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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (01:09):
Shannon Sharp apologizing to Nicki Minaj, you won't believe the
new cast of the Traders that reality show?

Speaker 2 (01:15):
And did he ask for another mistrial?

Speaker 1 (01:20):
Waiting by the phone this morning? Why did somebody get ghosted?
Fifty oney twelve wins sixty eight losses showed this Shelley.
People are missing the juvenile intro. Hey, I don't know.
We may have to incorporate that into something else. People
are missing their pop it, spin it mounted do it,

(01:40):
you know, whatever, all the different.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Things we can always pop it and spin it.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
Wow, people want more popping and spinning. I guess Kiki's
court this morning, bout I'm bum girl.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
You need a DNA test?

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Oh wow? Okay, morey okay, let's do headlines. Biggest stories
of the day just a second, Maybe a morality Monday
on a Monday for once. I don't know. I don't know.
I'm feeling like doing a morality Monday on a Monday, right,
the biggest stories of the day. This is news but
Fox love in la Errol reporter, a dude named Stu

(02:15):
Mundell was caught, I guess on the air talking about
his marriage or lack thereof. This was during the No
King's protest coverage, but instead it's him talking about I
guess that things aren't going so well at home and
this was all on TV. Apparently. I hate it when
that happens. It's terrible, hear.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
The answer is, yes, you know what, I don't care.
I don't care about my I I am married. I
am I am legally married. I am legally married. That's
not the only way you can really say it. I
am legally married.

Speaker 5 (02:55):
But I am not looking at now at all. I
uh just had a bunch of debacles with my personal life. Yes,
it's true. I know it's hard to believe somebody that
doesn't even know what he's talking about in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
And you know, yeah this is on TV.

Speaker 5 (03:13):
But yeah, I got nothing right now, got nothing, got nothing,
not really looking, uh you know, trying to trying to
find myself and be happy. I'm being serious about that.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
So I don't know if this is like a stream
and he didn't realize that, like you could watch this.

Speaker 5 (03:32):
I want to behold I want to be beholden to
no one.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
At this he's still going I mean sad.

Speaker 5 (03:39):
Lonely, of course, But I got cats.

Speaker 1 (03:44):
He's got cats, he said cat. Yeah, anyway, So I'm
thinking this was some kind of stream because if it
were on the actual television, I feel like somebody, a
director or somebody would have been like, Okay, we get
got that, or maybe maybe we just roll with it.
Maybe we stick with it, you know, so that we
go viral. I'm not sure. But you know, poor guy,

(04:05):
he's legally married. Is this stew but he's you know,
I guess things aren't going well legally married. But he's
not looking in cause you're wondering. I think a lot
of people have been asking.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
He wants to be beholden to no one?

Speaker 1 (04:17):
Which I like that. I I I like that too.
So anyway, that's my list of little sound clips today.
I want to be beholden to no one, says helicopter
reporter man. The Oklahoma City Thunder defeated the Indiana Pacers
to tie the NBA Finals at two games apiece, and
in the Stanley Cup Finals, the Panthers run the verge
of a repeat after blowing out the Oilers in game five.

(04:38):
If you were offended by this, and nothing surprises me anymore,
the level of the very low bar, I think it
takes to offend most people these days. I think we
need to be a little tougher. Like as a society,
I think we need to be a little tougher because
United Airlines passengers were shocked, according to the headline, by
a looting message that greeted them on every inflight video

(05:02):
screen on the plane. When they recently got on a
plane to Chicago, they were greeted with a loud message
that said, welcome aboard flight, Bite me one to Chicago.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
WHOA, Now that's silly.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
I mean I would laugh first of all, but bite
me one like that hurts your feelings. Really, it could
be so much worse. It could be a dude in
the helicopter trying to cover a protest, but instead of
talking about his personal life. Okay, it was displayed on
every single screen. How the message came to appear remains
a bit of a mystery, although some experts say that

(05:38):
it could be traced to how the inflight entertainment system
is set up. Some systems require a member of the
groundstaff or a flight attendant to manually input the flight
number as well as the destination and origin. Others pulled
the information from the flight information system in the cockpit.
It could be that an engineer was carrying out some
maintenance and was testing it and type that in. I

(05:59):
don't really know. Oh, it was a joke, but apparently
people are very upset and they want, you know, I
don't know, free flights and psychological treatment and you know,
councils are standing by. I have no idea of all
the things that are happening on planes these days. I
feel like that's the least of my concerns. If I
got honest says, you know, bite me, he's going to Chicago,

(06:19):
I'd be like, yeah, exciting.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
On planes and on land.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Yeah, right. Sure. They've listed the ten American cities with
the worst commutes. However, they're saying that the average commute
time in the US is only twenty six minutes, and
some of these commute times are listing for the longest commutes.
I don't really buy. For example, and let me see
the twenty twenty three Census Bureau data is how they

(06:42):
came up with this New York City forty minute commute,
Chicago thirty three minute commute. I feel like there are
people listening now going thirty three right. I wish that's
that one little stretch from where you can go to
Milwaukee to the city. That's where everything's closed and it's
reversed and flippant reverse it England. Yeah, like missy Elliott,
I can see it, but I'm nowhere near it. Kind

(07:03):
of thing. That's I think. That's no. Thirty one minutes
in LA thirty one in Philly, thirty in San Francisco,
thirty in Long Beach, thirty in Washington, d C. Thirty
in Boston, thirty in Oakland, twenty eight in Baltimore. If
you want the shortest commute, moved to Tulsa nineteen minutes,
which a time my favorite place. Nineteen minutes Omaha, twenty, Memphis, twenty, Minneapolis, Columbus, Ohio,

(07:28):
Kansas City, Oklahoma City, two Sun of Milwaukee, all around,
somewhere between twenty and twenty two minutes. Thirty three minutes
in Chicago is the average.

Speaker 6 (07:36):
Yeah, at four am when I'm driving and there's not
another car, Yeah, in the expressway.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
But yeah, no, I don't know about it all times. Yeah,
I don't think so. Visitors, I'm offended by this. This
is extremely hurtful to me, and I'm I need psychological
help in general, but also for this specifically. Visitors at
King's Island amusement park in Mason, Ohio. We're told to
keep their mouths closed on the rock all weekend to

(08:01):
avoid swallowing a cicada, because I guess they're flat around
so much that if you open your mouth on a ride,
you were going to suck these things. In Ohio has
seen the brood fourteen cicadas hatch a little bit later
this year, and they're everywhere, including this amusement parks. So
visitors have been told to enjoy the rides, but for
the next few weeks should probably keep their mouths closed

(08:23):
well on them.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
No, I'm not enjoy no, right, okay?

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah. And in sad news, guys, Father's Day was the
day that marked the end for a man known as
the Sperminator oh who is fathered one hundred and seventy
six children. He announced his retirement from babymaking on Father's
Day yesterday. The guy's name is Ari Nagel, and he
said that it's time for women to start finding somebody else,
somebody younger to impregnate them. His mission is almost he's

(08:50):
turning fifty in August. I know you were dreaming. I've
been trying to get you and Ari together for some time.
Now and it hasn't worked as scheduling wise, Yeah, but
he said that it's healthier, better to be safe than
sorry for women to find a younger guy to do this.
He's been donating for seventeen years now and he has
one hundred and seventy six children cost a cost of course,
across twenty states, ten countries, and five continents. He has

(09:13):
five more children who were due this year, but he's
done so limited edition. These are these kids are all
numbered and we're done with this at the end of
the year.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Good effort.

Speaker 1 (09:23):
His main draw has been that he's never charged a
woman for his donations. What a guy, allowing them to
avoid thousands of dollars in sperm bank costs. He said
that his legacy will never be about fameer money, but
above family. What a guy. What a guy? I know?
And I wonder if he's one of these guys. It's
like it has to be the natural method, you know

(09:43):
what I mean, Like, oh, do it if it's a
natural you know what I mean? Like, I truly hope
one of these guys. I've seen these guys on Craigslist before.
Oh you were looking Yeah, well, I mean I'm always
looking for new business opportunities. I was looking to say
what I sounded like an interesting sid hussle. You know, Okay,
I was the one who posted it. But whatever, it
doesn't matter here in National Fudge Day Today, the Entertainment

(10:03):
Report will do it next Callin's Entertainment Report. He's on
the Freas Show.

Speaker 3 (10:09):
Kanye West showed up to Ditty's trial Friday morning. You
may have seen video of him wapping up Ditty's Sun
Christian on the way into the courtroom. However, he left
the trial after only ten minutes, even though court officials
open up a whole overflow room just for him to watch.
That's when there's like too many people in the courtroom
and you can see from other areas. As for the
latest with the trial, Ditty's legal team has once again

(10:30):
filed an emergency motion for a mistrial, arguing that prosecutors
unfairly pushed out one of the very few black jurors
by questioning his residency. The motion revolves around Jury number six,
a man whose living situation is shuttling between Jersey and
the Bronx, became a trigger for the prosecution accusing him
of not being truthful. But Ditty's lawyers claim the move

(10:52):
reveals a deeper strategy to reduce.

Speaker 2 (10:55):
Diversity on the jury.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
The judge is set to decide by the end of
this week whether to replace that and whether a.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
Mistrial is necessary.

Speaker 3 (11:05):
Donna Kelsey is the mother of Travis and Jason Kelcey,
and she's also going to be a contestant on the
next season of The Traders, which that I did not
have on my bingo card. The series follows RealD A
TV stars from things like The Real Housewives, Survivor, Love
Island and other reality shows. I think Tom Sandival from

(11:26):
vander Pump was on there. And it's a competition based
sort of mind game. They film at a castle in Scotland,
Alan Cummings as the host.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
They won a cash prize.

Speaker 3 (11:35):
But I just I don't know, like she seems like
someone who doesn't want to be famous and she's just
like a Midwest mom.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
I don't know. I'm just very surprised to see her
on the cast.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
She will be competing with people like Lisa Rinna Colton
Underwood from The Bachelor, to Orinda Medley from the Housewives.
I'm trying to look at other people other names we know.
Michael Rappaport, randomly Portia Williams from the Real Housewives, Stephen
Colletti from Laguna. Like Donna Kelsey and Stephen Colletti are

(12:03):
competing for a cash prize, Steve.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Was able to get that much time off at Target
it did you still have that pickup truck? I wonder
still driving the pickup truck?

Speaker 2 (12:13):
I hope.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
So he was like he was like so poor compared
to the rest of them because he, you know, he
just had a pickup truck. He lived like outside of
the gates. He us the.

Speaker 2 (12:22):
Hot Oh yeah, so hot.

Speaker 3 (12:26):
So you can watch him on the Traders and I
have heard amazing things. I don't watch it, but I'm
gonna start. I think I have to see Donna Kelsey
and Stephen Colletti.

Speaker 2 (12:34):
And lastly, Shannon Sharp has.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
Apologized to Nicki Minaj after the rapper dissed him on
the Low Wayne track Band from n O Remix.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
In the song she raps about to copy slides.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
All you do is flip flop if I send you
a pickup Shannon, you ain't that sharp. And I think
the line is in response to Shannon saying Nikki who
when a fan asked him to get her on his
podcast on social media, Shannon says he was actually talking
about politician Nicki Hayley when it came to his Nicki
Who comment, and he said that Nicki Minaj has an
open invite to his club Shay Shay podcast or a

(13:07):
private conversation anytime she wants, which makes me laugh. You're
open to a private conversation with me if you want, Nicki.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
But yeah, so that's your news.

Speaker 3 (13:18):
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Speaker 1 (13:24):
All right, we have time morality Monday on a Monday
for once, which we still might do Morality Monday on
a Thursday. It just depends. It really depends on my mood,
you know, completely entirely. Oh by the way, my take.
No one asked, But I just want to say on
the record, while I'm thinking about you're speaking of you know,
court cases and Diddy. By the end of the day,
Karen Reid innocent, That's what I say. That's way, that's

(13:45):
what I believe. I believe by the end of today
she is found innocent, not guilty. How could this take
any longer than that. They went. They gave it to
the jury on Friday afternoon. We should be done by today.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
Oh they're deliberate.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
Now, they're deliberating right now. Yeah, this is done. This
is she didn't do it.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
She did not do it. Girl, but she didn't do it.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
I don't see it, and I'm watching TikTok and people
are like, she absolutely did it. I'm like, did we
watch the same trial, Like there's I don't understand, Like there,
I don't there's not one piece of it. There's not
I don't know there. I mean, I can't even go
through it all. But there's nothing. It doesn't add up.
I don't think she did it.

Speaker 3 (14:23):
It also just even like let's say she did, which
I don't believe she did. It's just not a fair trial.
It's not a fair collection of evidence. It's not a
fair situation. Unfortunately, they messed it up from the beginning.

Speaker 1 (14:36):
Yeah, if a crime happens in my house and I
sell the house, burn the house down, replace everything inside
that my dog, rip the floors out, get rid of
my dog, move to a different city, you know, different
if you know whatever, like detonate the house. If I
do all that, and then I'm like, I don't know,
I don't know what happened. Why would I do all that?

(14:57):
If I if I really don't know what happened, I
had nothing to do with it, Why would I do
all that?

Speaker 7 (15:01):
Now?

Speaker 2 (15:01):
What was the reason?

Speaker 1 (15:02):
That's what I mean anyway, So morality Monday number one.
I think by the end of the day, and if
it takes it, if it takes much longer than I'm
worried it's bad because that means they're all sitting around
really going over this stuff one by one, item by item.
But I don't know. I was a little surprised they
didn't just go in there for an hour and be
like because in the last one I think it was
I think it was like everybody but maybe one person

(15:22):
thought that she was innocent, right.

Speaker 3 (15:24):
And you'd hate to be the person who like, Okay,
I either got to change my opinion, you know what
I mean, because we're all exhausted, right see, you know
you don't want to.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
I mean, like that scares me.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
Would hate you. You know, they've been this has taken
so long, and then there's you know, and you got
to stand up for what you believe, right, I mean,
it is someone's life we're talking about here. So if
you believe that, if you somehow believe she did it
and or is it that she didn't do it, and
everyone else believes she did it, and you're the reason
that something you know does or doesn't happen, you can't
just say I want to go home, so whatever. Okay, fine,

(15:57):
but I think that happens. Sometimes we're like other jurors, like,
you know, upset because I would look everyone else that
grew what did you watch? It would be like me
if I was in the jury room and someone's like, yeah,
she did it? Are you were you watching Netflix or
something during this thing? Because like everything I saw it
is there's no possible way. Okay. So here's our morality Monday.

(16:18):
And this is from our friends that reddit. Am I
the a whole eight five five five nine one one
oh three five you can call it. Text the same number.
My wife, who's twenty nine and I, he's a thirty
one year old male, have a three year old son.
I think some people can relate to this. I worked
ten to twelve hour days as a contractor while she
stays home. Lately, she's been ventcing online into friends, saying

(16:38):
that she feels like a single mom because I'm never around.
This is from the perspective of the I'm the guy
who works all the time. I get this, she's overwhelmed.
I am too, but I'm working my butt off to
keep us afloat. The other night, I heard her refer
to herself as a solo parent during a zoom call
with her mom. After she hung up, I told her
that I didn't appreciate that. I'm not partying, I'm not

(17:00):
neglecting our family. I'm working. She said I'm being defensive
and that she feels like a single mom because she
handles everything alone at home. Now I feel guilty. I
don't want to invalidate her, but I also feel like
she's ignoring everything I do. Am I the a hole
for calling her out? I mean, she's not a single mom. No,

(17:22):
And if it requires ten to twelve hours a day
of this man working to provide their lifestyle, then it
sounds like they're both doing jobs right. He's doing his
job to make money. She's doing her job, which is
a job to raise the kids. But I hear this
argument sometimes when one person's at home and the other
person's at work, and that's a decision that was made

(17:42):
within the relationship that this is how we're going to
do this. And I hear this sometimes like oh, it
must be nice, and I think that you can. I
don't know. I don't think one side always sees the
other side, you know, because it's like my buddies that
travel a live pilot buddies. Right, they're gone for you know,
a week at a time. They've always been this for
thirty years, right, It's been this way forever, and then
they come back and it's like, it must have been

(18:02):
nice to be in you know, Dubai for a week.
Must have been nice. I was out here making lunches
and driving a soccer practice and it's like, well, first
of all, you know, maybe maybe it was nice in
some regards, but in other regards, like this is my life.
I got. I got aluminum, platinum, diamond, gold. You know,
I'm the biggest badass status at Hilton because I don't

(18:25):
sleep in my house. Like anytime you see somebody who'd
like when they check in, someone hands them a bottle
of champagne and like kisses their feet. At first, I'm like, well,
they're going to get a really nice room. And then
I'm like, in order to get that, they don't ever
get to go home, right right, So, so my buddies
I talk about this all the time. He's like, you know,
I would much try to be here with my family.
I would much try to be here on my terms.

(18:46):
But I'm here because the boss needs to be here.
And if the boss calls me right now, it says
we're leaving, we're leaving, which means I'm not at the bar.
You know, I'm not partying, I'm not on a I'm
not riding a camel you know, or whatever. Like this
is not my vacation. This is work, and I don't
get to choose when or where or how or any
of it. And so yeah, I guess i'd get to
sleep in a hotel bed and sleep in sometimes and

(19:07):
eat room service. But at the same time, maybe I
would rather be driving to soccer practice. And then on
the flip side, you know, you've got the people going,
you know, on the side of the person who's doing
all that, it's like, well, maybe i'd like the night
out sometimes or the night away, or maybe i'd like
the exposure to adults. Yes, you know, I'd like to
be able to go to I would like to go

(19:28):
to work for eight ten hours a day. And you know,
I know people who in this case hits the man
who goes to work and the wife keeps a part
time job, and it actually costs them money for her
to go to work as a flight attendant. I've used
this example before. But they do it anyway because like
for him to stay home, he makes three times what
she does as a pilot, So for her to go

(19:49):
to work costs money, But they do it anyway because
for her, it's like, this is my independence, this is
my job, this is part of my identity. I want
to go on a trip, I want to hang out
with adults. I want to make a little bit of mone.
He's cool for that, right, Yeah. But I just I
think that this sort of argument fundamentally is based on
one side not seeing the other, or one side wanting

(20:10):
some elements that the others. I think everybody wants a
little bit of the other thing. But I'm just curious
for those of you who deal with this. If one
person is primarily raising kids and one person's primarily working,
do you really think you could say that? Is that
a fair thing to say out loud? Because it makes
it solo parent kind of implies that the other parent
isn't involved or doesn't care. It's like dead beat. It's

(20:31):
giving dead beat, it is, but it's the exact opposite.

Speaker 3 (20:34):
Also, like, if you feel that way, it's it's not
the time to get it out on a zoom call
when it can just be overheard by your partner. And
what's sad is I think it takes both people to
make the raising the children work.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
It does, you know, And comparison is the thief of joy.

Speaker 1 (20:49):
So yeah, I just I And if I heard if
this is me and I heard my wife saying this
to her mom, that's even worse because you're telling your
mom that I'm basically about Dad's true. You know, I
don't like to el is it l or ally?

Speaker 7 (21:04):
This l.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
How you doing? So this scenario in here, it's like
you've got the dad working twelve hours a day. In
this case, you've got the mom at home and the
mom feels like she's a single parent, and the dad's like, hey,
at first he was upset. Now he feels guilty. But
I don't necessarily think that's a fair thing to say
about him, not.

Speaker 8 (21:22):
At all as a.

Speaker 2 (21:23):
Truly solo parent.

Speaker 9 (21:24):
This just makes me so angry. I'm actually shaking because
she's still like, she's not has to work, she's not
worried about the bills herself. She's getting support in some way,
shape or form, even though he might not be present.
So it's just it's just not something that you can
just say like that, because she's just not even realizing

(21:45):
the impact she's getting from having that man in her life.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
Yeah, I think that would trigger me too, because what
about the people who are in fact solo parents and
it all falls on them. They have to somehow figure
out a way to pay for the you know, pay
pay the bills and the mortgage and the rents and
the food and care yet soccer practice and figure out
the logistics of the rest of that. I mean, And
I'm not minimizing one or the other, but for you,
you have to figure out both.

Speaker 9 (22:09):
Yeah, and not to minimize it either, because she still
has to step up in ways that maybe she didn't
anticipate when they originally decided to have a child. But
I mean, I remember when I just had a three
month old and I couldn't even just go to the bathroom.
I couldn't just go down the street and get a coffee,
like there's just so much you don't realize that actually
happens when you are a truly solo parent.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
Yeah, yeah, thank you so much.

Speaker 8 (22:31):
He's definitely the a hole in this one.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
Okay, A fair enough. I'll let her know. Thanks anyway, guys,
love your show. Thank you, love you too. Yeah.

Speaker 10 (22:39):
I mean it's a good point that you've made though, too,
where it's like you look at one side, look at
the other side right like you got it better.

Speaker 2 (22:45):
I know you got it better, but.

Speaker 10 (22:46):
I think it's also like for my personal experience, from
my experience, I feel like I'm looking at it that
what does his husband do when he comes home? Is
he playing video games? Is he disassociating from his family.
I know that the ten to twelve hour shifts are long,
and they're lengthy and hard. I feel like they can
at least come home right, play with the kids, make dinner,
like help out, because I think then that would take

(23:06):
less off of the mom who is home all day
with the kids.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (23:09):
But let me Okay, So there's a question. I don't
know the answer. I'm asking like an open ended question,
but is it fair for someone who worked ten hours
a day to then come home and take an hour
to decompress. Yeah, because because what I think. I think
sometimes it's it's like, yeah, you, yes, you were at
home with the kids all day, But then am I
expected And I don't know the answer, but am I
expected to just after my ten hour day walk in

(23:32):
and then just take over the parenting role and then
you get a break? I don't know the answer to that,
But like I think, sometimes there's not a respect for
what the other one's doing. It's like I just went
to work. I just sat in traffic for an hour. Yeah,
I just had spit up on me all day and
watched Miss Rachel for the thirty seven times me, you
know what I mean. So it's like, I don't know,

(23:53):
I've heard that one before where that guy comes home
he sorted he wants to go to bed. And it's
not that I don't know that he's a bad guy
or a bad girl or whatever, but like you're only
capable of so much.

Speaker 10 (24:02):
Yeah, communicate, I think at a community with a partner,
how are you feeling this moment ry. I just walked
in the house, like, give me, you know, thirty minutes
and then I think just.

Speaker 2 (24:09):
You got to work it out. It's hard, but you
got to balance it someway.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Melissa. Yeah, good morning, day, Melissa, good morning, Welcome. What
do you think so?

Speaker 7 (24:18):
I think the dad here is definitely not the a hole.
She just needs to reorganize her thinking to be able
to include him or incorporate him with more parental responsibilities.
Like you said, they're both performing a job here. His
is the financial income, the financial stability, the security there.

(24:38):
She is providing the parenting here, whether she wants it
or not. If that's something that she kind of and
formally agreed to that that's just the way it is.
If she's not reporting somewhere to go to and provide
the same way he does, then she's not the solo
parent here. She's just they're just providing different job aspects
of the family, the being at home, that being the

(25:02):
parent like the absent or the present parent. She's just
the main go to right now for him physically, but
the dad is definitely there to provide for them.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
Yeah, Melissa, thank you, have a good day, absolutely, because
I feel like sometimes people would switch roles even like
I know, I'll tell you what you think. It's so
great you know, doing this and the other you think
it's so great, you know, going to work and dealing
with these idiots, Like how about I stay home and
I'll take care of my kids, because you know, I
think the other thing that's sort of negated here is
like maybe he loves I'm sure he loves his kids too,

(25:34):
and I'm sure he would rather be at soccer practice
or being the coach, or going to the games, or
or feeding the kids or whatever. I'm sure there's bonding
time that he's missing, right, So it probably has moments
where it's like, Okay, cool kids crying, I got to
go to work by you deal with it. But then
I'm sure it also has moments where it's like, man,
I can't believe I'm missing that. But if he were there,
then who's making the money to pay the bills? In

(25:56):
this case, you know you can you could flip it
and it could be the other way around. It's like
the grass is always I feel like Ashley hi O
in this scenario, if you're just tuning in, there's a
woman and this is from the male perspective, but he
heard his wife saying that she is a solo parent

(26:18):
because he works ten to twelve hours a day and
she's telling people this, like her mom and friends, and
he's offended, and then he sort of vacillates on Well,
so I feel bad for saying something to her or not,
But this is the agreement that we came up with.
I work in a traditional setting. I pay the bills
and you take care of the kids. That doesn't make
you a solo parent. What do you think?

Speaker 11 (26:38):
No, she is absolutely wrong saying that she's a solo parent.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
I think is just really hurtful.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
I have a two year old.

Speaker 11 (26:46):
And a baby on the way in three weeks, and
my husband has a traveling job and his travel is sporadic.
He can up and go and I only have a
week or a couple of weeks notice, and sometimes he's gone,
you know what seems like half a month, and sometimes
it's less.

Speaker 7 (27:03):
By no means am.

Speaker 11 (27:04):
I a solo parent at all. It is very hard,
especially with two small kids. But we had a conversation,
and I knew his work before we made these decisions,
and we have to continue to have conversations about, hey,
is do we need to make a change, And I

(27:26):
know job changes and things like that.

Speaker 2 (27:27):
They're not easy at all.

Speaker 11 (27:30):
But is it do I need to go part time?
Do we want does he want to be home or
do we need to make a change there or do
we need to make a lifestyle change, you know with
you know home or otherwise, And those are big changes
and really tough decisions. But if it's bothering her that much,

(27:50):
it's definitely a conversation. Because she's not a solo parent
at all.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
I will say that.

Speaker 11 (27:56):
Like, oh I'm I'm I'm solo this week. My husband's
gone and we have a village that helps me out.
So it's just you got to talk about options. There
was ways to work things out. I'm with her, it's
not easy, especially with two kids. Yeah, being super pregnant,
but by no means in my solo mom. And that's

(28:18):
really hurtful to say about her husband.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
Yeah, thank you for sharing. Congratulations by the way on
the new one. In a couple of weeks making more
listeners we got to get you know, My understanding is
as soon as that baby's boy, is it boy or
girl girl? This time apparently Jessica listener number eleven is
moving to like microneese or something, and like in the jungle,

(28:45):
there's no I don't know if there's a jungle there,
but I'm understanding it's some form of jungle and there's
no internet, so we lost her, so the baby just
so we'll never be more than thirteen. So don't even
try and get greedy.

Speaker 7 (28:53):
Okay, Okay, you're gonna start.

Speaker 12 (28:56):
We'll let you guys start the whole Matt leave.

Speaker 1 (28:58):
I like it. Thank you, have a good Ashley.

Speaker 7 (29:01):
Thank you.

Speaker 13 (29:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
We keep adding cities and we only have the same
number of listeners. Hey, Linda, good morning. Where are you
Hi doing great? Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. So
I'm gonna give you the final say here. And someone
brought up military families too, by the way, which I
mean there's one. It's like, have people gone for you know,
Shelley's husband gone for two three months at a time,
longer years at a time, sometimes depending on what's going on.

(29:24):
And does that make that person any any less of
a parent? I would I would argue, No, they're they're
they're doing what they gotta do. What do you think, right, Well,
I think.

Speaker 14 (29:33):
The hardest part of this, this whole argument, is that
the role of motherhood is always somehow less stressful than
going to work for twelve hours My ex husband was
an air traffic bro one of the most stressful jobs
in the world, as you might know. And you know,

(29:54):
I'm at home with two kids under two, and all
i want to do is take a shower. That's all
I want to do is take a sh and so,
you know, he comes home from work and yeah, he
wants to unwind, and yeah, you know, he's not really
interested in two screaming, you know, two year olds.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
But at the same time, I need you.

Speaker 14 (30:12):
To acknowledge that my job is as important as yours
and I just need to take a shower. And so
there was always that, there was always that argument of
whose job is more important, and they both are.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
They both are important.

Speaker 14 (30:27):
But for me, I felt that as a mother, a
stay at home mother, my job was made less important
because of the importance of his job in the world.
And so I was just like, you know, can I
have five minutes him He's like, well, you know, I've
been busy all day and you know, my brain I
can't even think. And I'm like I understand that, and

(30:48):
he's like, well, you've been home all day, you know,
if that's a vacation. So I think in the world
in general, we need to give mothers credit for how
hard it is to be a mom full time, and
it is just as important, and it is just as
taxing at times, especially.

Speaker 2 (31:05):
With two under two.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
I agree, I agree, but you know I hate in
his defense, he's been dealing with you know, screaming pilots
all day that are just the same as babies. It's
the same.

Speaker 14 (31:16):
Audible hair.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
Yeah right, Well, thanks for having us on the radio
on the iHeart app Live at any time. Search for
the Fred Show on demand. Where were the rumors coming
from that she was getting married this weekend? Where did
that come from? I've seen that.

Speaker 2 (31:30):
I got a little too excited.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
I was seeing like late last week that supposedly was
happening this weekend in Napa or something. That was what
I heard. That's crazy swift.

Speaker 6 (31:42):
They've been in a lot of weddings recently, but I
didn't see that wild Well.

Speaker 1 (31:46):
I saw that a few different places, and then I
was like, well, I didn't get a call to go
to Napa, So there's no way. I definitely there's no
way that she would get married and not invite me.
We go way back. Yeah, So yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
His pal may have revealed a secret marriage plan.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
Pal not as pal. You ain't no, no, this is just.

Speaker 3 (32:08):
The wedding thing that we saw that they were already married.
There are rumors, but yeah, I don't. I don't see
anything about Napa.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Yeah, that was that's what my people were telling me.
Just prepare for Napa, your pal, prepare my pals. They
were just like, you know, do you have your NAPA
clothes ready? And clothes it sort of looks like if
you were going to a cloquet a croquete match. For me,
it would be like some nice uh chinos, you know,
button maybe a nice sweater over my you know what

(32:37):
I'm saying. Yeah, linen, That's what I mean. A nice
linen suit, you know, flowy, Yeah, right exactly. That that
was going to be the fit for the wedding of
the century that I maybe I did go to. Maybe
they are married. Maybe I'm just playing dumb. Maybe I'm
not waiting by the phone and blogs will do the minute.

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He spoke to thirty thousand people at rate Field in
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the video board, and this is how it would have

(34:01):
been at the game, but they didn't bother to make
any changes. So above him it was him on a
video board. Right above him is Caesar Sports Book, and
then to the right is Binny's beverage depot. Is there
anything more catholic than that gambling and booze and the Pope? No,
I mean, I think it's truly encapsulated. The pope is
sponsored by Binny's.

Speaker 2 (34:21):
Yeah, he's gonna say, run me my brandy, all right.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
If I'm the pope, I'm like, hey, I'm an influencer
and I am not. You need to make a donation
or something to the archdiocese or whatever it is. Yeah,
but it happened over the weekend, and he thanked US
Catholics for their prayers, urged kindness towards migrants, and as
listeners to build bridges not walls. The bilingual event open

(34:46):
with US and Peruvian anthems, followed by a mass in
a baseball stadium and then celebrated by a cardinal and
then Pope Leo, and he promised to visit very soon.
And then he closed by blessing the city and it's
base team. So I guess only the socks on it's
singular baseball team. I guess right. Hey, look here, Pope Leo,

(35:09):
we got too, how about both of them? But no, no, no, no,
that's an unfair advantage. No, I don't know why the
Sox record hasn't just skyrocketed. Let's say this hasn't improved.
There saying he'll not look him good. In fact, thirty
thousand people. I think if you added up, that's as
many people have gone to the game so far total
this year. For the last Sea Pope Leo put more

(35:31):
people in the stands than the Socks did at Socks Field.
A chance to shoot your shot for Sabrina Carpenter. Got
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Speaker 6 (35:53):
Yes, yes, yes, sorry not today's but yeah, okay, I
didn't know who got to see this word?

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Oh this is today? Yeah, well this is Monday. I
don't I don't know. I don't know what day i'm.
I don't know where I am what day it is.
But we'll give you a keyword of seven fifty five
and then i'll give you I was just wondering if
this one is tomorrow? This this one, because you've been
trying to get cute with them, trying to get me
to say crazy stuff. But that's not that crazy of
a work.

Speaker 6 (36:18):
No, I'm not doing them all crazy. I like, you know,
slip them in. There's a good miss. Sure you're always
trying to do that. Yeah, true, Yeah, so it happened.

Speaker 1 (36:28):
We'll give you a keyword. Relax. Yeah, please, I'll give
you a keyword at seven to fifty five to get
hooked up and all you have to do is leave.
Is a talkback on the on the talkback mic on
the iHeartRadio, but.

Speaker 2 (36:42):
The beatleshirt on today, Yes, beetles. Do you know the
members of Oh.

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(37:07):
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Speaker 2 (37:12):
I'm not playing around. We're live right now. In the camera.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
Hi, I need to remember that thing's there? Yes, yeah,
I'm over here looking at my phone, picking my nose,
plugging my nose hairs.

Speaker 10 (37:23):
You bet that guy from earlier, the one who talked
about but I'm not.

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Yeah yeah. On all the socials as well. Search for
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Speaker 15 (37:42):
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Why did somebody get ghosted? We'll do that this hour
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Speaker 3 (38:02):
K Boston University responds to Alex Cooper's claims that her
soccer coach sexually harassed her. Also, I don't know if
y'all follow Justin Bieber, but he was crashing out yesterday
like in a way that was even crazy for him.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
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Speaker 1 (38:17):
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Speaker 15 (38:22):
Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs
on the Fred Show are writing in our diaries, except
we say them a loud.

Speaker 1 (38:30):
We call them blogs.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
Klin yes go dear blog.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
So I have heard rumblings that there are people like
this who exist.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
I have heard rumors, but I had.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
Not come face to face with one of these people
that zillow every single place, that they go every house.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
Every all to look up the value.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
I guess to just like look up the house.

Speaker 3 (38:56):
I don't know what these Zillow people are after. I'm
assuming to look up the you. But it turns out
that I lie with a Zilo person. Okay, I lie
next to a Zilo person. I live with a Zilo person.
And the other day in the marital bed, well, I
don't know about marital but yeah, in our little tiny

(39:17):
queen bed.

Speaker 2 (39:18):
We need a king so bad. But that's another story.

Speaker 1 (39:20):
So god that'd be I would go into just to
acquire one.

Speaker 3 (39:25):
I know, and I'm like doing the split so our
dog can like be in there too, Like it's really not.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
I might need two king beds, one for each of us.

Speaker 3 (39:33):
Holler at me if you have mattresses and want to
work together.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
Mattresses holler at me and just give me one of them.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
I didn't want to say a specific storm, you know,
because I'm equal opportunity. The dms are on fire now
that I said. If you have mattresses, holler at me. Anyways,
you need a deal that I had with mattress firm
back in the day.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
I do. I remember that deal. I was so jealous.

Speaker 3 (39:55):
Seen thousand dollars bed. What doesn't it like cool and
like give you happy ending and all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
Well I'm the one who gives myself the happy ending.
But yeah, no, it cools me down afterwards.

Speaker 3 (40:05):
So in the hospital bed like I want to be able.

Speaker 1 (40:08):
To I have that too. I have that. I never
use it, but I have that too. No because anyway,
different story. But the guy that owned mattress firm or whatever,
like the big wig was like, you have to have
I'll tell the story in a minute. But going to
Lamborghinia be so anyway, So you lay next to a guy, yeah,
who is a Zillow. It's a Zillow.

Speaker 3 (40:24):
Yes, And he admitted to me the other day that
he looked up my family home on Zillo and I
was like, what the hell you creep, Why are.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
You doing how much money he's married into so secure
the bag right now, he's like, what's coming my way?

Speaker 3 (40:40):
And we don't have a house to where you'd see
it and be like, you know, we have a wonderful home.

Speaker 2 (40:44):
My parents provided for me. But like he so now.
He did have a good counterclaim.

Speaker 3 (40:48):
He said that when I showed him around, we were
all talking about how much work that they had done
to the house. It was built in nineteen twenties, my
parents did a ton of renovations, and he claims he
wanted to see what it looked like before all the work.

Speaker 2 (41:00):
Days that I don't know.

Speaker 3 (41:02):
I don't know, but I'm like it was like he's
getting off something off his chest, and I'm like, I
don't understand these Zillow people. I forget that it's there,
but I do know that people will literally after they
leave a place, go to a place or you're not
in your head.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Kiki, are you?

Speaker 16 (41:14):
I'm not famous for this, Okay, I think it's weird,
but I feel like everybody is a Zillo person. So
if you ask me for my address, I will give
you a fake address or the station.

Speaker 2 (41:24):
Yeah, I'm not doing it.

Speaker 1 (41:25):
Oh, yeah.

Speaker 16 (41:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
I feel like everybody who was.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
Asking for your address to me. If I ask for
your address, you and give me a fake radio station,
I'm gonna come up. Okay, I'll be there and then
I'll walk. Wait a minute, Wait one second.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
She doesn't want us over. It makes me so sad.

Speaker 1 (41:44):
Give me her address. This is the radio station, she said.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
I don't.

Speaker 16 (41:47):
I will give them your address before I give you
my address.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
Because people do.

Speaker 16 (41:51):
This, they want to look you up, and they're so weird.
That's why I don't even like, don't need to me
how to spell my first name.

Speaker 2 (41:57):
You're weird, bro.

Speaker 16 (41:58):
Why are you making people up trying to see what
their money is and you're looking at their neighbors' houses
like it's just a lie. I beware of Zillow people. Yeah, no,
I know people.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
Do you guys ever, do you ever go look at
real estate listings in your in your own neighborhood? Like
I know people in my building who go to the
open houses in the building not because they want to
buy another unit, but because they just want to see
how other people are living. They want to see how
other people like decorated, and they want to see how
other people's units look and they want to see, like

(42:28):
they want to size up how they're doing compared to
their neighbors.

Speaker 3 (42:31):
So I'm like a medieval zillower is It's that's what
I call when you just look in people's windows.

Speaker 1 (42:36):
So I can see it was talking. Actually, you can
go to jail for that.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
I love looking at people's windows. I live across a building.
I love it. I am a creep.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
I told you guys about the lady who eats a
lot of oranges at the same time every day.

Speaker 2 (42:51):
So but yeah, I'm not as creepy as I thought
I was.

Speaker 3 (42:54):
And so my boyfriend's a creep and I'm glad he
got that off his chest.

Speaker 1 (42:57):
But we should probably talk about that at some point.
Like the unlikely resources that are available to us on
the internet for finding out a lot of information, like
people's venmo Venmo is a wealth of information. It is
a wow wealth of information. Oh my godness, Like, wait
a minute, I didn't even know you guys still knew
each other. You said you haven't seen that person in

(43:19):
a long time, but you just paid them for eggplant.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
I found an excess baby mama inks to Venmo.

Speaker 3 (43:27):
I wanted to see what she looked like and I
couldn't find it on any of his socials and I
found her on Venmo and I was like, oh.

Speaker 10 (43:32):
That's what she was.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
Like, I told you I dated a girl who I
paid for everything in the relationship. I paid for everything,
and not like her, you know, bills or whatever, but
like every time we'd go out, I'd paid whatever. And
then I see her. I didn't even mean to see it.
I was on my own Venmo, and it like, gives
you a little history, and this she's dating someone new,
and all it is is splitting stuff. It's it's you know,
half of dinner, half of hard, half of lunch, half

(43:56):
of vacation, half of it. And I'm going, wait and
cause she put it right. And the thing, I guess
maybe I don't know if she realized everybody can see that.
I'm like, he must got it going on, because she
went I half nothing.

Speaker 6 (44:08):
That's too much, not too much to very quiet friend, right,
don't give anyone any ideas about who needs to pay
for what.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Oh sorry, I apologize, Jason, Yes, yeah, that's true. I
think the only time I've looked up a Zillo was
I looked at my original childhood home because I wanted
to see pictures of the inside. I don't. My mom
was very upset at how much it's worth now, because
of course we sold it, you know, twenty years ago
or something, moved into it thirty years ago, and moved
into it the house that I wound up growing up

(44:36):
that I wound up growing up in, but the very
first house we lived in together as a family. I
wanted to see what if they've like knock walls down
and stuff, because I assume they have, but it's my
mom wanted to, you know, you know how this stuff goes,
Like in nineteen eighty one, they paid like twelve dollars
for it, and now it's worth forty eight million. You know,
it's like, h should have kept that thing right.

Speaker 3 (44:57):
That's how I uncovered this little gem. I uncovered it.
I was like, they've done so much work. I wonder
how much it's worth now. And he was like, oh,
I can tell you. He like, oh my god.

Speaker 1 (45:08):
I I also don't trust all those values either. Sometimes
I'm like, wow, you got it like that, and it's
not really true.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
We don't got it like that.

Speaker 1 (45:16):
But that's an excellent creeping tool. Venmo is a good
creeping tool LinkedIn. Sometimes LinkedIn can be valuable.

Speaker 2 (45:23):
Yeah, but it tells the person you're looking at their profile.

Speaker 1 (45:25):
FYI, who needs to have an Investigator's ever been left
waiting by the phone? It's the Fred Show. Hey, Jason, welcome,
good morning, Hey, thank you, thanks, happy to have you here.
Waiting by the phone, of course, is what this is called.
We're trying to figure out if you've been ghosted, and
if you have been ghosted why that's kind of our

(45:48):
mission here. So what's going on with this woman, Lauren?
I think it would help for us to have kind
of all the backstory. How did you meet?

Speaker 17 (45:54):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (45:55):
Tell us about any dates that you've been on and
where things are now?

Speaker 13 (45:58):
Okay, all right, so I met. I met Lauren on Hinge, right,
just pretty classic. I asked her at dinner. I really
liked her. Right, we're having a great time on the date.
But while we were there, I think I was like,
this is I'm definitely ghost to that. Like I got
I got up to go to the bathroom. When I
got back, she was.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
Gone, oh okay, so this this wasn't like we got
through the whole date and now she's not tolding you
this is she left mid date.

Speaker 13 (46:26):
Yeah, this is like she took her purse and ran.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
Oh boy, and I did you reach out to her
after that? Hey? Did you text our? Is everything? Okay?
Did I? I mean if you tried to like dig
into this yourself to figure out what might happen?

Speaker 13 (46:38):
So yeah, I called it straight to voicemail every time.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Huh. All right, so you got blocked. Maybe I don't
know what happened. This is weird. We don't hear about
this too often, where people leave, you know, in the
midst of a date. But let me. I'm gonna put
you in a hole to play a song. We'll come back.
We're gonna call Lauren Stee if we can get her
on the phone. You'll be on the phone as well,
and we'll ask some questions. And I don't know, maybe
something happened and and everything's okay now and we can

(47:02):
get you guys set up on another date that we
pay for. All right, Yeah, okay, Hey, Jason, welcome back.
Let's call Lauren. You guys, you went on a date,
and this is one that we don't hear about too often.
You actually got up to go to the bathroom at
some point during the date when you came back. She
was gone. She left you mid date, and you've reached
out to her. You tried calling her, and it goes straight

(47:24):
to voicemail. She's not calling you back. I mean, at
this point, it's like, does something happen to her? I mean,
you're worried about her? Did something? You have no idea? Yeah?

Speaker 13 (47:33):
I mean I have no idea. Let's is she okay?
Did she have an emergency?

Speaker 8 (47:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (47:39):
I mean I think those are all legitimate concerns and
it would be very inconsiderated for her not to communicate that
with you. But who knows. Let's see if we can
get her on the phone. Good luck. Hello, Hi is
this Lauren? Yeah, Hey Lauren, good morning. Yes, Hi, my

(47:59):
name is a friend. I'm calling from the Fred Show.
Sorry to bother. I do have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now. I would need
your permission to continue with the call. He said, Okay,
if we chat for a little bit.

Speaker 18 (48:09):
I gues, what are you calling about?

Speaker 1 (48:11):
Yeah, well I'm gonna take that as a yes, and
thank you. By the way, this shouldn't take too long.
We're calling on behalf of a guy who says he
recently went on a date with you named Jason, and
I guess you left in the middle of the day.

Speaker 18 (48:23):
Oh yeah, I sure did.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
So he called us and he's really puzzled. He has
no idea why when he got back from the bathroom,
you were gone. And he says he can't get a
hold of you. Now, we had no trouble getting a
hold of you, so he must be blocked or something.
I mean, what happened? Why did you leave?

Speaker 18 (48:41):
He got up to go to the bathroom, and when
he did, I actually got a text from him and
it said, actually hold on, give me a second, you
can pull it up.

Speaker 1 (48:51):
Oh neat he sent you a text from the bathroom.
Why he just couldn't stay away from you?

Speaker 18 (48:57):
Well, so says, sorry, babe, I'm still stuck at work,
but I'll be home asaps. So clearly that was not
meant for me.

Speaker 19 (49:04):
So I just I was out of that.

Speaker 1 (49:06):
Let me bring Jason in that forgot to mentioned that.
Jay says, you're Jason? Who is that text intended for? Baby?

Speaker 19 (49:11):
No?

Speaker 15 (49:12):
No?

Speaker 19 (49:12):
Yeah, okay, okay, that was that was probably from my roommate,
Like that was.

Speaker 1 (49:16):
You call your roommate baby? Is your roommate your girlfriend
and wife? Is that what you call her baby?

Speaker 19 (49:21):
No, just my close friend, you are not?

Speaker 18 (49:25):
Yeah, you're in your roommate baby baby whatever? Like, no, no,
I did.

Speaker 19 (49:30):
Watching they're watching the dog.

Speaker 9 (49:32):
You know.

Speaker 19 (49:33):
I don't want to feel like I was being irresponsible.

Speaker 13 (49:36):
By like, you know, not coming coming home.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
To take walk.

Speaker 13 (49:40):
Dude.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
No, nobody believes that. I mean, so you you were
you have a girlfriend then, or a wife or what?
Who are you texting roommate?

Speaker 13 (49:48):
Come on, guys like that, shut up.

Speaker 2 (49:51):
Dude, and then bold enough to call us Jason?

Speaker 13 (49:55):
This is you know, it's just a little confusing.

Speaker 1 (49:58):
Okay, Yeah, we're in a little our head, here are we.
We didn't think this one all the way through, did
thank god? Yeah?

Speaker 10 (50:04):
You know when dudes like pretend like they're not together
anymore but they live together.

Speaker 2 (50:08):
You guys ever heard that?

Speaker 1 (50:09):
Oh yeah, no, I've been involved with one of those.
That's what I feel. Oh yeah, we're we're only living
together because you know, the market's bad, we can't sell
the house. We live in separate rooms, and you know
it's all good. Like, how come we can never hang
out at your house? Exactly? Yeah? All right, so he's
I don't think he's telling the truth. Lauren, and thank
you so much for nchering and for telling us your
side of the story. Jason Man, come on.

Speaker 19 (50:31):
It's a real thing, guys, it's a real thing.

Speaker 1 (50:33):
Wait, she has one wow with you, dude. She doesn't
believe you, and we don't believe you. So sorry, but
best elected both of you. Okay, thank you, I.

Speaker 18 (50:40):
Mean crazy, but yeah, I know that's not a remate.

Speaker 13 (50:42):
Please.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
Caln's entertainer report is on the Fread Show.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Actor Alex Cooper, who played soccer for Boston University from
twenty thirteen to twenty fifteen, accused her former coach, Nancy
Feldman of sexual harassment in her new docuseries Call Her Alex.
The college is finely responding and if you miss this,
the Call Her Daddy host has a new docuseriies on Hulu.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
There's two episodes out right now.

Speaker 3 (51:06):
I think it's actually amazing and shows a very different
photo of her than you know, all of the or
picture of her, I should say, of the raunchy stuff
she used to talk about on her podcast, pretty good.
But in the first episode she details the sexual harassment
that she experienced at the hands of this coach, and
she even showed video of this coach and named her

(51:27):
full name, like I said, and this is something that
she's never shared before. She accused the university of being
zero help, writing there was no accountability, no investigation, no justice.
She was there on a full ride by the way
to play soccer, to which Bu responded, Boston University has
a zero tolerance policy for sexual harassment. We have a
robust system of resources, support and staff dedicated to student

(51:50):
well being, and a thorough reporting process through our Equal
Opportunity Office. And they went on to say that they
encourage people to speak up if they experienced something. And
after releasing her own docuseriies, Alex Rowe, Nancy Feldman was
someone I trusted, someone I believed in, someone who was
supposed to help me grow, someone who's supposed to protect me.
But instead she made my life a living hell and

(52:11):
abused her power over me. And she said that she decided,
excuse me, you guys, I keep choking out of nowhere.

Speaker 2 (52:17):
I don't know why. She said that.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
She's a cicadas. Keep your mouth shut. I know we'll
flying in your mouth while on this roller coaster. And
I've been trying to tell you do your job without
talking working on literally like this is a.

Speaker 2 (52:30):
New phase of my life where I just choke out
of nowhere.

Speaker 1 (52:33):
But I've been trying to do my job without talking
for years now.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
I would love to not talk sometimes.

Speaker 3 (52:38):
But she said she went public because she learned that
this harassment was still going on at the college despite
this woman retiring from her coaching duty.

Speaker 2 (52:46):
So that is what's going on with that.

Speaker 3 (52:48):
Justin Bieber shared some screenshots of what appeared to be
him cutting a friend off via text, posting these online
and blaming the past trauma that he's experienced for his blow.
He posted these heated text messages with an unnamed friend
and called him out for lashing out.

Speaker 2 (53:05):
The friend did called Bieber al.

Speaker 3 (53:06):
Bieber defended himself, saying, my anger is a response to
the pain I've been through. Asking traumatized person not to
be traumatized is simply mean. He ended the friendship, apparently
saving his good friends who respect his boundaries. Urged people
to stop asking if he's okay, calling the concern oppressive.

Speaker 2 (53:23):
I don't know if he's okay.

Speaker 3 (53:24):
I mean the posts were incessant yesterday and every single
caption was a middle finger emoji.

Speaker 2 (53:30):
Even photos of his son on Father's Day.

Speaker 3 (53:34):
It was his first Father's Day and he also posted
himself calling himself a dad that's not to be f
to with with again the middle finger emoji.

Speaker 2 (53:42):
So I don't know.

Speaker 3 (53:42):
And this follows that eleven minute confrontation with paparazzi outside
of Soho House in Malibu. So he says to stop
asking if he's okay, but he's cutting people off and
apparently he is fine, which I don't know if I
agree with, but if you follow him yesterday, you know
something was going on. And lastly, our iHeartRadio Music Festival
presented by Capital One is back September nineteenth and twentieth

(54:04):
in Vegas, two nights, one stage. I'm doing it again.
Oh my god, I'm shy. See iHeart topic that gets
you choked up?

Speaker 1 (54:10):
I know. I mean every year it's like, you know,
when I hear the lineup, I get emotional. Same In fact,
it's hard, like you say it every day and every
day it's like, oh, here we go. You know it's
a roller coat. What kind of day am I having already?

Speaker 2 (54:23):
Yeah, I'm going to try not to cry.

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speaking of iHeart searched the Fred Show on demand and
set us as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app.
I would very much like to stop talking now. I
can't stop choking.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
That's a little YouTube project going. It's going great, is it?
Are we into our lips match our voices? Finally? Yes,
that's an exciting development as opposed to watching us talk
and then it's it's like some sort of weird subtitle movie.

Speaker 2 (55:02):
Oh no, Stephanie Spielberg did her big one.

Speaker 1 (55:05):
Wow, this is exciting. Just one more thing to manage.
So there's nowhere you can't find us now everywhere, Prodigy, Aol,
compu Serve YouTube and your dreams. Oh yeah, always in
the dreams. Showbiz Shelley eight hundred and fifty bucks is
the price her record, oney and twelve wins, sixty eight losses.
She's back from eternity. Leave people do miss the juvenile intro.

(55:25):
We may have to just bring that back, just for
something else in the lab. The people loved it. I
was hearing from the people. I'm always hearing from the people.
I'm a man of the people, so I hear from
the people, and that's the feedback I was getting. Loved it. However,
Shelley is back to reclaim her game eight fifties the
Price eight five, five, five, nine, one one three five.
We want to take her on five pop culture questions.

(55:47):
Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

Speaker 17 (55:50):
Shelley in the show Biz Showdown shook it?

Speaker 1 (56:02):
Yeah, may need to give you the juvenile music and
see what what you do with it.

Speaker 2 (56:07):
You want, Bobby, you got it in my headphone? Just
make sure put in my headphones. That's all.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
Oh, No, I want you to freestyle. I'm not getting out.
I'm not gonna turn I'm not gonna turn you up
in there. Yes, set you over here, turn me up
in my headphone. Down up the headphones, please, Nick. How
you doing?

Speaker 2 (56:28):
Nick?

Speaker 1 (56:29):
Good bred?

Speaker 8 (56:30):
How are you doing?

Speaker 1 (56:30):
Nick? Good morning? Welcome? Tell us about you. Fun fact
about Nick.

Speaker 7 (56:33):
Is I am from Chicago, from River North.

Speaker 13 (56:38):
I'm a huge Cobbs fan and I am excited to
play with shoe bitch Shelley.

Speaker 1 (56:43):
Okay, well welcome, I am too. But the Pope doesn't
want us to have nice things because he says, he
says only good luck to the socks. That's what he said.

Speaker 2 (56:50):
That's what I heard.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
It's all right, you know, I know I'm stunned as well.
I'm stunning the Man of God.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
A good word, right, God's word?

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Team, Well, they need it. Okay, let's play, guys. It's
five questions. Eight hundred and fifty bucks is the price.
Shelley's record oney twelve wins, sixty eight losses, eight straight.
Let's go, all right, good luck, all right, you gotta go,
Shelley Mompo the Samboo Boo nick Question number one, which
levitating singer confirmed she's engaged to actor Callum Turner. Which

(57:24):
comedian in Borat Star finalized his divorce with Isla Fisher
Sasha Bara Cohen. I'll find you. Chris Pratt hung out
with his ex wife for the first time in seven
years at their son's sixth grade graduation. Name his ex?

Speaker 2 (57:44):
All right, two.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
One, I got two left, you got this nick, which
singer said she lost a lead role in the kids
movie Hotel Transylvania after she got hacked and a photo
of her with an inappropriate cake was leaked. Three two,
and David Beckham shout shouted out all four of his

(58:10):
kids on Father's Day, despite the rumored issues between he
and one of his sons. Name his son.

Speaker 2 (58:18):
Three. Yeah there now two it's a burrow, right, is
it a burrow?

Speaker 1 (58:24):
I'm gonna give you two even though you didn't really
get to so you got two?

Speaker 2 (58:27):
Oh you are okay?

Speaker 1 (58:28):
Yeah? Well, yeah, I don't think it man, Yeah, two
two kind of one kind, but I don't think Yeah.
I think it's gonna be okay. Are you ready?

Speaker 2 (58:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (58:40):
Right?

Speaker 1 (58:41):
Which levitating singer confirms she's engaged to actor Callum Turner.
Julia Which. Comedian in Borat star finalized his divorce with
Isla Fisher.

Speaker 2 (58:51):
Sasha Baron Collin.

Speaker 1 (58:52):
Sasha Baron Cohen. Yeah, Chris Pratt hung out with his
ex wife for the first time in seven years at
their son's sixth grade graduation. Name his.

Speaker 2 (59:01):
Chris Pratt, Anna feris that's right?

Speaker 1 (59:03):
Which singer said she lost a lead role in the
kids movie Hotel Transylvania after she got hacked, and a
photo of her with an inappropriate cake was leaked.

Speaker 2 (59:12):
Mighty Cyrus.

Speaker 1 (59:13):
Yeah, David Beckham shouted out all four of his kids
on Father's Day, despite the rumored issues between he and
one of his sons name his son. Oh three, that's right,
that's a five, and that is a win. Nick, my man,
you gotta say, my name is Nick. I got showed
up on a showdown. You know the rest.

Speaker 6 (59:32):
My name is Nick.

Speaker 13 (59:33):
I got showed up on the showdown.

Speaker 7 (59:35):
And I cannot hang with the gorilla.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
That's right, Nick, You my man, can't hang with a
gun Rael.

Speaker 16 (59:50):
Get shout out to Nick and Pope Leo.

Speaker 2 (59:56):
Amen.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
Those Canada wildfires can't get me down. Trying to take
me out. Can't do it. Can't be done. Nick, Hang
on a second, have a great day. Appreciate you man,
thanks for listening. Showbiz. You did it again. Nine hundred
bucks win number oneenty thirteen and nine straight. Very impressive.

Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
Thank you, Thank you very much. Appreciate you. Thank you
to you.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
And we were talking earlier. I know if you had
it on or not. I know you were like parenting
and doing all these things.

Speaker 2 (01:00:26):
I can't guarantee you here everything, but yeah, no, I
have you on.

Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
And we were talking about a dad and a mom
who were having issues because you know, ones it worked
for twelve hours a day, the other one's raising the kids.
And in this case, the mom was overheard telling her
mom that she's a single parent, essentially, which offended the
guy who's going to work for twelve hours a day.
And I guess that that's like that they had sort
of made that arrangement like Hey, I'm going to go

(01:00:51):
to work and you're going to raise the kids, and
that's how we're going to do this. And so he
was offended. And now you are married to a member
of our United States Navy. This dude, you know, he
picks up and goes to Dubai parties, AKA gets deployed.
And if you haven't been listening for a while, my
military Mike will get deployed because he's in some sort

(01:01:11):
of top secret area of the Navy, like we're not
supposed to know what he's doing. And then all of
a sudden, out of nowhere, I'll be like Shelley, where
is he and she's like, I don't know. And then
on his Instagram it's him shirtless in Dubai and you're like, well,
I think I know, I know.

Speaker 20 (01:01:22):
Whuntext they do poor staff every now and again, and
they get to get off and they sometimes get to
hang out and they're not working in the middle of
the ocean somewhere, so that's a rediation.

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
He deserves it. But she was like, man, I don't
know where he is. I do. He's at Club x
FOZ in Dubai right now, shirtless you guys, like, has
this ever been a thing? I mean you you married
him knowing that he was in the military, knowing that
he would go on long employments, knowing that at some
point it would end.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
You married knowing that, but like you don't really.

Speaker 20 (01:01:55):
Know, Like you don't it's like, oh, yeah, you're gonna chat, okay, yeah, sure, whatever,
But then you're in it and it's like, oh wow,
but yeah, like he's he's gone for a few weeks
now because they have what's called like underways where they
go out to see it. So it's like he'll be
gone for sometimes even months at a time when he's
not deployed. So I maybe this is bad, but I've
like become almost like numb to it, Like I almost
feel worse for my daughter and son because it's like now, Olivia,

(01:02:17):
my daughter's getting to age where it's like she kind
of understands like, Okay, Dad's not coming, Like I feel
bad for her, but I don't feel like I'm a
single mom. I mean, I guess for you know, those weeks,
I can be, but I don't feel like I'm a
single mom. I mean, it's I will tell you this.
It is so so hard. Remember when you guys asked me,

(01:02:38):
like you were like, oh, you want another kid, and
one one the work of one like took my breath away,
So that was really I was like, I don't know,
we're on the fence. And then we had Liam, our boy.
He's the best, Like I can't imagine life without him now.
But it's hard, like having too, like having a toddler
and a baby in the back of the car screaming
deaths like a joy, you guys know, nothing, like it's

(01:03:00):
just let me tell you it's something.

Speaker 2 (01:03:03):
So it's really hard. It's just it is it's really really.

Speaker 1 (01:03:06):
Hard that he has to sleep on a submarine or
aircraft carrier or whatever. So it's like it's not like
har too right exactly.

Speaker 20 (01:03:13):
And I heard the one caller say when he gets home,
like you know, he wants to relax, which I get too.
So that's something we have had to work on. Is
like Okay, you come home and he gets like a
certain a lotted amount of time and then you know, yeah,
not help.

Speaker 1 (01:03:28):
So that's quite to sacrifice. And it's really hard. And
I don't know that I've ever I mean, I've known
people obviously who were in the military, but I don't
think I've ever known any of my contemporaries, any of
my peers are friends that have to do this, like
you do when he's gone for months on end, and
it's like, well, and you know you people could argue, well,
you knew that when you married him, but that doesn't
mean that doesn't mean that in practice that it's you know,

(01:03:50):
something that you can truly like grasp.

Speaker 20 (01:03:52):
Unless you have somebody close to you in the military,
you don't really get it.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
Like I didn't really know.

Speaker 20 (01:03:55):
What I was getting myself into really, So now have
been a part of it, Yes, now I do understand it.
Is it's very hard, and it's hard because we don't
really a family around, so it's like scrapping together, you know,
like babysit, like.

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
All kinds of stuff. So it is it's I've had
a good cry for, not against, and that's amazing. Right,
you're doing amazing and that's okay. Thank you?

Speaker 1 (01:04:15):
Well, I say thank you both for your sacrifice, and
Jason says, more shirtless pictures from military mindsets.

Speaker 2 (01:04:20):
Hey, no summers on the corner, right, yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (01:04:24):
Don't think that speedo is military issue, but whatever it is,
it is camouflaged. So in our country. We'll see tomorrow.
Have a good day, are you too? By Kiki's Court
is next?

Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
But umpa girl, you need a DNA test?

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
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Speaker 3 (01:05:15):
We'll go up in the city, play a game for
your you go to work and you're doing recess with
your friends.

Speaker 1 (01:05:21):
But there is so much that goes into that or
what people think about this right where it works are
Fred's show is on next Monday, June sixteen. The Frends
Show is not good morning, Thanks for waking up with us.
Hi kayln good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paulina hikekill.
That means here on the phone of the text eight
five five five Kiki's Court in just a second, bout

(01:05:44):
I'm bomb girl, Karon reg innocent.

Speaker 16 (01:05:47):
I don't know nothing about Karen, but you need a
DNA test over here?

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
Okay. The Entertainer Report headline's biggest stories of the day,
The fun fact coming up? What are you working on?

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
K an entire music festival was canceled over the weekend,
and also Taylor's did something for sick kids that made
my eyes very wet over the.

Speaker 1 (01:06:03):
Weekend, and people were still somehow critical in the comments.

Speaker 2 (01:06:07):
It's like, how shut up, shut up, I don't do anything.

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
It's Kiki's court, all rights, The honorable Kiki Leak is here.
Take it away, Judge Kiky.

Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
All right, let's get into the courtroom.

Speaker 16 (01:06:17):
It says Kiki, am I wrong for getting a DNA
test on my daughter because I didn't believe she was mine.
My wife and I have been together for ten years,
married for six We tried for years to have a baby,
and for years we were faced with struggles. But back
in December, we were finally blessed with our baby girl.
I was shocked, excited, but if I'm honest, I had

(01:06:37):
a little bit of doubt in my mind that the
baby could really be mine, just because we tried for
so long and had no success. To make matters worse,
when my daughter was born, she didn't really look like me.
Even my own mother started making comments about how she
didn't really look like us at all, different hair texture,
eye color, and more. Eventually, my mom suggested that I

(01:06:57):
buy an at home DNA test and test my daughter
without telling my wife. Thankfully, the results confirmed she is mine,
and I felt a huge sense of relief and was
ready to move on with our lives. But last week
my wife found out she was shopping online and saw
the DNA test in our recent purchase history.

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
And now she's not speaking to me.

Speaker 16 (01:07:17):
She's sleeping in the gas room and says that our
trust is forever broken. It really wasn't a trust thing
for me, but more of my anxiety just getting the
best of me. Am I wrong for doing what I
felt was necessary to make me feel secure?

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
Judge Kicky would say.

Speaker 2 (01:07:34):
Oh, you da are wrong. You are so wrong, my boy,
you are wrong. Oh you're wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:07:39):
You know I gotta be smarter. I am a you
know what you got to do, but people can't find
out about it? You can, like you share the Amazon.
What are we doing?

Speaker 16 (01:07:49):
I mean, I'm a technically single woman, but even yes,
I am Jason, like.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
If I was, he's asleep. Yeah, we find out that
big Tip works all night, which is why there's no
chance that he'll hear any of this racket.

Speaker 2 (01:08:03):
Yeah, he's a smart man.

Speaker 16 (01:08:05):
But I would never do something like this and not
talk about it with my partner, Like, I feel, what.

Speaker 1 (01:08:12):
Are you supposed to say? Kiki, Like, hey just said,
I don't think this kid looks like me. I'm pretty
sure that somebody else inseminated you. No, I mean, like,
I don't. I don't think that you can have that
comp I mean that that wouldn't that be worse than
just doing this on the side and not telling anybody
to appease what you know to be your own insecurity.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
If you're gonna do it, do it well, bro.

Speaker 16 (01:08:32):
You can't do it on the same wallbrings account like
you should have you know, you have somebody else by you,
but actually you should be able to talk to your
partner about this, like if you're having insecurities, if you're
having doubts, if there's something going on, you could say,
my mind's playing tricks on.

Speaker 2 (01:08:46):
Me, like can we fix this? Can we figure it out?

Speaker 16 (01:08:49):
But to do this behind her back and then you
and your mama in cahoops and then nobody told me anything.
Y'all over her DNA testing my child. Oh my yes,
I'm sleep in the guest room. You better be glad
you're still alive.

Speaker 6 (01:09:02):
Yes, And babies don't look like anybody, Like, I'm so sick.
A many people are like, this baby looks more like
babies look like babies. You're gonna look at a baby
and be like, this doesn't look like me, Like it's
a baby.

Speaker 2 (01:09:13):
It's a baby. They need to cook, not even like grown.

Speaker 1 (01:09:17):
Now I know I mixed on this, you guys. So
I'm supposed to bring all of my insecurities into the relationship,
Like I'm supposed to sit down and be like I
think you cheated on me and created a baby. Or
if I'm this crazy in my mind Loki like Cabasa,
then I just go figure it out on my own
and then hopefully you never find out. Then I'm a
crazy person and that's on me, and I needed some reassurance.

Speaker 2 (01:09:39):
You are okay with this, it's gonna end.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
It would potentially end the relationship to sit down and
accuse the mother of your child of cheating because simply
because you're insecure.

Speaker 2 (01:09:49):
No no, no, no.

Speaker 16 (01:09:50):
See, he could have came to her and said, you know,
my mind is something went on with my mind after
having this baby. We've been through so many struggles, like
help me ease my mind, wife, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:10:01):
But what damage does this do? If it's if he's
just confirming what he already wants to know, like what
what is it? What damage is really taken? I mean,
either way, either way he's saying I don't trust my wife,
whether he sits down and talks to her or gets
a dnahest either way he's saying I don't trust you,
which means there's an overarching, a larger issue going on here.

Speaker 16 (01:10:23):
But you can't trust now, I can never trust you
or your mama. I don't know what y'all will do.
You know now you're forever. I'm always looking at you
with a side eye because you had this whole operation
on the side of our marriage and never mentioned it
to me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:34):
You just gotta be smarter about it. Oh, we just
gotta not get caught, is what this says. If you're
if you've got insecurities and you want answers, and you
can get them and no one ever has to, no
one's ever the wiser, then you go get those answers
and you make sure you never get caught. That's it,
Oh my Lanta eight five five five five. Well, because
like I don't, I don't know if you're gonna live

(01:10:55):
with this. If you are, if you believe this and
you have no evidence, no evidence, what's to And this
is something that you just have to clear your mind about.
And I sit down, I say, Kiki, is that kid mine?
I want a DNA test. I'm saying you're a cheater
for no reason.

Speaker 16 (01:11:11):
No, because you know you could say postpartumn man, go
through postpartum two.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
Stop it.

Speaker 2 (01:11:17):
You know you could, like I'm just saying, he would
have to me. You could have blamed it on your
mental health, and I would have worked with you, but
the fact that you're.

Speaker 1 (01:11:24):
Out here owing you a cheater even if my mental
health is off, which my mental health is always off,
and you knew that when I when we got when
we Hodel, call me a.

Speaker 16 (01:11:31):
Cheated to my face and not behind my back. Okay, Colleena,
what would you do if Poppy did this?

Speaker 1 (01:11:37):
Well?

Speaker 10 (01:11:38):
Taking a grave at the cemetery, Dad is like, I'm
already postpartum, already going through everything. I cooked this baby
for nine months, and you're accusing me of that. Sometimes
I look at my daughter, though I don't even know
if she's mine, because she looks nothing like me, even
like just like her beautiful, like you know, skin texture, everything,
her color.

Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
I'm like, oh my god, like, are you even my baby?

Speaker 10 (01:11:54):
But I might have to But if Hobby ever asked
me that, or him and his mother went behind my back,
I don't even know what's worse. To be honest, I
don't know if you're going behind my back or just
straight up telling me I want a DNA test.

Speaker 1 (01:12:05):
You cannot get caught. If you're going to do this,
you cannot get caught. That's really what this comes down to,
is you just simply cannot get caught. Hey Chloe, Hey,
Hi Chloe, Welcome to Keiki's Court. On The Fred Show,
I did a situation a dude is insecure because he
doesn't think that his kid is his. And so despite
the fact that he has no evidence of her cheating whatsoever,

(01:12:28):
he wins and he and his mom went and had
a DNA test to prove that in fact, the kid
was his, and it is. And then his wife found
out because he was a dummy and he bought it
on a shared account. Dummy. But what do you think?

Speaker 8 (01:12:41):
I don't know, Like, honestly, I think probably you should
go because there's like so many things that are wrong
in this situation.

Speaker 13 (01:12:47):
For me.

Speaker 8 (01:12:48):
One, you say that, oh, I had to do it
because my anxiety was so bad. Okay, So like, if
you struggle with mental health, you should be talking with
your partner about that, and you should probably have a
therapist because chance if you were talking with your therapist
about all of this, you would not have needed to
buy the paternity test. Second issue, what is mom in

(01:13:08):
law doing? Like, there are things that you like to
say and then there are things that you don't say,
and it seems like mom in law is a little
bit of a hater. And there's just like some things
you just don't tell your kids about their other partner,
you know, like if my mom has some opinions about
my husband, I tell her, yeah, thank you, keep them

(01:13:30):
to yourself and let's keep it moving. But I feel
like this is also pretty severe where you're like, yeah,
I don't think the kid here is either like what what?

Speaker 1 (01:13:39):
Yeah, Chloe say No, I'm glad you called, thanks for listening,
have a good day.

Speaker 15 (01:13:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
I mean, look, I'm a thinker, you know. I let
my mind get the best of me. I have my insecurities.
I wouldn't say, you know, this would hopefully be one
of them. But if I need to rest my mind
over something that I know is ridiculous, I've got two
chic I can either it's either mind ever matter or
I control I control it. And I said this is ridiculous,

(01:14:06):
and I have to talk to myself and say, hey, hey, Fred,
this is like you're a crazy person and this is
a crazy thought and move past it. And if I
simply cannot do that, I don't need to torture you
and sit down and accuse you of being a bad person.
I get answers on my own.

Speaker 2 (01:14:20):
And get caught.

Speaker 1 (01:14:22):
I already said, don't get caught.

Speaker 2 (01:14:24):
How could you live with yourself if you did that
in secret?

Speaker 1 (01:14:26):
Though? See, I could live with myself a lot better
than sitting down and accusing a person who I don't
really think cheated cheated because I'm a crazy person.

Speaker 2 (01:14:33):
But if you don't really think I cheated, then why
do you need the test?

Speaker 1 (01:14:36):
You've never had a thought that just was unreasonable, that
just didn't add up.

Speaker 2 (01:14:40):
Of course I have, but I would share that. I wouldn't.
I wouldn't get my book jesting.

Speaker 1 (01:14:45):
Like I know that if I really have no evidence
of you cheating, and I sit you down and I
accuse you of cheating, that isn't quite the accusation. When
I know I'm a crazy person. So I can put
my mind to rest. Mine is rested. Oh you just
take it caught, okay? Oh someone said you were lying here.
Hold on a second, you say, oh, kicky out here
lying like a living room rug wanted to gotta be

(01:15:06):
upfront about it. See, I don't think that's an answer.
I simply don't think that's that's not an option.

Speaker 16 (01:15:10):
You're right, I'm lying. I want him to go sneak
around my back, behind my back? What is mama? Yeah,
not exactly, Yeah, but I just want him to be honest.

Speaker 1 (01:15:21):
I'm not saying any of this is good, but I
can't just project every insecurity I have onto my partner.
That's not fair to my partner.

Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
But you can do it without saying someone cheated. You
could say, hey, I'm having these thoughts.

Speaker 1 (01:15:31):
I know they're maybe it's not mine. That means another
dude put his stuff in their.

Speaker 3 (01:15:35):
No, you could say, I know you didn't cheat, but
like I have been hurt in the past, and this
is what's coming up for me. You could have a
conversation without accusing someone.

Speaker 1 (01:15:43):
If I didn't think you'd cheated, then we don't need
the test. I don't know. This one is one that's
going to be tough to work around. I don't think
you can communicate that without I think that's equally hurtful,
maybe more hurtful. Wow, And you could also a lot
of people were you think you just blame it on
mom in law, Well, just get hurt. Just say my mom,

(01:16:04):
I don't know relationship. I couldn't get her to shut up.
I couldn't Polly, Hi, Polly, my niece is not yet
doesn't have an opinion on this yet. She's fo what
would you do here? What? What's what? How do you
get around this? What? What do you say? What do
you do?

Speaker 12 (01:16:26):
I mean I would leave. Honestly, this sucks because they've
been trying so long to have this kid and then
she finally has a kid and this shit all happens.
But the mother in law is a bigger problem than
we're talking about here.

Speaker 21 (01:16:39):
Because why is she why is she acting this on?
Why is she adding to this? She's probably getting in
her son's head, like honestly, that's probably part of it
as well.

Speaker 12 (01:16:50):
So I think she has to go because there's a
whole baggage here.

Speaker 21 (01:16:55):
It seems like honest.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
Mom, I'd hope she tugged me out of it, right,
you hope?

Speaker 15 (01:17:00):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
That's crazy, you know, like, let's someone just texted my
kid didn't look like me until my kid was ten
or something, so like, I don't know that that's you know,
I don't know. I think sometimes you gotta take you
gotta you gotta uh, you cannot just put everything else
that you're feeling onto other people simply because you're feeling it.
You kind of have to like sometimes have control over
your thoughts and and and so I don't know that

(01:17:22):
necessarily putting that on her is something you would ever
recover from. But then again, I think getting caught in
this case is not something you're ever going to get
going to recover from. So I don't know there's a
point of no return here. Yeah, he just can't get cold.

Speaker 21 (01:17:35):
Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 12 (01:17:36):
Either way he would have been he should be gone, Okay,
I'd be colder. Or if he didn't kill her, you know,
thank you, Polly.

Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
I appreciate it. Have a good day, are you too?

Speaker 2 (01:17:47):
Just don't get gone, Fred, I don't know about that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:50):
Calin's entertainment report is on the Freas Show.

Speaker 3 (01:17:54):
Taylor Swift has been living with boyfriend Travis Kelcey in
Florida and spend her day on Friday surprising children at
the Joe DiMaggio Children's Hospital.

Speaker 21 (01:18:03):
There.

Speaker 3 (01:18:03):
A few clips are making their rounds on Social or
We're over the weekend of Taylor taking her time with
each kiddo making her rounds, even sending a girl named
Naya her entire outfit after.

Speaker 2 (01:18:14):
She simply told Taylor that she liked it.

Speaker 3 (01:18:16):
Of course, very sick people on the internet took issue
with the visit, with some calling her out for handing
out signed copies of her Aras tour book. Apparently that's
rude to patients. Also others asking why the interactions were filmed.
First of all, Taylor famously bands pressed from being at
these hospital visits, but other people film and she lets

(01:18:37):
them because she's not going to say no phone.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
Right, the family's filmed and then they put it up.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
She allows that.

Speaker 3 (01:18:43):
Yeah, which because they can film if they want, they
can share if they want. So that's why it's making
its rounds. You guys are sick. And after she left
the hospital posted you made this a day we'll never
shake off. Thank you Taylor Swift for bringing your support
and kindness to Joe DiMaggio Children's Hospital. You turn to
hospital hallways into a place of joy, comfort and connection.
And the last time she did this, I believe, was

(01:19:04):
in Kansas City and a girl said that she really
wanted a dice and air wrap for Christmas and it
showed up at her hospital room the next day.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
No good deed goes unpunished.

Speaker 3 (01:19:15):
I was like, my goodness, can you can you Nope,
and her spare time.

Speaker 2 (01:19:20):
She certainly did not need to do that. The entire Bonnaroom.

Speaker 3 (01:19:23):
Music and Arts Festival in Tennessee was canceled over the weekend,
all due to bad weather. The event was slated for
Thursday through Sunday, but Luke Colmes was the only headliner
that got to perform before the storm sit which meant
the rest of the weekend was canceled and fans weren't
able to watch artists like Tyler the Creator, Olivia Rodrigo, Hozier,
Glo Rilla, Tyler Avril, Lavine, John Summon, dam Dalla Glass,

(01:19:43):
Animals and more. So, they just straight up canceled the
whole thing, which was a huge bummer. I'm sure Sasha
Baron Cohen and Isla Fisher have finalized their divorce, and
we know this because they both announced it on social media,
sharing the same status on Instagram, saying they're proud of
what they achieved during their time together and have great
resk back for each other. They're committed to remaining friends
and co parenting their three children. They met in two

(01:20:04):
thousand and one, got engaged in two thousand and four,
married in Paris in twenty ten. Before announcing last year
that they were separating, and Jason was saying earlier this morning,
he can't believe that she he even landed her in
the first place. Yeah, yeah, but Funny wins every time.
I feel like but she is very beautiful. And lastly,
How to Train Your Dragon debuted with a strong eighty

(01:20:26):
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You certainly he did.

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going to go to that. Well, dug your heels in.
I did then fifty million dollars later seventy or whatever
it was. They made all the money and the mission
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I'd like to apologize yet again.

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Speaker 14 (01:23:11):
They tell them.

Speaker 15 (01:23:12):
Yeah, they talk better than they say tell me.

Speaker 1 (01:23:15):
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we're running in our diaries, except we see them aloud.
We call them blogs. Can't gigo yo, dear blog yo.

Speaker 2 (01:23:24):
So it's good.

Speaker 16 (01:23:25):
Yeah, I just I just feel like we just need
to all put this on the floor and just address
these people all for once. Okay, what exactly are you
trying to do when you FaceTime someone unplanned, I feel
like I feel like you are trying to catch me
with my pants down. You know, there's some type of
operation going on that you're trying to.

Speaker 1 (01:23:47):
Like after you tell me that you answered the phone
once mid thrust, Yes, you and Big Tim we're getting
on and apparently you the foot you saw it was
me and so you answered while he was getting at it.
Now that's why FaceTime you all. That's I'm hoping I'm
gonna catch a little something.

Speaker 2 (01:24:01):
Is that what you're doing?

Speaker 16 (01:24:02):
Yeah, because I the moment you like, and I really
hope that if anyone is ever in danger that you
try to reach me, don't FaceTime me, call me or
text me. Do not facetimey because I'm not picking up.
I refuse and I just feel like it's my right.
And when you just out here face Simon folks unannounced,
that is I think it is rude.

Speaker 1 (01:24:24):
I mean, you could answer rude.

Speaker 2 (01:24:26):
It's rude.

Speaker 6 (01:24:27):
Sometimes I'm just drunk a puppies that I want to
call you, I'm not I don't have any It was
the ulterior motive.

Speaker 2 (01:24:33):
I already know what that's going to be. You're excluded
from this.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
Right, So I thought it was Friday night FaceTime for
me that I know exactly.

Speaker 19 (01:24:41):
What I'm not.

Speaker 1 (01:24:42):
There's no malice. I'm just you're not calling to break
that news to me drunk. Everyone knows that.

Speaker 7 (01:24:47):
But you will.

Speaker 2 (01:24:48):
Remember if we're naked, So it doesn't matter.

Speaker 16 (01:24:51):
Like I know, when Jason calls me, I already know
what's on the other somebody's working the cash here.

Speaker 2 (01:24:56):
The register had pep.

Speaker 16 (01:24:59):
Crazy, right, But when a random friend just face times
me out of note, like, who do you think you are?

Speaker 2 (01:25:05):
First? Okay, let's talk about it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:08):
She does that. See, I would agree, girl, you cannot
sneak at tech face times.

Speaker 3 (01:25:12):
She asked me, can I call you for some advice?
I'm like, oh, you know, it's serious. She needs to
talk and she just face times me and I answer,
I have no makeup on im in the bed. I'm terrified.
My witching hour is two pm. It's when I start
to get really scared.

Speaker 2 (01:25:25):
And like very tired.

Speaker 3 (01:25:28):
Yeah, and she just is on there like looking at me,
and she wants to talk. Do you know how long
and how hard it is to stay engaged looking at.

Speaker 2 (01:25:35):
Someone for that long?

Speaker 1 (01:25:36):
Yeah? FaceTime is a lot of work, and based on
the phone, I can be doing anything right and just listening.
But FaceTime I got to look and look engage, and
you can tell if I'm not paying attention. And i'
mean even I would say eighty percent of the time
now I'll even text you to see if I can
call you. They are very There are very few people
that I will just pick up the phone and call,
unless it's an emergency or it's really urgent. I will

(01:25:59):
usually tech someone now and say hey, can we talk?
Is now a good time or whatever? Before I will call.

Speaker 16 (01:26:05):
Because you were raised right, Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
I'm a friend instilled that in you. That is what
you are supposed.

Speaker 1 (01:26:11):
I mean, FaceTime wasn't invented until I was in my thirties.
But still, I mean she was still we had we
had to have a refresher raising class. Yeah, she told me.
But see now she'll sneak attack of FaceTime, no problem,
oh mama, friend, oh mom, and Fred will sneak attack
of face time.

Speaker 13 (01:26:27):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:26:27):
And we know what she'll do sometimes is she'll call
and I'll pick up and you go, oh good, and
then all of a sudden, you hear that, and it's
her trying to make it into a FaceTime. Yeah. I'm like, no,
I agree to a call by picking this up. I
agreed to a call, not a face time. I would
have not answered if I'd known that was coming. I'm
getting heated about this now.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
Yes, it's not right.

Speaker 7 (01:26:48):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:26:48):
Then you get on the FaceTime, you forget you're on there.

Speaker 16 (01:26:51):
Next thing you know, I'm walking around, showed you my
tie house, you saw me with my hair off.

Speaker 2 (01:26:55):
It's just it's not safe.

Speaker 1 (01:26:56):
That's the thing.

Speaker 6 (01:26:56):
You have to expect that. I'm gonna have my AirPods
that I'm going to set the phone down. You're to
be looking at my ceiling.

Speaker 13 (01:27:01):
I'm going to.

Speaker 6 (01:27:01):
Continue walking around, doing the laundry, doing the stuff that
I need to do. Right, we can still talk, but
you are not seeing anything. Say you're seeing the table
or the ceiling. Just that needs to be added to
the Fred Show constitution. I think maybe it's on today's tangent, Paulina.
We're going to keep that open because today I think
we're going to talk about your boobs because you mentioned
that on our sheet. I like that because you wanted

(01:27:25):
to talk about your boobs and I think that's a
better form for that. And then I also think I
think we need to have a little vote here of
the Congress.

Speaker 1 (01:27:32):
Yes, and we need. I think there are some things
that need to come off the Constitution that are outdated,
and some things that need to be added. And I
think one of the things that needs to be added,
without question is no surprise facetimes.

Speaker 3 (01:27:43):
No if I make it that far, because I'm already
in trouble with our boss interm. Bellah yeah, wow Dot

Speaker 16 (01:27:50):
Yes, I received permission before this top right, that's my boy.