How many times have you tried to set a boundary but then backed down.
Today's bonus episode features a powerful Voxer message from one of my Upgrade clients—brought to life with a little AI magic (to keep my private clients private).
What you'll hear is what this work ACTUALLY sounds like. What is possible when you don't just know how to regulate in structured moments, but in real life.
No spiraling.
No shutdown.
Just clarity, boundaries, and calm.
This is exactly what we practice inside The Upgrade—and from May 23rd until May 26th, you get $300 off the full program.
Grab your spot now—doors close Monday, May 26:
Inside the Upgrade, you'll learn how to:
Speak without overexplaining
Say no without apologizing
Lead without control
Rest without shutting down
Stay regulated—not just in moments, but as your default
You get:
12 weeks private coaching via Voxer
Weekly private podcast episodes
Access to the Regulated course
Daily bite-sized reminders in your inbox
This is for you if you're tired of working so hard to calm down –– because it obviously doesn't work like that.
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In 1997, actress Kristin Davis’ life was forever changed when she took on the role of Charlotte York in Sex and the City. As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte navigate relationships in NYC, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships. Now, Kristin Davis wants to connect with you, the fans, and share untold stories and all the behind the scenes. Together, with Kristin and special guests, what will begin with Sex and the City will evolve into talks about themes that are still so relevant today. "Are you a Charlotte?" is much more than just rewatching this beloved show, it brings the past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor and of course some optimism.
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