June 24, 2025 • 40 mins
Paulina is getting a breast reduction, and she is so excited! Also, we debate relationship drama on an all new Stay or Go. And do you think Shelly can continue her win streak? Find out!
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three other women that she had a video game. Is
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Speaker 2 (02:28):
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for literally crafts.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Yeah, because some people it was video games. For her
it was crafts. But they'd never met before. And then
I was kidding around last week and going, ha, you
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see here. I'll stay her going just a second Jamie
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has an issue with her husband, so she came in
the right place. This place. We'll tell you how to
live your life. It's all good what they say, like
those who can do, those who can't teach, or something
like that. I don't know if I believe that, but
in this case it would be true. I have no
business being married, but I'll tell you how to do it. Yeah,
and I'm probably right my lot of thanks to I
(04:17):
firmly believe that the entertainer reports coming up this hour
as well. What are you working on?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
K a major change coming to movie theaters. Also the
actor that bit his co star.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Oh, not supposed to do that. And we're commercial free
for the next forty five minutes. You don't have to
go anywhere. Yeah, they talk better than they excited.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
These are the radio blogs on The Fresh showt for
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs. Paulina. Yes, the big day is coming.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
It is coming.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Take it away, dear blog. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yes, the big day is coming.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
Bigger than my wedding day, bigger than my twenty first birthday.
I mean, this is a big day, you guys. This
is the day of my breast reduction and lyft.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Well, I mean today, isn't it not today?
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
But I mean I wish it was some of the betters.
Al Right, Friday, Friday morning, seven am. That's where I'm
a bee. Wow, I can't wait. I'm so excited, but
I'm very nervous. I'm very nervous. But I have my
inso pick, which I told you guys about. I was like, oh,
you know, my friend she sent me a photo because
she heard through the great vines that I was, you know.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Through the great vines, multiple vines, all the different vines. Okay,
so many vines. Because we talked about this last week
because you asked your your best friend who's a guy. Yes,
you were like, hey, her moves are pretty great, verbs,
her herbs are pretty great. In the great vines are
pretty great, and so like, I don't know, maybe because
your doctor had asked you for examples of what you
wanted them to look like, right, yeah, he's like bringing
(05:39):
me a photo. This woman was kind enough to just
put well not un solicited, but you didn't ask her.
She just received a picture of them.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Yeah, like a good morning tex.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
She's like, hey, I heard you like these so here's
a picture, and I would be.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Like, thank you, that's a great way to wake up.
It was wonderful.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I feel like a teenage boy. It was just like
so many boobs.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Actually, you've been like boob shopping though lately, right because
and this is like a board here. We're not even you.
You were having the reconstruction surgery, You've had a baby.
These things are Yeah, it's been large your whole life.
You don't want them to be that way anymore all life?
Oh yeah no, And they're on the floor like that's
where I'm at. I'm very pocal about it.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
And I'm just really excited for this new chapter of
my life where I just feel like I can wear
certain clothes and again I don't have to like, you know,
tape things up or pick them off the floor in
the mornings. So for me, I'm really really excited. And
I was telling my friend over the week and I
saw her. She she's shaping me at the moment at
Shape Chicago shout out really quick. But she's doing a
little uh you know when you roll people like doughs
like wood therapy and like they burned fat. It's like
(06:34):
a whole thing.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
I didn't know yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
Oh, it's a whole movement one like oh, well, you
know you're actually working out and doing the right stuff.
I'm cheating a little bit over here. But she is
making me uh snatched. And she and I were talking
about this. I'm like, hey, you know, Friday, I'm gonna
do this whatever and she goes, oh, yeah, I'm a
sea and she's a mom too, And I was like,
oh really and she goes yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
And I'm like can I see it? And she's like yeah,
and she just went and showed me.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
So police's walking in asking everybody, I would those look nice?
Would you mind?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Do you want to see?
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
No one asked me or Jason, are you?
Speaker 6 (07:16):
Are you a nice sea cup? That's what I'm rolling for.
Well I need to look ladies. Everybody line up on
the wall.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Wow, so you're you're shopping and then Friday will go
in and be like a little bit of this and
a little bit of that and then boom.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
There's so much info now now I don't know where
you thank you, But that's a real girls girl. I
was just you know, literally like talking and she hers
were perfect, not even.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
She can't forget them done. Text us your seas if
you got them.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Oh god, I don't want to be that. I don't
want to be responsible. I don't well, I don't want
to be responsible.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Well, when we get them, my brain is still on
this rolling thing. So where where are you rolling it to,
like your big toe or something. No, where do we
roll it to because eventually it doesn't have to come out.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
So yeah, So it's a lymphatic drainage like massage type things.
So like they do your stomach, they melt your fat
with this like machine.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Then she does a massage, then she does what therapy. Guys,
I'm me a whole new person. Gave me like a month.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Well yeah, there's nothing wrong with the person that you are.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Oh thank you. No, she was fun.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I love I love me, but I'm gonna love me
more with my with my new boobs and my rold tummy.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
It's gonna be quite the vacation. I'm getting my closets
organized and uh he is getting new boobs.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
But you know, you better, you better get your fill
of asking everyone if you can see their stuff, because
like you know, come Friday, then the surgery's already happened,
so it won't work anymore. No, Yeah, I was wondering
why you were walking around the office going, hey, would
you mind stay or go? A lot of people don't
know that I'm the guy playing those big drums with
the big you know, with the sticks with the big
fat thing on the end of it, boom boom. A
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lot of people don't know I'm the guys sure the
harpist not on that track. No, No, I mean I
am a studio artist, and I've been known to a
session artist. I've been known to do a lot of
different things on this when I'm the boom boom guy. Yes,
every time you hear boom boom, you ate right on.
I explained that that's really kind of my thing. A
lot of people don't know them. Yeah. Yeah, thanks for
(09:11):
keeping that a secret because there was a non disclosure
and stuff, because I think the guy who actually plays
the bongos, who is sick that day, he don't want
people to know. Hey, Jamie, good morning. I don't know
what the instrument's called, but I play it. You just
hand me one. I just can do it, Jamie. Hi, welcome,
so welcome to stair Go. Thank you for your note
(09:32):
to us. Fredshire Radio on the socials freadshare radio dot com.
You can get us that way too. You are married, right, yes, okay,
you're married, and you recently got into your husband's car
and what happened?
Speaker 7 (09:48):
So I got into my husband's car and I saw
that another woman had connected to his bluetooth.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
No, boy, And how did you see that? Because it said, like,
you know, big movie, big movie, Paul in his car
phone or again, I don't know, like what people people
name their phone, right, so like sometimes people are funny
about it. But so how did you know because it
said someone's iPhone or something.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Yeah, I went to connect my phone so I could
play some music when we were going to the store,
and I saw that Stephanie's iPhone was the one to
last connect to his car.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Okay, did he loan his car out? I mean? Who
is Stephanie? Okay, I don't mean to bury the lead here.
Who's Stephanie? Do we know? I?
Speaker 7 (10:34):
I didn't know until I asked my husband. I had
never heard of a Stephanie. He had never mentioned a Stephanie,
And so when I asked him who Stephanie is, he
immediately told me that it was his coworker. And he
explained that they went one day to go get lunch
and she wanted to play music on the way.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Okay, I mean if Caylen and I left here to
go to breakfast right now, we drove somewhere, that would
not necessarily be an uncommon thing for Kaylin to want
to do. Because Kaylen actually has great music taste and
and she takes over the ox court. I don't have
a problem with it because she does a good job.
Some people take over the ox cord and I'm like, like,
my bluetooth doesn't I'm not looking at you. I'm just saying, like,
(11:15):
there I have friends who I'm like, yeah, my bluetooth
doesn't work, you know, or something so like the family.
But but Calain and I aren't doing anything like anymore.
I mean we obviously we obviously used to. But that
was everyone's speculation. But but so that wouldn't be I
guess if I were seeing someone they got in my
car and I said, Kaylen's iPhone on my car, I
don't that wouldn't mean anything, right. That would mean that
(11:37):
she was in the car with me and wanted to
control the music. That's what that would mean. But you're
saying you didn't know who this woman was and you
don't know why she's connecting to the phone, and and
and so what else concerns you about this? Or could
the car phone to the car rather?
Speaker 7 (11:55):
I mean, even though he was honest right away, it's
just to me it's unaccepted will behavior to have another
woman in your car if you're married. I just don't
think that's.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
What was Okay, now wait, whoa wa wa?
Speaker 7 (12:09):
Why wasn't he could have driven herself to lunch? She
drove herself to work. She clearly has a ride, so
I don't understand why she had a ride with my husband.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Do we not care about the planet? Lunch? We don't
care about the environment? Jamie? I mean, come on, not
really that, Jamie. Not Jamie, No.
Speaker 8 (12:24):
Really, like Jamie, don't play your husband is not allowed
to have other women in the car.
Speaker 7 (12:34):
Well, let me add this then, because this was the
other thing that really upset me was that he also
paid for her lunch. So not only did he have
her in his car playing music for him, but then
he went ahead and paid for his lunch, Like is
this a date?
Speaker 9 (12:49):
Now?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Okay, Well, now that you bring up the music and
the and the lunch, okay, well, now.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
Now, come on, I would also pay for my lunch.
And still nothing's happening.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
I don't think either one of those things speak to anything.
What are you doing your stretches again? Over there? No, Kicky, go.
Speaker 8 (13:11):
Huh because sheat Now Now, we're not gonna just act
like Stephane's feelings aren't valid. That's she's right, You're exactly right.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Stepanie the coworker is getting free lunch and control the music.
Her feelings are valid. You're exactly right. Jamie is the wife, Jamie.
So we're talking to you, and Jamie is the one
saying that this is inappropriate, and I think that that
is crazy talk.
Speaker 8 (13:38):
I think Jamie's feelings are valid though she knows her husband,
and there's a reason she feels this way about him
having another woman.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
In the car.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Yeah, why do you feel that way? Is there a reason?
Like because you wrote in your note to us that
you've never suspected this guy of cheating. So again, I
feel like there's a common theme in a lot of
these things that we talk about when it comes to
cheating her in fidelity, and it's it's trust into context,
it's history, Like, so the guy has a female coworker,
he goes to lunch with You've never suspected him of cheating, Jamie,
(14:10):
So why are we now saying that he is out
of nowhere. That's not fair to him because.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
It sends the wrong message to his coworker, like I
don't think he's cheating, but in her mind like, Okay,
you just got a ride with him, he's all letting
you pick some music and buying your lunch. It's just
it's a terrible way to be if you're married. I
feel like it sends the wrong message to her.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
I think I gotta be honest with you, Jamie. If
I were married or in a relationship and my wife
found out that I was like, no, you can get
your bluetooth. Are you trying to control my radio station out, Jamie?
Been trying to connect your trying to connect your phone
in my radio station. If my wife found out that
I a girlfriend whomever, that I I made to her
(14:56):
drive a separate car and then wouldn't pay for her lunch,
all because I was afraid, and all under the pretense
that my wife would be upset. If I did any
of that, I would think that anyone I would be
with and be like, you're an idiot, Like, that's ridiculous,
and I'm not going to again. I'm not saying, Jamie
that you're an idiot or that you're being ridiculous, But
I guess what I'm saying is I don't think that
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either one of those things inherently leads to cheating. I mean,
it's not like you found a hotel room key in
the car too, or like you know, condom wrappers or something.
I mean, I'm being serious, and whatever your concerns are
can be your concerns. But I don't think those two
things in and of themselves mean that someone is cheating.
Speaker 7 (15:44):
Yeah, I just don't want his coworker, Stephanie to think
that he's interested in her, and I really think this
opens that door for her. I mean, oh, I'll just
take you to lunch and I'll drive you, Like it
just seems weird. I wouldn't do that with my coworker.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Did you get mad at him?
Speaker 7 (16:03):
I mean we talked about it, and I had to
walk away because I felt like I was getting really
upset about it and it wasn't going to be productive.
So I guess yes, I'm kind of upset with him because.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I'll tell you what happens then, is now he's not
going to tell you about stuff like I don't know
that he stops going to lunch with a woman he's
not cheating with. Let's just assume he's not because you
don't suspect him of him infidelity and you never have,
so let's just give him the benefit of the doubt
for a second and say he's not cheating. Now he's
he's probably not gonna stop going to lunch with his teammate,
(16:35):
and so now he's not going to tell you because
he doesn't want to fight with you about it. And
I feel like sometimes you know, and this is from
the male perspective here, any You're right, I'm not in
a relationship, so maybe I got this all wrong. But
if I'm being respectful and honest and transparent and I'm
not doing anything wrong, and then the person I'm with
tells me now all of a sudden, I can't do
that thing, then am I gonna stop doing that thing?
(16:58):
I mean, I'm gonna I'm gonna listen to you, and
I'm to take into consideration you're needs and concerns. But
if I'm not doing anything wrong and it's a normal activity,
then maybe I keep doing it and just don't tell
you anymore because I don't feel like an argument. And
I think sometimes that's what happens when we get upset
about things that might not be sinister. Is that then
we want to know why there's not more transparency in relationships.
(17:20):
But it's because you're sort of penalizing the guy for
not necessarily doing anything wrong.
Speaker 7 (17:27):
Yeah, but it's not like he just straight up told
me you went to lunch with that girl. I had
to find out because of her phone being locked.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Into his car.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
That's a good point, you know.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
If he would have been like, hey, I went out
to lunch with Stephanie today, or hey I'm going out
to lunch with my coworker, it'd be different than me
having to find out.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
So you want him to tell you every time he
does something with another woman, Yeah.
Speaker 7 (17:50):
So that we can have a conversation because I would
have told him this is unacceptable to do before he
did it, and then this wouldn't be a problem.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Well, maybe that's why he didn't tell you. And again, Jamie,
I'm not coming down on you, but like I get it,
you that's a fair that's a fair request. Have you
made that request? Before. Have you said to him, Hey,
if you're going to hang out with any women that
aren't me, I need to know about it. Have you
said that to him?
Speaker 5 (18:12):
Well?
Speaker 1 (18:13):
No, I know because by the way, I know we're
all laughing because and in fairness, that sounds kind of
ridiculous to say out loud. But if he if you
said that, here are my concerns, and that he didn't.
You know, he wasn't receptive to communication, that's one thing.
But I would imagine you've never said that to him, right,
I mean, we.
Speaker 7 (18:32):
Had conversations about going and hanging out with women outside
of work, but we never talked about co workers. I
guess I should have included that because I wasn't comfortable
with him going out with like his little girlfriends when
we first got together, because some of them were kind
of into him at scenes. So like we had that
conversation of how I wasn't comfortable with him going out
with them alone. But I didn't think I needed to
(18:54):
worry about coworkers. I thought he'd be professional at work.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Yeah, I hmm, yeah, I don't know, Jamie. Let me
take some phone calls on it. I've said enough on
the topic. But eight five five five three five Jamie,
thank you for the call, and I honestly no judgment here.
I wish you the best. I'd be careful maybe with
some of this, because it's like it seems a little controlling,
and it seems a little bit like you're giving this guy,
(19:19):
you're penalizing him, when in fact he may have done
nothing wrong. I mean again, like if I go out
with people from work, or I go out with clients,
or I go out with you know whomever, and they're female,
and I don't run that by you before I go
out with you, that doesn't mean I'm cheating. It means
I'm doing my job. It means i'm It means I'm
being a good teammate. It means I'm bonding with the
(19:39):
people I work with every day and spend a lot
of time with. I don't think that inherently means that
there's infidelity. But let me take some calls and we'll
see it. Maybe people think I'm dead as wrong. Thank you, Jamie,
have a good day.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
Thank you you as well.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Yeah, all right, she's gone NOWT what do we really
think She's been hurt before?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
And I think she needs therapy and I think she
needs to work through stuff. Oh, because it just sounds
like like if you have that heart of a you know,
opinion about your partner hanging out with people, Like every
time another man gets in my car, I have to
let my boyfriend know. Oh there's a man entering my car.
You better Like that's crazy, Like, I'm sorry, that's a
little over the line.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, I just I don't know. I think it's just yeah,
like what there's a common theme in all of these
and it's trust. Like if you don't trust him, even
though you said, she said herself, I've never believed that
he was cheating on me. I have no reason to
believe that he's cheating. Well, then we got to have
trust because this is a slippery slope. Now he's not
gonna tell you about Stephanie, and before long you're gonna
(20:37):
start finding things now that he's not telling you because
he doesn't want to get yelled at and or penalized.
He's not doing anything wrong, so he's protecting himself and
he's protecting a relationship from unnecessary arguments. But then you're
gonna accuse him of lying or omission, and then it's
going to lead to you believing that he's hiding something,
but he's not really hiding anything. He just doesn't want
to fight.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
That's true.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
It's such a trust thing because in my past, for
I would have felt that way, but like now, I
mean just the other day, my boyfriend needed a plus
one for some dinner and he couldn't find someone and
I couldn't go. And I literally was like, oh, just
take one of my friends. Like that's how trusting I
feel now. So I think that's a good point.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Yeah, Michelle, Hi, Hi, Hey, good morning. What do you
think there? Go?
Speaker 5 (21:21):
I think go. I think that if Stephanie is such
a good friend of the husband, then why did she
not know about Stephanie Pryor too? And I'm going to
lunch thank you by my friends at work. My husband
knows about them, so it wouldn't be a surprise if
he found out were out to lunch. I think that
(21:41):
when you don't communicate cane to day's stuff with your partner,
it can look like you're hiding stuff, to which you
probably are.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Now that's the jump, Michelle. What do you do?
Speaker 5 (21:51):
Michelle, I'm work in corporate.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
So let me ask you anything like this, Like when
I got up there, I got plans. You know, I'm
traveling today, but like, I don't know. Yesterday, I got up,
I came to work, and we did our show. And
then it's not uncommon for us to be like, hey,
you want to grab lunch or go to go to breakfast,
or hey let's go do that whatever, Hey, whatever, and
there's no forethought, no planning, nothing. And people keep saying
(22:15):
on the text that the radio show example is not
fair because we're all close in friends in the back,
But that's that's no everywhere. That's no different than people
people listening have exposure to our relationship. But the fact is,
there are any business out there, there are friendships that
exist between men and women in the office that are
not crossing the line. And maybe I didn't know Michelle
(22:36):
that I was going to go to breakfast, so I
did not tell you because I didn't want you to know.
I didn't tell you because I didn't know.
Speaker 5 (22:41):
I understand that, But I think that the wife should
have already known that her husband is good friends with
a coworker named Stephanie, so that it doesn't seem on
warranton for them to be going out to lunch. Yeah,
that's fair, such good if I'm such good friends with
a man, my coor friend John, my huntsband knows about
(23:03):
them and knows their name because I'm talking about them
and telling them about what we do at work and
different things like that.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
That's fair. That's fair. Thank you so much, Michelle. Have
a good day. I'm glad you called too.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Love you guys, Yeah, I love you too.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
Yeah. My whole thing when we get into this kind
of topic is I just don't want people to feed
into a narrative that wasn't there before that then leads
to a whole bunch of other issues, when really the
issue is that you're not trusting for some reason, and
let's talk about that. Let's talk about why you don't
trust for whatever reason. We don't have to talk about
Stephanie or anything else, because I will say, the more
(23:36):
that you start to control someone's behavior or criticize benign behavior,
then the more it starts to feed into this narrative
that something's going on. Because again, if I'm not doing
anything wrong and you're telling me I'm doing something wrong,
and now you're limiting my ability to make friendships at work,
then I'm going to stop telling you because I don't
want to fight with you when I'm not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 8 (23:55):
That's not right, though, But I think the issue here
is being surprised. Right now, we communicate every day when
we go home, Hey, how was your day?
Speaker 3 (24:02):
What'd you do?
Speaker 8 (24:03):
That would be something that you would bring up in
a conversation. I shouldn't get in your car and connect
my bluetooth and see Stephanie.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Who is Stephanie?
Speaker 8 (24:11):
Because now now I got all kinds of things going
on in my mind. Not that you've done anything wrong,
but you just didn't communicate that with me, And I'm like,
why why wasn't this communicated? Why you know you didn't
think that was something to bring up.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
So that's all it is. It's not the being in
the car or the paying for lunch. It's just because I.
Speaker 8 (24:25):
Go out with my male friends all the time and
you know, we go to lunch or whatever. But surprising.
I just don't like being surprised or left out. Who
is Stephanie?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
You know what? Understanding? I understand, like why do I
want to know who this person is? That's fair, But
I also think that maybe when I if that happened,
and I have a good explanation and I tell you
who Stephanie is and why it's then that's the end
of it, because again, if you don't have any reason
to doubt me, the worst thing in the world is
(24:55):
when you're not doing anything wrong and someone's telling you
you're doing something wrong. That's terrible in a relationship. Hey, Maya,
how you doing, good morning.
Speaker 10 (25:03):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Hi? What do you think star? By the way, that
the woman who called Jamie was upset because she got
her husband's car a woman her phone was connected to
the bluetooth, or had been connected to the bluetooth, and
when she asked her husband, it was, oh, that's my coworker.
We went to lunch, I bought her lunch, and she
connected her phone in my car to listen to a song.
And now Jamie's saying that all of that was out
of bounds. What do you think.
Speaker 10 (25:25):
I'm gonna have to side with wife? It's wrong what
he did. I'm sorry. I'm not saying he necessarily is cheating,
but it's if you're married, you have no business going
to lunch with a woman coworker. You just don't really
want to do it. Yeah, I'm sorry, It's just it's
a respect thing. You should respect your wife and the
(25:45):
way that she found out. I mean, if he came
home and said, hey, I went out to lunch, you know,
with my female co worker, that's different. But the way
that she found out, I think it's just it's not
it's so disrespectful.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
What if it slipped his mind, Like is that possible
because there's nothing to it, right, I mean, how.
Speaker 10 (26:04):
Does it put your mind?
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Though?
Speaker 10 (26:05):
How is your day? Honey? Oh, I went to lunch
with my coworker.
Speaker 7 (26:08):
Oh?
Speaker 10 (26:08):
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
If it's benign, you don't think about it.
Speaker 10 (26:13):
I don't know. I just I don't think.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
It just makes me. It makes me sad, Maya. It
does make me a little sad that that's And you're
allowed to have whatever boundaries you want and establish them.
And by the way, if you communicate that, which she
admits she never did. She never said you can't go
to lunch with I'm uncomfortable with you having lunch one
on one with female coworkers. If you have gone to
your husband, Maya, and said, hey, this is what I
need from you, and he agrees to it, and then
he does it anyway, that's the thing, I guess if
(26:37):
you both agree to it. But like wouldn't you agree
that it kind of sucks that if you have a
husband that he's out there not able to make the
same kind of friendships and the same I have the
same kind of bonding experience with his coworkers because his
wife says, no, you.
Speaker 10 (26:52):
Know what, we live in a different world. Now. It's sad,
it really is. But I just I find it to
be a little bit disrespectful. Just okay, that she found out.
I feel if she came home and told her, I
feel she would feel differently about it, do you know
what I mean? But the way that she found out,
that's what.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Okay, all right, fair enough, fair enough, there could be
more communication, and then that that that also takes away
from this sort of obscurity of it. Yeah, I got it.
Thank you, Maya. I have a good day.
Speaker 5 (27:20):
We can't thank you.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
I'm glad you called. I guess I'm team being a
relationship and team. I'm there because I trust the person
and team. I'm not going to ride ride them and
make rules for them that they can then walk them
walk into traps all the time for doing things that
are normal.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah, but team communicate as well. That's all.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
So if hobby had lunch with a female firefighter was
and didn't and didn't necessarily announce to you that he
was doing it ahead of time.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
That would bother me.
Speaker 6 (27:42):
Just tell you because we communicate with him, and I
have a relationship where we've established communication. I'll say, oh,
I'm going to lunch with Fred and Jason whatever. I'll
tell him because it's just how we talk. Maybe that's
the thing when every marriage is the same. Rightly, Caya
made a point that you might have forgot. Maybe you
don't go home in debrief right and have like a
whole meeting of how your day was. Me and my husband,
my husband and I we have that. I think it's
(28:03):
important to communicate, especially because that's kind of how we've
built our relationship.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
It's always been very open communicator.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is Jim Sarah, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Good morning.
Speaker 7 (28:13):
How are you Hi?
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Doing well? So you take the other side, you're saying stay,
I'm saying stay.
Speaker 9 (28:19):
I don't think this is something that you get rid
of your husband for. But I do think that if
this is an issue that she has, she just needs
to be honest and betimes, it's what we do for
each other. We have to take in how other people
feel and know that it's something that bothers her and
maybe something that he just has to do to make
(28:41):
her comfortable. Okay, I don't think it's something I don't
think it's something we we get rid of our smiuse.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
For Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree. Thank you, Stephanie.
I have a good day. Like I'll be honest with you.
Like my someone just texted, what happened to being a gentleman? Well,
my mom taught me that, you know, basically, it's a
nice thing to do as and again just gets into
don't at me for gender roles and all this stuff.
(29:08):
But I was raised if I take you guys to lunch,
that I should, I should make the move to pay
for it. And I'm not doing anything with any of you.
It's just a nice thing to do, right like, and
I like doing it. And so whether there's a sexual
relationship or not, if I go to lunch with a
friend of mine who's a female, I buy lunch. And
if that's objectionable to somebody, fine, and I would I
would do it if I were married, I would still
(29:29):
buy you guys lunch or dinner if we went out,
because I think it's a nice thing to do, and
it was what I was taught and it has nothing
to do with sex. Yeah. I think that's the problem
is immediately when it comes to men and women and gestures,
we immediately jump to sex.
Speaker 8 (29:43):
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He is on the Freash Show.
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Rep Pitt opened up in a very big way about
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pretty rare podcast appearance on Armchair Expert, Brad said that
back in twenty sixteen, after the divorce started, he was
pretty much on his knees and realized it was time
to wake the f up. That's when he joined AA
(30:12):
and said walking into that first meeting was very intense,
but once he heard other guys being real and funny
and vulnerable, it actually.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
Gave him permission to do the same.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Dax, by the way, the host of that is also
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was a wonderful conversation. In fact, he said those AA
meetings were something that he actually started to look forward
to and became a really special place for him.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
Now he's in a much better place.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
The divorce was finally settled last year after it felt
like eighty four years.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
He's happy.
Speaker 4 (30:41):
He's got a real beautiful girlfriend, Inez.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
De Ramone I think is her name, and a new.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
Movie f one dropping Friday, so he's in a better spot.
But good interview if you're looking for something to listen
to after you've listened to our show five times on
the app. Speaking of x's, Joe Jonas and ex wife
Sophie Turner were spotted walking together in New York. A
fan took a video of them seemingly having a really
friendly conversation without their daughter so it was just them,
(31:06):
posted it on TikTok. They finalized their divorce last September.
Martin Cove, best known for his show or the Show
I should say Cobra Kai, got kicked out of a
fan convention in Washington after allegedly biting his co star
Alisha Hannah Kim on the arm, which this is the
weirdest story of the day. When she yelled in pain,
(31:28):
he reportedly responded by kissing the bite area, and then
the whole very bizarre incident was serious enough that security
removed him from the convention floor. After Alicia and her
husband confronted him and we're like, yo, why are you
biting my wife?
Speaker 3 (31:42):
And why are you kissing the wound?
Speaker 4 (31:44):
And lastly, real quick, more ads are coming to your
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Speaker 4 (31:57):
This added revenue is vital for recovery after COVID without
hiking ticket prices. And I'm refreshed because it's a company
being honest, like.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Yo, we need the money. We got to add this.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
And you know, people are still pissed, but they're going
to be pissed about anything.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Just go a little later. It's all good.
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Speaker 1 (32:20):
Show Bis Shelley, good morning, h Hey, good morning. You
know it just reminds me of Calin. This reminds me
that topic from Stay Ago. By the way, if Military Mike,
Military Mike has gone for months on end right, Yeah,
and I've seen pictures of him when he's on top
secret missions, but he's really in Dubai with his shirt
off on his Instagram. If he were to go out
to dinner with a female soldier fellow soldier, he's in
(32:41):
the Navy, I mean, would you object to them?
Speaker 7 (32:44):
No?
Speaker 11 (32:44):
I mean it's happened before. He has female friends, I
have guy friends, but I will. I think it depends
on the person too, and sort of like past discretion.
It like if some of my exes had done that,
I would be like, excuse me, Oh.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Yeah, well there's context there, right, Like these guys have
been dishonest, or you've caught them in lives before, or
they have a history of infidelity. That's important.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
It is, it is.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
But this reminds me of when I was dating that
girl for a few weeks. Literally, we've been dating for
like six weeks, and Kaylen, you and I went to
the mall and that girl said that you and I
going shopping together was wildly inappropriate because that's girlfriend activity,
which maybe, but I don't necessarily mean. I don't think
there was any there was nothing sinister to that. What geeky,
(33:27):
you're giving me a disapproving look.
Speaker 8 (33:29):
I'm just active listening like you strolling them all with Kaylin.
You gotta girl so we left work and went to
the mall.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Caylen has good fashioned sense, she I mean, you all do.
I would have done it with any Jason. I would
have done it with anyone.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
Now, y'all in addressing room, right, I'm yes, he caught on.
She got onto my plan of taking shopping.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
It was so weird because Caylen insisted that I was
trying on hats, that we go into the dressing room
and then I take all my clothes off, including my underwear.
She try on like it was weird, Like I'm trying
announce it. She's like, take off your underwear and I'm
like walking can trusted. It was so weird. You know,
I don't normally strip all the way. That's like socks too.
(34:15):
It was so strange. I don't want to do that
in the dressing room, and that's what she wanted me
to do. But anyway, grows mads. Do you have what
it takes to battle show biz? Shelley in the show
Biz Showdown and it's like, yeah, I know you're trying
on gloves, but take it all off.
Speaker 3 (34:31):
You know, and yep, next thing, you know, you brown
right right.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
It was so weird. It was really weird lady.
Speaker 4 (34:37):
I can barely balance one man. The last thing I
need is more right.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Oh God. And people keep saying, well, the radio show
is not a good example.
Speaker 10 (34:45):
No.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
The only difference between this place and granted we might
have more chemistry than other teams, because that's part of
the deal, but the only difference between this and a
lot of other functioning teams of people who work together
and like each other is that you can hear it.
I mean they're parent driving to work right now, going
to and they like their co workers. They love their
co workers, yes, you know, like their family. But the
lines don't have to be crossed just because there's I
(35:09):
hate to say this, Calen, but if you were ugly,
this girl wouldn't have cared. Honestly, Honestly, I don't know.
You got to watch the ugly ones too.
Speaker 3 (35:20):
Thanks for saying I'm not ugly, Well know, I just.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
I think that was part of the problem, was, like
I honestly think if she didn't think you were attractive,
then she wouldn't have found you to have been a threat,
and then it would have been fine. So if you
could just be uglier, then.
Speaker 3 (35:34):
Some mornings I am and we can hang out yeah.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
Hey Morgan, Hey Morgan, welcome. Hi. Fun fact about you is? What?
What's a fun fact about you? Morgan?
Speaker 7 (35:49):
I just found out I have long siblings? What?
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Wow?
Speaker 10 (35:54):
How do you?
Speaker 1 (35:55):
How did you have six siblings that you didn't know about? Worker?
You know, my dad was around.
Speaker 11 (36:03):
He was everywhere, honestly.
Speaker 1 (36:04):
Oh yeah, well he certainly was everywhere.
Speaker 10 (36:07):
In the state of Illinois.
Speaker 7 (36:08):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (36:09):
He was a busy guy. Okay, definitely was. Well. Congratulations,
I mean, are you happy about this discovery?
Speaker 10 (36:16):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (36:17):
I am great.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Cool siblings. Good, that's cute. Shout to dad.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah, wow, thanks thanks for his contribution to that. All Right,
let's play the game. It's eleven hundred bucks. That's surprise, oney,
seventeen wins, sixty eight losses, thirteen straight wins for Shells,
five pop culture questions. Good luck, guys, Okay, good luck?
All right? Morgan? You ready? Yes? All right? Which team
won the NBA Finals in Game seven?
Speaker 3 (36:44):
Oklahoma?
Speaker 1 (36:44):
Found which black? Excuse me? Which Bodak Yellow rapper? I
don't know? I was heart for me to say. Announced
that her new album, am I The Drama is out
September nineteenth. Cardi B despite rumored relationship issues Katy Perry's
fiance was in Australia visiting her on tour Name her fiance.
(37:07):
Reality stars Ariono Maddox and Stassy Schroeder both have birthdays today.
Which reality show brought them to fame?
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Three?
Speaker 1 (37:21):
And which long running awards show famous for sliming people
aired on Sunday? And No, it's not the av Ens choice.
The word that's good. That's a four. That's really good.
That's really good. All right, here we go, bringing Shelley back.
Got to come back, come back, come back, come back?
(37:45):
How did she humbling? A four? Is discord of bee? Okay, right?
You ready?
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (37:50):
All right? Which team won the NBA Finals in Game seven?
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Oklahoma City three?
Speaker 1 (37:59):
Well, yeah, you know the name of the team.
Speaker 9 (38:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
I think I would have accept because she said, oklobom mwack,
that's fair. Which Bodak Yellow rapper announced that her new
album am I The Drama is out September nineteenth.
Speaker 3 (38:11):
Cardi B Yeah.
Speaker 1 (38:12):
Despite rumored relationship issues, Katie Perry's fiance was spotted in
Australia visiting her on to her name her fiance or Yeah.
Reality stars Ariano Maddox and Stasy Schroeder both at birthdays today,
which reality show brought them to fame? Yeah, and which
long running awards show famous for sliming people aired on Sunday.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
The Kid's Choice Award.
Speaker 1 (38:36):
That's a five, and that is a win. Morgan, you
did a great job, you really did. But you're gonna
have to say, my name is Morgan. I got showed
up on a showdown and you know the rest.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Oh, my name is Marian.
Speaker 7 (38:47):
I guys showed up on a showdown by Sobs Shelley.
Speaker 12 (38:50):
Okay, and you, Morgan, can't hang with's a cat can't cash?
Speaker 1 (39:01):
Shout out to Moran.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
Ed cat Cat Cat Cat Cat boo. Wow, I could
have gone very impressied.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
I think it's the running around in ninety three degree
water that makes this. This makes it easy, strong lungs
on that one, but also makes me kind of stutter
because of the lack of oxygen. But anyway, Morgan, have
a great day. Hang on, thanks for listening. Hey, tell
all six of your siblings to listen to and now
maybe we'll have more listeners. Probably not, but try it. Okay, good, thanks,
(39:33):
look at that. If you discover a new family, let
him know they have to listen to the Friend Show.
How about that.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
That's a loss. See what I'm saying. That's a softball team.
Like what are we doing?
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Wow? I have more questions, maybe for later, but like
six from how many different you know? Like how busy
was dad?
Speaker 5 (39:46):
You know?
Speaker 1 (39:47):
How how prolific was his.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
It's giving king complex? How many lunches?
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Did he know? His dad's name? Elon is what I'd
like to know his dad's name?
Speaker 12 (39:56):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Nick Cannon? Yeah, I have a many questions, Shelley, excellent work.
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Show on demand. Make us a preset. Please let me
see here. I'll stay her going just a second Jamie
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has an issue with her husband, so she came in
the right place. This place. We'll tell you how to
live your life. It's all good what they say, like
those who can do, those who can't teach, or something
like that. I don't know if I believe that, but
in this case it would be true. I have no
business being married, but I'll tell you how to do it. Yeah,
and I'm probably right my lot of thanks to I
(04:17):
firmly believe that the entertainer reports coming up this hour
as well. What are you working on?
Speaker 3 (04:21):
K a major change coming to movie theaters. Also the
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Speaker 1 (04:26):
Oh, not supposed to do that. And we're commercial free
for the next forty five minutes. You don't have to
go anywhere. Yeah, they talk better than they excited.
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (04:34):
These are the radio blogs on The Fresh showt for
writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We
call them blogs. Paulina. Yes, the big day is coming.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
It is coming.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Take it away, dear blog. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yes, the big day is coming.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
Bigger than my wedding day, bigger than my twenty first birthday.
I mean, this is a big day, you guys. This
is the day of my breast reduction and lyft.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Well, I mean today, isn't it not today?
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
But I mean I wish it was some of the betters.
Al Right, Friday, Friday morning, seven am. That's where I'm
a bee. Wow, I can't wait. I'm so excited, but
I'm very nervous. I'm very nervous. But I have my
inso pick, which I told you guys about. I was like, oh,
you know, my friend she sent me a photo because
she heard through the great vines that I was, you know.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Through the great vines, multiple vines, all the different vines. Okay,
so many vines. Because we talked about this last week
because you asked your your best friend who's a guy. Yes,
you were like, hey, her moves are pretty great, verbs,
her herbs are pretty great. In the great vines are
pretty great, and so like, I don't know, maybe because
your doctor had asked you for examples of what you
wanted them to look like, right, yeah, he's like bringing
(05:39):
me a photo. This woman was kind enough to just
put well not un solicited, but you didn't ask her.
She just received a picture of them.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Yeah, like a good morning tex.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
She's like, hey, I heard you like these so here's
a picture, and I would be.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Like, thank you, that's a great way to wake up.
It was wonderful.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I feel like a teenage boy. It was just like
so many boobs.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Actually, you've been like boob shopping though lately, right because
and this is like a board here. We're not even you.
You were having the reconstruction surgery, You've had a baby.
These things are Yeah, it's been large your whole life.
You don't want them to be that way anymore all life?
Oh yeah no, And they're on the floor like that's
where I'm at. I'm very pocal about it.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
And I'm just really excited for this new chapter of
my life where I just feel like I can wear
certain clothes and again I don't have to like, you know,
tape things up or pick them off the floor in
the mornings. So for me, I'm really really excited. And
I was telling my friend over the week and I
saw her. She she's shaping me at the moment at
Shape Chicago shout out really quick. But she's doing a
little uh you know when you roll people like doughs
like wood therapy and like they burned fat. It's like
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a whole thing.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
I didn't know yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
Oh, it's a whole movement one like oh, well, you
know you're actually working out and doing the right stuff.
I'm cheating a little bit over here. But she is
making me uh snatched. And she and I were talking
about this. I'm like, hey, you know, Friday, I'm gonna
do this whatever and she goes, oh, yeah, I'm a
sea and she's a mom too, And I was like,
oh really and she goes yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
And I'm like can I see it? And she's like yeah,
and she just went and showed me.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
So police's walking in asking everybody, I would those look nice?
Would you mind?
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Do you want to see?
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
No one asked me or Jason, are you?
Speaker 6 (07:16):
Are you a nice sea cup? That's what I'm rolling for.
Well I need to look ladies. Everybody line up on
the wall.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
Wow, so you're you're shopping and then Friday will go
in and be like a little bit of this and
a little bit of that and then boom.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
There's so much info now now I don't know where
you thank you, But that's a real girls girl. I
was just you know, literally like talking and she hers
were perfect, not even.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
She can't forget them done. Text us your seas if
you got them.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Oh god, I don't want to be that. I don't
want to be responsible. I don't well, I don't want
to be responsible.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Well, when we get them, my brain is still on
this rolling thing. So where where are you rolling it to,
like your big toe or something. No, where do we
roll it to because eventually it doesn't have to come out.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
So yeah, So it's a lymphatic drainage like massage type things.
So like they do your stomach, they melt your fat
with this like machine.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Then she does a massage, then she does what therapy. Guys,
I'm me a whole new person. Gave me like a month.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Well yeah, there's nothing wrong with the person that you are.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Oh thank you. No, she was fun.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I love I love me, but I'm gonna love me
more with my with my new boobs and my rold tummy.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
It's gonna be quite the vacation. I'm getting my closets
organized and uh he is getting new boobs.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
But you know, you better, you better get your fill
of asking everyone if you can see their stuff, because
like you know, come Friday, then the surgery's already happened,
so it won't work anymore. No, Yeah, I was wondering
why you were walking around the office going, hey, would
you mind stay or go? A lot of people don't
know that I'm the guy playing those big drums with
the big you know, with the sticks with the big
fat thing on the end of it, boom boom. A
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lot of people don't know I'm the guys sure the
harpist not on that track. No, No, I mean I
am a studio artist, and I've been known to a
session artist. I've been known to do a lot of
different things on this when I'm the boom boom guy. Yes,
every time you hear boom boom, you ate right on.
I explained that that's really kind of my thing. A
lot of people don't know them. Yeah. Yeah, thanks for
(09:11):
keeping that a secret because there was a non disclosure
and stuff, because I think the guy who actually plays
the bongos, who is sick that day, he don't want
people to know. Hey, Jamie, good morning. I don't know
what the instrument's called, but I play it. You just
hand me one. I just can do it, Jamie. Hi, welcome,
so welcome to stair Go. Thank you for your note
(09:32):
to us. Fredshire Radio on the socials freadshare radio dot com.
You can get us that way too. You are married, right, yes, okay,
you're married, and you recently got into your husband's car
and what happened?
Speaker 7 (09:48):
So I got into my husband's car and I saw
that another woman had connected to his bluetooth.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
No, boy, And how did you see that? Because it said, like,
you know, big movie, big movie, Paul in his car
phone or again, I don't know, like what people people
name their phone, right, so like sometimes people are funny
about it. But so how did you know because it
said someone's iPhone or something.
Speaker 7 (10:13):
Yeah, I went to connect my phone so I could
play some music when we were going to the store,
and I saw that Stephanie's iPhone was the one to
last connect to his car.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Okay, did he loan his car out? I mean? Who
is Stephanie? Okay, I don't mean to bury the lead here.
Who's Stephanie? Do we know? I?
Speaker 7 (10:34):
I didn't know until I asked my husband. I had
never heard of a Stephanie. He had never mentioned a Stephanie,
And so when I asked him who Stephanie is, he
immediately told me that it was his coworker. And he
explained that they went one day to go get lunch
and she wanted to play music on the way.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Okay, I mean if Caylen and I left here to
go to breakfast right now, we drove somewhere, that would
not necessarily be an uncommon thing for Kaylin to want
to do. Because Kaylen actually has great music taste and
and she takes over the ox court. I don't have
a problem with it because she does a good job.
Some people take over the ox cord and I'm like, like,
my bluetooth doesn't I'm not looking at you. I'm just saying, like,
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there I have friends who I'm like, yeah, my bluetooth
doesn't work, you know, or something so like the family.
But but Calain and I aren't doing anything like anymore.
I mean we obviously we obviously used to. But that
was everyone's speculation. But but so that wouldn't be I
guess if I were seeing someone they got in my
car and I said, Kaylen's iPhone on my car, I
don't that wouldn't mean anything, right. That would mean that
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she was in the car with me and wanted to
control the music. That's what that would mean. But you're
saying you didn't know who this woman was and you
don't know why she's connecting to the phone, and and
and so what else concerns you about this? Or could
the car phone to the car rather?
Speaker 7 (11:55):
I mean, even though he was honest right away, it's
just to me it's unaccepted will behavior to have another
woman in your car if you're married. I just don't
think that's.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
What was Okay, now wait, whoa wa wa?
Speaker 7 (12:09):
Why wasn't he could have driven herself to lunch? She
drove herself to work. She clearly has a ride, so
I don't understand why she had a ride with my husband.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
Do we not care about the planet? Lunch? We don't
care about the environment? Jamie? I mean, come on, not
really that, Jamie. Not Jamie, No.
Speaker 8 (12:24):
Really, like Jamie, don't play your husband is not allowed
to have other women in the car.
Speaker 7 (12:34):
Well, let me add this then, because this was the
other thing that really upset me was that he also
paid for her lunch. So not only did he have
her in his car playing music for him, but then
he went ahead and paid for his lunch, Like is
this a date?
Speaker 9 (12:49):
Now?
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Okay, Well, now that you bring up the music and
the and the lunch, okay, well, now.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
Now, come on, I would also pay for my lunch.
And still nothing's happening.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
I don't think either one of those things speak to anything.
What are you doing your stretches again? Over there? No, Kicky, go.
Speaker 8 (13:11):
Huh because sheat Now Now, we're not gonna just act
like Stephane's feelings aren't valid. That's she's right, You're exactly right.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Stepanie the coworker is getting free lunch and control the music.
Her feelings are valid. You're exactly right. Jamie is the wife, Jamie.
So we're talking to you, and Jamie is the one
saying that this is inappropriate, and I think that that
is crazy talk.
Speaker 8 (13:38):
I think Jamie's feelings are valid though she knows her husband,
and there's a reason she feels this way about him
having another woman.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
In the car.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Yeah, why do you feel that way? Is there a reason?
Like because you wrote in your note to us that
you've never suspected this guy of cheating. So again, I
feel like there's a common theme in a lot of
these things that we talk about when it comes to
cheating her in fidelity, and it's it's trust into context,
it's history, Like, so the guy has a female coworker,
he goes to lunch with You've never suspected him of cheating, Jamie,
(14:10):
So why are we now saying that he is out
of nowhere. That's not fair to him because.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
It sends the wrong message to his coworker, like I
don't think he's cheating, but in her mind like, Okay,
you just got a ride with him, he's all letting
you pick some music and buying your lunch. It's just
it's a terrible way to be if you're married. I
feel like it sends the wrong message to her.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
I think I gotta be honest with you, Jamie. If
I were married or in a relationship and my wife
found out that I was like, no, you can get
your bluetooth. Are you trying to control my radio station out, Jamie?
Been trying to connect your trying to connect your phone
in my radio station. If my wife found out that
I a girlfriend whomever, that I I made to her
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drive a separate car and then wouldn't pay for her lunch,
all because I was afraid, and all under the pretense
that my wife would be upset. If I did any
of that, I would think that anyone I would be
with and be like, you're an idiot, Like, that's ridiculous,
and I'm not going to again. I'm not saying, Jamie
that you're an idiot or that you're being ridiculous, But
I guess what I'm saying is I don't think that
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either one of those things inherently leads to cheating. I mean,
it's not like you found a hotel room key in
the car too, or like you know, condom wrappers or something.
I mean, I'm being serious, and whatever your concerns are
can be your concerns. But I don't think those two
things in and of themselves mean that someone is cheating.
Speaker 7 (15:44):
Yeah, I just don't want his coworker, Stephanie to think
that he's interested in her, and I really think this
opens that door for her. I mean, oh, I'll just
take you to lunch and I'll drive you, Like it
just seems weird. I wouldn't do that with my coworker.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Did you get mad at him?
Speaker 7 (16:03):
I mean we talked about it, and I had to
walk away because I felt like I was getting really
upset about it and it wasn't going to be productive.
So I guess yes, I'm kind of upset with him because.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
I'll tell you what happens then, is now he's not
going to tell you about stuff like I don't know
that he stops going to lunch with a woman he's
not cheating with. Let's just assume he's not because you
don't suspect him of him infidelity and you never have,
so let's just give him the benefit of the doubt
for a second and say he's not cheating. Now he's
he's probably not gonna stop going to lunch with his teammate,
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and so now he's not going to tell you because
he doesn't want to fight with you about it. And
I feel like sometimes you know, and this is from
the male perspective here, any You're right, I'm not in
a relationship, so maybe I got this all wrong. But
if I'm being respectful and honest and transparent and I'm
not doing anything wrong, and then the person I'm with
tells me now all of a sudden, I can't do
that thing, then am I gonna stop doing that thing?
(16:58):
I mean, I'm gonna I'm gonna listen to you, and
I'm to take into consideration you're needs and concerns. But
if I'm not doing anything wrong and it's a normal activity,
then maybe I keep doing it and just don't tell
you anymore because I don't feel like an argument. And
I think sometimes that's what happens when we get upset
about things that might not be sinister. Is that then
we want to know why there's not more transparency in relationships.
(17:20):
But it's because you're sort of penalizing the guy for
not necessarily doing anything wrong.
Speaker 7 (17:27):
Yeah, but it's not like he just straight up told
me you went to lunch with that girl. I had
to find out because of her phone being locked.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Into his car.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
That's a good point, you know.
Speaker 7 (17:35):
If he would have been like, hey, I went out
to lunch with Stephanie today, or hey I'm going out
to lunch with my coworker, it'd be different than me
having to find out.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
So you want him to tell you every time he
does something with another woman, Yeah.
Speaker 7 (17:50):
So that we can have a conversation because I would
have told him this is unacceptable to do before he
did it, and then this wouldn't be a problem.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Well, maybe that's why he didn't tell you. And again, Jamie,
I'm not coming down on you, but like I get it,
you that's a fair that's a fair request. Have you
made that request? Before. Have you said to him, Hey,
if you're going to hang out with any women that
aren't me, I need to know about it. Have you
said that to him?
Speaker 5 (18:12):
Well?
Speaker 1 (18:13):
No, I know because by the way, I know we're
all laughing because and in fairness, that sounds kind of
ridiculous to say out loud. But if he if you
said that, here are my concerns, and that he didn't.
You know, he wasn't receptive to communication, that's one thing.
But I would imagine you've never said that to him, right,
I mean, we.
Speaker 7 (18:32):
Had conversations about going and hanging out with women outside
of work, but we never talked about co workers. I
guess I should have included that because I wasn't comfortable
with him going out with like his little girlfriends when
we first got together, because some of them were kind
of into him at scenes. So like we had that
conversation of how I wasn't comfortable with him going out
with them alone. But I didn't think I needed to
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worry about coworkers. I thought he'd be professional at work.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
Yeah, I hmm, yeah, I don't know, Jamie. Let me
take some phone calls on it. I've said enough on
the topic. But eight five five five three five Jamie,
thank you for the call, and I honestly no judgment here.
I wish you the best. I'd be careful maybe with
some of this, because it's like it seems a little controlling,
and it seems a little bit like you're giving this guy,
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you're penalizing him, when in fact he may have done
nothing wrong. I mean again, like if I go out
with people from work, or I go out with clients,
or I go out with you know whomever, and they're female,
and I don't run that by you before I go
out with you, that doesn't mean I'm cheating. It means
I'm doing my job. It means i'm It means I'm
being a good teammate. It means I'm bonding with the
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people I work with every day and spend a lot
of time with. I don't think that inherently means that
there's infidelity. But let me take some calls and we'll
see it. Maybe people think I'm dead as wrong. Thank you, Jamie,
have a good day.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
Thank you you as well.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Yeah, all right, she's gone NOWT what do we really
think She's been hurt before?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
And I think she needs therapy and I think she
needs to work through stuff. Oh, because it just sounds
like like if you have that heart of a you know,
opinion about your partner hanging out with people, Like every
time another man gets in my car, I have to
let my boyfriend know. Oh there's a man entering my car.
You better Like that's crazy, Like, I'm sorry, that's a
little over the line.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Yeah, I just I don't know. I think it's just yeah,
like what there's a common theme in all of these
and it's trust. Like if you don't trust him, even
though you said, she said herself, I've never believed that
he was cheating on me. I have no reason to
believe that he's cheating. Well, then we got to have
trust because this is a slippery slope. Now he's not
gonna tell you about Stephanie, and before long you're gonna
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start finding things now that he's not telling you because
he doesn't want to get yelled at and or penalized.
He's not doing anything wrong, so he's protecting himself and
he's protecting a relationship from unnecessary arguments. But then you're
gonna accuse him of lying or omission, and then it's
going to lead to you believing that he's hiding something,
but he's not really hiding anything. He just doesn't want
to fight.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
That's true.
Speaker 4 (20:57):
It's such a trust thing because in my past, for
I would have felt that way, but like now, I
mean just the other day, my boyfriend needed a plus
one for some dinner and he couldn't find someone and
I couldn't go. And I literally was like, oh, just
take one of my friends. Like that's how trusting I
feel now. So I think that's a good point.
Speaker 1 (21:14):
Yeah, Michelle, Hi, Hi, Hey, good morning. What do you
think there? Go?
Speaker 5 (21:21):
I think go. I think that if Stephanie is such
a good friend of the husband, then why did she
not know about Stephanie Pryor too? And I'm going to
lunch thank you by my friends at work. My husband
knows about them, so it wouldn't be a surprise if
he found out were out to lunch. I think that
(21:41):
when you don't communicate cane to day's stuff with your partner,
it can look like you're hiding stuff, to which you
probably are.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Now that's the jump, Michelle. What do you do?
Speaker 5 (21:51):
Michelle, I'm work in corporate.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
So let me ask you anything like this, Like when
I got up there, I got plans. You know, I'm
traveling today, but like, I don't know. Yesterday, I got up,
I came to work, and we did our show. And
then it's not uncommon for us to be like, hey,
you want to grab lunch or go to go to breakfast,
or hey let's go do that whatever, Hey, whatever, and
there's no forethought, no planning, nothing. And people keep saying
(22:15):
on the text that the radio show example is not
fair because we're all close in friends in the back,
But that's that's no everywhere. That's no different than people
people listening have exposure to our relationship. But the fact is,
there are any business out there, there are friendships that
exist between men and women in the office that are
not crossing the line. And maybe I didn't know Michelle
(22:36):
that I was going to go to breakfast, so I
did not tell you because I didn't want you to know.
I didn't tell you because I didn't know.
Speaker 5 (22:41):
I understand that, But I think that the wife should
have already known that her husband is good friends with
a coworker named Stephanie, so that it doesn't seem on
warranton for them to be going out to lunch. Yeah,
that's fair, such good if I'm such good friends with
a man, my coor friend John, my huntsband knows about
(23:03):
them and knows their name because I'm talking about them
and telling them about what we do at work and
different things like that.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
That's fair. That's fair. Thank you so much, Michelle. Have
a good day. I'm glad you called too.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Love you guys, Yeah, I love you too.
Speaker 1 (23:16):
Yeah. My whole thing when we get into this kind
of topic is I just don't want people to feed
into a narrative that wasn't there before that then leads
to a whole bunch of other issues, when really the
issue is that you're not trusting for some reason, and
let's talk about that. Let's talk about why you don't
trust for whatever reason. We don't have to talk about
Stephanie or anything else, because I will say, the more
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that you start to control someone's behavior or criticize benign behavior,
then the more it starts to feed into this narrative
that something's going on. Because again, if I'm not doing
anything wrong and you're telling me I'm doing something wrong,
and now you're limiting my ability to make friendships at work,
then I'm going to stop telling you because I don't
want to fight with you when I'm not doing anything wrong.
Speaker 8 (23:55):
That's not right, though, But I think the issue here
is being surprised. Right now, we communicate every day when
we go home, Hey, how was your day?
Speaker 3 (24:02):
What'd you do?
Speaker 8 (24:03):
That would be something that you would bring up in
a conversation. I shouldn't get in your car and connect
my bluetooth and see Stephanie.
Speaker 3 (24:09):
Who is Stephanie?
Speaker 8 (24:11):
Because now now I got all kinds of things going
on in my mind. Not that you've done anything wrong,
but you just didn't communicate that with me, And I'm like,
why why wasn't this communicated? Why you know you didn't
think that was something to bring up.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
So that's all it is. It's not the being in
the car or the paying for lunch. It's just because I.
Speaker 8 (24:25):
Go out with my male friends all the time and
you know, we go to lunch or whatever. But surprising.
I just don't like being surprised or left out. Who
is Stephanie?
Speaker 1 (24:34):
You know what? Understanding? I understand, like why do I
want to know who this person is? That's fair, But
I also think that maybe when I if that happened,
and I have a good explanation and I tell you
who Stephanie is and why it's then that's the end
of it, because again, if you don't have any reason
to doubt me, the worst thing in the world is
(24:55):
when you're not doing anything wrong and someone's telling you
you're doing something wrong. That's terrible in a relationship. Hey, Maya,
how you doing, good morning.
Speaker 10 (25:03):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Hi? What do you think star? By the way, that
the woman who called Jamie was upset because she got
her husband's car a woman her phone was connected to
the bluetooth, or had been connected to the bluetooth, and
when she asked her husband, it was, oh, that's my coworker.
We went to lunch, I bought her lunch, and she
connected her phone in my car to listen to a song.
And now Jamie's saying that all of that was out
of bounds. What do you think.
Speaker 10 (25:25):
I'm gonna have to side with wife? It's wrong what
he did. I'm sorry. I'm not saying he necessarily is cheating,
but it's if you're married, you have no business going
to lunch with a woman coworker. You just don't really
want to do it. Yeah, I'm sorry, It's just it's
a respect thing. You should respect your wife and the
(25:45):
way that she found out. I mean, if he came
home and said, hey, I went out to lunch, you know,
with my female co worker, that's different. But the way
that she found out, I think it's just it's not
it's so disrespectful.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
What if it slipped his mind, Like is that possible
because there's nothing to it, right, I mean, how.
Speaker 10 (26:04):
Does it put your mind?
Speaker 1 (26:05):
Though?
Speaker 10 (26:05):
How is your day? Honey? Oh, I went to lunch
with my coworker.
Speaker 7 (26:08):
Oh?
Speaker 10 (26:08):
I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (26:09):
If it's benign, you don't think about it.
Speaker 10 (26:13):
I don't know. I just I don't think.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
It just makes me. It makes me sad, Maya. It
does make me a little sad that that's And you're
allowed to have whatever boundaries you want and establish them.
And by the way, if you communicate that, which she
admits she never did. She never said you can't go
to lunch with I'm uncomfortable with you having lunch one
on one with female coworkers. If you have gone to
your husband, Maya, and said, hey, this is what I
need from you, and he agrees to it, and then
he does it anyway, that's the thing, I guess if
(26:37):
you both agree to it. But like wouldn't you agree
that it kind of sucks that if you have a
husband that he's out there not able to make the
same kind of friendships and the same I have the
same kind of bonding experience with his coworkers because his
wife says, no, you.
Speaker 10 (26:52):
Know what, we live in a different world. Now. It's sad,
it really is. But I just I find it to
be a little bit disrespectful. Just okay, that she found out.
I feel if she came home and told her, I
feel she would feel differently about it, do you know
what I mean? But the way that she found out,
that's what.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Okay, all right, fair enough, fair enough, there could be
more communication, and then that that that also takes away
from this sort of obscurity of it. Yeah, I got it.
Thank you, Maya. I have a good day.
Speaker 5 (27:20):
We can't thank you.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
I'm glad you called. I guess I'm team being a
relationship and team. I'm there because I trust the person
and team. I'm not going to ride ride them and
make rules for them that they can then walk them
walk into traps all the time for doing things that
are normal.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah, but team communicate as well. That's all.
Speaker 1 (27:35):
So if hobby had lunch with a female firefighter was
and didn't and didn't necessarily announce to you that he
was doing it ahead of time.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
That would bother me.
Speaker 6 (27:42):
Just tell you because we communicate with him, and I
have a relationship where we've established communication. I'll say, oh,
I'm going to lunch with Fred and Jason whatever. I'll
tell him because it's just how we talk. Maybe that's
the thing when every marriage is the same. Rightly, Caya
made a point that you might have forgot. Maybe you
don't go home in debrief right and have like a
whole meeting of how your day was. Me and my husband,
my husband and I we have that. I think it's
(28:03):
important to communicate, especially because that's kind of how we've
built our relationship.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
It's always been very open communicator.
Speaker 1 (28:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is Jim Sarah, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
Good morning.
Speaker 7 (28:13):
How are you Hi?
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Doing well? So you take the other side, you're saying stay,
I'm saying stay.
Speaker 9 (28:19):
I don't think this is something that you get rid
of your husband for. But I do think that if
this is an issue that she has, she just needs
to be honest and betimes, it's what we do for
each other. We have to take in how other people
feel and know that it's something that bothers her and
maybe something that he just has to do to make
(28:41):
her comfortable. Okay, I don't think it's something I don't
think it's something we we get rid of our smiuse.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
For Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree. Thank you, Stephanie.
I have a good day. Like I'll be honest with you.
Like my someone just texted, what happened to being a gentleman? Well,
my mom taught me that, you know, basically, it's a
nice thing to do as and again just gets into
don't at me for gender roles and all this stuff.
(29:08):
But I was raised if I take you guys to lunch,
that I should, I should make the move to pay
for it. And I'm not doing anything with any of you.
It's just a nice thing to do, right like, and
I like doing it. And so whether there's a sexual
relationship or not, if I go to lunch with a
friend of mine who's a female, I buy lunch. And
if that's objectionable to somebody, fine, and I would I
would do it if I were married, I would still
(29:29):
buy you guys lunch or dinner if we went out,
because I think it's a nice thing to do, and
it was what I was taught and it has nothing
to do with sex. Yeah. I think that's the problem
is immediately when it comes to men and women and gestures,
we immediately jump to sex.
Speaker 8 (29:43):
Why because y'all Nasty's entertainment report.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
He is on the Freash Show.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
Rep Pitt opened up in a very big way about
his past struggles with alcohol and how things really hit
rock bottom during his split from Angelina Jolie. During a
pretty rare podcast appearance on Armchair Expert, Brad said that
back in twenty sixteen, after the divorce started, he was
pretty much on his knees and realized it was time
to wake the f up. That's when he joined AA
(30:12):
and said walking into that first meeting was very intense,
but once he heard other guys being real and funny
and vulnerable, it actually.
Speaker 3 (30:19):
Gave him permission to do the same.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Dax, by the way, the host of that is also
an AA and very open about it, and so it
was a wonderful conversation. In fact, he said those AA
meetings were something that he actually started to look forward
to and became a really special place for him.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
Now he's in a much better place.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
The divorce was finally settled last year after it felt
like eighty four years.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
He's happy.
Speaker 4 (30:41):
He's got a real beautiful girlfriend, Inez.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
De Ramone I think is her name, and a new.
Speaker 4 (30:46):
Movie f one dropping Friday, so he's in a better spot.
But good interview if you're looking for something to listen
to after you've listened to our show five times on
the app. Speaking of x's, Joe Jonas and ex wife
Sophie Turner were spotted walking together in New York. A
fan took a video of them seemingly having a really
friendly conversation without their daughter so it was just them,
(31:06):
posted it on TikTok. They finalized their divorce last September.
Martin Cove, best known for his show or the Show
I should say Cobra Kai, got kicked out of a
fan convention in Washington after allegedly biting his co star
Alisha Hannah Kim on the arm, which this is the
weirdest story of the day. When she yelled in pain,
(31:28):
he reportedly responded by kissing the bite area, and then
the whole very bizarre incident was serious enough that security
removed him from the convention floor. After Alicia and her
husband confronted him and we're like, yo, why are you
biting my wife?
Speaker 3 (31:42):
And why are you kissing the wound?
Speaker 4 (31:44):
And lastly, real quick, more ads are coming to your
AMC movies starting July first. AMC is adding a new
platinum spot aka and extra commercial right before the movie
starts as part of an AD deal.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
And they say that.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
This added revenue is vital for recovery after COVID without
hiking ticket prices. And I'm refreshed because it's a company
being honest, like.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Yo, we need the money. We got to add this.
Speaker 4 (32:07):
And you know, people are still pissed, but they're going
to be pissed about anything.
Speaker 3 (32:11):
Just go a little later. It's all good.
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Speaker 1 (32:20):
Show Bis Shelley, good morning, h Hey, good morning. You
know it just reminds me of Calin. This reminds me
that topic from Stay Ago. By the way, if Military Mike,
Military Mike has gone for months on end right, Yeah,
and I've seen pictures of him when he's on top
secret missions, but he's really in Dubai with his shirt
off on his Instagram. If he were to go out
to dinner with a female soldier fellow soldier, he's in
(32:41):
the Navy, I mean, would you object to them?
Speaker 7 (32:44):
No?
Speaker 11 (32:44):
I mean it's happened before. He has female friends, I
have guy friends, but I will. I think it depends
on the person too, and sort of like past discretion.
It like if some of my exes had done that,
I would be like, excuse me, Oh.
Speaker 1 (32:55):
Yeah, well there's context there, right, Like these guys have
been dishonest, or you've caught them in lives before, or
they have a history of infidelity. That's important.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
It is, it is.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
But this reminds me of when I was dating that
girl for a few weeks. Literally, we've been dating for
like six weeks, and Kaylen, you and I went to
the mall and that girl said that you and I
going shopping together was wildly inappropriate because that's girlfriend activity,
which maybe, but I don't necessarily mean. I don't think
there was any there was nothing sinister to that. What geeky,
(33:27):
you're giving me a disapproving look.
Speaker 8 (33:29):
I'm just active listening like you strolling them all with Kaylin.
You gotta girl so we left work and went to
the mall.
Speaker 1 (33:39):
Caylen has good fashioned sense, she I mean, you all do.
I would have done it with any Jason. I would
have done it with anyone.
Speaker 3 (33:46):
Now, y'all in addressing room, right, I'm yes, he caught on.
She got onto my plan of taking shopping.
Speaker 1 (33:53):
It was so weird because Caylen insisted that I was
trying on hats, that we go into the dressing room
and then I take all my clothes off, including my underwear.
She try on like it was weird, Like I'm trying
announce it. She's like, take off your underwear and I'm
like walking can trusted. It was so weird. You know,
I don't normally strip all the way. That's like socks too.
(34:15):
It was so strange. I don't want to do that
in the dressing room, and that's what she wanted me
to do. But anyway, grows mads. Do you have what
it takes to battle show biz? Shelley in the show
Biz Showdown and it's like, yeah, I know you're trying
on gloves, but take it all off.
Speaker 3 (34:31):
You know, and yep, next thing, you know, you brown
right right.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
It was so weird. It was really weird lady.
Speaker 4 (34:37):
I can barely balance one man. The last thing I
need is more right.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
Oh God. And people keep saying, well, the radio show
is not a good example.
Speaker 10 (34:45):
No.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
The only difference between this place and granted we might
have more chemistry than other teams, because that's part of
the deal, but the only difference between this and a
lot of other functioning teams of people who work together
and like each other is that you can hear it.
I mean they're parent driving to work right now, going
to and they like their co workers. They love their
co workers, yes, you know, like their family. But the
lines don't have to be crossed just because there's I
(35:09):
hate to say this, Calen, but if you were ugly,
this girl wouldn't have cared. Honestly, Honestly, I don't know.
You got to watch the ugly ones too.
Speaker 3 (35:20):
Thanks for saying I'm not ugly, Well know, I just.
Speaker 1 (35:23):
I think that was part of the problem, was, like
I honestly think if she didn't think you were attractive,
then she wouldn't have found you to have been a threat,
and then it would have been fine. So if you
could just be uglier, then.
Speaker 3 (35:34):
Some mornings I am and we can hang out yeah.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
Hey Morgan, Hey Morgan, welcome. Hi. Fun fact about you is? What?
What's a fun fact about you? Morgan?
Speaker 7 (35:49):
I just found out I have long siblings? What?
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Wow?
Speaker 10 (35:54):
How do you?
Speaker 1 (35:55):
How did you have six siblings that you didn't know about? Worker?
You know, my dad was around.
Speaker 11 (36:03):
He was everywhere, honestly.
Speaker 1 (36:04):
Oh yeah, well he certainly was everywhere.
Speaker 10 (36:07):
In the state of Illinois.
Speaker 7 (36:08):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (36:09):
He was a busy guy. Okay, definitely was. Well. Congratulations,
I mean, are you happy about this discovery?
Speaker 10 (36:16):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (36:17):
I am great.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Cool siblings. Good, that's cute. Shout to dad.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah, wow, thanks thanks for his contribution to that. All Right,
let's play the game. It's eleven hundred bucks. That's surprise, oney,
seventeen wins, sixty eight losses, thirteen straight wins for Shells,
five pop culture questions. Good luck, guys, Okay, good luck?
All right? Morgan? You ready? Yes? All right? Which team
won the NBA Finals in Game seven?
Speaker 3 (36:44):
Oklahoma?
Speaker 1 (36:44):
Found which black? Excuse me? Which Bodak Yellow rapper? I
don't know? I was heart for me to say. Announced
that her new album, am I The Drama is out
September nineteenth. Cardi B despite rumored relationship issues Katy Perry's
fiance was in Australia visiting her on tour Name her fiance.
(37:07):
Reality stars Ariono Maddox and Stassy Schroeder both have birthdays today.
Which reality show brought them to fame?
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Three?
Speaker 1 (37:21):
And which long running awards show famous for sliming people
aired on Sunday? And No, it's not the av Ens choice.
The word that's good. That's a four. That's really good.
That's really good. All right, here we go, bringing Shelley back.
Got to come back, come back, come back, come back?
(37:45):
How did she humbling? A four? Is discord of bee? Okay, right?
You ready?
Speaker 3 (37:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (37:50):
All right? Which team won the NBA Finals in Game seven?
Speaker 3 (37:56):
Oklahoma City three?
Speaker 1 (37:59):
Well, yeah, you know the name of the team.
Speaker 9 (38:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (38:02):
I think I would have accept because she said, oklobom mwack,
that's fair. Which Bodak Yellow rapper announced that her new
album am I The Drama is out September nineteenth.
Speaker 3 (38:11):
Cardi B Yeah.
Speaker 1 (38:12):
Despite rumored relationship issues, Katie Perry's fiance was spotted in
Australia visiting her on to her name her fiance or Yeah.
Reality stars Ariano Maddox and Stasy Schroeder both at birthdays today,
which reality show brought them to fame? Yeah, and which
long running awards show famous for sliming people aired on Sunday.
Speaker 3 (38:34):
The Kid's Choice Award.
Speaker 1 (38:36):
That's a five, and that is a win. Morgan, you
did a great job, you really did. But you're gonna
have to say, my name is Morgan. I got showed
up on a showdown and you know the rest.
Speaker 3 (38:46):
Oh, my name is Marian.
Speaker 7 (38:47):
I guys showed up on a showdown by Sobs Shelley.
Speaker 12 (38:50):
Okay, and you, Morgan, can't hang with's a cat can't cash?
Speaker 1 (39:01):
Shout out to Moran.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
Ed cat Cat Cat Cat Cat boo. Wow, I could
have gone very impressied.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
I think it's the running around in ninety three degree
water that makes this. This makes it easy, strong lungs
on that one, but also makes me kind of stutter
because of the lack of oxygen. But anyway, Morgan, have
a great day. Hang on, thanks for listening. Hey, tell
all six of your siblings to listen to and now
maybe we'll have more listeners. Probably not, but try it. Okay, good, thanks,
(39:33):
look at that. If you discover a new family, let
him know they have to listen to the Friend Show.
How about that.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
That's a loss. See what I'm saying. That's a softball team.
Like what are we doing?
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Wow? I have more questions, maybe for later, but like
six from how many different you know? Like how busy
was dad?
Speaker 5 (39:46):
You know?
Speaker 1 (39:47):
How how prolific was his.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
It's giving king complex? How many lunches?
Speaker 1 (39:51):
Did he know? His dad's name? Elon is what I'd
like to know his dad's name?
Speaker 12 (39:56):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (39:57):
Nick Cannon? Yeah, I have a many questions, Shelley, excellent work.
One thousand, one hundred and fifty bucks. Tomorrow win number
oney eighteen and it's a huge number. And fourteen straight
win more bread show next. Wait, I wasn't ready. I
wasn't ready for that. I pushed the wrong button. I
wasn't ready. I was too busy going through your stats.
(40:17):
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Fread show now. No, no, not buy it. I surprise
myself with my mouse clicking. I shouldn't have done the
gorilla for so long because I'm really a little dizzy
to be. I think it's the dome Jason's they eat dome.
Speaker 3 (40:35):
It'll do it every time.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
Okay, Anyway, I was so impressed with the numbers I
just couldn't help myself. So we'll see you tomorrow. Have
a good day, okay, okay, good Now I'm going to
push the button and we'll do waiting by the phone.
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