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May 28, 2025 20 mins

In this episode, we’re talking about how to be the kind of leader, partner, parent, and friend that inspires the very best in others—and yourself.

You already know how to push, nudge, and motivate yourself. But is the way you are leading yoruself the same way you are showing up for others?

And if not, why not?

I'm sharing the 7 ways you motivate yourself to be your best and how to start applying these same strategies to others:

1. Keeping people down when they’re struggling
2. Shaming instead of compassion
3. Withholding love until they’re “worthy”
4. Keeping score of their failures
5. Comparing them to everyone else
6. Disappearing when they need support
7. Only celebrating perfection

And if you’re curious about how to start upgrading your old, tired strategies to ones that might actually work (without the burnout)—I’ve got resources for you.


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