Waiting by the Phone: I Was Wearing Nikes From The Men's Section!

Pete is confused why his date won't call him back after a great date watching football... Find out why he got ghosted!

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(00:44):
Hey Pete, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?

Speaker 2 (00:47):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (00:47):
Good morning?

Speaker 3 (00:48):
I'm all right.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
So Pete, tell us what's going on with this woman? Brinn?
How did you meet? We gotta know about any dates
you've been on, any details you can give us and
why you think she's ghosting you.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Okay, so we met at we were watching the playoffs.
We're at a bar, the playoffs we're on I was
watching the game and she seemed pretty great.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
We hit it off.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
I got her number, and we plan to go out again,
not football oriented, and grab some drinks and dinner a
few nights later, and it was I don't know, we
just hit it off, like I don't know what happened,
because afterwards she just starts acting a little off and
she's not really in a rush to go out on
another date. And I thought we were connecting. I don't know,

(01:33):
we could talk about all these other things, and then
she just kind of ghosted. And I'm just I'm hoping
you guys can help me figure out why.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
I do love a meeting in the wild situation. You know,
we don't hear about a lot of those. I feel
like all of these start on an app which is
how everybody meets. I got that, But like the thing
about meeting in the wild is it sort of takes
away that is there going to be chemistry? Does the
person look the same? We've obviously heard that one before.
They don't look the same as their pictures or whatever.
So there's a lot that you kind of can read

(02:01):
when you first meet somebody that you don't know when
you meet on the apps, which I think if that works,
then you're off to a better start. But in this case,
you're saying you did actually hang out separately, and now
she's not calling you exactly.

Speaker 3 (02:14):
Like it's we got to know each other. We were laughing,
like I think laughter's great. On a day you realize like, oh,
I can connect with this person, and I just I
The silence afterwards is also like did I do something? Yeah,
I'm okay if I did, but I just want to
know what I was so I don't do it again.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yeah, right, I get it. Pete, it's not a nice guy.
Let's call this woman Brinn in just a second, well
place long will come back. You'll be on the phone.
I don't want you to say anything right at first,
but at some point you're welcome to jump in on
a call. And the hope, as always is that we
can straighten this out and then set you up on
another date that we pay for.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Sound good, awesome, Thank you, Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
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Show radio? Hey Pete, all right, welcome back. Let's call
it Brin. You actually met out in person. You were

(03:12):
watching football games, You got her number. You guys went
on a date. The date went well, but you've been
reaching out since the date, trying to get a hold
of her to plan another one because you thought there
would be another one. Except she's not responding to you,
and you want to know why.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
That's exactly exactly it.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
We're gonna call it Brinn right now. Good luck man? Hello,
Hi is this Brin? Hey Brin, good morning. My name
is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning
radio show, and I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now, and I do need
your permission to continue with the call. Can which that
for just a second, would you mind?

Speaker 3 (03:50):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (03:51):
Thank you very much for calling on behalf of a
guy named Pete. I guess you guys met in person
and then went on a date recently. Do you recall Pete.

Speaker 4 (04:01):
I recall a Pete, but but I wasn't a date.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, what do you mean, because he we just talked
to this guy Pete. He says he met you at
a bar, you were watching football, and then he asked
you on a date. And then he says you went
on a date. And so now I.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
Want to hang out, like, you know, like dinner, drinks,
maybe watch another game or something.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Sounds like a date though, like dinner and drinks. It's possible.
Why because.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Because Pete's a guy, and I've been a lesbian for
as long as I can remember.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
Oh minor detail that is a twist in the story
that I did not see. Is Pete aware of your interests?

Speaker 4 (04:46):
I mean, we didn't talk about that kind of thing.
I just I don't know, thought I was making a
new friend.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
So this dude approaches you asked what he thought he
was doing was asking you out, And you're just like, no,
this is a nice man at a bar who wants
to buy me dinner. And you're like, I go, okay,
I don't have to disclose that I actually don't like
what he has to offer. I mean, that's you're right,
by the way you don't. You don't have to like
qualify anything, like, you know, someone can ask you to
hang out and that doesn't mean that anything is happening.

(05:13):
But I guess that it would be safe to assume
that if a dude approaches you, he's a stranger and
wants to take you to dinner. I don't know that
it's unfair for him to assume that was a date. Right, Well, that.

Speaker 4 (05:22):
Doesn't happened that often. I guess.

Speaker 2 (05:26):
Okay, I just thought we like we're just clicking and yeah,
that's all okay, well cool, yeah, I mean that's that's honest,
and it's fair.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
I got to bring Pete in, though I forgot to
mention that Pete is here with us. I get caught
up in a streng so forgetful. Pete turns out, so
we just learned a piece of information that would have
been vital to this whole thing. Turns out she doesn't
like men.

Speaker 3 (05:51):
Oh oh, nos.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Am I the first to tell you that. Maybe she
just hold it where you been? I mean, I mean
we were wearing the same shoes. Oh well in that case,
gay both wearing like birkenstocks, Like what kind of shoes?
What was the giveaway?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
There.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
I don't understand what kind of shoes were we both
wearing steel toe booming? I guess, honestly, I don't. I
don't know that the footwear would have given it away.
I don't, That's what I'm saying. No one gave me
the guide book on what lesbian shoes looked like. We

(06:42):
got to look at her shoes, gotten the look book
on that yet, But what what shoes were you wearing?
Britnin that would have given it all the way?

Speaker 4 (06:50):
We were definitely Snikeys from the men's fiction.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
We girl.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
The women in his room. He's from the men's section.
So I don't okay, Peter, are you okay over there?
Because you're not saying much. You seem a little stunned,
like are you okays? Oh, it's just an honest mistake.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
It's I mean, it makes so much sense now. But
I can't believe I called this in and now everybody
gets to hear it.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
Oh no, don't worry about that. Is this is the
least sinister of all of them. Like we've heard a
lot of really bad stuff.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
Oh, I just say, you have my number if you
still to hang out.

Speaker 1 (07:28):
Oh friends, Yeah, no, wait a minute, how about that, Like,
I don't think that's ever happened before, where people at
the end of waiting on the phone wind up being
actual friends. Like she's not saying she doesn't like you
as a human, she just doesn't like your parts.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
I yeah, I mean I might. I might need some
time just so every time I see you, I don't
think about how uh embarrassed I am.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
Eventually, you didn't know you didn't know your health, ste
that's not your fault.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
Let's hit me up.

Speaker 1 (08:01):
I'll tell you what if you guys want to go
out again, let me know. We'll pay for that. You
guys can go a little friendly date. And uh, I'm
sure that was embarrassing. You know, I might have asked
a few more questions like I don't know who's your
favorite w NBA players.

Speaker 2 (08:14):
Christ not the lesbian screening questions.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
Well, we were trying to This would have avoided this situation.
Needs something something needs to go to the next situation. Yes,
I guess My point is I feel like Pete may
have missed some obvious clues. But he's a sweet man.
But Brin, hey, I think you've been very cool about this,
and Pete, I don't think you should be embarrassed, and
I think that. I think if you guys choose to

(08:45):
go out again and be friends, which you should, let
us know and we'll pay for the date or not date.
We'll pay for the outing, the activity or whatever.

Speaker 5 (08:54):
Okay, oh my god, I'm.

Speaker 1 (08:57):
Just suggesting things a friend do. They're bros.

Speaker 5 (09:03):
They're bros what watching sports when they met women who
like men watch sports. I don't think that's the giveaway.
I'm just saying, you like sports, and.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
You're very very strange, I might say, very very straight
love sports. Guys watch for her. Yeah, I've seen her shoes.
You guys, thank you for being this sport