September 19, 2025 • 8 mins
Kaelin and her dog are besties and she want's to bring her everywhere!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, they talk better than they tell me.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. I'll
stick around. I was thinking about going home, but I
think I'll stick around. I think it's a good idea.
I like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Caylin go, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
So I feel like I'm typically someone who can kind
of usually take myself outside of my own perspective and
see other people's perspective. But there's like one thing that
I really just can't comprehend that people don't feel the
same about me.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
And if you have.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Allergies or like a dramatic story, please don't at me.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
That's not what this is about.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
But and people have called us out, specifically Fred, like
the way in which we love animals is a little
bit more probably than others, specifically dogs like I will
I'll put my face up to like a barn animal's face.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Will Yeah, Like I'm a sick Oh, I get it, because.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I don't think any of them are going to.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Hurt me, right, Why would they?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
They wouldn't because they.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Feel us exactly, they know us.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
As you know, Calin. I believe that I can reason
with the wild animal. And this is not a joke,
This is not a bit, this is not a gimmick.
Like I firmly believe that in the wild, if I
came across a wild animal, that we wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Have an issue.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I feel the same.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I genuinely believe that if I were walking down some
trail and a jaguar came out or something, that I
could reason with it and be like, yo, I'm good,
Like I'm totally good, showing pictures on my phone and
be you know, animals I've rescued and stuff, and then
boom in the jaguar. Before long, the jaguar and I
are hunting together for praying, I'm padding patting each other
and yeah, I'll just you know, wants to send us
(01:32):
into the world, like to lock me in this aquarium
I mentioned before with a jaguar, I just like saying jaguar.
By the way, it's not how you do yeah, anyway,
you can continue anyway.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
So I've always loved animals, and we love dogs specifically.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
And while I have had dogs.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
In the past, like family dogs, I you know, have
sense taken over my boyfriend's dog because we are just
we are, we're road dogs, like we're busties whatever, and
so I have it's the first time of me like
having a dog as an adult, and she's small, she's
like thirty eight pounds, and just just the experience of
seeing people who are like really not dog people has
(02:09):
been very shocking for me. And like even in my building,
like if people are weird about like riding the elevator
with her, so like I very much judge them, like
I'm like, you should live in like a special like
non dog building because this is.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
This is weird energy.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Another thing that I've noticed is like I always ask
if I can bring her with, because if she can
come with, she's coming with. And this is specific to
people's homes as well. And I'm starting to get like
weird reactions from people. Is it rude to ask, even
like you can tell me no and I'm cool about it,
Is it rude.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
To ask if I could bring a dog to your house?
Why are you look at me? Why are you look
at everybody's looking at me?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
At me?
Speaker 5 (02:50):
First, I am a dog owner, I am a dog mom.
This is Lexus world, in my opinion. So when we
get on the elevator, this is his elevator, right, you know,
we're the guest. So I have the same problem as you.
My sister in Lawed, for example, not hates dogs, but
she is not a dog person, Like she does not
play around with dogs. She doesn't want to be around dogs.
And I always say, like, you're weird, like I'm like
her with you. This is your nephew, like this is
(03:12):
your family. So it's it's the same thing here. I
don't think it's a problem. I think get dogs like
I look at children.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
That's my baby.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Well to some extent, I use that by the way,
that one right there makes people so angry for some reason.
All the people think dogs are like kids. And I
know that's some what you mean literally, but yeah, I'm right,
and that's what I mean when I say that. But
I've got I've gotten.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
It before too. Well you think of it. The dogs
are coven.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
No, that's not what I said, but I treat we've
always treated animals in our family like they're the same
as family, and they're not.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Of course, Like I get it.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
If it's a person eating or a dog eating, well,
I mean, I hope you know what's ever in a
situation I have to choose between dogs and animals. But
whatever the case between humans and animals, But whatever the
case may be, they get the same love and attention
that we would give to any other member of the family.
That being said, I don't think people are going to
tell you no as often as they would like to.
(04:05):
And I know that you think that you take know well,
but I think that if you were to say, can
I bring my daughter my best friend to your house
with me and they say uh, I think it probably
puts some people in a spot because maybe they don't
want that, but they're not Maybe they don't want hair
(04:26):
in their house, or they have allergies where they just
don't want it, or they don't know the dog they
or they don't know how your dogs didn't get along
with their dog or whatever. I don't know that I
think people would necessarily tell you no as often as
you think they would.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Well, I've gotten it.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Three times and I've taken it well. I'd secretly judge
for sure.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Well, that's what I mean, though, it's like that people
are afraid of that.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Well, you know, they can be afraid, but ask for
what you need. But I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
And one of my friends, you know, she has let
me bring her every other time, and then finally she said, well,
my husband is really weird.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
About it and doesn't want her to come over anymore.
And I said, okay, that's fine, and.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
She but when we get her, I go, but I
thought you guys were gonna get a dog, and she's like, well,
when it's ours, it's fine. So I don't know, it's
just been an interesting thing, and yeah, you're right, maybe
I put people on the spot.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
But because like we've had you know, we have dogs
in Arizona. My mom has dogs, two dogs, two cats.
And people will be like, well, you have a big
yet backyard and you have dogs. So I'm going to
bring so and so dog over to whatever. And we've
done that before. But the problem is so and so
dog is maybe not that well behaved, or so and
so dog maybe isn't nice to one of our dogs,
or so and so dog peace in the house.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
And so there's just so many variables.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Okay, and so I think my mom, who loves animals
and volunteers with animals and all the things, I think
she's now inclined to say no, I don't want that,
because it's just there's just so many variables, and I
don't really think as many people as you think are
going to be honest with you about it, because I
just don't because you can say that's cool. But if
(05:50):
I'm like, hey, I want to bring so and so
over and it's like no, it's deflating. It is deflating.
And you've admitted that you would judge the person and
I probably would too. So rather than do that, I
probably wouldn't Just I just wouldn't say. I wouldn't ask.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Hey, Elene, Hey, what's that?
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Elaine? What do you think about this? Do you think?
Do you think you have a dog?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Do you think that if you want to take the
dog everywhere and you call ahead and say can I
bring the dog? Is that fair to the people that
you're asking?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Am I the a hole?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
No, I don't think she'd say a hole? But I
a German shepherd, and my German shepherd is like my
child and I love to bring her everywhere that I can.
But if someone called me and was like, hey, Alene,
is it cool if I bring my dog over to
play with your dog?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I'd be like, I think it just puts people on
a spot that you don't necessarily need to put them in.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Okay, Because it's like her toys.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
She doesn't want anybody to play with her toys, so
I have to like pick.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Them all up and put them all away.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
And then it's like, oh, yeah, okay, oh no, my
dog loves other dogs. I love other dogs, but not
to the extent of like, hey, we're going to be besties.
They like for there dogs, but she wants them to
come over, and then she's going to try to, like,
you know, be like oh wait, no, don't do that
or don't do that well.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
And also dogs in a dog park are different than
dogs in their own homes sometimes. Yeah, And I don't
even know if it's about And thank you Elaine, by
the way, I appreciate you calling. Have a good day.
I'm not even sure if it's about. Certainly, if they
have dogs, then that's important, I get yeah, But then
if they don't have dogs, it's kind of like I
don't know, Like I don't think a person. I don't
(07:31):
think a bad person is a bad person if they
don't want another dog in their house.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Interesting, Yeah, I don't know if I do.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You're not a bed yeah, you're not a bed nur.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Also, I know my dog like I would love Willy
to come over. Now Benzo the tank is I'm not
bringing him out? Which yes? Which if if.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
The issue is there's another dog, I have the utmost respect.
I just would love if you guys would go, Can
I bring Benzo? Can I bring Lucks? Can I bring
them over? That would be the best day of my life.
But I love it, I get it.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Yeah, I just tend to to I don't know, I
tend not to ask questions like that because that's maybe
that's wrong on me, but it's just like that way,
I'm not putting anybody in a spot where they have
to say something that is within their comfort level and
their right, but then also would cause maybe you to
think differently about me, right, And I love dogs, love
you guys.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
See, this is what I mean judgment
Yeah, they talk better than they tell me.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. I'll
stick around. I was thinking about going home, but I
think I'll stick around. I think it's a good idea.
I like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
Caylin go, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
So I feel like I'm typically someone who can kind
of usually take myself outside of my own perspective and
see other people's perspective. But there's like one thing that
I really just can't comprehend that people don't feel the
same about me.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
And if you have.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Allergies or like a dramatic story, please don't at me.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
That's not what this is about.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
But and people have called us out, specifically Fred, like
the way in which we love animals is a little
bit more probably than others, specifically dogs like I will
I'll put my face up to like a barn animal's face.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Will Yeah, Like I'm a sick Oh, I get it, because.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I don't think any of them are going to.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Hurt me, right, Why would they?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
They wouldn't because they.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Feel us exactly, they know us.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
As you know, Calin. I believe that I can reason
with the wild animal. And this is not a joke,
This is not a bit, this is not a gimmick.
Like I firmly believe that in the wild, if I
came across a wild animal, that we wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Have an issue.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
I feel the same.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I genuinely believe that if I were walking down some
trail and a jaguar came out or something, that I
could reason with it and be like, yo, I'm good,
Like I'm totally good, showing pictures on my phone and
be you know, animals I've rescued and stuff, and then
boom in the jaguar. Before long, the jaguar and I
are hunting together for praying, I'm padding patting each other
and yeah, I'll just you know, wants to send us
(01:32):
into the world, like to lock me in this aquarium
I mentioned before with a jaguar, I just like saying jaguar.
By the way, it's not how you do yeah, anyway,
you can continue anyway.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
So I've always loved animals, and we love dogs specifically.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
And while I have had dogs.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
In the past, like family dogs, I you know, have
sense taken over my boyfriend's dog because we are just
we are, we're road dogs, like we're busties whatever, and
so I have it's the first time of me like
having a dog as an adult, and she's small, she's
like thirty eight pounds, and just just the experience of
seeing people who are like really not dog people has
(02:09):
been very shocking for me. And like even in my building,
like if people are weird about like riding the elevator
with her, so like I very much judge them, like
I'm like, you should live in like a special like
non dog building because this is.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
This is weird energy.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Another thing that I've noticed is like I always ask
if I can bring her with, because if she can
come with, she's coming with. And this is specific to
people's homes as well. And I'm starting to get like
weird reactions from people. Is it rude to ask, even
like you can tell me no and I'm cool about it,
Is it rude.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
To ask if I could bring a dog to your house?
Why are you look at me? Why are you look
at everybody's looking at me?
Speaker 1 (02:49):
At me?
Speaker 5 (02:50):
First, I am a dog owner, I am a dog mom.
This is Lexus world, in my opinion. So when we
get on the elevator, this is his elevator, right, you know,
we're the guest. So I have the same problem as you.
My sister in Lawed, for example, not hates dogs, but
she is not a dog person, Like she does not
play around with dogs. She doesn't want to be around dogs.
And I always say, like, you're weird, like I'm like
her with you. This is your nephew, like this is
(03:12):
your family. So it's it's the same thing here. I
don't think it's a problem. I think get dogs like
I look at children.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
That's my baby.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Well to some extent, I use that by the way,
that one right there makes people so angry for some reason.
All the people think dogs are like kids. And I
know that's some what you mean literally, but yeah, I'm right,
and that's what I mean when I say that. But
I've got I've gotten.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
It before too. Well you think of it. The dogs
are coven.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
No, that's not what I said, but I treat we've
always treated animals in our family like they're the same
as family, and they're not.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Of course, Like I get it.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
If it's a person eating or a dog eating, well,
I mean, I hope you know what's ever in a
situation I have to choose between dogs and animals. But
whatever the case between humans and animals, But whatever the
case may be, they get the same love and attention
that we would give to any other member of the family.
That being said, I don't think people are going to
tell you no as often as they would like to.
(04:05):
And I know that you think that you take know well,
but I think that if you were to say, can
I bring my daughter my best friend to your house
with me and they say uh, I think it probably
puts some people in a spot because maybe they don't
want that, but they're not Maybe they don't want hair
(04:26):
in their house, or they have allergies where they just
don't want it, or they don't know the dog they
or they don't know how your dogs didn't get along
with their dog or whatever. I don't know that I
think people would necessarily tell you no as often as
you think they would.
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Well, I've gotten it.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Three times and I've taken it well. I'd secretly judge
for sure.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Well, that's what I mean, though, it's like that people
are afraid of that.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Well, you know, they can be afraid, but ask for
what you need. But I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
And one of my friends, you know, she has let
me bring her every other time, and then finally she said, well,
my husband is really weird.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
About it and doesn't want her to come over anymore.
And I said, okay, that's fine, and.
Speaker 4 (04:59):
She but when we get her, I go, but I
thought you guys were gonna get a dog, and she's like, well,
when it's ours, it's fine. So I don't know, it's
just been an interesting thing, and yeah, you're right, maybe
I put people on the spot.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
But because like we've had you know, we have dogs
in Arizona. My mom has dogs, two dogs, two cats.
And people will be like, well, you have a big
yet backyard and you have dogs. So I'm going to
bring so and so dog over to whatever. And we've
done that before. But the problem is so and so
dog is maybe not that well behaved, or so and
so dog maybe isn't nice to one of our dogs,
or so and so dog peace in the house.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
And so there's just so many variables.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Okay, and so I think my mom, who loves animals
and volunteers with animals and all the things, I think
she's now inclined to say no, I don't want that,
because it's just there's just so many variables, and I
don't really think as many people as you think are
going to be honest with you about it, because I
just don't because you can say that's cool. But if
(05:50):
I'm like, hey, I want to bring so and so
over and it's like no, it's deflating. It is deflating.
And you've admitted that you would judge the person and
I probably would too. So rather than do that, I
probably wouldn't Just I just wouldn't say. I wouldn't ask.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Hey, Elene, Hey, what's that?
Speaker 6 (06:05):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Elaine? What do you think about this? Do you think?
Do you think you have a dog?
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Do you think that if you want to take the
dog everywhere and you call ahead and say can I
bring the dog? Is that fair to the people that
you're asking?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Am I the a hole?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
No, I don't think she'd say a hole? But I
a German shepherd, and my German shepherd is like my
child and I love to bring her everywhere that I can.
But if someone called me and was like, hey, Alene,
is it cool if I bring my dog over to
play with your dog?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I'd be like, I think it just puts people on
a spot that you don't necessarily need to put them in.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
Okay, Because it's like her toys.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
She doesn't want anybody to play with her toys, so
I have to like pick.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Them all up and put them all away.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
And then it's like, oh, yeah, okay, oh no, my
dog loves other dogs. I love other dogs, but not
to the extent of like, hey, we're going to be besties.
They like for there dogs, but she wants them to
come over, and then she's going to try to, like,
you know, be like oh wait, no, don't do that
or don't do that well.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
And also dogs in a dog park are different than
dogs in their own homes sometimes. Yeah, And I don't
even know if it's about And thank you Elaine, by
the way, I appreciate you calling. Have a good day.
I'm not even sure if it's about. Certainly, if they
have dogs, then that's important, I get yeah, But then
if they don't have dogs, it's kind of like I
don't know, Like I don't think a person. I don't
(07:31):
think a bad person is a bad person if they
don't want another dog in their house.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Interesting, Yeah, I don't know if I do.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You're not a bed yeah, you're not a bed nur.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Also, I know my dog like I would love Willy
to come over. Now Benzo the tank is I'm not
bringing him out? Which yes? Which if if.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
The issue is there's another dog, I have the utmost respect.
I just would love if you guys would go, Can
I bring Benzo? Can I bring Lucks? Can I bring
them over? That would be the best day of my life.
But I love it, I get it.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Yeah, I just tend to to I don't know, I
tend not to ask questions like that because that's maybe
that's wrong on me, but it's just like that way,
I'm not putting anybody in a spot where they have
to say something that is within their comfort level and
their right, but then also would cause maybe you to
think differently about me, right, And I love dogs, love
you guys.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
See, this is what I mean judgment
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