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September 25, 2025 21 mins

Where is the line between fierce competition and compassion on the mats? Imagine the split-second decisions grapplers must make—do you trust the referee, or is it your duty to protect your opponent even at the risk of losing your match? 

Do you prioritize victory or the safety of your opponent during a Jiu-Jitsu competition? We’re exploring the moral dilemmas, emotional moments, and the culture that shapes competition and community in BJJ.

Would you risk injuring someone for a medal, or would you let go of a submission to keep your opponent safe? DM us your answer on Instagram or leave a comment if you’re watching this on YouTube or Spotify.

Chapters and Episode Highlights

(00:00) Jen’s return from summer sabatical to the podcast

(01:17) Do you protect your opponent?

(03:10) Does your answer change when there is big money on the line?

(04:48) What do you do when the ref isn’t paying attention?

(09:44) Is there a place for empathy on the mat?

(13:00) Equal pay and opportunities for women in high-stakes tournaments

(14:52) What would you do? Listener reflection and calls to action

(15:12) On and off the mat tips

(17:03) Upcoming camps and Jen's thoughts on being a new purple belt

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