July 24, 2025 • 9 mins
Christian is confused why his date won't call him back after having a successful first date... Find out why he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:40):
MA love, take a look at you. You're taking me
up area, hold your name to the Jenife cheers know well,
(01:01):
sell me rid egg.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
You're got me kissing the town you say you challoy.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
We'll look at a minute time.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Being up in the cloud.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Oh Chad is no, we.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Did hope it's all thank ya. Hoop it shut love.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Escape, Oh MyD.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Like not to me.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
They take momm the way, want to bang a word
on the gay?
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Oh am, I taking me.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Home, I leave me dead, sap in the clouds.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Following something so well, oh yeah, hey Christian, al right,
let's call Ellen. You guys met on Bumble, you went out,
you thought there was a lot of chemistry, had a
great date. I wanted poking up, except you've reached out
(02:56):
since that date, trying to set up date number two,
and she's not responding to you at all.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Exactly exactly. We had a good time. We had a
good time, and I'm looking forward to a days two.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
You just at least you want to know, you know
why she's not calling, or if something happened or whatever.
So let's call her now. Good luck, Christian Hiasus Ellen, Yeah, Ellen, Hey,
(03:27):
good morning Fred from the Fred Show. The whole crew
is here. I have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I would you're I
would thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Wow, my god.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't know if that's a compliment. I don't know
if that was an oh my guid, like I love
the show, and notice I just say thank you right away,
like that's what that meant.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
I love the show.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Genuinely surprised. Okay, well then you know the rest of
the deal. So you're on waiting by the phone right now.
I got him. Christian reached out to us so that
you guys met on bumble and went out. Do you
remember this guy?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Yeah? You do?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, So he called us, and if you listen to
the show before, then you know why he called. He
wants to know why you aren't calling him back. He
described to us what he thought was a very successful date.
He did mention that you guys got intimate, and it's like,
why did all that happen if you weren't interested?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
So what's your side of the story.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Well, I would bet that he didn't actually tell you
the whole story.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
We went out for drinks. Never do.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Yeah, we went out for drinks and then we like
had to sleep over, right, and I don't know whatever,
Like I would have hooked up with him even if
we hadn't had drinks, just because like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Maybe we weren't, like because he was worried about that.
He was like, well maybe it was.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Maybe this whole thing is because everybody had too much
to drink and now people are regretting things. But you're
saying that's not the reason you're not calling him.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Well, well, I mean, like I would have hooked up
with him either way, but because of the drinking, uh,
we weren't like asaf as probably should have been.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay, we'll leave it at that, Okay, yep.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
And then in the morning he asked me if I
was on birth control and I was like no. So
we were like, okay, you know, we decided together we
should go get a plan b I like need to
go buy it. And he just keeps like blowing up
my phone demanding that I send him a video of
me opening the package and putting the pill in my
(05:21):
mouth and swallowing.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
It to make sure you get it. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
So I wasn't convinced exactly that you're going to buy
it meant that you were going to utilize the product.
So he needed proof that you were going to do it.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Oh and he needed like the date somewhere shown in
the video. It was just completely insulting. He didn't trust me,
and he thinks that she's so great that I would
like want to have his baba. What is wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
So you know, the Christians here, Christian, what's your side
of the story. I mean, I wasn't good enough for
you guys just to make that decision and to let
you know, let her say what she said she was
going to do, or do what she said.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
She was going to do.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah, no, no, no, I just kind of what I
wanted to cut you off because you're really like putting
all of all of my business out there.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, So just like oh and you.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
When you called the radio station, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I mean what did you say? What?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
I mean, you knew you had the story. You're on
the radio now, of course you're gonna put your business.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But I didn't think that this.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
I didn't think that she would go on and we
were talking about the night before, not the morning after.
I didn't think anything that.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Not just asking you for a little bit.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
A lot. No, it's after the date, Ellen, and I
just wanted to know.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
If, like you wanted to go out again. But here
you are accusing me.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Of like some sort of like phone harassment like I
just I don't know. I just I wanted to call
you to see if you want to go out again.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
And the whole thing that happened.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Like after the day again, after the date.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Okay, Well that's great, I guess Okay, so you guys
don't know each other and this all goes down, and
I mean, you haven't developed any form of trust. You
don't probably even know each other's last names or middle
names or whatever. And that's okay. Things happen. But it
wasn't good enough, Christian for you and Ellen to just
decide that you were going to take this path to
(07:07):
be extra safe.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
After the fact that.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
I also was like, hell, yeah, we need to get
something done about this.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, but great, I also need to protect myself. So
I'm just asking for a seat. Listen to Ellen.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
All I'm saying is that I think my request is
well within my right.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I've told you that my family has a lot of
money and I have to go to like extra lank.
I don't want to be taking advantage of.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
How does that come up on the day I'm extremely rich.
I mean, once you do that, I can see why
you're paranoid now is you're telling everybody how rich you are.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I'm not telling everybody. I'm not trying to procreate with
a douche like you.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Amen.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
You both made this decision, but you're out here willing,
really knowing that, feeling as though you could be exposed
at any time, but you're not taking any precaution.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Not that night, no, which is why I'm trying to
do the.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Next morning again, not part of the day. We're past date.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
We're into the next phase of whatever this was going
to be, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
And so for you, Ellen, that's too much in a word,
yet because of that and because of a lack of trust,
and you just thought the whole thing was not cool.
So you're never going to talk to him again. I mean,
the video was a little much, But I guess I
can see I mean, can you guys see the paranoia
maybe that that there.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Was no follow up.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
I mean, it's kind of the decision that you make
when you were a grown up and you put yourself
in that position that like you relinquished a little bit
of power by not being thoughtful.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
Yeah, he made that decision, though I don't think he
can demand that.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Yeah, I don't know about the video and the rest.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Of it doing too much. Yeah, you know, you made
the mistake and you're gonna have to just trust.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
But so did she if you want to call it
in the control I mean Devil's advocate. You know, there's
no basis for him to believe what she's saying. So
I mean, I'm not saying I agree with him.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
I think he really wants to.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Be one hundred percent sure that he doesn't have a baby,
then he shouldn't do that.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Well, I agree, I agree with that. I agree with that.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
So it's not on him anymore, like it's not in
his control.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
So basically, she didn't like the approach, thought it was insensitive,
thought it was uncool and Christian.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
There you go. That's why she's not calling and there's
not going to be a second date.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, obviously I can't. I didn't think I was being
insensitive at all, just just trying to. I don't know,
I'll get some bases and trust going.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I don't know that the video she could have she
could have taken anything.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
It's her lost. Okay, Well, there you go, Ellen, it's
your lost. You hear that,
This is the press show.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Let's get you hotel a trip for two to see
Jennifer Lopez her brand new Las Vegas residency. Jennifer Lopez
Up All Night Live in Las Vegas March thirteenth, twenty
twenty six, at the Coliseum at Caesar's Palace.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Text Lopez to three seven three.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Three seven right now for a chance to win two
tickets to the March thirteenth show at two at Hotels
Day March twelve through the fourteenth at the Flamingo Hotel Casino,
Las Vegas and Ron Trevert Pear. A confirmation text will
be sent. Dennered message and data rates may apply. All
thanks to Live Nation. Tickets are on sale now at
ticketmaster dot com for all shows running December thirtieth through
(00:37):
January third, and March sixth through the twenty eighth.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
MA love, take a look at you. You're taking me
up area, hold your name to the Jenife cheers know well,
(01:01):
sell me rid egg.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
You're got me kissing the town you say you challoy.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
We'll look at a minute time.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Being up in the cloud.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Oh Chad is no, we.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Did hope it's all thank ya. Hoop it shut love.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Escape, Oh MyD.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Like not to me.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
They take momm the way, want to bang a word
on the gay?
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Oh am, I taking me.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Home, I leave me dead, sap in the clouds.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Following something so well, oh yeah, hey Christian, al right,
let's call Ellen. You guys met on Bumble, you went out,
you thought there was a lot of chemistry, had a
great date. I wanted poking up, except you've reached out
(02:56):
since that date, trying to set up date number two,
and she's not responding to you at all.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
Exactly exactly. We had a good time. We had a
good time, and I'm looking forward to a days two.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
You just at least you want to know, you know
why she's not calling, or if something happened or whatever.
So let's call her now. Good luck, Christian Hiasus Ellen, Yeah, Ellen, Hey,
(03:27):
good morning Fred from the Fred Show. The whole crew
is here. I have to tell you that we are
on the radio right now, and I would you're I
would thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Wow, my god.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't know if that's a compliment. I don't know
if that was an oh my guid, like I love
the show, and notice I just say thank you right away,
like that's what that meant.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
I love the show.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Genuinely surprised. Okay, well then you know the rest of
the deal. So you're on waiting by the phone right now.
I got him. Christian reached out to us so that
you guys met on bumble and went out. Do you
remember this guy?
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Yeah? You do?
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, So he called us, and if you listen to
the show before, then you know why he called. He
wants to know why you aren't calling him back. He
described to us what he thought was a very successful date.
He did mention that you guys got intimate, and it's like,
why did all that happen if you weren't interested?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
So what's your side of the story.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
Well, I would bet that he didn't actually tell you
the whole story.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
We went out for drinks. Never do.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Yeah, we went out for drinks and then we like
had to sleep over, right, and I don't know whatever,
Like I would have hooked up with him even if
we hadn't had drinks, just because like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Maybe we weren't, like because he was worried about that.
He was like, well maybe it was.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Maybe this whole thing is because everybody had too much
to drink and now people are regretting things. But you're
saying that's not the reason you're not calling him.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Well, well, I mean, like I would have hooked up
with him either way, but because of the drinking, uh,
we weren't like asaf as probably should have been.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay, we'll leave it at that, Okay, yep.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
And then in the morning he asked me if I
was on birth control and I was like no. So
we were like, okay, you know, we decided together we
should go get a plan b I like need to
go buy it. And he just keeps like blowing up
my phone demanding that I send him a video of
me opening the package and putting the pill in my
(05:21):
mouth and swallowing.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
It to make sure you get it. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
So I wasn't convinced exactly that you're going to buy
it meant that you were going to utilize the product.
So he needed proof that you were going to do it.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Oh and he needed like the date somewhere shown in
the video. It was just completely insulting. He didn't trust me,
and he thinks that she's so great that I would
like want to have his baba. What is wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
So you know, the Christians here, Christian, what's your side
of the story. I mean, I wasn't good enough for
you guys just to make that decision and to let
you know, let her say what she said she was
going to do, or do what she said.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
She was going to do.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah, no, no, no, I just kind of what I
wanted to cut you off because you're really like putting
all of all of my business out there.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, So just like oh and you.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
When you called the radio station, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I mean what did you say? What?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
I mean, you knew you had the story. You're on
the radio now, of course you're gonna put your business.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
But I didn't think that this.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
I didn't think that she would go on and we
were talking about the night before, not the morning after.
I didn't think anything that.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Not just asking you for a little bit.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
A lot. No, it's after the date, Ellen, and I
just wanted to know.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
If, like you wanted to go out again. But here
you are accusing me.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Of like some sort of like phone harassment like I
just I don't know. I just I wanted to call
you to see if you want to go out again.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
And the whole thing that happened.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Like after the day again, after the date.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Okay, Well that's great, I guess Okay, so you guys
don't know each other and this all goes down, and
I mean, you haven't developed any form of trust. You
don't probably even know each other's last names or middle
names or whatever. And that's okay. Things happen. But it
wasn't good enough, Christian for you and Ellen to just
decide that you were going to take this path to
(07:07):
be extra safe.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
After the fact that.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
I also was like, hell, yeah, we need to get
something done about this.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Yeah, but great, I also need to protect myself. So
I'm just asking for a seat. Listen to Ellen.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
All I'm saying is that I think my request is
well within my right.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I've told you that my family has a lot of
money and I have to go to like extra lank.
I don't want to be taking advantage of.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
How does that come up on the day I'm extremely rich.
I mean, once you do that, I can see why
you're paranoid now is you're telling everybody how rich you are.
Speaker 5 (07:38):
I'm not telling everybody. I'm not trying to procreate with
a douche like you.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Amen.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
You both made this decision, but you're out here willing,
really knowing that, feeling as though you could be exposed
at any time, but you're not taking any precaution.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Not that night, no, which is why I'm trying to
do the.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Next morning again, not part of the day. We're past date.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
We're into the next phase of whatever this was going
to be, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
And so for you, Ellen, that's too much in a word,
yet because of that and because of a lack of trust,
and you just thought the whole thing was not cool.
So you're never going to talk to him again. I mean,
the video was a little much, But I guess I
can see I mean, can you guys see the paranoia
maybe that that there.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Was no follow up.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
I mean, it's kind of the decision that you make
when you were a grown up and you put yourself
in that position that like you relinquished a little bit
of power by not being thoughtful.
Speaker 6 (08:31):
Yeah, he made that decision, though I don't think he
can demand that.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Yeah, I don't know about the video and the rest.
Speaker 6 (08:35):
Of it doing too much. Yeah, you know, you made
the mistake and you're gonna have to just trust.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
But so did she if you want to call it
in the control I mean Devil's advocate. You know, there's
no basis for him to believe what she's saying. So
I mean, I'm not saying I agree with him.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
I think he really wants to.
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Be one hundred percent sure that he doesn't have a baby,
then he shouldn't do that.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Well, I agree, I agree with that. I agree with that.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
So it's not on him anymore, like it's not in
his control.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
So basically, she didn't like the approach, thought it was insensitive,
thought it was uncool and Christian.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
There you go. That's why she's not calling and there's
not going to be a second date.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, obviously I can't. I didn't think I was being
insensitive at all, just just trying to. I don't know,
I'll get some bases and trust going.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
I don't know that the video she could have she
could have taken anything.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
It's her lost. Okay, Well, there you go, Ellen, it's
your lost. You hear that,
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