April 28, 2025 • 29 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fred's show is On's biggest stories of the day.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Someone's nextly that they heard Waiting for a Start of
Fall at the grocery store and thought, of me, it's
only one of the greatest songs ever recorded. But that's
my encouragement for you this week. Pick an era from
before you were born and go find a playlist and
listen to the songs, and you might even like it.
You like sixties, you might like motow. I feel like
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if you like me t yes, then you would like
Jackson five.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Yeah, you know, I like it a lot.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
I just like the Lord just made me cough. I
don't know if that was like. Don't even try this.
Don't play this game making comparison between generations. You're going
to offend somebody or make them angry because everyone thinks
of the music they grew up with is the best
music and everything else sucks. You.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Let me think about it.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Don't you feel like you have the most attachment to
the songs from your childhood? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yes, sure, even early two thousands.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I feel like that's my wheelhouse. That's right, college, high school?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Yeah, I say that serious story in headlines to start
A man who crashed into a street festival in Vancouver
has been charged for eight counts of secondary degree murder.
A thirty year old man was driving a blackouty SUV
just after eight pm local time.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
I believe this was Saturday.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
This happened when he allegedly plot into a large crowd
of people attending a festival which was a celebration of
Filipino culture. At least eleven people arranging an age from
five to sixty five were killed. Dozens more were injured,
some critically. The actions of a single person shattered our
collective sense of safety. It's impossible to overstate how many
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lives have been impacted forever by this loan individual. According
to the interim police chief in Vancouver, a motive hasn't
been released and there's no indication the incident was an
act of terrorism. Further charges are anticipated in the case.
So I watched this over the weekend. I guess it
was CBS Sunday Morning. Bill Belichick was interviewed, and it
(02:00):
was very strange, so strange, it was really weird. He
shows up in like a ripped sweatshirt for a CBS
Sunday morning interview and even the reporter was like I mean,
Jane Pawly's wearing a power suit back in you know,
what is this?
Speaker 4 (02:14):
You know? Like but I you know, I guess that's
kind of his thing.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Is that that the you know, the sleeveless sweatshirt or whatever.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
It seemed very casual. His girlfriend also seemed very casual.
She's twenty four, he's seventy two or is he older
than that? And now apparently she's become his de facto
pr person. Yeah, And she was saying out loud during
the interview what he would and wouldn't answer.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
He's seventy three, yeah, yeah, three.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
So she is fifty years younger than him, and she's
telling him. She is telling Bill Belichick what to do.
Asked a bunch of questions about, you know, was he
fired from the Patriots and he says, no, it was mutual, but.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I guess it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Robert Krapp wasn't mentioned in this book in any way
that he was promoting. And then there was a question
about how Bill met his girlfriend, Jordan Hudson, and then
she stands up in the middle the interview and says, no,
we're not.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Jordan was a constant presence during our interview. You have
Jordan right over there.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Everybody in the world seems to be following this relationship.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
They've got an opinion about your private life.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
It's got nothing to do with them, but they're invested
in it. How do you deal with that. I've never
been too worried about what everybody else thanks, just to
try to do what I feel like is that's for
me and what's right? How did you guys meet?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Not talking about this?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
We're not talking about this.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
It's gimming.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
We're not talking about this. What can't we talk about this?
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Because I think she was on the problem for him,
and I think she doesn't want to be painted in
a weird light.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
I think the.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Rumor is they met before she was even legal to
be doing this, not that they were doing anything, but
the rumor is that they could he met her as
a child. Oh wow, that might even be confirmed. I
don't know, they've been around for a while or I
don't know. But for whatever reason, that was a very
sensitive topic and she was we were not going there.
We were not going to discuss how they.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Met, right, But now she's calling way more attention to
everything you know and sligns with him beforehand, so it
doesn't look like you're absolutely insane.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, well, it's like that question was going to come UNEs.
It always surprises me when celebrities are right in the
middle of something like there's something going on, but you know,
I don't know. You knew they weren't talk about North Carolina.
You knew they weren't talk about Robbert Craft. You knew
they were going to ask about the girlfriend. And then
she's and on top of that, she's there now, she's
apparently like she's literally watching the monitor and directing what
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they will and will not do, and he's just sitting
there looking at her like it's wild because for a
guy who has won so many Super Bowls and runs
so many teams and seems to not give a darn
what anybody thinks about anything, he was very lazer focused
on what she wanted and didn't want.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
So I know it's giving elder abuse, is what it's given.
It's giving I take it from you.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Blink a few times if you're okay, Bill, Like, is
everything all right?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
The son of Atlanta Falcons defensive coordinator Jeff Oldbridge, admitted
to making a prank called to Chador Sanders during the
NFL Draft. I don't know if I have this audio,
but there was a video that went fu here it is. Yeah,
there was a video that went viral over the weekend.
It was a couple guys that somehow got Schadur Sanders number.
Now this is Deon Sanders' son. He was projected to
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maybe at one point be the number one pick in
the draft, then maybe three, then maybe first round. He
didn't get drafted until the fifth round. And this was
a big scandal over the weekend. So a couple of
old miss Frapprose somehow at the time it was somehow
got his number, called him, pretended to be the general
manager of the Saints and told him that he was drafted.
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Because if you don't if you don't watch the NFL draft,
you know, each team's got a couple of minutes to
make a pick and then they'll they'll they'll say to
pick his in on TV or whatever, and then the
general manager will tipic call the player and if it's
like the first or second round, there's usually a camera
in their house to capture this, and the phone rings, Hey.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
You're ready to come to you know, you're ready to
come to Carolina. I'm ready to coach. I'm ready. Like,
what are they gonna say?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I mean it has happened where people are like okay,
and they don't really want to go, but it's like, uh,
you know, you don't really have a choice in the matter.
So it's like everyone's fired up. Families there, everyone cries.
They announce it on TV. It's a bits a major thing.
So they call this guy and tell him that he
got drafted to the Saints and he I guess he
thinks it's a legitimate call because the phone was a
new phone and the only people who had the number
were NFL executives and coaches. So the phone rings, it's like, oh,
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I got drafted.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Listen to this. This is bad.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Hello, you got that?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
This is him talking to the kids, ready to go?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
I was there. Wait, lat yeah we have. It's been
a long wait, man, Yeah for sure, interview right here.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
Man.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
But he's lying because there was a couple of kids.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
But it turns out the reason this is scandalous is
because it's the Atlanta Falcons defensive coordinator's son who did it.
So I guess it was his buddy who actually was talking,
but he was in the video, and he apparently was
able to get the number off of his father's open
iPad while visiting his parents' home, so then later conducted
prank call. So Sanders continued to wait for his name
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to be called. Day two in the draft, a video
surface on social media the former Colorado quarterback receiving a
call from somebody impersonating the Saints general manager Mickey Loomis.
The caller told him you heard it, We're going to
take you with this pick, so he had to wait.
He confused, Sanders asked the crowd, what does that even mean?
Which I don't know. I would think he would know,
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but usually the agent will tip you off, like, hey, hey,
your going to the Saints next pick. What are they
going to call you? So like the in fact that
it came out of nowhere, I guess should have given
it away because that doesn't normally work that way. But
Jax Albrich wrote in his post that he what he
did was completely inexcusable, embarrassing, and shameful, and he said
that Sanders has accepted his call earlier, so I guess
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he called him and apologized. The Falcons will not take
any action against the coach, though round.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
That kid for the rest of his life.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
If that man you made me look stupid and it's
just cruel.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
He has not a nice thing to do.
Speaker 5 (08:26):
No, aren't these players look so excited for this day.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
It's a big, big day.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
It's that cool semester, especially considering that.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
You know, you can say what you want about Sudar Sanders,
but the expectation was that it was going to be
a very different weekend for him, and it didn't work
out that way.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Oh got it?
Speaker 7 (08:42):
So?
Speaker 2 (08:43):
A woman on a Southwest Airlines flight to Chicago took
off her clothes and pooped on the seat as the
plane landed. I'm here to provide you with the information
that you need to know, whether it's from classic rock hits,
Camon's favorite dot com, or whether it's something like this.
Police were called to Chicago's Midway Airport after the incident,
but it isn't knowing what happened to the passenger or
if she was arrested. The plane was taken out of service.
(09:05):
That's nice, but you know, if someone's in that seat
right now on their way to help pass so and
doesn't even know it, I hope they took the whole
seat out take the whole seat, get get up some
new seats. Oh yeah, I mean that is disgusting. Southwest
Carolina said they're in the process of reaching out to
all the passengers on the flight to apologize. But what
where are we at in society where it's like, now,
I'll just do it here right here?
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Just I mean, can you imagine being the person is
sitting you know, you're in thirty seven A and you
look over.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
You're like, oh my god, what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Jail time?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Right? Like what?
Speaker 2 (09:38):
And then and then you like, I don't know if
you're trapped by the window and the person's in the middle, like,
I don't know what you're supposed to do?
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Terrible.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Scientists confirm that young female marijuana users get the monkeys.
Can't confirm, I guess I'm a young female marijuana user. Then, allegedly,
young women who use cannabis are more likely to binge
eat compared to those who don't.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I'm really glad we're doing research on this, right.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
They found that twenty four percent of young women who
used weed reported binge eating, versus thirteen percent of non users. Interestingly,
this wasn't really the case for guys. No big difference there.
I don't know, but what a study like here, here's
a bunch of THHC and then some donuts and pizzas and.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
Whatever else you want. You know, here you go. Did
you ever have to do in college?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Because I was a psychology minor and maybe because I
was hanging around the department, But like the master students
and the doctoral students had to do experiments and they
were like not you know, zappi in the head experiments.
It wasn't like electrolysis or whatever, but it was they
had to and then you got extra credit if you'd
do though, you got to do that. Yeah, we had
to do that too. No one ever asked me to
do this. One was like, hey, hey, go in the
(10:45):
room and just have at it. Man, Like there you go,
like smoke a little bit of that and then we
got all the food you could ever want to eat.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Have fun.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
We're just gonna watch. Nobody ever asked me to do
that one. Mine were ones that we're on like computers
and stuff. It was like what do you see flashing?
And I don't know, I know, whatever, tell me what
I was doing or why, like if I did.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
It right or if I was right right. No one
ever told me. No one ever told me if I
was crazy or not.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
A bakery is the biggest stories of the day at
bakery in South Jersey's acting customers who wear strong perfume
and cologne to use the drive throom instead of coming
in the business made the request on their Facebook page
earlier this month, and several of their employees suffered asthma
attacks due to some of the strong sense from the customers.
One of the asthma tacks was so serious employees almost
(11:29):
had to call nine one one. So the owner says, Hey,
if you use a lot of stuff, then you got
to you gotta go through the drive through. But what's
worse somebody who wears too much or somebody who doesn't
have any or enough? Like would you rather someone who
smells like a department store fragrance aisle or section, or
somebody who smells like bo I would rather the overwhelming
sense of stench of a fragrance option?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Yeah? No, Granted I'm not allergic to it buys me headaches.
Speaker 5 (11:56):
They both do. Bo bo does, though you've never got
a headache.
Speaker 8 (11:59):
Was someone just smells so bad and you want to
be mean, but you're like, okay, not my head hurts
now I can't see straight, like you can't you never have?
Speaker 6 (12:05):
That's I get it from per strong perfume. So I
don't think it doesn't cover bo by the way we
smell your bo in.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That's the other question I asked myself when someone really
smells overwhelmingly like like products, I'm like, what are we
covering up?
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Like what's going on? Like why? Why do you know most.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
People can take a shower and that smell goes away,
So why does it that you took a shower and
you douse yourself in you know, clorox or whatever. I
don't know, whatever. Why does it smell like a forest
always everywhere? I'm talking about people in general? Don't look
at me like that. In the Manhattan based company spot
in Tango is looking for an intern to evaluate dog
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breath as it looks into dental solutions that work for canines.
That job posting shares. They're looking for someone who has
a nose that can detect even the faintest hinted funk
to help them take canine oral hygiene to the next level.
Twenty five bucks an hour and unlimited puppy kiss as
they're saying, but I will say even our dogs at
home that I love, their breath is not inexcusable. Like
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I love those dogs, but when they get up in
my face with nasty ass breath like that, that doesn't
my love for them doesn't exceed their nasty breath. I
will tell you it's.
Speaker 6 (13:18):
No better than bad people breath though, Like I would
have no issue doing this.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
Study, like, yeah, especially if it's your dog.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Yeah, but they said that about kids too, like you know,
if it's your kid's poop or your kid's puke or whatever,
like somehow it's different.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
I don't know if I believe that.
Speaker 8 (13:31):
I confirm, Yeah, it's true. It gets in my nails
and stuff. I would never be okay with that if
it was someone else's baby. When it's yours, I just
think you're like, I don't know, it's survival at this
point instincts.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
So that's why you smell like.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
Like beyond poop.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
Yah.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Oh no, that's why you smell like the Macy's fragrance count.
You mean I didn't talk to you about that? Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 4 (14:04):
Order a fresh show. It's all right, honorable, take it over.
Speaker 9 (14:14):
All right, let's get in the courtroom. The gavel has
been hit. It says, hey, ki ki, am I wrong
for not lying to my brother about what really happened
at his fiance's bachelor party.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
My brother is getting married in July.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
However, he just called off the wedding because I told
him the truth about what really happened at my future
sister and lows bachelorette party, and now I feel bad.
A week ago, I attended the bachelorette party, and although
I helped plan the evening, I was not a part
of the team that hired the strippers. Her sister decided
to surprise the bride with two exotic dancers, one male
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and one female. As you can imagine, you know, yeah,
that's yeah. As you can imagine, the party got wild,
so wild that the night ended with my sister in
law hooking up with the female exotic dancer. The woman
actually spent the night with us at the Airbnb, and
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I saw her do the Walk of shame. The next
morning from my sister in law's bedroom. Well, my brother
texts me and asked me how did the night go?
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Various various different answers, Ye, different different for different folks.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
This evening I told him.
Speaker 9 (15:27):
She said, I told him the truth and he lost it.
He called off the wedding. And now I feel like
a terrible person and my entire family is mad at
me for telling him.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
Was I wrong?
Speaker 4 (15:38):
No?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
I mean there are one hundred layers of issues here.
We had a lot of things going on. But judge, Kiky,
what say you? I mean, it's your it's your thing.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
What do you think?
Speaker 9 (15:46):
I'm a girl's girl until it comes to my brothers.
Not gonna lie, you know what I'm saying. Hey, I
we those are my brothers. So if I'm a part
of your bridal party, you want to be a freak,
you need to let me.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Go home because I'm snitching.
Speaker 9 (15:58):
I'm sorry, especially if he if he didn't ask me,
I still would have told him. But hey, the point
that he asked me how the night went, Hey, I
think you should know that you're marrying a little freak
before you know.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
And look, you could be into what you're into.
Speaker 9 (16:12):
Some couples are into it together, but I need to
at least tell my brother and then however he reacts
is how he reacts.
Speaker 7 (16:18):
Now.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
I hate that he called the wedding off.
Speaker 9 (16:20):
We then bought these bridesmaids dresses and Dames Bridle, all
this stuff going on.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
And I can't live. I shouldn't have to live with that.
You can't.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
I shouldn't. Don't do that, Like that's sloppy. If you're
gonna do something like that, don't do that in front
of a sibling.
Speaker 10 (16:33):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
Yeah, like there's familial obligation. Yeah, kln, I was sorry.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
I didn't mean to cull you off.
Speaker 6 (16:38):
I would probably give them the opportunity to tell my brother.
Oh four, That's the only thing I would have done differently.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Oh so you'd say, like, look, I give you a week,
like you'd handle this.
Speaker 4 (16:47):
I can't. I don't.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I shouldn't have to live with that. Last rested up,
like you need to go. You got you had a week?
Speaker 9 (16:53):
Yes, chrayah, times up. You let the lady spend the
night you didn't like you. This is so sloppy on
so many levels. And I know some people say what
happens at a bachelorette weekend? Or a bachelor party, it
stays there. Not when it's my brother. No, sorry, I'm
here for it.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Three five.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
So I guess the question really is, was this woman
obligated to keep this secret.
Speaker 9 (17:18):
Right as a mept she's a member of the bridal party,
she's at the bachelorette party.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
Sloppy, there's dr there. You're doing this in front of everybody.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
In front of everybody, because you know how.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
I feel about it.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
You know how I feel if you are truly self
aware enough to recognize it that you cheated and it
was a one time deal and they were extenuating circuit
extenuating circumstances and you screwed up and you were drunk
or whatever. I'm not saying these are excuses. You get
to live with that, But I'm saying, if you mess
up one time then and no one else knows about
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it but you and the other person, and you're never
gonna see the other person again, and then I, honestly
I think you have to live with that. I don't
think you go ruin somebody else's life because you betrayed them.
But if you're gonna be sloppy enough to do it
in front of a bunch of other people that I
don't know why it's up to them to have to
keep your secret. That is not cool to do to
your friends. No, you know, like if I had a
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friend who was just openly cheating on his wife and
I'm around for this and I'm friends with both of them,
I would say something.
Speaker 4 (18:17):
I'd be like, we can't.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
I'm not doing this with you, Like I don't need
to be culpable because here's the problem, Like I don't
know what the rules are and I don't know what
the thing is. And then someday she can find out
that that I knew that you were doing this, and
now I'm as bad as you are almost now, Like,
don't put me in that spot.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
I have been on.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Bachelor at parties where there have been let's say, a
stripper or two, and we were somewhere and the bride
to be gets a dance that the future.
Speaker 5 (18:41):
Husband would not be happy with.
Speaker 6 (18:43):
Right now, there's no cheating, no nothing, but we know that,
like the husband.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
Would not be happy. I'm not talking about that.
Speaker 9 (18:49):
You never tell that, you know, No, you keep those
videos on your phone and you girls laugh in a
group chat, and it never makes it to nice the video.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
There's no video.
Speaker 5 (18:58):
No, we have video. I have a video, yeah, and
I will never show it.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
Never, never.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (19:03):
But if you actually sleep with somebody that I mean hey, right,
and the way she probably did, she probably thought like,
oh it's a woman, maybe he won't be mad, right,
you know, it's not a big deal because it's a one.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
No, he said it was a big deal.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
No, cheating is cheating sucks. Cheating is cheering even quiet?
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh yeah, no, I mean I once you cheat in
front of me, like I'm telling everyone, Oh.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Like everyone, everyone involved. I'll keep that in mind. Not
even not even just people.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Involved, everybody, No, especially if you w everyone's being told.
But if you're that stupid and blatant to do it
like in front of your friends, and I'm sure there
were some of her own family there, like you're just dominant.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Layer and that's just inconsiderate and none cool. But family
is another thing, like that's what doing Like how comfortable
do you think you are here?
Speaker 9 (19:56):
And I think that's another valuable lesson about in laws, right,
because at the end of the day, I love my
sister in law down you know, I love her like
a sister.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
But when if it come down. That's my brother, you know,
my blood brother.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Well that's the thing. Why are you making me have
to live with this too? So now I get to
betray my sibling too. Right now, I know I didn't
do it. But if I saw it and know about it,
and then ten years from now it comes out. Oh
and by the way, Fred, he was there, he saw it. Really,
you let me do all this life with this individual
who did this terrible thing to me, and you didn't
say anything. Now you could argue, Look, I wanted to
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stay out of it, like I honestly, it's none of
my business, Like this is between you two. I don't know,
but I don't think that would fly. I don't think
that would fly. So I'm not willing to lose my
familial relationship over your indiscretion. No, I am not not happening, hey, Robin,
Hi Hi.
Speaker 10 (20:48):
I think that the flip side to this is if
the tables were turned, like, she's really not going to
be mad if she thought, you know what I mean,
Like if her if he her brother was at his
bachelor party and he went home with either sex and
male or female and the same thing happened, you were
going to say that she wouldn't call off the wedding
and be completely but her about it too, Like that's
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the part. She's only mad because she got caught, not
because she's not looking at it from the perspective. If
he would have done it, what would I have done?
Speaker 5 (21:18):
Well, you would not have that's true.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
I mean, we're not even talking about that because right, right,
But of course if it had been the other way
around and she'd walk, then it would have been understanding.
Speaker 10 (21:30):
So I'm with Kaitlin, either you tell or I'm.
Speaker 11 (21:32):
Going to tell for you.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
I liked that that's the plan that I think it
works well because it's like, look, I'm giving you the
option to do this your way. Now. The only time
that backfires is if you're somehow involved and then they
decided to change the story up because I've heard about
this happening where they get a little crafty with the
story and then somehow winds up in your face and
you're like, now wait a minute, hol about a second,
because they're you know, they want to get you out
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of the picture because so somehow it was your fault
and then you wind up I've heard of this happening before.
That's the only problem letting somebody with giving them the ultimatum, Hey,
you either have to tell the truth or I will,
because sometimes it winds up where like you now, it's
your word against somebody else.
Speaker 9 (22:09):
Right, Frank so drunk and lit, you know, giving me
drinks and next thing, you know, and he didn't stop us.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
You know, he knew that lady was in the room
with me and he didn't stop it.
Speaker 10 (22:18):
Then and you can't go out with my sister anymore, right, Yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
Yeah, yeah, to do. Thank you so much, have a
good day.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Yeah. But I think my biggest takeaway from this segment
is Jason may or may not be invited to my
bachelor bar.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I also don't know if a bachelor party is for me.
I don't know if I give that vibe, but I'm not.
I also want to know, like, did did the stripper
turn this lady out? Or was this something she does
all the time.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
Bigger like some poems.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
There's part of me going did she pay extra for that?
Or was she so hot that the stripper was like, no,
I'm into this, I'm staying because that's a that's a compliment.
Speaker 8 (22:58):
Well, yes, and said, what do you always say you
don't know people's situations, right, like is this the thing?
Speaker 4 (23:06):
But don't put me in that position. But don't put
me in that position.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
If you're advertiser, weren't in an open relationship such that
if I see something, I don't have to live with that.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
Guilt or don't.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
But like you're right, if I witness something like if
I walk into a restaurant and see someone I know
with someone else, or if I witness something and I
don't have the context, I'm probably staying out of that.
Speaker 4 (23:26):
But I was.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
I'm part of a group of people. I watched it happen.
I'm privy to it. Yeah, I can't. I can look
the other way if I don't know, you know, But
I don't think I can look the other way if
I'm there in it. Ashley, Hi, good morning. Hey, so
Kiki's court. What do you think?
Speaker 7 (23:46):
So I feel like it would be like probably brushed
back because it's female and female, so that's considered, you know,
quote Potter, and that's probably why the family is probably
like who cares? Like why would you say something like
it's just a girl with a girl, but like it's cheating,
so cheating?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Who you did it?
Speaker 9 (24:03):
Was?
Speaker 2 (24:03):
I agree, and she would bother me just the same.
I mean, a guy would probably bother me slightly more,
but they'd both bother me. I'd be like, oh, really,
so you can just hook up with whoever you want,
you know, Like, no, you can't.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
I don't.
Speaker 7 (24:14):
She like the stigma is definitely Like if it was
a guy, it would be no question to ask, Like
the sister is not a jerk, Like, yeah, the wedding
is off, and oh, well, she cheated with a guy.
But because it's the girl of those families, like, why
would you say something like makeing her feel bad? And
it's still the same thing. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
I think people don't give the witnesses enough credit in
these situations, Like if you are going to be I
said this earlier, if you were sloppy enough to do
all this in front of me, then now you've involved
me and now it's on my character.
Speaker 4 (24:48):
So so how about this.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
If you want to be shady, then don't be shady,
but don't don't do in front of me because it
shouldn't infringe upon my values. Your bad decisions in private, Yeah,
thank you, Ashley.
Speaker 4 (24:59):
Yes, he's shady in private. That's add that to the
constitution that.
Speaker 9 (25:04):
They should have ended the party like, oh, we're going
to bed now, everybody go home, and then have the
exotic dancers come after the sister left. But like doing
it in front of her face and then not expecting
her to tell her brother is great.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
Plus I wonder if she was that sister who like,
you've heard me talking about this before. But I can
see it from a mile away if I'm out, you know,
on a summer afternoon, I'm on the patio and I
see the bechelorette group approaching. I can, I can, I am,
I have a gift. I can see the group and
I can tell you, well, the bride's usually wearing something
different and the rest of them are wearing some god
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awful matching T shirts or something or you know, just whatever.
I can tell you which which ones are supposed to
be there and which ones were there out of obligation,
because it's like all the girls from like, you know,
they all went to whatever college together, and they're a
on a sorority and they all kind of look the same.
And then over here is the girl in the birkenstocks
with the backpack, and you know, and and she has
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nothing one of these kids, is not like the other
that's the sister of the groom.
Speaker 4 (26:02):
Yes, you know or something like.
Speaker 2 (26:03):
That's a person who was obligated to be included, and
and and so you don't have the same bond with
that person that you have with the rest of them.
So don't be messing around because that person knows you
guys nothing.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Law, That's what I mean.
Speaker 8 (26:16):
Law.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
And you you were Colin have a bachelor party.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
So I was just going to say, it's very telling,
and I'm appreciative of it, but I also wonder. I
love the guy, but I was not a I was
not in the I was I officiated the wedding. I
was not a groomsman. I think if I hadn't officiated
the wedding, then I probably would have been forced into
the wedding party, which I would have declined because I
didn't know the guy that well, Like, I didn't deserve
to be up there.
Speaker 5 (26:40):
I don't decline.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
I don't like I don't like that tradition.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
I don't like the tradition where if I have, if
I have as deep of a relationship with with with
the groom as all the other guys that were supposed
to stand up there, then I should stand up there.
But if it's one guy doesn't get to go up
there because I have to because I'm the brother, that's
not cool. I wouldn't like that. That's not fair. It's
not fair to him. It's not fair to me. Wow, Like,
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why should I take the spot of somebody who was
like his boy? Like, for example, I've got I don't know.
I don't really know who would stand up with me
if I got married, But I can tell you right now,
if I had to inject a sibling in there, that's
one last person who was really important to me who's
not standing up there.
Speaker 4 (27:18):
And that's not fair. You have both, yeah, because at
some point you're not going to have forty people standing
up there.
Speaker 5 (27:24):
I don't see why not. Well, it's a respect thing.
I think you couldn't say no to that.
Speaker 4 (27:29):
I don't think it. But anyway, I was not invited
to it. I was not invited to the bachelor party.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Oh, I was not invited, and I will say I
had no business.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Being there for the same reason.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
But again, maybe he was respecting my ability to play
dumb because I don't know what happened there.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
I wasn't there.
Speaker 5 (27:47):
That's now I wonder what he was up to.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
But it was it was all that.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
It was people that he'd known since he was a child, Like, yeah,
I mean these are like deep A couple of guys
he toured the road with a a in a metal band,
like you know, went all over the country for years
with these guys like these are like deep relationships. They
deserve to stand up there. I didn't. I didn't RICO,
how you doing? Hey?
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Bro's hey man, what do you want to say?
Speaker 7 (28:12):
So?
Speaker 4 (28:13):
Thanks for listening.
Speaker 11 (28:13):
So the thing is, so I wanted to say, I
don't think my sister would tell me if that happened
in front of her. I'm kind of basing it off
of our birthdays. It's just last year I got my
birth my sister a real expensive camera. It was like
five hoard bucks. And this year she got me a
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pizza cutter. I'm like, bro, wait, bro.
Speaker 4 (28:39):
Wait, what is going about.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
You a pia?
Speaker 4 (28:43):
She got you a pizza cutter.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
So now you're thinking my wife probably should have on
me at the bachelorette party, and I.
Speaker 5 (28:48):
Never know, how do we get here?
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Yeah, she likes you so little that she got you
a pizza cutter, So god knows what else she's harboring.
You know what, I pick it up with what you
pay I hear you give me a pizza cutter?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
What are you hiding?
Speaker 11 (29:03):
Like? I mean, I thought, you know, there's just because
for her birthday. I kind of you know, I think,
I'm like, man't that But I don't think you would
have like yeah, I don't think she would tell me
and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Man, that's how you know what, I'm gonna go back
and say, look at what of my friends gifted me.
You give me a pizza cutter. You don't care about me.
You are aware that I thank you, Rico, have a
good day. I mean, it just makes a lot of
sense to me.
Speaker 4 (29:30):
Wow, you know
Fred's show is On's biggest stories of the day.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Someone's nextly that they heard Waiting for a Start of
Fall at the grocery store and thought, of me, it's
only one of the greatest songs ever recorded. But that's
my encouragement for you this week. Pick an era from
before you were born and go find a playlist and
listen to the songs, and you might even like it.
You like sixties, you might like motow. I feel like
(00:25):
if you like me t yes, then you would like
Jackson five.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Yeah, you know, I like it a lot.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
I just like the Lord just made me cough. I
don't know if that was like. Don't even try this.
Don't play this game making comparison between generations. You're going
to offend somebody or make them angry because everyone thinks
of the music they grew up with is the best
music and everything else sucks. You.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Let me think about it.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Don't you feel like you have the most attachment to
the songs from your childhood? Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yes, sure, even early two thousands.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I feel like that's my wheelhouse. That's right, college, high school?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Yeah, I say that serious story in headlines to start
A man who crashed into a street festival in Vancouver
has been charged for eight counts of secondary degree murder.
A thirty year old man was driving a blackouty SUV
just after eight pm local time.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
I believe this was Saturday.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
This happened when he allegedly plot into a large crowd
of people attending a festival which was a celebration of
Filipino culture. At least eleven people arranging an age from
five to sixty five were killed. Dozens more were injured,
some critically. The actions of a single person shattered our
collective sense of safety. It's impossible to overstate how many
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lives have been impacted forever by this loan individual. According
to the interim police chief in Vancouver, a motive hasn't
been released and there's no indication the incident was an
act of terrorism. Further charges are anticipated in the case.
So I watched this over the weekend. I guess it
was CBS Sunday Morning. Bill Belichick was interviewed, and it
(02:00):
was very strange, so strange, it was really weird. He
shows up in like a ripped sweatshirt for a CBS
Sunday morning interview and even the reporter was like I mean,
Jane Pawly's wearing a power suit back in you know,
what is this?
Speaker 4 (02:14):
You know? Like but I you know, I guess that's
kind of his thing.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Is that that the you know, the sleeveless sweatshirt or whatever.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
It seemed very casual. His girlfriend also seemed very casual.
She's twenty four, he's seventy two or is he older
than that? And now apparently she's become his de facto
pr person. Yeah, And she was saying out loud during
the interview what he would and wouldn't answer.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
He's seventy three, yeah, yeah, three.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
So she is fifty years younger than him, and she's
telling him. She is telling Bill Belichick what to do.
Asked a bunch of questions about, you know, was he
fired from the Patriots and he says, no, it was mutual, but.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I guess it wasn't.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Robert Krapp wasn't mentioned in this book in any way
that he was promoting. And then there was a question
about how Bill met his girlfriend, Jordan Hudson, and then
she stands up in the middle the interview and says, no,
we're not.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
Jordan was a constant presence during our interview. You have
Jordan right over there.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Everybody in the world seems to be following this relationship.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
They've got an opinion about your private life.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
It's got nothing to do with them, but they're invested
in it. How do you deal with that. I've never
been too worried about what everybody else thanks, just to
try to do what I feel like is that's for
me and what's right? How did you guys meet?
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Not talking about this?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
We're not talking about this.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
It's gimming.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
We're not talking about this. What can't we talk about this?
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Because I think she was on the problem for him,
and I think she doesn't want to be painted in
a weird light.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
I think the.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Rumor is they met before she was even legal to
be doing this, not that they were doing anything, but
the rumor is that they could he met her as
a child. Oh wow, that might even be confirmed. I
don't know, they've been around for a while or I
don't know. But for whatever reason, that was a very
sensitive topic and she was we were not going there.
We were not going to discuss how they.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
Met, right, But now she's calling way more attention to
everything you know and sligns with him beforehand, so it
doesn't look like you're absolutely insane.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Yeah, well, it's like that question was going to come UNEs.
It always surprises me when celebrities are right in the
middle of something like there's something going on, but you know,
I don't know. You knew they weren't talk about North Carolina.
You knew they weren't talk about Robbert Craft. You knew
they were going to ask about the girlfriend. And then
she's and on top of that, she's there now, she's
apparently like she's literally watching the monitor and directing what
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they will and will not do, and he's just sitting
there looking at her like it's wild because for a
guy who has won so many Super Bowls and runs
so many teams and seems to not give a darn
what anybody thinks about anything, he was very lazer focused
on what she wanted and didn't want.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
So I know it's giving elder abuse, is what it's given.
It's giving I take it from you.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Blink a few times if you're okay, Bill, Like, is
everything all right?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
The son of Atlanta Falcons defensive coordinator Jeff Oldbridge, admitted
to making a prank called to Chador Sanders during the
NFL Draft. I don't know if I have this audio,
but there was a video that went fu here it is. Yeah,
there was a video that went viral over the weekend.
It was a couple guys that somehow got Schadur Sanders number.
Now this is Deon Sanders' son. He was projected to
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maybe at one point be the number one pick in
the draft, then maybe three, then maybe first round. He
didn't get drafted until the fifth round. And this was
a big scandal over the weekend. So a couple of
old miss Frapprose somehow at the time it was somehow
got his number, called him, pretended to be the general
manager of the Saints and told him that he was drafted.
(05:50):
Because if you don't if you don't watch the NFL draft,
you know, each team's got a couple of minutes to
make a pick and then they'll they'll they'll say to
pick his in on TV or whatever, and then the
general manager will tipic call the player and if it's
like the first or second round, there's usually a camera
in their house to capture this, and the phone rings, Hey.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
You're ready to come to you know, you're ready to
come to Carolina. I'm ready to coach. I'm ready. Like,
what are they gonna say?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I mean it has happened where people are like okay,
and they don't really want to go, but it's like, uh,
you know, you don't really have a choice in the matter.
So it's like everyone's fired up. Families there, everyone cries.
They announce it on TV. It's a bits a major thing.
So they call this guy and tell him that he
got drafted to the Saints and he I guess he
thinks it's a legitimate call because the phone was a
new phone and the only people who had the number
were NFL executives and coaches. So the phone rings, it's like, oh,
(06:36):
I got drafted.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Listen to this. This is bad.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Hello, you got that?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
This is him talking to the kids, ready to go?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
I was there. Wait, lat yeah we have. It's been
a long wait, man, Yeah for sure, interview right here.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
Man.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
But he's lying because there was a couple of kids.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
But it turns out the reason this is scandalous is
because it's the Atlanta Falcons defensive coordinator's son who did it.
So I guess it was his buddy who actually was talking,
but he was in the video, and he apparently was
able to get the number off of his father's open
iPad while visiting his parents' home, so then later conducted
prank call. So Sanders continued to wait for his name
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to be called. Day two in the draft, a video
surface on social media the former Colorado quarterback receiving a
call from somebody impersonating the Saints general manager Mickey Loomis.
The caller told him you heard it, We're going to
take you with this pick, so he had to wait.
He confused, Sanders asked the crowd, what does that even mean?
Which I don't know. I would think he would know,
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but usually the agent will tip you off, like, hey, hey,
your going to the Saints next pick. What are they
going to call you? So like the in fact that
it came out of nowhere, I guess should have given
it away because that doesn't normally work that way. But
Jax Albrich wrote in his post that he what he
did was completely inexcusable, embarrassing, and shameful, and he said
that Sanders has accepted his call earlier, so I guess
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he called him and apologized. The Falcons will not take
any action against the coach, though round.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
That kid for the rest of his life.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
If that man you made me look stupid and it's
just cruel.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
He has not a nice thing to do.
Speaker 5 (08:26):
No, aren't these players look so excited for this day.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
It's a big, big day.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
It's that cool semester, especially considering that.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
You know, you can say what you want about Sudar Sanders,
but the expectation was that it was going to be
a very different weekend for him, and it didn't work
out that way.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Oh got it?
Speaker 7 (08:42):
So?
Speaker 2 (08:43):
A woman on a Southwest Airlines flight to Chicago took
off her clothes and pooped on the seat as the
plane landed. I'm here to provide you with the information
that you need to know, whether it's from classic rock hits,
Camon's favorite dot com, or whether it's something like this.
Police were called to Chicago's Midway Airport after the incident,
but it isn't knowing what happened to the passenger or
if she was arrested. The plane was taken out of service.
(09:05):
That's nice, but you know, if someone's in that seat
right now on their way to help pass so and
doesn't even know it, I hope they took the whole
seat out take the whole seat, get get up some
new seats. Oh yeah, I mean that is disgusting. Southwest
Carolina said they're in the process of reaching out to
all the passengers on the flight to apologize. But what
where are we at in society where it's like, now,
I'll just do it here right here?
Speaker 3 (09:27):
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (09:28):
Just I mean, can you imagine being the person is
sitting you know, you're in thirty seven A and you
look over.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
You're like, oh my god, what are you doing?
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Jail time?
Speaker 4 (09:37):
Right? Like what?
Speaker 2 (09:38):
And then and then you like, I don't know if
you're trapped by the window and the person's in the middle, like,
I don't know what you're supposed to do?
Speaker 4 (09:45):
Terrible.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Scientists confirm that young female marijuana users get the monkeys.
Can't confirm, I guess I'm a young female marijuana user. Then, allegedly,
young women who use cannabis are more likely to binge
eat compared to those who don't.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
I'm really glad we're doing research on this, right.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
They found that twenty four percent of young women who
used weed reported binge eating, versus thirteen percent of non users. Interestingly,
this wasn't really the case for guys. No big difference there.
I don't know, but what a study like here, here's
a bunch of THHC and then some donuts and pizzas and.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
Whatever else you want. You know, here you go. Did
you ever have to do in college?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Because I was a psychology minor and maybe because I
was hanging around the department, But like the master students
and the doctoral students had to do experiments and they
were like not you know, zappi in the head experiments.
It wasn't like electrolysis or whatever, but it was they
had to and then you got extra credit if you'd
do though, you got to do that. Yeah, we had
to do that too. No one ever asked me to
do this. One was like, hey, hey, go in the
(10:45):
room and just have at it. Man, Like there you go,
like smoke a little bit of that and then we
got all the food you could ever want to eat.
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Have fun.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
We're just gonna watch. Nobody ever asked me to do
that one. Mine were ones that we're on like computers
and stuff. It was like what do you see flashing?
And I don't know, I know, whatever, tell me what
I was doing or why, like if I did.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
It right or if I was right right. No one
ever told me. No one ever told me if I
was crazy or not.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
A bakery is the biggest stories of the day at
bakery in South Jersey's acting customers who wear strong perfume
and cologne to use the drive throom instead of coming
in the business made the request on their Facebook page
earlier this month, and several of their employees suffered asthma
attacks due to some of the strong sense from the customers.
One of the asthma tacks was so serious employees almost
(11:29):
had to call nine one one. So the owner says, Hey,
if you use a lot of stuff, then you got
to you gotta go through the drive through. But what's
worse somebody who wears too much or somebody who doesn't
have any or enough? Like would you rather someone who
smells like a department store fragrance aisle or section, or
somebody who smells like bo I would rather the overwhelming
sense of stench of a fragrance option?
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Yeah? No, Granted I'm not allergic to it buys me headaches.
Speaker 5 (11:56):
They both do. Bo bo does, though you've never got
a headache.
Speaker 8 (11:59):
Was someone just smells so bad and you want to
be mean, but you're like, okay, not my head hurts
now I can't see straight, like you can't you never have?
Speaker 6 (12:05):
That's I get it from per strong perfume. So I
don't think it doesn't cover bo by the way we
smell your bo in.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
That's the other question I asked myself when someone really
smells overwhelmingly like like products, I'm like, what are we
covering up?
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Like what's going on? Like why? Why do you know most.
Speaker 2 (12:23):
People can take a shower and that smell goes away,
So why does it that you took a shower and
you douse yourself in you know, clorox or whatever. I
don't know, whatever. Why does it smell like a forest
always everywhere? I'm talking about people in general? Don't look
at me like that. In the Manhattan based company spot
in Tango is looking for an intern to evaluate dog
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That job posting shares. They're looking for someone who has
a nose that can detect even the faintest hinted funk
to help them take canine oral hygiene to the next level.
Twenty five bucks an hour and unlimited puppy kiss as
they're saying, but I will say even our dogs at
home that I love, their breath is not inexcusable. Like
(13:09):
I love those dogs, but when they get up in
my face with nasty ass breath like that, that doesn't
my love for them doesn't exceed their nasty breath. I
will tell you it's.
Speaker 6 (13:18):
No better than bad people breath though, Like I would
have no issue doing this.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
Study, like, yeah, especially if it's your dog.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
Yeah, but they said that about kids too, like you know,
if it's your kid's poop or your kid's puke or whatever,
like somehow it's different.
Speaker 4 (13:30):
I don't know if I believe that.
Speaker 8 (13:31):
I confirm, Yeah, it's true. It gets in my nails
and stuff. I would never be okay with that if
it was someone else's baby. When it's yours, I just
think you're like, I don't know, it's survival at this
point instincts.
Speaker 4 (13:41):
So that's why you smell like.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
Like beyond poop.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
Yah.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Oh no, that's why you smell like the Macy's fragrance count.
You mean I didn't talk to you about that? Yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 4 (14:04):
Order a fresh show. It's all right, honorable, take it over.
Speaker 9 (14:14):
All right, let's get in the courtroom. The gavel has
been hit. It says, hey, ki ki, am I wrong
for not lying to my brother about what really happened
at his fiance's bachelor party.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
My brother is getting married in July.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
However, he just called off the wedding because I told
him the truth about what really happened at my future
sister and lows bachelorette party, and now I feel bad.
A week ago, I attended the bachelorette party, and although
I helped plan the evening, I was not a part
of the team that hired the strippers. Her sister decided
to surprise the bride with two exotic dancers, one male
(14:48):
and one female. As you can imagine, you know, yeah,
that's yeah. As you can imagine, the party got wild,
so wild that the night ended with my sister in
law hooking up with the female exotic dancer. The woman
actually spent the night with us at the Airbnb, and
(15:09):
I saw her do the Walk of shame. The next
morning from my sister in law's bedroom. Well, my brother
texts me and asked me how did the night go?
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Various various different answers, Ye, different different for different folks.
Speaker 4 (15:25):
This evening I told him.
Speaker 9 (15:27):
She said, I told him the truth and he lost it.
He called off the wedding. And now I feel like
a terrible person and my entire family is mad at
me for telling him.
Speaker 5 (15:37):
Was I wrong?
Speaker 4 (15:38):
No?
Speaker 2 (15:39):
I mean there are one hundred layers of issues here.
We had a lot of things going on. But judge, Kiky,
what say you? I mean, it's your it's your thing.
Speaker 4 (15:45):
What do you think?
Speaker 9 (15:46):
I'm a girl's girl until it comes to my brothers.
Not gonna lie, you know what I'm saying. Hey, I
we those are my brothers. So if I'm a part
of your bridal party, you want to be a freak,
you need to let me.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
Go home because I'm snitching.
Speaker 9 (15:58):
I'm sorry, especially if he if he didn't ask me,
I still would have told him. But hey, the point
that he asked me how the night went, Hey, I
think you should know that you're marrying a little freak
before you know.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
And look, you could be into what you're into.
Speaker 9 (16:12):
Some couples are into it together, but I need to
at least tell my brother and then however he reacts
is how he reacts.
Speaker 7 (16:18):
Now.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
I hate that he called the wedding off.
Speaker 9 (16:20):
We then bought these bridesmaids dresses and Dames Bridle, all
this stuff going on.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
And I can't live. I shouldn't have to live with that.
You can't.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
I shouldn't. Don't do that, Like that's sloppy. If you're
gonna do something like that, don't do that in front
of a sibling.
Speaker 10 (16:33):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
Yeah, like there's familial obligation. Yeah, kln, I was sorry.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
I didn't mean to cull you off.
Speaker 6 (16:38):
I would probably give them the opportunity to tell my brother.
Oh four, That's the only thing I would have done differently.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Oh so you'd say, like, look, I give you a week,
like you'd handle this.
Speaker 4 (16:47):
I can't. I don't.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
I shouldn't have to live with that. Last rested up,
like you need to go. You got you had a week?
Speaker 9 (16:53):
Yes, chrayah, times up. You let the lady spend the
night you didn't like you. This is so sloppy on
so many levels. And I know some people say what
happens at a bachelorette weekend? Or a bachelor party, it
stays there. Not when it's my brother. No, sorry, I'm
here for it.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
Three five.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
So I guess the question really is, was this woman
obligated to keep this secret.
Speaker 9 (17:18):
Right as a mept she's a member of the bridal party,
she's at the bachelorette party.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
Sloppy, there's dr there. You're doing this in front of everybody.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
In front of everybody, because you know how.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
I feel about it.
Speaker 2 (17:29):
You know how I feel if you are truly self
aware enough to recognize it that you cheated and it
was a one time deal and they were extenuating circuit
extenuating circumstances and you screwed up and you were drunk
or whatever. I'm not saying these are excuses. You get
to live with that, But I'm saying, if you mess
up one time then and no one else knows about
(17:49):
it but you and the other person, and you're never
gonna see the other person again, and then I, honestly
I think you have to live with that. I don't
think you go ruin somebody else's life because you betrayed them.
But if you're gonna be sloppy enough to do it
in front of a bunch of other people that I
don't know why it's up to them to have to
keep your secret. That is not cool to do to
your friends. No, you know, like if I had a
(18:10):
friend who was just openly cheating on his wife and
I'm around for this and I'm friends with both of them,
I would say something.
Speaker 4 (18:17):
I'd be like, we can't.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
I'm not doing this with you, Like I don't need
to be culpable because here's the problem, Like I don't
know what the rules are and I don't know what
the thing is. And then someday she can find out
that that I knew that you were doing this, and
now I'm as bad as you are almost now, Like,
don't put me in that spot.
Speaker 3 (18:31):
I have been on.
Speaker 6 (18:32):
Bachelor at parties where there have been let's say, a
stripper or two, and we were somewhere and the bride
to be gets a dance that the future.
Speaker 5 (18:41):
Husband would not be happy with.
Speaker 6 (18:43):
Right now, there's no cheating, no nothing, but we know that,
like the husband.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
Would not be happy. I'm not talking about that.
Speaker 9 (18:49):
You never tell that, you know, No, you keep those
videos on your phone and you girls laugh in a
group chat, and it never makes it to nice the video.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
There's no video.
Speaker 5 (18:58):
No, we have video. I have a video, yeah, and
I will never show it.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
Never, never.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (19:03):
But if you actually sleep with somebody that I mean hey, right,
and the way she probably did, she probably thought like,
oh it's a woman, maybe he won't be mad, right,
you know, it's not a big deal because it's a one.
Speaker 3 (19:14):
No, he said it was a big deal.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
No, cheating is cheating sucks. Cheating is cheering even quiet?
Speaker 1 (19:19):
Oh yeah, no, I mean I once you cheat in
front of me, like I'm telling everyone, Oh.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Like everyone, everyone involved. I'll keep that in mind. Not
even not even just people.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Involved, everybody, No, especially if you w everyone's being told.
But if you're that stupid and blatant to do it
like in front of your friends, and I'm sure there
were some of her own family there, like you're just dominant.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Layer and that's just inconsiderate and none cool. But family
is another thing, like that's what doing Like how comfortable
do you think you are here?
Speaker 9 (19:56):
And I think that's another valuable lesson about in laws, right,
because at the end of the day, I love my
sister in law down you know, I love her like
a sister.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
But when if it come down. That's my brother, you know,
my blood brother.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
Well that's the thing. Why are you making me have
to live with this too? So now I get to
betray my sibling too. Right now, I know I didn't
do it. But if I saw it and know about it,
and then ten years from now it comes out. Oh
and by the way, Fred, he was there, he saw it. Really,
you let me do all this life with this individual
who did this terrible thing to me, and you didn't
say anything. Now you could argue, Look, I wanted to
(20:31):
stay out of it, like I honestly, it's none of
my business, Like this is between you two. I don't know,
but I don't think that would fly. I don't think
that would fly. So I'm not willing to lose my
familial relationship over your indiscretion. No, I am not not happening, hey, Robin,
Hi Hi.
Speaker 10 (20:48):
I think that the flip side to this is if
the tables were turned, like, she's really not going to
be mad if she thought, you know what I mean,
Like if her if he her brother was at his
bachelor party and he went home with either sex and
male or female and the same thing happened, you were
going to say that she wouldn't call off the wedding
and be completely but her about it too, Like that's
(21:09):
the part. She's only mad because she got caught, not
because she's not looking at it from the perspective. If
he would have done it, what would I have done?
Speaker 5 (21:18):
Well, you would not have that's true.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
I mean, we're not even talking about that because right, right,
But of course if it had been the other way
around and she'd walk, then it would have been understanding.
Speaker 10 (21:30):
So I'm with Kaitlin, either you tell or I'm.
Speaker 11 (21:32):
Going to tell for you.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
I liked that that's the plan that I think it
works well because it's like, look, I'm giving you the
option to do this your way. Now. The only time
that backfires is if you're somehow involved and then they
decided to change the story up because I've heard about
this happening where they get a little crafty with the
story and then somehow winds up in your face and
you're like, now wait a minute, hol about a second,
because they're you know, they want to get you out
(21:54):
of the picture because so somehow it was your fault
and then you wind up I've heard of this happening before.
That's the only problem letting somebody with giving them the ultimatum, Hey,
you either have to tell the truth or I will,
because sometimes it winds up where like you now, it's
your word against somebody else.
Speaker 9 (22:09):
Right, Frank so drunk and lit, you know, giving me
drinks and next thing, you know, and he didn't stop us.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
You know, he knew that lady was in the room
with me and he didn't stop it.
Speaker 10 (22:18):
Then and you can't go out with my sister anymore, right, Yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
Yeah, yeah, to do. Thank you so much, have a
good day.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Yeah. But I think my biggest takeaway from this segment
is Jason may or may not be invited to my
bachelor bar.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
I also don't know if a bachelor party is for me.
I don't know if I give that vibe, but I'm not.
I also want to know, like, did did the stripper
turn this lady out? Or was this something she does
all the time.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
Bigger like some poems.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
There's part of me going did she pay extra for that?
Or was she so hot that the stripper was like, no,
I'm into this, I'm staying because that's a that's a compliment.
Speaker 8 (22:58):
Well, yes, and said, what do you always say you
don't know people's situations, right, like is this the thing?
Speaker 4 (23:06):
But don't put me in that position. But don't put
me in that position.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
If you're advertiser, weren't in an open relationship such that
if I see something, I don't have to live with that.
Speaker 4 (23:15):
Guilt or don't.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
But like you're right, if I witness something like if
I walk into a restaurant and see someone I know
with someone else, or if I witness something and I
don't have the context, I'm probably staying out of that.
Speaker 4 (23:26):
But I was.
Speaker 2 (23:27):
I'm part of a group of people. I watched it happen.
I'm privy to it. Yeah, I can't. I can look
the other way if I don't know, you know, But
I don't think I can look the other way if
I'm there in it. Ashley, Hi, good morning. Hey, so
Kiki's court. What do you think?
Speaker 7 (23:46):
So I feel like it would be like probably brushed
back because it's female and female, so that's considered, you know,
quote Potter, and that's probably why the family is probably
like who cares? Like why would you say something like
it's just a girl with a girl, but like it's cheating,
so cheating?
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Who you did it?
Speaker 9 (24:03):
Was?
Speaker 2 (24:03):
I agree, and she would bother me just the same.
I mean, a guy would probably bother me slightly more,
but they'd both bother me. I'd be like, oh, really,
so you can just hook up with whoever you want,
you know, Like, no, you can't.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
I don't.
Speaker 7 (24:14):
She like the stigma is definitely Like if it was
a guy, it would be no question to ask, Like
the sister is not a jerk, Like, yeah, the wedding
is off, and oh, well, she cheated with a guy.
But because it's the girl of those families, like, why
would you say something like makeing her feel bad? And
it's still the same thing. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
I think people don't give the witnesses enough credit in
these situations, Like if you are going to be I
said this earlier, if you were sloppy enough to do
all this in front of me, then now you've involved
me and now it's on my character.
Speaker 4 (24:48):
So so how about this.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
If you want to be shady, then don't be shady,
but don't don't do in front of me because it
shouldn't infringe upon my values. Your bad decisions in private, Yeah,
thank you, Ashley.
Speaker 4 (24:59):
Yes, he's shady in private. That's add that to the
constitution that.
Speaker 9 (25:04):
They should have ended the party like, oh, we're going
to bed now, everybody go home, and then have the
exotic dancers come after the sister left. But like doing
it in front of her face and then not expecting
her to tell her brother is great.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
Plus I wonder if she was that sister who like,
you've heard me talking about this before. But I can
see it from a mile away if I'm out, you know,
on a summer afternoon, I'm on the patio and I
see the bechelorette group approaching. I can, I can, I am,
I have a gift. I can see the group and
I can tell you, well, the bride's usually wearing something
different and the rest of them are wearing some god
(25:36):
awful matching T shirts or something or you know, just whatever.
I can tell you which which ones are supposed to
be there and which ones were there out of obligation,
because it's like all the girls from like, you know,
they all went to whatever college together, and they're a
on a sorority and they all kind of look the same.
And then over here is the girl in the birkenstocks
with the backpack, and you know, and and she has
(25:58):
nothing one of these kids, is not like the other
that's the sister of the groom.
Speaker 4 (26:02):
Yes, you know or something like.
Speaker 2 (26:03):
That's a person who was obligated to be included, and
and and so you don't have the same bond with
that person that you have with the rest of them.
So don't be messing around because that person knows you
guys nothing.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Law, That's what I mean.
Speaker 8 (26:16):
Law.
Speaker 3 (26:17):
And you you were Colin have a bachelor party.
Speaker 2 (26:19):
So I was just going to say, it's very telling,
and I'm appreciative of it, but I also wonder. I
love the guy, but I was not a I was
not in the I was I officiated the wedding. I
was not a groomsman. I think if I hadn't officiated
the wedding, then I probably would have been forced into
the wedding party, which I would have declined because I
didn't know the guy that well, Like, I didn't deserve
to be up there.
Speaker 5 (26:40):
I don't decline.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
I don't like I don't like that tradition.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
I don't like the tradition where if I have, if
I have as deep of a relationship with with with
the groom as all the other guys that were supposed
to stand up there, then I should stand up there.
But if it's one guy doesn't get to go up
there because I have to because I'm the brother, that's
not cool. I wouldn't like that. That's not fair. It's
not fair to him. It's not fair to me. Wow, Like,
(27:04):
why should I take the spot of somebody who was
like his boy? Like, for example, I've got I don't know.
I don't really know who would stand up with me
if I got married, But I can tell you right now,
if I had to inject a sibling in there, that's
one last person who was really important to me who's
not standing up there.
Speaker 4 (27:18):
And that's not fair. You have both, yeah, because at
some point you're not going to have forty people standing
up there.
Speaker 5 (27:24):
I don't see why not. Well, it's a respect thing.
I think you couldn't say no to that.
Speaker 4 (27:29):
I don't think it. But anyway, I was not invited
to it. I was not invited to the bachelor party.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Oh, I was not invited, and I will say I
had no business.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
Being there for the same reason.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
But again, maybe he was respecting my ability to play
dumb because I don't know what happened there.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
I wasn't there.
Speaker 5 (27:47):
That's now I wonder what he was up to.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
But it was it was all that.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
It was people that he'd known since he was a child, Like, yeah,
I mean these are like deep A couple of guys
he toured the road with a a in a metal band,
like you know, went all over the country for years
with these guys like these are like deep relationships. They
deserve to stand up there. I didn't. I didn't RICO,
how you doing? Hey?
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Bro's hey man, what do you want to say?
Speaker 7 (28:12):
So?
Speaker 4 (28:13):
Thanks for listening.
Speaker 11 (28:13):
So the thing is, so I wanted to say, I
don't think my sister would tell me if that happened
in front of her. I'm kind of basing it off
of our birthdays. It's just last year I got my
birth my sister a real expensive camera. It was like
five hoard bucks. And this year she got me a
(28:35):
pizza cutter. I'm like, bro, wait, bro.
Speaker 4 (28:39):
Wait, what is going about.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
You a pia?
Speaker 4 (28:43):
She got you a pizza cutter.
Speaker 2 (28:44):
So now you're thinking my wife probably should have on
me at the bachelorette party, and I.
Speaker 5 (28:48):
Never know, how do we get here?
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Yeah, she likes you so little that she got you
a pizza cutter, So god knows what else she's harboring.
You know what, I pick it up with what you
pay I hear you give me a pizza cutter?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
What are you hiding?
Speaker 11 (29:03):
Like? I mean, I thought, you know, there's just because
for her birthday. I kind of you know, I think,
I'm like, man't that But I don't think you would
have like yeah, I don't think she would tell me
and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
Man, that's how you know what, I'm gonna go back
and say, look at what of my friends gifted me.
You give me a pizza cutter. You don't care about me.
You are aware that I thank you, Rico, have a
good day. I mean, it just makes a lot of
sense to me.
Speaker 4 (29:30):
Wow, you know
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