Waiting by the Phone: He Was Smacking Them!

Kyle is confused why his date Abby won't call him back after a fun night out... Find out why he got ghosted!

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Ever been left waiting by the phone.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
It's the Fread Show. Hey, Kyle, good morning, welcome to
the program. How are you. I'm doing all right? Okay,
just all right, all right. I can't understand. You're just stressed.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
You are just stressed, Kyle, because you want to get
in touch with this woman named Abby who you met
on Hinge. Tell me all about Abby and how you guys,
mad about any dates you've been on? Kind of everything?
Tell us sten on where we are right now? Okay, Yeah,
we met Abby on Hinge. We went on a couple
of dates.

Speaker 3 (00:56):
The first one was drinks and went really well, we
had fun and then kind of when we were saying goodbye,
she kissed me okay, which is, which was yeah, which
is like, I don't know, that seems like a sign.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
That seems like a good sign because it was like.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Chemistry and it was like having really hit it off
with someone like that in a while. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
I would say, if you go on first dak to
somebody as a man and then the woman kisses you said,
I would say, that's good. So then that led to
the second date, and then how did that go?

Speaker 1 (01:30):
It was good?

Speaker 2 (01:31):
It was good.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
It was dinner and you know.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
It's at a little farther and hung out back at
my place and we did some more making out and
you know, it's it.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
It was fun. It was a good night.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
And I just thought i'd be able to hear back
from her after that, but it was like nothing but
like text, and there was no response since then, and
it just feels like I'm kind of like.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Waiting by the phone, like give this girl a shop.
I love that.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
I love that you use the name of the song.
That's so good. When you do that, I'll use the
name of the segment and here, yeah, this is exactly
what we're going for. I just I love the incorporation.
So you go from this great first date with all
this chemistry, and she's kind of a you know, kind
of leading the way with the physicality to a second
date a little bit more of that. And then you've

(02:22):
texted her since the second date and she hasn't responded
to you at all. So she's it's just radio silence
since the second date. So how do we go from
she kisses you for the first time to now she
won't talk to you?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
How does this happen?

Speaker 3 (02:34):
I mean, I really don't know unless she like maybe
had like a few guys going at the same time
and I just didn't went out.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
Yeah, I don't really know.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
Well that was more of a rhetorical question, because we're
going to find out. We're going to help you find out.
In just the second, going to play a song.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Come back.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
We'll call Abby, you'll be on the phone. I'm going
to ask her these questions. See if we can, you know,
figure out why she hasn't called you since the date.
Maybe she's been busy, maybe it's what you say. It
could be a lot of things. But the whole is
that we can straighten this out and set you up
on another day that we pay for.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Sound good? That sounds great? Hey, Kyle Yea let's call Abby.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
You guys, you met on the dating app pins, which
is I feel like a lot of people, it's Share.
Everyone seems to meet on waiting by the phone these days,
and it's maybe the most popular of all the dating apps.
But you went on two dates. You felt that the
chemistry was there. She kissed you on the first date actually,
and then the second day was good, except you have
not heard one thing from her since then. You've reached
out via tex she hasn't responded to anything, and you

(03:29):
want to know, how do you go from two good
days to being ghosted? It?

Speaker 1 (03:32):
Really, I really don't see how it happened. Okay, Orry,
we're about to find out right now. We're gonna call her.
Good luck.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Okay, Hello, hi'sus Abby. Yes it is hi Abby, Good morning.
My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,
the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you
that we are on the radio right now, and I
would need your permission to continue with the call. Can

(04:02):
we chat for just a little bit on the radio.
You can hang up anytime.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
I Well, what do you want to chat about?

Speaker 2 (04:08):
Well, we're calling on behalf. Well, well, we're calling on
behalf of a a dude named Kyle who reached out
to us. He said, he met you on Hinge and
you went on two dates. Do you remember this guy?
I hope, yeah I do.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
But I can't talk about that on the radio. You well,
you let us decide.

Speaker 2 (04:25):
I will be the judge, okay, if you can talk
about it on the radio, because we'd like it. Sounds
like there's a story here because we just talked to
him a minute ago and he said that, you know,
you guys had matched and went on a date and
he felt the first date went really well. There was
a second date. He even thought that went well. But
he says he's texted you since then and you haven't responded,
So something has happened here. It sounds like you've got

(04:46):
a story to tell, and we'd love to hear it.

Speaker 4 (04:50):
Well, I mean I was really into him. I mean
he's he's really hot.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Honestly, he's tall, and he was a you.

Speaker 4 (05:03):
Know, a gentleman and funny, but he you know, green
flags all around. Until there there wasn't.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Yeah, okay, but what happened? I mean because what until
there wasn't is what you said, So what does that mean?
It was all good until win.

Speaker 4 (05:18):
Well, I mean, so I will say that I was
the one who made the first move, Like I kissed
him on the first date, and it was he was
he is a wonder.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
He's a really good kisser.

Speaker 4 (05:28):
He's a really really good Kisser's amazing at this and
he's which is usually a good sign. And the second
date was was better and because there's a lot of
build up, because like, oh this is going really well,
and I think it kind of felt for both of
us like we were going to hook up and we
went back to his place.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
And started making out. And he's good.

Speaker 4 (05:54):
He was really good with his hands and that he
knew what he was doing, and.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Which is he knows what to do with his hands, right.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Hands. Like this isn't even my persuasion, but I'm impressed
by this guy. So where did it go wrong? Then?

Speaker 1 (06:13):
I mean, so far this guy gets an A plus.

Speaker 4 (06:17):
Well, I mean I thought that too at the time.
And then it kind of all stopped after he don't
talking about this.

Speaker 1 (06:27):
After he un buttoned my bra.

Speaker 4 (06:30):
And he started staring at my at my at my
in like this really weird intense way, like.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
Just staring at them. Yeah, it was super bizarre.

Speaker 4 (06:43):
He kind of he kind of like backed up, and
it's like weird stance, you know when like when you're
watching like a track meet and it's something like a
runner is about it's like setting up to run a race.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
And like that's what it looks like.

Speaker 4 (06:56):
It was like like like this is so strange.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
So he was about to sprint towards them then, okay,
but that's what.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
It looked like.

Speaker 4 (07:06):
He took both of his hands and started like tapping
each one of my from the bottom, trying to like
trying to make them like bounce.

Speaker 2 (07:18):
I guess like it's a toy or something like.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
It's like, okay, you don't know. It was so weird.
He was just like smacking them. He's like fucking.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
So weird.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
And so you're just standing there and he's doing this,
and you're trying to figure out why this guy's on
all four is tapping the bottom of it, okay, which
is understandable. Might I might wonder where this is leading?
Like you know, this is a this is a new
tactic that I you know, we haven't seen in these
streets before.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Okay, so what then? What like you're just weird that
I didn't.

Speaker 4 (07:52):
Know why until like laugh or cry because he was
just like and that's how he was trying to like okay,
but like get his hands away from that and like
go back to just kissing. But I honestly I just
couldn't get into.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
It and only imagine what tricks he has his sleeve.
Let me, let me bring Kyle And I forgot to
mention that Kyle is here. That's an unorthodox that's not
in the playbook. Kyle.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
I don't understand what you what were you trying to do?

Speaker 3 (08:17):
I mean, you know, so up till then, there was
zero complaints, right, I mean I've never had any complaints
from any of it.

Speaker 2 (08:26):
What were you trying to do? I'm trying to understand,
like what potato that to other people? Maybe that's why
he's single. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (08:34):
I mean I don't.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
I don't get it, Like what did you think she
would judge that? Were you like, would they was it
like a game?

Speaker 1 (08:43):
I don't judge. I just don't understand, Like what's hit
it for anybody? Joe?

Speaker 3 (08:51):
I mean extending the moment, I guess you know.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
What you're at that.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
Yeah, I don't get it. I don't I don't understand
where there's any sort of wins there. I'm very perplexed.

Speaker 3 (09:13):
Some guys come in full speed, you know, I just
I take my time with it sometimes, you know, I.

Speaker 2 (09:20):
Would feel like a science experiment, like you're not justifying this.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Let me come over thinking, you know, a little bouncy,
a little bouncy bound. Why is he backing up and
staring at them? I don't know. Yeah, King Shame and
his man. Everything else was great.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Well I'm not I'm very I'm very tall, so it
was difficult to see Otherwise. The visual I have of
this is just not healthy, Like it's not like there's
just a lot of this.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
I don't get it, and I don't judge. I just
I don't understan and what you were doing. I've never
seen this out. I've never never heard of this. Just
didn't teach me this in college, you know, like, no
one we don't want that. Yeah, I don't know, so Abby,
you're you can't figure it out either, And at this
point you were so weirded out by it that it's
like I gotta go.

Speaker 1 (10:15):
Yeah, yeah, I don't. I don't know anyone who would
like that.

Speaker 4 (10:20):
Ever, Like no one, no one actually likes I don't
care what.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
They say yeah, they're not toys, bro Like, they're not.
I can only imagine what other sort of things you
I don't I don't know, man, Like I don't know.
So look, I honestly don't even know how to pivot here.
Like you said, it's a weird thing you did. We've
heard weirder, to be honest, but I don't I don't

(10:45):
think it's enjoyable. I don't think you know it's right.
I don't think you're it's like a cat with one
of those little birds on the string, you know, I
don't think that's what this is. Abby, Would you give
the guy another chance? Okay, so he likes whatever that
was and you don't, so you just so now we
let him know, Like, I'm not into it. Apparently if
you go out with Kiki, it's fine.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
No, no, no, I'm just saying it.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
Out of all the things we've heard people get ghosted,
this is not bad.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
Like he just wanted to make use of that.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
But you're shadow boxing someone's like that's weird. Like it's
a very strange thing. It doesn't even sound comfortable. But
would you, Abby, would you give the guy another chance?
I mean, you did admit that everything was fine. Up
until then, I don't think so.

Speaker 4 (11:23):
I'm just kind of it was a little weirded out
by it.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
It's you know, I know, you know, it's just not
for me, man. I've got a lot of other tricks
in the bag. Yeah, that's what I'm worried about.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
That was just the first one. Yeah, we had getting started. Well,
I think we're ending to all right, Look, so Abby's
not interested. I don't know, Kyle, do you have any
female friends you can talk to about this, because maybe
they can explain to you why that maybe appealing. I'd
love to know's perspective.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
She's engaged away.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
You're welcome to hit her up in the DM. Maybe
she can tell you more. But all right, look, it's not.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
Gonna work out. Freak flag fla. Yeah, no judgment.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
I just I'm trying to figure out why that's pleasurable
for anybody. But okay, Kyle Abbey, I wish you guys
both the best of luck.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
Good luck out there.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
All right, the