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Speaker 2 (00:30):
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Speaker 1 (00:33):
Okay, what do you wanna say? You only says gonna
be terrible. I don't know what to do. I'm I'm
trying to be positive. In twenty twenty five, spread show
is Nobody's not here trying to date a radio personality.
Nobody for a lot of different reasons.

Speaker 3 (00:45):
You guys used to get thrown at you the radio.
There is no one anything in me and our DMS
is scary.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
But you guys used to get there anything. It's the
hottest girls. Yeah, then we get like, you don't have
to remediate.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
We cannot reminisce about the time when radio people are
considered famous. It's fine. It's fine that we're not because
you guys are the same, So it's fine.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
There were radio groups.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
Though shut out back in the day.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
It was fine.

Speaker 4 (01:09):
They wanted to get in here, you know, with the
late night show, maybe a little.

Speaker 1 (01:13):
It is the frend Show. Good morning. Thanks for having
us on the radio, on the iHeart app Live and
anytime search for a freend show on demand. And I
want to talk about scamming quickly, because you know I'm away.
I'm always looking out for the people who listen to us.
I'm constantly looking at all the different things that are
happening to make sure that none of them. I don't
want any of our listeners to be affected by scams
that are out there. Camlin, I know you've been scammed
before by a psychic.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yeah, you didn't have to say that part, but yeah,
because you.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
Told the story before, so I do have to tell
I know, I had to. I had to. It's been
I had to expose it, Caitlin. Okay, it's been a
secret on this show forever, and I had to let
everybody know you were scam by a psychic. Okay, it's
finally out.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
It's true. It's true.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
Just quick recap for the new people, people who haven't
been listening or who've been slacking or whatever, because you
told the story a couple of years ago. But what
happened with the psychic this?

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Yeah, I don't remember why I started aging, but she
wanted like a picture of my palm, and I kept
asking Jason and Paulina like, Okay, there's no information she
could steal from me, and they're like no, So I
sent her that and then we were going back and forth,
and then she wanted, you know, money for this and
money for it, and I was like I think. I
initially sent her a little bit, but then she told
me that I was cursed by witches when I was

(02:21):
born and that's why bad stuff happens to me sometime.
And then I had to pay more to have yeah,
and I was like accrap. But then I was in
too deep and I had a blackhert and she was
fighting the other places.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
But I did pay her a little bit and send
her my palm.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
So how much did you give her?

Speaker 5 (02:38):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (02:38):
I don't remember, but too much. I mean even a
dollar is too much to a skimming psychic. But I
really like was like, oh no, And then I came
in here. I was like you, guys, I was cursed
by witches when I was born, and you guys.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, yeah, okay, well you must it must have worked
because throughout that time, you know, you got yourself a
boyfriend who's nice to you and worships you, and then
you I don't know, career aspirations have been a compliment
with grease. There's a bit of a turney. It was
a bit of a turning point. So I don't Maybe
you weren't scammed after all. Maybe this person was absolute
legitimate and them trying to find you with them being

(03:11):
like no, no, no, there's more work to do for
another twenty five dollars.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
Well, I don't know, because I didn't pair the final
feel in a little bit, Chris is not lifted.

Speaker 6 (03:20):
Well, you've investing yourself. That's crazy. I know what's her name,
Miss Cleo.

Speaker 7 (03:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (03:26):
Miss You told me you missed the scamming comfort you know, Noelja,
that was the time.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
Yeah, if you're not familiar with that, are either. That
was after the eighties. That was called the nineties and
they were lit. Yeah, if you don't know what that
was about, then if you didn't come home from Score.
This was late at night. It would have been late
at night like their MTV shows and that and Jemstu
text the frog for the crazy frog ring tone. If

(03:58):
you don't know what that is either, then I got it.
I'm just old. But we talked about scams because there's
a new case of scamming. I guess there was an
AI generated bread Pitt scam. Not familiar with that. But
this is just crazy. It's just tragic really in this case,
And I will say before I tell jokes, it was
an old woman who was scammed. Okay, So I don't

(04:20):
like that. This is not This wasn't Kaitlin who had
all of her faculties. This was an old woman. So
I don't like, don't scam old women. I mean, don't
scam old people. Don't scam people. But so I say that,
and now I'm gonna tell jokes. You know, schitz and lies,
but that the old people know. But even an old person,
my grandfather, even and it is a ninety two before

(04:42):
he died, would have called me and said, really, but
this elderly Japanese woman was tricked out of thousands of
dollars by a scammer. Claiming to be an astronaut stranded
in space. The romance scam began in July when the
two connected on social media. Well there's the other thing.
My grandfather wouldn't have been on social media either, but
I guess he was on the Facebook, and so my

(05:06):
dad might fall for something like this. He's a very
smart man, but he doesn't really know who he's talking
to and where he's posting, and what's public and what's
not on the social media's. Yeah, the frost told the
woman in her eighties that he was aboard of spaceship
and facing an emergency. Trusting his story, the woman, who
police say developed feelings for the man as their conversations continued,

(05:26):
electronically sent him more money because he needed it to
buy oxygen. Oh you want to laugh, You want to laugh, Kaitlin.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
No, I did not do not hold it in.

Speaker 3 (05:37):
No, I did not.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
The worst thing he could possibly happen on this show,
The very worst thing he could possibly happen is when
I say something that is funny, Well, especially when I
say something that is funny, But when something funny happens
and you all want to laugh, but you're worried about
your images and so you laugh quietly, but I can
see on your face that you were laughing, and you're
as equally as bad of a person as I am,
but you don't want other people to see it.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
Fred, I've talked about pooping my pants if I was
worried about my invention.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
That's true. That's an excellent point on this tree. That's
an excellent point. But trusting his story, the woman sent
him sixty seven hundred dollars because he needed it to
buy oxygen.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Oh that's expensive space.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
I mean he was in space, and like he kind
of buy it from somebody who's silly? Are the Russians?
I think they wouldn't give it to I mean he
had a nigga and yeah, he had access to the
Internet and Venmo, but he for some reason didn't have
access to oxygen.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah, like a real one.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
Exactly. Romance that love scams or not unique to any
one region. The US Federal Trade Commission reports that Americans
lost more than a billion dollars to similar schemes in
twenty twenty three, was roughly half of the dating site
users encountering attempted scams. Officials warn that such scams often
target seniors who are vulnerable to arrange of fraudulent schemes.

(06:54):
The victim in this case can at least take solace
in knowing she's not the only one. Apparently, somebody else
was scammed up to thirty thousand dollars by a man
claiming to be a stranded astronaut at the International Space
Station who needed money to buy a ticket back to Earth.

Speaker 4 (07:08):
Oh ticket, well, now hold on a counter, now that one.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Let's remember our friend's butcher sunny. They could have used
some money for they could have used it. No one
gave him any money for a ticket back, and they
were stranded there for fourteen months or whatever. It was
thought that he reportedly promised to marry the woman once
she paid for a rocket to get him back to
firm ground.

Speaker 2 (07:31):
What's the going rate for a ticket out of a rocket?

Speaker 1 (07:33):
It's about thirty thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
Is that like an uber Granny was down?

Speaker 8 (07:37):
Man?

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Yeah, it's about thirty thousand dollars. So yeah, look, you know,
don't scam old people. That's that's our PSA of the day.
And and don't if anyone tells you they need money
to get back from space or an oxygen oxygen access
to oxygen or something. Remember the guy MJ used to
be on this show. He once told a woman he

(07:58):
was trying to break up with that he needed to
get he was leaving for NASA Basic training.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
Yeah that's what.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, yeah he was. I guess he didn't want to
break up with her, or he was breaking up with her,
but he wanted to come up with, you know, some
reasonable explanation as to why, and he didn't want to
hurt her feelings, so he told him that he was
going to NASA Basic Trade, which I have to say
is brilliant and if it works, that really tells you
something about the person who you're breaking up with. They're

(08:25):
that gullible, right NASA Now that actually might be a
thing now because we got the Space Force, so it
might work now. But back in the day, I hate
to break into you, but there was no ticket counter
in space. There's no NASA Basic Training. And then I guess,
like a week later he was, you know, spotted in Applebee's,
So it didn't work out. He's the frend Show. Good morning,

(08:46):
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Forty thousand music fans they asked. Researchers found that younger
people explore a wide range of music genres and artists. However,
as they transition into adulthood and beyond, and their music
choice is narrow, often influenced by nostalgia and personal experience,
as older listeners tend to revisit songs from their youth

(09:07):
while also engaging with new music, leading to a more
individualized taste. The shift poses challenges for music recommendation services,
which may need to tailor suggestions to different age groups.
I better rely on there evolving preferences. Get emotional about that.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
Can I ask who's not a music fan? Like they
asked forty thousand music fans. He's like, no, I'm good,
I don't like music.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
Yeah, like what, Yeah, there were a lot of people
who's walk right by.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, I'm familiar with it. But do you feel like eight, five, five, five, nine,
one one oh three five? Can context the same number?
I mean, I look, We've been talking about this for
years and years in and I do believe that nostalgia
plays such a huge role in certain phases in life.
People remember songs and attach themselves to songs and I
would imagine a lot of people's favorite songs are from

(09:55):
certain like your favorite song key, if you had to
name one that's not Omaron.

Speaker 2 (09:59):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (10:00):
Currently, I've been writing to work every day listening to
Nelly e. I.

Speaker 1 (10:04):
Okay, so that song probably reminds you of high school?

Speaker 3 (10:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah, okay, so you and that reminds me of college.
I can remember where I was when I heard that song.
I can remember where I was when the radio station
that where my first job, when we played that song. So, yeah,
what is it for you, Kaitlin? I bet it's high
school or college?

Speaker 4 (10:23):
The first thing that came to mind, like a song
I'll always love I'm Sprung by tea pain See.

Speaker 9 (10:27):
I'd be high school for yeah, yep, yeah, I mean
behind these hazel lies Kelly Clarkson.

Speaker 2 (10:32):
Yeah, he came back every single time I hear it.

Speaker 1 (10:35):
Also high school yep, Paulina.

Speaker 10 (10:37):
Honestly, if you buck well, I was gonna say, I
listening to write, so I'm not give you buck I
kind of been listening to like the freestyle stuff again,
Like I bring it up every once in a while.

Speaker 3 (10:46):
Kaylen gets in my car, sh'll hear.

Speaker 10 (10:47):
It, like this TVV stuff like CVB, like Diamond Girl
because that's super detect Yes. I mean I had no
business dancing or listening to any of that when I
was like six or seventy eight.

Speaker 2 (10:56):
But I love it. Okay, it's like nineties.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
It was likeies, I guess, late eighties, the nineties, okay,
but a lot of it's from when you were young.
But how many times would you say, as a grown up,
you say this is my favorite song, like the one
you just heard today at thirty five, and he goes,
this is my favorite. I don't feel like anybody says that.

Speaker 3 (11:17):
I say favorite right now. I feel like I went
like temporary yeah, and.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Then I always go back right behind these hays A
lies always appears.

Speaker 3 (11:25):
Yeah, yes, seemed like yesterday so good.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
I feel like in mind were from you when I
was growing up, like really young, when I fell in
love with this stupid business. But like the songs I
listened to when I was obsessed over you know, radio
and listen to the radio in yeah, late eighties, I
guess it was when I was really little. Those are
the songs that I resonate, or the songs that my
mom played in the house a lot, which were all
pop songs because we grew up listening to that. Also,

(11:48):
I also contend a lot of your music taste is
based in what you're introduced to by your parents, because
I know, you know people that are my age who
love Motown like I love Motown. Okay, A lot of
people don't even know that is because their parents ever,
you know, whatever, and it was it was thirty years
past my prime, right or prime past my birth. I
know a lot of people that like Zeppelin, and you

(12:10):
know that's sort of like seventies, sixties, seventies like rock.
Never listen to any of that. Growing up. People love
the Beatles because their parents obsessed over the Beatles, And
now you don't like it.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
I don't understand the Beatles.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
You go, but you up with it, you'd either probably
be nauseated by it, or you'd love it because your
grandparents played it for you or or whatever.

Speaker 3 (12:31):
Yeah, I don't get it.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Jazz music. I like jazz music because I necessarily like
jazz music because my grandfather that was always what he
played because he was a jazz musician. So like, I
guess I just think that those things are rooted in you,
Like if your parents love country music like I bet
you love you know, country music is the thing pretty
ricky grind with me. Somebody said, oh, yeah, did you
perform that song recently?

Speaker 2 (12:51):
Right me?

Speaker 1 (12:53):
Even though it's with me? Oh right, yeah, I listened
to Oh the Goofy movie sound drag.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
Oh yes, remember we did that?

Speaker 1 (13:02):
Yeah? Which it's who is it? It's Tevin Campbell, which
I didn't know for the longest time. My favorite to
this day is deer Agony by Breaking Benjamin. So that's
what two thousands? Yeah, yeah, but I would imagine that
person's like twenty or twenty five thirty it was something
like that, because again, if you were like really immersed
in two thousands music, and I'm sure there are exceptions,

(13:24):
but I have a really hard time believe in anyone listening.
Is My favorite song is that Sabrina Carbenter man Eater's
song you know what Manchild, whatever it is many that's
stelling for title. That's my favorite song because man Eater,
you know. But yeah, So do you think though that
over time you have because you would think the older
you get, the more songs you're exposed to, the more

(13:46):
songs you might like. But it turns out you wind
up just weeding them. All down to fewer songs, which
is kind of interesting. Yeah, Summertime, DJJZ, Jeff and the
Fresh Prince High School right, so nineties. My parents listened
to Bruce Brings Scene exclusively during my childhood. I'm now
a thirty one year old, still in my EMO phase.
I don't know what that says about me. I get that, Yeah,

(14:08):
party like a rock star shop was Wow, these are
funny songs. I don't know. To me, these are funny
songs to say to your favorite. But if you grew
up in that era, then I say your favorite.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
So I mean that's why I love Jo. It is
the Freend Show. Good morning, Thanks for having us on
the radio, on the iHeart app Live and anytime. Search
for The Fred Show on demand. Here's the situation. This
is a quote from the person who wrote him. But
this is I'm just reading from what they said. I
was married to my ex husband for four years. I
didn't change my name when I first got married because
neither of us cared very much. I only changed it

(14:39):
after our daughter was born because I wanted us to
share a last name. This is It was posted on Reddit, actually,
which is where I get. You know, people think that
I do all of the preparation for the show, and
the elevator on the way up, and sometimes it sounds
like it that little screen that says captivating gives me
a little STAPs, you feel stats on the way up,
like what time it is? And I'm like, this is perfect,
is all? I?

Speaker 7 (15:00):
This is great.

Speaker 1 (15:01):
I'm going to get in the Hall of Fame for
sure this way and then and then I do the show.
But no, it's Reddit is really the secret, of course,
it really is, except that it can get real weird
on there, so I really can't start from the top
and work my way down like this is you know,
this was an alien topic on there this morning. There's
some conspiracy theories, so really can't use it completely. But nonetheless,

(15:22):
this woman explained that she and her ex husband divorced
back in twenty twenty two and that the fact that
she had his last name has never been an issue.
During a recent visit to pick up her daughter from
a custody visits, she then bumped into the ex husband's
new girlfriend, who confronted her about the name change. And
here's the quote, going back to the Reddit post. She
told me that her and my ex want to get married,

(15:45):
but the only thing standing in the way is that
I haven't changed my last name back. The ex wife
wrote about this, so she said that essentially she needs
the ex has got to change her name back to
her original name so that the new wife or girl
friend to be wife would be the only one with
the last name. That's the hold up. That's not the
hold up.

Speaker 3 (16:04):
No, no, girl, that's not the hold up.

Speaker 1 (16:07):
That's not why it's dude, is not proposing to you,
because many people can have the same last name. Yes,
and in fact that I think it's pretty common. You know,
people get married, they change their last name, they get divorced,
they're like, I'm not changing my name again. That's a
big pain. My kids had the last name. We'll just
keep it whatever. You know, some people do change their
last name back, but then their kids would have a
different last name because oftentimes the father's last name is

(16:27):
the one that you know prevails. So I mean, yeah,
you know, I know people who've been married three times
and now there's all these people with the last name
like what it is? What it is? Well, it's nothing
to do with getting married and not getting married. No,
you don't own it.

Speaker 6 (16:40):
No, absolutely not, girl, hey, lining to you. If that's
the excuse he's telling you, and you're dumb, I mean.

Speaker 11 (16:47):
Bother you.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
So no, go ahead ahead eight three five, and your
contacts the same number. I mean, if a guy said
to you or a girl, I guess in this case,
it would be the guy if you're taking his last name,
if he said to you, yeah, I don't know. I mean,
I really want you to have my last name and
be the only woman with it, And says my ex
does you know until she changes it, we're not gonna
be able to do it. I mean you wouldn't you
be like, okay, really? Or do you feel some kind

(17:12):
of ownership over the name? Would you have a problem
as the person being proposed to, you know, marrying the guy.
Would you have a problem if someone else had the
last name before you? They have children? Correct, right this
couple you? No, I would not have an issue with that,
Like you are the mother of his children. I can't
get rid of the kids, like y'all are bonded forever.
I mean, it's a name, it's you were married, you

(17:34):
did your time, you earned it. This sounds like some
weird possessive this thing and control thing, and I guess
if I if I were marrying somebody who were like,
let's say it's let's say this is on her, Let's
say she's the one obsessing over this, I'd be I
would have issues. Wait, hold on, you don't. We don't
own people here, We don't. We can't rewrite history. Like
if you want to get married, fine, if you want
to take my last name, great, but like I'm not

(17:56):
going to go back and undo everything I've done before.
I can't. No, you know, it's like people that want
you to they come in your life where they're like,
I don't want you to have anything to do with
any of those people. I mean, maybe there are situations
where they're bad influences, or maybe that you don't need
to be hanging out with an AX or something, but like,
you don't control my narrative, you don't control how this works.
We're moving forward together, right, Yeah, for sure? And then
if I'm if I'm the girl and the guy's like, yeah,

(18:18):
I can't do it, won't be able to propose until
we get my ex to drop that name, well, then
I'm like.

Speaker 2 (18:23):
Yes, is BS he's reaching.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Reaching? What would you all agree? Are we all like
a universal front? About this like a universal.

Speaker 9 (18:32):
Unless I'm changing if i'm the ex wife, I'm changing
the kids' names back to my name, and then.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
That's what my mom did.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
They Yeah, then clean, sweet goodbye.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
But she doesn't want to change your name. And she's
not gonna do it now because it's it's his, it's
her exes now girlfriend forcing it so so so she's
not gonna I'm gonna be like, no, I'm not doing it.
I'm not doing it for you, right, And what does
it even mean? Like I was already married to him,
I had kids with him, I did it with him.
Look at it, like, you can't take that for me?

Speaker 2 (19:02):
The spy seconds someone tells you.

Speaker 1 (19:04):
If he didn't care that the first wife didn't have
his last name, why does he care about the second one?
Which is why I wonder if it's her and not him,
if this is a she issue, you're no in your head.

Speaker 4 (19:15):
I feel like it's it's her, and I feel like
that's a huge red flag, Like what if something that
actually matters comes up during their marriage?

Speaker 3 (19:23):
She cares about something that does not matter at all?

Speaker 1 (19:25):
Yeah, what else do we have to what else do
we have to erase and pretend didn't happen.

Speaker 3 (19:28):
Yeah, I'm I don't know, I'm out on her. I
don't like it.

Speaker 1 (19:31):
You're right, you were in on her previously.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
Yeah, I don't know her, but I'm out.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
At one point you were like maybe with her, but
then but now it's out.

Speaker 3 (19:40):
I'm moving on.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
We're completely out all this marriage talk. Are you're going
to have Kiki have second thoughts and other text? Well?

Speaker 2 (19:46):
Oh no, girl?

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Are you taking his name?

Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yes? On social media?

Speaker 1 (19:51):
On social media? I would think that'd be the one
place you wouldn't take name.

Speaker 6 (19:55):
Yeah, no, no, no, I'll change my Facebook. I had his
name to my Facebook.

Speaker 1 (19:59):
But what about on like legal documents.

Speaker 2 (20:01):
I don't have to have all that. Okay, minor stuff.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
Deal, we're pump faking a little bit.

Speaker 3 (20:07):
Does you know?

Speaker 1 (20:09):
Well he knows him now, boy? Yeah, you know what.
That's what it says. I'm sorr. I should have read
the fanatics. It's Friday. I apologize. Yeah, I love you.
So you've been in a situation this exact thing. Please.

Speaker 11 (20:28):
So I got married in nineteen, had a kid, and
then like two years out in the marriage, he wanted
to divorce.

Speaker 12 (20:33):
You know whatever.

Speaker 11 (20:35):
I didn't necessarily want it, but his second wife three
years later, asked me if I changed my last name
and I said no, this is before they obviously got married.
And I said no. I said, if he didn't want
me to have his last name, and then he should
have thought about that before he married me.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
Period.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
So this woman wanted to be the only one that
had the last name, like the only like somehow that
made her elite to something. You've already been married to him.
It happened, It's done.

Speaker 12 (21:05):
Right, Yeah, get over it.

Speaker 3 (21:08):
Yeah exactly.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
Okay, So what we have We had a child with.

Speaker 11 (21:13):
It with I had a child with him, and I'm like,
I'm not changing my last name from my child. And
then now he's on his third wife.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Oh boy.

Speaker 11 (21:23):
And I kept his last name for like ten ten
ten years, and then I ended up getting remarried and
now I have a totally different last name than any
of my kids.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
Okay, Well, it's gonna confusing now, So Tanya, I need
I'm gonna need to start drawing a map a little
bit here to see where everyone's going. We've got three husbands,
we've got two wives, I got three lives. No, it does, no,
there's no judgment. I'm just I'm just trying to make
sure we know who's last name is who's but you
didn't change your last name. She still married him and
then she took the name, and so she had to
get over it.

Speaker 11 (21:56):
Yeah she has to because like if he if he
only wanted one person to have his last name, so
he should have thought about that before he married me
or divorced.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Me, and then the second time and the third too, right, Yeah, yeah,
I think.

Speaker 12 (22:10):
So, maybe actually, maybe try to work on your marriage.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
Before you just a wore somebody, you know what. Maybe so, Danya,
thank you have a good day, and yeah you telling
me maybe don't be I love you too. Maybe don't
just be out here giving out your last name like
it's nothing, right, Jillian, Hey, you're saying to girlfriends Dululu here.
I think we all agree on that, right, Oh yeah,
definitely yeah. I mean what would you do in this situation.

(22:34):
You'd be like, no, I'm not changing it. If you
were the ex, you're not doing anything for this person.

Speaker 12 (22:39):
Yeah, changing your name is just a total tain and
she's not part of your life, to screw it.

Speaker 1 (22:45):
Yeah, I'm not going to do it for you, you know,
like if I were going to do it I would
have done it before. I'm not going to do it
because this guy's new girlfriends intimidated by it. It's just
a name.

Speaker 12 (22:57):
Yeah, Unfortunately, I think the girlfriend really is like in
her own little girls and just so see the reflex
that were clearly improper.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yeah, I think so too. Thank you, Jillian. Have a
good day you do. If someone text should pay me,
it's gonna be like if I get traded to another
NFL team or something and it's like, oh, you know
your number fifty five is already number fifty five, and
I'm like, I want fifty freads comedy wants fifty five,
and the guy who's got it's like oker million bucks. Hey,
wake up, you can learn Chinese in less than thirty minutes,

(23:30):
apparently me.

Speaker 2 (23:31):
Oh yeah, Fread show is on. You know I like
the thin toilet paper, so if it.

Speaker 1 (23:40):
Was wait, no, I don't know that with those nails
you like? No, no, no, no, I don't remember this. You
like thin toilet paper? You would who would hurt you?

Speaker 7 (23:51):
No one?

Speaker 1 (23:52):
No one likes toilet paper. We choose your hand and
then watch it.

Speaker 3 (23:58):
Yes, girl, I would.

Speaker 2 (23:59):
Be so mad if you.

Speaker 6 (24:00):
But I like a thin soil and paper I don't
want all that, like a like a cloth like I
don't want all that.

Speaker 2 (24:06):
It leaves the rights of doing all that I don't
need that.

Speaker 1 (24:08):
I need as much distance between my skin and whatever
is happening there.

Speaker 6 (24:13):
Well, so I will buy Scott in the end. If
Scott is not there, I will buy the off brand
version of Scott Denny.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
Little but her from using You've ever been left waiting
by the phone? It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Sasha, good morning,
welcome to the program. How are you hi?

Speaker 13 (24:31):
Good morning?

Speaker 2 (24:32):
Good So what's.

Speaker 1 (24:33):
Going on with this guy Michael? So waiting by the phone,
of course for trying to figure out if you've been ghosted?
But I mean tell us how you met and about
any dates you've been on, and you know, kind of
any information that you can give us to try and
help you figure this out.

Speaker 13 (24:45):
All right.

Speaker 14 (24:46):
So I met this guy Michael on Tinder and we
went out to drink and we really hit it off.

Speaker 13 (24:53):
So we went to a couple of bars and while
we were.

Speaker 14 (24:56):
Like walking from one to the next, he really had
to go to the bathroom and I was like, well,
my place is right here if you want to use
my bathroom. But it's like I'm a bit of a
messy person, so I didn't expect him to come over.
So I told him, you know, please, you don't judge me,
and he said he didn't care.

Speaker 13 (25:17):
He really had to pee.

Speaker 14 (25:18):
So right after we left my apartment just things felt
really off, and I mean we went to one more bar,
things felt weird.

Speaker 13 (25:28):
And then I haven't heard from him since.

Speaker 14 (25:29):
And like before the apartment, it felt like we were
really hitting it off. So I don't know what changed,
and I don't know why he's not responding to my text.

Speaker 1 (25:39):
Okay, cause I get it. So you weren't planning to
have him over, Sasha, so like you didn't clean the
house up really like didn't make the bet or didn't
put stuff away or whatever because you figured, well, this
is the first day he's not coming over, so who cares.
But then when he had to use the restroom, it's like,
all right, we're going to go to my house. But
you just need to know that I didn't. I didn't.
I wasn't ready for guests.

Speaker 13 (25:58):
Right right.

Speaker 14 (26:00):
I Like, if he was coming over, I obviously would
have cleaned, but like.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
Right, well, I mean that seems innocent enough, I guess.
I mean unless you've been on an episode of Hoarders before.
Have you been on the show Hoarders before?

Speaker 3 (26:11):
Not yet?

Speaker 13 (26:12):
No?

Speaker 1 (26:12):
Not yet? All right, well maybe this is maybe we
see where this is going. But all right, we're gonna
call this guy Michael in just a second. You'll be
on the phone as well. At some point you're welcome
to jump in on a call. And the hope, as
always is that we can straighten this out and then
set you guys up on another date that we pay for.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
Sound good, Oh, thank you.

Speaker 3 (26:28):
I hope that works out.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
Hey, Sasha, okay, welcome back. Let's call this guy Michael.
You met on Tinder. You plan to go out for drinks.
You you did meet up with him. He had to
use the restrooms, so you were near your home and
you were like, well, i'll tell you what, we can
pop in here, but I didn't clean for guests. I
wasn't prepared to have guests over tonight, just the heads up,
and he was like, fine, you went in there. You

(26:50):
do wind up going out and having drinks, but you
noticed from the point he left your house through the
drinks the mood changed and then you haven't heard from
him since the date. And of course you want to
know what happened. Okay, well, let's call Michael now. Good luck. Hello, Hi,

(27:10):
this is Michael. Yes, Hi Michael, good morning. My name
is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning
radio show, and I have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now and I would need
your permission to continue with the call. Is it okay
if we chat for just a second on the show.

Speaker 8 (27:24):
H I guess yeah, okay, great, we know it is weird.

Speaker 1 (27:30):
I admit that it's weird to get called by a
radio show, And thank you for answering, by the way,
and for talking to us. But you're welcome to hang
up at any time. But we're trying to get to
the bottom of a situation. A woman named Sasha has
reached out to us. Do you recall going out with Sasha?
You guys met on Tinder apparently?

Speaker 8 (27:45):
Yeah, yes, I do.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
Yes, Okay, So what happened? Because she called us and
told us that you guys had met and that she
was excited to hang out with you. She said that
there was a transition point of the date. I guess
after you went to her house and used the restroom.
She told us about you know that and how she
didn't sort of organize her house or wasn't clean for visitors,
which I think a lot of people can relate to.
But she says that beyond that point, you know, the

(28:09):
day got weird and that she hasn't heard from you.
So what happened?

Speaker 13 (28:12):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (28:13):
So I guess you.

Speaker 8 (28:15):
Guys, I can't believe I'm about to say this, but
she sleeps in a dog bed.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
I'm sorry, wait, yeah, so that was she sleeps.

Speaker 8 (28:27):
She she she has it like she purchased a bed
for dogs and that's what she uses as her bed.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
So like, oh, I need to understand. So you walk
in her bed in her bedroom, and like normally there
would be a bed, you know, hopefully like some form
of frame or something, and you know it wouldn't be
on the ground, you know, hopefully. We're like, yeah, right,
the box spring. We were kind of risen off the
ground little bit, and you know, maybe a headboard, some sheets,
you know, like I think. Instead, you walk in and

(28:54):
where that would all be was just a dog bed
and like a blanket.

Speaker 8 (28:59):
Correct.

Speaker 1 (28:59):
Are we sure that isn't her dog's bedroom? You know,
some some people do that. Some people have an extra
room and they like set it up like it's their
dog's room. Are you sure that this is where she sleeps?

Speaker 13 (29:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (29:09):
No, it was a small it was a small apartment.
It's only one bedroom, and that is where she sleeps.
And I did not see a dog in sight when
we went in there.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Oh there isn't even a dog. Oh, there isn't a dog.
And also there's really no confusion there. That's it. Wow. Hm,
let me. I forgot to mention that Sasha is here.
I'm extremely forgetful, and I apologize. Sasha, do you sleep
in a dog bed? Which is something I didn't think
I was going to say today.

Speaker 14 (29:36):
Yes, but like, beds are really expensive and I'm very
good with money. And I don't know if you guys
knew this, but like, there are dogs that are like
human size, and if you buy a bets for that
only like eighty bucks.

Speaker 13 (29:51):
But if you buy a mattress, I mean not gonna
be over a grand girls.

Speaker 3 (29:58):
I just bought.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
We just bought a mattress.

Speaker 9 (30:00):
They are a hella expensive for no reason.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
There's no reason these mattresses would be this one.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
Okay, But Jason, why are you nodding your head like
this is a normal, acceptable thing? It's something we haven't
thought of.

Speaker 10 (30:08):
Yeah, I do know that mattress go up to like
seven grand.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
Okay, you do it? You sleep in one mattress?

Speaker 1 (30:16):
Yeah, I mean at least as they got the air mattress.
It even looks like it has a box freaking on it.
You know, you plug it and get it a target
a couple hundred bucks. Maybe this is my question though,
what do you do when somebody comes over? Like what
if things had gone really well with Michael, you know,
and it's like time to do some stuff. Do you
guys just both crawl into the dog bed or do
you get another dog bed and put it next to it,

(30:36):
or like several lick them up together. I mean, what
are we doing here exactly?

Speaker 13 (30:40):
It sounds really weird when you say it like that.

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Oh now it sounds weird, But I.

Speaker 13 (30:46):
Mean, yeah, it's comfortable. It's big enough for you.

Speaker 14 (30:49):
But like usually, like I mean, I never bring a
guy over on the first date, but usually if we
like hang out, we'll go to the guys please, and
then like eventually, like I'll explain about my dad and.

Speaker 13 (31:03):
Like usually guys are like, oh yeah, like that makes sense.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
Wait, people are actually like that they think that's a
normal thing.

Speaker 14 (31:10):
I don't think anyone thinks it's normal, but nobody seems
to have a problem with it.

Speaker 13 (31:16):
But I guess, like I am so single.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I have never heard of
anything like this before. I think I think it would
probably be good for your health and overall well being
and things like that to just maybe invest in a bed.

Speaker 13 (31:34):
How do you get dirty?

Speaker 14 (31:36):
It's just like a different type of mattress, like.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
When you're essentially sleeping on the floor.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
What do you eat your food out of?

Speaker 1 (31:44):
Girl?

Speaker 2 (31:45):
Or do you use a dog bowl? In a water bowl?

Speaker 1 (31:48):
You know?

Speaker 12 (31:48):
No?

Speaker 1 (31:49):
Like, is this kind of a fetish thing?

Speaker 3 (31:51):
You get your haircut?

Speaker 2 (31:53):
It's smart? Like, what's see? Girl? Because this is crazy?
Are your family in France?

Speaker 1 (31:58):
Do you eat milk bones?

Speaker 15 (31:59):
Right?

Speaker 1 (32:00):
Have you ever had a notebone? Did you enjoy the
way it tasted?

Speaker 2 (32:04):
Insane?

Speaker 3 (32:04):
Your anal glands express.

Speaker 5 (32:06):
Yes, and not for pleasure, for utility.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
Do they have to sedate you to clean your teeth?
This is sounding Jason's life is a lot like dogs.

Speaker 2 (32:24):
Apparently, it's crazy.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
I mean, okay, so Michael, look you liked her up
until that point. I guess, I mean, it doesn't sounding
there was much time to really get to nowhere. But
I am a little concerned with the sort of thought
process here, and you know what would lead one to
think this was the right thing to do or a
good idea. I'm all for saving money. I think there
are certain things in life that you know, you said
you were good with money, so you know, I think
it's probably worth an investment in an actual bed and

(32:49):
some sheets and things like that. But Michael, I don't know.
You probably have a bed, so she could come over
to your house. Would you consider giving her another chance? No, don't.

Speaker 8 (32:59):
I don't think I want another date here. Like I said,
if she's that's that's a choice that she's making. It's
a choice that she's making. But it's kind of questioned
everything that I that I have about her. So I'm
not interested.

Speaker 12 (33:13):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (33:14):
I don't blame you.

Speaker 1 (33:15):
Have you ever barked at anyone, Sasha? None?

Speaker 16 (33:19):
As they ask?

Speaker 1 (33:21):
I mean again, Jason, he's finding this far too relatable.
Maybe you and Jason should go out. Look, Sasha, I
don't think it's going to work out. He's not interested.
I wish you the best you knew you. Whatever makes
you happy, you plan there are other people who think
this is normal, and so maybe I mean, I suspect
you'll find someone it would be great, and Michael, good

(33:41):
luck to you as well. It turns out, guys, that
if we want to be if we want to experience
less burnout and we want to feel completely and totally
fulfilled in our lives, the kind of job that we
have would dictate whether that we can do that. And
I think we're just in the wrong kind of job.
I think that's why I'm so burnt out. I'm burnt

(34:02):
It's not because this place is full of skitch and lies.
It's not that at all. It's not. It has nothing
to do with the skitch of lies that going around
here all the time. Well, I'll do that for you,
and then nothing happens. It has to do with the
fact that we need a more physically demanding or dirty
job to feel less burnout. Sanitation construction. Even exotic dancers, yes,

(34:27):
may experience less burnout than those in office roles. This
could be because they have clear, more tangible tasks and
feel less self conscious about their work. So this is
the problem. What we need is a dirty job, like
apparently dirty, meaning any dirty, physically dirty morally, we need

(34:48):
a dirty job.

Speaker 2 (34:49):
Take it off.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
But I can kind of see how this is true. Yeah,
I agree with that too, because, like I suppose, if
you're doing a job and it's like, here's the here's the.

Speaker 9 (35:02):
Build this, Yes, this is the task in hands exactly exactly,
staff these bricks, you know whatever, build this wall.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
Yeah, make make this person, give you a hundred bucks
build this? But why is it? Well?

Speaker 7 (35:22):
Why?

Speaker 2 (35:23):
Why?

Speaker 5 (35:24):
For life?

Speaker 2 (35:25):
There you go back on you know what?

Speaker 1 (35:31):
You didn't have to spin that. Okay, you know exactly
what I meant. All right, don't build that wall, build
another kind of way. And your construction job. I didn't
say your construction job in Arizona. I didn't say that.
I never said that. Okay, do not miss my enjoyed
to sup. I hate you. I'm no longer looking at

(35:55):
you admiringly. And that took three minutes whatever whatever the
thing is. But do you have one I'm gonna have?
Do you have one of these jobs?

Speaker 7 (36:05):
Eight?

Speaker 1 (36:05):
Five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five? Do
you have one of these jobs? And do you think
that's true? Because you know around here it can be
a little obscure. You know, we come in here, we
do a good job. We think we do a good jobs.
Some people tell us that we saw but it's okay,
that will always happen. And then and then we kind
of cross our fingers and we wait. We wait to
see what the what the ratings people will tell us,

(36:25):
and usually it's it's decent news. And then every now
and again it's all of a sudden, you guys are
a bunch of morons. But we have no idea. We
have no idea. Office workers, though, have unclear tasks and
are always getting interrupted by emails, messages, notifications, which can
lead to stress and exhaustion. Apparently having a straightforward, hands
on job might help reduce burnout.

Speaker 12 (36:46):
We do.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
I think is also true. I see that if I'm
constructing a roof or the house, or a wall that's
part of a house for residential whatever, if okay, if
I'm doing drywall. I mean it's like cleaning though, like

(37:08):
think about when you clean your house or vacuuming especially,
it's a very very fulfilling activity because when you're mowing
the lawn, when you're done, look, I just did that.
I can see my work as where if I write
a thousand emails, I don't necessarily walk away feeling like
I did something, I really did something right.

Speaker 9 (37:28):
Yeah, you don't feel completion because it never ends, you know, exactly,
Like with this type of job, like our brains are
always on.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
It's not like we just get to clock out. Like
when I used to dance at Labert in Dallas. You know,
the housewives, they left feeling great. You know, I made them.
I made their evening better. I could see. I could
see them turn that front upside down as they handed
me a twenty.

Speaker 3 (37:53):
And then when you got home, the work was done.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
The work was done, and nobody was eating. There were
no emails from Laberar. No, no, mainly because we didn't
have emails.

Speaker 3 (38:01):
Your house phone occasionally, yeah, no they did.

Speaker 1 (38:03):
They did just to tell me to come in because
the people were lighting up. They were like, where's the
master blaster? Where is he? He's like, he can't beat
here all the time. The guy's got to go stretch,
work out, you know.

Speaker 6 (38:16):
Okay, I've had this argument in my house before where
I'm like, you know, your job, you get to turn
it off when you come home. It's and he's like, girls,
shut up, you just work and talk like you go.
You go have fun with your friends, and I'm like,
it's so much more than that.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
You do not understand.

Speaker 6 (38:32):
But he will argue that his job is much more
stressful because it's physically draining, it's you know, time consuming,
and I'm just like, yeah, so people, I don't know.
This has been a hot button in my house before.
Same here, Yeah, like first responder life. Yeah, because like
he can come home and put the ax.

Speaker 2 (38:49):
Down or whatever, doesn't carry.

Speaker 1 (38:52):
Around the house the fire man. For the record, he's
a firemansire man.

Speaker 9 (38:58):
Lives right.

Speaker 10 (39:04):
I just feel like, you know, because you can turn
it off, you can leave it at work, whatever. But
with me, it's not like that. I think a lot
of people can relate, you know.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
No, I remember in college, I get a job before
radio at a sports internship at a sports marketing firm.
And I'm a sports marketing Oh wow, I'm fancy. I'm
one more khaki is and a button down shirt. I'm
gonna go to a sports marketing I'm really going places. Well,
they had a side business. They sold bottleheads of like
sports figures in sets, and what really I did most

(39:33):
of the time was I packed boxes with the six
bobbleheads that came from a warehouse, so I was essentially
a manual worker. I did not do a whole lot
in the office. It was kind of a scheme. Actually
it was a scheme. I got paid at least. But
my point is, I remember the first day to go
go to this warehouse. And so I go to this
warehouse and I walk in and it's literally a warehouse

(39:53):
as big as you can imagine, stacked from top to
bottom with boxes. Like you couldn't walk in to the warehouse.
There were so many boxes. And my job, with some
other people was to grab one of each of the
six Cowboys characters or whatever they were, and put them
in a box and tape it and then someone else
shipped them. The reason I bring this up is because
at first it was daunting, but after like two weeks,

(40:16):
the warehouse was empty because we packed them all and
that was an amazing feeling. It's like, dude, and you
could see it, like you could see as you did
this job, like the boxes started to disappear, and that
was it was really very It felt very good. I
haven't really felt that feeling in radio ever, but I
just I just think, like, you know, it's you don't

(40:37):
really have to think about it. You know what your
objective is. No one's going to email you and tell
you that you didn't you know, probably that you didn't
do it right. Maybe they will if you really screwed
it up. But I mean, for the most part, it's stuff.
I show up and I do my thing. Then I
leave and I have the satisfaction of knowing that I
completed the task at hand.

Speaker 2 (40:55):
Yeap, Yeah, I like that I missed that.

Speaker 1 (40:57):
Yes, Like I said, it never we never feel done there.
You go, all right, well, there it is. I'm a carpenter,
finished carpenter, and I still get burned town. Someone said, yeah,
I guess. So my husband to teamster and delivers beer
in the summer. They're working like fourteen hour days a
union iron worker here. There's definitely burned out at the
end of a hard day. But you get the satisfaction

(41:18):
of driving on bridges and going in buildings that you
helped build. See that's what I mean. Like if you
build a skyscraper, if you're part of that, you know,
and then when the thing's done, you like look at
the skyline, like I help build that. Yeah they hell
am I going to walk away with? And you know,
whenever this is over right and.

Speaker 2 (41:34):
They get a pension.

Speaker 1 (41:35):
Fred Show, good morning, thanks for having us on the radio,
on the iHeart app Live and anytime search for the
Fresh Show on demand. As a parent, Paulina, you're having
to come up with creative ways you're lying to your child.

Speaker 5 (41:46):
I'm alive, you're lying. You're lying to your kids skates
and lies. It's a sketchy lies. This is how this
is how these the suits work around here with their
skits of lies. And then and then you take the
schedule lize all and you expose your children to them.
Look at the effect having on everyone's life. But how
are you lying to your kid? And then I want
to I want to expound on this.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
You can call in text eight five five five nine
one three five how do you have to lie to
your kid? And there's no judgment here because I got
to imagine that it's just easier sometimes to lie to
the kid than it is to try and explain to them.
You know why we can't do the thing that we
can do because maybe you're busy on other stuff. It's like,
I got to what's the lie?

Speaker 10 (42:23):
The one that I'm doing right now is she likes
to wake up and go to sleep, wanting to go
outside first. So she wants to go outside, like I
guess she sees a dog go out right in the morning,
so she feels that she wants to go outside, and
she'll point outside and I say, but outside's closed.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
She knows the closed out side is closed.

Speaker 10 (42:43):
I say, outside closed, Gigi, outside closed, like it's not yet.

Speaker 5 (42:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (42:47):
She doesn't understand time yet, so I can't really say, like, well,
like ten o'clock.

Speaker 3 (42:50):
It's open.

Speaker 10 (42:51):
But when I'm home on the weekend Saturday morning, I
don't want to go outside at seven thirty.

Speaker 2 (42:55):
Like outside is closed.

Speaker 3 (42:57):
It's closed, like like there's a close sign. So she
understands open clothes kind of.

Speaker 10 (43:02):
So I'm like closed and she goes closed, Mommy closed.

Speaker 3 (43:05):
And I said, yes, mommy closed.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
Yeah, yeah, so wait, is outside open?

Speaker 3 (43:09):
It opens after I have coffee open?

Speaker 10 (43:12):
Yeah, after I do like my morning stuff that I
need to do, like you know, go these the bathroom
stuff in peace, right.

Speaker 2 (43:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (43:17):
Benzo goes out first though it's told them for Benzo.
Benzo gets to go and test.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
Out the water.

Speaker 1 (43:22):
It's not outside for dog, it's not closed for dogs.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
Never closed never.

Speaker 3 (43:25):
Oh, and our house never closed for Benzo.

Speaker 6 (43:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (43:27):
Yeah, he's peed before on the floor and pooped. Yeah,
that's been great.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
He's a dog. Yeah. What other lies you're telling your child?
I would like to know, because I'm sure it's easier
to parent that way.

Speaker 10 (43:38):
She has meltdowns when I let her FaceTime my my
mother or her grandmother, so like, Bapcha is my mom, right,
and she's upsets, like I think, like if she had
a pick save one person, it's Bobcha forever, like who.

Speaker 3 (43:50):
Cares about mom? But I love it.

Speaker 10 (43:52):
And when I let her FaceTime, you know, we got
to hang up with the phone because that's what we do.
We have to bound the day. And you know, she
much she freaks out and I say, Bobcha's working, bob
Jessic go to work because she understands.

Speaker 2 (44:03):
Work, which is amazing.

Speaker 10 (44:04):
I love it Daddy work that she associates that with Daddy.
So I say, bob Cho work. I'm hoping she gets it,
like Bobcha's got things to do, Bobcha is busy.

Speaker 2 (44:13):
She'll kind of calm down.

Speaker 10 (44:14):
She'll say, Okay, bob Cho work, bob Cho work. So
that's the only way that can get them off the phone.
Is that she thinks Grandma's going to work even though
it's like nine thirty at night. Bocha goes to work.

Speaker 1 (44:25):
Yeah, I know. My sister tells the kids like that,
the toy story is closed.

Speaker 3 (44:28):
That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
Yeah, you know, it'll drive by it and it's like
we'll go in there. No, it's closing. I can't go
in there. It's closed. I think that's a pretty common
one though, is it's just not open. The thing that
you don't want to go to, you couldn't go to.

Speaker 10 (44:38):
Yeah, it's closed, it's canceled, doesn't exist. Yeah, we'll have
a lot of that.

Speaker 3 (44:42):
She's catching on the thing.

Speaker 10 (44:43):
So she's about eighteen months almost, so she she gets
a lie and I know it lies and the skits
are coming.

Speaker 3 (44:48):
I just gets a lot at home, so she'll get
a taste of that. Have you done a skit and
a lie to other people?

Speaker 4 (44:53):
Like used her as an excuse because my mom would
always be like, oh, Kaylan doesn't feel well, we have
to leave, and I'd be like.

Speaker 3 (44:58):
No, I feel fine. Yeah, that one I've done.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
That.

Speaker 10 (45:02):
The one that I've done and I'll own is I
didn't have a sitter. Sorry, I couldn't go like you
guys know, I'm outside in twenty minutes.

Speaker 15 (45:09):
Like I was an amazing mileage.

Speaker 1 (45:10):
God bless, I'm so grateful you've wheeled the child in here,
so like, yeah, yeah, you're just right exactly if you
really wanted to go then and you couldn't just come
with you.

Speaker 3 (45:19):
She's always on my hip.

Speaker 10 (45:20):
If I don't have a sitter, like I have her
with me obviously if she can, you know, I could
bring a baby. But if I really don't have a sitter,
like you'll know, you'll know. And that happens once in
a while. It has happened, like I couldn't go to
the casino one time, you know, because I didn't have
a sitter and she wasn't allowed.

Speaker 3 (45:33):
I called the casino and they said, no, I really.

Speaker 1 (45:37):
Wanted to go out, bring your baby, right.

Speaker 10 (45:40):
But that's the only skin and lie I'll do is like, oh,
I didn't have a sitter that night.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
Like, no, I had a sitter.

Speaker 1 (45:45):
I just didn't want to go. Oh my god. So
I told my kid that you have to have a
membership to shop at Target, and only Grandma has one
that is really good.

Speaker 2 (45:54):
That's a good one that is phenomenal.

Speaker 1 (45:58):
I really like that one. You need to use that, Yeah,
just pawn everything off on the grandparents. I think people
use that. People use the kid and the wife and
spouse and you know husband excuse all the time. Oh yeah.
So the problem with doing that is that here's the
target membership story. This is absolutely brilliant. Well brilliant.

Speaker 3 (46:16):
Yes, yes, yes, we.

Speaker 17 (46:19):
Spent way too much money there when my son was
like three four years old, and so then I told
him that you have to have a target membership and
grandma has a target credit card and it works.

Speaker 2 (46:30):
Yeah, they save a lot of money.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
Yeah, until you know, your child becomes old enough to
realize that that's a lie and their mom is a liar.

Speaker 7 (46:37):
Well he's six and a half.

Speaker 17 (46:39):
So we're doing great so far.

Speaker 1 (46:40):
Okay, well good, that's how this is great. You managed
to keep it going.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (46:44):
Thank you out exactly, have a good day. Yeah. No,
it's like people use their spouse. Oh yeah, we can't
go tonight because so and so says we can't go.
And the problem with that is half the time I
find out that so and so didn't say that, and
then you start to sort of dislike so and so
because I'd never let you do anything. And then you
then you talk to so and so and so, and
I never said that. I never said that. And I

(47:05):
don't know who's who's telling this skits in the lies?
Are you lied?

Speaker 7 (47:08):
Did you?

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Are you really that much of a tyrant? Or is
this person lying because they don't want to go? Hey, Angie,
yeh hi? How do you lie to your kid?

Speaker 15 (47:20):
So?

Speaker 18 (47:20):
When he's fourteen now, so he's he's way too smart.
But when he was little, whenever I was eating something
and I didn't want to share, I would tell him
it was spicy, and he would have like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
That's pretty good, that is pretty good. Yeah, it's just
spicy for you. You don't want done.

Speaker 18 (47:40):
Yeah, if it was like like a like if I
made myself buttered noodle, Mommy, can I have some? Oh no,
it's spicy.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
You won't like it.

Speaker 18 (47:47):
Smart it's oh man, all the time, I have some.

Speaker 12 (47:52):
No, no, no, no, no, the chocolate is spicy.

Speaker 9 (47:54):
You won't like it.

Speaker 1 (47:54):
It's pretty good.

Speaker 12 (47:55):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (47:56):
Thank you, Angie. You have a great day, Lily, you too.
Let me see here to help with meltdowns. When leaving
the park, saying goodbye to the park. Oh, you say
goodbye to the park? Okay that we say good night
to Miss Rachel.

Speaker 10 (48:09):
I let her watch a little bit before bed, and
I always say, okay, we say good night, Miss Rachel
and she waved to the TV.

Speaker 3 (48:14):
Yeah, so it works. I haven't had a melt.

Speaker 1 (48:16):
Down along the same as along as the same lines
as Paulina. My son always wants to go outside at
the crack of dawn. But whether it's the heat of
summer or not, I always say, it's too cold. Hey, Ashley,
how you doing.

Speaker 3 (48:29):
I'm good, Ashley.

Speaker 1 (48:31):
What do you tell your kid? You lie to your
kid because you don't want to do something.

Speaker 3 (48:35):
I lie and tell them the TV died when they
want to watch Blue for a million times, and.

Speaker 1 (48:39):
I sure they don't know how to turn it on.
They must not know how to do it themselves.

Speaker 2 (48:43):
No, they do.

Speaker 7 (48:43):
But so we have a Samsung TV and you can
control it on your phone.

Speaker 16 (48:46):
So I just go to my phone and turn TV off.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
I'm like, oh, no, he died, not the dead TV again.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
Oh my god, might.

Speaker 11 (48:55):
Keep watching the same episodes of Blue.

Speaker 1 (48:58):
That's nice.

Speaker 7 (48:59):
I can't I like it.

Speaker 1 (49:01):
Thank you, Ashley. Have a good day. Oh this is
this is wildly traumatic. Whenever there's a carnival, I hate
the rides, and I tell my four year old the
rides are closed to little kids because one fell out.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
Trauma.

Speaker 1 (49:17):
Oh my god, no wow, hey Lisa, Yes, kid's never
going to go to ride ever, Lisa, how do you
lie to your kid?

Speaker 17 (49:26):
I tell my Well, my teenagers now so they know better,
But I tell I used to tell them that they
if they were really bad, I would rip up their
birth certificate and they will have ceased to exist.

Speaker 1 (49:36):
Whoa, whoa, whoa? What Hey is that piece of paper
is not there? They you not a thing?

Speaker 4 (49:47):
My son, my son and all of his infinite wisdom
would say, well, you'll miss me.

Speaker 18 (49:51):
How would I miss you if you ever existed?

Speaker 1 (49:54):
Wow, you're trying to erase your child, Lisa. Oh my god,
I'm gonna write that one down. Thank you, Lisa.

Speaker 2 (50:04):
Welcome, I take you out if.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
I don't want to use your old text. I don't
want to buy McDonald's. I say they're out of chicken nuggets.
We tell our two year old that yogurt is ice cream.

Speaker 2 (50:11):
That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (50:12):
That's pretty smart. Ummm let me see here. I tell
my kids when they're being naughty that I was going
to put them in the school for naughty kids. I
think that's called prison. When I was little and I
had just learned how to read, my mom told me
one night that McDonald's was closed. As we drove by
a scream, but the sign says drive through open twenty

(50:33):
four hours. Jam with literacy, I tell you more.

Speaker 2 (50:38):
Fread show next.

Speaker 1 (50:52):
I'm just missing the guy who breaks every voice of
men song down. And it was, yeah, hey, baby, I'm
sorry that. Please forgive me for all the wrong after
and then you gotta go, please forget forgive. I love you.
I didn't mean to get with her, baby. I didn't
know she was an Instagram model.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
I didn't know she was.

Speaker 1 (51:13):
So Fred's show is on the woman who has the
world's longest female tongue. He says that people screaming shock
when they see it. It measures three point eight inches long.
I don't know how many times she's sticking her tongue out,
but it's three point eight inches long from the tip
to her lifts, so that doesn't include the party inside
her mouth. How long from the tip to the list
almost four inches three point eight inches, So it's about

(51:35):
this far from here to here cool. It looks like that, which,
of course everyone can see. You know when I say
it looks like that, because we're on the radio, people
scream in shock when she shows her lengthy organ same
come on the California resident. Chanelle Tapper reveals that she
enjoys seeing people's reactions. There's a variety of bizarre tricks

(51:58):
she can perform with her extravagantly long tongue, ranging from
flipping cups to removing Djenga blocks and soon by curling
her tongue around the utensil. Girl, it's like an elephant tusk. Order,
it's a fresh shew. It's Kiky's cord. Kiki chuck, Kiki,
take it away please? And I hope this isn't mean

(52:20):
where it is, you know, And my own means if
your opinion is not, don't you share your opinion either.

Speaker 2 (52:26):
Now I can't. I can't make you promises. You know
how I get down, all right, rite a layer to
the boss. I don't care what I say.

Speaker 1 (52:34):
All right, that's so how I feel too. But sometimes
it's just deflating. It's just deflating because I'm.

Speaker 2 (52:39):
Like, that's what you heard, Yes, that's what you heard,
and that's what I see.

Speaker 1 (52:43):
All right, take it away, all right, let's get into
the courtroom.

Speaker 6 (52:46):
It says, hey, ki key, am I wrong for blocking
my sister after she embarrassed me at the car dealership.
My name is Tony and I recently got into a
bad car accident that left me without a car for
a few months. After recovering and working overtime at my job,
I finally saved up enough money for a down payment

(53:07):
on a new car.

Speaker 1 (53:08):
During my time.

Speaker 6 (53:09):
Without a car, my sister was nice enough to drive
me back and forth to work, so she was relieved
when I asked her to take me to the dealership
to finally get a new ride. She helped me pick
a car. She joined me for the test drive, and
she waited with me while we worked out the numbers.
It was going so well into the finance guy told
me that I needed a co signer m I immediately

(53:33):
looked at my sister because I'd do it for her
with no question. However, she quickly said no and refused
to have any part of the deal. She put me
in a really bad spot and left me at the
dealership with no car. Made me leave the dealership with
no car and I haven't spoken to her since, and
I have no plans to am I wrong.

Speaker 1 (53:52):
People were take on this, Hey, Texters, here we come
and Tiki, you and I are often aligned on these things,
So judge Kiki would say you we.

Speaker 6 (54:07):
Are the bullies, And unfortunately I don't want to bully you, Tony,
but I wouldn't have signed for you either. Bro, I'm sorry.
I mean, your sister has done a lot. She's been
driving you around since you've had your accident. She's set
at the dealership with you. We know how long that
can take. And if you need a co signer, what
have you done to your credit that maybe you know

(54:30):
she doesn't want to put herself in risk or in
harm's way of having the same issue. I don't think
you can ever get wrong at someone for refusing to
be your co signer. There are a lot of variables here, right.

Speaker 1 (54:41):
I mean, you know you want to help somebody, especially family,
get on their feet, and maybe maybe it's worth it
to you to help them get transportation, because then that
takes the burden off of you as well. But my
question would be, is there no autumn will be a
lot there that you can buy without a co signer, Like,
are you in? Because if that's true to your point, right,
if there's no automobile on the planet that anyone will

(55:03):
sell you without a co signer, then we got to
work on some other things in our life, right. And
I realize people come upon on hard times or whatever,
but you're asking me to now attach myself to that
situation and that is unfair, right, Like, I mean, if
your credit is so bad that and again, maybe this
person's trying to buy a car they can't afford, in
which case you don't need me to co sign because

(55:25):
you probably shouldn't be buying this car. Right, Is there
any other option? Because when it comes to me attaching
myself to your tenuous financial situation, I think that might
be too much to ask, even for family. It's not
really fair.

Speaker 2 (55:39):
I agree with you one hundred percent on this one.

Speaker 6 (55:41):
I mean, and I know how it can feel when
you're at a dealership and you pick out the car
and you take it on the drive and you start
loving everything about it. You got the new car, smell,
the seats, feel good. You're excited, and then you go
back and work those numbers and they come back like, ooh,
we need a co signer. I know you felt away
when that happened, but you can't just now think that
that's your sister's responsibility to now be your co signer.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
Like she's your sister, she doesn't have to do that.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
I would love to know what kind of car it
was to a like are you trying to go buy
a BMW or something? And because not everybody can most
people can't afford you know whatever, you know what I mean,
It's like, are you going for a specific thing, because
at this point it sounds like anything would do. Any
reliable mode of transportation is what you need right now,
right But asking people when it comes to money, you know,

(56:28):
that's it's that's not an easy ask because some people
have worked very hard to put themselves in a good
financial position and they don't necessarily need you to mess
that up for them. And that tends to happen all
the time, all of the time. You guys are the
jury the eight five five five three five? What do
you guys think?

Speaker 3 (56:47):
I'm a sucker?

Speaker 10 (56:47):
So I probably would get pulled into this knowing me,
But I also don't know if I'm the one that'll
be asked to be.

Speaker 2 (56:53):
I don't house not needs a car free.

Speaker 3 (56:57):
Are you a co signer? I'm like, oh no, but
I do.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
I just feel like, you know, when I.

Speaker 10 (57:01):
Get my stuff together, which will be soon, I'm not
cosetting nothing for nobody because I, like you said, work
too hard to either repair my credit or just you know,
get it up there.

Speaker 3 (57:10):
Like my mom is such an angel and she I
know she would do it.

Speaker 10 (57:14):
However, I don't ever want to do that to anybody
else just because I feel and he's my mom's a example,
because I know she's like the first person that would
do what I recall, But I just also would to
feel bad because if I'm laid on payments and all that,
it affects her. And that's the last thing I want
to do is ruin somebody else's future and credit and
all of that.

Speaker 15 (57:29):
Now.

Speaker 10 (57:29):
I know, like as a mother, if my daughter was
to ask me and I probably left the co sign
like college loans or something, I'm sure you'll see my
name on there in eighteen years that I'll do, like
I'll know if she can't pay it, like Mama's got her,
her dad, we got her.

Speaker 3 (57:42):
But that's it, like just my child. That is all,
no sibling nothing.

Speaker 1 (57:46):
Yeah, and so lets say, well, what if it's lack
of credit history? You know, maybe would be. But then
someone else commented, will how quickly considering how quick this
is a text. Considering how quickly Tony was willing to
write her sister off for saying no one time after
all that help, you can kind of guess how much
responsibility and accountability that this person is willing to take.

(58:06):
I would say no as well.

Speaker 2 (58:08):
That's a good point, you can.

Speaker 6 (58:10):
She's been driving you around, being your uber all this
time that you didn't have a car, and then the
one time she says no, it's like, oh, well, I
don't I don't even want.

Speaker 2 (58:18):
To talk to you anymore. That's wild.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
And then someone else suggested on the text, maybe the
ask is for a loan, But this also doesn't sound
like a person I would want a loan money to
to be honest.

Speaker 2 (58:27):
Right, And you know how I feel about family with loans.
I rather just give you.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
Yeah, that's how I feel the same way. If the
only way that I'm in a position to give a
friend or family alone is if I can see it
as as never seen, is if I can accept giving
it to you and never getting it back because I'm
not willing to lose a friendship or a family member
over money. So if you ask me for money, I
need to be in a position to essentially gift it
to you. Oh yeah, because people will.

Speaker 6 (58:51):
People will take a loan and then act completely normal
when it's past the payback deadline, like they do keep
going on and I'm like, all I can think about
is the money.

Speaker 2 (58:58):
I gave you.

Speaker 1 (58:59):
And then you get in this stuff like you loan
somebody money and they're supposed to pay you back, and
then all of a sudden they pull up in the
BMW and you're like, wait a minute, you needn't have
any money, and now you got this nice car, but
like you still owe me money at the stake cause
and then you start to free, start to feel right,
and then you start look at a nice vacation, right
right vacation.

Speaker 6 (59:16):
When I loan you money, I want you to eat
rhymen noodles out the pad until I get my money back.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
I don't want to see you owe me. Why are
you spending more money?

Speaker 5 (59:24):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (59:25):
Yeah, I mean I know it just sounds it sounds harsh,
But maybe maybe this also might be a blessing for
this person too. Maybe this person should not be buying.
Clearly they can't buy the car right, so they probably
don't need it. There's probably something about this that doesn't
need to happen that could be even more problematic in
the future. Hey, Emily, good morning, good morning. Hi Kiki's Carl.

(59:49):
What say you so?

Speaker 15 (59:51):
I mean, first of all, it's like I think he
left out a lot of details and probably you know,
for the reason of wood all be even more against him.
But too, he doesn't him anything. It's a huge ask,
and to block her immediately is also just an immature response.
Why didn't he I don't remember they'll hear she who
wrote in like why didn't they try to have Yeah,
why didn't they at least like try to have a

(01:00:13):
conversation like, oh, why do you feel uncomfortable being my
co signer? Or like, you know, because maybe that'll also
give him an insight into why others wouldn't want to
co sign or what he could do to get a
co signer. I don't know, it seems like he has
unrealistic guess actually, well, and.

Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
Emily, I agree with the texture and with you that
that move in itself says a lot. Also, I've done
all this for you. I won't co sign. I won't
attach myself to a loan you know, for a significant
amount of money for you, So you just block me.
So the second that I don't do what you need
me to do, then you eliminate me, even though this
comes at risk to me, So you don't actually care

(01:00:50):
about me at.

Speaker 2 (01:00:51):
All, Right, all right, what I can do for you exactly,
and the.

Speaker 1 (01:00:54):
Second I don't do it, then I and then I'm out.
We all know people like that, the second you're not
serving them, then they don't want you in their life anymore.
The only way it works is if you serve them.
And it's like, nuh no, we don't need people like that.

Speaker 15 (01:01:06):
He's not thinking about the liability for his sister. Also,
like what if she's trying to you know, like buy
a condo or you know, do a big purchase for herself,
where like my advice when I was looking at condos
was don't co sign anything, you know, don't do like
don't shine for anyone. So like you know, she could
have her home, like things she's trying to get in
her life that I mean obviously, like you guys just said,

(01:01:26):
like it's about him, not her, and that's unfortunate.

Speaker 1 (01:01:30):
Yeah, thank you, Emily, have a good day, Yeah you too.
And look, I know that not everybody's in a position
to have great credit, and times are tough and people
aren't making enough money to make ends meet. I'm not
talking about that, but I am talking about it. It
can and does take a lot of sacrifice to put
yourself in a good financial situation. Oftentimes even people that
don't have a whole lot are able to do it,

(01:01:51):
but they're having to sacrifice, right. So then for me
to just willing nearly cost on on somebody who may
not have those same values, then that puts all that
at risk.

Speaker 12 (01:01:59):
Yes, So so I.

Speaker 1 (01:02:00):
Don't think I have to do that for you, especially
if we don't share the same financial literacy values or
or or financial awareness, the same values in that regard,
because not everybody. I feel like it's some people will say, well,
you know, if you have if you're in a good
financial position, it's because you're rich or because you had
this or that. That's not entirely true. There are people
who don't have a ton of money who also don't

(01:02:22):
have a ton of debt because they live within their means. Right,
And again I'm not talking about extenuating circumstances. I'm not
talking about student loans or medical debt or they're things
that you just simply have to spend on, so I
don't necessarily need to go screw it up because of you.
And then the second I say no, you block me.
You can come on, Tony, come on, hey, Gabby, Hi,

(01:02:47):
Hi Gabby, good morning. What do you think?

Speaker 11 (01:02:50):
Okay?

Speaker 12 (01:02:51):
I agree with both of you, guys. I do think
that it is valid that Tony asked her sister to
be her co signer. But Tony says, I'm sure it
is just like used to like kind of like giving
in and doing things that she needs for her but
she also has to set her own boundaries at some point,
you know.

Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
Yeah. Yeah, and when it comes to money, I don't.
I don't necessarily have to have to do that for you. No,
it's a very serious topic and it could affect me
for the rest of my life. It could affect my
ability to go get a house, in a car or whatever,
and I think at some point you have to protect yourself. Yeah.

Speaker 12 (01:03:27):
I feel like it shows more about Tony's character that
she went right ahead and blocked her sister.

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
Yeah, I agree, Thank you. Gabby, thanks for listening. Have
a good day you too. Glad you called. Hey Jessica,
good morning, welcome, good morning. How you doing, hey, Jessica.
So Keikey's court, Basically, it's a it's a brother's sister
situation and the sister wants I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:03:46):
Trying to get because Tony Tony is the brother.

Speaker 1 (01:03:48):
So Tony is being asked to don't don't want to donate,
asked to sign on a car, asking his sister is
asking his Okay, I'm trying to get this right, and
the sister says no, and so Tony's pissed. But it's like,
wait a minute, you know, is that is that an obligation?
If if you're not able to get something financially and
you need someone else to be involved with that, does it.

Speaker 18 (01:04:09):
Have to be me?

Speaker 7 (01:04:11):
No, that's not even from talk to about him. He's
completely wrong. That's not her obligation. He already from the accident,
he's already financially irresponsible. Because did you have insurance to
even cover some of the money to get you into
a new car?

Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
Oh, that's a good question.

Speaker 7 (01:04:29):
Yeah. And then on top of that, you have to
work all these hours work, work, work to have a
down tatement, so you don't have anything saved in a bank.
Come on, so now, yeah, yeah, now you want me
attach my name, my resources to you when you already
proved that you cannot, you know, you can't take care.

Speaker 14 (01:04:45):
Of your business.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Yeah, So and the have to block her.

Speaker 7 (01:04:49):
When she's already you know, stepped up and helped him
out at the time of me.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
So no, and let's also take any consideration. Let's just
assume that this is a good Obviously it is a
good sibling because it's been helped this person out, you know,
in a lot of other ways. And so this person
must feel that she he or she cannot do this
because you know what I mean, Because it's not like
we're talking about a selfish human being who just doesn't

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want to, Like, there's contracts here that we don't know.
So she obviously is uncomfortable with this notion for some reason.
So what don't we know here? And it has offered
a lot of other solutions, So I don't like it.
I wouldn't do it either. Thank you so much, have
a good day.

Speaker 7 (01:05:27):
Thank you you too.

Speaker 1 (01:05:29):
Glad you called Jessica. Hey, Dahlia, Dalia girl, you all right?

Speaker 3 (01:05:35):
I'm sorry the phone.

Speaker 1 (01:05:37):
What do we do with the phone? Yeah? Are you okay? Okay?
You work in a car dealership, so you know something
about this. Yes, I do a little bit.

Speaker 16 (01:05:50):
I work in the office, so I work a little
bit with like people trying to sell their cars, and
a lot of the time they aren't able to because
they're co shiner all are. They're the co signer and
the person who's trying to sell the car. They never
made the payments or something, or they're late, so just
messes up what they're whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:06:10):
They own the car.

Speaker 1 (01:06:11):
So basically you're saying this, this could potentially become a
big problem for the unassuming co signer who's simply there
just to help you get the money.

Speaker 16 (01:06:20):
Oh yeah, definitely, yeah, Jack, I can.

Speaker 1 (01:06:22):
Be doing this stuff all right, Dellia, back to juggle
on your phone. Have a good day. Bye glad you
Yeah no.

Speaker 6 (01:06:28):
Oh no, you and you know your siblings like you
know you, We all love exactly, And I know I
know which sibling is loan money to and I know
which one absolutely.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
Not exactly, and I love them both the same exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:06:38):
Yeah, but not enough to give the money my money.
Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio, on
the iHeart app live and anytime search for the Fred
Show on demand. I just want to start the day
with some health news. Do you know how many bodies
squads A you're supposed to be able to do? Yeah,
body squad, body squad? Yeah, body squad. Experts saying the

(01:06:59):
squatch or a great indicator of athleticism and they can
help increase your performance in a variety of sports. So
the Male Clinic says, for most people, one set of
twelve to fifteen repetitions is adequate. Can you do fifteen
body squats? I don't know what a body squat is. Well,
to drink enough water basally kind of crap. The body

(01:07:19):
by Gideon makes me do this is kind of crap.

Speaker 3 (01:07:22):
Is that where you go super low?

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
Yeah, like like you're like now he's going to probably
say he's going to watch this and be like it's
not right, the form's not right, which I have to
hire this man.

Speaker 2 (01:07:32):
Don't break me.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
He's standing up weight, he's getting in a position.

Speaker 1 (01:07:38):
Well, I mean yeah, they're huge weights. Obviously they're sometimes
like a car on each side, like I have like
an automobile, not a big automobile, more like like a
beetle on each side of holding them. Then you would
like the knees have to stay out, and then you
would go like.

Speaker 7 (01:07:54):
Down like this.

Speaker 1 (01:07:54):
Oh you like as far as you can go. You
don't get too excited, Jason, You're stay in your seat, OK. Late,
I can't stand up.

Speaker 3 (01:08:05):
I tried those the other day for the first time
a long time, and I'm sore.

Speaker 2 (01:08:08):
So good for you.

Speaker 1 (01:08:09):
How many can you do?

Speaker 4 (01:08:10):
I did a little like twenty minute full body workout
at home, which my dog absolutely hated, so we won't
be doing that anymore.

Speaker 3 (01:08:17):
But I didn't count how many. The little girl had
me doing the videos.

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
What did he say, the dog? I think you were
playing or something.

Speaker 3 (01:08:22):
She was pissed.

Speaker 4 (01:08:23):
She kept grabbing me and trying to pull like she
didn't like when I would squat down, and then she
was grabbing onto the weight.

Speaker 3 (01:08:29):
With her mouth and so then I was lifting her up.

Speaker 1 (01:08:31):
Well, there you go.

Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
They were already enough.

Speaker 1 (01:08:34):
She's trying to maximize the workout.

Speaker 3 (01:08:36):
She was so mad. She's just not used to seeing
me active.

Speaker 1 (01:08:39):
I guess she's like, get back on the couch next
to me with food that you are doing. What is
this if we're working towards eating salads, this stuff around
here that I don't need you doing that.

Speaker 2 (01:08:50):
It's not used to it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:52):
But based on an age a fitness expert, he gives
a target number for squat counts. You should be able
to do twenty if you're a thirty year old man
or woman, a goal should be fifty and sixty seconds.
That sounds aggressive right for men, And I guess forty
five for a top fitness level. And they're deceptively hard

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after a little while, and then like you'll you'll do
however many and then you'll start to like we'll walk
away from the exercise and you realize like, oh my god,
like it's hard to walk. Yeah, And I know people
are actually fit laughing at me right now, but it's
I tell gidding all the time. The trainer man, I'm like, uh,
first of all, if you do exercises properly, they're really hard.
Because I could do push ups all day. They're just
not good form. If he if he like makes me

(01:09:37):
do exactly what I'm supposed to be doing, it's it's
super hard. I'm like, why is this so hard? He's like, what,
Because you're you're fatty. He's never called me them. Let
me see here, thirty one to forty year old age bracket.
You should, I guess, be able to do ten fewer
so you're more like in the thirty five area. Fast
forward ten years forty one to fifty year old. Camp

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the Fitness Expert it says that women should be able
to do twenty five and thirty for men if you're
fifty one to sixty, twenty five for men, twenty for women,
and then five to fifteen if you're over sixty one
is what you're supposed to be doing. Body weight squats.

Speaker 3 (01:10:13):
They're hard.

Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:10:15):
I can't even sit on the toilet right now. I'm
so sore. I go like the workout, Yeah, I was okay.
Well it wasn't just like another side note.

Speaker 2 (01:10:23):
No, that's a random fact that I was like, okay, wow,
I do share too much, but not that much.

Speaker 1 (01:10:28):
No, it was just so wow. It sounds like, oh,
it sounds like a great night for somebody.

Speaker 2 (01:10:35):
Fread show is on Fred's Fun Fact Fred's Fun.

Speaker 16 (01:10:46):
So much.

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
Learn so much now, guys, I need you to behave
yourself okay, because I just know where this is going.
I read the whole thing and I'm like, oh boy,
here we go. But sign language has tongue twisters in it.
I didn't know this, like the same way that it
could be hard to say words out loud. I guess

(01:11:08):
sign language has the same thing, and apparently they have
a name for it.

Speaker 2 (01:11:14):
Oh do share.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
I'm so scared. I don't know if I can say it.

Speaker 2 (01:11:22):
Finger Wait a minute, ouch.

Speaker 16 (01:11:28):
Is what I mean?

Speaker 1 (01:11:29):
Finger fumblers?

Speaker 7 (01:11:31):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Say keep? I mean, I just I just knew it. Though,
I just I knew I knew it. Go ahead, say
whatever you're gonna say. And I need to know if
this is true though that's really what it's called. But
many who have practice sign language over the years still
fumble over certain sequences in ASL, and that's what they're called.
Go ahead and say go ahead, no, go ahead, no,

(01:11:56):
go ahead.

Speaker 3 (01:11:57):
I'm turning a new leaf.

Speaker 1 (01:11:58):
No you're not, by the way, don't stay on the
same leaf I'm turning.

Speaker 3 (01:12:04):
I'm very pure.

Speaker 1 (01:12:05):
You don't have anything to say about a about a
finger fumbler, only.

Speaker 3 (01:12:09):
That sometimes in my spare time

Speaker 1 (01:12:14):
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