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the Fred Show, Tim, Good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Oh, I'm hanging in there, guys.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
How are you guys doing? Do it okay? What's going
on with this woman? Olivia? How did you guys meet?
Tell us about any dates you've been on? And then
kind of why you think maybe you're being ghosted? Yeah?
So Olivia and I we met.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
On the apps. You know. It's the oldest time, right,
and is it tails of the timer?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Is it tail? So old? A soocer? Come on, say
it the right way so I believe you said it correctly.
But anyway, all right, So yeah, so then what and.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
You know, we we had good conversations, so we switched
to texting and we were messaging back and forth, and
you know, things were good, and we were working on
setting up a date, and I threw out a couple
of couple of ideas and then uh, and then I
stopped hearing from her.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Okay, so the state never took place. So it does
happen every now and again. But like you're puzzled because
you never even met this person, So like, what could
you have possibly screwed up before you even went on
a date? Exactly?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Like like I didn't I didn't have a chance to
say anything rude or or or incredibly stupid or be
mean to wait staff or like like anything.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I don't know. Listen, I don't know. Listen to me.
How could you have screwed this up? Let me count
the way. Okay, let me count the way. But let's
just give you the benefit of the doubt, Tim, And
let's just assume that you did everything right. You were
excited to meet Olivia and you never even got the
first date, which is perplexing. I mean, and I would
probably bug me too, Like I even get to the date.
(02:03):
And you're upset with me. So we're gonna call Olivia.
You're gonna be on the phone. We're gonna ask these
questions on your behalf and try and get some answers,
and at some point you're welcome to jump in on
the call. And the hope is always is that we
can straighten this out and set you guys up on
I guess, in this case, your first date and pay
for all right, it's him, Let's call Olivia. You guys,
you never actually went on a first date. You matched,
(02:24):
you talked about dating a date, you actually went from
the app to texting, which is usually a pretty good sign.
And then before the date actually happened, this woman disappeared.
You haven't heard from her since, and you want to
know why?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Here exactly?
Speaker 1 (02:38):
All right, let's call Olivia. Now, good luck, thank you? Hello?
Hi is this Olivia? Yes, Hi, Olivia. My name is Fred.
I'm going from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can which have for just
(03:00):
a second? You can hang up anytime? Yep, that's good. Yeah,
I thought it was nope, it no, that's just no, no, no,
no no. I just want to make sure. I just
want to make no. I mean, I totally understand that.
But you can hang up anytime. We're calling on behalf
of a guy named Tim though he called us. He says,
(03:21):
you guys matched on the apps and we're texting talking
about a date that never happened.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Yeah, okay, it's weird that he called you.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
It is. I mean, I suppose it could be depending
on what happened here. But he describes what he thought
was just basic, benign conversation planning a date, and then
all of a sudden you disappeared, and he spugged. He's like, well,
I was looking forward to meeting her, and I don't
know what I did or what happened, and it's been
bothering him. So we thought we'd try and get a
hold of you and ask those questions. What happened?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Okay, Well, I mean it just kind of seemed like okay,
so we met on I mean, there's a million apps
out there, right, and it was just casual kit chatting whatever.
And personality wise, I mean, we got along really great,
like he was really funny, and.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
But the thing.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Is is that like his he had like two photos
on there, and they were like blurry and kind of
from far away.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
And to the point of where I didn't like and
he was with like other people, like I didn't really
know like who specifically he was.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Okay, So you were confused on his dating profile the
pictures were a little obscure, and you were just trying
to get some clarification on like which person am I
talking to. I don't put multiple people on your profiles.
I've been saying this guys, like, put maybe on the profiles.
There's no confusion. Put clear pictures that are recent of you,
and so like, okay, So like.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
Oh, maybe he's, like I don't know, a little nervous
to have a dating app or something. I mean, we
can't really date like normal people anymore, so I understand
why it would be a little embarrassing to put yourself
on an app. So I casually said, you know, can
I have your Instagram and found his Instagram.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
And it's the same situation, Like they aren't it's there's.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Not a whole lot of photos, it's kind of blurry,
they're really old, Like I'm saying, Middle two thousands.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Oh, it's like drawings of him he drew. He drew
pictures of himself mid two thousand, so twenty year old
pictures that he's a little bit of the actual photographs
that he scanned at Kinkos to something and put up there.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
I mean, you know what I'm saying where it's like, oh,
they haven't posted in forever, and it's you know, I
was like, I don't.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
It just kind of seemed like it might be like
a scam or like a bot.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
But I knew it wasn't a bot because he was
talking to me.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I don't know, it was just to.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Me, it's we're in a technological age. If you're going
to go on these dating apps, you've got.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
To show people what you look like. And it's clear
it was hard for you to identify whether this what
was really going on here. You weren't sure who you
were looking at. You didn't get a clear picture, and
so you what you just kind of got spooked and
stopped talking to him. Is that is that it? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
It was really just early on and I don't know,
it just kind of seemed like he had something to
hide or I and I don't really have.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Time to do with that. I don't really want to
do it before where I matched with somebody, And then
like as I get to sort of like looking more
carefully at it, because you're going kind of fast through
that thing, and then you're like, wait a minute, like
I need to reverse image, Like this is dua lipa
in these pictures. I don't know why she's going out
with me. Let me bring Tim in and ask these questions.
I'm sorry, Olivia, I get forgetful, like I get caught
(06:33):
up in a story and I forget Tim is here, Tim?
Why not some clear photographs of ourselves? Why don't we
just post like what we look like so there's no
confusion and then this doesn't happen.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I mean, like the short answer is, I'm just not
Like I'm not one of those people who's always on
their phone, you know, like I take pictures when I
take pictures, but like I don't need to be posting
myself all the time.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
But it's a dating profile, man, Like we're selling ourselves here,
so we want good pictures of ourselves that are clear
and easy to identify.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Sure, yeah, totally, but like you know, I also I'm
not interested in people who only who like only care
about looks and like need like.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
No, she just wanted to know if you were AI
bro like, she just wanted to know if it was
Chad Gpt that she was. I mean, I guess she's
meeting you in person, man Like, can't you appreciate that
somebody wants some assurance that they're meeting a real human being?
Speaker 2 (07:25):
Sure? I mean, she could have just asked me if
I was a real human being, she could ask me
for pictures at anything.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I would say yes to that. Okay, okay, have you
not talked to Chadgpt lately because it pretends like it's real? Yep?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Well, would the robot have called the radio station to
talk to her?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I don't know anymore. I really don't know. I have
no idea, but I mean, I guess she could have
said to you, Olivia. You probably could have said to him, hey,
look and the conversation's good, but can you send me
a picture of you or something? Because I don't I
don't know. I don't feel like this all looks legit.
I mean, I suppose you could have said that, but
then again, you don't really have to because you don't
(07:59):
know this person. Yeah, I don't. I mean, it was
really just early on.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I don't really have to do that kind of stuff,
you know, like, if you're not going to be if
you're not going to play into the rules of this
kind of dating game, then I don't I don't even
want to dive into.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
That, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
And you're saying, Tim, she's superficial because she wanted to
know what you look like, which is crazy. I'm saying
that it.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Seems like that's all she cares about in this conversation.
Like I'm not saying that I don't know if she's
superficial or not, but like the focus of this seems
to be seems to be just about looks, which is
so I think she cares about holding under her identity
and not winding up on dateline, I think is what
she cares.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I mean to met fish or something catfish.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
I mean, that's the thing that happens to men a
lot more and does to.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Women, Like, Sorry, it matters what someone looks like, like
you have to.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Like and if you're obscuring what you look like for
some reason, scaring what I look like.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I just don't take a lot of pictures, like I
just I just don't, you know, like this.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, I like a man, you know, I like a
man that has a dusty social media off of social Yeah,
I don't want my man on social. I want him
to post only on my birthday, tell me happy Birthday. Okay,
maybe Mother's Day for his mom. But other than that,
he don't really need to be on social. Now, I
was on her side, and so he said. All she
had to do was ask him to send her a photo.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
He would have said that, why, but why are your
pictures twenty years old? Are you? Are you sitting that's
only years old? They're not twenty years old.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
I don't know why she thinks they're twenty years old.
They're not twenty years old. They're a couple of years old.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Man, we're talking about meeting in person. It's a wild world.
I guess I would want to be confident that I
know who I'm talking. He doesn't update their head shots,
like they're not going to do their dating profiles all
the time. No, I think people are far more likely
to update their dating profiles than anything.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Honestly, hobby like his is what is the twenty sixteen
cubs thing?
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Whatever? Like that's his photos were from twenty sixteen. You
also met him in twenty nineteen, so that's a part
twenty twenty so far. What is his dating profile?
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
What do you mean, Hoby one? I take them actually
new pictures and what sort of freaky stuff you.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Look at his instagram though before I came along, it
would be like wings wings up with on his Instagram profile.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
It is fine. Dating profile needs to be updated. I
think it needs to be current. I think I think
it's willing.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Is he willing to take a new photo and send
it to her?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Now? Tim? Can we broke her a deal?
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Like?
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Will you send her? I mean, Olivia, would you even
be interested if he can verify his like hold up
a newspaper with Today's day, you know, and the picture
of you?
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Right, I mean, honestly, just to fuc that he like?
Speaker 1 (10:33):
I mean, like, why are you so obsessed with me?
Like you like call the radio station like.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
That's just weird.
Speaker 3 (10:38):
I don't know, you guys sound like a dude.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Okay, all right, Look, I don't think it's reasonable newish pictures.
But at the same time, I just this isn't going
to be a match. So Olivia, thank you for answering
for your time. Tim, Good luck out there.