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July 23, 2025 9 mins

I keep meeting incredible women who look at themselves like they're broken puzzles missing pieces. Like they're somehow behind in this imaginary race we're all supposedly running. And honestly? It breaks my heart because I see you – and you are NOT a problem that needs solving.

In today's episode, we're diving deep into that question that might just change everything: "Who am I when I stop trying to fix myself?" Because here's what I know to be true – you're not broken. You're not behind. You're not some project that needs constant renovation.

You are a beautiful, unfolding story. And every chapter – even the messy, imperfect ones – belongs.

If you've ever felt exhausted from trying to optimize, improve, and "work on yourself" constantly, this one's for you. Let's explore what happens when we stop fixing and start living.

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