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October 9, 2025 14 mins

Get Daily Reminders to rewire your nervous system and mindset patterns.

You say you want peace. You say you're ready to stop overthinking, people-pleasing, and spinning out.

So why does your brain keep dragging you back into suffering — even when life gives you a moment to breathe?

In this episode, we're talking about the ways we argue against our own peace — and how we fight harder to stay stuck than to change.


You'll learn why familiar thoughts like:

  • “I’m not good enough.”

  • “Life’s harder for me.”

  • “People always let me down.”

…feel so true — and how to stop identifying with them.

We'll talk about:

  • Why your brain clings to old suffering stories — even when they hurt

  • How to recognize when you're defending pain instead of choosing peace

  • A nervous system practice to shift out of mental spiraling

  • Tools to build evidence for your peaceful, grounded identity — one thought at a time

Because your peace doesn’t begin when life gets easier — it begins when you stop fighting for your suffering.


Get Daily Reminders delivered to your inbox every day. Because change doesn't happen because you want it to. It happens becuase you choose yourself. Every single day. 

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