it so loud.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
By the way, Yeah, I didn't know that he caught me.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Okay, well he did so why an hour after you
hook up with the guy, are you in the other
room watching you know, those kind of videos.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Well, why do you think so?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
You didn't?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
You did so? Pauline is right, So you didn't. It
wasn't satisfying. It wasn't satisfactory the experience.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I wouldn't even I wouldn't say that though I had
a great experience, like it was a really fun time.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Didn't You didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
You didn't get to the high the highest hype.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
I did not finish so and I did not expect
him to walk in and catch me.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
You know, that was never my intention. I guess in
the future, maybe I would leave. Yeah, I you know,
I I.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Know I might conceal what I'm doing a little better
if I didn't want any chance that the guy I
liked or girl I liked or whatever would find out.
I mean, because I get it. You know, it's you
don't always get to that point. But Max, man, you're
awfully quiet on this whole thing. I mean, you hear
what this is the reason?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Why? What say you?
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Yeah, I don't know. I guess I get it. It's
just it was just kind of weird. I definitely didn't
expect it.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
You don't seem real surprise.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
I thought it would be great, like we did.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I'm not saying it, I don't.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I'm not saying it wasn't a great time. That was
not at all what I'm trying to say here.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
I will say this is a difficult concept for most
men to understand. Myself included, we're like operating an appliance,
you know, on off.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
It's not that tricky.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Women typically are a little it's a little more complicated women.
I think you guys would agree, right, I mean, for
the most part that it can be a little trickier.
And I think men, just because we're used to most
of the time, we get to that point, and I
think we just expect that we can give that to
our partners only. And I think many men are surprised
(07:49):
to find out that you guys can have a great
time and enjoy the experience, but not automatically get to
that height.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Yeah, so I think it's a hard thing for guys
to understand. Yeah, yeah, I get that.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
I just like washing porn on like my couch hack.
I don't know. I just I was right next to her.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. So the finished like what
a gentleman.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I would have been more offended that I wasn't invited
to that party, you know. I would have been like, well,
I mean I can help with them. But then again
it didn't. It didn't work the first e No, all right,
well look Max, I mean so since you say you
have an understanding of this whole concept, so why are
you ignoring her?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Are you embarrassed by it?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Are you? I don't know what, what did it hurt
your masculinity somehow? I mean I don't mean to generalize her,
like I don't mean to suppose, but what why wouldn't
you call her again after that?
Speaker 5 (08:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
It was just a little weird to me. It was, uh,
it just it was just really off putting, and I
don't know, it was just really weird and it just
it threw me off.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
And I'm sorry. I'm not good at, you know, just
not talking to people, so I tend to just not
talk to people.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Not good at confrontation or like dealing with that stuff,
so I tend to just not respond.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
And I know it's clearly not good and here we are.
But well, that's that's nice, you know, there you go, Bbe.
So that was the issue. I don't know that every
guy would handle it that way, but you know, he's
admitting that he's not really good. I think I think
many of us are not good at that at that
phone call later where it's like, hey, by the way,
I don't like you, not that that's how you say it,
(09:26):
but you know, it sounds like that's the issue here.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
So Boebe, I'm sorry. I don't think it's going to
work out.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
No fair enough, man, I.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Know he doesn't seem too surprised by all this. I
don't know it just maybe it's just not a it's
not a match. But guys, thank you so much for
your time. Best eluct to both of you.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The Entertainment Report headlines the biggest stories of the day
and the fun fact All next Fred Show.
Have I ever been left waiting by the phone. It's
the Fred Show. Hey baby, good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
We are super excited to have you here. So waiting
by the phone is on. We're trying to figure out
why you may have been ghosted BBI, So why don't
you tell us about this guy Max, how you met,
give us any background, and then kind of where things
are now and so we can figure out.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
How we can help.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
So, I mean I met Sax on the app, you.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Know, as a lot of us do the days.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
So yeah, we started talking and to connect fairly well,
you know, he was witty, he was funny, so I
was like okay, and then you know, we kept talking
and it started to get a little flirty and then
he asked me, asked me for my actual numbers. So
we moved, you know, off the app started to actually
you know, texting and flirty, and we dec to go
(01:00):
out and I was really excited about that. And we
went out. It was great, like underdos aren over that good.
I was happy, shocked that it was going this well.
And I mean, you know, I even ended up you know,
sleeping over at a place at the end of it.
Believe me, I wouldn't see this often and it was
(01:20):
I was shocked. That went as well.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Okay, yeah, no, so you have no idea after this
amazing date, why and even with the you guys hooked
up and everything, so this is all good stuff. And
then since then you have not heard from him. Have
you reached out to him? Have you tried to contact
him at all?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I tried calling him, I texted him. I only texted
him once because I didn't, you know, want to see
too much. I had already tried calling.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
I mean, it would be nice to know after you
hook up with somebody why you know, why they're not interested.
I guess they don't necessarily owe you that, but it's
always nice to know I have some closure.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
It's respectful.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So sure, especially after you hook up with someone you
know we have put together. Okay, see whatever, but at
least why you know?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Ideally you'd like to know, and that's where we come in.
So we'll call. We'll call Max. You'll be on the
phone at the same time. I don't want you to
say anything right at first, because we're gonna try and
get some info for you. But at some point, you're
welcome to jump in and hopefully we can figure out
what's going on. Maybe we can patch things up, I
don't know, any kind of disconnect and get you guys
set up on another date.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
That we pay for. Okay, okay, all right, I'm gonna
play one.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Song and then we'll come back in two minutes and
we'll call this dude and figure it out. Let's see
what's going on in part two of Waiting at the phone.
Right after this song, Sabrina Carpenter back in two minutes
on the Fread Show.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Don't move.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's the Fread Show on the radio, on the iHeart app.
Listen live and anytime. You can catch up all day
and search for the friend show for that and make
us a preset. Hey bb Yeah, Hi Bby, welcome back.
Let's call Max. You guys met on one of the
dating apps and you chatted and you went on this
date that you thought went really well, so well that
you slipped over his house, you know. So that's good. However,
(03:03):
since then you haven't heard from him. You've reached out once,
he hasn't responded. I can understand why that might bother you,
because you want to know why you want to know
what happened?
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Where's this guy? Where did he go? Right?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah, I mean I just want to know why. You know,
at the end of the day, if he's not interested, well,
but at least let me know why.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Yeah, fair enough, let's call him now. Good luck. Phoebe?
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Hi? Is this Max?
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Hey Max? Good morning.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show on
one O three five Kiss FM, and I'm starting to bother.
I do have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we start for a
couple of minutes on the show?
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
That's fun, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I'm not sure if you've heard this before, but we're
actually calling on behalf of a woman named Phoebe who
says she met you on one of the days aps
you guys went out recently and had a what she
described as a really successful date.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
To remember her, Yeah, yeah, I definitely remember.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Okay, all right, Well, so what she told us that
you know that you guys were flirting again? Long, Well,
she did say that she slept over at your house. However,
she says she can't get a hold of you you're
not responding, you're not reaching out. It's kind of bugging her.
We had no problem getting ahold of you. So what
you know, can you kind of would you mind filling
us in on where you're at with her?
Speaker 5 (04:28):
Yeah? Yeah, the date was good.
Speaker 6 (04:31):
The everything else that happened after was good. Uh, it
was just actually it was it was sort of What
happened after after was what was kind of weird. I
woke up like just in the middle of the I
just had to pee and I was like hearing noises
from my living room and I walked it into my
living room and.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
She was watching like porn.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Oh did she fire up the fifty in should like
you know, share it to the street, Like.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Yeah, Like we had just soaked up like an hour
before that.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
There's just like, hey, hey, maybe this lady is insatiable.
Maybe she you know, maybe she was ready for another round. Uh. Well,
you know what, I forgot to mention that BB you here.
I I don't know what. I always have this laps
in my memory. I forget to mention that part. The
(05:29):
BB's here, Max. You guys know each other.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
BB.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
So what was going on on the couch after afterwards?
And why was it so loud.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
By the way, Yeah, I didn't know that he caught me.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Okay, well he did so why an hour after you
hook up with the guy, are you in the other
room watching you know, those kind of videos.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Well, why do you think so?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
You didn't?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
You did so? Pauline is right, So you didn't. It
wasn't satisfying. It wasn't satisfactory the experience.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I wouldn't even I wouldn't say that though I had
a great experience, like it was a really fun time.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Didn't You didn't.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
You didn't get to the high the highest hype.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
I did not finish so and I did not expect
him to walk in and catch me.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
You know, that was never my intention. I guess in
the future, maybe I would leave. Yeah, I you know,
I I.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Know I might conceal what I'm doing a little better
if I didn't want any chance that the guy I
liked or girl I liked or whatever would find out.
I mean, because I get it. You know, it's you
don't always get to that point. But Max, man, you're
awfully quiet on this whole thing. I mean, you hear
what this is the reason?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Why? What say you?
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Yeah, I don't know. I guess I get it. It's
just it was just kind of weird. I definitely didn't
expect it.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
You don't seem real surprise.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
I thought it would be great, like we did.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I'm not saying it, I don't.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
I'm not saying it wasn't a great time. That was
not at all what I'm trying to say here.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
I will say this is a difficult concept for most
men to understand. Myself included, we're like operating an appliance,
you know, on off.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
It's not that tricky.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Women typically are a little it's a little more complicated women.
I think you guys would agree, right, I mean, for
the most part that it can be a little trickier.
And I think men, just because we're used to most
of the time, we get to that point, and I
think we just expect that we can give that to
our partners only. And I think many men are surprised
(07:49):
to find out that you guys can have a great
time and enjoy the experience, but not automatically get to
that height.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Yeah, so I think it's a hard thing for guys
to understand. Yeah, yeah, I get that.
Speaker 5 (08:00):
I just like washing porn on like my couch hack.
I don't know. I just I was right next to her.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know. So the finished like what
a gentleman.
Speaker 5 (08:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
I would have been more offended that I wasn't invited
to that party, you know. I would have been like, well,
I mean I can help with them. But then again
it didn't. It didn't work the first e No, all right,
well look Max, I mean so since you say you
have an understanding of this whole concept, so why are
you ignoring her?
Speaker 3 (08:31):
Are you embarrassed by it?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Are you? I don't know what, what did it hurt
your masculinity somehow? I mean I don't mean to generalize her,
like I don't mean to suppose, but what why wouldn't
you call her again after that?
Speaker 5 (08:42):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
It was just a little weird to me. It was, uh,
it just it was just really off putting, and I
don't know, it was just really weird and it just
it threw me off.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
And I'm sorry. I'm not good at, you know, just
not talking to people, so I tend to just not
talk to people.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Not good at confrontation or like dealing with that stuff,
so I tend to just not respond.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
And I know it's clearly not good and here we are.
But well, that's that's nice, you know, there you go, Bbe.
So that was the issue. I don't know that every
guy would handle it that way, but you know, he's
admitting that he's not really good. I think I think
many of us are not good at that at that
phone call later where it's like, hey, by the way,
I don't like you, not that that's how you say it,
(09:26):
but you know, it sounds like that's the issue here.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
So Boebe, I'm sorry. I don't think it's going to
work out.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
No fair enough, man, I.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Know he doesn't seem too surprised by all this. I
don't know it just maybe it's just not a it's
not a match. But guys, thank you so much for
your time. Best eluct to both of you.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The Entertainment Report headlines the biggest stories of the day
and the fun fact All next Fred Show.
The Fred Show On Demand News
Show Links
Official WebsitePopular Podcasts
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
24/7 News: The Latest
The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.