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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We'll go in the city.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
My latest one was bad Ants in the House.

Speaker 3 (00:05):
I was like, what did you have to do so
bad in your past life that you come back as
an ants? Wow?

Speaker 1 (00:09):
Yeah, No, it's a full intelligence briefing every morning. It's intense.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
That's what you're doing in there?

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Yeah, what'd you tell it? Never mind? I will start
the Roe. Fred's Show is on Good Morning Everybody, Tuesday,
April twenty second. The Fred Show is here. Hi, Kaylen Morning, Hi,
Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hi ke Key Morning, Bella Jimenez
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(00:34):
We'll get to headlines, the biggest stories of the day,
the entertainment Report, and blogs all this hour, stay or go,
Let's debase your relationship drama waiting by the phone this morning.
Kicky lost yesterday in the showdown. Your record now twenty
one and fourth still really good. One hundred bucks is
the prize and remember if you if you win between
now when Shelley comes back, what do we say June first, Yeah,

(00:58):
something like that. Then you can keep the money.

Speaker 4 (01:02):
It's April okay and April okay, so you know, yeah,
you have five weeks left something like that.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
I'm counting, so.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
You could win. You can still win one thousand bucks. Yeah, okay,
I think I just did the math quickly in my head.
I haven't had enough coffee, so I'm not sure if
that's true. What are you working on for reports this morning? Ky?

Speaker 5 (01:23):
A couple of things I will tell you who says
they don't remember their Coachella performance? Also the Hall of
Fame titan and the fifty million dollar lawsuit.

Speaker 1 (01:33):
You want to do a morality Monday on a Tuesday
because I think we should. Yes, So how would you
feel about this? Eight five five five N one one
three five. A groop to be recently shared his dilemma
on Reddit, which is where I get a lot of these.
I must I must give credit where credit is due.
I don't know it. I know some a holes, but
I don't know enough to be able to do I

(01:53):
know some immoral people, but I don't know enough to
do morality Monday on a Tuesday every week unless I
did a lot of research. Yeah, so I could do it.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Just all your friends every week?

Speaker 4 (02:04):
You?

Speaker 1 (02:05):
Yeah, just which one of you wanted to be immoral Keevans. Yeah,
so this happened to somebody, though it didn't really, So
here's this is the gist of it. A dude's fiance
plans to wear her late husband's wedding ring on a
chain around her neck during the wedding ceremony to the

(02:25):
new guy. So her husband is dead, okay, and she's
going to she wants to wear the wedding ring. I
guess his wedding ring that from when they were married
before he died, around her neck when she marries another guy,
the next guy, Okay. She says it's a quiet tribute

(02:46):
to the guy she once loved, who passed away in
a tragic car accident five years ago. She believes the
laws shaped who she is today and wants to carry
that part of her past into the new chapter. But
her fiance is not feeling great about him. He says
it makes him feel he's sharing the most important day
of his life with someone who isn't there and and
like he's somehow second place. And people on the forum

(03:08):
are torn. Some stood with the groom, saying the wedding
should be about the new relationship, not the old one.
Other suggested a compromise, like a symbolic gesture instead of
wearing the ring, I would if I'm being one percent transparent,
if I'm keeping it on on the reel, one hundred
percent on the one. If I'm being one hundred with you, okay, please,

(03:29):
I'm gonna be one hundred with you as opposed to
the ninety nine I usually am. I'm gonna be a hundred.
I wouldn't like him. I wouldn't like him. I wouldn't
like it. You wouldn't be either.

Speaker 2 (03:39):
No, I would not.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Okay, good because you're like, yeah, I know, I know Fred,
I know Fred, You weak, little, weak little nugget.

Speaker 6 (03:47):
No.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
Can you imagine if Hobby in Vegas at the wedding
had a ring around his neck of a that he
gave to another woman who's dead.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
See, okay, I have compassion.

Speaker 7 (03:59):
You wouldn't.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
No, I'd be upset. I'd be bothered for sure. But like,
it's sad if that person tragically died. I mean that's awful.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Nobody's saying that's not sad or awful. But like, yeah,
why are we I mean you're married me? Now? Like
can this day be about us?

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Correct?

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Why are we still reflecting on this person. I'm sorry
this person died. I'm sorry this person is not in
your life anymore. But the feeling that it would give
me is. And it's pretty clear. If that dude weren't dead,
I wouldn't be standing here. You never would have chosen me.
This wouldn't even obviously, this wouldn't even be happening. True. Yes,
I know that, but I don't think you'd be reminded

(04:36):
of that. I don't know. I don't need to be
reminded of the person that I'm marrying now and committing
to the rest of my life with would probably rather
be with someone else if they weren't dead.

Speaker 5 (04:44):
Yeah, it takes a special kind of person to be
with a widow. I don't think everyone can do it.
But I'm in a similar situation. Actually, one of the
bachelorettes I have coming up, her previous boyfriend passed away
and it was tragic, and his mom wants to pay
for something on her bachelorette for a new guy.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
She's getting married to a new guy.

Speaker 5 (05:02):
And her mom, her former boyfriend's mom, wants to pay
for something for us, like a table or when we
go out. Yeah, and but some of my friends, which
I don't think it was their place to say, are like, no,
completely unacceptable, like that's you shouldn't be doing that, like
your fiance is going to be upset, and I, I
don't know, I thought that that was kind of wild.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
Yeah, yeah, it's kind of interesting, like I'm gonna pay
for you guys to go ahead and get hammered.

Speaker 8 (05:26):
Yeah for the wedd did the best of the wedding.

Speaker 5 (05:29):
D Yeah, but she, like I guess, feels like this
is the closest she's going to get to, Like I
don't know, her son getting married, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (05:35):
She's like happy for her. She still talks to her.

Speaker 2 (05:37):
So it is.

Speaker 8 (05:38):
But it is interesting, that's nice.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
It's something. It'sn't even marrying a widow, like, uh, it's
not even it's even so much that it's it's okay,
I'm marrying a widow. So I'm already aware that you
were fully in love with another guy. I actually just
happened to a family member of mine, and I've never
discussed it with her. I've discussed it with her family though,
And this dude. Sadly, when on a business trip the

(06:03):
company had private jets. There were two private jets everybody
piled in one or the other. There was no rhyme
or reason one made it the other one didn't, and
so there was I don't know the inside of their relationship,
but from what I understand, they were relatively newly married,
like everything was fine, you know, and then he's gone, right,
so she moved on married another guy, had kids with him.
Everything's great, and I wonder, like I wondered, does that

(06:23):
guy ever lay up at night and be like, man,
you know, if that dude hadn't tragically died, like I
wouldn't even be here. I wouldn't have my kids, I
wouldn't have any of this. Like maybe I would have
had it with somebody else, but like that, I'm admitting
that's an insecurity, but that would get to me, I think,
But but it's that that's life. But now I got it.
Now you got to have like something tangible with you

(06:43):
at the wedding. To me, I'm trying to really like
sure resemble him, Like guys, we're moving on.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
Like right at the wedding, probably not to see. If
Hobby did that, we wouldn't beat the little White wedding chapel.
I think we'd be honestly in therapy to work through that,
because it's like, why would you want to include that
on your special day?

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Are you really ready to do this? If we're still
reflecting on the best.

Speaker 5 (07:04):
Have anything from their previous you know, marriage or like
a photo or anything, I.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
Mean, and how it exists, like we can put them away.
I'm not saying I don't want them, you know, like
plastered on the on the living room wall when you
walk in. Probably not, but I would still understand that
this happened, Like you said, it's a part of his history, right,
I mean she didn't do anything to me.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
I mean she passed away.

Speaker 3 (07:23):
Right, Theoretically, in this theory, we're doing like she passed away,
and I don't want him to forget her, But on
our special day, probably not.

Speaker 2 (07:30):
This is today is about us because you're loving a
not complete person. I feel like at that point, like a.

Speaker 5 (07:35):
Part of their heart will always be with the spouse
that they thought they were going to spend the rest
of their life with.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
And that's totally fair.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
But like you know, on our special day, at least
you know it's my wedding too, right, it's a two
people event.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
It's you know, for yourself. I watched a multiple.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
It could be correct, it can be, but my mind,
for example, two of us.

Speaker 5 (07:59):
Right, that's I'm saying, I don't think everyone can handle
that situation.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
I really don't think that. I agree, just my opinion.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
I mean, what, Jason, you're over here with this look
on your face of disgust, like honestly, like, okay, So,
so Mike the mechanic wants to marry you, and he's like, hey,
but this dude I hooked up with on grinder a
while ago, like, I need I need to make sure
that I he left his chain in my house.

Speaker 7 (08:18):
It's a little different, but for multiple years.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
Okay, But honestly, though, do you want a person who
is who is essentially you're replacing them? I mean, okay, okay,
imagine this, imagine imagine Okay, you're my beloved coworker, right you,
my beloved co worker. God forbid, I hate this example,
but God forbid, you decide I'm going to I'm I'm

(08:45):
going to move on. I'm going to go and be
Britney Spears's manager, and everyone's happy, well sort of happy
for you. Yeah, I mean, like it's a little late
in the game for that, but you know, still okay,
so you're going to be Britney Spears's manager. We're also
happy for you. We're clapping or whatever, and then you know,
it's it's wonderful. It's a wonderful day, like you know,
here's to the jolly goodfellow whatever. Okay, So then we

(09:07):
have to replace you. Sadly, it's terrible. But we have
a picture of you right there in your chair that
stares at the new person every single day and it says,
we miss so we miss you so much Jason Brown,
you know, to the greatest person to ever sit in
this chair, Jason Brown, you know. And the new person
has to sit there and stare at that all morning.
I mean, it might be true, but what I'm saying

(09:29):
is nobody wants that daily reminder that like there was
somebody greater than me here.

Speaker 9 (09:35):
That's completely it is not it is not at all.
It is completely different. This is someone cass Away, I
didn't die, But you're not here anymore. Better even crazier
people I've somehow found them. But that's so different. There's

(10:00):
nothing like I can't even imagine the pain of losing
a spouse. So I look at I have I have
not been through that there. I cannot say one single
thing about how you deal with it.

Speaker 7 (10:12):
That pain is.

Speaker 9 (10:13):
Like, I can you even think about how that makes
you feel?

Speaker 1 (10:20):
Like?

Speaker 9 (10:21):
You can feel all you want? But I would have
to be fine with It's not like it's competition. He's gone, Yeah,
but don't. Don't my feelings about this matter. I'm marrying
you now. It's about me now, it's not about that person.
I'm so sorry for what happened.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
But I feel like if we're honoring your ex husband
at your new wedding, I mean, listen to that sentence,
that doesn't.

Speaker 9 (10:39):
Say anything about the grief and how she deals with it.
I'm sorry, absolutely my opinion, you didn't you know, go
through that. She did, So whatever she needs to do
to feel better, that's what she.

Speaker 1 (10:48):
Gets to do. Yeah, at your wedding. At your wedding,
you're going to honor another Jason.

Speaker 7 (10:56):
If someone died that they were married to, who am
I to say? You don't get too?

Speaker 1 (11:02):
Honestly, the new husband goodness pink.

Speaker 4 (11:08):
So quiet over here, Oh, because I was trying to
figure out whose side I'm on today, and I think
I want to be on the coins the right side today.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
Right, it's welcome. It's nice over here.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
Because Fers is dead.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
So like, literally, they're never going to be your competition,
competing with the ghost.

Speaker 10 (11:27):
Never.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
I don't think that's true. I don't think that's true.
I think if a person is still honoring their ex
husband at the wedding to the new person, you are
constantly being compared to that.

Speaker 4 (11:37):
First of all, it's just I'm wearing a symbol of
somebody I love that has passed on.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
Yes, it, I mean for you would have to walk away,
like if it bother you, then you would have to say, listen,
this is not for me.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
I can't handle that.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
She's not wearing his chain, She's wearing his wedding ring.
Oh my god, what do you want me to do? Yes? Now,
she can keep it. I don't really melt it down.
I'm not trying to do I'm not trying to destroy
the human being. I mean, I'm we're moving on, We're
moving out to Cleveland. Hey, Roberta, Roberta, how you doing?

(12:14):
What did you want to say? This is nuts? You
guys are crazy.

Speaker 11 (12:17):
I agree with either Why did he why is he?

Speaker 12 (12:19):
Like?

Speaker 11 (12:20):
Why is he comparing himself to a ghost?

Speaker 4 (12:22):
Like?

Speaker 11 (12:22):
Why did you feel like he's in competition with him,
Like she knew what he was bid heman to, he
knew that she was a widow, and he knew that
he loved that.

Speaker 12 (12:30):
She loved him.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
But isn't memory enough? I mean, Bud, what, Roberta, are
you married? Are you married?

Speaker 13 (12:42):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (12:43):
Would you have been okay with your husband honoring another
woman who he was previously married to at his wedding
to you? Come on, Roberta, come on, there's a time
and a place for this stuff. I'm not saying we
raised his memory. I'm not saying that it wasn't. They're not.
It's a fun time in your life. But me, so
you tell me what when I take your clothes off
at end of the night, I gotta look at the
wedding ring of the dude from before.

Speaker 11 (13:06):
It's like a tattoo if somebody had.

Speaker 12 (13:08):
A tattoo, do you know what I say?

Speaker 11 (13:12):
Or the tramp stamps, you know, like it's so little reminder.
But why are you like he knew a tramp stamp?

Speaker 1 (13:18):
Who's getting a tram stamp with him?

Speaker 14 (13:20):
Roberto?

Speaker 1 (13:21):
What kind of tattoos you got? I'm worried about you.

Speaker 11 (13:24):
I got a lot. How you doing oh, you know
that some women get their their spouses names on them,
although they shouldn't, but you know, it's it's so it's
like that. But like this person is dead, Like why
is he trying to like why is he trying to
compete with him?

Speaker 1 (13:41):
Right? Why am I being reminded of him? I guess
it's going to be hard enough to just came on's
original point. The amount of trauma that must you know,
that you must endure to process something like that is extreme,
like and there's no one questioning that. But I guess
I would wonder if we're doing this, are you really
ready for me? I guess would be the question that

(14:03):
I would be asked.

Speaker 11 (14:05):
But do you not think that they had the conversation beforehand?
Like I'm sure that he was aware that he meant
something really special to her because that was her husband
at some point, so he should have had that in
the back of his mind before he asked her to
marry him.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
Yeah, but he also he's gone to read it because
he feels a little shocked by this gesture, Like he
didn't see this kid.

Speaker 11 (14:26):
He's a man, he doesn't know how to communicate.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
I mean, he wrote very clearly, I read it so
good day. I don't think anyone's saying that you don't
honor what was. I just don't know if that's the
time and the place and the way to manifest him,
because because I do think you also have to consider
how it makes the person you're marrying feel. That person's
feelings matter too in this but the grief that comes

(14:51):
with losing a spouse.

Speaker 4 (14:52):
And then I'm back at this wedding place where I
only saw this for my past husband, so it's like
it's something that maybe makes her feel safe that moment
to like I'm doing this again. I'm trying to love
again without the fear of losing this person again. It's
just a little sense of comfort, like a blanky. I
cannot bring my blanky like you know this.

Speaker 1 (15:09):
Why is your dead husband your comfort? I'm your comfort.

Speaker 5 (15:13):
It takes a special kind of person and it's okay,
Like everybody's feelings are valid.

Speaker 8 (15:17):
If it's not working for you, that's okay, that's okay period.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
Okay to wanna Hi, Hi, Hey, so sad that you
were in a situation like this, and I am sorry
that you encountered this.

Speaker 12 (15:29):
Thank you.

Speaker 10 (15:31):
I was with to one for ten years We had
three boys together, and unfortunately he passed away, and about fourish,
almost five years later, I met someone else. We were married.
My system off from my previous marriage was my matrid
of honor. Her husband helped pay for our limo, and

(15:51):
we're still very active in each other's lives. We go
on vacations together with each other's families and everything. So
I think it just depends on how mature you take
the situation. I'm sure that my husband probably feels a
certain way, but because we have children together, he just
wanted to give them as much love as he could

(16:13):
doing if they had a loss. So I just think
that sometimes you have to think about that person's all
over with you, and if it was you that passed away,
would you want your wife to forget about you and
never ever think about you ever again? No, I think
that's hard to say if you haven't been in a situation.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
No to what, I wouldn't, But I also I wouldn't.
I guess I can tell you I wouldn't expect to
be honored in any way at her wedding to another man.
I don't think that's the time and the place. I'm
not saying that you shouldn't be friends with your I mean,
everything that you just said is completely reasonable. You have
kids in a family. You didn't ask for any of this,
that's all reasonable. I just don't know why. You know,
we have the ice sculpture of the man at the rehearsal,

(16:53):
like I don't know, Like I don't know. We don't
need to do that, you know what I mean?

Speaker 10 (16:57):
Yeah, I sculpture might be a little much. Yeah, he
wanted to wear the necklace. I mean maybe not on
her neck per se, but maybe into twin and her
garter or something like that. I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
I don't think we needed any closest to the virgin
than just think there's a time and a place. But hey,
and thank you for sharing. And I'm sorry that happened
to you. And I appreciate your.

Speaker 10 (17:23):
Perspective your friend, and I hope that everything turns out
great for her.

Speaker 1 (17:26):
Thank you so much. Luckily I don't know this person,
because if I did, I wouldn't I would be uninvited
to the wedding. Hey, Kyle, how you doing? Good morning? Hey,
turn the radio down, Kyle, please, Okay, there you go,
Hey man, what do you want to say? Go ahead?

Speaker 12 (17:42):
Hey, I'm just saying I agree with you. I mean
the guy unfortunately he passed away. But at the same time,
like he don't need to remember that at my wedding,
because hey, this is my day. Like why do you
take my sign off of me? And know it's not
about being a competition or anything, But how would you
feel if I wore my springing as she passed away?
You gonna have a whole feet Yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:04):
I don't think that would go over very well with
very many people. But thank you, Kyle, I have a
good day. I appreciate you now. But somebody said, here's
the thing. Somebody said on here, what do they say
Fred isn't ready to marry a widow because he's not
accepting it for fully, First of all, I don't know
what you're talking about. That is it is case by case.
I'm talking about a particular case where it seems like
a woman is not necessarily over her previous marriage. That's

(18:24):
what it seems like to me. But I don't think
we're considering the other side of this. I think we're
only considering the needs of this woman. Okay, Because as
a guy who has dated people who have lost their
previous significant other. I'm accepting of that person's situation, but
I think that person needs to be accepting of mine,
which is that I'm going to be insecure about this

(18:47):
man that you loved and didn't do anything wrong. This
isn't a breakup, this isn't a divorce. I mean, you know,
everything was fine and then they were gone, and that
is awful, right, But like that's going to be difficult
for me too. So why why are we Why do
we have to put that in my face on that day?
I guess it'd be the question that I'm asking because
as much as I am going to be obviously I'm

(19:08):
marrying you, I'm accepting of of of whatever you've been through,
I think you also have to accept the fact that, wow,
I wouldn't even be here if that hadn't happened. And
you know, that's a significant relationship that ended with zero closure.

Speaker 5 (19:23):
Did they say how long she had been widowed before
they started to get married.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
It didn't say. And by the way, someone says that
screams insecurity. Yeah, I said that from the beginning. It does.
I'm insecure about it.

Speaker 2 (19:34):
I'm very honest, I am.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
I'm telling you, I know it's an unpopular opinion. I'm
just telling you what I.

Speaker 2 (19:38):
Think, and I respect that. I respect that. I mean,
I think we should all be able to say our opinion.
That's okay.

Speaker 1 (19:44):
I can say from the beginning when I told you,
I was keeping it on the real it's an unpopular opinion.
And you guys can clant on me all day, but
that's what I think. Oh, I have agree with you,
and it would be it would absolutely be an insecurity.
Absolutely it would be.

Speaker 5 (20:00):
Yeah, because I don't know if you ever get over
that because it wasn't there's no closure, there wasn't any problem. Yeah,
So it's like you say, she's not over it. I
wonder if you ever do. I mean, who knows. I
couldn't speak on it.

Speaker 1 (20:10):
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Speaker 7 (20:19):
Of the day.

Speaker 1 (20:20):
People are texting like, well, you know you're never gonna forget.
I'm not asking you to forget. Can we not do
it on my birthday and my wedding day? Did you mind?
As hard as it is Christmas?

Speaker 12 (20:34):
Right?

Speaker 1 (20:35):
I mean, I don't think we needed to have like
a full play setting for the guy, you know, but
gifts under the tree from Bob, like he got a
better Christmas present than I did and he's dead, Like
what are we doing? No? No, no, that's Bob set like
a full on offering, like could I have seconds to
know those? I'm sorry that's for Bob.

Speaker 10 (20:57):
Man.

Speaker 1 (20:57):
I don't know, especially if the dude were like awesome,
you know what I mean. And that tends to have
when people pass away too. It's like we only remember
the really really amazing thing, which is fine. I mean,
I tell I want to be remembered not from all
my moronic things that I've done, but like for the
better things I've But you know, that would I just
think that would be really hard. You know, You're at
like family dinner and everyone's like, oh, man, yeah you
know so and so, Oh yeah he was he was

(21:18):
a great He was in you know, grated skiing. He
was a great skier. You know, he was actually was
really good. He could have gone pro with it, I think,
you know, and you're just sit there going.

Speaker 8 (21:26):
Damn it, I can't even go down the bunny here.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
I can't. I'm like, I'm out here with the what
do they say that like the cheese greater cheese? Really?
Like really? Okay, so I don't add up to the guy,
got it?

Speaker 4 (21:37):
Oh yeah, I remind you, Bob, barbecue was so much better.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
And then I'll just get you're talking about how in
a fight you'd be like, well, Bob, Bob never would
have acted this way like honoring.

Speaker 7 (21:55):
Now you're just being toxic weapon where I no longer.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
Here, Jason wants to make sure I know he's not
with me.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Yeah, biggest choice of the day. A certificate has been
issued by the Vatican lists the cause of Pope Francis's
death as a stroke that prompted irreversible heart failure. The
certificate officially lists the cause of death as cerebral stroke,
coma and cardio circulatory collapse heart failure. I guess now
there you go. Now that's something I'd like to see

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all these guys going, oh man, all these cardinals getting together.
Oh so sad about Francis.

Speaker 8 (22:31):
But it should be me, you know, you can bet
on it.

Speaker 1 (22:34):
It should be men.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
Yeah oh yeah, yeah, I forgot that was you who
sent it to me.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
Yeah, you can't taking bets on which cardinal it's going
to be I thought it was an Italian guy. Shoo
the Canadian. Oh, so the Canadians jumping ahead.

Speaker 7 (22:52):
I can't say his name.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
Wow, Jason's on the pulse of this. Let's go on,
Let's go line to the Vatican now, Jason Brown out
in front of the the papal conclave. Jason, what is
the latest on the race to be the Poe?

Speaker 9 (23:05):
According to the you know the betting websites that I'm
always on and following out here in the Vatican, here
is that Italy I'm at it, Cardinal Pietro Parolene is
the slight favorite to succeed.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
He's Canadians.

Speaker 9 (23:19):
Yep, wait, maybe not. Oh, I thought Canadian is cardinal
I saw is from It's uh, he's Italian.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
Gee, he's always an Italian. Always go with the Italian,
I know. That's What about Steve Smith? What about Cardinal
Steve Smith?

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Kansas City?

Speaker 1 (23:38):
Right? Why are we not looking at him?

Speaker 7 (23:39):
He's also seventy years old, so old as hell.

Speaker 8 (23:42):
That's the last time I believe him for my bets.

Speaker 2 (23:43):
You told me he was Canadian.

Speaker 7 (23:45):
I saw the sea with Canadian.

Speaker 1 (23:48):
Well we shouldn't, because you would have bet on the Canadian. Yeah,
never before. I don't believe he has been a Canadian pope.
I don't think they're right.

Speaker 5 (23:55):
There should be either, very fair, but he was my
sports reporter and now this is familiarly.

Speaker 2 (24:00):
Like a lineup I can see, like a starting lineup.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
Yeah, there may be.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
I I'm just curious to see who's up for this job.
And they one of them picks the hats.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
If you want to know about this though, it's the
Papal Conclave. I guess. The movie Conclave is now on
Amazon Prime as of like today, so nice, nice timing.
There won a bunch of awards. I might have to
watch it, though, But the pontiff his funeral has been
scheduled for Saturday. After nine days of morning events, cardinals
from around the world will meet at the Sistine Chapel
will conduct a secretive vote to elect the new pope.

(24:30):
The process takes two to three weeks and all ballots
are burned afterwards. What is going on in there that
we can't know about it whil you are sworn for
eternity not to tell anybody what happens in there? What
are we doing in there? How are we determining which
one of these people is the best. I don't love that.
And are they campaigning? You think Number one on the

(24:52):
list is calling his boys and being like, I'll tell
you what you know. You hook me up with this,
I'll make sure that you're a saint. Like literally, I
can make you a saint. Like I'll do that for you.

Speaker 5 (25:01):
It's change like an unfair advantage because like it's all
the way over there.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
I'm not sure. I'm really not sure. But yeah, then
there will be white smoke that will rise from the
chapel's chimney, signaling a new era of leadership for the
world's one point four billion Catholics. So there's that. Another
day of the plane story a couple for you. A
Delta Airlines plane with almost three hundred people on board
caught fire at the Orlando International Airport on Monday, but

(25:26):
the airline says that it was safely evacuated with no
reports of injuries. Also, passengers on a recent Delta flight
from Atlanta to Chicago were forced to hold up the
plane ceiling after it collapsed mid air. The boweing seven
to one sevens panel was later a fixed into place
by attendant so customers didn't have to manually hold it
up during the fly. No injuries reported during the flight.

(25:48):
I have to say this, as far as this is
concern from the picture that I saw, and I don't
know anything about this seven seventeen, but you know, i'd
look like a trim piece fell and those things are
meant to come off so they can inspect the oxygen masks,
inspect everything that's behind there. So I mean, this is
not like a critical thing, but I would not feel
great if I'm flying along on the ceiling just because
I'd be like, what else did we? Did we miss

(26:09):
any other nuts or bolts? You know, It's like me
at the end of a Lego set where there's like
five or six pieces left, and I'm like, I really
hope those weren't essential to anything. You know, do you
think this the airplane took off and the mechanics were like,
oh man, we forgot to screw those things in, didn't we? Okay,
But as far as like it would be like the
ceiling tile falling in the thing, like the building's not
going to collapse, the ceiling tile felt. It's not awe

(26:31):
inspiring by any means, but like, how nice my.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Trail mix with my hand? Holding the ceiling.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
You have to trade off with the guy next to you.
Come on, you know, be like, I'll tell you what,
or maybe the middle seat has to do it because
the middle seat, you know, you're just the unlucky one.

Speaker 7 (26:44):
Right.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
This is disgusting and it's a whole new generation of bullying.
I mean, I feel like we all grew up with
people just saying mean things. And you know, you go
to school and there were the bullies and the insecure
people and they would say mean things to you or
tell you that you were a or not good at
sports or whatever like that was hard.

Speaker 7 (27:02):
Right.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
Well, now you can't escape it because social media and
tech and all this stuff. The latest teams are using
artificial intelligence to create realistic nude images of their classmates
and then share them. So with just a headshot, often
lifted from a yearbook photo or social media platform, these
AI apps can fabricate explicit, deep fake images that appear

(27:24):
scarily real, and it's happening in schools. Last summer, the
San Francisco City Attorney's Office said that sixteen people were
sued for so called Newdify websites for allegedly violating laws
around child to exploitation and non consensual images, but they
escape past some stated laws. In Minnesota, they're trying to
pass legislation to hold them accountable. A whole different level

(27:46):
of bullying and it's terrible. Gen Z grads, I think
a lot of people can relate to this, say their
college degrees were a total waste of time and money.
Nearly half of gen Z grads say that their degrees
have are been made obsolete by the rise of generative
AI tools like chech ept, and they're wondering why they
even bothered to attend college and new Indeed report found

(28:09):
forty nine percent of gen Z job hunters think that
their college education has lost value in the job market
thanks to AI. Only one third of millennials feel the
same way, and one in five boomers have similar regrets.
If you went to college thirty years ago and I
went to college twenty years ago, at this point you
should expect that whatever you know, I don't think I
can ride on when they do it temmy HTML. You know,

(28:32):
I don't think I should still be making money on
that now. I probably should have evolved, but I would
I will say the amount of money that was invested
in a college degree. Did I have to have it?
I hear you to be successful in this business, I
would tell you probably not. However, and I was talking
to my sister about this the other day because the
college that we went to is now eighty five thousand
dollars a year. She and and my mom actually went

(28:53):
to the same college. Yes, eighty five thousand dollars a year,
all in to go to college there. And that's just
live there and eat and go to school and buy
the books or whatever. I don't know, I guess iPads
or computers, whatever it is. Now, that's not the travel
back and forth. That's not all the rest of it,
the cars and whatever else you might need. And my
sister has two kids, and that's now, and they're fourteen

(29:14):
years away from doing this. I can't imagine what it's
going to cost. And so let's say let's say it's
let's say it's one hundred thousand. Let's say let's just
around numbers, it's gonna cost a million dollars to send
both those girls to school. And you have to ask
yourself at some point, is there a return on investment
for that? Like, it's not gonna be is probably going
to be four hundred thousand dollars ahead of everyone else

(29:36):
if we send her to college and pay that much money,
my answer would be probably not. And then you could say, well,
you know, for those people who I know, Kaylin, you
did and and I did, you know, moved far weall
you didn't move too far away, but I moved a
thousand miles already to go to college, you know. And
it was and my parents were like, you anywhere you want?
You nowhere in Arizona, nowhere or any neighboring state, Like

(29:58):
you need to go far enough away you can can't
drive home, like this is part of the deal. N
And so we went and we did that, and I
did that, and I would argue that that was a
transformational time in my life. But was it worth that
much money? If you've got it, maybe, But if you don't,
if you're sending your kid to college because you think
they're going to get a better job and make a
bunch more money off the bet, I'm not sure if
that's true anymore.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
It's just crazy. Eighty thousand dollars a year.

Speaker 3 (30:20):
And then these people are applying for jobs that pay
like eighteen dollars an hour, so like it's just the
math's not math thing. And I feel like AI is
doing a lot of stuff in the work in the workforce,
like it's changing a lot of jobs and opportunities for
people too.

Speaker 2 (30:31):
It's you know, essentially like eliminating jobs.

Speaker 3 (30:33):
So I don't know where the where the fairness is
for kids who are going to college.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
I want my kid to go to college.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
I do, but I'm also got a post to her
doing other things like if gig shows, for example, my daughter,
if she shows, you know, interest in makeup, whatever it
might be, and she's good, we might be going to
a cosmetology school, you know what I mean, trade schools
that or something specialized like computer program and my brother
in law did that.

Speaker 1 (30:54):
He makes a very good living.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
Some of these kids are just good at certain things,
like I said, the makeup, or they are going to
computer work and computer stuff.

Speaker 2 (31:01):
I don't know what it's called. That's how good they are.
I don't even know how to call that.

Speaker 1 (31:04):
I don't even know what it's done. That's what we got. Now.
Karen went to college and she's a genius. The actual
men's a genius. So yeah, but that she was a
genius for she went to college, Okay, she was born
that Yeah, she was born that way. I got saying
that song about her. Yeah, it's true. I don't know.
It's a luxury. I think it's long been a luxury.
And if you've got the money, great, Yeah, I just

(31:25):
I don't know. I guess I don't know about if
you want to be a doctor or a lawyer, you're
going to have to do it, you know, therapist, any
kind of you know, you need to graduate degree for it.
You're going to have to do. It's the way it is,
and we probably should. But I don't know. I don't
know if it's you know, if it was automatic. It
seemed for everybody that I grew up with, and now
I'm not sure if it should be for that much money.

Speaker 8 (31:43):
It's great for life skills, but I was going to say.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
Right, but for a half a million bucks, like, I
don't know, I'll tell you what i'll take. I'll take
half of that or less than half of that. I'll
buy you an apartment in a big city, and it
will get you a nice online gets you a nice laptop,
and you can get some online training, get you a job,
and honestly, like, okay, we can we can do a
lot of the same things for less money, and it

(32:06):
will get you some life experience, like we'll throw you.

Speaker 2 (32:08):
Into You're not wrong.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
But here's the thing about college, right. The thing about
college is it's kind of like supervised responsibility because no
one's holding your hand. But like freshman year, you get
our age. You got people to make sure that you're
like getting out of your room. Eventually. If you don't
go to class, someone's gonna call somebody and call your
parents eventually and be like, where is so and so.
So there's a little bit of accountability. So it's kind
of like sheltered independence. You can still totally screw up

(32:34):
your life, you can't. But then but at the same time,
like there's a limit to how far it's gonna go
before somebody finally calls mom and dad and goes, hey, yeah,
little Timmy hasn't shown in three months, you know, right,
you better go get little Timmy out of you know,
Sam's pub down the street or whatever.

Speaker 2 (32:51):
I don't know, to be honest, you like i'd rather invest.

Speaker 3 (32:53):
Don't know how you can do this in like life
skills essentially putting my kid in a situation where she
learns how to like bes a room or like work
the room, meet people. I'm a big believer it's about
who you know, not just what you know. And I'm like, well,
how do I get my kids to like be that.
I don't want her to be shy and just like
always closed off. I want her to be able to
walk into your room and just bes the crap out
of it.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
Send her out with Jonathan.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
Honestly, but you could argue you throw them into the
real world in some kind of like nurtured way, and
they're first they're forced to sink or swim like they
have to. They have to figure this stuff out. You know.
It's like you can't really teach that street smarts. You
kind of have to.

Speaker 2 (33:27):
Like, that's a good point.

Speaker 1 (33:29):
I gotta wrap this up though. On Chipotle. Mexican grill
might have Mexican in its name, but it hasn't gone
to Mexico until now. Chipotle is opening up in Mexico
City early next year, and I'm sure they're super excited
about it.

Speaker 11 (33:44):
Xico.

Speaker 1 (33:44):
They can't wait. I'm sure the people in Mexico City
are like I've been waiting for their santange Quis the.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
Best street tacos in the world.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
Arguably in Yeah, so they have James Beard Street tacos.
But go, here's the thing. Chippotle is delicious. I don't
know that it represents some form of textmax. It's its
own lane, you know. So like not to say that
they won't enjoy it there, but maybe we don't call
it a Mexican grill there. Maybe we just call it
Chipotle and we just serve the food and you enjoy it.

(34:13):
And the most unhealthy fast food burger in America is
at five guys, which apparently it's just like the normal
cheeseburger is super unhealthy. It's one of the most unhealthy cheeseburgers,
if not the most unhealthy, with a fifty point unhealthiest score.
They also waited as the unhealthiest fries, Waterburger, smash Burger,

(34:34):
and Carl's Junior trailed behind in the ranking. Five Guys
had seventy three percent more saturated fat than any other
fast food cheeseburger on the list. Now, remember Carls Junior
is the place that takes the cheeseburger and deep fries
it and then rolls it in a pizza like that
snl skit and then deep fries it again. And then
rolls it.

Speaker 2 (34:51):
In ranch and ladies and bikinis right.

Speaker 1 (34:54):
And then serves it to you. You know, well, the
whole thing goes down your right in a bikini and
goes down your face. So anyway, it's a school bus
Driver Appreciation Day, National Jellybean Day, National Girl Scout Day,
and today is Earth Day as well. All right, let's
see stare go. We'll debate some relationship drama. We'll get
to an entertainer report at some point. I promise there

(35:15):
were too busy talking about the youth of America and
whether enough to go to college that show it's on,
Stay or go. Let's debate some relationship drama in just
a second. The entertainer report, A hundred bucks show biz
kikiS still a very good record in the game. But
you've never lost two in a row, So we'll see
what happens today. People are texting that a lot of
the like AI digital recruiting sites or application sites where

(35:38):
you apply for jobs, will eliminate people who don't have
at least in associates, which is crazy, but I guess
I would argue in the years to come, like, are
we going to rethink that because people are going to
if they haven't already, are going to stop being able
to afford this, or they're going to say I just can't,
like I cannot start my life with a half and
a lot of people in this room and otherwise no,
like I can't start my life with a half a

(35:58):
million dollars in debt at ten percent interest or whatever
it is. I don't know what the interest rate is, but.

Speaker 2 (36:02):
Oh yeah, about that part, you know.

Speaker 1 (36:04):
And then you look at my sister. She wanted to
be a therapist. She went to undergrad masters, worked her
ass off, makes X. My brother in law went to
computer coding class I think for three months and he
makes the X two X I'm sure you know, and
we joke about it all the time, like good for him,
it's amazing, you know whatever. And he's had to run
with that and make it into something more so that
he could do that. Well, But then you know, my

(36:25):
but my sister had no option. You want to be
a therapist, that's what you got to do. Your mom
knows that.

Speaker 4 (36:28):
Has anyone ever asked you to see your degree before
they gave you a job?

Speaker 1 (36:32):
Never? No. But I've also only interviewed for one job
in my professional life. And it was for this company
twenty four years ago.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
I don't know anybody who had to shut there, nobody.

Speaker 1 (36:41):
I never No one asked for a resume, Nobody asked me,
No one asked me to prove that I had a
degree exactly.

Speaker 8 (36:46):
Pollina brought hers. Yeah, I brought my.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
Nobody even you physically brought him to this job interview,
not for not to be on the radio, but she
work in sales.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
He brought the you like the physical piece of paper.

Speaker 2 (36:58):
Nobody tells you not know that's real?

Speaker 1 (37:02):
Right?

Speaker 2 (37:03):
Nobody? Hey, I woke my ass off. Yeah, I'm bringing
this piece of paper, was right?

Speaker 1 (37:06):
Howbody you know where mine is?

Speaker 7 (37:11):
All this money? I don't even know where to find.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
But they sure know where to find me to ask
for more money?

Speaker 11 (37:16):
Right?

Speaker 1 (37:16):
Didn't you get a number my parents' money already? Why
are you calling me now?

Speaker 4 (37:20):
More?

Speaker 1 (37:20):
Fread Show? Next, it's the Frend Show. Good morning? What
three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one music station. I
still have this visual of Paulina walking in to her
interview to be an admin for for Bill Barker in
Premiere radio advertising sales, and you walk in with an
entire frame degree like little tackle too no, you brought

(37:43):
the Why what you brought? Did you wear your capin gown?
Did you show up and cap and down? Oh my god? Yes, Hey, I.

Speaker 2 (37:57):
Worked really hard for that. And you're gonna see this,
Bill Barker, You're to see that. Look at me now.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Well, I did think it was weird is hanging up
on the studio wall. But you know, I was wondering
why you wore that hat with the tassel every day.
Oh Pauline, I love you so much. I don't blame you,
like it was hard work, but I also don't know,
right who does that mean? I think I think, you know,
they can verify it if they have to know.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
Nobody's verifying nothing.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
But I'm just saying, you don't have to You don't
have to bring the thing in. You know, you don't
have to bring the physical diploma. And I think if
they really wanted to know if you did it, they
could call somebody. I think there's a way, guys, the
final stop, and I'm arguing it's going to be hard
to beat last week. You know, I thought that Indiana
was huge, and then I thought last week Palatine was huge.

(38:40):
It was Huger. He was the hugest It was huge.
So I don't know how I task is going to
do it, but hey, I believe it. I believe in you.
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(39:22):
Chason about four to six years to h Yeah, I
know it is. People were asking like, how did you decide? Well,
we picked the neighborhoods and then in the cities, and
then Jason goes on Yelp and then we find the
places people go and then we reach out to them
and then we negotiate.

Speaker 7 (39:40):
Yes, I would love suggestions if anyone wants to DM me.

Speaker 1 (39:44):
Yes, I have one. So there's a place across the street, right,
and then there's a place called Wild Barry. It's over there,
and boy, we could go a little further out, like
let me think here, there's another yoke on the other.

Speaker 2 (39:57):
Snow for the next fine, there's a.

Speaker 1 (40:02):
Duncan on on Madison. It's not far I could walk there.
But yeah, there will be another one this year, right,
we'll do one in the.

Speaker 7 (40:10):
Fall maybe, yeah, fall time.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
Maybe in the fall. And for those asking about a
Tangent Live, I guess we're working maybe looking at that too. Yeah,
I don't know, because those are the questions I've been
getting at these stops. Where next and when's the next
Tangent Live.

Speaker 9 (40:22):
Maybe we need to do the Tangent Live in a
breakfast spot that seems to be the working Yeah, no, no,
no jelly after dark here for it?

Speaker 1 (40:32):
Yeah, oh, hold on, full of beans. Could have a
whole different meeting for the Tangent Live. It's the fread show.
Well in the city. I think it's gonna be Okay,
I feel good about it.

Speaker 2 (40:44):
Well, ye last time you did say that last year?

Speaker 1 (40:46):
Okay, we don't want to say. You say's gonna be terrible.
I don't know what to do. I'm trying. I'm trying
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(41:07):
Lots of stuff if you missed, our debate about somebody
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and maybe not in the way that you're thinking, and
an in depth debate about whether college is worth it.
I feel like I'm an NPR now, all things considered,

(41:29):
I'm Christopher fred Record. Let's go live now. I could
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(41:49):
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Stay or go? Will debates some relationship drama one hundred
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and four as the record, but she did lose yesterday,
so we'll see if she loses two in a row.

(42:10):
The Entertainer Report this hour. What are you working on?

Speaker 5 (42:12):
K still need to tell you about that fifty million
dollar lawsuit? Also, who got so drunk? Echochella? They don't
remember their set?

Speaker 1 (42:19):
Thank you, Calen, that's coming up. Thank to you in
our entertainment notes in a little bit. Can we do
tiny Desk on all things consider? That's brilliant. Tiny Desk
is brilliant. I wish I'd come up with the stayre go.
Let's debate so much relationship drama. In two minutes after
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commercial free Fresh show is on. It's Stay or Go

(42:40):
all right, Daniel is here, Hi, Daniel, Good morning, Good morning, Daniel.
What's going on with this is you're a married man, okay,
and you got some kids and your wife is up
to something. You think, maybe what's the situation, So.

Speaker 13 (43:00):
To get some advice, you know, relationship advice. So my
youngest daughter mentioned something to me about mommy's new friend,
Jeff's house. So I was, you know, kind of caught
off guard by that. So I asked my wife. She
told me their kids. You know, my daughter made friends
at the park with this girl, and they went over

(43:21):
to their house, the new friend's house, for a playdate,
and Jeff is their dad.

Speaker 1 (43:27):
Okay, Jeff is all right, all right, So the kids
are playing and they go over to Jeff's house. Okay. Yeah.

Speaker 13 (43:33):
And so I was just a little put off by that,
Like my wife didn't tell me. I had to find
out through my daughter, and so I guess my way
I'm feeling.

Speaker 7 (43:41):
Am I wrong to be bothered at?

Speaker 13 (43:42):
My wife was married to me, obviously went over to
a single man's house.

Speaker 1 (43:46):
This is a single dad, and I didn't know anything
about it. I don't think this is a problem. Why
is this a problem?

Speaker 2 (43:52):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (43:53):
Why is this a problem? I mean, the kids are
playing like it's not the kid's fault that you know
Jeff got divorced or what. Sorry for your look, I mean,
right right, I'm sorry. What if Jeff's gay? Do we know?
What do we know about Jeff? How much do we
know about this man? I mean, I mean, I'm being honest.
I'm not I'm not invalidating your concern. I just I think, like,
do you do you always? Are you always fully briefed

(44:15):
on the on the relationship status of the parents of
the playdate? Honestly? And I'm not again, Daniel, I'm not
making funny here, but I'm serious.

Speaker 7 (44:23):
No, I mean, And.

Speaker 13 (44:24):
I confronted my wife and she said, you know, it's
not a big deal. She just the fact that she
didn't bring it up, you know, being suspicious, and you know,
obviously I'm a little insecure about it. And I you know,
I think if the tables were turned and I was
stay at home dad and I went to a single
mom's house, I would be, you know, have the wherewithal
to tell my wife, Hey, I'm going over to you
know whatever, Stacey's house and you know, hang out with it,

(44:47):
you know, just so you're aware of what's going on,
the fact that it wasn't you know he mentioned to
me put me off.

Speaker 7 (44:52):
I had to find out through my daughter.

Speaker 13 (44:54):
And then the way she said, she's like mommy's new friend.

Speaker 1 (44:56):
Jeff. Okay, Well, the wording of that was a little like,
I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna put a crazy one
out there for you because I am crazy, so I
can do that. Let's say that your wife went over
to Samantha's house and Samantha had a couple of kids.
We're not worried about that, right, We don't say anything
about that about Samantha single mom.

Speaker 13 (45:17):
Right, Sure, No, I'm not worried about that, because.

Speaker 1 (45:22):
It turns out Samantha's and lesbian. Ooh, it turns out.
It turns out his wife is exploring, experimenting. Turns out
not to say, I'm just saying if it were a woman,
we wouldn't say anything about this, and we wouldn't say
anything because we don't think there's a sexual threat, because
that's what this is about. This is about the potential
for a sexual threat when really it's about the kids playing. Now,

(45:46):
I admitted last hour, I'm an insecure person. This doesn't
bother me because why I'm married to this person. Why
are they automatically cheating on me if they're alone with
a single person, that could be happening anywhere.

Speaker 4 (45:57):
Why old house, Why are you in the house where
it's supposed to play at a park?

Speaker 2 (46:01):
The kids play at a park.

Speaker 4 (46:03):
You don't need to be in Tim's house or John's
house without telling me anything.

Speaker 2 (46:07):
John could be a serial killer.

Speaker 4 (46:08):
And you got you and my kids in that house
and no one has said anything to me.

Speaker 2 (46:12):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 1 (46:13):
But Samantha could be a serial killer.

Speaker 4 (46:15):
Jamantha, Samantha could, But I know John might be for real.
I'm not no, no, no, no, My man doesn't need to
be in any other woman's house without my knowledge.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
You guys, if she were alone, if she were like,
if the kids weren't there, yeah, that's.

Speaker 4 (46:29):
Know that the kids might have been in the basement
playing at her And what timmy.

Speaker 2 (46:32):
What's his name?

Speaker 1 (46:33):
Jeff? Yeah, mom's friends Jeff MoMA.

Speaker 2 (46:36):
Yep, upstands playing.

Speaker 3 (46:37):
People are texting that, they're saying, why are they saying
Jeff's Mommy's friend Jeff's house and not my friend Susie.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
Right, like you know the age of the kid, Like,
maybe that's.

Speaker 1 (46:47):
You, guys, I am a look, I am insecure in relationships.
I have a lot of unreasonable thoughts about what I
am into and what I'm not into, and what I
think is cool, what I don't think is cool. But
I have to tell you when it comes to the kids,
I mean, there's there are going to be situations where
one parents there are the other parents, not single parent,

(47:09):
moms at work, dads at work, you know, soccer practice
moms there, dad took the kids, mom, mom.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
And sister wives, everybody.

Speaker 1 (47:16):
I'm just saying, why do we automatically jump to there
has to be infidelity?

Speaker 2 (47:23):
I don't think infidelity my bag. Well, my concern is
maybe I over communicate with my husband. But do people not.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
Talk at the end of the night where it's like
you're in bed, you want to, you know, tuck yourself in.

Speaker 2 (47:33):
Oh how was your day? All was good.

Speaker 3 (47:34):
We went to Jeff's house and little Susie played with
little Jimmy and they had a great time. Like, why
are they not telling each other this? I tell my
husband everything. I'll be like, oh, yeah, I was here today.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
I mean, did be more concerned Paulina if it were
over explained to me? Now, Jeff's a single dad, but
you have nothing to worry about it because the kids.
I'd be like, wait a minute, hold it, but he's gay.

Speaker 2 (47:55):
No, not even that.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
It's just like I feel like you just communicate with
your partner and say, how is your day?

Speaker 2 (47:59):
What did you do? Would you see where to go? Like,
I don't know a little panter?

Speaker 1 (48:03):
No, do you have any suspicion of your wife? Otherwise
I think I'm not invalidating your feelings because there are
a lot of people apparently that agree with you, that
think it's inappropriate. I guess when it comes to the kids,
I guess I don't necessarily think you get to choose,
you know, the marial status of the parents of the
kids that your friends befriend, right. I tend to agree

(48:24):
with your co hosts.

Speaker 13 (48:25):
I think everything should be out in the open and
have an open line of communication. If there's nothing to hide,
then use nothing you can't say then just to be
open and just whether and if she went to a
female's house. I'd like to know that too, just for
the fact that we're married, we're life partners. Our lives,
you know, do revolve around each other and our children.
So it's nice to know if God forbid, something does

(48:47):
happen where she was what she's doing, So I think
that's only fair an open line of communication and a
marriage to me, and I would offer her the same
respect from my vantage point. If the tables were turned
me not getting it. It's just alarm bells went off. Yeah,
and I hear what you're saying. I just think there
are far more sinister ways to conceal infidelity than play

(49:09):
dates out. And maybe it's maybe it's, like you know,
right out in the open, maybe you should be worried
about this because it's just so obvious that.

Speaker 1 (49:16):
But at the same time, if you don't suspect your wife,
if you don't suspect she's a cheater, if you've never
suspected she's a cheater, then why are we putting that
on her now? In this one situation that is pretty
easily explainable, the kids met at the park, they hung out.
It's not as though you can say, no, kids, I'm sorry,
but we can't go over to that house because Daddy
says that Jeff's a predator and Daniel, I'm just I mean,

(49:40):
it sounds ridiculous, and again not making fun of you,
but like, come on, you know what I mean. It's
not as though she. I don't think we targeted the
guy in the playground. Hey kids, go play with those
kids because daddy's hot, you know what I mean. I
find it a respect.

Speaker 13 (49:54):
I wouldn't do that on my end. I wouldn't go
to a single our female's house, whether single or mayor
just to me, it would be just putting yourself in
a situation where it's not necessary.

Speaker 7 (50:04):
So I just wouldn't do that.

Speaker 13 (50:05):
So I feel like I should be given that in return,
as you know, equal boundaries, and it's just not even
putting myself in the situation. It just temptation isn't even there.
There's no you know, because that's what leads to others things.
It's just it can easily go down that path. So
I'd rather not even dabble.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
Just this is ridiculous.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
I'm just saying, communicate with your partner at the end
of the night, when you're having your tea, whatever you
guys do together at night.

Speaker 2 (50:28):
Your wine. Just say this is how my day when
that's all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (50:30):
But he's taking it too far now, just because you're
a single mom all of a sudden, like you're attempted.

Speaker 4 (50:35):
Come on, like, relax, what's at Jeff's house that's not
at our house?

Speaker 1 (50:41):
Maybe Jeff, maybe he's a cool guy with the bounce
house or the nipol.

Speaker 4 (50:51):
Maybe you gotta be the loop because they were in
the backyard. They say we were in their hat. Hey,
why what's in Jeff's house that is not our house?

Speaker 1 (51:01):
I come on, he don't know.

Speaker 2 (51:04):
I'm telling you, guys, I don't leave your wife.

Speaker 4 (51:06):
But you need to investigate. You need to go to
work and circle to block and pop up with you.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
Guys, we can't just suspect our partners of cheating all
the time, just automatically because we're alone with another single person, Like,
we just can't do that. What it does? Let me
take some Let me take some phone Callst. Daniel, have
a great day. Thanks for calling.

Speaker 3 (51:27):
Yes, I don't even know. They don't have to be
single for things to happen. Also, there's so many other
ways this could be sis. And I'm just guys, come
on and people are like, Fred, you're wrong. But guys,
last hour, I told you I'm insecure. At this hour,
I'm like.

Speaker 2 (51:40):
Not a ghost.

Speaker 1 (51:41):
I'mbout a ghost with this hour, guys, I can't. I cannot.
If I'm married to someone, I cannot constantly police who
they're with and win and why. Okay, so she goes
to work and there's a single guy the cubicle next
to her. They're doing it.

Speaker 4 (51:55):
No, No, they're at work. There at work, they're not.

Speaker 1 (51:58):
That doesn't mean anything. Did you see the Storian shore
last week and the people who have work and they
go to the top of the parking garage and they're
doing it in the back of the car line and
it went viral in all of the world, all over
TikTok because these people were doing it in the middle
of work.

Speaker 2 (52:09):
Imagine what they doing in the back of before runner
where there's a bend. Imagine what you write.

Speaker 1 (52:14):
You guys, come on, Megan, Hi, Megan, good morning, Hi,
good morning.

Speaker 15 (52:19):
I cannot believe I got through. But anyways, I think
it definitely needs to be a conversation. I'm not saying
he needs to go, but there needs to be more
of a conversation. The little girl said, mommy's new friend.
The little girl didn't say my new friend.

Speaker 2 (52:34):
That's right.

Speaker 11 (52:36):
I think it doesn't.

Speaker 15 (52:38):
Matter like kids, No, like kids, kids are smart, and
so I think that the way that the little girl
phrased it. She didn't talk about her new friend Susie.
She talked about mom's new friend, Jeff's house.

Speaker 10 (52:52):
Whether Jeff has kids or Jeff's.

Speaker 15 (52:53):
Single, it doesn't matter one way or the other. The
way that this was set up was Mom was going
to her friend's house. Little girl didn't go to her friend.

Speaker 5 (53:01):
My sister thought she was a horse when she was
a toddler, you know, like she Maybe she just phrased
it that way.

Speaker 1 (53:09):
I don't know that. I mean, you're right, maybe there's
a raw honesty from a child that you know is
truly revealing. But someone texted, I'm being disrespectful or insensitive
about this. No, I'm not. What I'm doing is I'm
not automatically running to infidelity just because you're not he
he did. That's his concern, and I'm not being I'm

(53:32):
not being insensitive, but I'm I'm I'm arguing that I
don't think that's fair to her, a person who he's
married to and trust and had kids with, and says
admittedly on our show, he's had no reason to doubt her,
and now all of a sudden, their kids meet a
single dad, and now automatically, he's they're they're they're sleeping
with each other. Guys.

Speaker 8 (53:52):
That's I'd want to invest.

Speaker 15 (53:54):
I'd want to talk to the kid more and be like,
where did you meet this person? Because mom said, oh,
the kids met at the park. How you know the
kids really met at the park. The mom can tell
the kid, oh, yeah, this is the friend you met
at the park the other day.

Speaker 1 (54:05):
Megan, thank you, and I appreciate the call. Have a
good day. I'm a single guy. I've been single my
whole life. I have tons of married friends whose husbands
are at work, and sometimes we'll go to lunch or
sometimes I've even gone to stuff. I've even gone to
stuff with mom and kid when dad's out of town.
And I'm not pretending to be the dad. I'm just

(54:26):
accompanying because you know, hey, we got this thing in
the park. You know you went. I'm not sleeping with
these people. I'm not saying with these people, but like
it would be, look at you. I think it's unfair
to me as a single guy that we automatically always
target me as the guy who's up to something. I
can't just be friends with a woman who's married without
sleeping with her, it's impossible.

Speaker 13 (54:47):
Ound.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
Yeah, so I think you're being insensitive me, like casting
me as a bad dude or Jeff over here. I
don't think. But we don't know. Maybe Mage Jeff is
a dirty dog. Maybe Jeff it was gay. Yeah, we
really don't know. True, he could be a dirty dog.
But if he's getting a dirty dog and he's dirty

(55:09):
dog in somewhere.

Speaker 2 (55:09):
Don't think it's cottail Jeff's house.

Speaker 1 (55:12):
I know. I think it is insensitive to automatically jump
to infidelity every time your spouse or girlfriend or partner
is doing something with another human being of the opposite sex. Yes,
thank you, thank you, Tanya, Hi.

Speaker 2 (55:27):
Hi there, good morning.

Speaker 16 (55:30):
I honestly feel like he should invite have his wife
invite Jeff to their house and see if Jeff is
open to meeting them together, because I kind of get
the feeling that maybe, like the mom and Jeff had
this thing going on and they were like, hey, I
want to be able to see you, you know more.
Maybe we can have a playdate for our kids.

Speaker 11 (55:50):
At the park and they can like, you know, and
then we can have an.

Speaker 16 (55:53):
Excuse to get together. I honestly think it's kind of fishy.

Speaker 1 (55:58):
I guess. But I you know, I mean, that's a
different level of awful. If this woman is using the
children to play in the other room while she cheats
on dad, Like, that's a whole different thing. Wow, we
have apparently Jeff and mom, the woman that he's married to,
that he committed to life. Apparently she's the worst human

(56:18):
being to involve her children in fidelity. Like, guys, this
is crazy.

Speaker 9 (56:23):
I have didn't ask for any of this, and all
of a sudden we're like making you, like come over
and meet the family.

Speaker 1 (56:28):
You know, I think there can be do I think
there could be better communication? Absolutely, But you guys, we
cannot just jump to the worst. We cannot just put
this on people all the time, Like why is everyone
to cheat her?

Speaker 16 (56:41):
I have young kids, and I will tell you this.
They do not know people's names. Like my kids don't
know their friend's parents' names. So the fact that they
know the parent's name is kind of suspicious to me.
My kids to learn their friend's name.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
Yeah, all right, you know, tell me these are all
good points. I appreciate that saying thank you for listening,
have a good day.

Speaker 2 (57:01):
You're not laughing at you.

Speaker 1 (57:04):
And by the way, we weren't laughing at her at all.
It's just stirring it up. Oh yeah, yeah, you say that.

Speaker 7 (57:09):
Look like you've done these people. Everyone is cheated.

Speaker 1 (57:13):
Telling me, why are we? Who is being insensitive? No
one's being insensitive. I just don't think that it's fair
to label this person as a cheatter for this. We
don't know that Aaron high. Hey, Fred, how are you Aaron?
We can't just call everybody you cheatter? Every time Kiki.

Speaker 7 (57:34):
She does, she will.

Speaker 1 (57:36):
How did you want to say, Aaron?

Speaker 17 (57:38):
Please please tell it about I hate to be if
I'm taking side to your friend. I'm kind of against you.
I hate to say it.

Speaker 1 (57:43):
That's okay, I'm used to it.

Speaker 17 (57:45):
I don't think they should go. I think there were
two questions that are important that you didn't ask, and
the first one was the age of the child does matter?
Because of how she phrased it of Jeff's friend if
she's three or four and saying that it's different than
if she's eight insane. Yeah, friend's house. So that's number one.
Number two is i'd be a little bit questionable. I

(58:06):
hate to bring this up. The income of the families.
I kind of have a I talked to a lot
of people, and I am aware that people that are
more affluent, that have more money, are very open to
open relationships and families.

Speaker 1 (58:21):
So now that now they're richen swinging, Aaron, I love you.
Now they're rich and swinging.

Speaker 2 (58:28):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (58:32):
You had a whole pla farm in front of his
ask so much fantastic. So so it's possible that there's
socioeconomic status.

Speaker 17 (58:44):
I'm speaking again. I used to teach it, ok Park
and that was very common in the affluence.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
Okay, no, fair enough, there's there are some freaky things
when I'm in the suburbs out there. Hey, Aaron, thank you,
have a good day. No problems you guys. I don't.
I'm sorry, I just I I can't with this. So
we got to do a full vetting process before my wife,
if I were married, before my wife can take my
kids to hang out with.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
Just to see his taxes.

Speaker 1 (59:12):
He can we do a full STD and blood panel
on this guy. I want to know. I want to
know what Jeff's lippi's are like.

Speaker 2 (59:20):
The lady was like, just ask the toddler, Like, let's
give a toddler that trauma.

Speaker 1 (59:24):
Like, does he have loci. If he has loci, nothing's
going on.

Speaker 14 (59:29):
Here somehow, Bianca, Hi, Bianca, out of control?

Speaker 1 (59:47):
Hi, Bianca, sorry, bank, Yeah, Hi, it's your turn. Please
say something. Yes, of course, yes, Bianca.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
Go Hey, hey, hey.

Speaker 6 (01:00:00):
I was calling them to say there's no way a
mom with a couple of kids because having an affair,
just because she goes to Jeff's house. We are so tired.
We are just glad to have people who want to
be with our children and entertain our kids. And if
I'm giving the choice between sleeping with somebody else or
taking a nap, I'm always going to take the nap. Bread.

Speaker 1 (01:00:24):
Yeah. I just again, I think it's really unfair to
just say, oh, two people man and a woman.

Speaker 7 (01:00:30):
Now you're taking it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:32):
You're taking a nap bad Jeff's house.

Speaker 6 (01:00:35):
I mean, I'm gonna be taking a nap.

Speaker 11 (01:00:36):
If I'm going to hang out with my.

Speaker 6 (01:00:38):
Kids and play, I am totally down.

Speaker 4 (01:00:41):
I am in bed.

Speaker 1 (01:00:44):
Be you're not helping anything to get out of just bed.
Get thank you a good day.

Speaker 16 (01:00:55):
I'm in my car.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
I gotta go.

Speaker 18 (01:00:57):
Oh.

Speaker 1 (01:00:57):
Now you're doing it in the car. Do it in
the car while the kids playing. Now you're a negligent
parent too. Somebody calls me with an oh my god, honey,
don't walk outside. You might the Maleman single. You guys,

(01:01:20):
you guys are crazy. I love hey. I'll tell you
what if we find out If we find out that
this woman is cheating, and I take it all back
and I'm sorry, and I will publicly apologize, and I'll
be roasted at the at the square. You can stone
me at the square if this is what happened. But
I just don't. I think it's a I think we're
really jumping here. And let me tell you something else.

(01:01:41):
If I went on the air and I said, and
if I were married with kids, and I went on
the air and I said, yeah, my wife, you know
my my my kids have a school friend and you
know he's a stay at home dad, and they were
over there yesterday while I was at work. They were
having brunch and playing in the backyard and she's obviously cheating.
You guys would crush me. You would crush me back.

(01:02:04):
They we don't know the location. We don't know the
venue of the hangout.

Speaker 4 (01:02:08):
You's at a school friend that has history there, they park.

Speaker 1 (01:02:13):
If I went on the air Polina and I said,
my wife was hanging out with our kids and a
single dad. Obviously she's up to something. You guys would
destroy me to pieces. And all I'm saying is we
don't know that. And so now you're gonna go, you're
an accuser of cheating. You're gonna accuse her of cheating
in front of the kids, using the kids as a decoy.

(01:02:35):
I mean, that's a lot of accusations.

Speaker 2 (01:02:36):
It's a lot of work to spin the block.

Speaker 1 (01:02:38):
And I'll tell you what if she didn't. If she's
doing all that, she is a bad human being.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
And she smashes on the first date.

Speaker 1 (01:02:46):
The park, I mean great, Yeah, it was more of
a second day thing. So totally classic, way classy the
Entertainer Report and showed his kicking. Next fread show Cain's
Entertainment Report, He's on the.

Speaker 2 (01:02:59):
Fread Show Hall of Fame.

Speaker 5 (01:03:01):
Tight End and ESPN broadcaster Shannon Sharp has been accused
of sexual assault and battery in a new lawsuit. A
woman filed this under the alias Jane Doe, and in it,
she accuses Shannon of sexually assaulting her multiple times over
a two year quote rocky consensual relationship, and she's seeking
fifty million in damages. Hours after the lawsuit was filed,

(01:03:21):
Shannon's legal team released a statement denying the allegation, saying
the lawsuit filed by Jane Doe and orchestrated by her
attorney Tony Busby a name that we know a la
some ditty accusers, is a blatant and cynical attempt to
shake down mister Sharp for millions of dollars. It's filled
with lies, distortions, and misinterpretations are excuse me, misrepresentations, and

(01:03:43):
it will not succeed. They went on to share several
explicit text messages from Shannon's accuser, arguing that the messages
to mister Sharp clearly indicate the nature of their relationship
was consensual and sexual in nature, and in many cases
initiated by her with specific and graphic requests. Dead Mouse
is apologizing for his Coachella performance, saying that he was

(01:04:04):
so drunk he doesn't remember it. His set was cut
short actually after he got noticeably intoxicated. He was slurring
into the mic, taking shots during his set, which I.

Speaker 2 (01:04:14):
Mean, I feel like he's not a sat.

Speaker 1 (01:04:16):
Marshmallow had. I can't see his eyes crossed.

Speaker 5 (01:04:21):
I don't know right how he get it up there
also not uncommon for DJs to be drinking, I think
during their set. A day later, though, he posted a
photo of a water bottle, writing I don't remember a thing,
but I don't think I had a sig, so that's good.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
I guess going back to bed. Wake me up.

Speaker 5 (01:04:35):
Around Thursday ish later, he posted again, writing sorry about
last night.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
Lol.

Speaker 5 (01:04:39):
To be fair, I felt the first quarter was great,
so it's honest, and he got a little tipsy and
that's that I'll swear. At Coachella, new video shows Justin
Bieber Bieber excuse me, smoking a joint next to his
fifteen year old brother, and if you saw any video
of Bieber at Coachella, it's very concerning. In the video
that is now circulating on x UC, Justin's wife Haley
putting her hand on Jackson's shoulders and trying to steer

(01:05:02):
him in the opposite direction so that he doesn't see
his older brother acting the way he was or smoking
whatever he was smoking, by the way. Yesterday, Haley also
shared that she has been diagnosed with two overian cysts
after giving birth to their baby son, jack She wrote,
currently have two ovarian cysts. If you deal with them.
I'm right there with you, and they are very, very painful.

Speaker 2 (01:05:22):
And yeah, so I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:05:24):
I'm worried about Justin Bieber, though I think I'm not
the only one. By the way, if you missed any
part of our show, just hype the Fred Show on
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Speaker 1 (01:05:34):
You guys are funny. These texts are amazing today. Yeah, well,
friend of you, if you had a girlfriend, you would know. Okay,
you're right, I don't know what I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:05:44):
Right, I have a boyfriend and I've been cheated on
in the past, and I still wouldn't think that he's
cheating if this was my situation.

Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
I just I don't know how we can jump to that.
I just don't think that's fair. I think there's either
more to the story. But I did ask the man.
I asked him, point, Blake, do you have concerns about
Have you ever had concerns about infidelity and infidelity in
your relationship? He said, no, So why are we jumping
to that? I don't know. Could there have been better communication? Absolutely,
But I almost think it's more insensitive to her that

(01:06:14):
we're just jumping right, So she's sleeping with this guy.

Speaker 2 (01:06:17):
Yeah, if she's not, that would really suck to you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:21):
I would be very upset if that's the way that.
If I'm if I'm with my kids and I'm with
another woman and we're out doing something and immediately it's
you're you're a cheater, I'd beg wait a minute, what,
like I didn't even do anything. You know, you can't
do that. I don't think it. I don't think you
can do that. And for those of you who would
like to hear about my insecurities, we went into that

(01:06:42):
last hour. I have lots of crazy insecurities about people
who aren't even alive anymore. Okay, so whatever deceased. Yeah, right,
I am intimidated. I am more intimidated by the ghost
of a man than I am by this particular situation.

Speaker 2 (01:06:57):
Yeah, this is true.

Speaker 1 (01:06:58):
And again I may be totally wrong. Maybe this is
just eyes wide open man, and and and here it is.
They're just they're they're doing it right in front of us,
and I am giving her the benefit of the doubt.
I just don't think it's I don't think it's good
in a relationship to immediately every time you feel insecure
acus someone of cheating. I don't think it's an idea.
I don't, Kik, what's that? I can't do that?

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
Yeah, my woman bet not be in Jeff's house.

Speaker 15 (01:07:21):
That's all.

Speaker 2 (01:07:24):
We're a house.

Speaker 1 (01:07:26):
She Kiki's up next. Fred Show is on the radio
and the iHeart app live and anytime starts put a
Fred's show on demand. Make us a pre set. Please,
let's come back next a little bit late.

Speaker 17 (01:07:36):
We'll do.

Speaker 1 (01:07:36):
We've been on time lately, but not today. Sorry. We
just had a lot lots to talk about Kiki with
a lot of her theories. What I mean, you are
a different level of horrible human being if you take
your kids to your to your side pieces house and
they play in the other room while you do stuff,
Yes like that that we are really like. I would

(01:07:58):
be so mad if I doing anything and you're like,
not only do you think I'm cheating because I'm trying
to occupy my children during the day, but now you
think I'm cheating in front of them? Yes, like the
level of like, you know, what kind of human beings
do you think I am?

Speaker 7 (01:08:14):
You married me?

Speaker 10 (01:08:15):
Right?

Speaker 12 (01:08:16):
What?

Speaker 10 (01:08:20):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
That's what I mean. That's what I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:08:23):
I need to see Jeff.

Speaker 1 (01:08:23):
Now if I'm a cheater, or we've been having problems,
or we know that Jeff and I have had a
pass or you know whatever, all kinds of different things
that he could have said, here's here is my basis
for feeling this way. But I asked him point blank,
and people are like, what about emotional cheating? You guys,
we could sit here all day and talk about hypotheticals.
But I asked the guy, have you ever been insecure
about infidelity before? In any case? He said no. So

(01:08:47):
now we're gonna go to you. Took my kids to
your side pieces house. Well, you guys got it on
and they played Nintendo Switch of the other room the
other room.

Speaker 2 (01:08:54):
Is he from Oak Park though?

Speaker 17 (01:08:56):
Okay?

Speaker 19 (01:08:57):
There?

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
Does he have any money? Does he live in Chapel Hill?

Speaker 10 (01:09:00):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
He does? Off. Well, I talk to a lot of people.

Speaker 7 (01:09:03):
I know.

Speaker 1 (01:09:04):
Yeah, okay, I know what's going on here? Show Miss
Kiki one hundred bucks, never lost two in a row?
Will it happen? Next? And waiting by the phone? Why
did somebody get ghosted to say more? Thread? Show next?

Speaker 7 (01:09:18):
Hey, wake up?

Speaker 1 (01:09:24):
You can learn Chinese in less than thirty minutes, apparently me. Yeah,
the Bread show is on crisis averted Kiki, you don't
have to learn Chinese or any other language. Okay, TikTok
is gonna be safe.

Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
Yes, that's all I want. I don't ask for much.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
I'm worried about all the other things. As long as
long as you take TikTok away from us, leave me,
it's gonna be okay. Hi Kiki, Ka, Hi Kaitlin, good morning,
Hi Jason, Hi Pee, Hi Bella I mean is here.
We'll get to show miss Kiki in just a second.
Five pop culture questions A little bit late. One hundred
bucks is the price you lost yesterday? Twenty one and four?
Is the record never lost? Two in a row? Filing
in for show Bis, Shelley, We'll see what happens. The

(01:10:08):
entertainment report after waiting by the phone, Why did somebody
get ghosted? Headlines and fun fact all coming up? What
are you working on?

Speaker 2 (01:10:14):
K amazing news for Sizza.

Speaker 5 (01:10:16):
Another couple that says they have never fought and a
big announcement is coming. But Fred, you're gonna have to
watch American Idol Who to get the announcement.

Speaker 1 (01:10:25):
Oh okay, okay, Fred, show you have what you can
I already watch it twice every time. No, that's right, DVR,
you know, watch it live and then watch it again
in case I missed any Easter eggs. Oh, all right,

(01:10:48):
you're feeling good.

Speaker 2 (01:10:49):
You know I'm nervous.

Speaker 1 (01:10:51):
I hope today's not a history I know.

Speaker 2 (01:10:53):
I don't want to make history today.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
No, I don't want that for you. Eat a Crystal
is your challenger. Good morning, Crystal? How you doing? Goomar?

Speaker 10 (01:11:00):
Guys?

Speaker 1 (01:11:00):
How are you Do you know a guy named Jeff?
You ever been to a guy? If your kids ever
met aganam Jeff?

Speaker 11 (01:11:08):
Well know I heard that conversation, so thank god it
was not me. I'm nervous to girl have to make
history today?

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
So I yes, you could make history today. Five pop
culture questions, and if you listen to the show, then
you have all the answers because in the you know,
we pull the questions from the last couple of days
of the entertainment Reports. All you have to do is listen.
If you want to win, let's play. Good luck, guys,
good audios. Get out of here, Kiki, you gotta go
walk to the sound boof Foo Fencer within okay, Crystal.

(01:11:39):
Question number one, which fast food chain is saying they
won't apologize after trolling Katie Perry and her Blue Origin Flight.

Speaker 2 (01:11:49):
Three take a guest to.

Speaker 1 (01:11:54):
Tim Allen said that Toy Story five will focus on Jesse,
who does Tim play in the movie franchise Green Day.
Drummer Trey Cool I like that and Tray Cool responded
to this brat singer after she wore a sash that
said miss should be a headliner at Coachella, named the singer.

Speaker 11 (01:12:17):
Oh my gosh, I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (01:12:19):
All right, you got two left. We're gonna clean this
up right here. It's can be fine. Which actress Hard
launched a relationship with Billy ray Cyrus on Easter, leaving
some fans shocked, including me, I'm a fan of hers
that he is for the record. Two okay, all right,
and you're gonna get this from Crystal. You got this

(01:12:40):
right here. George Clooney's wife, Amal Clooney claims that he
and his wife have never had an argument. Who is
his wife?

Speaker 10 (01:12:49):
I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (01:12:50):
I just told you say, you got to listen to
the questions. I gave you the answer. Okay, she got
it one apparely. Oh but that's okay. Crystal's a genius.
She is, she's having an off dack. Oh no, you
better have this n you only have to get it one.

Speaker 2 (01:13:09):
Okay, let's fingers crossed.

Speaker 1 (01:13:11):
Which fast food chain is saying they won't apologize after
trolling Katy Perry and her Blue Origin flight Wendy Wendy's
just right. Tim Allen said the Toy Story five will
focus on Jesse, who does Tim play in the movie
franchise Woody No a buzz Light Yeah. Green Day drummer

(01:13:31):
Trey Coole responded to this brat singer after she wore
a sash that said miss should be a headliner at Coachella,
named the singer Charlie X. That's right. Which actress Hard
launched her relationship with Billy Ray Cyrus on Easter, leaving
some fans shocked.

Speaker 2 (01:13:47):
Oh something, hurry.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
You look at a MILLI I'm gonna tell you. Elizabeth
Hurley and I have the same theory with Chobis Shelley
that once you've won and once she's one, she just
gives up. And she says, she claims that's not true,
but if you pay very close attention, once she's already
got it. Sometimes she cares him. Sometimes she doesn't I
feel in the same thing about you. You already won, see

(01:14:14):
like I don't know what exactly. George Clooney claims that
he and his wife have never had an argument. How
could that be? Who is he married to?

Speaker 4 (01:14:23):
Oh my gosh, it's literally her face is in my face.

Speaker 18 (01:14:26):
I mean, what's her name to? Your face is in
her Her face is in your face. One Cloney, you
know what, Kiki, I need you to. I need you
to play to your level. You know you can't. You
can't play to the competition here. You won, but barely
please movie questions is.

Speaker 11 (01:14:43):
Just like mine today.

Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
Girl, Yes she won. So that's one fifty tomorrow win
number twenty two. Only four losses you did not lose
to in a row. So history the crisis averted. But
you have to say, Crystal, my name is Crystal. I
got showed up on a showdown, and you know the rest.

Speaker 10 (01:14:59):
My name is Crystal, and I got showed up on
the showdown and I can't hang with the keek.

Speaker 1 (01:15:08):
I was good. That was Crystal.

Speaker 19 (01:15:11):
Can't hang with the key, can't cat cat cat cat cat,
can't catch that out to a mall and George, now.

Speaker 1 (01:15:26):
Keep going if you want Okay, you did that. I
keep going. I want to pass all the way out.
As opposed to seeing my I could see my childhood.
I just that's why I stopped. I see my childhood.
That's why I started screaming, Crystal. Hang on a second,
have a great day. Thanks for listening, for playing, Thank
you you too. I stay right there. Let's get to

(01:15:47):
waiting by the phone after a hold here in three minutes.
Why if somebody get ghosted? We'll investigate the entertainment report, headlines,
the biggest stories of the day, and the fun fact
all coming up. It's the Fred Show. We're live on
the radio in the iHeart n. We can also catch
up search for the Fread's show on demand and the
tangent new episode is on there too.

Speaker 14 (01:16:07):
Has ever been left waiting by the phone?

Speaker 1 (01:16:10):
It's The Fred Show. Hey BB, good morning, welcome to
the program.

Speaker 11 (01:16:14):
How are you guys?

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
We are super excited to have you here. So waiting
by the phone is on. We're trying to figure out
why you may have been ghosted BB, So why don't
you tell us about this guy Max, how you met?
Give us any background and then kind of where things
are now and so we can figure out how we
can help.

Speaker 10 (01:16:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:16:32):
So, I mean I met on the app. You know,
that's a lot of us do day.

Speaker 20 (01:16:41):
So yeah, we started talking and to connect fairly well.

Speaker 11 (01:16:46):
You know, he was witty, he was funny, so I was.

Speaker 20 (01:16:49):
Like, okay, and then you know, we kept talking and
it started to get a little flirting and then he
asked me, asked me for my actual numbers. So we moved,
you know, off the app started actually you know, texting
and flirty, and we decided to go out and I
was really excited about that, and we went out.

Speaker 11 (01:17:09):
It was great, Like underdos are never that good. I
was happy, shocked that it was going this well. And
I mean, you know, I.

Speaker 20 (01:17:19):
Even ended up, you know, sleeping over at a place
at the end of it.

Speaker 11 (01:17:22):
Believe me, I wouldn't.

Speaker 20 (01:17:23):
See this often, and it was I was shocked that
it went as well.

Speaker 1 (01:17:28):
Okay, yeah, No, so you have no idea after this
amazing date, why and even with the you guys hooked
up and everything. So this is all good stuff. And
then since then you have not heard from him, Have
you reached out to him, have you tried to contact
him at all?

Speaker 20 (01:17:42):
I tried calling him, I texted him. I only texted
him once because I didn't, you know, want to see
too much. I had already tried calling.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
I mean, it would be nice to know after you
hook up with somebody, why you know, why they're not interested.
I guess they don't necessarily owe you that, but it's
always nice to know I have some closure. It's respectful, sure.

Speaker 20 (01:18:02):
Especially after you hook up with someone. You know, if
we haven't pluck together, Okay, see whatever, but at least.

Speaker 10 (01:18:09):
Why you know?

Speaker 1 (01:18:10):
I get it. I get it. Ideally you'd like to know.
And that's where we come in. So we'll call. We'll
call Max. You'll be on the phone at the same time.
I don't want you to say anything right at first,
because we're gonna try and get some info for you.
But at some point you're welcome to jump in and
hopefully we can figure out what's going on. Maybe we
can patch things up, I don't know, any kind of
disconnect and get you guys set up on another date

(01:18:31):
that we pay for. Okay, okay, all right, I'm gonna
play one song and then we'll come back in two
minutes and we'll call this dude and figure it out.
Let's see what's going on. In part two of waiting
at the phone right after this song, Sabrina Carpenter back
in two minutes on the Friend Show. Don't move, Brita Carpenter.
It's the frend Show on the radio on the iHeart app.
Listen live and anytime. You can catch up all day
and search for the Friend Show for that and make

(01:18:53):
us a preset. Hey bb Yeah, Hi, Bby, welcome back.
Let's call Max. You guys met on one of the
dating app and you chatted and he went on this
this date that you thought went really well, so well
that you slept over in his house, you know, so
that's good. However, since then you haven't heard from him.
You've reached out once, he hasn't responded. I can understand

(01:19:14):
why that might bother you, because you want to know why.
You want to know what happened? Where's this guy? Where
did he go? Right?

Speaker 20 (01:19:20):
Yeah, I mean I just want to know why, you know,
at the end of the day, if he's not interested, well.

Speaker 2 (01:19:26):
But at least let me know why.

Speaker 1 (01:19:28):
Yeah, fair enough, let's call him now, good luck Boebe Hello,
Hi is this Max? Yeah? Hey Max? Good morning. My
name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show on one
of three five Kiss FM, and I'm starting to bother.
I do have to tell you that we are on

(01:19:49):
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can we chat for a
couple of minutes on the show?

Speaker 18 (01:19:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:19:56):
That's fun, Thank you so much. I'm not sure if
you've heard this before, but we're actually called on behalf
of a woman named Phoebe who says she met you
on one of the dating apps. You guys went out
recently and had a what she described as a really
successful date. To remember her, Yeah, yeah, I definitely remember. Okay,
all right, well, so what she told us that you
know that you guys were flirting again long, Well, she

(01:20:18):
did say that she slept over at your house. However,
she said she can't get a hold of you. You're
not responding, you're not reaching out. It's kind of bugging her.
We had no problem getting ahold of you, So what
you know, can you kind of would you mind filling
us in on where you're at with her?

Speaker 21 (01:20:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:20:36):
Yeah, the date was good.

Speaker 21 (01:20:37):
The everything else that happened after was good. It was
just actually it was it was sort of what happened
after after was what was kind of weird. I woke
up like just in the middle of the I just
had to pee and I was like hearing noises from
my living room and I walked it into my living

(01:20:57):
room and she was watching, like.

Speaker 1 (01:21:03):
She did she fire up the fifty inch and like,
you know, share it to the street like.

Speaker 21 (01:21:11):
Yeah, like we had just soaked up like an hour
before that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
There's just like, hey, hey, maybe this lady is insatiable.
Maybe she you know, maybe she was ready for another round. Uh. Well,
you know what, I forgot to mention that bbes here.
I I don't know what. I always have this laps
in my memory. I forget to mention that part the

(01:21:34):
BB's here, Max. You guys know each other. BB. So
what was going on on the couch after afterwards? And
why was it so loud?

Speaker 2 (01:21:41):
By the way, Yeah, I didn't know that he caught me.

Speaker 1 (01:21:49):
Okay, well he did. So why an hour after you
hook up with the guy, are you in the other
room watching you know those kind of videos?

Speaker 2 (01:21:57):
Well why do you think so?

Speaker 1 (01:22:01):
You didn't? Oh you did so, Pauline is right, So
you didn't. It wasn't satisfying. It wasn't satisfactory. The experience
I wouldn't even.

Speaker 20 (01:22:09):
I wouldn't say that though I had a great experience,
like it was a really fun time.

Speaker 2 (01:22:18):
Didn't, girl, You didn't.

Speaker 1 (01:22:21):
You didn't get to the high the highest hype.

Speaker 20 (01:22:24):
Guys, I did not finish so and I did not
expect him to walk in and catch me.

Speaker 11 (01:22:31):
You know, that was never my interest.

Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
I guess in the future, maybe I would leave. Yeah,
I you know, I I I might conceal what I'm
doing a little better if I didn't want any chance
that the guy I liked or girl I liked or
whatever would find out. I mean, because I get it.
You know, it's you don't always get to that point.

(01:22:55):
But Max, Man, you're awfully quiet on this whole thing.
I mean, you hear what this is the reason? Why
would what say you?

Speaker 21 (01:23:02):
Yeah, I don't know. I I guess I get it.
It's just it was just kind of weird. I definitely
didn't expect it.

Speaker 1 (01:23:10):
You don't seem real surprise.

Speaker 11 (01:23:12):
I thought I thought it would great, like we did.
I'm not saying I don't.

Speaker 20 (01:23:18):
I'm not saying it wasn't a great time. That was
not at all what I'm trying to say here.

Speaker 1 (01:23:23):
I will say this is a difficult concept for most
men to understand. Myself included, we're like operating an appliance,
you know, on off. It's not that tricky. Women typically
are a little it's a little more complicated women. I
think you guys would agree, right, I mean, for the
most part, that it can be a little trickier. And
I think men, just because we're we're used to most

(01:23:46):
of the time, we get to that point, and I
think we just expect that we can give that to
our partners only. And I think many men are of
surprise to find out that you guys can have a
great time and enjoy the experience, but not automatically get
to that height. M m. Yeah, So I think that's
it's a hard thing for guys who understand. Yeah, yeah,
I get that.

Speaker 21 (01:24:06):
I just like washing porn on like my couchrack. I
don't know, I just I was right next to her.

Speaker 1 (01:24:13):
Yeah, well yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (01:24:14):
Don't know, so finished like what a gentleman.

Speaker 1 (01:24:17):
Yeah, I would have been more offended that I wasn't
invited to that party, you know. I would have been like, well,
I mean I can help with them. But then again,
it didn't. It didn't work the first time, all right, Well, look, Max,
I mean, so since you say you have an understanding
of this whole concept, so why are you ignoring her?
Are you embarrassed by it? Are you I don't know what,

(01:24:40):
what did it hurt your masculinity somehow? I mean, I
don't mean to generalize her, like I don't mean to suppose,
but what why wouldn't you call her again after that?

Speaker 21 (01:24:48):
I don't know, it was just a little weird to me.
It was, uh, it just it was just really off putting,
and I don't know, it was just really weird and
it just it threw me off.

Speaker 12 (01:24:58):
And I'm sorry.

Speaker 21 (01:25:00):
I'm not good at, you know, just not talking to people,
so I tend to just not talk to people. I'm
not good at confrontation or like dealing with that stuff,
so I tend to just not respond.

Speaker 1 (01:25:11):
And I know it's clearly not good and here we are.
But well, that's that's nice, you know. There you go, Bb,
So that was the issue. I don't know that every
guy would handle it that way, but you know, he's
admitting that he's not really good. I think I think
many of us are not good at that. At that
phone call later where it's like, hey, by the way,
I don't like you, not that that's how you say it,

(01:25:32):
but you know it sounds like that's the issue here,
so boebe, I'm sorry. I don't think it's gonna work out.

Speaker 2 (01:25:36):
Well fair enough, man, I know.

Speaker 1 (01:25:40):
He doesn't seem too surprised by all this. I don't know.
It just maybe it's just not a it's not a match.
But guys, thank you so much for your time. Best
elect to both of you.

Speaker 6 (01:25:47):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:25:48):
The Entertainment Report headlines the biggest stories of the day
and the fun fact All next Fread Show's Entertainment Report.
He's on The Fread Show.

Speaker 2 (01:25:56):
That's a rapper.

Speaker 5 (01:25:57):
Slim Sug thought Megan the Stallion had a crush on
him and wanted to hook up with him simply because
she played some of his songs during Weekend one of Coachella.
She decided that she was going to clear some things
up during her Weekend to Coachella set, She started playing
one of his songs and said, and no, Slim Thug,
this doesn't mean that I like you or I want you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:16):
It just means I like your music, babe.

Speaker 5 (01:26:18):
He responded to the story on Instagram with a bunch
of laughing and fire emojis. So no, just because someone
plays your music does not mean that they want to
go on a date with you. Unfortunately, Sizzu, we just
played Teddy Swims. I've been trying to get him to
go out with me forever.

Speaker 2 (01:26:32):
I think yes, I mean I think that you want him. Yeah,
because you played his song.

Speaker 1 (01:26:37):
I think I know that you want him. You should
know he know that you want him. Yeah, he's smooth too. No, yes, yes,
I agree.

Speaker 18 (01:26:45):
No.

Speaker 5 (01:26:46):
Sissa's SOS album continues to break all kinds of crazy records.
Most recently, it surpassed Adele's twenty one for the most
week spent in the Billboard Top ten for an album
by a woman. The album notch it's eighty fifth non
consecutive week in the top ten, and Adele's twenty one
album from twenty eleven was last in the top ten
for its eighty fourth and final non consecutive week.

Speaker 2 (01:27:07):
In twenty sixteen.

Speaker 5 (01:27:09):
Saysas album now ties Peter Paul and Mary's a self
titled album for.

Speaker 2 (01:27:13):
The third most weeks in.

Speaker 5 (01:27:14):
The top ten among albums by a singular artist, and
they both trailed two albums by Morgan Wallen Dangerous, the
double album with one hundred and fifty eight and One.

Speaker 2 (01:27:22):
Thing at a Time with one hundred and six.

Speaker 5 (01:27:24):
George says that he and his wife, Oh, I'm sorry,
George Clooney, we're not on a first name base.

Speaker 1 (01:27:31):
I just call him George George when I'm talking to him.

Speaker 5 (01:27:34):
Yeah, I probably needed to give you the last name there.
So George Clooney says that he and his wife Amal
never fight, and they never have during an interview with
Gail King So another one of these. He recalled telling
Gale in twenty twenty two that they have never had
an argument, and he said the same holds true to
this day. He took, we're still trying to find something
to argue about.

Speaker 1 (01:27:52):
Really, I'm surprised that Gail will even talk to his
person who hasn't gone to space. Well, yeah, maybe that
the interview was before she went to space. It's just
I don't know why she would bother with that. She
speaks to just a mere mortal.

Speaker 8 (01:28:05):
She said, don't talk to me, Yeah, unless you've been
to space.

Speaker 5 (01:28:08):
So there's not a day that goes by where he
doesn't feel like he's the luckiest.

Speaker 2 (01:28:11):
Man in the room.

Speaker 1 (01:28:13):
He's been sustainable, Like, is that real, Like who can
actually be in a relationship where there's no conflict ever?
Like healthy, normal conflict. I don't think that's real, not
this house. Give me the secret, right please, I don't know.
I think you've got to get stuff off you. How
could you be with someone for years and years and
years and live with them and have kids with them

(01:28:34):
and all them and not have healthy conflict. I'm not
saying neal, nasty stuff, of course, I just mean you'll
get your grievances out.

Speaker 17 (01:28:40):
All right.

Speaker 5 (01:28:41):
Come on, let's mix it up a little, get a
little sassy with each other.

Speaker 2 (01:28:45):
Let's figure it out.

Speaker 5 (01:28:46):
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Speaker 1 (01:28:52):
The Fread Show is on Friend's Fun Fact.

Speaker 8 (01:28:55):
Fred Fun so much.

Speaker 1 (01:29:05):
Guys. Did you know that the nerf ball was invented
by Parker Brothers in nineteen seventy, or at least that's
who distributed it. I think there was a documentary or
a thirty for thirty or something about the guy who
actually invented the nerf ball. Now did he get as
rich as he was supposed to? I can't remember the
story about though. Anyway, they wanted the public to be
aware of how safe the four inch foam choy was.

(01:29:27):
To do that, they included text on the box that
told buyers throw it indoors, you can't damage lamps or
break windows. They also added you can't hurt babies or
old people. Set it right on the box, you can't
hurt babies or old people.

Speaker 8 (01:29:43):
I'm not finding a documentary lots of history though.

Speaker 1 (01:29:46):
I think it was something on ESPN about the guy
who invented it, maybe like people didn't want to they
didn't believe in it, or thought it was stupid, and
then he wound up, you know, selling a gazillion of
him or something like that. But yeah, right there on
the box, you can't hurt babies or old people. That's
a selling point.

Speaker 21 (01:30:00):
I like more Fread Show next.

Speaker 1 (01:30:04):
Yeah, they talk better than they say. These are the
radio blogs on the Fread Show, like running in our diaries,
except we say them aloud. We call the blogs.

Speaker 2 (01:30:14):
Kaylino, thank you, dear blog.

Speaker 5 (01:30:17):
So my girl Paulina has long been saying that the
Catholic Church needs a rebrand. Okay, I have long been
saying that baby showers need a rebrand.

Speaker 2 (01:30:26):
Okay, tell me more so. I will tell you more so.

Speaker 5 (01:30:30):
I have long complained to you guys that I think
it's very funny that the women, you know, just because
we are born women have to go to the baby shower,
have to play, you know, guess the chocolate and the
diaper and who can hug the baby bottle the fastest.
But the men don't have to go to baby showers. Okay,
so that's my first issue. They get to, you know,

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either show up at the end and do the fun part,
or do nothing, or go out and drink and go congrats, bro,
you're having a baby. So I just think that maybe, ladies,
I'll go to your baby shower. But we need to
switch it up, okay, because a lot of the same format.

Speaker 8 (01:31:08):
Is copy and paste. It's a floral print.

Speaker 5 (01:31:11):
You can win, you know, some lotion if you guess
the accurate you know, waight of the baby or who
the baby's gonna look more like, you can win a
nice candle. And you have to dress the same. Don't
get me started on baby shower attire. It is very
hard to dress for baby showers, especially if the weather
is not cooperating because you feel like you got to

(01:31:31):
wear a you know, certain floral dress whatever. I went
to a baby shower that was a sound bath, and
I would just like to praise my friend for switching
it up. I got to go to this baby shower
in comfy clothes. I got to lay on the floor
on a yoga mat in a blanket. I got to
bring a pillow. I got to chill. There were no games.

Speaker 8 (01:31:56):
We just we got to chill, and the vibe was relaxed.

Speaker 5 (01:31:59):
And I just would like to say, ladies, let's think
outside the box for our baby showers. Let's switch it
up a little, you know. And I just want to
applaud my friend. You know, we switched it up.

Speaker 1 (01:32:10):
If fairness have only been invited to one baby shower,
right in fairness.

Speaker 5 (01:32:16):
Right, And that's where in lies the problem. Why don't
men have to go to baby showers? I think men
should have to throw their bros a baby shower.

Speaker 2 (01:32:24):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (01:32:24):
I thought the baby showers like, I thought that was
a girl thing, Like I don't I've never why, No, well,
you guys invented it. I don't know. No, I don't know. No,
No guy he's never said to me, like, no, how
about a baby shower for me. I've no, it's never said.

Speaker 8 (01:32:36):
That, but I want you guys to have to go
and get with you bros.

Speaker 1 (01:32:40):
So you don't like them, so we should have to
go too.

Speaker 2 (01:32:42):
It's not that I.

Speaker 5 (01:32:43):
Don't like them, it's that you're asking a lot of
money to be spent. I agree, you're asking for traveling.
You're asking for me to get all done up, only
to do the same thing. I don't mind baby showers.
I love celebrating you in your baby shower. I'm just
encouraging us to think outside the box a little bit
to make this mom sit up there and open gifts
and have the same reaction the entire time.

Speaker 2 (01:33:05):
They don't want to do that either.

Speaker 1 (01:33:06):
Yeah, but they want the diapers, and they want the gifts,
and they want all the stuff. So that's how you're
going to have.

Speaker 21 (01:33:10):
To do it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:11):
No, you send it directly.

Speaker 5 (01:33:12):
The new thing is you send it directly to the
couple's house and they don't have to open it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:16):
In front of people. I'm just saying, let's think outside
the box.

Speaker 3 (01:33:19):
Yeah, you weren't at my baby shower, Kalin, but I
feel like your friend and I really aligned on this.
My baby showers on a sound bath. I heard about this.
I love the idea. I'm not having more kids, but
if I did, I do that, huh. But mine was
a what was my baby shower like a party? I
had a bar time and a drag I had if
I was there, I was there.

Speaker 1 (01:33:37):
That's probably the only second I've ever been to in
my whole life.

Speaker 3 (01:33:41):
Yeah, but I feel like I made it easy because
my whole thing is I just want to make things
fun and easy for people were not And I didn't
open one gift. And also gifts are very very kind,
like you're not obligated to give anybody anything. And I
think that's so sweet that people did that. I did
a diaper raffles the only game I did. Love that,
and I had the dazzled done Julio bottles. Okay, See,
they fought for those they fought. You are walking the walk.

Speaker 5 (01:34:01):
And I just want to I just want to tell you,
thank you for being part of the cause.

Speaker 1 (01:34:05):
Thanks for walking.

Speaker 2 (01:34:06):
So I was born in.

Speaker 5 (01:34:10):
Specific Genitalia, and because of that, I am expected to
do these baby showers, and I'm just saying, just have
a drag queen every once in a while, have some
drinking every once in a while.

Speaker 8 (01:34:19):
I'm sorry, you can't drink, but I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:34:21):
I'm saying, Okay, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
Yeah, I mean, if you expect me to show up
to an event that is basically four gifts, then you
need to you need to provide me with a venue
that is something I would like to attend, right, Like,
come on, come on, why are people throwing showers? It's
to receive gifts, and it's great, you're yourself me. There's
a baby coming.

Speaker 2 (01:34:39):
It's ex baby.

Speaker 1 (01:34:40):
It takes a village, the whole thing. But if I'm
going to go, there better be good food and beverage.

Speaker 5 (01:34:44):
One hundred percent. I if I ever, you know, get
lucky enough to be pregnant, I will be having it
at a gentleman's club.

Speaker 2 (01:34:51):
I will.

Speaker 8 (01:34:51):
I've already decided that.

Speaker 2 (01:34:52):
Yep, it's been done. I love it. It has it,
you have it. I mean I see there. So yeah,
you guys will have a time.

Speaker 4 (01:35:02):
Just bring some singles, just have some meat dolls, meatballs, yeah,
baby shower meatballs.

Speaker 2 (01:35:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:35:09):
Yeah, no, you still haven't sold me. I'm not going
that's right.

Speaker 2 (01:35:12):
You let's go play golf, right.

Speaker 1 (01:35:14):
Yeah, you're right. Yeah, no, that's a good deal. Celebrate baby.
Let's go play a team.