November 5, 2025 • 37 mins
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Show on demand. You had to go to a planning
meeting for a class reunion? Yes, right, how does that work?
A planning meeting? And then my understanding is that you
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then had to you have to plan it because you
were the last class president. Yes what? Yeah, exactly what exactly?
So if you win class president senior year, then you're
responsible for holt for like maintaining all contact with everybody
for the rest of your life. Yes, oh, there's one
more reason. Then I'm glad I didn't run among the
forty two people in my grade. Yeah, I don't think
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we had a class president. I think maybe we had
like a school president or something. There were two other
people to the whole high school. So how does this work?
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
So as the class president, you're supposed to be in
charge of the reunion. You're supposed to you know, oversee
it and kind of make sure it comes together. And
you know, ten years ago, I was that girl, like
I was all about unity and friendship.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
What do you know back then?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
That's right, and you know, friendship Now I don't want
to talk to years.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Later, your anti unity, anti friendship.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yes, okay, So so my are like football MVP and
Prime King. He reached out and you know, other people
had been reaching out to me, right, but I ignored them.
But my friend, like the Prime King, he was my
friend in school. So I'm like he's like, hey, key,
well you're none of about friendship unity anymore. So you
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so he but when he reached out, I'm like, oh,
he means business, you know. So he's like, hey, we
got to get this reunion going. We got to get
it done and it.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Has to happen. So I'm like, okay, what do you
need from me?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
So he's like, make a Facebook page, and you know,
put it up there and invite everybody something.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I can do that. I can do that.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Then he's like, we all need to meet, and then
they start talking in the face. They make a Facebook
group and everybody's talking like it's like a group chat
on steroids. It's big, big meeting, meaning yes it is.
When that happens to me, I freeze up. I don't,
I can't. I can't keep up with it all. So
I completely went ghosts in the group chat. So then
they set a meeting and they're like, okay, everybody, we're
going to meet at this spot on Sunday. And I'm like, ooh, sorry, guys,
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I have an event from twelve to two.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
They're like, okay, let's do it at three. I'm like, oh,
I you know. So I'm like, okay, they moved the
meeting for me.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
So after my event yesterday, I drive to the location
of this planning meeting, sit in a parking lot and
literally like I could just ghost. Like if I just
ghost them, they'll figure it out, you know. I'll come
back later with some excuse, set in a car for
ten minutes, and then I'm like, stop being a weirdo,
go in here and handle your business, and so I
go in there and literally I'm the personality higher at
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this point, because like I'm in there, I'm just I'm
just smiling. They coming up with all these ideas and
I'm like, oh, yes, that sounds great.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Of course i'mou to have that.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
So it's just like it's a lot of stress, and
you know, but we got a committee together and we're
gonna make it.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
They're gonna make it happen. How many people are in
your class? Oh, I don't know. It had to be
over two hundred though, Oh that's him. Yeah, and what
so half of the people showed up to plan this
thing so you had the reunion then? No, no, no, two
hundred people. No, I realized that. But I'm saying, you
had like ten people at this meeting, so half of
the people were there to plan the meeting, so you
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didn't even have to you don't even have to have
the whole thing. Two hundred people. I mean, how many
people do you need to know? What I'm saying is
how many on a committee for plan an event for
two hundred people? I mean half the people were in
the attendance planning the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, I mean everybody's needed because I thought you were
going to set like a thousand people, because then you
would need a committee.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
No, no, no, it's not a thousand.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I'm sure I'm not saying the right number because I
don't remember, honestly my memory.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You were the class president of all these people. These
were your constituents and years ago. I cared today today,
I don't. You're so funny I want to be on
my committee.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Why?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
I like planning stuff, but you're right, like, I feel
like they're not gonna want my ideas anyway. Then they
do the same thing every year. It's at the high
school in the parking lot, and they took.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
A big picnic. What yeah, Jason, I mean there's really
not much that's so much better. You can contract me
out out of her small fees. I'll go to all
the meetings where you get. You can assess this, you know,
in private, but I'll go to all the meetings for
you and I'll do all the work. Now makes me
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wonder who planned hours? See I didn't go. But I mean,
I have no idea. I feel like, no, we had
a whole thing about this. It was uh for it?
What was it? Mike twenty year when did I graduate?
What year is it? I don't know. Twenty oh god,
twenty five? Was it twenty five? No? Maybe, yeah it was.
I didn't go.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
I was busy, see and somebody put their blood, sweat
and tears into that meeting.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Well I don't know who though, because there were only
forty two of us, So if there had been ten
people the meeting, that it truly would have been no
need for a reunion because we all would have basically
been there.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yes, I feel what's the need? We all see each
other on Facebook at this point. I don't even know
their real names anymore. I know by their Facebook game,
Like you know, Tanya, big Booty, Judy, Like, I don't
remember your last name.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
I know her right, she's in my phone too. Wait minute,
big body to high school with there? Yeah? Yeah, she's
cool to be there. Yeah, Like okay, so you're supposed
to plan this, but you're not really all that engaged.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I mean, I mean I have to now, like I can't.
I can't fumble, So I have to show up at least,
I don't you know what I'm saying. I got to
show up, just be there, and that's what I'm trying
to do. Well, yesterday was just struggle, but I made
it happen.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Eleven hundred people. Someone taketed eleven hundred people and then
in their red being class in less than one hundred
wins of the reunion.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
See what I'm saying, Oh wow, we don't need the reunion.
We know what everyone's doing exactly. We know who's alive,
we know who's dead. We think we know who's you know,
asking for help and pray for prayers. We know that
person all the time.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, we've seen everything. We're good. Yeah, thank you, Mark Zuckerberg.
Now I don't have to go to my high school
reunion because I know what's going on thanks to Facebook.
That's true.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Not you don't know everybody's up to, especially like the
guy who's always like so cute or whatever, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I don't know what he's up to. Guy who's so cute? Yeah,
yeah cute. Okay, so is someone uber driver? It's fine,
But like I want to know a guy who's being
so cute? What does that even mean?
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Like the guy that was so cute, but like you know,
he didn't have potential, like you know, he's just he
was just so cute.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
He's a cute loser. Right, there was a cute one.
People were saying, like, you should go to your reunion
because you've had success. So then like you know, some
level of success, so then you can like show off.
But then are we returning to our high school ways again?
Like I don't. I'm not trying to live like that anymore. Right,
take me back, Like, I don't need to prove anything
to these people, And it was twenty five years ago.
I don't talk to any of them, Like what am
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I going. I'm gonna walk in there, gonna go o.
So wearing your own merch, I mean I did. I
made him sent some of the merch over to the
REA is a subtle reminder, you know, I mean have
sponsored it. This cocktail brunch is brought to you by
the Friend Show. Oh yeah, that's another thing.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
This committee, they were like, okay, I got five hundred
on it. I'll put up six hundred on it. I
wowed up a thousand. Then I'm sitting there like, huh.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
So you're supposed to pay for this thing too.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Well, if somebody has to buy a barbecue, you gotta
have the jumpy house for the kids.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Took the discharge it mission the kids. Wait, you're having
kids at your reunions. It's like a family field day
that they're all in.
Speaker 5 (07:43):
No.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Reunions are for getting drunk and seeing what everybody's up to.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Oh, it's all and everybody has the money, right, adult
money is hell?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I have no adult money. Hey, kids, don't run for
class president because this is what's gonna happen. You're gonna
wind up like Kiki here and a bunch of years.
You're gonna have to plan and pay for the thing.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Man.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And the school doesn't offer anything. They don't throw in
anything on that About my high school close? What do
you have it there then? Because it's empty on the
football poo, Yes, you're high school closed close. That's so mean.
I've never even heard of such a thing. High schools closed.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
They closed, and then they combined with another school. It's
a whole thing. It's shout out to rich Township.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Oh yeah, we had a high school like guidance counsel
like college advisor. I guess he was. I don't know
what it was a moron, but but but he like
you had to go to him and then he would
help you figure out where you should go to college.
And if you went in there and told him you
wanted to go somewhere that he didn't think you could
get into. Then he would tell you not like, oh no,
I'm not signing off on that because he had to
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write a letter I guess or whatever. It was the
whole thing. But he tried to send a bunch of
us to a college that closed. It doesn't exist anymore.
A college. I didn't. I didn't know it was possible.
I mean, of course it's a business. But like he
tried to send a bunch of us to a college
that isn't probably because he wouldn't go. Maybe we could
have saved it had gone. I don't know if he's
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getting kickbacks or what. But it was like literally the
college closed. Yeah, Like he wanted you guys all to
attend that. Yeah, he was like like, oh this is
a great college. You should go there, you know or whatever.
It closed.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
He was definitely getting the kickback for every student he
got enrolled.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
It closed. Like I didn't. It's a college. I mean,
what I do? How right?
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I mean what do they do with all that college?
That whole See, your high schools is sitting there, empty,
sitting there, closed, empty, with all my memories. Wow, yeah, man, man,
why don't you sell the college then, or sell or
sell the high school, sell the property and used to
pay for your reunion. That's what you should do. Maybe
that's what we should look into. Well, I've never heard
of such a thing, right now, the committee got all
the money, right, what do they do on their job?
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Not this? Well, Caitlin's Entertainer report he's on the Bread show.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
The word is that Diddy is ragging behind bars that
President Trump will pardon him early next year. According to TMZ,
Inmates at New Jersey's Fort Dick's prison say that he's
been telling everyone he expects to walk free early twenty
twenty six thanks to Trump. The rapper, who's serving a
fifty month sentence for violating the Man Act, has already
served about thirteen months, but insists that he will be
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out long before his projected release.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
His legal team.
Speaker 6 (10:29):
Contacted a high ranking White House official right after his
sentencing to push for the pardon, and that Trump himself
has privately acknowledged considering it.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
I know Trump has also talked about it publicly. Sources
say that Diddy's.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
Been promising to quote take care of fellow inmates once
he's released, confident that his connection to.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
The former president will pay off.
Speaker 6 (10:49):
Trump's aids reportedly urged caution, but, as one source put it,
Trump will do what he wants.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
What is he hoping that it can be? Wait a
year that people will forget? Why did he what he do?
I didn't do anything like bad boy. He's back.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Yeah, and like some of the things he's done, he
wasn't even on trial for like I don't know, like
he already got a pretty short sentence like it. But
he's got friends in there. I don't know if you
saw the photos of him in the in the yard
with his friend.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
So he's no, he has buddies.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
I didn't see that he's got buddies. He's super gray
gray beard. But yeah, he was out in the yard.
We saw the first photos of him at the New
Jersey prison that he's in, and he's got some boys.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I don't take care of his Instagram. I didn't follow him.
I don't know where he would have posted that snapchat.
I'm sure that he has a phone in there. Sure.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Kim Kardashian's first big scripted project is out, and yeah,
Pauline is laughing because she probably knows it.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
It's it's not getting great reviews. It has bombed very badly.
Speaker 6 (11:52):
So this new Ryan Murphy produced mini series, All's Fair
has scored a rating of zero un Rotten Tomatoes, with
people calling it stiff without a single authentic note. The
Hulu series casts her as an as an owner of
an all female law firm in La alongside heavyweights like
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Glenn Cose, Glenn Close, Naomi Watts, and Nissi Nash, but
people say no amount of star power can save the
show from wooden performances and shallow writing. The Times of
London which I don't know why this is quoted, but
they slammed it as a tacky monument to greed and vanity,
while The Telegraph called it.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Mine bending horror.
Speaker 6 (12:36):
For Ryan, known for American horror story and Feud and monster,
YadA YadA, it's a rare flop usually does well and
for Kim it is proof that people are saying even
a billion dollar brand cannot buy acting jobs. And for me,
the issue so they're all lawyers whatever. She in one
scene is wearing a skirt with cutouts on the rear
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to make it look like it's her song, like at work,
Like to be a lawyer, and that was like funny, Well,
just I just can you imagine your lawyer wearing like
a like a g string hanging out of her skirt?
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I just, I mean, she's amazing all of mine. Do
I require that it's just based on a true story
camp Actually this is my agency where my agent actually
she's my agent, has a whale tail thong hanging out
of all of her outfits.
Speaker 6 (13:24):
Well, I think I hired her right, Like you just
are always seeing that in Core.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
I don't know. That's like this would be like if
we were rich making TV shows about our interests, Like
I'm a pilot for an airline with a bunch of
strippers hanging around me, like and that's and that's the show.
I would watch that, honestly, Like I don't know, I'm
trying to think of Jason's would be a bunch of
NFL players hanging out with him in Cowboy Nation. Well
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also with the Brittany Mike Uh doing choreography all day.
I don't know, Like we're rich, so you just make
a show that portrays you in whatever character role you
would like to be it in your life perfect twelve Pably,
it would be a rapper. Guess think he would be
a judge. I'm working on yes for sure, TV all
day exactly and Judge matthis would work for you? He would.
He'd be my bailiff. There you go. If we're making
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our own shows. Uh, and what would yours be? You'd
be like a Broadway star. Yeah, I'd be a show girl. Yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 6 (14:18):
No, I don't know what my show would be. Probably
just me in a field with cows. There you go,
lame and brushing him.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
You're a billionaire, so you could do it, and the
people could kept Glenn close in there, you know, with
you laying with cows. Yeah I could.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
I would like Susan Sarandon, you know, all the best actors,
and we would just give cow's makeovers.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
There you go, you know, all day.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
Lastly, Paul McCartney once sought revenge on a very harsh
music critic by mailing him his daughter's turd.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Oh wow. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:48):
So.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
In a new.
Speaker 6 (14:49):
Interview for a book, Wings drummer Denny see Well recalled
Paul was so mad after a critic trash one of
his albums that Linda McCartney, his wife, suggested a little payback.
The cup mailed the critic one of their baby daughter's
turns neatly wrapped with a note reading with compliments from
Paul and Linda McCartney, which, like, I hope they say that,
because that's probably worth a lot, he said. The story
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perfectly captures Paul's sense of humor at the time, equal
parts cheeky and defiant. A lot of British stories today.
So he didn't like that, and so I wonder if
we should mail to her.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Jason, I need you to get some addresses. Okay, well
I need you to get to work. Here's some plastic bags.
Can you imagine that?
Speaker 6 (15:33):
Wrapped it neatly with the night By the way, the
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Speaker 1 (15:39):
You guys, I got some great relationship advice this morning.
My friend Paul Pierce called me and he used to
plaining the NBA and he wanted me to know how
you know, Kiki, if a woman really loves you. Okay,
not not in a relationship right now, and I haven't
been in some time, but the next time I am.
I just want to thank Paul for this.
Speaker 7 (15:59):
Non really want to know if a girl love you
need to go out and cheat on her. What listen,
if you really if you really want to know if
a girl love you for real, go cheat on her
and see how she reacts. Now we're gonna see what's real. Yeah,
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I'm just saying, like the girl on them, I don't
know whoever the girl was. This podcast is just sitting there.
I have no idea what she's about to say, but
she she's looking at him. You want to know if
somebody really loves you, then betray them deeply and see
if they still put up with your vs.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Yeah, that's all you gotta do. That's why they need
to ban podcast equipment. Thank you. Everybody doesn't need it.
Lock it up like in Walgreens. Yes, everybody does have
a podcast. You're right. Maybe you should have to take
some sort of an exam, right, or there should be
some kind of an interview board. Now that would apply
to us too, I guess, But we're professional, so you
know we'd be fine. I mean, if you listen to
the tangent, you know we are professional. Wow, So that's
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that's how you know? Oh that's I think that's more
how you know? How would I describe them? If you're
with somebody. I don't want to say the wrong thing.
It's because people have been cheated on before and they've
gone back to the person. But I don't think that's
any test of their love or loyalty. I think that's
just am I willing to accept that you betrayed me
and I believe that it was a one time deal.
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This sounds more like a strategy.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Because then, into his own logic, what if the woman says, Okay,
so I want to test your love back nomogy.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Well, I think he would just add to love. But
then you'd be like, well, then why were we together
at all to begin with.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Let's just let's just keep cheating on each other, see
who loves each other the most.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Right, and all of a sudden, you're in an open relationship, right?
Come on? Yeah, I don't. I don't want to say that.
I don't know the word that I'm looking for. But
it doesn't it's it doesn't indicate love, sad that I
think it indicates something far deeper and more sad. If
you continually cheat on someone and they stay with you,
it's like they don't have their own identity, or they
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don't have, you know, good feelings about themselves, which is
not that's not that's sad. Yeah, Like, if he's tested
this theory and people stay with him, then that means
that he's he's like praying on sad people cut they
don't use you think? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Absolutely, I mean I want to know what he's say that.
That's my coot. I want to know would you stay
with me if I cheat on you? Like, let's put
the game on two players. It's both star cheating, let's
do it. I like that, let's put the game on
two players.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I like that. Write that one. Write that one down.
Then I can use that one the next two years,
like stand on business.
Speaker 4 (18:31):
On business, I'm the persident using different words. I was
talking about that yesterday with my friend.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
You surprised I haven't updated my Like, are you surprised.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
Talking with the front Nobody should.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Nobody should surprised that I haven't updated my slang in
some time now, because no one has uploaded anything new
in a while. I think he got to plug in
and she got to get me on version four.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
Yeah, update that because my best friend thinks that when
I say locked in, I'm trying to sound like a
like a not even a gen Z like an alf
What is that jenn Alfo the next one on to them, Oh,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
They I think we go from Z back to A.
I think we do whatever they are.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
You think sometimes sound like a fourteen year old like,
oh my nephew says locked in. I'm like, you're not
the never said locked in number two like they use
it in the corporate world at this point, and number three,
I was like, I'm the price fread hasn't taken that
one yet.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
I think I said locked yet. Yeah, Okay, okay, I
know I'm proud of you. Well I haven't, in fairness,
I haven't been saying stand on business like every day. Yeah,
I'm proudly occasional drop it a vacational you know where
it's appropriate. Well, so that's your one example.
Speaker 4 (19:28):
Of yeah, Because then I was like, how to get
into like how Santa on Business came to be from
this room and I was like, yeah, it's it's and
then he's like, you're gonna say six seven next.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
I'm like, no, I'm not. I don't know, I'm not.
I'm just trying to say what I like to say.
I'm still after weeks of it, I'm still unclear on
what it really means. I don't know what that is.
It's just a thing to say. And I know, I
know we feel stood. I mean, I know we look stupid,
an old bite. You know the people listening now going
you don't know what that means? No, I it's different stuff,
right right, So a lot of different contexts, and I've
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looked it up. I've read, I asked day, I asked
jat GPT, like how do I use this? And then
Jeedgpt said, don't ever use it? Just never let it
come out of your mouth.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Worry.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
How's your chat going? I haven't. We're not We're not
fully acclimated yet. We're still we're still like feeling each
other out. We're not going steady. They haven't learned. No,
I don't. I don't think it's predictable. But I will
tell you this. The other day, I I typed into
chet GPT an Instagram caption that I was going to
write just I wrote it, and I just wanted to
see what chet gpt would would suggest, and I gotta
(20:28):
tell you something. It came up with some fire stuff.
They spit back something similar to what I wrote, but
it was like, here's here's a more like verbose version
of what you wrote, and then here's a punchier version
of what you wrote, and then here's a version of
what you wrote that tis it's just shorter, and then
here's one with emojis, and then it gave me the
(20:49):
emojis to and I was like, this is so cool,
like that one looks so much cooler than mine. Copy
paste boom. At least it was it was based on
something I actually wrote, but no as far as like
what my rich guy was talking about how it is
controlled a O life, which, right, I got a rich friend, Okay,
I know you. It's like, I'm jealous. Who is it?
His parents used to own fast food restaurants. He's rich,
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and and he was he's the guy that pays for
all the two hundred and fifty dollars chat GPT subscription
and he's like, oh my god, this thing does everything.
But then his wife is like, it's so annoying because
he sits there and talks to this thing all day
instead of talking to me. And he's like, no, but
it's learning me and it only plays with his chat GBT. Yes, well,
and and that's that Chad GPT, but it learned some
(21:31):
other things too, because I think his wife is less interested.
It means nothing. Someone said about six seven. As a teacher,
I can't even uh, I can't even count aloud saying
six seven, eight, nine, ten, and the kids start freaking
out because they're seven year olds. So you can't even
(21:52):
say one, two, three, four, five, six, h this is
the sixth seventh thing. Like the D's Nuts thing was
like in the two or at least that made that
like I got it. Oh god, you know I called
into HR for that for D's Nuts when I lived
in Charlotte.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
I did.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Everybody was playing the game and the girl on the
show just didn't get it or no, I think she
got it, but she like was mad at me. So
she went to HR and said he always talks about
and and so then I get called into a room
with like two seventy year old people who were like
I can't believe this, and I had to like show
them on the internet like no, no, no, no, this
is a trend that has nothing to do with that.
(22:30):
It's just a thing. It's just you're just trying to
get people to say something. And they were like, oh,
well that's stupid. I'm like, yeah, I know, but I
had to explain it to them. You know, it would
be like, God, who is it? And if you don't
know what I'm talking about somehow because you weren't alive
in the two thousand, it was like who is that DJ?
You know the guy that was on Jersey Shore? Who
is that guy? Nut? That was?
Speaker 3 (22:49):
That?
Speaker 1 (22:50):
That was the whole day. Oh okay, how did you
all just fall for? Yeah? I was like, we're gonna
start talking about him? Yeah, I got no. The whole
thing was just trying to get someone to say dam like,
well I just said, I just telegraphed the whole thing
to go, oh poly d it worked.
Speaker 6 (23:07):
I'm going to h talk about your nuts.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
Yeah, because it's because I'm locked in guys, That's what
I'm around you're talking about. I will never forget. I
had to explain to like a sixty year old man,
like he's like, why are you saying this? Dude? It's
a thing. It's going around. It's a thing on the interwebs, dude.
The Fresh Show, Coode Morning, Welcome to Wednesday. We'll get
to blogs in just a second. Waiting by the Phoni's
(23:32):
brand new Why did somebody get ghost? Dude? We Got
money with shovin Shelley Game Show Wednesday, Kiki Karaoke, That's
gonna be Paulina and and more. What was it? Put
the game on two player? Yep, okay, good, I gotta
write that one down at the game on. You know,
I'm not cool, right, but the good thing about not
being cool and never have been cool, never have being
(23:53):
cool ever. Wait, No, I'm just I'm not cool. I
was never cool. I've never tried to be cool doing this,
which means I don't have to be like some of
these guys. Oh fake it, who like if they're sixty
years old, going yeah, yeah, you know, six seven, you know,
so whatever, it's like, no, stand it, I'll business you
know that they're sixty five years old and they're trying
to act cool and they're dyeing their hair and stuff. No,
(24:14):
my hair is gray. My beard is gray, and it's
not gonna change it only gonna get worse. It was
I had I had brown hair last year, so I
don't know what Actually I do know what happened in
the last year. But yes, I had brown hair last
year and now I have white hair, so that should
explain it to you. But the nice thing about it
is if if you well, if you don't like me now,
you won't like me in five years. And if you
(24:34):
like me five years ago, you'll still like me now.
And then I have all of you to keep me cool.
All of you make me look cool. You know, you
guys teach me new stuff, and then I could like
say it, and then you know, you can tell me
what's it's great. No, it's great, it's great. But it's
like it's like that dude that works for our company,
John Ivy, who said to me in his profound ways, uh,
(24:57):
you know for it, you sounded old when you were
twenty three, and you say an old when you're forty three,
So you're always going to sound old. Oh I think
he met my voice. But I was like, well, that's neat.
It means I'll always sound just like this. That may
have been a problem when I was much younger, but
then I will sound like this when I'm one hundred
saying six seven on the radio, trying to keep my job.
Do you guys want to talk about a public proposal
(25:17):
or do you want to talk about one of the
favorite things that we talk about on this show, tipping,
Because I do I do have a new I do
have a new breaking tipping story. Yes, it's a breaking
tipping story. Which do you want tipping? No? No, no,
let's do both. We're talking about tipping on this show.
People go crazy. The biggest topics in the history of
(25:38):
our show are tipping and what's your favorite flavor of
ice cream? And it's hard to know which one is better.
Internships people love that one. Oh that one behind you?
Or any time that I advocate for a woman, then
I'm a man basher apparently, So that's cool.
Speaker 6 (25:51):
I know.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I love when you advocate for a woman. Keep well,
I do it every day. But it's like, uh, doesn't
matter if I say something. If I say a guide
is something crappy. I'm surprised that I played that Paul
Pierce audio and nobody texted up here. Oh here goes
feminist fread again, because I think it's terrible that you
test someone's affection by cheating on them. Yes, I guess
that makes me a feminist. I'm proud of it. It's exciting.
(26:12):
Everybody should be a feminist in that case. Okay, so
you wanted the proposal one, then you want to do
the tipping story. But here's the thing. Now, people are
get a bunch of texting to come in. Well, what
was the tipping story? Right? We gotta do it. I'm curious.
We'll get back to it. I'm not sure if there's
much well, I guess there could be debate on it.
But a twenty two year old woman and her boyfriend
of three years attended his parents anniversary party, where he
(26:33):
unexpectedly proposed in front of his family and friends, and
despite earlier conversations where she had expressed that she wasn't
ready for that, he did it anyway. At the moment
of the public proposal, she felt pressured and said yes
to avoid embarrassing him in front of all these people,
even though inside she knew that she couldn't yet accept. Later,
in private, she told him that she would not move
forward with the engagement because she wasn't ready, and he
(26:56):
responded by saying that she embarrassed him by saying yes
and then changing her mind. She said that she never
intended to hurt him and only accepted publicly to spare
the moment but acknowledge. The situation has now become more complicated,
and of course people online are going both ways on this.
I think it would have been more embarrassing to say
no in front of all of these people. I mean,
(27:18):
this was his parents anniversary party, so this would have
been a home crowd. First of all, not the place
you do, not the place to propose. But second of all,
it would have been more embarrassing. I think if if
she had said no in front of his parents and
all these other people. Instead, it was okay, yeah, now
he has to walk it back now because but she
also told him that she didn't want to be engaged
(27:39):
to him right So rather than stay engaged to this
man and marry him and she's not ready, she just
went back later and said, look, I didn't I didn't
want to do this in front of everybody, but I
did tell you I wasn't ready, and so I don't
want to be engaged to you right now, and so
go tell your parents that it was a little premature.
And then I thought about it, and I want to
take a step back. That to me is a whole
lot kinder yes than just saying because if you say
(28:02):
no in front of everybody that that probably is the
end of the relationship. I don't know you recover from that.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
And that's embarrassment in like real time. That's four k
right there in front of your whole family. Off, get up,
off your knee, looks at it. No, like she did
you a favor actually by saying yes and then telling
you later, so she's not wrong.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
But I want to know from you, guys, eight five, five, five,
nine one one oh three five would you rather would
you rather say yes and just get out of the
sort of public eye of the whole thing that's happening,
and then later go back and figure it out, or
would you rather just say because I again, you see
it online sometimes I don't know if it's real. You
see it to the sporting events. I think those are stage.
But you see it where people propose and the person
says no and runs away. That to me is like
(28:44):
life crushing rejection, public rejection, Like I don't know that
you can get over that.
Speaker 6 (28:50):
Here's what I will say about this situation, though, there
should be no situation in my opinion, just me where
you are proposing and you don't know, you have not
already spoke. I really don't feel like that should be
a conversation. There should be planning. You should know that
she wants to do that. So you should not be
just willing, nearly proposing, and obviously this situation, she said
(29:10):
she didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
When here comes to my man bashing segment, I think
that it was a power trip on his part. He
wasn't listening to her, he wasn't paying attention to her.
She said, I am not ready, and he said, no,
watch this, hold my beer, and then he gets on
one knee and does it anyway, and it's almost like
it's almost like he was trapping her in some ways, yes,
because it's it's like a power thing. It's like but
we talked about it and we said and I said
(29:35):
I wasn't ready, so he knew what the answer would be.
So it was almost like the only way to get
her to say yes was to pressure her and do
it in front of everyone. Paulina, I think.
Speaker 4 (29:43):
It was very much planned because he knew, like, if
it's in front of a lot of people, she's probably
not going to say no, even though they've talked about it,
and she said, I'm not ready, And honestly, she should
go home and if they use protection, check those or
she's not on birth control, get on that, because this
man will trap her. It sounds like, Okay, I take
it to the next level. I know, like I'm thinking
ahead for her.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
Yeah, right, check your condom.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
We'll go far into the future with the story. Guy's
poking holes and stuff. Man, Yeah, this is crazy. Well
she said I'm not ready, and he still did it.
He did it anyway. I remember when I was young,
there was a dude proposing. I was weird in some
fancy restaurant and the guy I was proposing to his
fiance and we knew because she would get up to
go to the bathroom and he was like I think
he handed maybe handed the ring to the waiter. There
(30:28):
was like some negotiation going on. Maybe the waiter told
us like, hey, that guy's about to propose something like that.
So but this was like in the salads, like be
eating salads, and so I'm watching this guy. I'm maybe
like nine, and I'm watching this guy and he's sweating bullets.
She has no idea, she's just eating her food or whatever.
And I knew that it was coming with the dessert.
And We're all sitting there watching and at one point
(30:48):
I said to my dad, I go, hey, like this guy,
this is agonizing, and my Dad's like yeah, but you
don't ever ask that question unless you already know the answer,
like and it kind of like blew my mind. I
was like, I thought the whole thing was like mystical
and surprising, you know, I thought because because the person
who gets, you know, proposed to you typically acts like
they didn't know it was coming, and maybe they didn't
(31:10):
exactly know that it was coming, like then, but it's
not actually the first time it's It shouldn't be the
first time it's being discussed. It should not on one knee.
But I never as a little kid, I was like,
I never. I'm like, wow, dude, you just you go
out and buy a ring and then you just one
day get on one knee and you just hope she
says yes, and it's like but no, No, I had
a pretty good idea what your mom was going to
(31:31):
say before I asked, Like it's kind of like you ask,
you kind of pre ask, you know, like you do
the thing where even like when you're talking about going
like from dating to like being girlfriend boyfriend, don't you
kind of do that. I mean, I guess it's a guy.
You kind of do the thing where you're like, what
would you say if I how would you feel about, like,
like what are your thoughts on? Like basically, you just
make it so that when you finally said do you
(31:52):
want to be my girlfriend, like you know the answer
is yes. Yeah, because you don't because nobody wants to
get rejected no, and like you shouldn't, like you should
know what people are looking for, right, Like Anthony, you're
saying the same thing. Man, it is this guy got
what's coming to him. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (32:09):
Absolutely, you kind of you hit it on that head.
It was at his parents anniversary. It was a power
trip thing. He wanted to be in front of people.
And I missed who said it. It might have been Kaylin.
You don't go into that if you don't know what
the answer is going to be. Right, if you had
a conversation like I proposed to my now wife, I
(32:31):
knew what that answer was going to be, and I
still did it in private because I knew she didn't
want to be a public thing.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Hmmm. Yeah. That's another thing, is you got to be
with somebody who wants the production, you know, like some
I think there are people I think you would know
if your partner, Like this is the whole thing. He
should have just known none he didn't listen to her
on any of this, and so I wouldn't be surprised
if she bails. But it sounds like she's not bailing.
It sounds like she just wants to take a step back.
She didn't dump him, she didn't leave the relationship. I
(32:58):
think she just said, hey, man, you got to go
undo everything you just did.
Speaker 8 (33:03):
Right because now it's either we have to commit to
a year's long engagement until they're actually ready to tie
the knot and then that looks bad. Or he could
have listened in the first place, and, like you said,
has to go back and say like, hey, we're we're
going to reevaluate some things. We're not over, but it's
just not happening right now.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Yeah, yeah, which I think you can move past that.
Thank you, Anthony, have a good day.
Speaker 8 (33:27):
Yeah you too, well, you guy.
Speaker 1 (33:28):
Yeah, thanks. Man, if I did something, my parents would
be like that was stupid. Like if I did something
like that and then I went back and had to
tell him me ask so we're not actually engaged because
like she didn't want that, and my parents would be like,
what did you talk to you about it for? Like,
why did you do that? Then my parents would come
they crack me, you know, they'd be like, you're an idiot,
Like that's not how this works, dude, Like why did
you do it? Like that? But I also think it's
a reasonable thing to go back and say to family
(33:50):
and friends, like, you know, we got caught up in there.
You could make it. You could make it a little
more romantic than it was. Hey, he got caught up
in the moment. He was just so excited he got
the ring and whatever, and we I've talked about it,
but we're just not quite there yet. I think anybody
in a relationship or any period of time would respect that. Yes,
just like, Okay, so you weren't quite ready, you got excited,
You're not gonna break up. You're just gonna like take
(34:11):
a step back rather than let that weigh over you.
Because that's a horrible way to start to start an engagement.
And the process where the girl didn't even want to
do it. Yeah, as I'm watching it, as I'm watching
Kiki do all this wedding planning and stuff, like, if
you weren't elated with the process, this would be one
hundred times worse.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Yeah, and if you messed up my first proposal in
any way, shape or form.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
I'm out the door, like, bro.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
Yeah, Kaitlin, Like, I don't want now you're going to
do a redo of this. You've already gotten down. You're
looking goofy on the floor. Your family got photos and
videos of this, Like you didn't mess this whole experience
up for me.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Yeah, we may have to. We'd have to pretend that
was it, Like, yeah, OK, some day, some day I'll
tell you, like in six months or a year, just
hand me the ring back and we'll pretend like that
happened and that was it, Like, because we can't do.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
This again, redo it. It's weird, right exactly. Hey Lucas, Lucas,
are you are you moving someone right now? What are
you doing? Are you? Are you cutting a tree down? No?
Speaker 1 (35:11):
No, I'm not the work right now? Well I knew
I just like I can hear that. I like a
guy who can work and together you're putting what together?
Speaker 9 (35:21):
All the chiefs, Minima, Takatas Mussy, his oldest.
Speaker 1 (35:24):
Oh, bring some of those over here. I need some
breakfast anyway, So what do you get? The final say
on this? The dude proposes to his girlfriend in front
of his parents and all their friends at his parents
anniversary party. She'd already said she wasn't ready. He did
it anyway, and now she's having a backtrack and he's
mad at her.
Speaker 9 (35:42):
Well, in my opinions, first of all, you you too
your parents' spotlights.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
He took the parents spotlight. That's another all. You put
her on the spot.
Speaker 9 (35:51):
So basically, you know she in my opinions, she got
like you guys talk, She's gonna say no, you're embarrassed,
embarrassed the guy find of everybody.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
So basically give you You gave her no choice, no choice.
Speaker 9 (36:03):
You gotta say yes, you know, and to make you
look good and everybody, I'm happy on the party and
continue the party with the good moods.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Yeah, yeah, you gotta keep part of it. You gotta
keep partying after that, that's for sure.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
Exactly.
Speaker 9 (36:17):
So you know, like imagine she's gonna say no, like
all the head out of that room probably would be
out right now.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
The party is. It's like he knew this, Like the
party would be ruined, the parents would hate her, there'd
be no coming back. It was like it was like
a U, Yes, it was Lucas, I gotta go have
a good day, man, Thank you have a good day
at work. Yeah no, but but why would you why
would you even want that? Like as a man, like
(36:44):
what or whoever's proposing woman whatever, why would you even
want that? Like, why would you want to know? I'm
doing this because I know she'll say yes out of pressure.
To Paulina's point, he's trying to trap her. Yeah, it's
gonna go check the condoms. Man. Yeah, this is that
kind of guy, the kind of guy you got to
worry about. Man, they make lifetime movies about women like
this guy. You know, they should make more lifetime movies
(37:05):
about guys like this guy. Let's do follow me, Let's
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Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on
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Show on demand. You had to go to a planning
meeting for a class reunion? Yes, right, how does that work?
A planning meeting? And then my understanding is that you
(00:43):
then had to you have to plan it because you
were the last class president. Yes what? Yeah, exactly what exactly?
So if you win class president senior year, then you're
responsible for holt for like maintaining all contact with everybody
for the rest of your life. Yes, oh, there's one
more reason. Then I'm glad I didn't run among the
forty two people in my grade. Yeah, I don't think
(01:04):
we had a class president. I think maybe we had
like a school president or something. There were two other
people to the whole high school. So how does this work?
Oh my god?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
So as the class president, you're supposed to be in
charge of the reunion. You're supposed to you know, oversee
it and kind of make sure it comes together. And
you know, ten years ago, I was that girl, like
I was all about unity and friendship.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
What do you know back then?
Speaker 2 (01:32):
That's right, and you know, friendship Now I don't want
to talk to years.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Later, your anti unity, anti friendship.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yes, okay, So so my are like football MVP and
Prime King. He reached out and you know, other people
had been reaching out to me, right, but I ignored them.
But my friend, like the Prime King, he was my
friend in school. So I'm like he's like, hey, key,
well you're none of about friendship unity anymore. So you
(02:01):
so he but when he reached out, I'm like, oh,
he means business, you know. So he's like, hey, we
got to get this reunion going. We got to get
it done and it.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Has to happen. So I'm like, okay, what do you
need from me?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
So he's like, make a Facebook page, and you know,
put it up there and invite everybody something.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I can do that. I can do that.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Then he's like, we all need to meet, and then
they start talking in the face. They make a Facebook
group and everybody's talking like it's like a group chat
on steroids. It's big, big meeting, meaning yes it is.
When that happens to me, I freeze up. I don't,
I can't. I can't keep up with it all. So
I completely went ghosts in the group chat. So then
they set a meeting and they're like, okay, everybody, we're
going to meet at this spot on Sunday. And I'm like, ooh, sorry, guys,
(02:39):
I have an event from twelve to two.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
They're like, okay, let's do it at three. I'm like, oh,
I you know. So I'm like, okay, they moved the
meeting for me.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
So after my event yesterday, I drive to the location
of this planning meeting, sit in a parking lot and
literally like I could just ghost. Like if I just
ghost them, they'll figure it out, you know. I'll come
back later with some excuse, set in a car for
ten minutes, and then I'm like, stop being a weirdo,
go in here and handle your business, and so I
go in there and literally I'm the personality higher at
(03:15):
this point, because like I'm in there, I'm just I'm
just smiling. They coming up with all these ideas and
I'm like, oh, yes, that sounds great.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
Of course i'mou to have that.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
So it's just like it's a lot of stress, and
you know, but we got a committee together and we're
gonna make it.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
They're gonna make it happen. How many people are in
your class? Oh, I don't know. It had to be
over two hundred though, Oh that's him. Yeah, and what
so half of the people showed up to plan this
thing so you had the reunion then? No, no, no, two
hundred people. No, I realized that. But I'm saying, you
had like ten people at this meeting, so half of
the people were there to plan the meeting, so you
(03:51):
didn't even have to you don't even have to have
the whole thing. Two hundred people. I mean, how many
people do you need to know? What I'm saying is
how many on a committee for plan an event for
two hundred people? I mean half the people were in
the attendance planning the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, I mean everybody's needed because I thought you were
going to set like a thousand people, because then you
would need a committee.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
No, no, no, it's not a thousand.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I'm sure I'm not saying the right number because I
don't remember, honestly my memory.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
You were the class president of all these people. These
were your constituents and years ago. I cared today today,
I don't. You're so funny I want to be on
my committee.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Why?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
I like planning stuff, but you're right, like, I feel
like they're not gonna want my ideas anyway. Then they
do the same thing every year. It's at the high
school in the parking lot, and they took.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
A big picnic. What yeah, Jason, I mean there's really
not much that's so much better. You can contract me
out out of her small fees. I'll go to all
the meetings where you get. You can assess this, you know,
in private, but I'll go to all the meetings for
you and I'll do all the work. Now makes me
(04:52):
wonder who planned hours? See I didn't go. But I mean,
I have no idea. I feel like, no, we had
a whole thing about this. It was uh for it?
What was it? Mike twenty year when did I graduate?
What year is it? I don't know. Twenty oh god,
twenty five? Was it twenty five? No? Maybe, yeah it was.
I didn't go.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
I was busy, see and somebody put their blood, sweat
and tears into that meeting.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Well I don't know who though, because there were only
forty two of us, So if there had been ten
people the meeting, that it truly would have been no
need for a reunion because we all would have basically
been there.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Yes, I feel what's the need? We all see each
other on Facebook at this point. I don't even know
their real names anymore. I know by their Facebook game,
Like you know, Tanya, big Booty, Judy, Like, I don't
remember your last name.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
I know her right, she's in my phone too. Wait minute,
big body to high school with there? Yeah? Yeah, she's
cool to be there. Yeah, Like okay, so you're supposed
to plan this, but you're not really all that engaged.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I mean, I mean I have to now, like I can't.
I can't fumble, So I have to show up at least,
I don't you know what I'm saying. I got to
show up, just be there, and that's what I'm trying
to do. Well, yesterday was just struggle, but I made
it happen.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Eleven hundred people. Someone taketed eleven hundred people and then
in their red being class in less than one hundred
wins of the reunion.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
See what I'm saying, Oh wow, we don't need the reunion.
We know what everyone's doing exactly. We know who's alive,
we know who's dead. We think we know who's you know,
asking for help and pray for prayers. We know that
person all the time.
Speaker 3 (06:16):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yeah, we've seen everything. We're good. Yeah, thank you, Mark Zuckerberg.
Now I don't have to go to my high school
reunion because I know what's going on thanks to Facebook.
That's true.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Not you don't know everybody's up to, especially like the
guy who's always like so cute or whatever, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I don't know what he's up to. Guy who's so cute? Yeah,
yeah cute. Okay, so is someone uber driver? It's fine,
But like I want to know a guy who's being
so cute? What does that even mean?
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Like the guy that was so cute, but like you know,
he didn't have potential, like you know, he's just he
was just so cute.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
He's a cute loser. Right, there was a cute one.
People were saying, like, you should go to your reunion
because you've had success. So then like you know, some
level of success, so then you can like show off.
But then are we returning to our high school ways again?
Like I don't. I'm not trying to live like that anymore. Right,
take me back, Like, I don't need to prove anything
to these people, And it was twenty five years ago.
I don't talk to any of them, Like what am
(07:07):
I going. I'm gonna walk in there, gonna go o.
So wearing your own merch, I mean I did. I
made him sent some of the merch over to the
REA is a subtle reminder, you know, I mean have
sponsored it. This cocktail brunch is brought to you by
the Friend Show. Oh yeah, that's another thing.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
This committee, they were like, okay, I got five hundred
on it. I'll put up six hundred on it. I
wowed up a thousand. Then I'm sitting there like, huh.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
So you're supposed to pay for this thing too.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Well, if somebody has to buy a barbecue, you gotta
have the jumpy house for the kids.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Took the discharge it mission the kids. Wait, you're having
kids at your reunions. It's like a family field day
that they're all in.
Speaker 5 (07:43):
No.
Speaker 6 (07:44):
Reunions are for getting drunk and seeing what everybody's up to.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Oh, it's all and everybody has the money, right, adult
money is hell?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I have no adult money. Hey, kids, don't run for
class president because this is what's gonna happen. You're gonna
wind up like Kiki here and a bunch of years.
You're gonna have to plan and pay for the thing.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Man.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
And the school doesn't offer anything. They don't throw in
anything on that About my high school close? What do
you have it there then? Because it's empty on the
football poo, Yes, you're high school closed close. That's so mean.
I've never even heard of such a thing. High schools closed.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
They closed, and then they combined with another school. It's
a whole thing. It's shout out to rich Township.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Oh yeah, we had a high school like guidance counsel
like college advisor. I guess he was. I don't know
what it was a moron, but but but he like
you had to go to him and then he would
help you figure out where you should go to college.
And if you went in there and told him you
wanted to go somewhere that he didn't think you could
get into. Then he would tell you not like, oh no,
I'm not signing off on that because he had to
(08:53):
write a letter I guess or whatever. It was the
whole thing. But he tried to send a bunch of
us to a college that closed. It doesn't exist anymore.
A college. I didn't. I didn't know it was possible.
I mean, of course it's a business. But like he
tried to send a bunch of us to a college
that isn't probably because he wouldn't go. Maybe we could
have saved it had gone. I don't know if he's
(09:14):
getting kickbacks or what. But it was like literally the
college closed. Yeah, Like he wanted you guys all to
attend that. Yeah, he was like like, oh this is
a great college. You should go there, you know or whatever.
It closed.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
He was definitely getting the kickback for every student he
got enrolled.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
It closed. Like I didn't. It's a college. I mean,
what I do? How right?
Speaker 4 (09:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I mean what do they do with all that college?
That whole See, your high schools is sitting there, empty,
sitting there, closed, empty, with all my memories. Wow, yeah, man, man,
why don't you sell the college then, or sell or
sell the high school, sell the property and used to
pay for your reunion. That's what you should do. Maybe
that's what we should look into. Well, I've never heard
of such a thing, right now, the committee got all
the money, right, what do they do on their job?
(09:57):
Not this? Well, Caitlin's Entertainer report he's on the Bread show.
Speaker 6 (10:03):
The word is that Diddy is ragging behind bars that
President Trump will pardon him early next year. According to TMZ,
Inmates at New Jersey's Fort Dick's prison say that he's
been telling everyone he expects to walk free early twenty
twenty six thanks to Trump. The rapper, who's serving a
fifty month sentence for violating the Man Act, has already
served about thirteen months, but insists that he will be
(10:25):
out long before his projected release.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
His legal team.
Speaker 6 (10:29):
Contacted a high ranking White House official right after his
sentencing to push for the pardon, and that Trump himself
has privately acknowledged considering it.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
I know Trump has also talked about it publicly. Sources
say that Diddy's.
Speaker 6 (10:41):
Been promising to quote take care of fellow inmates once
he's released, confident that his connection to.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
The former president will pay off.
Speaker 6 (10:49):
Trump's aids reportedly urged caution, but, as one source put it,
Trump will do what he wants.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
What is he hoping that it can be? Wait a
year that people will forget? Why did he what he do?
I didn't do anything like bad boy. He's back.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Yeah, and like some of the things he's done, he
wasn't even on trial for like I don't know, like
he already got a pretty short sentence like it. But
he's got friends in there. I don't know if you
saw the photos of him in the in the yard
with his friend.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
So he's no, he has buddies.
Speaker 6 (11:17):
I didn't see that he's got buddies. He's super gray
gray beard. But yeah, he was out in the yard.
We saw the first photos of him at the New
Jersey prison that he's in, and he's got some boys.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
I don't take care of his Instagram. I didn't follow him.
I don't know where he would have posted that snapchat.
I'm sure that he has a phone in there. Sure.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Kim Kardashian's first big scripted project is out, and yeah,
Pauline is laughing because she probably knows it.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
It's it's not getting great reviews. It has bombed very badly.
Speaker 6 (11:52):
So this new Ryan Murphy produced mini series, All's Fair
has scored a rating of zero un Rotten Tomatoes, with
people calling it stiff without a single authentic note. The
Hulu series casts her as an as an owner of
an all female law firm in La alongside heavyweights like
(12:14):
Glenn Cose, Glenn Close, Naomi Watts, and Nissi Nash, but
people say no amount of star power can save the
show from wooden performances and shallow writing. The Times of
London which I don't know why this is quoted, but
they slammed it as a tacky monument to greed and vanity,
while The Telegraph called it.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
Mine bending horror.
Speaker 6 (12:36):
For Ryan, known for American horror story and Feud and monster,
YadA YadA, it's a rare flop usually does well and
for Kim it is proof that people are saying even
a billion dollar brand cannot buy acting jobs. And for me,
the issue so they're all lawyers whatever. She in one
scene is wearing a skirt with cutouts on the rear
(12:59):
to make it look like it's her song, like at work,
Like to be a lawyer, and that was like funny, Well,
just I just can you imagine your lawyer wearing like
a like a g string hanging out of her skirt?
Speaker 1 (13:12):
I just, I mean, she's amazing all of mine. Do
I require that it's just based on a true story
camp Actually this is my agency where my agent actually
she's my agent, has a whale tail thong hanging out
of all of her outfits.
Speaker 6 (13:24):
Well, I think I hired her right, Like you just
are always seeing that in Core.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
I don't know. That's like this would be like if
we were rich making TV shows about our interests, Like
I'm a pilot for an airline with a bunch of
strippers hanging around me, like and that's and that's the show.
I would watch that, honestly, Like I don't know, I'm
trying to think of Jason's would be a bunch of
NFL players hanging out with him in Cowboy Nation. Well
(13:48):
also with the Brittany Mike Uh doing choreography all day.
I don't know, Like we're rich, so you just make
a show that portrays you in whatever character role you
would like to be it in your life perfect twelve Pably,
it would be a rapper. Guess think he would be
a judge. I'm working on yes for sure, TV all
day exactly and Judge matthis would work for you? He would.
He'd be my bailiff. There you go. If we're making
(14:11):
our own shows. Uh, and what would yours be? You'd
be like a Broadway star. Yeah, I'd be a show girl. Yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 6 (14:18):
No, I don't know what my show would be. Probably
just me in a field with cows. There you go,
lame and brushing him.
Speaker 1 (14:24):
You're a billionaire, so you could do it, and the
people could kept Glenn close in there, you know, with
you laying with cows. Yeah I could.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
I would like Susan Sarandon, you know, all the best actors,
and we would just give cow's makeovers.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
There you go, you know, all day.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
Lastly, Paul McCartney once sought revenge on a very harsh
music critic by mailing him his daughter's turd.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Oh wow. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:48):
So.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
In a new.
Speaker 6 (14:49):
Interview for a book, Wings drummer Denny see Well recalled
Paul was so mad after a critic trash one of
his albums that Linda McCartney, his wife, suggested a little payback.
The cup mailed the critic one of their baby daughter's
turns neatly wrapped with a note reading with compliments from
Paul and Linda McCartney, which, like, I hope they say that,
because that's probably worth a lot, he said. The story
(15:10):
perfectly captures Paul's sense of humor at the time, equal
parts cheeky and defiant. A lot of British stories today.
So he didn't like that, and so I wonder if
we should mail to her.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Jason, I need you to get some addresses. Okay, well
I need you to get to work. Here's some plastic bags.
Can you imagine that?
Speaker 6 (15:33):
Wrapped it neatly with the night By the way, the
Fred showan demand if you want to catch up on
anything on the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
You guys, I got some great relationship advice this morning.
My friend Paul Pierce called me and he used to
plaining the NBA and he wanted me to know how
you know, Kiki, if a woman really loves you. Okay,
not not in a relationship right now, and I haven't
been in some time, but the next time I am.
I just want to thank Paul for this.
Speaker 7 (15:59):
Non really want to know if a girl love you
need to go out and cheat on her. What listen,
if you really if you really want to know if
a girl love you for real, go cheat on her
and see how she reacts. Now we're gonna see what's real. Yeah,
(16:20):
I'm just saying, like the girl on them, I don't
know whoever the girl was. This podcast is just sitting there.
I have no idea what she's about to say, but
she she's looking at him. You want to know if
somebody really loves you, then betray them deeply and see
if they still put up with your vs.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
Yeah, that's all you gotta do. That's why they need
to ban podcast equipment. Thank you. Everybody doesn't need it.
Lock it up like in Walgreens. Yes, everybody does have
a podcast. You're right. Maybe you should have to take
some sort of an exam, right, or there should be
some kind of an interview board. Now that would apply
to us too, I guess, But we're professional, so you
know we'd be fine. I mean, if you listen to
the tangent, you know we are professional. Wow, So that's
(16:59):
that's how you know? Oh that's I think that's more
how you know? How would I describe them? If you're
with somebody. I don't want to say the wrong thing.
It's because people have been cheated on before and they've
gone back to the person. But I don't think that's
any test of their love or loyalty. I think that's
just am I willing to accept that you betrayed me
and I believe that it was a one time deal.
(17:19):
This sounds more like a strategy.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Because then, into his own logic, what if the woman says, Okay,
so I want to test your love back nomogy.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Well, I think he would just add to love. But
then you'd be like, well, then why were we together
at all to begin with.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Let's just let's just keep cheating on each other, see
who loves each other the most.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
Right, and all of a sudden, you're in an open relationship, right?
Come on? Yeah, I don't. I don't want to say that.
I don't know the word that I'm looking for. But
it doesn't it's it doesn't indicate love, sad that I
think it indicates something far deeper and more sad. If
you continually cheat on someone and they stay with you,
it's like they don't have their own identity, or they
(17:58):
don't have, you know, good feelings about themselves, which is
not that's not that's sad. Yeah, Like, if he's tested
this theory and people stay with him, then that means
that he's he's like praying on sad people cut they
don't use you think? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Absolutely, I mean I want to know what he's say that.
That's my coot. I want to know would you stay
with me if I cheat on you? Like, let's put
the game on two players. It's both star cheating, let's
do it. I like that, let's put the game on
two players.
Speaker 1 (18:24):
I like that. Write that one. Write that one down.
Then I can use that one the next two years,
like stand on business.
Speaker 4 (18:31):
On business, I'm the persident using different words. I was
talking about that yesterday with my friend.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
You surprised I haven't updated my Like, are you surprised.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
Talking with the front Nobody should.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Nobody should surprised that I haven't updated my slang in
some time now, because no one has uploaded anything new
in a while. I think he got to plug in
and she got to get me on version four.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
Yeah, update that because my best friend thinks that when
I say locked in, I'm trying to sound like a
like a not even a gen Z like an alf
What is that jenn Alfo the next one on to them, Oh,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
They I think we go from Z back to A.
I think we do whatever they are.
Speaker 4 (19:03):
You think sometimes sound like a fourteen year old like,
oh my nephew says locked in. I'm like, you're not
the never said locked in number two like they use
it in the corporate world at this point, and number three,
I was like, I'm the price fread hasn't taken that
one yet.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
I think I said locked yet. Yeah, Okay, okay, I
know I'm proud of you. Well I haven't, in fairness,
I haven't been saying stand on business like every day. Yeah,
I'm proudly occasional drop it a vacational you know where
it's appropriate. Well, so that's your one example.
Speaker 4 (19:28):
Of yeah, Because then I was like, how to get
into like how Santa on Business came to be from
this room and I was like, yeah, it's it's and
then he's like, you're gonna say six seven next.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
I'm like, no, I'm not. I don't know, I'm not.
I'm just trying to say what I like to say.
I'm still after weeks of it, I'm still unclear on
what it really means. I don't know what that is.
It's just a thing to say. And I know, I
know we feel stood. I mean, I know we look stupid,
an old bite. You know the people listening now going
you don't know what that means? No, I it's different stuff,
right right, So a lot of different contexts, and I've
(19:58):
looked it up. I've read, I asked day, I asked
jat GPT, like how do I use this? And then
Jeedgpt said, don't ever use it? Just never let it
come out of your mouth.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
Worry.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
How's your chat going? I haven't. We're not We're not
fully acclimated yet. We're still we're still like feeling each
other out. We're not going steady. They haven't learned. No,
I don't. I don't think it's predictable. But I will
tell you this. The other day, I I typed into
chet GPT an Instagram caption that I was going to
write just I wrote it, and I just wanted to
see what chet gpt would would suggest, and I gotta
(20:28):
tell you something. It came up with some fire stuff.
They spit back something similar to what I wrote, but
it was like, here's here's a more like verbose version
of what you wrote, and then here's a punchier version
of what you wrote, and then here's a version of
what you wrote that tis it's just shorter, and then
here's one with emojis, and then it gave me the
(20:49):
emojis to and I was like, this is so cool,
like that one looks so much cooler than mine. Copy
paste boom. At least it was it was based on
something I actually wrote, but no as far as like
what my rich guy was talking about how it is
controlled a O life, which, right, I got a rich friend, Okay,
I know you. It's like, I'm jealous. Who is it?
His parents used to own fast food restaurants. He's rich,
(21:11):
and and he was he's the guy that pays for
all the two hundred and fifty dollars chat GPT subscription
and he's like, oh my god, this thing does everything.
But then his wife is like, it's so annoying because
he sits there and talks to this thing all day
instead of talking to me. And he's like, no, but
it's learning me and it only plays with his chat GBT. Yes, well,
and and that's that Chad GPT, but it learned some
(21:31):
other things too, because I think his wife is less interested.
It means nothing. Someone said about six seven. As a teacher,
I can't even uh, I can't even count aloud saying
six seven, eight, nine, ten, and the kids start freaking
out because they're seven year olds. So you can't even
(21:52):
say one, two, three, four, five, six, h this is
the sixth seventh thing. Like the D's Nuts thing was
like in the two or at least that made that
like I got it. Oh god, you know I called
into HR for that for D's Nuts when I lived
in Charlotte.
Speaker 3 (22:08):
I did.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
Everybody was playing the game and the girl on the
show just didn't get it or no, I think she
got it, but she like was mad at me. So
she went to HR and said he always talks about
and and so then I get called into a room
with like two seventy year old people who were like
I can't believe this, and I had to like show
them on the internet like no, no, no, no, this
is a trend that has nothing to do with that.
(22:30):
It's just a thing. It's just you're just trying to
get people to say something. And they were like, oh,
well that's stupid. I'm like, yeah, I know, but I
had to explain it to them. You know, it would
be like, God, who is it? And if you don't
know what I'm talking about somehow because you weren't alive
in the two thousand, it was like who is that DJ?
You know the guy that was on Jersey Shore? Who
is that guy? Nut? That was?
Speaker 3 (22:49):
That?
Speaker 1 (22:50):
That was the whole day. Oh okay, how did you
all just fall for? Yeah? I was like, we're gonna
start talking about him? Yeah, I got no. The whole
thing was just trying to get someone to say dam like,
well I just said, I just telegraphed the whole thing
to go, oh poly d it worked.
Speaker 6 (23:07):
I'm going to h talk about your nuts.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
Yeah, because it's because I'm locked in guys, That's what
I'm around you're talking about. I will never forget. I
had to explain to like a sixty year old man,
like he's like, why are you saying this? Dude? It's
a thing. It's going around. It's a thing on the interwebs, dude.
The Fresh Show, Coode Morning, Welcome to Wednesday. We'll get
to blogs in just a second. Waiting by the Phoni's
(23:32):
brand new Why did somebody get ghost? Dude? We Got
money with shovin Shelley Game Show Wednesday, Kiki Karaoke, That's
gonna be Paulina and and more. What was it? Put
the game on two player? Yep, okay, good, I gotta
write that one down at the game on. You know,
I'm not cool, right, but the good thing about not
being cool and never have been cool, never have being
(23:53):
cool ever. Wait, No, I'm just I'm not cool. I
was never cool. I've never tried to be cool doing this,
which means I don't have to be like some of
these guys. Oh fake it, who like if they're sixty
years old, going yeah, yeah, you know, six seven, you know,
so whatever, it's like, no, stand it, I'll business you
know that they're sixty five years old and they're trying
to act cool and they're dyeing their hair and stuff. No,
(24:14):
my hair is gray. My beard is gray, and it's
not gonna change it only gonna get worse. It was
I had I had brown hair last year, so I
don't know what Actually I do know what happened in
the last year. But yes, I had brown hair last
year and now I have white hair, so that should
explain it to you. But the nice thing about it
is if if you well, if you don't like me now,
you won't like me in five years. And if you
(24:34):
like me five years ago, you'll still like me now.
And then I have all of you to keep me cool.
All of you make me look cool. You know, you
guys teach me new stuff, and then I could like
say it, and then you know, you can tell me
what's it's great. No, it's great, it's great. But it's
like it's like that dude that works for our company,
John Ivy, who said to me in his profound ways, uh,
(24:57):
you know for it, you sounded old when you were
twenty three, and you say an old when you're forty three,
So you're always going to sound old. Oh I think
he met my voice. But I was like, well, that's neat.
It means I'll always sound just like this. That may
have been a problem when I was much younger, but
then I will sound like this when I'm one hundred
saying six seven on the radio, trying to keep my job.
Do you guys want to talk about a public proposal
(25:17):
or do you want to talk about one of the
favorite things that we talk about on this show, tipping,
Because I do I do have a new I do
have a new breaking tipping story. Yes, it's a breaking
tipping story. Which do you want tipping? No? No, no,
let's do both. We're talking about tipping on this show.
People go crazy. The biggest topics in the history of
(25:38):
our show are tipping and what's your favorite flavor of
ice cream? And it's hard to know which one is better.
Internships people love that one. Oh that one behind you?
Or any time that I advocate for a woman, then
I'm a man basher apparently, So that's cool.
Speaker 6 (25:51):
I know.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
I love when you advocate for a woman. Keep well,
I do it every day. But it's like, uh, doesn't
matter if I say something. If I say a guide
is something crappy. I'm surprised that I played that Paul
Pierce audio and nobody texted up here. Oh here goes
feminist fread again, because I think it's terrible that you
test someone's affection by cheating on them. Yes, I guess
that makes me a feminist. I'm proud of it. It's exciting.
(26:12):
Everybody should be a feminist in that case. Okay, so
you wanted the proposal one, then you want to do
the tipping story. But here's the thing. Now, people are
get a bunch of texting to come in. Well, what
was the tipping story? Right? We gotta do it. I'm curious.
We'll get back to it. I'm not sure if there's
much well, I guess there could be debate on it.
But a twenty two year old woman and her boyfriend
of three years attended his parents anniversary party, where he
(26:33):
unexpectedly proposed in front of his family and friends, and
despite earlier conversations where she had expressed that she wasn't
ready for that, he did it anyway. At the moment
of the public proposal, she felt pressured and said yes
to avoid embarrassing him in front of all these people,
even though inside she knew that she couldn't yet accept. Later,
in private, she told him that she would not move
forward with the engagement because she wasn't ready, and he
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responded by saying that she embarrassed him by saying yes
and then changing her mind. She said that she never
intended to hurt him and only accepted publicly to spare
the moment but acknowledge. The situation has now become more complicated,
and of course people online are going both ways on this.
I think it would have been more embarrassing to say
no in front of all of these people. I mean,
(27:18):
this was his parents anniversary party, so this would have
been a home crowd. First of all, not the place
you do, not the place to propose. But second of all,
it would have been more embarrassing. I think if if
she had said no in front of his parents and
all these other people. Instead, it was okay, yeah, now
he has to walk it back now because but she
also told him that she didn't want to be engaged
(27:39):
to him right So rather than stay engaged to this
man and marry him and she's not ready, she just
went back later and said, look, I didn't I didn't
want to do this in front of everybody, but I
did tell you I wasn't ready, and so I don't
want to be engaged to you right now, and so
go tell your parents that it was a little premature.
And then I thought about it, and I want to
take a step back. That to me is a whole
lot kinder yes than just saying because if you say
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no in front of everybody that that probably is the
end of the relationship. I don't know you recover from that.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
And that's embarrassment in like real time. That's four k
right there in front of your whole family. Off, get up,
off your knee, looks at it. No, like she did
you a favor actually by saying yes and then telling
you later, so she's not wrong.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
But I want to know from you, guys, eight five, five, five,
nine one one oh three five would you rather would
you rather say yes and just get out of the
sort of public eye of the whole thing that's happening,
and then later go back and figure it out, or
would you rather just say because I again, you see
it online sometimes I don't know if it's real. You
see it to the sporting events. I think those are stage.
But you see it where people propose and the person
says no and runs away. That to me is like
(28:44):
life crushing rejection, public rejection, Like I don't know that
you can get over that.
Speaker 6 (28:50):
Here's what I will say about this situation, though, there
should be no situation in my opinion, just me where
you are proposing and you don't know, you have not
already spoke. I really don't feel like that should be
a conversation. There should be planning. You should know that
she wants to do that. So you should not be
just willing, nearly proposing, and obviously this situation, she said
(29:10):
she didn't want to.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
When here comes to my man bashing segment, I think
that it was a power trip on his part. He
wasn't listening to her, he wasn't paying attention to her.
She said, I am not ready, and he said, no,
watch this, hold my beer, and then he gets on
one knee and does it anyway, and it's almost like
it's almost like he was trapping her in some ways, yes,
because it's it's like a power thing. It's like but
we talked about it and we said and I said
(29:35):
I wasn't ready, so he knew what the answer would be.
So it was almost like the only way to get
her to say yes was to pressure her and do
it in front of everyone. Paulina, I think.
Speaker 4 (29:43):
It was very much planned because he knew, like, if
it's in front of a lot of people, she's probably
not going to say no, even though they've talked about it,
and she said, I'm not ready, And honestly, she should
go home and if they use protection, check those or
she's not on birth control, get on that, because this
man will trap her. It sounds like, Okay, I take
it to the next level. I know, like I'm thinking
ahead for her.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
Yeah, right, check your condom.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
We'll go far into the future with the story. Guy's
poking holes and stuff. Man, Yeah, this is crazy. Well
she said I'm not ready, and he still did it.
He did it anyway. I remember when I was young,
there was a dude proposing. I was weird in some
fancy restaurant and the guy I was proposing to his
fiance and we knew because she would get up to
go to the bathroom and he was like I think
he handed maybe handed the ring to the waiter. There
(30:28):
was like some negotiation going on. Maybe the waiter told
us like, hey, that guy's about to propose something like that.
So but this was like in the salads, like be
eating salads, and so I'm watching this guy. I'm maybe
like nine, and I'm watching this guy and he's sweating bullets.
She has no idea, she's just eating her food or whatever.
And I knew that it was coming with the dessert.
And We're all sitting there watching and at one point
(30:48):
I said to my dad, I go, hey, like this guy,
this is agonizing, and my Dad's like yeah, but you
don't ever ask that question unless you already know the answer,
like and it kind of like blew my mind. I
was like, I thought the whole thing was like mystical
and surprising, you know, I thought because because the person
who gets, you know, proposed to you typically acts like
they didn't know it was coming, and maybe they didn't
(31:10):
exactly know that it was coming, like then, but it's
not actually the first time it's It shouldn't be the
first time it's being discussed. It should not on one knee.
But I never as a little kid, I was like,
I never. I'm like, wow, dude, you just you go
out and buy a ring and then you just one
day get on one knee and you just hope she
says yes, and it's like but no, No, I had
a pretty good idea what your mom was going to
(31:31):
say before I asked, Like it's kind of like you ask,
you kind of pre ask, you know, like you do
the thing where even like when you're talking about going
like from dating to like being girlfriend boyfriend, don't you
kind of do that. I mean, I guess it's a guy.
You kind of do the thing where you're like, what
would you say if I how would you feel about, like,
like what are your thoughts on? Like basically, you just
make it so that when you finally said do you
(31:52):
want to be my girlfriend, like you know the answer
is yes. Yeah, because you don't because nobody wants to
get rejected no, and like you shouldn't, like you should
know what people are looking for, right, Like Anthony, you're
saying the same thing. Man, it is this guy got
what's coming to him. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (32:09):
Absolutely, you kind of you hit it on that head.
It was at his parents anniversary. It was a power
trip thing. He wanted to be in front of people.
And I missed who said it. It might have been Kaylin.
You don't go into that if you don't know what
the answer is going to be. Right, if you had
a conversation like I proposed to my now wife, I
(32:31):
knew what that answer was going to be, and I
still did it in private because I knew she didn't
want to be a public thing.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Hmmm. Yeah. That's another thing, is you got to be
with somebody who wants the production, you know, like some
I think there are people I think you would know
if your partner, Like this is the whole thing. He
should have just known none he didn't listen to her
on any of this, and so I wouldn't be surprised
if she bails. But it sounds like she's not bailing.
It sounds like she just wants to take a step back.
She didn't dump him, she didn't leave the relationship. I
(32:58):
think she just said, hey, man, you got to go
undo everything you just did.
Speaker 8 (33:03):
Right because now it's either we have to commit to
a year's long engagement until they're actually ready to tie
the knot and then that looks bad. Or he could
have listened in the first place, and, like you said,
has to go back and say like, hey, we're we're
going to reevaluate some things. We're not over, but it's
just not happening right now.
Speaker 1 (33:22):
Yeah, yeah, which I think you can move past that.
Thank you, Anthony, have a good day.
Speaker 8 (33:27):
Yeah you too, well, you guy.
Speaker 1 (33:28):
Yeah, thanks. Man, if I did something, my parents would
be like that was stupid. Like if I did something
like that and then I went back and had to
tell him me ask so we're not actually engaged because
like she didn't want that, and my parents would be like,
what did you talk to you about it for? Like,
why did you do that? Then my parents would come
they crack me, you know, they'd be like, you're an idiot,
Like that's not how this works, dude, Like why did
you do it? Like that? But I also think it's
a reasonable thing to go back and say to family
(33:50):
and friends, like, you know, we got caught up in there.
You could make it. You could make it a little
more romantic than it was. Hey, he got caught up
in the moment. He was just so excited he got
the ring and whatever, and we I've talked about it,
but we're just not quite there yet. I think anybody
in a relationship or any period of time would respect that. Yes,
just like, Okay, so you weren't quite ready, you got excited,
You're not gonna break up. You're just gonna like take
(34:11):
a step back rather than let that weigh over you.
Because that's a horrible way to start to start an engagement.
And the process where the girl didn't even want to
do it. Yeah, as I'm watching it, as I'm watching
Kiki do all this wedding planning and stuff, like, if
you weren't elated with the process, this would be one
hundred times worse.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Yeah, and if you messed up my first proposal in
any way, shape or form.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
I'm out the door, like, bro.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
Yeah, Kaitlin, Like, I don't want now you're going to
do a redo of this. You've already gotten down. You're
looking goofy on the floor. Your family got photos and
videos of this, Like you didn't mess this whole experience
up for me.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
Yeah, we may have to. We'd have to pretend that
was it, Like, yeah, OK, some day, some day I'll
tell you, like in six months or a year, just
hand me the ring back and we'll pretend like that
happened and that was it, Like, because we can't do.
Speaker 3 (34:57):
This again, redo it. It's weird, right exactly. Hey Lucas, Lucas,
are you are you moving someone right now? What are
you doing? Are you? Are you cutting a tree down? No?
Speaker 1 (35:11):
No, I'm not the work right now? Well I knew
I just like I can hear that. I like a
guy who can work and together you're putting what together?
Speaker 9 (35:21):
All the chiefs, Minima, Takatas Mussy, his oldest.
Speaker 1 (35:24):
Oh, bring some of those over here. I need some
breakfast anyway, So what do you get? The final say
on this? The dude proposes to his girlfriend in front
of his parents and all their friends at his parents
anniversary party. She'd already said she wasn't ready. He did
it anyway, and now she's having a backtrack and he's
mad at her.
Speaker 9 (35:42):
Well, in my opinions, first of all, you you too
your parents' spotlights.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
He took the parents spotlight. That's another all. You put
her on the spot.
Speaker 9 (35:51):
So basically, you know she in my opinions, she got
like you guys talk, She's gonna say no, you're embarrassed,
embarrassed the guy find of everybody.
Speaker 1 (36:00):
So basically give you You gave her no choice, no choice.
Speaker 9 (36:03):
You gotta say yes, you know, and to make you
look good and everybody, I'm happy on the party and
continue the party with the good moods.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Yeah, yeah, you gotta keep part of it. You gotta
keep partying after that, that's for sure.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
Exactly.
Speaker 9 (36:17):
So you know, like imagine she's gonna say no, like
all the head out of that room probably would be
out right now.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
The party is. It's like he knew this, Like the
party would be ruined, the parents would hate her, there'd
be no coming back. It was like it was like
a U, Yes, it was Lucas, I gotta go have
a good day, man, Thank you have a good day
at work. Yeah no, but but why would you why
would you even want that? Like as a man, like
(36:44):
what or whoever's proposing woman whatever, why would you even
want that? Like, why would you want to know? I'm
doing this because I know she'll say yes out of pressure.
To Paulina's point, he's trying to trap her. Yeah, it's
gonna go check the condoms. Man. Yeah, this is that
kind of guy, the kind of guy you got to
worry about. Man, they make lifetime movies about women like
this guy. You know, they should make more lifetime movies
(37:05):
about guys like this guy. Let's do follow me, Let's
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