November 20, 2025 • 9 mins
Andy is confused why his date Nikki won't call him back after a fun first date... Find out he got ghosted!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Dame is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seven night presidency Adobe Live at Park MGM, and we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State at Park MGM January twenty
fourth through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text
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Nation's ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
It's the Fread Show. Andy, Good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you morning, guys, how's it going doing well?
What's going on with this woman? Nikki? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates you've been on? And then
where things are now?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
All right?
Speaker 5 (00:42):
So I met her at a friend's birthday party, like
the birthday like three game thing. We hung out for
a bit and then you know, before I left, I
got a number and you know, we started talking. We
were like playing a date. We agreed to go and
meet up for drinks, and you know, I was, I was,
I mean, that was pretty good. I didn't do anything
to your bad As a gentleman. I had fun. She
(01:06):
had fun, I think, and I want to see her again.
I don't know why she's ignoring me, and I can't
care it. I've been asking all my friends. I'm just like,
I'm the idea.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Why. Yeah, Because that's a good point.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
You have the friends in common, so somebody probably knows
something and no one's telling you an exactly. You also
met in person first, which you think would make a difference,
but it doesn't always because we've heard that before too,
where people, you know, mostly everyone meets on the dating apps,
but you met in person, so you were able to
gauge chemistry and attraction and all that, and so it
would you would kind of think that going into the
(01:37):
first actual date you have some momentum. But for whatever reason,
you have not heard from Nicky since then, and you
want to know why.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. And I thought it was kind
of cool that we met in person, because nobody really
did that anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Right, right, All right, Well, let's play a song. Come back.
We'll call Nikki, you'll be on the phone.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
We'll ask these questions, and hopefully we can straighten things
out and set you guys up on another date that
we pay for.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Sound good, I'm creating. I guess thanks Andy. Hey what
was that? Did you say that on the date you want?
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yeah, on the date? Then I think I get it.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, we can like ten seconds, here's the song the
Entertainment reports next, you're excited. Yeah, okay, well we're getting
a glimpse. Now, let's see, let's call Nicky. You guys,
you met at a birthday pre party and then you
set up a date. You went on the date. You
haven't heard from her since the date, and you want
to know why?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Yeah, yeah, I really don't know why. I'm really excited
to figure it out though.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
All right, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, ma'am,
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Is this Nicky? Yeah, Nicky? Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can waitch out for a second,
would you mind?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Thanks for Thank you very much for calling on behalf
of a guy named Andy. I guess you him at
a birthday party or a birthday pre party or something,
and then you went on a date recently.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Do you remember Andy?
Speaker 6 (03:05):
Yeah, I remember Andy?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Because we just talked to him and he had nice
things to say about you and thought that the date
that you guys went on was went well. But he
hasn't heard from you since, and we had no trouble
getting ahold of you. So what's going on?
Speaker 6 (03:21):
Sure, I mean we definitely hit it off. We met
at a party in exchange numbers and I mean, I'm
gonna be real with you. He's hot, so you know,
we like talked about going on a date. I was
like all for it. So we went on a date.
And yeah, when I arrived to the bar, things kind
(03:45):
of got a little bizarre.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Okay. What happened?
Speaker 6 (03:50):
Well, okay, so I'm walking up and I think it
looks like there's like two big presents by him.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Like like wrapped gifts, Like yeah, wrapped gifts, okay, And.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
I really wish I hadn't opened them all right?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Where you shoved to this date, he brought gifts that
he wrapped, okay, And so I do tell what was inside?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
Well, the first one had like a bunch of like
soap and body washed and like perfume and like theodorant.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Yeah, why would you give a woman that you just
met unless they smelled bad? Even if they did, I
don't know why you go First of all, why would
you with someone who smelled bad? Second of all, why,
I don't know why you would do that. Okay, So
a bunch of smelly, sort of clean things he gave
you for your body, for my body, all right, somebody
went to bath and body.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
All right? Good?
Speaker 6 (04:52):
And then and then the second box with a pair
of running shoes.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Oh my god.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
And I've never mentioned that I'm a runner or that
I'm interested at all in running distances unless I'm being chased.
And so just like I'm having a hard time not
feeling like there's like some sort of like facret meaning
to these gifts, Like does he think I need, like,
you know, exercise, more exercising to shower down?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You open this stuff, you're like, okay, so you think
I stink and I need to run, which means you
think I'm not fit. I mean, that's probably what I
would think if a person I just met gave me
running shoes. Let me ask Andy, though, because he's here,
I forgot to mention that I'm very forgetful. I'm sorry, Andy,
what are we thinking with? I mean, I guess maybe
maybe maybe the first gift, I don't probably not, but
(05:41):
then the running shoes, like what are we doing?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, okay, listen, first off, Nikki, I'm sorry, but it
makes sense if you think about it what I did.
So okay, ladies, ladies in general, like they like to
show that they like perfume, right, so.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I figured personable though, like I wouldn't buy someone a
fragrance I had never met, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
If you know what you like, you like you can
toss it away, that's okay, that's fine. And and and
the shoes, the running, that's just in general. I think
everybody out there is doing the thing that's not like
a personal attack or anything like that, like saying.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Are they doing running around?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Like what.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Out?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Working it out? So you?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
But I mean, can you see though, how when you
give a woman or a man, or give anyone who
you don't know that well and don't know what they're into.
I mean, if she told you, like I'm gonna go
run the marathon and I and I love this brand
of shoes, I maybe, but like she didn't tell you that,
she gave you zero indication. So I would see that
as you think I need to go run my ass
around because I'm fat.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
So you guys, how did he get my shoe size?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Like?
Speaker 6 (06:52):
That's the other thing.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
How did you do?
Speaker 6 (06:54):
You just look and make an estimatus you have a
fetish like I don't. I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Did you want her? Like? Yeah? What was that about?
How did you know her shoe size? Were they right?
Were they right?
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Though, nicky? Were they right?
Speaker 6 (07:06):
I literally just said, you knew my shoe size? Yes,
it was correct. Yes, it's creeping me out?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
How did you know that?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I looked and I knew. I don't have a fetish.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
I just I could look at someone.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
God, that's an.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Amazing I'm not weird. I'm not weird.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I'm not weird.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
I'm just I'm just doing nice things. I don't know
why people are getting freak out, but doing a nice things.
That doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
So there's nothing behind merooks shook. So I think those
are those are nice? Running what size is?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Hold on? Don't you there?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I have to you have to see your feet? Yeah,
I'm sure you would. You probably have to, you know,
use some of that good smelling stuff on him. First,
and you can take a look at him.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I am so good on that.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I'm not weird. I'm just I'm not not that.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
It's usually when people keep saying that that weird is
they're pretty weird.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Does say it doesn't mean.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Yeah, I mean, look, I I okay. I want to
give you the benefit of the doubt that you were
just being thoughtful. But I also think that giving someone
smell smell good products at running shoes, that that's probably
going to send a message that you apparently didn't mean
to send. It's a random set of things to give
someone that you don't know for no reason. If somebody
(08:21):
brought ozembic on a date for me and wrapped it
and gave it to me, I would be like, oh, I.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Would say, I would say how much? How did you
get this? And shoot me up?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Yeah, I'm very very very grateful for you for your
thoughtfulness in kindness. But I would also know that you
thought I was fat. Okay, so I don't know, but
but but I didn't.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
But I wasn't. I'm not you know what I'm saying.
I'm just like he's not alright.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Like I'm I don't know. I don't know that I
believe you. But Nikki, okay, can you I'll try it.
Would would you like to just maybe reconsider he was
being thoughtful and and maybe see him again, see if
he does anything else weird, brings anything else on the date.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
I don't, and none of you would go on a
second day.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I wouldn't, but I have to ask. So all right, Look,
Nikki's not interested. Andy, I'm sorry, it's not going to
work out. I wish you the best, though.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Well she can keep the shoes and the fragrant shoes
is fine. I don't care.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I might, I might not.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
If there's like tracking a device tracking tracking a device
tracking device.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
I don't know anybody. I'm not doing it.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
I'm a little freaked out.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Now, Okay, guys, good luck, Thank you,
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Dame is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seven night presidency Adobe Live at Park MGM, and we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State at Park MGM January twenty
fourth through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text
Night to three seven three three seven now for a
chance to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard
(00:22):
message of data rates may apply. All thanks to Live.
Nation's ever been left waiting by the phone.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
It's the Fread Show. Andy, Good morning, Welcome to the show.
How are you morning, guys, how's it going doing well?
What's going on with this woman? Nikki? How did you meet?
Tell us about any dates you've been on? And then
where things are now?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
All right?
Speaker 5 (00:42):
So I met her at a friend's birthday party, like
the birthday like three game thing. We hung out for
a bit and then you know, before I left, I
got a number and you know, we started talking. We
were like playing a date. We agreed to go and
meet up for drinks, and you know, I was, I was,
I mean, that was pretty good. I didn't do anything
to your bad As a gentleman. I had fun. She
(01:06):
had fun, I think, and I want to see her again.
I don't know why she's ignoring me, and I can't
care it. I've been asking all my friends. I'm just like,
I'm the idea.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Why. Yeah, Because that's a good point.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
You have the friends in common, so somebody probably knows
something and no one's telling you an exactly. You also
met in person first, which you think would make a difference,
but it doesn't always because we've heard that before too,
where people, you know, mostly everyone meets on the dating apps,
but you met in person, so you were able to
gauge chemistry and attraction and all that, and so it
would you would kind of think that going into the
(01:37):
first actual date you have some momentum. But for whatever reason,
you have not heard from Nicky since then, and you
want to know why.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. And I thought it was kind
of cool that we met in person, because nobody really
did that anymore.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Right, right, All right, Well, let's play a song. Come back.
We'll call Nikki, you'll be on the phone.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
We'll ask these questions, and hopefully we can straighten things
out and set you guys up on another date that
we pay for.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Sound good, I'm creating. I guess thanks Andy. Hey what
was that? Did you say that on the date you want?
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yeah, on the date? Then I think I get it.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, we can like ten seconds, here's the song the
Entertainment reports next, you're excited. Yeah, okay, well we're getting
a glimpse. Now, let's see, let's call Nicky. You guys,
you met at a birthday pre party and then you
set up a date. You went on the date. You
haven't heard from her since the date, and you want
to know why?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Yeah, yeah, I really don't know why. I'm really excited
to figure it out though.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
All right, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, ma'am,
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Is this Nicky? Yeah, Nicky? Good morning. My name is Fred.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,
and I have to tell you that we are on
the radio right now, and I would need your permission
to continue with the call. Can waitch out for a second,
would you mind?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Thanks for Thank you very much for calling on behalf
of a guy named Andy. I guess you him at
a birthday party or a birthday pre party or something,
and then you went on a date recently.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
Do you remember Andy?
Speaker 6 (03:05):
Yeah, I remember Andy?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Okay, So what happened?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Because we just talked to him and he had nice
things to say about you and thought that the date
that you guys went on was went well. But he
hasn't heard from you since, and we had no trouble
getting ahold of you. So what's going on?
Speaker 6 (03:21):
Sure, I mean we definitely hit it off. We met
at a party in exchange numbers and I mean, I'm
gonna be real with you. He's hot, so you know,
we like talked about going on a date. I was
like all for it. So we went on a date.
And yeah, when I arrived to the bar, things kind
(03:45):
of got a little bizarre.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Okay. What happened?
Speaker 6 (03:50):
Well, okay, so I'm walking up and I think it
looks like there's like two big presents by him.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Like like wrapped gifts, Like yeah, wrapped gifts, okay, And.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
I really wish I hadn't opened them all right?
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Where you shoved to this date, he brought gifts that
he wrapped, okay, And so I do tell what was inside?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (04:19):
Well, the first one had like a bunch of like
soap and body washed and like perfume and like theodorant.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Yeah, why would you give a woman that you just
met unless they smelled bad? Even if they did, I
don't know why you go First of all, why would
you with someone who smelled bad? Second of all, why,
I don't know why you would do that. Okay, So
a bunch of smelly, sort of clean things he gave
you for your body, for my body, all right, somebody
went to bath and body.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
All right? Good?
Speaker 6 (04:52):
And then and then the second box with a pair
of running shoes.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Oh my god.
Speaker 6 (04:58):
And I've never mentioned that I'm a runner or that
I'm interested at all in running distances unless I'm being chased.
And so just like I'm having a hard time not
feeling like there's like some sort of like facret meaning
to these gifts, Like does he think I need, like,
you know, exercise, more exercising to shower down?
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You open this stuff, you're like, okay, so you think
I stink and I need to run, which means you
think I'm not fit. I mean, that's probably what I
would think if a person I just met gave me
running shoes. Let me ask Andy, though, because he's here,
I forgot to mention that I'm very forgetful. I'm sorry, Andy,
what are we thinking with? I mean, I guess maybe
maybe maybe the first gift, I don't probably not, but
(05:41):
then the running shoes, like what are we doing?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah, okay, listen, first off, Nikki, I'm sorry, but it
makes sense if you think about it what I did.
So okay, ladies, ladies in general, like they like to
show that they like perfume, right, so.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I figured personable though, like I wouldn't buy someone a
fragrance I had never met, Like, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
If you know what you like, you like you can
toss it away, that's okay, that's fine. And and and
the shoes, the running, that's just in general. I think
everybody out there is doing the thing that's not like
a personal attack or anything like that, like saying.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Are they doing running around?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Like what.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Out?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Working it out? So you?
Speaker 2 (06:27):
But I mean, can you see though, how when you
give a woman or a man, or give anyone who
you don't know that well and don't know what they're into.
I mean, if she told you, like I'm gonna go
run the marathon and I and I love this brand
of shoes, I maybe, but like she didn't tell you that,
she gave you zero indication. So I would see that
as you think I need to go run my ass
around because I'm fat.
Speaker 6 (06:49):
So you guys, how did he get my shoe size?
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Like?
Speaker 6 (06:52):
That's the other thing.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
How did you do?
Speaker 6 (06:54):
You just look and make an estimatus you have a
fetish like I don't. I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Did you want her? Like? Yeah? What was that about?
How did you know her shoe size? Were they right?
Were they right?
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Though, nicky? Were they right?
Speaker 6 (07:06):
I literally just said, you knew my shoe size? Yes,
it was correct. Yes, it's creeping me out?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
How did you know that?
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I looked and I knew. I don't have a fetish.
Speaker 5 (07:16):
I just I could look at someone.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
God, that's an.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
Amazing I'm not weird. I'm not weird.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
I'm not weird.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
I'm just I'm just doing nice things. I don't know
why people are getting freak out, but doing a nice things.
That doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
So there's nothing behind merooks shook. So I think those
are those are nice? Running what size is?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Hold on? Don't you there?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I have to you have to see your feet? Yeah,
I'm sure you would. You probably have to, you know,
use some of that good smelling stuff on him. First,
and you can take a look at him.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I am so good on that.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I'm not weird. I'm just I'm not not that.
Speaker 2 (07:54):
It's usually when people keep saying that that weird is
they're pretty weird.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Does say it doesn't mean.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Yeah, I mean, look, I I okay. I want to
give you the benefit of the doubt that you were
just being thoughtful. But I also think that giving someone
smell smell good products at running shoes, that that's probably
going to send a message that you apparently didn't mean
to send. It's a random set of things to give
someone that you don't know for no reason. If somebody
(08:21):
brought ozembic on a date for me and wrapped it
and gave it to me, I would be like, oh, I.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Would say, I would say how much? How did you
get this? And shoot me up?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Yeah, I'm very very very grateful for you for your
thoughtfulness in kindness. But I would also know that you
thought I was fat. Okay, so I don't know, but
but but I didn't.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
But I wasn't. I'm not you know what I'm saying.
I'm just like he's not alright.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Like I'm I don't know. I don't know that I
believe you. But Nikki, okay, can you I'll try it.
Would would you like to just maybe reconsider he was
being thoughtful and and maybe see him again, see if
he does anything else weird, brings anything else on the date.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
I don't, and none of you would go on a
second day.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I wouldn't, but I have to ask. So all right, Look,
Nikki's not interested. Andy, I'm sorry, it's not going to
work out. I wish you the best, though.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Well she can keep the shoes and the fragrant shoes
is fine. I don't care.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
I might, I might not.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
If there's like tracking a device tracking tracking a device
tracking device.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
I don't know anybody. I'm not doing it.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:28):
I'm a little freaked out.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Now, Okay, guys, good luck, Thank you,
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