September 15, 2025 • 19 mins
Judge Keke weights in on family birthday party drama on an all new Keke's Court! Plus, listen to today's fun fact about sharks!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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Speaker 2 (00:03):
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my timeline, ugly people on my timeline. Like it like
it triggers like oh God, I'm like, why so huts
you again?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:15):
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Speaker 1 (00:23):
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yea Shelby Shelley.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
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context the same number. Kiki's Court is next by I'm
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Speaker 4 (00:37):
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the entertainment of work coming up this hour.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
What's in their case?
Speaker 5 (00:43):
I'll tell you about the youngest person ever to win
an Emmy Order.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
It's a fread show.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
It's Kiki's Court, all right, The Honorable Kikilik is here.
Judge Kiki eight, take it away.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
Wait all right, let's get into the court room.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
The gabble has been and hits all right, It says
Heiki Key, am I wrong for refusing to let my
ex husband bring his former mistress to our child's birthday party.
I've been divorced for three years and since the divorce.
My ex and I have always celebrated our kids' birthdays
together as a family. It's the only day of the
year that we keep it cordial for our kids. Well,
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my ex decided to marry his former mistress at the
beginning of the year, and now his new wife is
demanding to attend my daughter's birthday party and Kiki, it
was an absolute no for me. However, my ex decided
to bring her to the party anyway, and it completely
ruined my daughter's party. I had to have both of
(01:42):
them removed from the party and it caused a big scene.
Now some of my family is saying that I overreacted,
but I don't think I deserve to have to eat
cake with a woman that ruined my family.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
M judge Kiki? All right, I say you, you know, at.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
First, you know I always want to take the woman's side.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
This is what I do.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
But I had to really think about this, and I
think both of you are selfish, the ex husband and
and you. You know, I feel like you are selfish
as well, because in that moment, I told my ex
not to bring the lady to the party. So he's
selfish for bringing her because he should have just suggested
in that moment, Okay, well we need to start having
separate birthday parties. I'm not going to ask this man
(02:23):
to disrespect his new wife, you know what I'm saying.
I can understand him wanting her to be there whatever.
Then if he if he was mature, I feel like
he would have said, okay, well we need to start
having separate birthday parties if you're not going to allow
my wife to attend Boom.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
This is especially precarious though, because of the of the
cheating element.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
This isn't like they broke up and then went their
separate ways and met different people and then those different
people aren't allowed to be there. I mean this, he
was cheating with this woman, So it's a slap in
the face. It's also run However, Judge Kiki, it is
not about them. It is about the kid exactly. That
needs to behave.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
In my opinion, when she arrived to my daughter's birthday party,
I would have tried to keep my coup and so
after the party, like, I wouldn't have caused the scene
had them removed, I would have like, you know what,
I'm gonna eat this today for my kid. But after this,
I'm gonna deal with both of y'all. You know, that
would have been my mentality towards it. But I feel
like he could have also just suggested that they have
separate birthday parties because he knew how she felt about
(03:21):
this before the party.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
So I think they're both.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Selfish eight five five three five context the same number
you guys are the jury. Yeah, yeah, I think if
the family dynamic is such that everybody can't get along
and the guy married the mistress, which means she's the
stepmom now and she's going to be around for the
foreseeable future, then they either have to agree to cooperate
(03:43):
or they have to have separate events. Because I mean,
for how long can you mean the mistress part and
the cheating part is unfortunate, but for how long can
you say this woman you married cannot be a part
of this little unit over here? Like how long can
you keep her out? You know what is done?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
And you want to say, you know, be the bigger
person for your kids, But like you said, it's a
sensitive situation. She was the mistress. She you know, she
played a part in my family falling apart. You're entitled
to that. But when you're at your kid's birthday party, like,
come on, let's all be adults until this is over
with and then we can fight in the parking.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Lot, you know, like like adults. You know, yeah, like
like civilized like normal people. Yeah, take it outside, well,
because the kid's.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Gonna remember this now, you know, the kids go people
getting the drug out of parties and all this stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
You don't forget stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah, And I mean you expressed that to your ex
before you told him no.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
He clearly doesn't listen.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
But I feel like he's selfish because he could have
just said, Okay, well, my wife wants to be there,
so we will celebrate another time.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Right, But at some point too, like when can he
take responsibility for like what he's done in the past
and maybe oblige his ACX a little bit, Like you
messed up, but at least you know, you're supposedly happy
now you're with the mistress, like you can go on
and live of your life, but like for your acts,
like maybe the mother of your kids, like maybe just
oblige her because you were a dirty dog.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Right, you know, But then he has to go home
to the new wife. And she's like, you're telling me
I can't come somewhere with you.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I'm your wife. You know that can be a whole thing.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
So, yeah, it's messy, Yeah it is. Hey Michelle, Hey, hey,
so do you you've lived this? You know these stories?
Speaker 7 (05:23):
I lived it?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Yes, I lived this story.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (05:27):
Dad cheated on my mom. Mom found out and gave
him ultimatum. Dad chose to leave, and so at that
point then there was they separated, and then he's been
with her now for thirty years, and so she's the
first probably five years is a little bit hectic. But
then Mom receiated and she's like, I'm not gonna, you know,
(05:50):
ruin my children's birthdays and holidays because this.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Woman ruined stuff.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
I'm going to be a bigger person.
Speaker 8 (05:58):
And Mom did talk to her, but everybody was invited
to everything.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Yeah, no one's asking anyone to be friends here, you know.
And I realized that when you're not involved, it's easy
to say, but at some point it's about the kid
or kids or whatever. And so you know, either you
you have to choose to accept it and and and
just keep your distance and cooperate or or I don't know,
what the alternative is. Everything's divisive and and and there's
(06:24):
never any semblance of mom and dad getting along ever again.
And I don't know. I mean, maybe that's better than this,
but yeah, what do you say?
Speaker 8 (06:31):
I see that the past thing was was my parents
still got along, but the new.
Speaker 7 (06:37):
Wife didn't like the fact that they got along.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
A minute, you're a mistress, you'd a mistress, and that
you complaining about the nahha. You don't get a vote
in this. No, you don't get a voting in the
functionality of a relationship that failed because there was infidelity.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
You don't get a vote in this.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Exactly who I mean those little metal mistresses?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Oh now you're insecure.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Oh wait a minute, So you weren't insecure when you were,
when you were part of the demise of a relationship.
But now they're insecure because they get along because you
know that your lot Flosi.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
If she knew right, we'll care the other.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
To give it a bit of another day. Thank you, Michelle,
A good day. Thank you for suaring. Now I want
to go live to Hadley Man. Now Hadley is eleven,
Hadley Hadley, Yes, you are a little young to be
chiming in on this, but I'd still like to hear
what you have to say.
Speaker 9 (07:30):
Okay, so I agree with Kei Key. I think that
even though the ex wife said don't bring her and
he decided to bring her is selfish, but also kicking
them out is also selfish. But it shouldn't matter what
the parents want. It should matter what the kids want
(07:52):
because it's the kid's party, not the parents party.
Speaker 10 (07:54):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
That is a very mature perspective of a situation. I
hope that you do not fully understand at eleven years old. Okay,
yeah you are Hey, you are welcome here anytime. Handley,
have a good day. Thank you, thank you, thank you
so much. A teachable moment right there. Okay, we gotta
we talk about how adults do stupid things and kids
(08:16):
oftentimes have to play the stupid games and get the
stupid prizes because the adults did stupid stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Hey, Chrizly, Chris, what's up?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Bray?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
How you doing? Hey, what's going on? Brother? What do
you think in Kiki's court?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Well, listen, I feel for the lady.
Speaker 10 (08:32):
I feel for the mom who's hosting the party, but
if she's trying to be a control freak, the man,
look the past is the past.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
When you get married, that person's won. It's a package deal.
Speaker 10 (08:43):
We see a lot of times where people try to
control situations.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Because they don't like the result. And further, if it were.
Speaker 10 (08:49):
Reversed or if she were married at the time as well,
she wouldn't.
Speaker 9 (08:53):
Have a problem.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Yeah, I mean it's easier said than done, man, because
you know now you I looked as woman in the
eye who was part of the demise of your family.
And again, I don't know the whole situation here. It's
never really as cut and dry as one person just
teaches it.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
It's very rarely and dry.
Speaker 10 (09:11):
Yeah, but they're always listen, it's a divorce, so you know,
somebody's not going to be happy. But at the end
of the day, you cannot control the other person when
you're that's half this kid, when you're no longer married
to them. It's just that's how it is. So you know,
that's that's the type of thing that does the kid wrong.
(09:34):
How did your child learn how to manage conflict if
that's what they see.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
No, you're you're right, No, you're right, Thank you, man,
have a good day. I'm glad you called him, all right, No,
it's true. I mean, it is true.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Get over it.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Well, like the adult's got to be adults, and it's
it's so hard to do. Like no one's saying that's easy. No,
but the adults got to be adults, right, Hey all though.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Hey, hey, how you do a man?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Kiky scoring? So just just to recap here and make
sure I get this right, judge Kiki. But basically, a
woman and her ex husband, they were in a relationship,
they had a kid.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
He cheated.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Now he's married to the woman with whom he cheated,
and they have birthday parties every year and the former
husband and wife get together, you know, to celebrate the
kid's birthday, and they're cordial. Now the mistress showing up
the actually it was now the wife. Ye now she's
showing up too. It's making a whole thing uncomfortable. And
there was an altercation and people were drug out and
it was a whole thing.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
What do you think.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
I think that the new wife, who has nothing to
do with the kid, shouldn't come now that it happened
once that sort of it's already happened. And I agree
the kid wasn't thought of by either parent and that issue.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
But going forward.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Hey, look, if you want your new wife to have
a party with your daughter, fine, but not with me.
You know, it's that's simple, and it's simply because I
think mom's a little warm right now. A couple of
years down the road, she'd probably calmed down. It's not
like the daughter doesn't see this new woman when she
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goes visit her father. We're just talking about the birthday.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
I think this is a situation where maybe that woman
doesn't need to be included in this particular event. You know,
you're not saying you can't have a relationship with her,
because you're right. When you go over to his house,
you're gonna meet this woman and develop a relationship hopefully
or whatever. But for this particular thing, maybe she doesn't
need to be there. Maybe this is just mom and
dad handling this so that there's everyone's comfortable.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I agree. Although, thank you, have a good day. You're
too glad you called. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
A lot of people have lived this, Hey, Lindsey, Yes, Hey,
good morning.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
What do you think?
Speaker 7 (11:49):
Well, So, being someone that has sort of lived this,
my ex husband and I would do the same thing
for the kids. Celebrate their birthdays together. But once I
started dating some one who I'm now currently married to.
I just got married last Friday. Thank you, thank you,
thank you. I st we've just stopped. You like, once
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someone else is involved, I mean, regardless of cheating or
cordially separating, whatever it is, once you have a significant
other or another spouse or I don't feel there's any
reason to have to blend all of it together. Sure,
in passing, kids take up switching weekends, whatever it is, great,
be cordial, Hi, how are you see you later? But
families said there's no reason for it out of respect
(12:34):
for everyone involved. That's uncomfortable. Some people can do it great,
But given the circumstances that he cheated at and she
now the little mistress home wrecker wants to be like
the white or the mom's sot eat cake with the
girl that ruined their family. Absolutely unacceptable. So everyone needs
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to be an adult, do the things separately, and the
kids can have three freaking birthday parties. Yeah, you don't
have to sit face to face with the person that
stirred your whole world up.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
Yeah, because as a kid, I lived a thing where
people were trying to force the family unit it's like, well,
these you know, this is your step mom now, and
this is your these are your step brothers. And it's like, no, no, no,
I why do I have to accept? I don't have
to accept this?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Like I don't. I don't. I didn't want any of this.
I don't have Why do I have to like this lady?
Like I didn't.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
I didn't pick her. You did, and you picked her
with your pecker. Yeah, so so there, so get her
out of here and she'll be gone soon anyway. And
she was thank you, livesey, you have a good day.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Yeah don't.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
I don't like the whole forced family unit thing. It's like, well,
but she's here now, so you have to accept that.
I know.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
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Speaker 2 (00:03):
Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on
my timeline, ugly people on my timeline. Like it like
it triggers like oh God, I'm like, why so huts
you again?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Fred show is on Miss Monday, Secember fifteen. It's a
fread show.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Hi Kailin, Hi. Jason Brown pulling us out today. Kiki
yea Shelby Shelley.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Belahamine eight five five five nine one one three five
context the same number. Kiki's Court is next by I'm
bomb girl.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
What are you doing here?
Speaker 4 (00:37):
The biggest stories of the day, headlines, fun fact and
the entertainment of work coming up this hour.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
What's in their case?
Speaker 5 (00:43):
I'll tell you about the youngest person ever to win
an Emmy Order.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
It's a fread show.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
It's Kiki's Court, all right, The Honorable Kikilik is here.
Judge Kiki eight, take it away.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
Wait all right, let's get into the court room.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
The gabble has been and hits all right, It says
Heiki Key, am I wrong for refusing to let my
ex husband bring his former mistress to our child's birthday party.
I've been divorced for three years and since the divorce.
My ex and I have always celebrated our kids' birthdays
together as a family. It's the only day of the
year that we keep it cordial for our kids. Well,
(01:22):
my ex decided to marry his former mistress at the
beginning of the year, and now his new wife is
demanding to attend my daughter's birthday party and Kiki, it
was an absolute no for me. However, my ex decided
to bring her to the party anyway, and it completely
ruined my daughter's party. I had to have both of
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them removed from the party and it caused a big scene.
Now some of my family is saying that I overreacted,
but I don't think I deserve to have to eat
cake with a woman that ruined my family.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
M judge Kiki? All right, I say you, you know, at.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
First, you know I always want to take the woman's side.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
This is what I do.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
But I had to really think about this, and I
think both of you are selfish, the ex husband and
and you. You know, I feel like you are selfish
as well, because in that moment, I told my ex
not to bring the lady to the party. So he's
selfish for bringing her because he should have just suggested
in that moment, Okay, well we need to start having
separate birthday parties. I'm not going to ask this man
(02:23):
to disrespect his new wife, you know what I'm saying.
I can understand him wanting her to be there whatever.
Then if he if he was mature, I feel like
he would have said, okay, well we need to start
having separate birthday parties if you're not going to allow
my wife to attend Boom.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
This is especially precarious though, because of the of the
cheating element.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
This isn't like they broke up and then went their
separate ways and met different people and then those different
people aren't allowed to be there. I mean this, he
was cheating with this woman, So it's a slap in
the face. It's also run However, Judge Kiki, it is
not about them. It is about the kid exactly. That
needs to behave.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
In my opinion, when she arrived to my daughter's birthday party,
I would have tried to keep my coup and so
after the party, like, I wouldn't have caused the scene
had them removed, I would have like, you know what,
I'm gonna eat this today for my kid. But after this,
I'm gonna deal with both of y'all. You know, that
would have been my mentality towards it. But I feel
like he could have also just suggested that they have
separate birthday parties because he knew how she felt about
(03:21):
this before the party.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
So I think they're both.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Selfish eight five five three five context the same number
you guys are the jury. Yeah, yeah, I think if
the family dynamic is such that everybody can't get along
and the guy married the mistress, which means she's the
stepmom now and she's going to be around for the
foreseeable future, then they either have to agree to cooperate
(03:43):
or they have to have separate events. Because I mean,
for how long can you mean the mistress part and
the cheating part is unfortunate, but for how long can
you say this woman you married cannot be a part
of this little unit over here? Like how long can
you keep her out? You know what is done?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
And you want to say, you know, be the bigger
person for your kids, But like you said, it's a
sensitive situation. She was the mistress. She you know, she
played a part in my family falling apart. You're entitled
to that. But when you're at your kid's birthday party, like,
come on, let's all be adults until this is over
with and then we can fight in the parking.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Lot, you know, like like adults. You know, yeah, like
like civilized like normal people. Yeah, take it outside, well,
because the kid's.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Gonna remember this now, you know, the kids go people
getting the drug out of parties and all this stuff.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
You don't forget stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah, And I mean you expressed that to your ex
before you told him no.
Speaker 5 (04:39):
He clearly doesn't listen.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
But I feel like he's selfish because he could have
just said, Okay, well, my wife wants to be there,
so we will celebrate another time.
Speaker 6 (04:47):
Right, But at some point too, like when can he
take responsibility for like what he's done in the past
and maybe oblige his ACX a little bit, Like you
messed up, but at least you know, you're supposedly happy
now you're with the mistress, like you can go on
and live of your life, but like for your acts,
like maybe the mother of your kids, like maybe just
oblige her because you were a dirty dog.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Right, you know, But then he has to go home
to the new wife. And she's like, you're telling me
I can't come somewhere with you.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I'm your wife. You know that can be a whole thing.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
So, yeah, it's messy, Yeah it is. Hey Michelle, Hey, hey,
so do you you've lived this? You know these stories?
Speaker 7 (05:23):
I lived it?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
Yes, I lived this story.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (05:27):
Dad cheated on my mom. Mom found out and gave
him ultimatum. Dad chose to leave, and so at that
point then there was they separated, and then he's been
with her now for thirty years, and so she's the
first probably five years is a little bit hectic. But
then Mom receiated and she's like, I'm not gonna, you know,
(05:50):
ruin my children's birthdays and holidays because this.
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Woman ruined stuff.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
I'm going to be a bigger person.
Speaker 8 (05:58):
And Mom did talk to her, but everybody was invited
to everything.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
Yeah, no one's asking anyone to be friends here, you know.
And I realized that when you're not involved, it's easy
to say, but at some point it's about the kid
or kids or whatever. And so you know, either you
you have to choose to accept it and and and
just keep your distance and cooperate or or I don't know,
what the alternative is. Everything's divisive and and and there's
(06:24):
never any semblance of mom and dad getting along ever again.
And I don't know. I mean, maybe that's better than this,
but yeah, what do you say?
Speaker 8 (06:31):
I see that the past thing was was my parents
still got along, but the new.
Speaker 7 (06:37):
Wife didn't like the fact that they got along.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
A minute, you're a mistress, you'd a mistress, and that
you complaining about the nahha. You don't get a vote
in this. No, you don't get a voting in the
functionality of a relationship that failed because there was infidelity.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
You don't get a vote in this.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Exactly who I mean those little metal mistresses?
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Oh now you're insecure.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Oh wait a minute, So you weren't insecure when you were,
when you were part of the demise of a relationship.
But now they're insecure because they get along because you
know that your lot Flosi.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
If she knew right, we'll care the other.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
To give it a bit of another day. Thank you, Michelle,
A good day. Thank you for suaring. Now I want
to go live to Hadley Man. Now Hadley is eleven,
Hadley Hadley, Yes, you are a little young to be
chiming in on this, but I'd still like to hear
what you have to say.
Speaker 9 (07:30):
Okay, so I agree with Kei Key. I think that
even though the ex wife said don't bring her and
he decided to bring her is selfish, but also kicking
them out is also selfish. But it shouldn't matter what
the parents want. It should matter what the kids want
(07:52):
because it's the kid's party, not the parents party.
Speaker 10 (07:54):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
That is a very mature perspective of a situation. I
hope that you do not fully understand at eleven years old. Okay,
yeah you are Hey, you are welcome here anytime. Handley,
have a good day. Thank you, thank you, thank you
so much. A teachable moment right there. Okay, we gotta
we talk about how adults do stupid things and kids
(08:16):
oftentimes have to play the stupid games and get the
stupid prizes because the adults did stupid stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Hey, Chrizly, Chris, what's up?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Bray?
Speaker 1 (08:25):
How you doing? Hey, what's going on? Brother? What do
you think in Kiki's court?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Well, listen, I feel for the lady.
Speaker 10 (08:32):
I feel for the mom who's hosting the party, but
if she's trying to be a control freak, the man,
look the past is the past.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
When you get married, that person's won. It's a package deal.
Speaker 10 (08:43):
We see a lot of times where people try to
control situations.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Because they don't like the result. And further, if it were.
Speaker 10 (08:49):
Reversed or if she were married at the time as well,
she wouldn't.
Speaker 9 (08:53):
Have a problem.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Yeah, I mean it's easier said than done, man, because
you know now you I looked as woman in the
eye who was part of the demise of your family.
And again, I don't know the whole situation here. It's
never really as cut and dry as one person just
teaches it.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
It's very rarely and dry.
Speaker 10 (09:11):
Yeah, but they're always listen, it's a divorce, so you know,
somebody's not going to be happy. But at the end
of the day, you cannot control the other person when
you're that's half this kid, when you're no longer married
to them. It's just that's how it is. So you know,
that's that's the type of thing that does the kid wrong.
(09:34):
How did your child learn how to manage conflict if
that's what they see.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
No, you're you're right, No, you're right, Thank you, man,
have a good day. I'm glad you called him, all right, No,
it's true. I mean, it is true.
Speaker 5 (09:47):
Get over it.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Well, like the adult's got to be adults, and it's
it's so hard to do. Like no one's saying that's easy. No,
but the adults got to be adults, right, Hey all though.
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Hey, hey, how you do a man?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Kiky scoring? So just just to recap here and make
sure I get this right, judge Kiki. But basically, a
woman and her ex husband, they were in a relationship,
they had a kid.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
He cheated.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
Now he's married to the woman with whom he cheated,
and they have birthday parties every year and the former
husband and wife get together, you know, to celebrate the
kid's birthday, and they're cordial. Now the mistress showing up
the actually it was now the wife. Ye now she's
showing up too. It's making a whole thing uncomfortable. And
there was an altercation and people were drug out and
it was a whole thing.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
What do you think.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
I think that the new wife, who has nothing to
do with the kid, shouldn't come now that it happened
once that sort of it's already happened. And I agree
the kid wasn't thought of by either parent and that issue.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
But going forward.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Hey, look, if you want your new wife to have
a party with your daughter, fine, but not with me.
You know, it's that's simple, and it's simply because I
think mom's a little warm right now. A couple of
years down the road, she'd probably calmed down. It's not
like the daughter doesn't see this new woman when she
(11:12):
goes visit her father. We're just talking about the birthday.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 4 (11:16):
I think this is a situation where maybe that woman
doesn't need to be included in this particular event. You know,
you're not saying you can't have a relationship with her,
because you're right. When you go over to his house,
you're gonna meet this woman and develop a relationship hopefully
or whatever. But for this particular thing, maybe she doesn't
need to be there. Maybe this is just mom and
dad handling this so that there's everyone's comfortable.
Speaker 1 (11:38):
I agree. Although, thank you, have a good day. You're
too glad you called. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
A lot of people have lived this, Hey, Lindsey, Yes, Hey,
good morning.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
What do you think?
Speaker 7 (11:49):
Well, So, being someone that has sort of lived this,
my ex husband and I would do the same thing
for the kids. Celebrate their birthdays together. But once I
started dating some one who I'm now currently married to.
I just got married last Friday. Thank you, thank you,
thank you. I st we've just stopped. You like, once
(12:12):
someone else is involved, I mean, regardless of cheating or
cordially separating, whatever it is, once you have a significant
other or another spouse or I don't feel there's any
reason to have to blend all of it together. Sure,
in passing, kids take up switching weekends, whatever it is, great,
be cordial, Hi, how are you see you later? But
families said there's no reason for it out of respect
(12:34):
for everyone involved. That's uncomfortable. Some people can do it great,
But given the circumstances that he cheated at and she
now the little mistress home wrecker wants to be like
the white or the mom's sot eat cake with the
girl that ruined their family. Absolutely unacceptable. So everyone needs
(12:55):
to be an adult, do the things separately, and the
kids can have three freaking birthday parties. Yeah, you don't
have to sit face to face with the person that
stirred your whole world up.
Speaker 4 (13:06):
Yeah, because as a kid, I lived a thing where
people were trying to force the family unit it's like, well,
these you know, this is your step mom now, and
this is your these are your step brothers. And it's like, no, no, no,
I why do I have to accept? I don't have
to accept this?
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Like I don't. I don't. I didn't want any of this.
I don't have Why do I have to like this lady?
Like I didn't.
Speaker 4 (13:23):
I didn't pick her. You did, and you picked her
with your pecker. Yeah, so so there, so get her
out of here and she'll be gone soon anyway. And
she was thank you, livesey, you have a good day.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Yeah don't.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (13:35):
I don't like the whole forced family unit thing. It's like, well,
but she's here now, so you have to accept that.
I know.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
I got a mom and I got a dad's entertainment report.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
He's on the Pread show.
Speaker 11 (13:45):
Ed Cheron says he has an album called Eject written
into his will now. Remember he dropped a new album
called Play on Friday and shared that he has plans
for four more called Pause, Fast Forward, Rewind, and Stop.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
That man loves a group of albums that have a theme.
Remember he used to do math symbols for his name.
The YEP subtract.
Speaker 11 (14:08):
When asked if Stop would be his final full length release,
he responded by saying he has one more written into
his will, like I said, called Eject and set up
where his wife Cherry Cherry Sebone would get to choose
the songs that go on that final album. He said
that even if God forbid he dies tomorrow, this album
would be ready to go, and don't worry if you're
(14:28):
a fan. He did say that getting to the release
of that album Stop is going to take a long time,
but he really does love a theme for a group
of album names. Fifteen year old Owhen Cooper became the
youngest man to win an Emmy last night, taking.
Speaker 5 (14:43):
Home the trophy for his work on Adolescence.
Speaker 11 (14:46):
When Adolescents dropped earlier this year, it broke all kinds
of records for Netflix and I feel.
Speaker 5 (14:51):
Like everyone was talking about it. But if you have not.
Speaker 11 (14:53):
Seen it, it's that movie that was filmed with no cuts,
so it was one take, I believe and followed a
dad after his son, played mad by Owen Cooper, was
arrested for the murder of a female school friend.
Speaker 5 (15:03):
Did you watch it?
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I did see that?
Speaker 5 (15:05):
Was it good? I haven't watched it.
Speaker 4 (15:08):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was okay, you're not convincing.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Well, I don't know I was. I wasn't. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (15:13):
I was kind of like, that's it, okay. I just
remember thinking at the end, like, oh oh so it's okay.
I don't want to say too much better. Oh oh yeah,
I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 11 (15:25):
He won an award for it, so you know, yeah, good, yeah,
good for Owen, Right, his first ever Emmy and he's
the youngest man. But his counterpart broke that record a
while ago, Roxanna Zell, who has since left Hollywood. She
was fourteen when she won her first Emmy for Something
About Amelia in nineteen eighty four, so she holds the
record of all time. Elsewhere at the Emmys, Vince Gill
(15:46):
and Leanie Wilson performed Go Rest High on That Mountain
during the in Memoriam segment. Their rendition of the song
was particularly significant as it featured a newly added verse
marking the song's thirtieth anniversary. But I'm just waiting for
us to figure out who was missing, because I feel
like every year they miss someone in that damn segment
and then everyone gets upset. Ago Moodom who Jason loves especially,
(16:09):
and now she's leaving SNL after seven seasons.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
I Go joined in twenty eighteen.
Speaker 11 (16:13):
Became known for her impressions and original characters like Lisa
from Temecula. My favorite is when she would play Dion Warwick.
It cracked me up every time. Her departure is part
of a bigger cast shake up ahead of the show's
fifty first season, with other exits like Heidi Gardner, Michael Longfellow,
Devin Walker, and Moore's So I don't know what's going
on over there, but I'm a little concerned for them. Also,
(16:35):
you guys liked my recommendation of Unknown Number the High
School Catfish, so I have another one for you that
I started, The Girlfriend on Prime.
Speaker 5 (16:45):
It's called The Girlfriend.
Speaker 11 (16:46):
It is about a mom who's a little close with
her son, who is suspicious about her son's new girlfriend
who comes around. Is it real or is it a drama?
It is not real. I don't know if it's based
on something real, but it's a drama. It's good. It
kind of reminds me like really good music, kind of
reminds me a little bit of weight Lotus. But it's
(17:07):
very good.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
It'll get you right away, so highly recommend. I have
not finished it, but it's I is it a series series? Yeah,
so you're gonna need a little taken move situation. I know,
I know it's not This is a good one.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
And the unknown number thing is just disgusting. It's just disgusting. Yeah,
it's yeah. If you know, even if you know the
ending because we've talked about it or it's been you know,
well sort of publicized, you got to just watch it
because it's the way people are acting on this thing.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
It's like what on earth?
Speaker 11 (17:39):
Yeah, and even acting afterwards is like pretty upsetting. By
the way, if you missed any part of our show,
you want to catch up, it's all up there. Type
the French one demand and if you could, it really
helps set us as a preset.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Fread's fun fact Fred fund so much.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
I'm not sure if it's useful information because it's not
my job to didn't have to be useful.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
It's just called fun fact. It's not called it's not
called useful fun fact.
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Right.
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But certain types of sharks.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
Will enter a state of tonic immobility due to shock
if you flip them over. So flipping over a shark
will render it temporarily immobile.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
Some killer whales have been recorded to exploit this weakness
and purposefully flip it over.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yes, I like this because you know, everybody's scared of
a shark. But like, if I just flip you over, bro,
you worthless.
Speaker 4 (18:37):
Yea, because if a shark is that close to me, obviously,
the first thing I'm gonna do is touch it.
Speaker 2 (18:42):
Yeahs, come here, I'm gonna just flip you on your back.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
Yeah, And then it just passes out, and then you
just go ahead and little swim away, you know, just
go ahead and just you know, look a couple of apps,
and then before long you're fine.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Simple flip it over.
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The same is true with me, by the way, if
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