November 21, 2025 • 13 mins
Is there a couple that makes you believe in love? Fred wants to know! Plus, Keke isn't sure if she's being scammed or not and is asking the 13 for advice!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the press show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Dame is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
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I think I already know the answers, but I'm going
to keep them to myself for just until you answer.
But do you, honestly do you guys look at other relationships?
Actually I know I know how Jace would answer too.
But do you look at other relationships and say.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I want that there are There are a few. I
will say marriages I have a heart like newly are
married people? I'm either that's not real?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Then?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Oh wait what?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
You cannot judge someone based on how they just met
or how they just got married. I think the only
way to judge a relationship is after five years?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Oh read it?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Five years?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Okay, yeah, yeah, sure, I've been in a wedding before
and been like, that's wonderful. Talk to me on Monday,
or talk to me after the honeymoon, or talk to
me when the utility bill comes in at the condo,
you know, six months later, and someone forgot to pay
it and there's a late fee and the whole thing's over.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Now.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I'm not saying people don't love each other. I'm not
saying that people don't have amazing relationships and long marriages
and long lives together. But I cannot judge that one
based on their wedding day or based on within the
first six months of meeting each other. Talk to me
after five years of a relationship, and I don't think
the emotions are the same.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
You're speaking facts.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I don't think we beloved might be the same.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
Idolize anybody's relationship because you really don't know what's going
on with That's right, That's what I mean. But there
are relationships that you look at and it makes you
believe in love. Like, yes, I was shook when Keith
Urban did that. You know what I'm saying, Like that
really took the wind beneath my whin. I know, so,
you know, but I look at their relationship like it's
a beautiful couple. Our boss, for example, the way he
talks to me about his wife. I wish that my
(02:01):
husband or I hope that my husband one day will
talk about his wife that way.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So they're one of mine. Actually, yes, because they have
fun love them.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
So it's like I don't idolize, you know, shut out
to James Marci Man.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I just get so emotional I.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Do that, you know, like, you know what I think?
You know what I think it's her. Hey, look I
just had dinner with them. I agree with you. I
think she beats his ass at home.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
I do.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I think she beats his ass. I think she beats
the crap out of them. That's what I think. That's
what I think.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Sometimes, Yeah, maybe he eats it.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
No does.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
They're one of the couples that I look at.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
And I'm like, you guys genuinely like each other, And
I think that that's very rare.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Real.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
No, I get that.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
I get that, like I would take there.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Really, but that should be the minimum expectation of a marriage.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
I mean, but it's hard out here for it, you know,
it is hard. I get the way Hobby, let Paulina
use that credit card?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
If you mean the way that he texts every morning
and says, good morning. Don't use the credit card anymore.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
She says, it's so nice, like you're never taking it away, right.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
And after what she put him through, I do believe
in love because that man loves her.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
She clips her toenails in the bed. She loves her.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I think there's a difference, though, between loving each other
deeply and having a life that I like.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Do I want someone to love me that much? Yeah?
But us all Now, I.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Really could have Kiki would just be the wind beneath
my waives. You already are, then I can go home alone.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Beautiful.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah, okay, that's not one for you.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
And I'm with you, guys. I'm also with you Ki that, uh,
you can't. I don't think you can eat even the
relationships that you look at. And I'm more suspect of
the relationships that you look at from the outside and say, wow,
they're perfect. That's perfect. I don't buy it. For example,
my parents have both been divorced. My mom wants my dad.
(04:18):
This is his third marriage. They've been together for almost
forty years, thirty thirty six years. I think, and I'll
be honest with you, there are moments when I've been present,
and I think these two hate each other right now,
like oh yeah, like hate. But I'll tell you something
I don't think, And there have been times when I
(04:38):
thought maybe it was over. Honestly, they will be together
forever until they die. They will, and that to me
is not an attractive relationship at all times. In fact,
I would say half the time, I'm like, I don't
know how you do. I don't know how you do
him and how he does you. I have no idea.
But they love each other deeply. And so I think
sometimes the things that people look at and say that's
what I want aren't necessarily of things that people actually
(05:01):
really would need or the things that are real that
keep the thing going forever, because it's not always pretty
spoken from the guy who's never been married and only
had six month relationships.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
But that's real though you drop effects.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
So I think sometimes when you see oh my god,
they're so blissfully happy, oh my god, I think that's
that's not that's not the equation for the relationship that
I think people really want, that has that solid foundation
to where bad things can happen and they're still there. Yeah,
that's the stuff that you see when you first meet
someone and you're blissfully in love. That's not when they
crapped in a toilet and clogged it and you walk
(05:34):
in there and like, what did you do? You know?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
And I don't know? And then and then who knows? Whatever?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Whatever scenario is so unattractive and you're like, oh my god,
really you again with this?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Eat some fiber bro like you know something? Lord more
fread show. Next, this is the Bread Show.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Same is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seventh night Presidents Doobe Live at Park MGM, And we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State Park MGM January twenty fourth
through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text dusk
to three seven three three seven now for a chance
to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard message
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Speaker 5 (06:20):
I'm telling me.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Look for running in our diaries except we say them.
Allowed to call them blogs?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Kiki go all right, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Have you guys ever been scammed like I'm talking about,
like bigtime scammed?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Have you ha?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Has it ever happened?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Because in this this wedding planning process, as I'm booking vendors,
you know, trying to do collabse, trying to work with
different people, I feel like everything is it could be
a scam.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Might be a scam.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Because a lot of people they want their money upfront,
you know, and I'm not really a money upfront type
of girl.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
So yeah, especially you gotta have the money, give it
up front, which is that that's usually my issue with
money upfront is oh so I need to now then yeah, okay,
And so I've been talking.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I thought I had until twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Well, and that's how I feel because the wedding is
not until twenty twenty seven. So I'm like, wait a minute,
you won't you want all this money up front? Like
what something could happen to you tomorrow and I never
see my money again. You know, I'm nervous about the
whole process, and I'm just trying to avoid being scammed.
And I was talking to my friends earlier this week
and they had these horrible stories about being scammed from
(07:30):
businesses that they invested in, and you know, just trusting
people with money, and I'm like are people like, how
have you been hadince happened to y'all?
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Isn't usually a deposit, Like I'm the full money up
front is crazy and a.
Speaker 5 (07:43):
Lot of them do just want deposit and the deposits
because we're talking about weddings a thousands of dollars.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
You know, how can you.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Buy insurance for this? Can't you buy wedding insurance? Oh? Really?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
I think you can say. I think I read it
about that, that Raleigh wedding and that venue. I don't
even know if that was ever a result, but we
talked about that, uh, and how they got you know,
the groom or the fiance. The groom passed away and
then they didn't get any money back. And again I
don't know if that's been rectified, but as of a
you know, a few weeks ago, they were just out
the money, right, And I think that I read somewhere
(08:15):
that you could get wedding insurance okay, yeah, which might
be worth it just in case.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Right.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
I wonder how that works though, Like so you can
they're saying I don't like insurance.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
At them, Okay, that'll be a problem with you.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yeah, I think it's like I'm sure it's that you're
covered up to a certain amount or something if something happens,
but I'm not sure what the terms are.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
For instance, this lady reached out to me and she
wants to collab on making my wedding dress.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
But she's in Africa, so right, right, even like measure
I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
So we've been talking over Zoom. She's going to look
at a picture of you and like, I got it.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
No, I'll go get measured here, send her the measurements,
and like we have these Zoom meetings and like she's
calling me at ten o'clock at night because of the
time difference, And.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I'm just like, how did you find out about this person?
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You reached out to me? What's in it for her
over in Africa? I mean money?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
So like to get paid, that's right.
Speaker 5 (09:07):
So she'll give me a discount on a dress, but
I need to be paid. The dress needs to be
paid in full before they will ship the dress.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
And I'm like, this feels a little scammy. And she
reached out to you.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Did I don't know?
Speaker 5 (09:20):
And I'm just like, while we scamming each other, like
comel man, I don't know, I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I don't know you.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Know you ever scammed?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Was I ever scammed?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
You were.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Like that any digital money sharing platform? Because she tried
to quote unquote move money around and it didn't work out.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
I choose to stay quiet situations that I don't, you know,
want to put myself in.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
But you know, I, uh, yeah, I've been scammed. Actually
I have.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
This is a really dumb story and it's not even
that she had a serious So all my friends when
we were younger, we got i DS.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
I'm gonna just say that, right, we got some id's.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Okay, accurate in from on them.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
You're saying, no, the guy never he took my money,
but I never got mine.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, I never got mine. Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
I messaged him and it wasn't It wasn't good, So
I left it alone. I was like, you know what
came my A little hundred dollars crusty, You're fine, Like
I don't. I'm gonna argue with you about it. That
was my only scam. Now after that, you know, things
have happened. I've been involved in stuff, but it wasn't bad.
I would never scam anybody personally. That would make me
nervous too.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
To get people lots and lots of money, you know
ahead of time, knowing that eighteen months from now is
when I claim it, you know exactly.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
And people are making a good someone made a good
point on the text. They say, key key, they don't
want to get scammed by you or you're canceled wedding.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
That could be.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
True, right, and the deposit I get right, because if
I'm saying to you, I'm going to be available on
November twenty first to twenty twenty six, and then you
change your mind, and then you know, we get I
don't know several months away, and now I can't feel
that date. I understand that, but I see well, and
I don't understand in the case of someone dying, I mean,
(11:00):
if they're in extenuating circumstances, I would hope that somebody
would work with me, like things that were completely out
of my control. Right, But if you just change your mind,
or you guys break up, or you decide I want
to go with somebody else, that's not my problem.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
Right now, the event the event is happening, with or
without the event, jar rule is already booked, is happening,
so they can.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Maybe a celebration of you either way.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
Right, So I'm just like this whole thing is just
a it's a very scary feeling though, because it's so expensive.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Everything is.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
I remember when I was really pretty young, I mean
probably like eight nine, we had a babysitter and and
she lived near the house, and so like my parents
would go to dinner, and sometimes we'd go to dinner,
you know, they'd be like, go get pizza or something,
and then sometimes we'd go to like her parents' house,
and she live with her boyfriend. And her boyfriend was
a wedding DJ. And I don't know why I remember this,
(11:48):
I mean all these years later, but he used to
let me play with the equipment, like because I liked
radio and music stuff and you know, so I used
to like be and I'm sure that was really great
for everyone in the house to hear me try and
like span at eight years old. But he was trying
to teach me and whatever.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
So we go over.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
There was a Saturday night, my parents were on a date,
and I'm doing this stuff and I remember why I
remember this so vividly, but the nanny or babysitter's dad
walks in and goes, hey, man, don't you have a
wedding tonight? And he goes, yeah, I'm not going what
he just didn't go. He just he was the wedding
DJ for someone's wedding and he just didn't go. And
(12:24):
at the time, I'm like, that's weird, you know. I
remember telling my parents that and they were like, do
you have any ida? Of course I did, and I
don't think I've been to a wedding before, but like
the entertainment just didn't show. Can you imagine, Oh, and
this dude just wasn't feeling it. I would be deva.
I mean, don't you get sued for something like that.
I mean, can you the day of your wedding and
you're getting everything ready and like the music just doesn't show.
Speaker 5 (12:46):
Up right, Like you cannot you cannot play with people
on their wedding day, like hairstyles, makeup artists the past.
Everybody needs to be information or else I will come
to your house.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Well, and I suppose now, all these years later, I mean,
worst we could we could plug some speakers in and
get someone's playlist going. At least there'd be a vibe. Now,
I'm not saying that's that's not a substitute, but like then, yeah,
I mean this was in the nineties, like what were you?
What are you gonna do? Like get someone's case logic
CD thing out like sit there, And I mean there
was there was really no alternative. Turn the radio on.
(13:18):
Yeah he skipping turn the radio use for our medium,
But yeah, no, I don't. I just remember. I don't
know why I remember that so vividly. But now every
time I think about like people planning weddings, I'm like, dude,
somebody could just not show up. It's so crazy and
that's gonna kill your business now, especially because now you've
got all the Google reviews and everything's so much more
public now. But at the time, these poor people, these
poor people who have a wedding detail,
This is the press show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Dame is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seven night residency Adobey Live at Park MGM, and we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State at Park MGM January twenty
fourth through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text
dusk to three seven three three seven now for a
chance to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard
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I think I already know the answers, but I'm going
to keep them to myself for just until you answer.
But do you, honestly do you guys look at other relationships?
Actually I know I know how Jace would answer too.
But do you look at other relationships and say.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I want that there are There are a few. I
will say marriages I have a heart like newly are
married people? I'm either that's not real?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Then?
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Oh wait what?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
You cannot judge someone based on how they just met
or how they just got married. I think the only
way to judge a relationship is after five years?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Oh read it?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Five years?
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Okay, yeah, yeah, sure, I've been in a wedding before
and been like, that's wonderful. Talk to me on Monday,
or talk to me after the honeymoon, or talk to
me when the utility bill comes in at the condo,
you know, six months later, and someone forgot to pay
it and there's a late fee and the whole thing's over.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Now.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I'm not saying people don't love each other. I'm not
saying that people don't have amazing relationships and long marriages
and long lives together. But I cannot judge that one
based on their wedding day or based on within the
first six months of meeting each other. Talk to me
after five years of a relationship, and I don't think
the emotions are the same.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
You're speaking facts.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I don't think we beloved might be the same.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
Idolize anybody's relationship because you really don't know what's going
on with That's right, That's what I mean. But there
are relationships that you look at and it makes you
believe in love. Like, yes, I was shook when Keith
Urban did that. You know what I'm saying, Like that
really took the wind beneath my whin. I know, so,
you know, but I look at their relationship like it's
a beautiful couple. Our boss, for example, the way he
talks to me about his wife. I wish that my
(02:01):
husband or I hope that my husband one day will
talk about his wife that way.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
So they're one of mine. Actually, yes, because they have
fun love them.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
So it's like I don't idolize, you know, shut out
to James Marci Man.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I just get so emotional I.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Do that, you know, like, you know what I think?
You know what I think it's her. Hey, look I
just had dinner with them. I agree with you. I
think she beats his ass at home.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
I do.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I think she beats his ass. I think she beats
the crap out of them. That's what I think. That's
what I think.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Sometimes, Yeah, maybe he eats it.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
No does.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
They're one of the couples that I look at.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
And I'm like, you guys genuinely like each other, And
I think that that's very rare.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Real.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
No, I get that.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
I get that, like I would take there.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Really, but that should be the minimum expectation of a marriage.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
I mean, but it's hard out here for it, you know,
it is hard. I get the way Hobby, let Paulina
use that credit card?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
If you mean the way that he texts every morning
and says, good morning. Don't use the credit card anymore.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
She says, it's so nice, like you're never taking it away, right.
Speaker 4 (03:00):
And after what she put him through, I do believe
in love because that man loves her.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
She clips her toenails in the bed. She loves her.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I think there's a difference, though, between loving each other
deeply and having a life that I like.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Do I want someone to love me that much? Yeah?
But us all Now, I.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Really could have Kiki would just be the wind beneath
my waives. You already are, then I can go home alone.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Beautiful.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Yeah, okay, that's not one for you.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
And I'm with you, guys. I'm also with you Ki that, uh,
you can't. I don't think you can eat even the
relationships that you look at. And I'm more suspect of
the relationships that you look at from the outside and say, wow,
they're perfect. That's perfect. I don't buy it. For example,
my parents have both been divorced. My mom wants my dad.
(04:18):
This is his third marriage. They've been together for almost
forty years, thirty thirty six years. I think, and I'll
be honest with you, there are moments when I've been present,
and I think these two hate each other right now,
like oh yeah, like hate. But I'll tell you something
I don't think, And there have been times when I
(04:38):
thought maybe it was over. Honestly, they will be together
forever until they die. They will, and that to me
is not an attractive relationship at all times. In fact,
I would say half the time, I'm like, I don't
know how you do. I don't know how you do
him and how he does you. I have no idea.
But they love each other deeply. And so I think
sometimes the things that people look at and say that's
what I want aren't necessarily of things that people actually
(05:01):
really would need or the things that are real that
keep the thing going forever, because it's not always pretty
spoken from the guy who's never been married and only
had six month relationships.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
But that's real though you drop effects.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
So I think sometimes when you see oh my god,
they're so blissfully happy, oh my god, I think that's
that's not that's not the equation for the relationship that
I think people really want, that has that solid foundation
to where bad things can happen and they're still there. Yeah,
that's the stuff that you see when you first meet
someone and you're blissfully in love. That's not when they
crapped in a toilet and clogged it and you walk
(05:34):
in there and like, what did you do? You know?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
And I don't know? And then and then who knows? Whatever?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Whatever scenario is so unattractive and you're like, oh my god,
really you again with this?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Eat some fiber bro like you know something? Lord more
fread show. Next, this is the Bread Show.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Same is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seventh night Presidents Doobe Live at Park MGM, And we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State Park MGM January twenty fourth
through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text dusk
to three seven three three seven now for a chance
to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard message
(06:17):
of data rates may apply all thanks to Live Nation.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
I'm telling me.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Look for running in our diaries except we say them.
Allowed to call them blogs?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Kiki go all right, thank you, dear blog.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Have you guys ever been scammed like I'm talking about,
like bigtime scammed?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Have you ha?
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Has it ever happened?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Because in this this wedding planning process, as I'm booking vendors,
you know, trying to do collabse, trying to work with
different people, I feel like everything is it could be
a scam.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Might be a scam.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Because a lot of people they want their money upfront,
you know, and I'm not really a money upfront type
of girl.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
So yeah, especially you gotta have the money, give it
up front, which is that that's usually my issue with
money upfront is oh so I need to now then yeah, okay,
And so I've been talking.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
I thought I had until twenty twenty seven.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Well, and that's how I feel because the wedding is
not until twenty twenty seven. So I'm like, wait a minute,
you won't you want all this money up front? Like
what something could happen to you tomorrow and I never
see my money again. You know, I'm nervous about the
whole process, and I'm just trying to avoid being scammed.
And I was talking to my friends earlier this week
and they had these horrible stories about being scammed from
(07:30):
businesses that they invested in, and you know, just trusting
people with money, and I'm like are people like, how
have you been hadince happened to y'all?
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Isn't usually a deposit, Like I'm the full money up
front is crazy and a.
Speaker 5 (07:43):
Lot of them do just want deposit and the deposits
because we're talking about weddings a thousands of dollars.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
You know, how can you.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Buy insurance for this? Can't you buy wedding insurance? Oh? Really?
Speaker 2 (07:54):
I think you can say. I think I read it
about that, that Raleigh wedding and that venue. I don't
even know if that was ever a result, but we
talked about that, uh, and how they got you know,
the groom or the fiance. The groom passed away and
then they didn't get any money back. And again I
don't know if that's been rectified, but as of a
you know, a few weeks ago, they were just out
the money, right, And I think that I read somewhere
(08:15):
that you could get wedding insurance okay, yeah, which might
be worth it just in case.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
Right.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
I wonder how that works though, Like so you can
they're saying I don't like insurance.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
At them, Okay, that'll be a problem with you.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Yeah, I think it's like I'm sure it's that you're
covered up to a certain amount or something if something happens,
but I'm not sure what the terms are.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
For instance, this lady reached out to me and she
wants to collab on making my wedding dress.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
But she's in Africa, so right, right, even like measure
I mean.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
So we've been talking over Zoom. She's going to look
at a picture of you and like, I got it.
Speaker 5 (08:49):
No, I'll go get measured here, send her the measurements,
and like we have these Zoom meetings and like she's
calling me at ten o'clock at night because of the
time difference, And.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I'm just like, how did you find out about this person?
Speaker 3 (09:00):
You reached out to me? What's in it for her
over in Africa? I mean money?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
So like to get paid, that's right.
Speaker 5 (09:07):
So she'll give me a discount on a dress, but
I need to be paid. The dress needs to be
paid in full before they will ship the dress.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
And I'm like, this feels a little scammy. And she
reached out to you.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Did I don't know?
Speaker 5 (09:20):
And I'm just like, while we scamming each other, like
comel man, I don't know, I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
I don't know you.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Know you ever scammed?
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Was I ever scammed?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
You were.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Like that any digital money sharing platform? Because she tried
to quote unquote move money around and it didn't work out.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
I choose to stay quiet situations that I don't, you know,
want to put myself in.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
But you know, I, uh, yeah, I've been scammed. Actually
I have.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
This is a really dumb story and it's not even
that she had a serious So all my friends when
we were younger, we got i DS.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
I'm gonna just say that, right, we got some id's.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Okay, accurate in from on them.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
You're saying, no, the guy never he took my money,
but I never got mine.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Yeah, I never got mine. Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
I messaged him and it wasn't It wasn't good, So
I left it alone. I was like, you know what
came my A little hundred dollars crusty, You're fine, Like
I don't. I'm gonna argue with you about it. That
was my only scam. Now after that, you know, things
have happened. I've been involved in stuff, but it wasn't bad.
I would never scam anybody personally. That would make me
nervous too.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
To get people lots and lots of money, you know
ahead of time, knowing that eighteen months from now is
when I claim it, you know exactly.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
And people are making a good someone made a good
point on the text. They say, key key, they don't
want to get scammed by you or you're canceled wedding.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
That could be.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
True, right, and the deposit I get right, because if
I'm saying to you, I'm going to be available on
November twenty first to twenty twenty six, and then you
change your mind, and then you know, we get I
don't know several months away, and now I can't feel
that date. I understand that, but I see well, and
I don't understand in the case of someone dying, I mean,
(11:00):
if they're in extenuating circumstances, I would hope that somebody
would work with me, like things that were completely out
of my control. Right, But if you just change your mind,
or you guys break up, or you decide I want
to go with somebody else, that's not my problem.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
Right now, the event the event is happening, with or
without the event, jar rule is already booked, is happening,
so they can.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Maybe a celebration of you either way.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
Right, So I'm just like this whole thing is just
a it's a very scary feeling though, because it's so expensive.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Everything is.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
I remember when I was really pretty young, I mean
probably like eight nine, we had a babysitter and and
she lived near the house, and so like my parents
would go to dinner, and sometimes we'd go to dinner,
you know, they'd be like, go get pizza or something,
and then sometimes we'd go to like her parents' house,
and she live with her boyfriend. And her boyfriend was
a wedding DJ. And I don't know why I remember this,
(11:48):
I mean all these years later, but he used to
let me play with the equipment, like because I liked
radio and music stuff and you know, so I used
to like be and I'm sure that was really great
for everyone in the house to hear me try and
like span at eight years old. But he was trying
to teach me and whatever.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
So we go over.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
There was a Saturday night, my parents were on a date,
and I'm doing this stuff and I remember why I
remember this so vividly, but the nanny or babysitter's dad
walks in and goes, hey, man, don't you have a
wedding tonight? And he goes, yeah, I'm not going what
he just didn't go. He just he was the wedding
DJ for someone's wedding and he just didn't go. And
(12:24):
at the time, I'm like, that's weird, you know. I
remember telling my parents that and they were like, do
you have any ida? Of course I did, and I
don't think I've been to a wedding before, but like
the entertainment just didn't show. Can you imagine, Oh, and
this dude just wasn't feeling it. I would be deva.
I mean, don't you get sued for something like that.
I mean, can you the day of your wedding and
you're getting everything ready and like the music just doesn't show.
Speaker 5 (12:46):
Up right, Like you cannot you cannot play with people
on their wedding day, like hairstyles, makeup artists the past.
Everybody needs to be information or else I will come
to your house.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Well, and I suppose now, all these years later, I mean,
worst we could we could plug some speakers in and
get someone's playlist going. At least there'd be a vibe. Now,
I'm not saying that's that's not a substitute, but like then, yeah,
I mean this was in the nineties, like what were you?
What are you gonna do? Like get someone's case logic
CD thing out like sit there, And I mean there
was there was really no alternative. Turn the radio on.
(13:18):
Yeah he skipping turn the radio use for our medium,
But yeah, no, I don't. I just remember. I don't
know why I remember that so vividly. But now every
time I think about like people planning weddings, I'm like, dude,
somebody could just not show up. It's so crazy and
that's gonna kill your business now, especially because now you've
got all the Google reviews and everything's so much more
public now. But at the time, these poor people, these
poor people who have a wedding detail,
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