You say you want peace. You say you're ready to stop overthinking, people-pleasing, and spinning out.
So why does your brain keep dragging you back into suffering — even when life gives you a moment to breathe?
In this episode, we're talking about the ways we argue against our own peace — and how we fight harder to stay stuck than to change.
You'll learn why familiar thoughts like:
"I'm not good enough."
"Life's harder for me."
"People always let me down."
…feel so true — and how to stop identifying with them.
We'll talk about:
Why your brain clings to old suffering stories — even when they hurt
How to recognize when you're defending pain instead of choosing peace
A nervous system practice to shift out of mental spiraling
Tools to build evidence for your peaceful, grounded identity — one thought at a time
Because your peace doesn't begin when life gets easier — it begins when you stop fighting for your suffering.
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In 1997, actress Kristin Davis’ life was forever changed when she took on the role of Charlotte York in Sex and the City. As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte navigate relationships in NYC, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships. Now, Kristin Davis wants to connect with you, the fans, and share untold stories and all the behind the scenes. Together, with Kristin and special guests, what will begin with Sex and the City will evolve into talks about themes that are still so relevant today. "Are you a Charlotte?" is much more than just rewatching this beloved show, it brings the past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor and of course some optimism.
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