May 14, 2025 • 38 mins
Kaelin asks Fred to get a boat because she wants to party on it. An all new Waiting by the Phone leaves Keke in shambles... You won't want to miss this!
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Fred Show, It's the fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Good Morning, went O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number
one hit music station.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Oh we got stuff. We got bills this morning. We
all have bills.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
We have bills every morning, but we're paying your bills
on thousand bucks eight oh five. Your first chance to
win them thirteen chances today, So have us on for
the keyword to get that money. Friday morning. Amy wither
Right from Morning hundred truck Wreck and Amy will be
on the show. We're hooking up moms this month, amazing miracle.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Moms.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Tell us about yours at one O three five KISSFM
dot com. Might be calling you on Friday morning and
hook you up with at least a thousand bucks. It's
supposed to be a thousand bucks. It's never just a
thousand bucks with Amy with the right. Also tickets to
are Kiss FM juneteenth Music Fest. And when you win
tickets to see Ashanti and Morm you sign up to
stay in the Fred Show crash pad at the Virgin Hotels,
(00:50):
which you may be crashing with me in the crash
pad because I didn't know we had one, but now
I want to crash you in my own crash pad,
I'm very interested in that. But yeah, a shanty low Cai,
Maya and Lloyd at Winterrest Arena on June nineteenth. Everybody
can buy tickets to ticketmaster dot com for that. I
had a direction I wanted to go. I always I
(01:10):
always start these things knowing the direction that I want
to go, and I may have absolutely forgotten the direction
I wanted to go. That happens sometimes. Pick a topic, go,
let's talk about it, Kiki. Go pick a topic.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah you your health?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Yeah you that we need to get checked out.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
What about my health?
Speaker 4 (01:26):
You aren't feeling well?
Speaker 2 (01:29):
And are you? Like?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Are you? Are you mentally present?
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I look at you, I go pick a topic and
you look at me like, oh, I have to talk.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You told me to pick a topic. The topic is
your healthy, my health? My health is to get you
to an er right now.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You just don't want to work today, you don't want
to go home, And I don't blame you, but I
think this is better than it's been. Yeah, okay, this
is better than it's been. Yes, But I mean, I
don't know. I'm trying to take I think its salaries.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
We traveled last week. I don't know, it didn't get
any better. I was out there yesterday. I tried to
get out of running yesterday. Trainer Gideon was like, we
were not so it was just me running down the
lake front, you know, going south over there by the
museum and whatever, and just snot running down my face.
He didn't care. He doesn't care. He was yelling at
me at one point, for all these tourists. I'm like,
(02:22):
don't you know I'm a public figure, don't embarrass me.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
No, he doesn't care.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
He did.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
No excuses from this man.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
It's so sad.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Well, you know, he's trying to toughen me up.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
I guess I do need you to go run and
buy us a boat so we could get out on
the water.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Yeah, I'm not I'm not gonna you know. You know,
I don't want I don't need a boat. I don't
need a boat. I don't need a boat. I got
a car and I got other things that break. I
don't need a boat. If you want a boat, we
can rent a boat. Okay, but then you got to
drop me off like halfway through, because I don't want
to be out there all day. Come on, you know,
My issue with the boat is that you go out there,
you're stuck all day.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
You know. It's like you show up there, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
At ten o'clock in the morning when you're coolers, and
you're like, okay, cool, let me go out on the boat.
And we're out there until ten o'clock at night watching
final I mean, I'm I've already slept, taken two naps,
you know, I've had to jump into. The Other thing
is I'm not falling for this thing. You know, you
go on a boat with people, right and if there's
no bathroom on the boat, then the boat comes to
a stop and everybody jumps in at the same time.
(03:18):
Everybody is peeing on each other's mine. It's not fine.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Didn't take me down.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
It's not fine.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I need you to get on with a bathroom, for sure.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
You can't Irish exit a boat.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
No, have you seen that boat that Mark Zuckerberg has
I get that boat? Look up Mark Zuckerberg. Okay, well
no I won't because I don't have eighty billion dollars
or whatever. But no, it's like a four hundred million
dollar boat or something. It's insane. I don't know what
I saw the other day. Like forty eight people can
be on it. People could be on that boat. I've
never even seen or met and never will.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Didn't he get that after Bezos got his Like aren't
they doing like a boat swinging contest?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Well?
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, because every rich guy, every rich guy's got to
have a boat or a sports team or both.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
I don't like his boat. Well, I mean, you look
at Besis.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I think it would. I think it would work for me.
It's a ship. It's not a boat. It's a ship.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Excuse me, it's.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
A cruise ship.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
So sorry, starboard.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Well, it's like eighty feet I mean it's like, I
think it's more than that, like two hundred feet long.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I like Bezels three hundred million dollars there.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
You know, three hundred million dollars.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Wow, Bezos was four hundred million, and it's sexier.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
So that's Robbie.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Okay, Well, you know what.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I was going to buy Zuckerberg's boat, but Kayan doesn't
like it, so I guess I'll scrap that idea. I
just saved three hundred million, thanks Kaylen. No, I'm not
buying a boat. We can rent a boat. I feel
like renting a boat is the financially responsible move, because
otherwise you if you've got a boat sitting out there,
then you got to run there and be on the
boat every weekend. No, no, I'm not going to be
(04:43):
the gray haired guy with a bunch of twenty year
olds on my boat. Everybody can see right through that.
Everybody knows why they're there, and it's not for the
gray haired guy.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
We're going to party, bring the gummies.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
We won't judge you.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
No, no, yes, you will. I would judge me, Yes,
I would. I would judge.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
We're not a you're a land guy.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I'm a land guy. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Maybe air, but maybe a nice couple.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Hours on the boat, you know, just a couple of
little hours, and then I'm good.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I'm all set.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And then bring me back to the dock and I'll
use the land bathroom and go eat some food on land,
and it will be great. I had my nice little time,
went on the boat, got nice little tan, you know,
I had a cocktail something, and then bring me back.
I don't want to be with the same people for
twelve hours peeing on each other.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
That's what the boat is scene.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Okay, Wait, Jason, would you call Zuck and tell him
I don't want the boat anymore. I got it all right,
thank you, because Klein doesn't like it. It's not sexy enough.
Three hundred million dollars ships not sexy enough, So cancel
the purchase. Get on, get on eBay, and forget it.
It's the fread Show. The Fresh Show is on. Not
everybody heard my rant just a second ago about boats,
(05:53):
because Karen wants me to buy a boat, and I
am not going to buy a boat because I don't
want to be I mean, if it's my boat and I'm.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
The captain, that's good, right, well.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Then, but I just don't think it would meet everyone's
expectations because for me, it's like, let's meet up around noon,
Let's go out there for a little while, a couple hours,
then we come back. We're going to hang out the dock.
You know, they got a little dock, bathrooms there or whatever.
That's my thing. I'm not trying to be most of
my friends. You want boats. It's an entire day affair.
I mean they're going from nine am until like eleven
(06:30):
o'clock at night.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Too much time trapped on a vessel.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
That's too much.
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Doesn't Captain Fred have a nice ring to it. It's
your boat. You make the rules.
Speaker 7 (06:39):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I'm not buying a boat. I don't need a boat.
I'll rent a boat when the boat is required. But
then somebody said to me, Fred, how does your boat
logic not transfer to long flights. Well, my thing about
flying long flights I do it all the time as
a pilot, is that I'm getting somewhere. There's a destination,
there's a purpose, there's a utility, correct, you know, like
I'm going.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I went.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
At the end of a long flight, I arrive where
I'm trying to go. Yeah, as we're with the boat,
I come and leave from the same place, leave and
come from the same place we arrived twelve hours later,
right back where we started, except I'm covered in everyone's
year and from the boat.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
You can leave and come do whatever you want and
I'll meet you at noon. I think that nine am
to eleven PM is nuts. I would never, not even
I would do that.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Which I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
People do that a lot of people to an entire
day affair, and I'm not.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I'm not here for that.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
No, we sleeping in, we get the booths started flowing.
You know, we maybe bring some food, you know.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
I mean, Kiki, do you want to be on a
boat for nineteen hours?
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I wouldn't mind it, as long as there's good food,
good music, and a working bathroom.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
You know this panophone charger?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (07:44):
Absolutely? And Wi Fi? Yeah, yeah, I gotta have good WiFi.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Well, where do you think we're going on the boat?
I mean the Wi Fi's in the air like it's
the sky like.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
Oh no, I've been on a cruise ship and I
buy that Wi Fi's because you're.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
In the middle of the ocean. This is lake. I'm
not going out in the middle of the ocean.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
We're gonna be at that for nineteen.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Phoenix, the cat out in the middle of the Pacific.
I'm not trying to do that a guy on TikTok
You know.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
How, you just buy the boat and give us the keys.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
Okay, you know what I'm saying now on this boat,
it's just not you're not passing the vibe check for
the boat right now, so we just need I'm.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Not passing the vibe check for the o my own boat.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
For your boat, Ye, get one with a bad so
you can go downstairs all night night.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
I like that.
Speaker 6 (08:23):
Yeah, And well, you know we'll be upstairs vibe and
when you're ready to re emerge.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Now see now that now we're talking now a boat
that would be big enough, that has like state root
and I don't have this kind of money. Who do
you think I am? Ryan's secret rich? Come on, who
do you think I am? Who do you think I am?
Your boat would be like I get Ryan's crumbs is
what I get? Not even those. But if it had
(08:47):
like rooms. That's why I was suggesting that I was
going to buy Mark Zuckerberg's boat. But you say it's ugly,
so I guess I'll save my three hundred million.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Then we need one room that's for you. When you
get tuckered out, you go downstairs.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Now, now we're talking like if I could go and
maybe watch a little TV, charge your social conditioning, you know,
take a nice nap, like a nice bed, like a
real bed, maybe take a shower, that kind of thing. Like, Okay,
if as long as I could socialize and then and
then disappear and then reappear, that's what we need. What
we're talking about a significant sized boat now.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
Just one bedroom and we'll be upstairs working and whenever
you feel like you need to come back up that's fine.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
We'll have food.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
But y'all think he really he's getting You know me
better than to know that I'm the guy. I'm not
the guy. I'm not quite old enough yet. Nor am
I the guy who's going to buy the boat to
get the twenty year old.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
I'm not that guy. I'm not that guy. I'm not
that guy. Live a little.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I don't need a bunch of people hanging around me
who don't have any interest in me whatsoever except my
stupid boat.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
We'll be there.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
I don't need it for appearances. I need it because
I need it.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Jason and I will do a casting call. He'll put
on his dock.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Market people talk about those guys negatively.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
No, I don't. I'm trying to look one.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
I need one. I'm not that guy.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Those guys do that because they want fake attention and
they want people to think that they're cool. And I
don't need fake attention, and I don't think I'm cool,
so I don't need anyone else to think I'm cool.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Come on, So no, maybe I'll just summer.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
I will rent a nice boat for everyone, and then
we can have a nice day on the boat.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
With a dinghy.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
So you know you write a helicopter pan on it helipads,
so I can, I can.
Speaker 6 (10:22):
You know Paulina is gonna miss when we take off,
but she's still gonna.
Speaker 8 (10:26):
Want to come.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Make true.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
The problem Paulina with the boat is you can't you
can't just pull up.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
That's why I don't like boats, because I'm like, they have.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
To Actually, you'd have to show up on time as
opposed to three and a half hours late.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
I know I used to come in the dinghy to
pick you up and then I have to make my
way back.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
But then you're gonna be all ready to go.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
It's gonna be all that we have helicopters and dinghy's. Well,
this is really become elaborated. They talk better than they
said the bedrooms. These are the radio blogs on The
Fresh Show, a like writing in our diaries, except we
say them aloud. We call them blogs and waiting by
the phone that you can't missus brand new in act
and people are like, oh, why not support for Kiki.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
No you'll hear, yeah, you'll hear.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
I gotta heark y'all left me out there because of
the topic because we don't love you.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Possible you set yourself up, but maybe it's possible. Okay,
Caitlin has a blug take it away, go dear blug.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
So I consider myself a fairly open human. I'm kind
of an oversharer, and so I don't have a lot
of secrets, right, not a lot of secrets with this one.
And sometimes I wish I could hold more water and
you know, be secretive and mysterious, but.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
I'm just not.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
But there is something that I did in my past
while I was in college that has haunted me.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Ever since.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
And what do you do?
Speaker 6 (11:43):
It's something and I know it's not I might be
building it up to where it seems like it's not
that big of a deal to you guys, or maybe
it will, but it's something that's really bothered me.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
I never owned up for it for how long?
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Now twenty years?
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Since I was eighteen, so not twenty they almost twenty years.
Speaker 6 (11:58):
Yeah, I'm thirty three, so a while. But like, if
you're close to me, you know I've talked about it
because I'm like, I've always planned on coming clean about it,
but I don't know how What did you do?
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Okay? So when I was a.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Freshman in college, I was stupid and I was drunk,
and I somehow pretty sure I broke my roommate's computer.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Okay, I the screen, so it.
Speaker 6 (12:23):
Like still worked, but I think I cracked the screen
and I don't remember if I like dropped something on
it or whatever. And at the time, I panicked because
I was like, oh my gosh, like I'm a dumb
college kid. I don't have enough money to fix this.
Like I was panicking, I'm like, my parts are going
to kill me, like my like full disclosure. They were
going through something at home, and so it was just
(12:43):
like I was just like, oh my god, I can't
I can't do this. So I lied and said I
didn't know how it happened. It's and it has eaten
me alive my entire life since them And recently I
had dinner because I was roommates. She was my friend,
she still is my friend, and we had dinner and
we were having some drinks. And I always plan like, okay,
like maybe she'll be a little drunk.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
When I tell her, maybe she'll be you know.
Speaker 6 (13:06):
I always fantasized about coming clean about this because I
felt so bad and it was fine. Her parents like
paid to get a fixed and it was fine and
they had the money to do so, but it was
still really wrong and it ate me alive and it's
not good to do. So I come clean and I
like fantasized about this moment for years, and she goes,
I don't even remember that, my gosh, Like I have
(13:27):
been thinking about this every day since it happened, and
I'm so sorry and I'm a mad person. She's like,
I truly don't remember that happening, but like, thanks for
saying that, and it just it wasn't what I envisioned.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Yeah, that sounds like me. I have to stop myself
from doing it. I've done it recently. I think I've
done it in this room where I'm like, I'm really
sorry that I did this, and it was like, oh,
now that you pointed it out that, oh, I guess
I can see why you would apology, but I didn't
even think of it that way.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
So I called myself out.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
It's like, well, I'm sorry I said that that way,
and it's like, oh, and a person one hundred percent
of the time, and the person's like, oh, I didn't
even think of it that way, but oh, thanks for
the apology.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Then like no, wait, a minute, Well wait a minute, why.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
No, No, if you didn't think of it, then it
doesn't it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
And then I felt so goofy. I'm like, oh, I
did not even bring this.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
Up, but like literally I've thought about it every day
since it happened. I'm like, you're a bad person, Like
you shouldn't have done that, and you lied, but it been.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Something to you, So I think, like that's all that
matters that I think you overcame, like the fear of
saying something and you said, like that stands for something.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
It doesn't matter how maybe the other person didn't care.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I feel like every friendship, relationship, whatever, you've probably done
things that you thought were unsavor that the other person
doesn't care about.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Or forgot about.
Speaker 6 (14:42):
Yeah what I mean, Like I could cry right now,
Like I feel free.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
It was worth it exactly. That is like my deep
dark secret.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
And I know I realized it's not a lot to
other people, but it's something that I've really lived with
being like you're not a good person.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Wow, Well you know I was on the Mell Robin's
algorithm for a minute. I did read and let them book.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yes, me too.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Did you finish it almost you didn't read it.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
It's like twenty minutes left, I'll get there.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
And you also didn't read it. You listened to it,
which is totally different.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
It was nice.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
You can't say I read a book if you listen
to it. I think I've two different things.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I don't think.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
But anyway, she said something about this, and I'm paraphrasing,
but this applies to this in much more deeper issues.
But if a grown up is upset with you about
something and they can't communicate to you what they're upset about,
then you don't have to feel bad about it.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Now.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
That doesn't mean that you shouldn't.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
You can't like say I shouldn't Maybe you know why
they're upset because you did a thing, and it doesn't
mean you can't reflect on that and say I shouldn't
do that, I shouldn't do it again. It doesn't mean
maybe you shouldn't apologize. But if you're unsure why another
adult is mad at you, so like, let's say you know,
you don't know if this person was harboring any resentment
for breaking their computer fifteen years ago, and if they haven't,
(15:59):
if they're not acting any kind of way towards you,
and they haven't communicated that towards you. It's very nice
that you apologize, but it's very well possible they don't
even know what you're talking about, and in this case,
they don't.
Speaker 6 (16:08):
Like I show up in her wedding like I was
a fraud standing up there computer you wire.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
It's not even that your apology, is it. It's not
even that you shouldn't apologize. It's that like you carried
that for that long and it turns out that person
didn't care. So I guess what I'm saying is it
really was a waste of your energy to carry that.
So like as a person who overthinks and has anxiety,
and you know who thinks everybody hates them all the time,
(16:35):
and I think people, I actually think people take advantage
of that. I think people know that I'll beat myself up,
so they punish me that way. But if you don't
tell me why you're angry at me as a grown up,
and I'm not sure how can I feel I can
beat myself up indefinitely about it, or I can say,
you know what, when you're ready to actually communicate what
your issue is, so I can apologize, or I can
(16:55):
rectify that whatever the thing is.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Otherwise it's not fair.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
We all know that thing where we've called the person
and gone, oh my god, I'm so sorry I did
this thing and they're.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Like, you did right, I didn't even know you did that.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
You're like, ah, I mean I didn't you know. So
in this case, it's's, you know, a much more minor
example of like you held out of that for so
long and this person did not care.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Yeah, maybe she did at the time, but yeah, it
was she was like girl past the bread.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
I was like, oh my god. I thought we'd embrace,
and she'd be like, I've been wondering, I.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Think the thing where we beat ourselves up for something
and it turns out that the thing that we thought
isn't even the thing.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
And I was like, oh oh, but I kind of
agree with that.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
It's it's not to say that if you do something
bad that you're not accountable for it, but like if
you're not, if someone's not talking to you, you don't know
why and they won't talk about it, it's like that's
kind of on you then, right, we have.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
To be able to communicate, like, how do.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
You expect an apology from me? If you don't even
tell me which thing it is. I supposedly did.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
That changed my life, that mentality I did. Like my
husband is the king of that. He won't tell me
what the issue is.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
And I've just started just living my life. And I said, okay,
will you figure it out.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
I'm going to go for a walk. I'm a runner now.
Because guys are wondering, I'm gonna go for a run
and get a coffee. Live my life.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Well, there we go. She read a book, but she's
listening to it. She's a runner, but she walks.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Well, I run in, I ran a track star, I
got a baby. It's hard.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
It's hard to run the bb you know, I actually
I believe that it is the hardest.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
I see people with big, big boobs running too.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
I saw a girl with big boobs running yesterday, and
you know, obviously I noticed her right away, but I
actually thought I was like that, no cause because you
were walking, so no, you were this person was actually running.
But but like one bob was going one way and
the other was going the other.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
These were big boobs and it's like I'm just gonning.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
I could see his hand motion of the boobs going.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Really, I actually really legitimately fell for this person because
I'm fighting for my life out there. Yeah, you know,
six and forty pounds man, like just trotting around wanting
to die, right with a very good looking fit black
man going.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Run run once you want two one two.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
He's like trying to get my cadence, And I'm like, dah,
but I see this, and I'm like, that has to
be painful like that, that would really I'm surprised she
didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
Thrown it to the side.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh yeah, well she sounds like she needs a better
sports brow.
Speaker 6 (19:09):
But yeah, if you don't know the pain of running
down the stairs with no bron or something, you know,
I'll never know that.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
You'll never know.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
I know, I get it. Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
But I realized that your your situation was not all
that deep. But I do think the same rules apply,
which is which is that I think we tend to
beat ourselves up for stuff. And it's like, hey, if
you want apology, if you if you want to make
some right, if there's a problem, then tell me what
it is.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Otherwise I'm not good. I can't harbor on it. I can't.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
I can't, I can't dwell on it because I don't
know what I'm because that's the worst thing when you
go and apologize for a bunch of stuff and it's like, oh,
I didn't know you did any of that. Oh no,
I wasn't even mad, or I was mad about something
totally different, and you're like, oh god, well great now
I'm a total peace right. I'm even worse now than
I thought. I was waiting by the phone. You've got
(19:57):
to hear this. Kaky doesn't remember doing it, even though
you didn't twenty five minutes ago. But it's next fread show.
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Honor,
good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
How are you? I'm okay, how are you guys? Good morning?
Do it all right?
Speaker 2 (20:17):
We're trying to figure out what's going on with this
woman Zoe. We got to know everything though.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
How did you meet?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then
where things are now? Yeah, so we met at Amar.
She let me buy her a couple of drinks that night,
and she even gave me your number.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
The next day. I asked him she wanted to go
to dinner? She said yes, But once we.
Speaker 8 (20:41):
Got to the restaurant, she kind of it kind of
changed all of a sudden, and she was like, oh,
I got to be up early, so I can't really
stay long. And then you know, we kind of had
just an appetizer, one drink and we lost. Okay, so
you know, it did it seemed too weird, but I
believed it until you know, she kind of was a
(21:03):
little short after, you know, when we would text, and
then she just stopped responding all together.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
So I'm kind of like, what happened? Okay?
Speaker 2 (21:13):
All right, Well, this is one of those rare occasions
where you guys met in the wild, so because you know,
things can go wrong on the dating apps.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
You know, we've heard it.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
It's a tale so old as time, Pauline, and we've
heard there some people, you know, they meet in person
and they're not the person they said they were. They
don't look the same, or you know, they act weird
or whatever. But you met in person and you pursued
her in that way. And then so so going to
dinner for the second date, if you want to call
it that her first actual date, I mean, it shouldn't
have been much of a surprise to her because you
were a known quantity. She knows what she agreed to
(21:43):
because she met you.
Speaker 8 (21:44):
Yeah, I mean when we had a good conversation that
first night, you know, over a few drinks and probably
three hours worth of just talking.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Yeah, that's strange them. So so you know, it's not
as though she learned something.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
I guess she could have learned something, but it's not
as though when she met you she was instantly not
attracted to you for some reason or whatever else, because again,
she knew. But let's let's call this woman Zoe. You're
gonna be on the phone, Connor, at the same time.
We're gonna ask these questions on your reof and the
hope is that she's been busy or something's been going on,
and we can straighten this out and set you guys
up on sex.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Third day, whatever you wanna call it, and we'll pay
for this, all right.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Trust me, You've got to hear part two of Waiting
by the Phone after Lola Young MESSI back in two
minutes on The Fred Show.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Don't move.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
It's the Fred Show on the radio and the iHeart
app live at anytime. Search for The Fred Show on demand,
make us a pre set, Hey, Connor, all right, welcome back.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
Let's call Zoe.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
You guys met out at a bar, you approached her,
you guys chatted for a while, asked her out, you
go on a date. You felt like she was kind
of rushed on the date for some reason, and then
you haven't heard from her since and you want to
know why.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Yeah, basically, Okay, Well, let's call her now. Good luck?
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Connor? Hello Eli is Zoey. Yeah, hey Zoe, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,
the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need you our permission to continue.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
With the call. He said, okay, if we chat for
a second. Yeah, what what did I win by? Look
at that?
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Look at the excitement? You know, let me see if
you're excited in about thirty seconds. But maybe you may
have won something. We'll see here. But we're calling on
behalf of a guy who reached out to us. His
name is Connor. Do you remember meeting Connor at a
bar and he guys went out. I hope you remember that.
Speaker 5 (23:33):
I remember you do, all right?
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Well, he reached out to us, and he had a
lot of nice things to say about you that he
liked you and was excited to meet you, and said
he approached you and a bar asked you out, got
your number, the whole thing, you guys did go out.
He admits that the date seemed a little rushed and
that he can't get a hold of you. Cents, then,
so can you tell us what happened? Because he's, you know,
he feels like he's being ghosted and smugging him.
Speaker 5 (23:58):
I mean, yeah, I guess I'll just like start from
the beginning.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
I mean, we don't we know how you met, and
we know that you went on a date, but yeah,
what happened on the date? I mean what it sounds
like there's a story here that we don't know, which
is usually the case.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Okay, I mean honestly, he offered to pick me up,
and like, since I already met him in person, I
was like, okay, which normally you know you wouldn't do that, right,
But when I first got into his car, he's brushing
his teeth with a water about all, which I was like, Okay,
that's like.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Weird, But I mean that's the weird thing to do.
You pick somebody up when you're actively brushing your teeth.
In the car at least he wanted to. He was
concerned about his dental hygiene, so that I mean, I
might do that before I arrived, but okay, sure, right,
And so.
Speaker 5 (24:41):
You're like, okay, I guess, like I appreciate that you
care about your breath. But he got some water on
his shirt and he was like, oh no, I'm going
to just grab a fresh shirt in my trunk. And
when I like turned around, I realized, like the backseat
is packed to the brim with stuff, and I was like, oh,
(25:04):
I'm pretty sure he's living out of his car. Oh
oh yeah, And like I'm already with him. I'm in
his car. I'm kind of trapped, and I feel like
I have to go on the date. But immediately I'm
like I have to just like plan make it, like
like I'm so sorry that you know this is happening
to him, but like I just that's not.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
I can't well exactly, it's that's the case. He's not
ashamed of it because he picked you up. I mean,
he could have hidden it. I guess did he pay
for the drinks when you guys went out the first
time he did? Yeah, And then I guess you guys
got through a drink or two or whatever on this date.
Did you did he pay for those?
Speaker 1 (25:39):
He did?
Speaker 3 (25:39):
So he's not broke. I guess.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
I mean let me. I forgot to mention. I'm so forgetful.
Connor is here, so Connor, maybe you can tell us.
Are you living in your car? You know what's going
on with that? I mean, I wouldn't say living in
my car. I do have a lot of right stuff
in my car. I'm kind of in between places right now,
but it's not like she has to worry about that.
(26:04):
I mean, so you are living in your car because
you said I wouldn't say that, but you're in between
so you don't have a place, so you are. I
mean it's everything okay, yeah.
Speaker 8 (26:11):
I mean it's just rent is high right now, and
I'm kind of juggling from one friend's house to another.
I don't sleep in my car or outside anywhere. I
do have, you know, places to go very night. It's
just most of my stuff is in my car.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
And you knew that she was going to see this,
I mean, because you offered to pick her up. So
I guess this isn't something that you see as a concern.
Speaker 8 (26:34):
Well, I mean I don't think it's I'm like, in
the process of getting a place, background checks and stuff
like that have.
Speaker 3 (26:40):
To happen, and it takes a minute. Okay, But it's
not like I'm messy. It's not like my car is
full of trash and stuff. It's just I have some
of my clothes and stuff in there. I see.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Now do you think do you think that's a good
time to be dating? I mean, I just I wonder
because what was going to happen if things went really well?
I mean, do you go back to her place you
kind of move some of your stuff in. I mean,
I'm just asking here. I'm not I'm not judging and
making fun of you. I just kind of wonder, like,
what was the endgame I was.
Speaker 8 (27:10):
Gonna if I went there. I probably would have recommended
us going to her place. I would have said, my roommate,
I don't know. I would have made something up. But
I usually don't end up doing that kind of stuff
on the first.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
Day that anyway, I say, okay, Kiki, where you're not
in your head, you're making noises.
Speaker 7 (27:28):
What they today when you are on somebody else's couch.
It just blows my mind, like I don't understand people
who are in between places. But you got money to
go on a date. No, you need to You need
to be settled in a house and a home with
an address. You're a hobosexual. That's what they called.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Sex.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
That's when you get someone for their place.
Speaker 4 (27:50):
And that's not like he tried to go back to
her house.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
The brush comes in with him, and then.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
That's a former.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
If you don't have your own house.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
That is an excellent point. This is exactly what Jason did,
except it wasn't. It wasn't a slow transition. Jason went
on one date and then he just moved in. You
don't ask that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
You don't have to go back.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
With him.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Let me ask you this fairness, In all fairness, is
there any part of you that's hoping you hit it
off so well with someone that you can stay there
regularly and by yourself some time.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Is that is that part of your game?
Speaker 5 (28:35):
No?
Speaker 8 (28:35):
Absolutely not. First of all, I was at a bar
and like we made eyes from across the bar. It's
not like we met on hims like I'm trying to date.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Drinks the bars bro exactly.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
That's it. That could be a deposit on an apartment.
Speaker 8 (28:48):
Right, it's not that I'm homeless and I don't have money.
Speaker 9 (28:51):
I have money, I have a job. I'm just in
between placements. Okay, I never had hold on a second.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
I don't want to ask Zoe though, Joe, you've been
very quiet on it. So the guy, this is his story.
He's between places. He's not ashamed of it. He says
he has money, he has a job, he's going to
have a place soon. He says, you did like him
enough to, you know, talk to him for a couple
of hours and then go on a date with him.
So let's say that he's very I'm just going to
give him benefit of the douk kiki, and he's very
(29:24):
close to you know, settling down somewhere and establishing a
residence of some kind.
Speaker 3 (29:29):
So what do you think give him another shot?
Speaker 5 (29:32):
I'm going to respectfully decline.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
I don't.
Speaker 8 (29:37):
This guy's having a bit of a time interview because
you call me a homosexual.
Speaker 3 (29:48):
Priority.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
You need an address?
Speaker 4 (29:50):
Where's your mail?
Speaker 3 (29:53):
Thank you for your advice?
Speaker 1 (29:54):
Like, who are you? I got an address?
Speaker 3 (30:04):
A zip sure.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Mary with the gas in that.
Speaker 8 (30:11):
Baby, I have money, Like you're so insensitive and like
no sympathy.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
No empathy.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
But let me see, you're not a drinks You sound great.
Speaker 3 (30:25):
You sound great.
Speaker 8 (30:26):
I'm here everybody waiting in line to get into your
your apartment and.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Try and be with you.
Speaker 4 (30:33):
I got one too, That's how I know how to
spot of money.
Speaker 3 (30:39):
I wish I would have. I'm gonna listening.
Speaker 7 (30:44):
To that trust he's listening because he's driving around all day.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
Oh my god, you're a terrible person. Different to say,
but you're a terrible person.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
I love the roast of keeping this happening right now.
I think you deserve it. This guy's going through a
trade period.
Speaker 4 (31:10):
My god, make sure you got your seat. You shouldn't
have said that.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
Connor, Man, I'm on your side. Okay, Sorry, sorry, Kiky.
I notice you're on the radio or not on TV.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
You got to check my resume.
Speaker 8 (31:32):
But been on TV.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
The last time you watched CVVA.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
No, no, no, my god, he is own home temporarily.
Speaker 2 (31:51):
I honestly, the roast is so entertaining. I kind of
want to leave and let it keep going for a while.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Connor, back and forth.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
My only thing is it.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
May not be putting your best foot forward. That's all
I'm saying. I'm not judging you know what is, but
no one else is judging you.
Speaker 5 (32:08):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
I'm one. I'm supporting you. I'm supporting you. I'm saying
I'm team you.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
And this I just I think maybe you're not putting
yourself in the best position for success when you're not established.
I think that women, men, whomever. I think people in
a partner like to see a little bit of stability.
And I think that's what Zoe is saying. She was
very respectful. The only person here's being disrespectful is Mackitha.
Speaker 8 (32:36):
And like I said, I really like Zoe's always great, okay,
and her position.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
So how about this?
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Yeah, you want to get your priorities in order, friend,
that's all.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
I want you to have a home.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
That's it. That's the process. There you go, there you.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Like Kiki.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
He's done, Bro, he's done, Bro, And that's okay. Look,
here's my advice to you, Connor. Maybe maybe when you
get everything settled, I don't know, try Zoe again and
maybe she'll be available. And Zoe, are you open to that?
Once he gets his you know, stuff in order here,
maybe he calls you maybe. Okay, No, she's not okay,
So she's not only what you what are you doing
(33:25):
to me? Man?
Speaker 5 (33:26):
All right?
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Not open to that.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
Hey, it's all good, Connor, you know, I wish you
the best. She's not gonna be interested, but somebody will.
Everything's gonna be fine. Good luck to you. And please
keep the car radio on us all the time we need,
but I'll try not to look for somebody so superficial.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Oh good lord, Okay, Man, all right, best of luck
to both of you. Yeah, thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
The Entertainment Report is up next and eight hundred and
fifty bucks showbiz, Kiky, you could win all that money
if you can beat her in five pop culture questions.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
That's next as well, Fred Show. Oh no, Caitlin's Entertainment Report,
and he's on the Fread Show.
Speaker 6 (34:04):
Singer Cassie Ventura took the stand in Ditty's trial yesterday,
and she says during their tenure relationship, he forced her
into disturbing freakoffs. That's what he allegedly called arranged sexual
encounters with others that he directed and filmed.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Fueled by drugs.
Speaker 6 (34:18):
They could last up to forty eight hours, and Cassie said, quote,
they became a job. She also described violent outbursts, controlling
behavior and emotional manipulation, right down to what she wore
and how she did her nails behind closed doors. Cassie
says she lived her life in fear of Ditty, who
allegedly abused her mentally and physically during their relationship that
began in two thousand and six and ended in twenty eighteen.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
She says he controlled a lot of my life.
Speaker 6 (34:45):
Prosecutor Emily Johnson showed Duras a still image from that
infamous video of Ditty beating her in a hotel hallway
in twenty sixteen. Cassie said that that incident came from
a freakoff at the hotel. I'll talk more about her
test Moony next hour, and also she is set to
take the stand again this morning, by the way, and
switching gears really quick to a story that made Jason
(35:08):
so happy that he screamed aloud with joy when he
saw it in the studio.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
So I wanted to end on a happy note.
Speaker 6 (35:14):
Hillary Duff is apparently working on new music after ten years.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
I guess she was on a hiatus, so she retired.
Her pop was quite the hiatus right ten years.
Speaker 6 (35:23):
Her husband Matthew Koma actually posted a photo of her
in the studio, and according to him, it's all on
Hillary to quote save millennial pop music.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
Will she do it? I don't know.
Speaker 6 (35:34):
You know, we got a lot of good pop music
right now. But Jason is very happy, and so that's
why I did this story. By the way, ketch up
on everything you missed. Just type the Fred Show on
demand into the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 3 (35:46):
I'm going to say this.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
The polarizing reaction on the on the text, yes, people
are either that was hysterical or Kiky's the worst person ever.
And I don't think you're the worst person ever. Let's
remember now for a second. Now done tof me. I, well,
no you do you do? No, No, I'm not saying
that you don't. But let's just remember one important detail.
This guy was saying that he was choosing this life.
Speaker 5 (36:10):
Right.
Speaker 2 (36:11):
If people were going, oh my god, I guess you'd
never been down on your luck before, that's not what
I was here. I wasn't hearing a guy who didn't
have options. I'm hearing a guy who's choosing this. So
let's just be clear. You know, and and and he
went for you too, so I'm.
Speaker 4 (36:24):
Just he cursed me out like teld me all kind
of profanity and everything.
Speaker 3 (36:29):
All kind of profanity, all kind of profanity.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
He's dating while sleeping, that's my catch.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
But okay, I mean again, we got some people on here,
so I'll never listen again to you, you know that,
not till Keiki goes on vacation. All this stuff you
settled down like, let's saw, let's you saw relaxed for
a second. Okay, because because because there was there was
some back and forth there, and you know, I would
agree they got low ratchet. But but let's remember this
(36:56):
dude wasn't like, Hey, I don't have any money, I
have nowhere to go. He was, I I'm choosing this
for whatever. We couldn't even get an he couldn't even
articulate exactly why. But he has enough money to go
on dates. He says he has enough money to get
an apartment. He just isn't if we believe that, well,
I don't know. I just let's all reach relax for
(37:17):
a second.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Dominique's KIK eight fifty will do it next more breadshell.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
Next prescriptions require an online consultation with a healthcare provider
who will determine if appropriate restriction supplicy website for details
an important safety information.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
Price veries based on product and subscription plan. Hey guys,
let's talk ed.
Speaker 2 (37:36):
Because millions of men experience it, but not everyone can
access or afford treatments like viagra.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Well, hymns can help.
Speaker 3 (37:43):
Through hymns dot com, you can get a full range
of treatment options for ED, including daily or as needed meds,
through a one hundred percent online process. It all starts
with an online intake form.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
Get started at hymns dot com slash joy, and from there,
a medical provider licensed in your state will determine if
D treatment is right for you. If prescribed, your medication
is shipped to you for free.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
Find the ED treatment that fits your needs with options
up to ninety five percent less than the brand names.
Millions of men experienced ED, but hyms can help.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
To start your free online visit and save up to
ninety five percent, go to hymns dot com slash joy
that's hymns dot com slash joy for your free online
visit him s
This is the Fred Show, It's the fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Good Morning, went O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number
one hit music station.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Oh we got stuff. We got bills this morning. We
all have bills.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
We have bills every morning, but we're paying your bills
on thousand bucks eight oh five. Your first chance to
win them thirteen chances today, So have us on for
the keyword to get that money. Friday morning. Amy wither
Right from Morning hundred truck Wreck and Amy will be
on the show. We're hooking up moms this month, amazing miracle.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Moms.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Tell us about yours at one O three five KISSFM
dot com. Might be calling you on Friday morning and
hook you up with at least a thousand bucks. It's
supposed to be a thousand bucks. It's never just a
thousand bucks with Amy with the right. Also tickets to
are Kiss FM juneteenth Music Fest. And when you win
tickets to see Ashanti and Morm you sign up to
stay in the Fred Show crash pad at the Virgin Hotels,
(00:50):
which you may be crashing with me in the crash
pad because I didn't know we had one, but now
I want to crash you in my own crash pad,
I'm very interested in that. But yeah, a shanty low Cai,
Maya and Lloyd at Winterrest Arena on June nineteenth. Everybody
can buy tickets to ticketmaster dot com for that. I
had a direction I wanted to go. I always I
(01:10):
always start these things knowing the direction that I want
to go, and I may have absolutely forgotten the direction
I wanted to go. That happens sometimes. Pick a topic, go,
let's talk about it, Kiki. Go pick a topic.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Yeah you your health?
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Yeah you that we need to get checked out.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
What about my health?
Speaker 4 (01:26):
You aren't feeling well?
Speaker 2 (01:29):
And are you? Like?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Are you? Are you mentally present?
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Like?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
I look at you, I go pick a topic and
you look at me like, oh, I have to talk.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You told me to pick a topic. The topic is
your healthy, my health? My health is to get you
to an er right now.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You just don't want to work today, you don't want
to go home, And I don't blame you, but I
think this is better than it's been. Yeah, okay, this
is better than it's been. Yes, But I mean, I
don't know. I'm trying to take I think its salaries.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
We traveled last week. I don't know, it didn't get
any better. I was out there yesterday. I tried to
get out of running yesterday. Trainer Gideon was like, we
were not so it was just me running down the
lake front, you know, going south over there by the
museum and whatever, and just snot running down my face.
He didn't care. He doesn't care. He was yelling at
me at one point, for all these tourists. I'm like,
(02:22):
don't you know I'm a public figure, don't embarrass me.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
No, he doesn't care.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
He did.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
No excuses from this man.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
It's so sad.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Well, you know, he's trying to toughen me up.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
I guess I do need you to go run and
buy us a boat so we could get out on
the water.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Yeah, I'm not I'm not gonna you know. You know,
I don't want I don't need a boat. I don't
need a boat. I don't need a boat. I got
a car and I got other things that break. I
don't need a boat. If you want a boat, we
can rent a boat. Okay, but then you got to
drop me off like halfway through, because I don't want
to be out there all day. Come on, you know,
My issue with the boat is that you go out there,
you're stuck all day.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
You know. It's like you show up there, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
At ten o'clock in the morning when you're coolers, and
you're like, okay, cool, let me go out on the boat.
And we're out there until ten o'clock at night watching
final I mean, I'm I've already slept, taken two naps,
you know, I've had to jump into. The Other thing
is I'm not falling for this thing. You know, you
go on a boat with people, right and if there's
no bathroom on the boat, then the boat comes to
a stop and everybody jumps in at the same time.
(03:18):
Everybody is peeing on each other's mine. It's not fine.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Didn't take me down.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
It's not fine.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I need you to get on with a bathroom, for sure.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
You can't Irish exit a boat.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
No, have you seen that boat that Mark Zuckerberg has
I get that boat? Look up Mark Zuckerberg. Okay, well
no I won't because I don't have eighty billion dollars
or whatever. But no, it's like a four hundred million
dollar boat or something. It's insane. I don't know what
I saw the other day. Like forty eight people can
be on it. People could be on that boat. I've
never even seen or met and never will.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Didn't he get that after Bezos got his Like aren't
they doing like a boat swinging contest?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Well?
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, because every rich guy, every rich guy's got to
have a boat or a sports team or both.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
I don't like his boat. Well, I mean, you look
at Besis.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I think it would. I think it would work for me.
It's a ship. It's not a boat. It's a ship.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Excuse me, it's.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
A cruise ship.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
So sorry, starboard.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Well, it's like eighty feet I mean it's like, I
think it's more than that, like two hundred feet long.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
I like Bezels three hundred million dollars there.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
You know, three hundred million dollars.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
Wow, Bezos was four hundred million, and it's sexier.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
So that's Robbie.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Okay, Well, you know what.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I was going to buy Zuckerberg's boat, but Kayan doesn't
like it, so I guess I'll scrap that idea. I
just saved three hundred million, thanks Kaylen. No, I'm not
buying a boat. We can rent a boat. I feel
like renting a boat is the financially responsible move, because
otherwise you if you've got a boat sitting out there,
then you got to run there and be on the
boat every weekend. No, no, I'm not going to be
(04:43):
the gray haired guy with a bunch of twenty year
olds on my boat. Everybody can see right through that.
Everybody knows why they're there, and it's not for the
gray haired guy.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
We're going to party, bring the gummies.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
We won't judge you.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
No, no, yes, you will. I would judge me, Yes,
I would. I would judge.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
We're not a you're a land guy.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I'm a land guy. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Maybe air, but maybe a nice couple.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Hours on the boat, you know, just a couple of
little hours, and then I'm good.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I'm all set.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
And then bring me back to the dock and I'll
use the land bathroom and go eat some food on land,
and it will be great. I had my nice little time,
went on the boat, got nice little tan, you know,
I had a cocktail something, and then bring me back.
I don't want to be with the same people for
twelve hours peeing on each other.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
That's what the boat is scene.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Okay, Wait, Jason, would you call Zuck and tell him
I don't want the boat anymore. I got it all right,
thank you, because Klein doesn't like it. It's not sexy enough.
Three hundred million dollars ships not sexy enough, So cancel
the purchase. Get on, get on eBay, and forget it.
It's the fread Show. The Fresh Show is on. Not
everybody heard my rant just a second ago about boats,
(05:53):
because Karen wants me to buy a boat, and I
am not going to buy a boat because I don't
want to be I mean, if it's my boat and I'm.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
The captain, that's good, right, well.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Then, but I just don't think it would meet everyone's
expectations because for me, it's like, let's meet up around noon,
Let's go out there for a little while, a couple hours,
then we come back. We're going to hang out the dock.
You know, they got a little dock, bathrooms there or whatever.
That's my thing. I'm not trying to be most of
my friends. You want boats. It's an entire day affair.
I mean they're going from nine am until like eleven
(06:30):
o'clock at night.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Too much time trapped on a vessel.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
That's too much.
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Doesn't Captain Fred have a nice ring to it. It's
your boat. You make the rules.
Speaker 7 (06:39):
You know.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
I'm not buying a boat. I don't need a boat.
I'll rent a boat when the boat is required. But
then somebody said to me, Fred, how does your boat
logic not transfer to long flights. Well, my thing about
flying long flights I do it all the time as
a pilot, is that I'm getting somewhere. There's a destination,
there's a purpose, there's a utility, correct, you know, like
I'm going.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I went.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
At the end of a long flight, I arrive where
I'm trying to go. Yeah, as we're with the boat,
I come and leave from the same place, leave and
come from the same place we arrived twelve hours later,
right back where we started, except I'm covered in everyone's
year and from the boat.
Speaker 6 (07:15):
You can leave and come do whatever you want and
I'll meet you at noon. I think that nine am
to eleven PM is nuts. I would never, not even
I would do that.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Which I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
People do that a lot of people to an entire
day affair, and I'm not.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
I'm not here for that.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
No, we sleeping in, we get the booths started flowing.
You know, we maybe bring some food, you know.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
I mean, Kiki, do you want to be on a
boat for nineteen hours?
Speaker 7 (07:37):
I wouldn't mind it, as long as there's good food,
good music, and a working bathroom.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
You know this panophone charger?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (07:44):
Absolutely? And Wi Fi? Yeah, yeah, I gotta have good WiFi.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Well, where do you think we're going on the boat?
I mean the Wi Fi's in the air like it's
the sky like.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
Oh no, I've been on a cruise ship and I
buy that Wi Fi's because you're.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
In the middle of the ocean. This is lake. I'm
not going out in the middle of the ocean.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
We're gonna be at that for nineteen.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
Phoenix, the cat out in the middle of the Pacific.
I'm not trying to do that a guy on TikTok
You know.
Speaker 4 (08:06):
How, you just buy the boat and give us the keys.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
Okay, you know what I'm saying now on this boat,
it's just not you're not passing the vibe check for
the boat right now, so we just need I'm.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Not passing the vibe check for the o my own boat.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
For your boat, Ye, get one with a bad so
you can go downstairs all night night.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
I like that.
Speaker 6 (08:23):
Yeah, And well, you know we'll be upstairs vibe and
when you're ready to re emerge.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Now see now that now we're talking now a boat
that would be big enough, that has like state root
and I don't have this kind of money. Who do
you think I am? Ryan's secret rich? Come on, who
do you think I am? Who do you think I am?
Your boat would be like I get Ryan's crumbs is
what I get? Not even those. But if it had
(08:47):
like rooms. That's why I was suggesting that I was
going to buy Mark Zuckerberg's boat. But you say it's ugly,
so I guess I'll save my three hundred million.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Then we need one room that's for you. When you
get tuckered out, you go downstairs.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Now, now we're talking like if I could go and
maybe watch a little TV, charge your social conditioning, you know,
take a nice nap, like a nice bed, like a
real bed, maybe take a shower, that kind of thing. Like, Okay,
if as long as I could socialize and then and
then disappear and then reappear, that's what we need. What
we're talking about a significant sized boat now.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
Just one bedroom and we'll be upstairs working and whenever
you feel like you need to come back up that's fine.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
We'll have food.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
But y'all think he really he's getting You know me
better than to know that I'm the guy. I'm not
the guy. I'm not quite old enough yet. Nor am
I the guy who's going to buy the boat to
get the twenty year old.
Speaker 3 (09:37):
I'm not that guy. I'm not that guy. I'm not
that guy. Live a little.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
I'm not.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
I don't need a bunch of people hanging around me
who don't have any interest in me whatsoever except my
stupid boat.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
We'll be there.
Speaker 3 (09:48):
I don't need it for appearances. I need it because
I need it.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Jason and I will do a casting call. He'll put
on his dock.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Market people talk about those guys negatively.
Speaker 4 (09:58):
No, I don't. I'm trying to look one.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
I need one. I'm not that guy.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Those guys do that because they want fake attention and
they want people to think that they're cool. And I
don't need fake attention, and I don't think I'm cool,
so I don't need anyone else to think I'm cool.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Come on, So no, maybe I'll just summer.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
I will rent a nice boat for everyone, and then
we can have a nice day on the boat.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
With a dinghy.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
So you know you write a helicopter pan on it helipads,
so I can, I can.
Speaker 6 (10:22):
You know Paulina is gonna miss when we take off,
but she's still gonna.
Speaker 8 (10:26):
Want to come.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Make true.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
The problem Paulina with the boat is you can't you
can't just pull up.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
That's why I don't like boats, because I'm like, they have.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
To Actually, you'd have to show up on time as
opposed to three and a half hours late.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
I know I used to come in the dinghy to
pick you up and then I have to make my
way back.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
But then you're gonna be all ready to go.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
It's gonna be all that we have helicopters and dinghy's. Well,
this is really become elaborated. They talk better than they
said the bedrooms. These are the radio blogs on The
Fresh Show, a like writing in our diaries, except we
say them aloud. We call them blogs and waiting by
the phone that you can't missus brand new in act
and people are like, oh, why not support for Kiki.
Speaker 3 (11:04):
No you'll hear, yeah, you'll hear.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
I gotta heark y'all left me out there because of
the topic because we don't love you.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Possible you set yourself up, but maybe it's possible. Okay,
Caitlin has a blug take it away, go dear blug.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
So I consider myself a fairly open human. I'm kind
of an oversharer, and so I don't have a lot
of secrets, right, not a lot of secrets with this one.
And sometimes I wish I could hold more water and
you know, be secretive and mysterious, but.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
I'm just not.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
But there is something that I did in my past
while I was in college that has haunted me.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Ever since.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
And what do you do?
Speaker 6 (11:43):
It's something and I know it's not I might be
building it up to where it seems like it's not
that big of a deal to you guys, or maybe
it will, but it's something that's really bothered me.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
I never owned up for it for how long?
Speaker 3 (11:53):
Now twenty years?
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Since I was eighteen, so not twenty they almost twenty years.
Speaker 6 (11:58):
Yeah, I'm thirty three, so a while. But like, if
you're close to me, you know I've talked about it
because I'm like, I've always planned on coming clean about it,
but I don't know how What did you do?
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Okay? So when I was a.
Speaker 6 (12:11):
Freshman in college, I was stupid and I was drunk,
and I somehow pretty sure I broke my roommate's computer.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Okay, I the screen, so it.
Speaker 6 (12:23):
Like still worked, but I think I cracked the screen
and I don't remember if I like dropped something on
it or whatever. And at the time, I panicked because
I was like, oh my gosh, like I'm a dumb
college kid. I don't have enough money to fix this.
Like I was panicking, I'm like, my parts are going
to kill me, like my like full disclosure. They were
going through something at home, and so it was just
(12:43):
like I was just like, oh my god, I can't
I can't do this. So I lied and said I
didn't know how it happened. It's and it has eaten
me alive my entire life since them And recently I
had dinner because I was roommates. She was my friend,
she still is my friend, and we had dinner and
we were having some drinks. And I always plan like, okay,
like maybe she'll be a little drunk.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
When I tell her, maybe she'll be you know.
Speaker 6 (13:06):
I always fantasized about coming clean about this because I
felt so bad and it was fine. Her parents like
paid to get a fixed and it was fine and
they had the money to do so, but it was
still really wrong and it ate me alive and it's
not good to do. So I come clean and I
like fantasized about this moment for years, and she goes,
I don't even remember that, my gosh, Like I have
(13:27):
been thinking about this every day since it happened, and
I'm so sorry and I'm a mad person. She's like,
I truly don't remember that happening, but like, thanks for
saying that, and it just it wasn't what I envisioned.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Yeah, that sounds like me. I have to stop myself
from doing it. I've done it recently. I think I've
done it in this room where I'm like, I'm really
sorry that I did this, and it was like, oh,
now that you pointed it out that, oh, I guess
I can see why you would apology, but I didn't
even think of it that way.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
So I called myself out.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
It's like, well, I'm sorry I said that that way,
and it's like, oh, and a person one hundred percent
of the time, and the person's like, oh, I didn't
even think of it that way, but oh, thanks for
the apology.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Then like no, wait, a minute, Well wait a minute, why.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
No, No, if you didn't think of it, then it
doesn't it didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
And then I felt so goofy. I'm like, oh, I
did not even bring this.
Speaker 6 (14:17):
Up, but like literally I've thought about it every day
since it happened. I'm like, you're a bad person, Like
you shouldn't have done that, and you lied, but it been.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Something to you, So I think, like that's all that
matters that I think you overcame, like the fear of
saying something and you said, like that stands for something.
Speaker 1 (14:33):
It doesn't matter how maybe the other person didn't care.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
I feel like every friendship, relationship, whatever, you've probably done
things that you thought were unsavor that the other person
doesn't care about.
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Or forgot about.
Speaker 6 (14:42):
Yeah what I mean, Like I could cry right now,
Like I feel free.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
It was worth it exactly. That is like my deep
dark secret.
Speaker 6 (14:52):
And I know I realized it's not a lot to
other people, but it's something that I've really lived with
being like you're not a good person.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Wow, Well you know I was on the Mell Robin's
algorithm for a minute. I did read and let them book.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yes, me too.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Did you finish it almost you didn't read it.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
It's like twenty minutes left, I'll get there.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
And you also didn't read it. You listened to it,
which is totally different.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
It was nice.
Speaker 2 (15:15):
You can't say I read a book if you listen
to it. I think I've two different things.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
I don't think.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
But anyway, she said something about this, and I'm paraphrasing,
but this applies to this in much more deeper issues.
But if a grown up is upset with you about
something and they can't communicate to you what they're upset about,
then you don't have to feel bad about it.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
Now.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
That doesn't mean that you shouldn't.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
You can't like say I shouldn't Maybe you know why
they're upset because you did a thing, and it doesn't
mean you can't reflect on that and say I shouldn't
do that, I shouldn't do it again. It doesn't mean
maybe you shouldn't apologize. But if you're unsure why another
adult is mad at you, so like, let's say you know,
you don't know if this person was harboring any resentment
for breaking their computer fifteen years ago, and if they haven't,
(15:59):
if they're not acting any kind of way towards you,
and they haven't communicated that towards you. It's very nice
that you apologize, but it's very well possible they don't
even know what you're talking about, and in this case,
they don't.
Speaker 6 (16:08):
Like I show up in her wedding like I was
a fraud standing up there computer you wire.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
It's not even that your apology, is it. It's not
even that you shouldn't apologize. It's that like you carried
that for that long and it turns out that person
didn't care. So I guess what I'm saying is it
really was a waste of your energy to carry that.
So like as a person who overthinks and has anxiety,
and you know who thinks everybody hates them all the time,
(16:35):
and I think people, I actually think people take advantage
of that. I think people know that I'll beat myself up,
so they punish me that way. But if you don't
tell me why you're angry at me as a grown up,
and I'm not sure how can I feel I can
beat myself up indefinitely about it, or I can say,
you know what, when you're ready to actually communicate what
your issue is, so I can apologize, or I can
(16:55):
rectify that whatever the thing is.
Speaker 1 (16:57):
Otherwise it's not fair.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
We all know that thing where we've called the person
and gone, oh my god, I'm so sorry I did
this thing and they're.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
Like, you did right, I didn't even know you did that.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
You're like, ah, I mean I didn't you know. So
in this case, it's's, you know, a much more minor
example of like you held out of that for so
long and this person did not care.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Yeah, maybe she did at the time, but yeah, it
was she was like girl past the bread.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
I was like, oh my god. I thought we'd embrace,
and she'd be like, I've been wondering, I.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
Think the thing where we beat ourselves up for something
and it turns out that the thing that we thought
isn't even the thing.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
And I was like, oh oh, but I kind of
agree with that.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
It's it's not to say that if you do something
bad that you're not accountable for it, but like if
you're not, if someone's not talking to you, you don't know
why and they won't talk about it, it's like that's
kind of on you then, right, we have.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
To be able to communicate, like, how do.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
You expect an apology from me? If you don't even
tell me which thing it is. I supposedly did.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
That changed my life, that mentality I did. Like my
husband is the king of that. He won't tell me
what the issue is.
Speaker 4 (17:55):
And I've just started just living my life. And I said, okay,
will you figure it out.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
I'm going to go for a walk. I'm a runner now.
Because guys are wondering, I'm gonna go for a run
and get a coffee. Live my life.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Well, there we go. She read a book, but she's
listening to it. She's a runner, but she walks.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Well, I run in, I ran a track star, I
got a baby. It's hard.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
It's hard to run the bb you know, I actually
I believe that it is the hardest.
Speaker 3 (18:16):
I see people with big, big boobs running too.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
I saw a girl with big boobs running yesterday, and
you know, obviously I noticed her right away, but I
actually thought I was like that, no cause because you
were walking, so no, you were this person was actually running.
But but like one bob was going one way and
the other was going the other.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
These were big boobs and it's like I'm just gonning.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
I could see his hand motion of the boobs going.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Really, I actually really legitimately fell for this person because
I'm fighting for my life out there. Yeah, you know,
six and forty pounds man, like just trotting around wanting
to die, right with a very good looking fit black
man going.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Run run once you want two one two.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
He's like trying to get my cadence, And I'm like, dah,
but I see this, and I'm like, that has to
be painful like that, that would really I'm surprised she
didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
Thrown it to the side.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh yeah, well she sounds like she needs a better
sports brow.
Speaker 6 (19:09):
But yeah, if you don't know the pain of running
down the stairs with no bron or something, you know,
I'll never know that.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
You'll never know.
Speaker 3 (19:15):
I know, I get it. Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
But I realized that your your situation was not all
that deep. But I do think the same rules apply,
which is which is that I think we tend to
beat ourselves up for stuff. And it's like, hey, if
you want apology, if you if you want to make
some right, if there's a problem, then tell me what
it is.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
Otherwise I'm not good. I can't harbor on it. I can't.
Speaker 2 (19:37):
I can't, I can't dwell on it because I don't
know what I'm because that's the worst thing when you
go and apologize for a bunch of stuff and it's like, oh,
I didn't know you did any of that. Oh no,
I wasn't even mad, or I was mad about something
totally different, and you're like, oh god, well great now
I'm a total peace right. I'm even worse now than
I thought. I was waiting by the phone. You've got
(19:57):
to hear this. Kaky doesn't remember doing it, even though
you didn't twenty five minutes ago. But it's next fread show.
Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Honor,
good morning, welcome to the program.
Speaker 3 (20:14):
How are you? I'm okay, how are you guys? Good morning?
Do it all right?
Speaker 2 (20:17):
We're trying to figure out what's going on with this
woman Zoe. We got to know everything though.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
How did you meet?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Tell us about any dates you've been on, and then
where things are now? Yeah, so we met at Amar.
She let me buy her a couple of drinks that night,
and she even gave me your number.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
The next day. I asked him she wanted to go
to dinner? She said yes, But once we.
Speaker 8 (20:41):
Got to the restaurant, she kind of it kind of
changed all of a sudden, and she was like, oh,
I got to be up early, so I can't really
stay long. And then you know, we kind of had
just an appetizer, one drink and we lost. Okay, so
you know, it did it seemed too weird, but I
believed it until you know, she kind of was a
(21:03):
little short after, you know, when we would text, and
then she just stopped responding all together.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
So I'm kind of like, what happened? Okay?
Speaker 2 (21:13):
All right, Well, this is one of those rare occasions
where you guys met in the wild, so because you know,
things can go wrong on the dating apps.
Speaker 3 (21:20):
You know, we've heard it.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
It's a tale so old as time, Pauline, and we've
heard there some people, you know, they meet in person
and they're not the person they said they were. They
don't look the same, or you know, they act weird
or whatever. But you met in person and you pursued
her in that way. And then so so going to
dinner for the second date, if you want to call
it that her first actual date, I mean, it shouldn't
have been much of a surprise to her because you
were a known quantity. She knows what she agreed to
(21:43):
because she met you.
Speaker 8 (21:44):
Yeah, I mean when we had a good conversation that
first night, you know, over a few drinks and probably
three hours worth of just talking.
Speaker 3 (21:51):
Yeah, that's strange them. So so you know, it's not
as though she learned something.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
I guess she could have learned something, but it's not
as though when she met you she was instantly not
attracted to you for some reason or whatever else, because again,
she knew. But let's let's call this woman Zoe. You're
gonna be on the phone, Connor, at the same time.
We're gonna ask these questions on your reof and the
hope is that she's been busy or something's been going on,
and we can straighten this out and set you guys
up on sex.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
Third day, whatever you wanna call it, and we'll pay
for this, all right.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Trust me, You've got to hear part two of Waiting
by the Phone after Lola Young MESSI back in two
minutes on The Fred Show.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
Don't move.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
It's the Fred Show on the radio and the iHeart
app live at anytime. Search for The Fred Show on demand,
make us a pre set, Hey, Connor, all right, welcome back.
Speaker 3 (22:35):
Let's call Zoe.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
You guys met out at a bar, you approached her,
you guys chatted for a while, asked her out, you
go on a date. You felt like she was kind
of rushed on the date for some reason, and then
you haven't heard from her since and you want to
know why.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Yeah, basically, Okay, Well, let's call her now. Good luck?
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Connor? Hello Eli is Zoey. Yeah, hey Zoe, good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,
the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need you our permission to continue.
Speaker 3 (23:11):
With the call. He said, okay, if we chat for
a second. Yeah, what what did I win by? Look
at that?
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Look at the excitement? You know, let me see if
you're excited in about thirty seconds. But maybe you may
have won something. We'll see here. But we're calling on
behalf of a guy who reached out to us. His
name is Connor. Do you remember meeting Connor at a
bar and he guys went out. I hope you remember that.
Speaker 5 (23:33):
I remember you do, all right?
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Well, he reached out to us, and he had a
lot of nice things to say about you that he
liked you and was excited to meet you, and said
he approached you and a bar asked you out, got
your number, the whole thing, you guys did go out.
He admits that the date seemed a little rushed and
that he can't get a hold of you. Cents, then,
so can you tell us what happened? Because he's, you know,
he feels like he's being ghosted and smugging him.
Speaker 5 (23:58):
I mean, yeah, I guess I'll just like start from
the beginning.
Speaker 2 (24:05):
I mean, we don't we know how you met, and
we know that you went on a date, but yeah,
what happened on the date? I mean what it sounds
like there's a story here that we don't know, which
is usually the case.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Okay, I mean honestly, he offered to pick me up,
and like, since I already met him in person, I
was like, okay, which normally you know you wouldn't do that, right,
But when I first got into his car, he's brushing
his teeth with a water about all, which I was like, Okay,
that's like.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Weird, But I mean that's the weird thing to do.
You pick somebody up when you're actively brushing your teeth.
In the car at least he wanted to. He was
concerned about his dental hygiene, so that I mean, I
might do that before I arrived, but okay, sure, right,
And so.
Speaker 5 (24:41):
You're like, okay, I guess, like I appreciate that you
care about your breath. But he got some water on
his shirt and he was like, oh no, I'm going
to just grab a fresh shirt in my trunk. And
when I like turned around, I realized, like the backseat
is packed to the brim with stuff, and I was like, oh,
(25:04):
I'm pretty sure he's living out of his car. Oh
oh yeah, And like I'm already with him. I'm in
his car. I'm kind of trapped, and I feel like
I have to go on the date. But immediately I'm
like I have to just like plan make it, like
like I'm so sorry that you know this is happening
to him, but like I just that's not.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
I can't well exactly, it's that's the case. He's not
ashamed of it because he picked you up. I mean,
he could have hidden it. I guess did he pay
for the drinks when you guys went out the first
time he did? Yeah, And then I guess you guys
got through a drink or two or whatever on this date.
Did you did he pay for those?
Speaker 1 (25:39):
He did?
Speaker 3 (25:39):
So he's not broke. I guess.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
I mean let me. I forgot to mention. I'm so forgetful.
Connor is here, so Connor, maybe you can tell us.
Are you living in your car? You know what's going
on with that? I mean, I wouldn't say living in
my car. I do have a lot of right stuff
in my car. I'm kind of in between places right now,
but it's not like she has to worry about that.
(26:04):
I mean, so you are living in your car because
you said I wouldn't say that, but you're in between
so you don't have a place, so you are. I
mean it's everything okay, yeah.
Speaker 8 (26:11):
I mean it's just rent is high right now, and
I'm kind of juggling from one friend's house to another.
I don't sleep in my car or outside anywhere. I
do have, you know, places to go very night. It's
just most of my stuff is in my car.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
And you knew that she was going to see this,
I mean, because you offered to pick her up. So
I guess this isn't something that you see as a concern.
Speaker 8 (26:34):
Well, I mean I don't think it's I'm like, in
the process of getting a place, background checks and stuff
like that have.
Speaker 3 (26:40):
To happen, and it takes a minute. Okay, But it's
not like I'm messy. It's not like my car is
full of trash and stuff. It's just I have some
of my clothes and stuff in there. I see.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
Now do you think do you think that's a good
time to be dating? I mean, I just I wonder
because what was going to happen if things went really well?
I mean, do you go back to her place you
kind of move some of your stuff in. I mean,
I'm just asking here. I'm not I'm not judging and
making fun of you. I just kind of wonder, like,
what was the endgame I was.
Speaker 8 (27:10):
Gonna if I went there. I probably would have recommended
us going to her place. I would have said, my roommate,
I don't know. I would have made something up. But
I usually don't end up doing that kind of stuff
on the first.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
Day that anyway, I say, okay, Kiki, where you're not
in your head, you're making noises.
Speaker 7 (27:28):
What they today when you are on somebody else's couch.
It just blows my mind, like I don't understand people
who are in between places. But you got money to
go on a date. No, you need to You need
to be settled in a house and a home with
an address. You're a hobosexual. That's what they called.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Sex.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
That's when you get someone for their place.
Speaker 4 (27:50):
And that's not like he tried to go back to
her house.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
The brush comes in with him, and then.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
That's a former.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
If you don't have your own house.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
That is an excellent point. This is exactly what Jason did,
except it wasn't. It wasn't a slow transition. Jason went
on one date and then he just moved in. You
don't ask that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
You don't have to go back.
Speaker 5 (28:23):
With him.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Let me ask you this fairness, In all fairness, is
there any part of you that's hoping you hit it
off so well with someone that you can stay there
regularly and by yourself some time.
Speaker 3 (28:33):
Is that is that part of your game?
Speaker 5 (28:35):
No?
Speaker 8 (28:35):
Absolutely not. First of all, I was at a bar
and like we made eyes from across the bar. It's
not like we met on hims like I'm trying to date.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Drinks the bars bro exactly.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
That's it. That could be a deposit on an apartment.
Speaker 8 (28:48):
Right, it's not that I'm homeless and I don't have money.
Speaker 9 (28:51):
I have money, I have a job. I'm just in
between placements. Okay, I never had hold on a second.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
I don't want to ask Zoe though, Joe, you've been
very quiet on it. So the guy, this is his story.
He's between places. He's not ashamed of it. He says
he has money, he has a job, he's going to
have a place soon. He says, you did like him
enough to, you know, talk to him for a couple
of hours and then go on a date with him.
So let's say that he's very I'm just going to
give him benefit of the douk kiki, and he's very
(29:24):
close to you know, settling down somewhere and establishing a
residence of some kind.
Speaker 3 (29:29):
So what do you think give him another shot?
Speaker 5 (29:32):
I'm going to respectfully decline.
Speaker 3 (29:36):
I don't.
Speaker 8 (29:37):
This guy's having a bit of a time interview because
you call me a homosexual.
Speaker 3 (29:48):
Priority.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
You need an address?
Speaker 4 (29:50):
Where's your mail?
Speaker 3 (29:53):
Thank you for your advice?
Speaker 1 (29:54):
Like, who are you? I got an address?
Speaker 3 (30:04):
A zip sure.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
Mary with the gas in that.
Speaker 8 (30:11):
Baby, I have money, Like you're so insensitive and like
no sympathy.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
No empathy.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
But let me see, you're not a drinks You sound great.
Speaker 3 (30:25):
You sound great.
Speaker 8 (30:26):
I'm here everybody waiting in line to get into your
your apartment and.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Try and be with you.
Speaker 4 (30:33):
I got one too, That's how I know how to
spot of money.
Speaker 3 (30:39):
I wish I would have. I'm gonna listening.
Speaker 7 (30:44):
To that trust he's listening because he's driving around all day.
Speaker 3 (30:51):
Oh my god, you're a terrible person. Different to say,
but you're a terrible person.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
I love the roast of keeping this happening right now.
I think you deserve it. This guy's going through a
trade period.
Speaker 4 (31:10):
My god, make sure you got your seat. You shouldn't
have said that.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
Connor, Man, I'm on your side. Okay, Sorry, sorry, Kiky.
I notice you're on the radio or not on TV.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
You got to check my resume.
Speaker 8 (31:32):
But been on TV.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
The last time you watched CVVA.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
No, no, no, my god, he is own home temporarily.
Speaker 2 (31:51):
I honestly, the roast is so entertaining. I kind of
want to leave and let it keep going for a while.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Connor, back and forth.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
My only thing is it.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
May not be putting your best foot forward. That's all
I'm saying. I'm not judging you know what is, but
no one else is judging you.
Speaker 5 (32:08):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
I'm one. I'm supporting you. I'm supporting you. I'm saying
I'm team you.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
And this I just I think maybe you're not putting
yourself in the best position for success when you're not established.
I think that women, men, whomever. I think people in
a partner like to see a little bit of stability.
And I think that's what Zoe is saying. She was
very respectful. The only person here's being disrespectful is Mackitha.
Speaker 8 (32:36):
And like I said, I really like Zoe's always great, okay,
and her position.
Speaker 3 (32:42):
So how about this?
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Yeah, you want to get your priorities in order, friend,
that's all.
Speaker 1 (32:51):
I want you to have a home.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
That's it. That's the process. There you go, there you.
Speaker 1 (33:00):
Like Kiki.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
He's done, Bro, he's done, Bro, And that's okay. Look,
here's my advice to you, Connor. Maybe maybe when you
get everything settled, I don't know, try Zoe again and
maybe she'll be available. And Zoe, are you open to that?
Once he gets his you know, stuff in order here,
maybe he calls you maybe. Okay, No, she's not okay,
So she's not only what you what are you doing
(33:25):
to me? Man?
Speaker 5 (33:26):
All right?
Speaker 3 (33:26):
Not open to that.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
Hey, it's all good, Connor, you know, I wish you
the best. She's not gonna be interested, but somebody will.
Everything's gonna be fine. Good luck to you. And please
keep the car radio on us all the time we need,
but I'll try not to look for somebody so superficial.
Speaker 3 (33:43):
Oh good lord, Okay, Man, all right, best of luck
to both of you. Yeah, thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (33:48):
The Entertainment Report is up next and eight hundred and
fifty bucks showbiz, Kiky, you could win all that money
if you can beat her in five pop culture questions.
Speaker 3 (33:58):
That's next as well, Fred Show. Oh no, Caitlin's Entertainment Report,
and he's on the Fread Show.
Speaker 6 (34:04):
Singer Cassie Ventura took the stand in Ditty's trial yesterday,
and she says during their tenure relationship, he forced her
into disturbing freakoffs. That's what he allegedly called arranged sexual
encounters with others that he directed and filmed.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Fueled by drugs.
Speaker 6 (34:18):
They could last up to forty eight hours, and Cassie said, quote,
they became a job. She also described violent outbursts, controlling
behavior and emotional manipulation, right down to what she wore
and how she did her nails behind closed doors. Cassie
says she lived her life in fear of Ditty, who
allegedly abused her mentally and physically during their relationship that
began in two thousand and six and ended in twenty eighteen.
Speaker 1 (34:42):
She says he controlled a lot of my life.
Speaker 6 (34:45):
Prosecutor Emily Johnson showed Duras a still image from that
infamous video of Ditty beating her in a hotel hallway
in twenty sixteen. Cassie said that that incident came from
a freakoff at the hotel. I'll talk more about her
test Moony next hour, and also she is set to
take the stand again this morning, by the way, and
switching gears really quick to a story that made Jason
(35:08):
so happy that he screamed aloud with joy when he
saw it in the studio.
Speaker 1 (35:12):
So I wanted to end on a happy note.
Speaker 6 (35:14):
Hillary Duff is apparently working on new music after ten years.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
I guess she was on a hiatus, so she retired.
Her pop was quite the hiatus right ten years.
Speaker 6 (35:23):
Her husband Matthew Koma actually posted a photo of her
in the studio, and according to him, it's all on
Hillary to quote save millennial pop music.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
Will she do it? I don't know.
Speaker 6 (35:34):
You know, we got a lot of good pop music
right now. But Jason is very happy, and so that's
why I did this story. By the way, ketch up
on everything you missed. Just type the Fred Show on
demand into the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 3 (35:46):
I'm going to say this.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
The polarizing reaction on the on the text, yes, people
are either that was hysterical or Kiky's the worst person ever.
And I don't think you're the worst person ever. Let's
remember now for a second. Now done tof me. I, well,
no you do you do? No, No, I'm not saying
that you don't. But let's just remember one important detail.
This guy was saying that he was choosing this life.
Speaker 5 (36:10):
Right.
Speaker 2 (36:11):
If people were going, oh my god, I guess you'd
never been down on your luck before, that's not what
I was here. I wasn't hearing a guy who didn't
have options. I'm hearing a guy who's choosing this. So
let's just be clear. You know, and and and he
went for you too, so I'm.
Speaker 4 (36:24):
Just he cursed me out like teld me all kind
of profanity and everything.
Speaker 3 (36:29):
All kind of profanity, all kind of profanity.
Speaker 4 (36:33):
He's dating while sleeping, that's my catch.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
But okay, I mean again, we got some people on here,
so I'll never listen again to you, you know that,
not till Keiki goes on vacation. All this stuff you
settled down like, let's saw, let's you saw relaxed for
a second. Okay, because because because there was there was
some back and forth there, and you know, I would
agree they got low ratchet. But but let's remember this
(36:56):
dude wasn't like, Hey, I don't have any money, I
have nowhere to go. He was, I I'm choosing this
for whatever. We couldn't even get an he couldn't even
articulate exactly why. But he has enough money to go
on dates. He says he has enough money to get
an apartment. He just isn't if we believe that, well,
I don't know. I just let's all reach relax for
(37:17):
a second.
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (37:19):
Dominique's KIK eight fifty will do it next more breadshell.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
Next prescriptions require an online consultation with a healthcare provider
who will determine if appropriate restriction supplicy website for details
an important safety information.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
Price veries based on product and subscription plan. Hey guys,
let's talk ed.
Speaker 2 (37:36):
Because millions of men experience it, but not everyone can
access or afford treatments like viagra.
Speaker 1 (37:42):
Well, hymns can help.
Speaker 3 (37:43):
Through hymns dot com, you can get a full range
of treatment options for ED, including daily or as needed meds,
through a one hundred percent online process. It all starts
with an online intake form.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
Get started at hymns dot com slash joy, and from there,
a medical provider licensed in your state will determine if
D treatment is right for you. If prescribed, your medication
is shipped to you for free.
Speaker 3 (38:04):
Find the ED treatment that fits your needs with options
up to ninety five percent less than the brand names.
Millions of men experienced ED, but hyms can help.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
To start your free online visit and save up to
ninety five percent, go to hymns dot com slash joy
that's hymns dot com slash joy for your free online
visit him s
The Fred Show On Demand News
Show Links
Official WebsitePopular Podcasts
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.
24/7 News: The Latest
The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.