August 26, 2025 • 19 mins
Seth is having relationship trouble with his girlfriend Heidi after she slow danced with another guy at a wedding... Fred and the crew weigh in!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Seth is here We go live to Seth Morning, Seth.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
How you doing? Hey?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I'm good, Seth is your people. We talked to these
people and they're like, I'm good great, but yeah, yeah,
I mean it seems as good as I can I'm
as good as I can be, and I'm good in
the sense that you guys are helping me, well, thank you,
because it's like, this is a distressing situation. I feel like,
but what's going on with this woman? This is your girlfriend, Heidi,
(01:08):
even together for four years? So what are we what's
happening here? Because everybody knows that the right thing to
do is to call the morning radio show, the Fred
Show and to get the direction that you need. We
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Speaker 3 (01:24):
So, like you said, we've been together for a while,
four years, and we we have these friends, this other
couple that like we do everything with and I'm talking
about everything. I mean we go to dinners, we go concerts, everything, everything,
We even go on the we even go on vacations
with these people.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
But do you do just to be clear, because I've
read this, I know what's happening, I know where we're
going with this. Do you do everything?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I mean everything in the sense of, like we go
places together, we hang out together.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Okay, but y'all are not doing any kind of like, uh,
any kind of.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
This is not right doing each other right?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
That is that is not the scenario, because that would that.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Would help me with that. We will get wrapped this
up real fast. That's the case.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Okay, So so it's a boundary and friendship, but you
spend a lot of time together.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah yeah, so so and it's all started, you know,
a few years ago, like this is my my girlfriend Heidi,
like this is her best friend started dating this guy
and him and I also really clicked, so you know,
it just it made sense. We started, we became very
close and started doing all this stuff together. And then
(02:38):
recently we all went to the same wedding and this.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Is where you get married to and you went to
a wedding.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
It wasn't but we would have loved to have been there.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
So uh so I left to go to use the
restroom and to get myself another drink. And when I
came back, there was a slow song plane and I
found Heidi and her friend's boyfriend slow dancing together.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
And it was and it wasn't.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Like they were keeping you know, the lord in the
middle type of dance like it was they were they
were very close and when I walked up to them,
they acted like there was nothing wrong, like it wasn't
weird or anything like that. And my feeling is is
(03:36):
this is really inappropriate like, and their argument was they
couldn't find me, they couldn't find her bestie, so they
just decided to dance together, which again like feel right
to me.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yeah, so your girlfriend is dancing with with the boy
her best friend's boyfriend because they couldn't find either one
of you and not dancing but slow dancing like we're
at prom or something like, you know, hands on the waist,
you know, whatever, whatever we're doing there. Hmm okay, So
and then I get this is no big deal. This
(04:12):
is what friends do. We slow dance to you know,
Michael Bolton songs. That's what people do, right, Yeah, brutal Marge,
comes on, we got to dance together. There's no one else,
find somebody right now, and the only people available were us.
So that is kind of an intimate activity. I mean,
I realize there are far more intimate activities, but that's
(04:33):
like with clothes on. That's a very close sort of thing.
And it implies romance, right because it's like a romantic song,
slow dancing, the whole thing. And you know that I
don't jump to conclusions, you know, I typically tend to
be like I think, you know people, and by people,
I mean most of you in this room are overreacting.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
But I don't. I don't like that. I don't like
I would not like.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
That if I came back from the bathroom or to
get you know, to get a little cocktail, and my
girlfriend is slow dancing with another man?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
What? What's funny? Are you guys?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Why are you laughing? This situation so fun here? What
do you mean? How y'all get here?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Like?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Why are you slow dancing? Well, that's what we're trying
to fin It's what a man called doesn't matter with
wh Why are you doing this?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You mean it all? Why is anyone slow dancing activity?
Like out of.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Count I mean like at a wedding, Like at a
wedding that they play slow songs sometimes when people do that,
or like you'll do the father daughter dance and then
they'll join it and then everybody joins in. They ask
you to like gramily like I think I danced with
my mom at my sister's wedding. Anyway, I start my
(05:46):
day with a slow.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Slow dance every morning. What are you talking about? It's
so funny?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You play John B and we slow dance together. Where
the hell have you guys doing for Okay, so you
didn't like this set, and did you say something to
her with You're like, hey, I'm not a fan of
this this uh activity that.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Yeah, No, I honestly I said something to her and
I mean even him, because they were there and they,
like I said, they both just acted like this was
not a big deal, and like I like I now,
like I can't shake the feeling that something might be
going on, Like I'm convinced of it, and like now
(06:31):
and I want to be really really fair here to Heidi.
She she's never given me a reason to think that before,
but like when like then, when you see it, it's
like all of a sudden, it's that that insecurity that
comes with it, that that feeling of like like has
there been something going on? Is there something going on?
(06:52):
And it just it doesn't feel right to me, It
doesn't feel off. And I'm you know, I'm convincing myself
now that they're something in between them, and I just
I don't know what to do, all.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Right, eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three
five context the same numbers group therapy SETH. I'm gonna,
I'm gonna we're gonna talk about this behind your back
we're gonna you can listen on the iHeart app on
the radio, and then we're gonna take phone calls and
we'll see what people have to say. I'm sure there
are lots of opinions, but thank you for sharing.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Man, good luck, Hey, thanks so much.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Okay, just this, I don't know again, you know, you know,
I'm not gonna jump right to that that they're like
doing it, but there's a level of comfort that seems
a level of comfort with one another, and then the
fact that it's like they didn't think anything of it.
It's a weird thing. It's a weird thing to be
doing with someone I don't know. But then again, if
(07:42):
you're at the wedding and you're in like let's say
you're dancing with your significant other and that person dancing
with were there ever a world where they would just switch,
like right there in front of you, like and we'll
dance together for a minute or whatever.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
If I've been to a wedding alone, like my friend's
husband who I've known forever will be like spin me
around and like, you know, it's all kosher, Like we're
not doing it right.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
So I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
I think it depends on the kind of relationship you
have with someone. I say, he comes up behind them,
taps you know when you like step in right, he
doesn't want to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I'll take it from here. With a bad British accent.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
That no ball a slow dancing, Like maybe I don't
give it a chance, Like maybe it's not my.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Thing, but like now I want to you're so touchy.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
I know I'm taking ballbroom classes this weekend, Charleston.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, that's quite a jump from last laughing is the
activity to taking professional lessons.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
My husband will slow dance with me.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Maybe that's what it is.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Maybe I'm just bitter. Oh no, we've been on a journey.
It's a very it's very close.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
It is close physical close in contact and touching parts
of the body that you wouldn't necessarily touch up, like
I wouldn't walk up to my friend's girlfriend and like
touch your waist, dance you know what I mean, Like
I don't I don't necessarily think that it means is
that that they're cheating, because that would be I mean,
people who cheat, they can act far less, just far
(09:06):
more distant than that. Like this is so public.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I just think. It's like, how are you so comfortable?
Is a question would be I don't think it's a
big deal, which is like a light I know, because
usually I'm like, he cheating there? Who are you know?
Because what happened? You get a ring on your finger?
Now everybody's okay.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
There somewhere, no guys, I'm telling you that my family functions.
I would go like if my best friend came up
and danced with big Tim, I would not think twice
about it.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Again, they body rolling and on.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Each other's and I'm like, I thought when he picked
her up and held her up and spun her did
the split, you know, like around like a cheer, that's
crossing a The fact that it was choreographed, like when
do they have time to practice that? It's really weird. Yes,
(10:05):
my god, Rana, hi Na, it's a weird things. It
is a weird thing.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
It's weird.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
But I don't know that it's inherently nefarious.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
It's not necessary. It's just weird. He took three whole
minutes to go to the bathroom and get a drink
and that and.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
They couldn't wait to spin around.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
That was wild.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
She's so nibbles it's a visual now that she just
can't leave my head. I'm sorry. I'm not laughing at him.
I just think it's a crazy it's I wouldn't like it.
I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
I wouldn't like it either.
Speaker 5 (10:52):
The Flonian thing is weird. In Polyma's defense, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I mean, yeah, all right, thank you. I have a
good day. And now came dancing with the stars together.
It's weird. I don't want to grind at a wedding
like sorry, I want to just dance respectfully to a
nice song, to the electric slide.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Oh no, never, but we're not. We're not gonna slow dance.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
You're You're not that shocking news. I thought you were
way into it. Hey, Raymond, this is off the rails, Raymond. So,
this dude's upset because his his girlfriend was slow dancing
with with their friends with the you know what I'm saying.
There's two couples in her friends and they he was
(11:39):
slow dancing. She was slow dancing with the other guy
in the friend group. They switched it up and he
was only gone for a couple of minutes. It just
looked very close and intimate. Why were they doing this?
Speaker 6 (11:50):
Honestly, I don't think it's that big of a deal.
I would have been more concerned, like if they were
a prize, like they got caught when he came back.
But now that he expressed his concern and saying, you
know that he didn't like that or he didn't appreciate that,
so now they should know that, you know, not to
let that stuff happen again.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Yeah, knock it off, you too. I thought that the
costume change was wild, like they even brought other outfits.
Was sorry, yeah, Raymond, thank you man, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I am immature.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Congratulations kicking there you go.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
There you go, all of a sudden kicking. Now she's engaged,
so it's like a whole new fine.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
You know, love is love. Yeah, he's great. Oh god,
hey don Hi, how are you? Are you in a relationship? Done?
Speaker 5 (12:48):
I am not Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Well, I was gonna say, if the last person you dated,
if that person were dancing with a friend of yours,
of the opposite sex, and it looked close, you know,
would you sort of be like, this is weird. This
is a level of intimacy that I didn't necessarily think
that my that my certificant other would share another person.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Oh that guy. Yeah, I probably would, But in this case,
I don't really consider it a big deal. I mean
I feel like there's a kind of comfort level that
they should already be feeling because he said the vacation together.
I mean to me, it kind of feels like it's
not just going out to like a dinner or a concert,
like vacation. He's like, you're going somewhere like maybe Disney,
(13:27):
I don't know, Florida, another state, whatever. So there's like
a comfort level already. What what's a dance, it's a
slow dance.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
If we want in a double date.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
I come back and my girlfriend's holding hands with my
best friend, I might be like, hey, what are we
doing here?
Speaker 5 (13:46):
I mean, yes, if they're strolling down the path and
holding it, well it might be a little weird, but
I mean this is this is a weddiness, so there's already.
I mean you're gonna say, yes, there's a romantic there's
a romantic and you know air about it everything. I
don't think that was romantic. Their partners weren't there. They
like the song get up and dance, it's what you do.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
You know, you want to trust on this because there
would be situations yeah, I wouldn't think anything of it,
and there there would be if I felt insecure about it,
and I'm a reasonable person, I guess I would. You
know what I mean, like if you if your gut
is telling you something, because there might be situations where
it wouldn't be surprising, and then there might be somewhere
I don't.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
I don't know, but thank you Don, And this is
a confusing I yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
I do agree with you. I mean, I do usually
say trust god instincts, but I just kind of feel
like he's blown this. I think he's blown it up
a little bit. I really don't think there was anything
going on. I was a little curious when didn't get
to this. I was a little curious that to other
partners have seen him. On the other side, if she
had seen or known about this, what her reaction was.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
That's that's a good question. If we had spoken to her,
how would she feel.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
She cheating? She probably would be like, no, it's a problem,
Thank you, don good day.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
You guys have a good day. Thing.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
No, I don't know if I jumped to cheating, but
I definitely jumped to like, well, that's comfy, you know
that set's comfort.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
Hey, Jonathan. Hey, it's Frannon.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
I know, hey man, people think we sound ridiculous. I
think this has been a very serious conversation. This has
been a totally ummy up and up. But what do
you think?
Speaker 7 (15:13):
Well, I wanted to call in because I prefaced I'm
getting married this Saturday.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
You didn't, uh, you didn't get you know, we were
shot on.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
The stationary press. We couldn't send you the invite.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
But I've been, Jonathan, been waiting for it. I've been
going to the middle box every day looking for it.
It wasn't there.
Speaker 7 (15:32):
But okay, you actually I actually called Jason free to
MC the night, but he said.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
You were already booked in busy. So I'm not talking
about that.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
No higher a professional for that. You don't, I don't.
I don't DJ weddings. I'm not a dj. People asking
fort you know, well, you know, for that price. But anyway,
sure you want to say, right?
Speaker 7 (15:52):
So, because I'm getting married, right, I've been doing a
lot of slow dancing lately, practicing for my first dance
as such. And I'm I'm not saying that something you know,
something naughty is going on here, But boat answer is.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
A very very intimate activity that.
Speaker 8 (16:10):
I doubt they were doing the high school from hand
on the shoulders, hand on the waist.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
You know, pop them back to side. I I can't
imagine that's the kind of dance that.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
They were doing.
Speaker 7 (16:19):
So I'm not saying that they're necessarily cheating.
Speaker 8 (16:22):
On their partners, but it definitely is not a good
look because it is a very romantic, intimate activity and
I would not want my future wife to be doing
that with another man.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
That's that's that's really why I have to say. I
think you're at least a lot more romantic feelings. I
think you're right, Jonathan.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Hey, congratulations, man, have a great, great wedding this weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Hey, thank you guys, Love you guys.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Okay, I love you too, man. Now, is the same
thing gonna happen for your wedding? Is the invitation? And
get lost in the mail or get included to that?
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Oh no, you're already booked to.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
You can do better, hey, Bethany, Yeah, he's my booking agent.
Apparently he kind of is. Bethany.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Right, Bethany, Now you call up here and you wait
on hold. I'm so sorry I was on mute. That's
my bad.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Now, Bethany that's not gonna you know, I mute, we
can't hear you. That's not gonna work.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Yeah, that was my bad. It's still early.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
No, it is.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
You're right.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
So these couples are friends, but then you know, one
guy finds his girlfriend dancing with the dude and the
other relationship and they just seem they seemed chummy at
this wedding, and he's worried about it.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
What do you think?
Speaker 9 (17:35):
I honestly don't think anything's going on.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Like, think about it.
Speaker 9 (17:38):
If you if you were cheating with this person, you
would try you would avoid them in public. Why would
you go out and slow dance? That would be the
dumbest thing that you could do. Either they're really stupid
or like nothing at all is going on. It would
be more suspicious if they were avoiding each other.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Or is it the perfect crime us Like, hey, we're
out here in the open, right Bethany's point, if we
were cheating, we would never do something like this. Okay,
maybe I'm gullible. No, I mean the fact that.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
They had matching costumes. I think that was like it
was premeditated, Like they thought about this. You know, they
knew that they were going to be doing this and
away then.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
Goodman or whatever the hell his name has came out.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
It was weird.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Yeah, all right, Bethany, thank you, have a good day.
But yeah, yeah, they got a mirror ball.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
It's weird. I don't I don't know why. This isn't
a lot of this particular subject matter. This is goofy,
but it's goofy, it is all right. Well, I don't.
I don't think we help this man at all. Yeah,
I don't think that. I don't. I think he should
just be like that was good, you know, I don't know.
I love that. I didn't love that.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
She gets super defensive about it. Yeah, I don't think
it's an unfair request, but I didn't. The dude had
his hands on your waist, like, it's kind of weird. Like,
I don't love it.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Don't slow with my friends. Yeah, I'm slow dance everywhere?
Why away did two of you? Man?
Speaker 3 (19:02):
It's like.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
We're in tackle bell. Why are you fill dancing here?
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Seth is here We go live to Seth Morning, Seth.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
How you doing? Hey?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I'm good, Seth is your people. We talked to these
people and they're like, I'm good great, but yeah, yeah,
I mean it seems as good as I can I'm
as good as I can be, and I'm good in
the sense that you guys are helping me, well, thank you,
because it's like, this is a distressing situation. I feel like,
but what's going on with this woman? This is your girlfriend, Heidi,
(01:08):
even together for four years? So what are we what's
happening here? Because everybody knows that the right thing to
do is to call the morning radio show, the Fred
Show and to get the direction that you need. We
are the compass for the rest of your life. Go
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Speaker 3 (01:24):
So, like you said, we've been together for a while,
four years, and we we have these friends, this other
couple that like we do everything with and I'm talking
about everything. I mean we go to dinners, we go concerts, everything, everything,
We even go on the we even go on vacations
with these people.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
But do you do just to be clear, because I've
read this, I know what's happening, I know where we're
going with this. Do you do everything?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I mean everything in the sense of, like we go
places together, we hang out together.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Okay, but y'all are not doing any kind of like, uh,
any kind of.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
This is not right doing each other right?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Right?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
That is that is not the scenario, because that would that.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Would help me with that. We will get wrapped this
up real fast. That's the case.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Okay, So so it's a boundary and friendship, but you
spend a lot of time together.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Yeah yeah, so so and it's all started, you know,
a few years ago, like this is my my girlfriend Heidi,
like this is her best friend started dating this guy
and him and I also really clicked, so you know,
it just it made sense. We started, we became very
close and started doing all this stuff together. And then
(02:38):
recently we all went to the same wedding and this.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Is where you get married to and you went to
a wedding.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
It wasn't but we would have loved to have been there.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
So uh so I left to go to use the
restroom and to get myself another drink. And when I
came back, there was a slow song plane and I
found Heidi and her friend's boyfriend slow dancing together.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
And it was and it wasn't.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Like they were keeping you know, the lord in the
middle type of dance like it was they were they
were very close and when I walked up to them,
they acted like there was nothing wrong, like it wasn't
weird or anything like that. And my feeling is is
(03:36):
this is really inappropriate like, and their argument was they
couldn't find me, they couldn't find her bestie, so they
just decided to dance together, which again like feel right
to me.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Yeah, so your girlfriend is dancing with with the boy
her best friend's boyfriend because they couldn't find either one
of you and not dancing but slow dancing like we're
at prom or something like, you know, hands on the waist,
you know, whatever, whatever we're doing there. Hmm okay, So
and then I get this is no big deal. This
(04:12):
is what friends do. We slow dance to you know,
Michael Bolton songs. That's what people do, right, Yeah, brutal Marge,
comes on, we got to dance together. There's no one else,
find somebody right now, and the only people available were us.
So that is kind of an intimate activity. I mean,
I realize there are far more intimate activities, but that's
(04:33):
like with clothes on. That's a very close sort of thing.
And it implies romance, right because it's like a romantic song,
slow dancing, the whole thing. And you know that I
don't jump to conclusions, you know, I typically tend to
be like I think, you know people, and by people,
I mean most of you in this room are overreacting.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
But I don't. I don't like that. I don't like
I would not like.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
That if I came back from the bathroom or to
get you know, to get a little cocktail, and my
girlfriend is slow dancing with another man?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
What? What's funny? Are you guys?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Why are you laughing? This situation so fun here? What
do you mean? How y'all get here?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Like?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Why are you slow dancing? Well, that's what we're trying
to fin It's what a man called doesn't matter with
wh Why are you doing this?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You mean it all? Why is anyone slow dancing activity?
Like out of.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Count I mean like at a wedding, Like at a
wedding that they play slow songs sometimes when people do that,
or like you'll do the father daughter dance and then
they'll join it and then everybody joins in. They ask
you to like gramily like I think I danced with
my mom at my sister's wedding. Anyway, I start my
(05:46):
day with a slow.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Slow dance every morning. What are you talking about? It's
so funny?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
You play John B and we slow dance together. Where
the hell have you guys doing for Okay, so you
didn't like this set, and did you say something to
her with You're like, hey, I'm not a fan of
this this uh activity that.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Yeah, No, I honestly I said something to her and
I mean even him, because they were there and they,
like I said, they both just acted like this was
not a big deal, and like I like I now,
like I can't shake the feeling that something might be
going on, Like I'm convinced of it, and like now
(06:31):
and I want to be really really fair here to Heidi.
She she's never given me a reason to think that before,
but like when like then, when you see it, it's
like all of a sudden, it's that that insecurity that
comes with it, that that feeling of like like has
there been something going on? Is there something going on?
(06:52):
And it just it doesn't feel right to me, It
doesn't feel off. And I'm you know, I'm convincing myself
now that they're something in between them, and I just
I don't know what to do, all.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Right, eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three
five context the same numbers group therapy SETH. I'm gonna,
I'm gonna we're gonna talk about this behind your back
we're gonna you can listen on the iHeart app on
the radio, and then we're gonna take phone calls and
we'll see what people have to say. I'm sure there
are lots of opinions, but thank you for sharing.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Man, good luck, Hey, thanks so much.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Okay, just this, I don't know again, you know, you know,
I'm not gonna jump right to that that they're like
doing it, but there's a level of comfort that seems
a level of comfort with one another, and then the
fact that it's like they didn't think anything of it.
It's a weird thing. It's a weird thing to be
doing with someone I don't know. But then again, if
(07:42):
you're at the wedding and you're in like let's say
you're dancing with your significant other and that person dancing
with were there ever a world where they would just switch,
like right there in front of you, like and we'll
dance together for a minute or whatever.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
If I've been to a wedding alone, like my friend's
husband who I've known forever will be like spin me
around and like, you know, it's all kosher, Like we're
not doing it right.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
So I don't know.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
I think it depends on the kind of relationship you
have with someone. I say, he comes up behind them,
taps you know when you like step in right, he
doesn't want to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I'll take it from here. With a bad British accent.
Speaker 4 (08:19):
That no ball a slow dancing, Like maybe I don't
give it a chance, Like maybe it's not my.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Thing, but like now I want to you're so touchy.
Speaker 4 (08:27):
I know I'm taking ballbroom classes this weekend, Charleston.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, that's quite a jump from last laughing is the
activity to taking professional lessons.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
My husband will slow dance with me.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
Maybe that's what it is.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Maybe I'm just bitter. Oh no, we've been on a journey.
It's a very it's very close.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
It is close physical close in contact and touching parts
of the body that you wouldn't necessarily touch up, like
I wouldn't walk up to my friend's girlfriend and like
touch your waist, dance you know what I mean, Like
I don't I don't necessarily think that it means is
that that they're cheating, because that would be I mean,
people who cheat, they can act far less, just far
(09:06):
more distant than that. Like this is so public.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
I just think. It's like, how are you so comfortable?
Is a question would be I don't think it's a
big deal, which is like a light I know, because
usually I'm like, he cheating there? Who are you know?
Because what happened? You get a ring on your finger?
Now everybody's okay.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
There somewhere, no guys, I'm telling you that my family functions.
I would go like if my best friend came up
and danced with big Tim, I would not think twice
about it.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Again, they body rolling and on.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Each other's and I'm like, I thought when he picked
her up and held her up and spun her did
the split, you know, like around like a cheer, that's
crossing a The fact that it was choreographed, like when
do they have time to practice that? It's really weird. Yes,
(10:05):
my god, Rana, hi Na, it's a weird things. It
is a weird thing.
Speaker 5 (10:12):
It's weird.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
But I don't know that it's inherently nefarious.
Speaker 5 (10:18):
It's not necessary. It's just weird. He took three whole
minutes to go to the bathroom and get a drink
and that and.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
They couldn't wait to spin around.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
That was wild.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
She's so nibbles it's a visual now that she just
can't leave my head. I'm sorry. I'm not laughing at him.
I just think it's a crazy it's I wouldn't like it.
I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
I wouldn't like it either.
Speaker 5 (10:52):
The Flonian thing is weird. In Polyma's defense, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I mean, yeah, all right, thank you. I have a
good day. And now came dancing with the stars together.
It's weird. I don't want to grind at a wedding
like sorry, I want to just dance respectfully to a
nice song, to the electric slide.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Oh no, never, but we're not. We're not gonna slow dance.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
You're You're not that shocking news. I thought you were
way into it. Hey, Raymond, this is off the rails, Raymond. So,
this dude's upset because his his girlfriend was slow dancing
with with their friends with the you know what I'm saying.
There's two couples in her friends and they he was
(11:39):
slow dancing. She was slow dancing with the other guy
in the friend group. They switched it up and he
was only gone for a couple of minutes. It just
looked very close and intimate. Why were they doing this?
Speaker 6 (11:50):
Honestly, I don't think it's that big of a deal.
I would have been more concerned, like if they were
a prize, like they got caught when he came back.
But now that he expressed his concern and saying, you
know that he didn't like that or he didn't appreciate that,
so now they should know that, you know, not to
let that stuff happen again.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Yeah, knock it off, you too. I thought that the
costume change was wild, like they even brought other outfits.
Was sorry, yeah, Raymond, thank you man, have a good day.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
I am immature.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
Congratulations kicking there you go.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
There you go, all of a sudden kicking. Now she's engaged,
so it's like a whole new fine.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
You know, love is love. Yeah, he's great. Oh god,
hey don Hi, how are you? Are you in a relationship? Done?
Speaker 5 (12:48):
I am not Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Well, I was gonna say, if the last person you dated,
if that person were dancing with a friend of yours,
of the opposite sex, and it looked close, you know,
would you sort of be like, this is weird. This
is a level of intimacy that I didn't necessarily think
that my that my certificant other would share another person.
Speaker 5 (13:06):
Oh that guy. Yeah, I probably would, But in this case,
I don't really consider it a big deal. I mean
I feel like there's a kind of comfort level that
they should already be feeling because he said the vacation together.
I mean to me, it kind of feels like it's
not just going out to like a dinner or a concert,
like vacation. He's like, you're going somewhere like maybe Disney,
(13:27):
I don't know, Florida, another state, whatever. So there's like
a comfort level already. What what's a dance, it's a
slow dance.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
If we want in a double date.
Speaker 1 (13:36):
I come back and my girlfriend's holding hands with my
best friend, I might be like, hey, what are we
doing here?
Speaker 5 (13:46):
I mean, yes, if they're strolling down the path and
holding it, well it might be a little weird, but
I mean this is this is a weddiness, so there's already.
I mean you're gonna say, yes, there's a romantic there's
a romantic and you know air about it everything. I
don't think that was romantic. Their partners weren't there. They
like the song get up and dance, it's what you do.
Speaker 1 (14:05):
You know, you want to trust on this because there
would be situations yeah, I wouldn't think anything of it,
and there there would be if I felt insecure about it,
and I'm a reasonable person, I guess I would. You
know what I mean, like if you if your gut
is telling you something, because there might be situations where
it wouldn't be surprising, and then there might be somewhere
I don't.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
I don't know, but thank you Don, And this is
a confusing I yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:26):
I do agree with you. I mean, I do usually
say trust god instincts, but I just kind of feel
like he's blown this. I think he's blown it up
a little bit. I really don't think there was anything
going on. I was a little curious when didn't get
to this. I was a little curious that to other
partners have seen him. On the other side, if she
had seen or known about this, what her reaction was.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
That's that's a good question. If we had spoken to her,
how would she feel.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
She cheating? She probably would be like, no, it's a problem,
Thank you, don good day.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
You guys have a good day. Thing.
Speaker 1 (14:55):
No, I don't know if I jumped to cheating, but
I definitely jumped to like, well, that's comfy, you know
that set's comfort.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
Hey, Jonathan. Hey, it's Frannon.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
I know, hey man, people think we sound ridiculous. I
think this has been a very serious conversation. This has
been a totally ummy up and up. But what do
you think?
Speaker 7 (15:13):
Well, I wanted to call in because I prefaced I'm
getting married this Saturday.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
You didn't, uh, you didn't get you know, we were
shot on.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
The stationary press. We couldn't send you the invite.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
But I've been, Jonathan, been waiting for it. I've been
going to the middle box every day looking for it.
It wasn't there.
Speaker 7 (15:32):
But okay, you actually I actually called Jason free to
MC the night, but he said.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
You were already booked in busy. So I'm not talking
about that.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
No higher a professional for that. You don't, I don't.
I don't DJ weddings. I'm not a dj. People asking
fort you know, well, you know, for that price. But anyway,
sure you want to say, right?
Speaker 7 (15:52):
So, because I'm getting married, right, I've been doing a
lot of slow dancing lately, practicing for my first dance
as such. And I'm I'm not saying that something you know,
something naughty is going on here, But boat answer is.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
A very very intimate activity that.
Speaker 8 (16:10):
I doubt they were doing the high school from hand
on the shoulders, hand on the waist.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
You know, pop them back to side. I I can't
imagine that's the kind of dance that.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
They were doing.
Speaker 7 (16:19):
So I'm not saying that they're necessarily cheating.
Speaker 8 (16:22):
On their partners, but it definitely is not a good
look because it is a very romantic, intimate activity and
I would not want my future wife to be doing
that with another man.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
That's that's that's really why I have to say. I
think you're at least a lot more romantic feelings. I
think you're right, Jonathan.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Hey, congratulations, man, have a great, great wedding this weekend.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
Hey, thank you guys, Love you guys.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Okay, I love you too, man. Now, is the same
thing gonna happen for your wedding? Is the invitation? And
get lost in the mail or get included to that?
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Oh no, you're already booked to.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
You can do better, hey, Bethany, Yeah, he's my booking agent.
Apparently he kind of is. Bethany.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Right, Bethany, Now you call up here and you wait
on hold. I'm so sorry I was on mute. That's
my bad.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Now, Bethany that's not gonna you know, I mute, we
can't hear you. That's not gonna work.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Yeah, that was my bad. It's still early.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
No, it is.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
You're right.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
So these couples are friends, but then you know, one
guy finds his girlfriend dancing with the dude and the
other relationship and they just seem they seemed chummy at
this wedding, and he's worried about it.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
What do you think?
Speaker 9 (17:35):
I honestly don't think anything's going on.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
Like, think about it.
Speaker 9 (17:38):
If you if you were cheating with this person, you
would try you would avoid them in public. Why would
you go out and slow dance? That would be the
dumbest thing that you could do. Either they're really stupid
or like nothing at all is going on. It would
be more suspicious if they were avoiding each other.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Or is it the perfect crime us Like, hey, we're
out here in the open, right Bethany's point, if we
were cheating, we would never do something like this. Okay,
maybe I'm gullible. No, I mean the fact that.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
They had matching costumes. I think that was like it
was premeditated, Like they thought about this. You know, they
knew that they were going to be doing this and
away then.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
Goodman or whatever the hell his name has came out.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
It was weird.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Yeah, all right, Bethany, thank you, have a good day.
But yeah, yeah, they got a mirror ball.
Speaker 2 (18:29):
It's weird. I don't I don't know why. This isn't
a lot of this particular subject matter. This is goofy,
but it's goofy, it is all right. Well, I don't.
I don't think we help this man at all. Yeah,
I don't think that. I don't. I think he should
just be like that was good, you know, I don't know.
I love that. I didn't love that.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
She gets super defensive about it. Yeah, I don't think
it's an unfair request, but I didn't. The dude had
his hands on your waist, like, it's kind of weird. Like,
I don't love it.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Don't slow with my friends. Yeah, I'm slow dance everywhere?
Why away did two of you? Man?
Speaker 3 (19:02):
It's like.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
We're in tackle bell. Why are you fill dancing here?
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