December 5, 2025 • 6 mins
Kaelin accidentally dm'ed her friends husband that he's cute... She explains herself!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 1 (00:29):
These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Like you're running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs. Caitlin, you got one right, Yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Though, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
So, I like to consider myself a girls girl. And
just so you know, if you are a friend of mine,
which you all are, I am ready to hate your
partners at any time that.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
You need me to.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Okay, if you break up, I'm on your side. If
you're in a fight, I got you. I still see
ex's of my friends who they're cool, and I still
give them a look like from across the room, like
I got your back.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
So imagine how mortified I was when I realized that
I had accidentally message one of my friend's husbands that
he was cute.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Wait a minute, yes, yes, so let me tell you
how this happened. But it's kind of been bothering me
ever since, so you know, on Instagram, how now, it
kind of makes it a little bit confusing when you're
sharing someone else's story, like whose story it is? Because
you can share a story, but if you make it bigger,
(01:37):
you barely see that it's not their own story.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Oh yes, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah, So my friend was posting a really cute She
posted a really cute story of her getting emotional because
her husband coaches a football team and they won, and
she posted like a little video of herself crying and
like just happy tears and celebrating him and off to
the screen. So apparently she tagged him and he had
(02:06):
shared that video.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, so it was his story.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I replied to his story and I said, uh,
first of all.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Where is that TV entertainment center from? Because it's very cute.
And then the second message said, by the way, you cute? Okay, oh,
because I was trying to tell my friends. So I'm
a jedib unbelievable. I'm a harlot. So what I was
(02:36):
trying to tell my friend is she was cute and
she was crying.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Like I didn't want her to feel like I was
just acting about asking about the entertainment center.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I wanted to go.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I acknowledge that you posted and you're happy for your husband,
You're cute, but like, where the hell is.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
That TV entertainment center from? Anyways?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
He responded and he hearted it, but like I realized,
once he hearted it, that was him.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Okay, So I messaged him.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
And I said, oh my gosh, I thought this was Alyssa.
I'm so so sorry. And then it was weird because
I was like, wait, but why did you heart that?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So then he spun in was like I thought.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
You were saying we were cute as a couple, and
I'm like, okay, good, everybody pass this test.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
We're all good.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And then just to make sure everything was above board,
I then messaged her and told her the whole story
because I felt so guilty and so bad that I'm
a home wrecker.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Oh see, that sounds like something I would do is
over explain the thing that could have been interpreted in
a non inflammatory way. Yeah, you know, like like that's
what I would make it worse. I did, yes, right
over explaining my I mean, it's what I'm famous, why,
I mean, my story of my life. It's over explained
Fred the memoir. That's what I would do. And where
(03:50):
no one, where no one saw offence, I would find
a way to then let them see how they could
have been offended and should have been maybe. And then
all of a sudden it's like, oh, wait a minute, woh,
but you did the right thing, I guess, just to
clarify that you were, in fact calling your friend's husband cute.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It was just I just could not believe I did that.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
You by the way, you're cute to a married man,
And it was like a he knew that I didn't
mean it that way. If I would have sent it that,
you know, like he's friends with my boyfriend, YadA YadA.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
But thank goodness that he hearted.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
It because he thought I meant them as a couple,
because then we would have a whole new slew of problems.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Right, what if you like responded like, oh you do
you think I'm cute? Right?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah? Hey, hey, what you doing? What you're wearing, you know,
then all of a sudden, look what you and oh man,
then what do you do? Do you go run right
to your friend and tell her?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Oh no, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
That's a tough one because in that situation, if she
ever saw the message, then she if you didn't go
tell her, or you didn't say something like really strong
against it, then it might look like you're culpable, like
you're complicit.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I think I would find the nearest body of water
and just throw my phone in because that would really
stress me out.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Yeah, because the problem is once he writes that, if
you see it, now you're you're Now you're implicated.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Now we're having an affair, right, That's what it sounds
like to me that I think it's going to get
me one of these days.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Is And maybe everyone else understands this very clearly, and
I'm the only one that just screws this up. But
if you have an iPhone and you have like used
the mail app, and there's a chain of emails going mmm,
if you're at depending on where you are in the chain,
if you're trying to respond to like the email you're
looking at, if you hit the reply button at the
bottom that doesn't necessarily right to the person that you're
(05:34):
looking at whose email you're looking at, you'd have to
go into the email itself and click reply on that
particular email. Because more than once I've, like you know, Jason,
will be on an email to someone else and then
I'm replying to Jason, but I don't want the other person,
but I'm looking at Jason's email, so I hit reply.
If you don't look carefully, you might be sending it
to the wrong person. And so if I don't like
(05:54):
what the email says and I want to be like Jason,
this person's a moron, and you gotta be very careful,
it's gonna get me one of these days, because I
think it could be more straightforward than it is. I
think it's confusing.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Another one that gets people a lot is when you're
trying to send someone's story or post and like talk
a little smack. Sometimes people will accidentally send it to
the person who posted it and not their friend.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
So you've got to be real careful and you're doing that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Yeah, we gotta check our work these days, man, We
got it. We gotta show our work. We got double trick. Yeah,
get a big double trick.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
I'm a home runner,
This is the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Jane is taking over Las Vegas this January for his
seven night presidency Dobey Live at Park MGM, and we've
got a trip for two to the January twenty fifth
show to night Hotel State Park MGM January twenty fourth
through the twenty sixth and round trip airfare. Text tattoo
to three seven three three seven now for a chance
to win. A confirmation text will be said. Standard message
(00:23):
of data rates may apply. All thanks to Live Nation. Yea, yeah,
they talk better than they cite tell me nine.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Like you're running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.
We call them blogs. Caitlin, you got one right, Yes, okay.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Though, dear blog.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
So, I like to consider myself a girls girl. And
just so you know, if you are a friend of mine,
which you all are, I am ready to hate your
partners at any time that.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
You need me to.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Okay, if you break up, I'm on your side. If
you're in a fight, I got you. I still see
ex's of my friends who they're cool, and I still
give them a look like from across the room, like
I got your back.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
So imagine how mortified I was when I realized that
I had accidentally message one of my friend's husbands that
he was cute.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Wait a minute, yes, yes, so let me tell you
how this happened. But it's kind of been bothering me
ever since, so you know, on Instagram, how now, it
kind of makes it a little bit confusing when you're
sharing someone else's story, like whose story it is? Because
you can share a story, but if you make it bigger,
(01:37):
you barely see that it's not their own story.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Oh yes, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Yeah, So my friend was posting a really cute She
posted a really cute story of her getting emotional because
her husband coaches a football team and they won, and
she posted like a little video of herself crying and
like just happy tears and celebrating him and off to
the screen. So apparently she tagged him and he had
(02:06):
shared that video.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Okay, so it was his story.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
So I replied to his story and I said, uh,
first of all.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Where is that TV entertainment center from? Because it's very cute.
And then the second message said, by the way, you cute? Okay, oh,
because I was trying to tell my friends. So I'm
a jedib unbelievable. I'm a harlot. So what I was
(02:36):
trying to tell my friend is she was cute and
she was crying.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Like I didn't want her to feel like I was
just acting about asking about the entertainment center.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I wanted to go.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I acknowledge that you posted and you're happy for your husband,
You're cute, but like, where the hell is.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
That TV entertainment center from? Anyways?
Speaker 3 (02:52):
He responded and he hearted it, but like I realized,
once he hearted it, that was him.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Okay, So I messaged him.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
And I said, oh my gosh, I thought this was Alyssa.
I'm so so sorry. And then it was weird because
I was like, wait, but why did you heart that?
Speaker 1 (03:11):
So then he spun in was like I thought.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
You were saying we were cute as a couple, and
I'm like, okay, good, everybody pass this test.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
We're all good.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And then just to make sure everything was above board,
I then messaged her and told her the whole story
because I felt so guilty and so bad that I'm
a home wrecker.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Oh see, that sounds like something I would do is
over explain the thing that could have been interpreted in
a non inflammatory way. Yeah, you know, like like that's
what I would make it worse. I did, yes, right
over explaining my I mean, it's what I'm famous, why,
I mean, my story of my life. It's over explained
Fred the memoir. That's what I would do. And where
(03:50):
no one, where no one saw offence, I would find
a way to then let them see how they could
have been offended and should have been maybe. And then
all of a sudden it's like, oh, wait a minute, woh,
but you did the right thing, I guess, just to
clarify that you were, in fact calling your friend's husband cute.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It was just I just could not believe I did that.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
You by the way, you're cute to a married man,
And it was like a he knew that I didn't
mean it that way. If I would have sent it that,
you know, like he's friends with my boyfriend, YadA YadA.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
But thank goodness that he hearted.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
It because he thought I meant them as a couple,
because then we would have a whole new slew of problems.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Right, what if you like responded like, oh you do
you think I'm cute? Right?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah? Hey, hey, what you doing? What you're wearing, you know,
then all of a sudden, look what you and oh man,
then what do you do? Do you go run right
to your friend and tell her?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Oh no, oh yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
That's a tough one because in that situation, if she
ever saw the message, then she if you didn't go
tell her, or you didn't say something like really strong
against it, then it might look like you're culpable, like
you're complicit.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I think I would find the nearest body of water
and just throw my phone in because that would really
stress me out.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Yeah, because the problem is once he writes that, if
you see it, now you're you're Now you're implicated.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Now we're having an affair, right, That's what it sounds
like to me that I think it's going to get
me one of these days.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Is And maybe everyone else understands this very clearly, and
I'm the only one that just screws this up. But
if you have an iPhone and you have like used
the mail app, and there's a chain of emails going mmm,
if you're at depending on where you are in the chain,
if you're trying to respond to like the email you're
looking at, if you hit the reply button at the
bottom that doesn't necessarily right to the person that you're
(05:34):
looking at whose email you're looking at, you'd have to
go into the email itself and click reply on that
particular email. Because more than once I've, like you know, Jason,
will be on an email to someone else and then
I'm replying to Jason, but I don't want the other person,
but I'm looking at Jason's email, so I hit reply.
If you don't look carefully, you might be sending it
to the wrong person. And so if I don't like
(05:54):
what the email says and I want to be like Jason,
this person's a moron, and you gotta be very careful,
it's gonna get me one of these days, because I
think it could be more straightforward than it is. I
think it's confusing.
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Another one that gets people a lot is when you're
trying to send someone's story or post and like talk
a little smack. Sometimes people will accidentally send it to
the person who posted it and not their friend.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
So you've got to be real careful and you're doing that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Yeah, we gotta check our work these days, man, We
got it. We gotta show our work. We got double trick. Yeah,
get a big double trick.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
I'm a home runner,
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