Ever feel like you're living by an invisible rulebook? The one that says be nice, don't rock the boat, say yes even when you're screaming no inside? That's the "Good Girl" trap—and it comes at a cost.
In this episode, we're breaking down what it really means to abandon yourself in the name of people-pleasing and perfectionism. From hiding your needs to shaping your choices around how others see you, we'll dig into why this pattern feels so exhausting—and how to finally step out of it.
Because here's the truth: loving others doesn't mean losing yourself. You can show up with compassion and unapologetically own your voice, your boundaries, and your worth.
If you're ready to trade the approval of others for the peace of being fully you, this conversation will feel like a permission slip you didn't even know you needed.
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